iwondertomyself Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man? In all likelihood I'd out earn any man I dated and tbh I like it that way. I never want it to even be a consideration that I'm dating them for any other reason than just liking him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 11:51 PM
3	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world I met a guy once who told me he was 5'9" online and then we met and I (5'7") was taller than him. Like what did you think would happen when we met? That I'd be like "whoops guess I'm 6ft then".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 03:07 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world Yeah I think it's actually a myth that the height issue is driven by women. I have literally zero preference when it comes to height but I've dated men who are shorter than me where it just became their biggest insecurity and they got angry with me for being taller.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 03:06 PM
0	Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that. Both of those women are a nice shape, they're just fatter than the first tweet you linked. You want to search for something like "upper body obesity" for what you are trying to describe here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 02:00 PM
1	Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that. I think you mean hour glass shaped? Pear shaped is not often seen as desirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 01:58 PM
1	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world I mean I think when we're comparing men and women in the way OP does, the fact is that a man can overpower a woman in almost all cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 09:06 PM
55	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world Physically, yes - mentally, no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 09:44 PM
1	A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sex It's not the same. Fucking a guy you don't want to fuck is not comparable to being used for money. (If you're straight, imagine fucking a guy you don't want to fuck, and then imagine a guy using you to pay for dinner - which would you prefer?)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 07:17 PM
-4	Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are? Tbh ugly men have all the same flaws as attractive men. Ugly men's standards are too high, they expect too much from women, and they're not "grateful" for the attention or anything. They might be happy to have some female attention for like a couple of months and then they complain about all the same things attractive men do. I don't put myself in an ugly or forever alone bracket though, but I have dated ugly men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 07:31 PM
1	CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guys When I say dad bod I'm thinking of Louis CK minus the weird sex pest stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 01:22 AM
2	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. That was the joke I was making, yes. But I'm actually childfree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 01:38 PM
1	Don’t waste her time Her high list of demands? It's literally just 4 things. Be real, honest, not a time waster, and not a one-night stand. I don't see what's wrong with this.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	07/04/21 10:48 PM
6	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. Oh shit, when did I have kids? Must be so loose in the vag they're just sliding out these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 10:41 PM
4	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. I was on a date last week and I've been using Tinder since it came out. The last guy I slept with was Gen Z (though I am a 30f millennial). We were sluttier than you in the 00s. ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 10:29 PM
12	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. I think that view is informed by a typically-male thought pattern. I'm on tinder, I'm looking for hookups, but I want someone interesting and fun who makes me feel comfortable (so not pushy or creepy). A guy whose first message to me is "let me eat your pussy" or whatever, is easy and dtf, clearly. The thing is, those hookups are about as easy as ordering pizza when every pizza place in a 10 mile radius is covered in anchovies. Sure, it'll arrive, and it'll be pizza, but it won't be nice or enjo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 10:25 PM
2	How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women? Yes exactly! Okay your example was way clearer than mine. But yeah 100% agreed. It's not even a question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 12:31 PM
1	How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women? I feel like it's a fundamental difference in the male vs female sexual experience. Any guy that makes you feel like he's just trying to work his way in between your legs is unattractive because being used as a fuck sleeve for anyone's penis is never sexy. Maybe for straight men, the idea of a hot woman being predatory isn't the same thing, so it's difficult to understand. Gatekeeping your own genitals because someone is being pushy or creepy isn't fun or sexy no matter how cute the guy is. It's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 12:18 PM
1	How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women? Nah if a guy is crepy to me (or any woman I know) we immediately lose interest. I've dropped guys who were way out of my league because they became sexually agressive or came across creepy. The guys I've actually had relationships with were sexy because they were funny and interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 11:08 PM
6	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Women are less likely to reoffend, less likely to commit violent crimes, and when they do commit violent crimes it's often a result of abuse. This isn't some feminist argument, it's statistics and biology. Besides, what do you want? You want women to ask for longer sentences?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 09:35 PM