j0693 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Having a really hard time reading this girl	j0693	/r/askTRP	11/10/20 02:55 PM
1	Recurring shit test	j0693	/r/askTRP	05/09/20 04:47 PM
1	Lack of escalation and how to proceed	j0693	/r/askTRP	04/01/21 03:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Lack of escalation and how to proceed Look I fully realize that I need to make things physical right away next time we hang out. I realize my mistake and I'm not worried about initiating physicality if there is another opportunity. I guess I am unclear how to maximize my chance at getting that next opportunity.	/r/askTRP	04/01/21 08:20 PM
2	Lack of escalation and how to proceed I never said I had the answer, all I am saying is that the not being physical for a few weeks due to lockdown isn't my concern. My question is how to go about reinitiating things with her after slipping up last night? Do I reach out and setup another date or is that going to come across as needy, or should I wait and see if she initiates?	/r/askTRP	04/01/21 08:15 PM
-1	Lack of escalation and how to proceed It's not so much whether or not it was the right idea, it had to do with the fact that we were seeing our families at Christmas and now that the holidays are over she seems open to being intimate again. There is still attraction between us, I know that isn't lost completely over my slip up last night. I'm just at a loss for how to regain control after not capitalizing last night.	/r/askTRP	04/01/21 05:15 PM
-1	Lack of escalation and how to proceed Well I have to disagree that the not kissing during this lockdown was a bad thing when we both agreed it was best before going to stay with older family members. Different people have different tolerances with covid risk and family. Having said that, I fully realize that I acted needy by asking her to stay in this situation and that's what I am looking for advice on. Is the best approach here not to make contact with her until she does?	/r/askTRP	04/01/21 04:29 PM
1	Having a really hard time reading this girl Makes sense, I'm just gonna back off for a week then tell her to come over.	/r/askTRP	11/10/20 05:14 PM
1	Having a really hard time reading this girl 'You continue to shoot yourself in the foot by triple texting. Nice job.' - Thing is, she replied to all of my messages, she wasn't leaving me on read or anything. She wasn't being very straight up with me in her responses though. I agree with everything else that you're saying though. It seems like this chick wants me to chase her and I'm not going to play that game. It does seem strange to me if she's not that interested why she got all emotional over me ignoring her and making other plans but…	/r/askTRP	11/10/20 03:39 PM
1	Recurring shit test That's why I'm posting though, I don't know if it is or not. Otherwise I wouldn't be here looking for advice.	/r/askTRP	05/09/20 06:32 PM
0	Recurring shit test This is great, thanks man. I guess I am stuck in that in-between phase of TRP where I am doing my own thing but questioning if I should have done differently. Trying to balance not caving into stupid shit but not being an asshole at the same time.	/r/askTRP	05/09/20 06:30 PM
0	Recurring shit test That's what it feels like. Just don't know if I'm handling the test well or not haha	/r/askTRP	05/09/20 05:35 PM