j314314 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Advanced Game: Importance of healthy friendships	Fundamentals	j314314	/r/seduction	06/06/24 08:05 PM

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3	Met a girl in person yesterday and I got her number. The feeling is mutual. How long do I wait to text to schedule a date? Now. Plan a date.	/r/seduction	31/10/24 09:18 PM
1	Why do older women seem so much nicer when approaching? Experience.	/r/seduction	31/10/24 09:18 PM
5	I feel like this "always stay persistent, it’s your fault if she’s not interested" mentality is messing up my head Extremely wrong. Of course, it's possible. 0.01% possible perhaps. But why would someone invest their time and energy on bad odds... find better situations.	/r/seduction	31/10/24 09:17 PM
1	I feel like this "always stay persistent, it’s your fault if she’s not interested" mentality is messing up my head She is either open or she is closed for business. If her boyfriend is going to pick her up in an hour, why is she going to talk to you? If she is a gold digger, why is she going to talk to you? If she deals with depression, why is she going to talk to you? On the other hand, If she just found her bf cheating, she is more likely to talk to you. If she had a great day, she is more likely to talk to you. If her female friends met other men at the bar, she is more likely to talk to you. A bunch of s…	/r/seduction	31/10/24 09:03 PM
2	First approach at the gym And btw OP, you DID a good job. You TRIED something. Before I used this approach, I had to get rejected just like you. Keep it up G!	/r/seduction	31/10/24 08:54 PM
2	First approach at the gym Hey man. Been there, done that. The solution is to build comfort over time. Gather information. If you approach and she is open to chat, you progress. If she is open to chat often, you progress. If she is open to chat often, ask for her ig. If she exchanges ig with you, you progress. Then perhaps answer a story. If you've made progress all the way to the exchange of contacts, then you perhaps know her life situation. Is she happily married? Does she have a boyfriend? Is she moving to another cou…	/r/seduction	31/10/24 08:53 PM
1	Workplace Date Good enough	/r/seduction	27/10/24 04:17 PM
1	Workplace Date You made progress - she flaked. Ignore her for 2-3 weeks. Ignoring means forgetting about her and focusing on yourself. 2-3 weeks later, you can re engage. Chat with her. Test the waters. Exchange social media or whatsapp. Then invite again to hang out. If she says yes, you got a date. If she says no, FDB (fk tht btch). Ignore her. Move on. In this situation, you did all you could do. Perhaps she will reach out sometime in the future, and you may play again completely detached because she is fla…	/r/seduction	27/10/24 02:59 PM
1	Confessional: I’m a giant pussy Agreed. He can just be social in general.	/r/seduction	26/10/24 03:57 AM
2	Are these signals? Exactly. Next time just approach G. Lucky there are 4billion women more out there. Forget this one. Move on.	/r/seduction	26/10/24 03:53 AM
2	Workplace Date The purpose of a date is to get to know a girl. You already see her often. She is already in a place where you can get to know her. Chat with her. Ask her how she's doing. Over time, gather information (girls like talking about themselves). Ask her questions. Assuming she is receptive: You will know if she's heterosexual. If she's single. If she is in a crappy relationship. If she likes tea. If she likes wine. Etc. The ideal scenario is you chat with her, she is receptive, you make a joke or sum…	/r/seduction	26/10/24 03:52 AM
1	How can I enter dating lifestyle again? It's a numbers game. Go out to different environments. Be social. Approach girls. Exchange contacts. Set up a date. Date. Intimacy. Repeat this a lot. Patience is EXTREMELY important my man. In my experience, most girls I see on a day to day basis ain't that attractive. But I socialize with people regardless. Take the gym, for example. Once in a while I see a girl I find attractive, so I socialize when it feels normal (Contrary to what PUA teach to just go and approach. If you know you frequent …	/r/seduction	25/10/24 04:19 PM
1	I'm starting a new relationship Bruv, no matter how HOT or COOL a girl is, never ever be eager to make her your gf. Keep hooking up with her. Do it well. Let HER bring the conversation. If she never does, you know what's up. She prob banging someone else. She prob still on the hunt. Why would you want to tie a girl down? No. She is the one who must want to tie YOU down. I would honestly advice you to date multiple girls.	/r/seduction	25/10/24 03:59 PM
2	22M in Talking Stage with 24F—Things Were Going Great Until She Suddenly Asked for Space After Court Appointment There is a tool called "FDB" (f that btch) which basically means taking your attention away. This tool is easier to implement when you have your life together (career, fitness, friendship, family, hobbies) and you are dating multiple girls. With this specific girl, give her ALL the space. If she comes back, she proved she's loyal (loyalty from a girl in a relationship is the MOST important thing IMO). If she doesn't come back, then you very likely dodged a bullet. Perhaps you can text her a mont…	/r/seduction	25/10/24 03:54 PM
1	Thick markets VS Thin Markets. That's a good one lol	/r/seduction	18/06/24 03:35 PM
2	Will a dick pic help me start a convo on snap? Yes	/r/seduction	07/06/24 05:16 PM
1	Advanced Game: Importance of healthy friendships Thanks for the advice. Will apply cold approaching as a way to build my network.	/r/seduction	07/06/24 03:12 PM
2	Me (31M) and my friend (27F) behave as if we were a couple, yet she is adamant about us having a romentic relationship and I don't know what to expect Men give attention to get sex. Women give sex to get attention. You're giving your currency away. Stop giving her attention.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 07:14 PM
4	Seducing a girl with a boyfriend I wouldn't want this girl to fall for me. Perhaps I could enjoy sharing intimacy with her once or twice. But nothing more. I never ever go for girls with bf, no matter the situation, but I wouldn't object if I had to put no effort.	/r/seduction	19/11/23 04:49 AM
2	How is cold approaching NOT needy behavior? Seneca wrote: “The wise man lacks nothing and needs many things” It’s not needy. It’s going after what you want.	/r/seduction	15/09/22 07:01 PM
2	I feel like as soon as I started getting good with women, I started hating most men out there. It is what it is	/r/seduction	09/09/22 03:04 PM
1	I fucked up EXACTLY	/r/seduction	08/09/22 01:05 PM
1	[33M] My game is tight in all areas: look good, feel good, make good money, well built etc. I just don't have the balls to approach! How to work my way up to an approach? Just approach lol	/r/seduction	08/09/22 01:04 PM
1	a horrible trait I have is being a bad listener. Yes indeed. As men we try to find solutions. Just use eye contact, nod, say “I understand”, and show empathy. It’s actually simpler to listen than to give solutions. Always keep in mind people only want solutions when they ask. And even when they ask, most times they want to hear what they want to hear lol. Give out vanilla opinions, unless some loved one of yours (family, friend, mentor, etc) asks for an opinion for real.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 01:03 PM
1	How do some of you always know what to say? We don’t.	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:23 PM
1	just starting out Approach more and have fun with it. You will realize rejection doesnt matter.	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:22 PM
3	Best way to go about having fwb or hookups without lying? Tell her your intentions when she asks	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:20 PM
1	Should I pursue girl with a BF? No	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:19 PM
5	What does my friend mean by “stop trying”? I can relate. From experience I can advice this: treat girls as you would a close friend (joke around, neg, etc) while at the same time being clear in your intent (you want to be intimate). From there, move the interaction forward. If the girl resist, persist. If she still is not into it, drop it. When you “try too much” it communicates to her that you want something more than sex and a good time. She thinks you want a relationship or will get too needy. I’m telling you this bc it happened to me…	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:18 PM
10	which will be a better thing to do ? Do both. Btw, if sometimes you get success and sometimes not it’s completely normal. Actually, that’s how game is. Most important of all is: are you having fun ?	/r/seduction	06/09/22 02:14 PM
1	Is someone complimenting your posture an IOI or no? It’s a compliment.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 04:16 PM
1	A girl that I like challenged me in chess. What should I do? Just play dude 😂	/r/seduction	22/06/21 02:33 PM
1	How should I play a situation where I almost hooked up with a girl Just text her a bit during the week. After 2 or 3 days, make chill plans with her. Yo if at the end she flakes, at least you did the best you could. Keep it up.	/r/seduction	22/06/21 02:30 PM
2	How to deal with rejection at work ? Good. She’s not interested. Move on. Want to know why you’re so hurt ? Because yoy ain’t seeing no one else. If you were dating another hotter girl, you wouldn’t even care. Furthermore, don’t mess around with coworkers.	/r/seduction	22/06/21 02:27 PM
0	[UPDATE] I invited her to join my harem... and she accepted. Cheers man ! Keep us updated.	/r/seduction	22/06/21 02:24 PM
2	Frustrated when girl shows interest, but no date Move on. If she hugs you and shit, enjoy it. But don’t text her nor try to make plans. Also, stop whining about the coke heads. You’re a man. You don’t care about them, nor what they do	/r/seduction	20/06/21 02:17 PM
3	Approach Anxiety Bro just approach.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 02:14 PM
2	Back in the game Great bro. Keep it up.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 02:14 PM
1	Update: I have an update with an absolutely stunning blonde Cool you can have intimacy with a friend. Girls flake. Keep gaming other girls. Don’t get too comfortable with your friend.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 02:12 PM
2	Stop asking her if she’ll go on a date with you, instead tell her she’ll LOVE the place your taking her to for your date. I completely agree.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 01:13 PM
2	How to make a move? Start kissing her cheek. See how she reacts. If she doesn’t stop you, then go for the kiss.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 07:41 PM
2	How do I get out of the friendzone How to get out of the friendzone: you don’t. Approach other girls.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 07:40 PM
1	Field report: the fuck happened here? Lol what exactly do you want to understand. Btw cheers for the nice field report.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 03:49 PM
2	I'm seriously in need of help From what you describe: if I were you I’d start gaming other girls and keep her as a friend.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:59 PM
1	Friend to relationship Do you want her as a long term friend. Or date and the possibility of no more friendship. If you want to date, make it obvious it’s a date. If not, you’ll stay as a friend. Remember, girls have many options. If you offer to be her friend, she’ll be fine with it bc she got many other options.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:57 PM
2	How to tell based on Instagram DMs if they are interested in you. Thanks for sharing. Very true.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:53 PM
3	Should i throw in the towel or not? You’re young. Im 23. I used to catch feelings quickly. I’d advice to at least practice not getting feelings. Instead, enjoy the interaction. Do not over think about her. If you want, you can text and ask her out fast. If she says she’s busy or doesn’t answer: move on. Focus on the skill, not the girl.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:51 PM
1	Girl didnt respond to my text even tho she made the first move. Rule: Give her 72 hours to respond. I bet she will respond. If she doesn’t, after 72hrs (give or take), send funny meme of your team or something like that. Send something that’s funny and that yall have in common. Gl my g	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:49 PM
1	Second date, i need help. Invite her over.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:46 PM
2	Should i throw in the towel or not? Move on. Also, guys who get good at dating and attracting don’t have any “crush”. Always remember that. Having a crush = loser. Talking to multiple girls at the same time and selecting the one you like the most = winner.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:46 PM
1	PSA: If it’s not a fuck yes, then it’s a no. Facts	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:43 PM
6	PSA: If it’s not a fuck yes, then it’s a no. Yes. But bottom line is once you noticed she wasn’t as invested you let go. Once you let go, you met at a party and allowed things to flow.	/r/seduction	16/06/21 02:43 PM
1	Rejected after first date? Facts. But my guy didn’t even know what close meant lol.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 09:17 PM
1	Need a check from the guys here. Literally, if this girl (or any other) asks “what are we”, say: “I like you a lot and love hanging out. Right now I got out of a LTR. I would love if we could keep hanging out and see what happen in the future, bc u’re an amazing girl” Got this from RSD Julien about 5 yrs ago and it always works.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 08:42 PM
3	How do you transition to a fun and flirty vibe? When you notice the conversation is getting boring FOR YOU, say something random. Something that is funny to you. Ofc calibrate a little bit. You may like dark humor, but you notice the girl doesn’t enjoy it as much as you. If so, tune it down a little bit. Ultimately, remember dating is a celebration of YOU. You should have fun, while simultaneously going for the close (text close, kiss close, pull, etc)	/r/seduction	15/06/21 08:38 PM
1	Rejected after first date? Yes. I suggest to go for it even if you think the date is not going good. If she doesn’t want to kiss or whatever… at least you were a man and tried. Focus on building the skillset of always be closing. The skill is better than the actual kiss.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 08:35 PM
2	Rejected after first date? Ok bro feel you. “Man to woman” means flirting. Assume she’s already your girl. Assume attraction. Be a little physical here and there. “Close” means go for the kiss, make out or pull. Close. “ABC” Always Be Closing. Even if the date didn’t go as well in your head, you still go for the kiss because “ABC”. If she doesn’t want to kiss, it’s fine. More important than getting the kiss is the development of the “ABC” attitude.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 08:12 PM
1	[ADVANCED] Need help managing multiple girlfriends. Try only having 2 main girls ?	/r/seduction	15/06/21 08:08 PM
1	The girl I like confuses me. Please help me understand. Move on. Don’t try to understand.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 08:06 PM
2	Rejected after first date? Texting too much is bad. Goal of texting is to hang out. At the date, when she asked you those weird questions is bc she is talking to someone else. You were not very “man to woman” on your date, and now she views you as a friend. Learn from the experience and move on. Don’t keep texting the girl. Move on. Next girl you meet be more man to woman. And remember: always be closing. You can open more to girls after you “closed” them. If you haven’t closed a girl, just keep the vibe fun and sexual an…	/r/seduction	15/06/21 08:01 PM
2	FR: 2 dates to lay Love your energy man. Cheers for your first post-breakup hook up. Those are quite tricky bc our confidence is usually a bit shaky. Keep it up !	/r/seduction	07/06/21 12:37 AM
1	Field Report 05.06.2021 Great. You did the best you could with what she gave you.	/r/seduction	07/06/21 12:30 AM
62	I have a date with an absolutely stunning blonde Smooth. Good luck man !	/r/seduction	07/06/21 12:26 AM