iwondertomyself Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man? In all likelihood I'd out earn any man I dated and tbh I like it that way. I never want it to even be a consideration that I'm dating them for any other reason than just liking him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 11:51 PM
3	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world I met a guy once who told me he was 5'9" online and then we met and I (5'7") was taller than him. Like what did you think would happen when we met? That I'd be like "whoops guess I'm 6ft then".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 03:07 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world Yeah I think it's actually a myth that the height issue is driven by women. I have literally zero preference when it comes to height but I've dated men who are shorter than me where it just became their biggest insecurity and they got angry with me for being taller.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 03:06 PM
0	Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that. Both of those women are a nice shape, they're just fatter than the first tweet you linked. You want to search for something like "upper body obesity" for what you are trying to describe here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 02:00 PM
1	Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that. I think you mean hour glass shaped? Pear shaped is not often seen as desirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 01:58 PM
1	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world I mean I think when we're comparing men and women in the way OP does, the fact is that a man can overpower a woman in almost all cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 09:06 PM
55	Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the world Physically, yes - mentally, no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 09:44 PM
1	A man being used as an ATM on a date is equal to a woman being used for sex It's not the same. Fucking a guy you don't want to fuck is not comparable to being used for money. (If you're straight, imagine fucking a guy you don't want to fuck, and then imagine a guy using you to pay for dinner - which would you prefer?)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 07:17 PM
-4	Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are? Tbh ugly men have all the same flaws as attractive men. Ugly men's standards are too high, they expect too much from women, and they're not "grateful" for the attention or anything. They might be happy to have some female attention for like a couple of months and then they complain about all the same things attractive men do. I don't put myself in an ugly or forever alone bracket though, but I have dated ugly men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 07:31 PM
1	CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guys When I say dad bod I'm thinking of Louis CK minus the weird sex pest stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 01:22 AM
2	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. That was the joke I was making, yes. But I'm actually childfree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 01:38 PM
1	Don’t waste her time Her high list of demands? It's literally just 4 things. Be real, honest, not a time waster, and not a one-night stand. I don't see what's wrong with this.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	07/04/21 10:48 PM
6	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. Oh shit, when did I have kids? Must be so loose in the vag they're just sliding out these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 10:41 PM
4	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. I was on a date last week and I've been using Tinder since it came out. The last guy I slept with was Gen Z (though I am a 30f millennial). We were sluttier than you in the 00s. ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 10:29 PM
12	Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs. I think that view is informed by a typically-male thought pattern. I'm on tinder, I'm looking for hookups, but I want someone interesting and fun who makes me feel comfortable (so not pushy or creepy). A guy whose first message to me is "let me eat your pussy" or whatever, is easy and dtf, clearly. The thing is, those hookups are about as easy as ordering pizza when every pizza place in a 10 mile radius is covered in anchovies. Sure, it'll arrive, and it'll be pizza, but it won't be nice or enjo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 10:25 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? I'm not saying they're moderate and nuanced. I'm just saying it ain't women's fault if men are getting unfairly sentenced, and that you could make an argument that shows it's not so unfair after all. You wanna make that out to be racist, despite it having nothing to do with race, you go ahead. But I believe you're only drawing that equivalence because you can't comment on the actual situation we're discussing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 10:05 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Hey man, I totally get what you're saying. I was raised by right-wing working class white supremacists. Then I was indoctrinated by radical feminists into what was essentially a female-supremacist cult. These days, I go by what makes scientific sense, and remain open to having my mind changed. My point here is that women who commit serious crimes are overwhelmingly victims of abuse, and aren't a danger to society by and large. (Obviously this isn't true across all cases.) The danger a criminal p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 09:37 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? I don't know how you don't see the difference? Women are oppressed by men, typically. Black people are oppressed by white people, typically. There's a big difference between giving longer or harsher sentences to black people than to men. However, I would also posit that sex is a bigger measure of someone's violence/reoffending rate than race is. I also disagree that race is the real reason for higher reoffending rates. But does that make you feel better? "say it, bitch. Go ahead and say it." Lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 09:23 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? I didn't say that it was. I see you've edited your original comment now. At no point am I saying men should be given harsher sentences, I'm just saying it makes sense that a judge would take the likelihood of reoffence (and the impact of incarceration on children) into their sentencing. If you don't like it, campaign against it. But you can't expect women to fight for longer sentences for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 09:10 PM
2	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Okay - make your point. Men are more violent than women still stands, no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 07:20 PM
2	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Well I'm not scientist but there are plenty of studies linking testosterone to increased aggression (I linked some in a previous comment) and linking castration to a decrease in aggression. I think we need to build a better culture for our men - one that doesn't encourage or glorify male violence (because obviously we are all more than our biology) and gives the option of healthy masculinity. But that doesn't change the fact that female criminals are usually victims themselves, and are also less…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 04:16 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Both biological factors and social factors. For instance, there have been studies that show the more teenage boys in a classroom, the more violence the class will exhibit. There have also been studies that link increased testosterone to significant increases in and and hostility. Similar studies have shown that castration in male mammals reduces violence. Of course, you can also look at the amount of violence worldwide and see that men are doing the vast majority of it. (you can take a look at D…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 04:13 PM
2	How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women? Yes exactly! Okay your example was way clearer than mine. But yeah 100% agreed. It's not even a question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 12:31 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? I don't live on reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 12:24 PM
2	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? No I don't think it's right. But it's a different situation. Men are indisputably more violent than women. Working class people, or PoC don't have biological makeup that makes them more violent; and where statistics show that they're more violent on average, that can be explained by looking at socioeconomic disadvantage. There is nowhere on earth where women are a higher risk to society than men, or where women are more violent. If men get longer sentences than women, that isn't women's fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 12:24 PM
1	How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women? I feel like it's a fundamental difference in the male vs female sexual experience. Any guy that makes you feel like he's just trying to work his way in between your legs is unattractive because being used as a fuck sleeve for anyone's penis is never sexy. Maybe for straight men, the idea of a hot woman being predatory isn't the same thing, so it's difficult to understand. Gatekeeping your own genitals because someone is being pushy or creepy isn't fun or sexy no matter how cute the guy is. It's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 12:18 PM
1	How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women? Nah if a guy is crepy to me (or any woman I know) we immediately lose interest. I've dropped guys who were way out of my league because they became sexually agressive or came across creepy. The guys I've actually had relationships with were sexy because they were funny and interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 11:08 PM
6	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Women are less likely to reoffend, less likely to commit violent crimes, and when they do commit violent crimes it's often a result of abuse. This isn't some feminist argument, it's statistics and biology. Besides, what do you want? You want women to ask for longer sentences?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 09:35 PM