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| 3 | [deleted by user]Genuinely curious: how can you gauge a book you haven't read applies to a certain demographic or not? | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 08:57 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]If that's what you got out of that book, I suspect you missed a whole lotta points. It's a book about how to be a "man" (or person but it IS mainly targeted at males) in today's ever-changing societal structure without definite rules or role models. As someone with a very loving, yet not always present, socially not well-adapted father, that book has been immensely helpful for my personal growth. Although considered somewhat controversial (though after going through tens of hours of his material… | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Can’t pull girls to save my lifeYo, Ross Geller is offended by this! | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | She’s back: why you should never be needyThank you kindly. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 07:36 PM |
| 15 | She’s back: why you should never be needyThank you. Can you elaborate though, what makes it ethical as opposed to unethical non monogamy? (Not trying to imply non monogamy is unethical or not, I seriously want to learn, as this is the first time hearing the phrase or the distinction of ethical/unethical in this context) | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 07:25 PM |
| 17 | She’s back: why you should never be needyWhats an enm? | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Should I be bothered with my girlfriend's male best friend?That's a fine line to walk, not being insecure about harmless flirtations and not letting someone walk over you. Even if you didn't show it to her it seems like you already started losing your frame and that just aggrevates relationship problems. I agree with all the other comments saying she is playing games (could be she is doing it without conciously thinking of them as games but that doesn't matter) and it seems like she is being insincere about her feelings about the guy (possibly even to h… | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Ex had her first accident in traffic, called me and I fought all my instincts to go to herWasnt asking for situational advice, was just tryig to get peoples opinons as a conversation starter. Whatever | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Just got destroyed as a manDitto. I've come to believe that's basically what it means to be a (hu)man. Seriously tho, as everyone already commented keep your chin up, you're brave. And your confidence will grow tremendously when you see yourself able to stand tall after hits like that. | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Just got destroyed as a man(Ex) gf who happens to be a colleague told me she wanted to fuck my best friend who is also a colleague, 5 minutes before telling him about it cuz she was on md and full of love and uninhibited and all that shit. Next day she told me not to look so defeated as we ended our relationship. Takeaway: don't feel defeated just because you spent good time with a friend and had the balls to speak out your feelings. See yourself as the courageous dude you have become, take lessons and move on. | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?Too lazy to type my story (also it is not vastly different from most i read here) so tldr for a non-existing read: in my account, all those things you mentioned will help only as much as they help your inner-game (i.e. how you feel about yourself, your self-perception, confidence and self-esteem) Keep discovering yourself and be happy with yourself, rest follows naturally. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Dark Julien Blanc Techniques to Trigger People to Get What You WantLol I guess all the good pointers converge on being at peacw with yourself and self improvement rather than tactics and memorized lines. I've just begun reading models as per the seddit's sidebar recommendation and the essence of the material is so parallel to my own inferences about myself and relations since a major break up a year ago. Most posts and success stories seem to revolve around the same fundementals so I just assumed you were reading models too. Thanks for the sources as well, I'll… | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Dark Julien Blanc Techniques to Trigger People to Get What You WantSomeone read his Models | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storyCheck your pm's if you can find the patience. More to come lol. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storyI'd say most commonly from low self-esteem (diffidence) but can have other causes like a distrust towards others, self-image problems, perfectionism, etc.. If diffidence is the case for you, I sincerely hope you find a way to come over it and build confidence. As a person who's recently learnt the word diffidence and felt like it was simply the most perfect tag that could ever define me, I could share a very recent story with you which I feel caused an incredible change in me, in the way I see m… | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Female PUA looking for Help with Framing and EngagementNeuro-linguistic programming i assume? | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storyIn my very limited experience, there are some types of girls who enjoy the company of shy guys because I believe that they believe (and they are probably right if they do) those guys have some mysterious, emotional or artistic sides and that makes them attractive. As long as your shyness is not rooted in diffidence, I don't think it's a bad trait on its own, if it's a part of who you are, you should just own it - being self-assured (as in being at peace with your "flaws" and shortcomings) usuall… | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Indicators Of Interest Suck - This Is The Real Way To Tell If A Girl Likes YouDude this is solid! Looking for signs of interest is akin to seeking external feedback for self-validation and that, I believe, strongly affects your vibe/game/confidence/projected self-worth and, oh man, are women experts at sensing these things we sub-communicate. Looking for compliance on the other hand just makes sense in any social context as to evaluate and assure that the whole interaction is enjoyable for both parties involved, and I believe it is something a confident and socially skill… | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Have an "Abundance Mentality" When You Haven't Actually Got an Abundance?What an insightful reply. Being okay with oneself is the basis for happiness (and it helps make you self-assured, i.e. more confident and at peace with your flaws) and it is something we tend to overlook when talking seduction/dating. Also the importance of a diverse social life where you are not only focusing on dating is very well put. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 07:04 AM |
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