TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

jaackknives Archive

View 0 posts and 108 comments by jaackknives on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

OYS # 38 34 yo, 6’1”, 195 lbs, ~15% BF. Wife 35 yo, 5’8”, 175 lbs. Married 10 years, together 16 years. 1 kid (6). Squat 270x3, Bench 210x4, Deadlift 335x5, OHP 140x4, PClean 185X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage, Bang. Currently reading Unchained Man (67%) Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang, The Art of Seduction, Game by Roosh. ​ Finding my Miss…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 02:39 AM
2

Just be careful of the validation-trap and letting hormones tell you dumb stories and give you "mistress-goggles" or whatever we should call them. I know I'm not getting self-validation through the sex, but do still feel validation of my progress here from it. That's lessened over the past few weeks. I've caught myself leaning into it that validation at times and have since worked to discontinue that. I'm assuming by "mistress-goggles" you're referring to thinking the grass is always greener on …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/21 02:45 AM
3

You really helped me out a few weeks back. I never really had a MAP, so I think once I got through the sidebar+ and some books on game I didn’t really have direction. UM is providing that. Somehow (even though it’s basically the same shit), the framework of the SLA’s in UM really allowed me to hone in, versus how it was presented in MAP. Take a look at these seven areas that encompass everything you do: where are you, where would you like to be, how can you get there. ​ I am as concerned as anyo…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/21 03:20 PM
3

OYS # 37 34 yo, 6’1”, 195 lbs, ~15% BF. Wife 35 yo, 5’8”, 175 lbs. Married 10 years, together 16 years. 1 kid (6). Squat 270x2, Bench 205x5, Deadlift 335x5, OHP 140x4, PClean 185X3. ​ It’s been a few weeks since I’ve OMS. I was rudderless for a while with no sense of where to go. Last time I wrote, I was also in the beginning stages an affair. Since that time I did continue forward with it, and it’s been a regular thing since. I started reading Unchained Man, as recommended by u/ImpatientZen, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/21 02:48 AM
1

Do you like your wife? And would current you choose her, like your previous BP-version did? I've always told myself that I did like her. I can honestly say that my wife has become everything BP, 22 y.o. me wanted back then. A "homey" wife, comfortable, someone I could trust not to run out on me (I thought a more 'sexual' girl would be more at risk for this), someone to just sit at home with and watch TV with on the weekends. Great in a lot of ways. I'm just going to assume this is a "shack" girl…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/21 05:44 AM
1

I really appreciate the write-up. You're helping me get to probably the root of things right now... lack of clarity and goals. I know that - aside from nutrition and lifting - things have slacked here at MRP for me in the past couple of months, and I think that's why. I've started getting a vision for what I want, but that only started to come after 6-9 months of being here. It seems like Unchained Man has helped you with defining your missions. I'll check it out. ​ I can't tell from your writin…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 04:28 AM
1

I appreciate the advice from someone who's been there/done that. Were those events before or after you started your MRP journey? ​ Horns is not wrong about the validation thing. Yeah, it hit me in the gut when I read his comment. The harder it hits, the more you know it's true, but don't want it to be true. At one point I almost halted based on that alone. ​ "what do you want?" But then I remembered that I had made up my mind about something at one point. I married the first person I had sex wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 05:06 AM
1

Yup, that’s definitely what’s going on. Full force when mutuality is established.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 02:06 PM
1

Your wife has years of history seeing you be a retard. Gym girl doesn't. Yeah, I was a pussy retard for a very long time. Maybe my wife needs more time. Or maybe I need to do better. Either way, I'm giving less fucks as time moves on. ​ Good for you for enjoying some NRE. What is NRE? Nevermind. Urban dictionary to the rescue.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 05:13 AM
2

OYS # 36 34 yo, 6’1”, 192 lbs, 15% BF. Wife 35 yo, 5’8”, 175 lbs. Married 10 years, together 16 years. 1 kid (6). Squat 255x5, Bench 200x4, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 135x3, PClean 185X2. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage, Bang. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang, The Art of Seduction, Game by Roosh, Mystery Method. ​ Lifting/Exercise I’m loving the change…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 04:41 AM
1

got me crafting plans to hook up with some of the Thots that have been chasing me. Jeez. Talk about lack of congruence and strategic direction. Which way is it, dumb fuck? I'm right here with you. For me, I think it comes down to a lack of confidence on whether I can lead my wife to where I want (and failing at the application of it). Like... is this all just a fruitless effort, and I should just take advantage of what else is out there. But it hits me with that same "way to be incongruent, dumb…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/21 10:08 PM
2

you're still keeping score, because sex is still about validation of a somewhat different sort I don't think I'm getting self-validation anymore. If I am it's in a blind spot. But I have seen that I'm still using it as a measuring stick, validation of my progress here. ​ you now know that's an empty goal Thanks for this clarification, and I can see that now. Didn't provide the satisfaction I'd always thought it would.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/21 09:39 PM
1

I am a giant retard. I have been slacking. Not with the working out, but with the calorie and macro tracking. Inconsistent and spotty. I've known this, but I've only been thinking about how it's affected me. I started tracking diligently again everyday this week. And by day 2 I could already see my wife step up her tracking as well. Also, she once again started calculating out portion sizes and macros in her home cooked meals. I hadn't seen that the lack of this last point was causing a feedback…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/21 09:24 PM
3

She's always going to be behind in SMV... You are the leader, and she is the follower. Her success will always be a lagging indicator of yours. I have seen MRP approved guys comment to others about this in some fashion, so I have been keeping it in mind. She followed my lead for much of last year. Was busting ass losing weight along with me, she probably dropped 25 lbs in the first half of last year. I was so proud of her. I bought her Thinner, Leaner, Stronger and she read it. Was tracking calo…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 11:41 PM
3

OYS # 35 34 yo, 6’1”, 190 lbs, 15% BF. Wife 35 yo, 5’8”, 175 lbs. Married 10 years, together 16 years. 1 kid (6). Squat 255x5, Bench 200x3, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x4, PClean 185X2. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage, Bang. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang, The Art of Seduction, Game by Roosh, Mystery Method. ​ Sex Last week I had my first glimpse o…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 05:00 PM
1

A good field report on something you already knew: AWALT. I suppose that sums it up. Not just with my wife, but with all of these women. At no point when I was at the club was I that surprised by what was happening. Yes, this is what happens to a HVM. ​ it's going to be a very long time before your fat wife can do that. This was the first week I put my wife’s stats in there. No surprise that it’s obviously something I’ve been thinking about. In truth I think I was fishing for a comment like what…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 02:24 PM
8

OYS # 34 34 yo, 6’1”, 190 lbs, 15% BF. Wife 34 yo, 5’8”, 175 lbs. Married 10 years, together 16 years. 1 kid (5). Squat 255x5, Bench 200x3, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x4, PClean 185X2. It has been 2 weeks since my last OYS post. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage, Bang. Currently reading What Women Want When They Test Men. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day B…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:27 PM
2

I'm no expert on ab workouts, but if he's getting under a barbell doing squats, etc multiple times per week that's going to grow them naturally as his core strengthens. Would any additional ab workouts be necessary? Edit: just read that his gym is closed. Makes more sense now.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/21 05:32 PM
1

You’re tying your mood to her/events in some of your examples. That’s not being an oak. Thanks, I haven't really been considering this much lately. I do react. Like when she was shit testing me - I revert to feeling like I'm being scolded and that I did something wrong. ​ Build up sometimes through the day to initiating, kino and then stop. I have done this in the past. Maybe not consistently. I've gone through stretches where I just make out with her everyday before we go to sleep, and don't in…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/21 05:16 PM
5

OYS # 33 34 yo, 6’1”, 192 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 15 BF %. Squat 255x5, Bench 200x3, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x4, PClean 180X2. Seeing the deadbedrooms posts linked in the MRP Discord channel made me realize that 1 year ago I was crying myself to sleep 2-3 times per week lurking that sub. Progress may seem slow but I am in a much, much better place. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger L…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 03:30 PM
2

Now go back and read your first five OYS posts. See the difference? I read them. I cringed at the thought of reading them again. I was a giant fucking retard. Still am. But it helps to see some progress and the focus of the content being myself. I've struggled with both defining and applying the "live with congruence" concept. If I'm understanding it correctly now... it's simply a matter of defining who you are and what you want to aspire to, and then living and working towards those standards t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 09:35 PM
3

OYS # 32 34 yo, 6’1”, 194 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). ~15 BF %. Squat 255x5, Bench 200x3, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x4, PClean 180X2. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage, Bang. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang, The Art of Seduction, Game by Roosh. Currently re-listening to parts of Game by Roosh. ​ Lifting / Exercise I started …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 05:51 PM
1

And she doesn’t get to see all your unattractive behaviors like your wife does. Yeah, this I am aware of. It's easy to put on a mask when you see someone for 5 min at a time. Any decent amount of time and she would see how mentally unattractive I really am. The rest about lack of confidence is pretty much spot-on.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/21 01:11 AM
2

Yeah, the Elderly Opener. Mind was still blank. We were in the coffee aisle. About 2 mins after I left it hit me: Just ask something about coffee. Literally anything about coffee.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 08:54 PM
7

OYS # 31 34 yo, 6’1”, 192 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). ~15 BF %. Squat 255x5, Bench 190x5, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x4, PClean 180X2. Lots of failures this week. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage, Bang. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang, The Art of Seduction, Game by Roosh. Currently re-listening to parts of Game by Roosh. ​ L…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 03:48 PM
2

Yeah so you see why so many guys usually say it's just better to start fresh. Yeah, I understand that now. Lot of work to undo that much history. I'm potentially going through my first test at the moment with a cute chick at the gym. Really fit, and hits a few key attraction points I didn't even realize I had until years after I was married, and is into me as well. Married, but IDGAF. I'll have to write more in next week's OYS. Point is... there's something new and shiny, and it puts the thought…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 05:33 PM
2

That top link should be very helpful (did a quick scan but will read these throughout the week). Too often I get in the headspace that "my wife isn't getting on board because of X reason that's her fault". Later I come to my senses and remind myself that it's just me. Looks like it will give me something to compare to and allow me to make corrections/pick up where I'm lacking. I have seen similar explanations of Vision/Mission/Goals in Finding Your Mission post. It was difficult to distinguish t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 05:08 PM
2

Thanks for the perspectives on the interactions. Definitely clarifies it for me. ​ She's not taking it back - she never lost it. This is a much better way of putting it. No, she never lost it, and was just making that clear to me. ​ I hope you at least cavemanned the daylights out of that. Doesn't look like it though. No, I didn't really. ​ It's true, I have been focusing more on sex lately. Or more specifically, the things I've identified that I need to fix in myself around how I approach sex. …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 01:26 PM
3

Definitely
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 01:16 PM
2

LMAO. This is hilarious. She saw right through your power play, as we figured she would. Yeah, not unexpected. What was a bit surprising was the fact that she actually used the word 'power'. I've certainly never used it in anything related to the bedroom. Just goes to show me how very aware she is/was of the situation. Roosh V did say in one of his books that women are much more aware of power dynamics in interactions than men tend to be. ​ Sounds like there was some good, some bad. She'll get o…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 12:38 PM
5

OYS # 30 34 yo, 6’1”, 192 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). ~15 BF %. Squat 250x5, Bench 190x5, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 125x5, PClean 175X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage, Bang. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang, The Art of Seduction. Currently listening to Game by Roosh. ​ Learning How to Fuck Like a Man and Stop Fucking in My W…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 10:55 PM
2

Thank you Blarg. The analogy really helps. I can see now it’s currently coming from a place of incongruence.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 02:48 PM
2

I think it was a "win" only in your power struggle against her I could have explained it a bit more, but you got the point. Winning against the power struggle, along with the fact that I was able to walk away and not feel like I needed to grovel before the pussy and get my validation. Probably coming from that pride/ego. I was reacting. One step at a time. I think I've hit a groove where I'm seeing a chain of things to fix, and I can just take those bites in a manageable way. There was a lot of …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 07:43 PM
2

id guess you weren't leading physical dominance but moreso 'trying it out' I'd say this would be an accurate statement, but I'm having a difficult time at the moment of even understanding what leading physical dominance would look like. The way the physical dominance for me has been is: I do something, then try and gauge her reaction. Things are heating up, I pin her arms above her head. Get moderately positive response. Grab her head/hair. Get shitty response. All gauging and dependent on her r…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 06:53 PM
2

Not butt hurt, but I don't quite think it was cocky either. Just fed up with her power games, and I reacted to it. She "knew" that I would comply and do what she wanted (since it's always worked that way in the past), and I stood up and did the opposite. Either way, I allowed her attitude to affect what I really wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 01:13 PM
2

It can take a while. You're so used to being rejected and feeling butthurt it's hard to imagine that you could take a statement like "I'm getting tired, let's have sex now or go to bed" and use it in any productive way. That's how I would start to shift, mentally. I killed the butthurt and validation seeking from sex only a month ago (though I'm still on the lookout for it to pop up again), so to even be able to say no and walk away felt like a win at the time. May not have been the best thing, …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 12:52 PM
2

Similar situation in our household. I tested positive. My son tested positive. My wife (despite showing the same symptoms I had) tested negative twice. My confidence in the testing has gone way down since then. Apparently false negatives AND false positives aren't that uncommon.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 06:29 PM
3

I had some good results initially to dominance, but when I moved to some hair pulling / trying to throw her around I got a lot of resistance. Hair pulling is almost a full-stop at this point. I think there's probably a difference between dominance in leading (which she finds attractive) and dominance in physicality (which she currently does not find attractive). Either way, I assumed I was not currently attractive enough in her eyes for the physical dominance. I read SGM a while ago, but I remem…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 06:18 PM
3

I've moved from trading 1 back massage for her = 1 sex act for me to "we both get massages, then it will lead to sex. Mutual benefits all around". Predictable - yes. Boring - yes. Obvious - yes. I honestly don't think I've every REALLY fucked her. It's a concept currently unknown in our bedroom (but one I intend to get to). I believe I need to change orgasm being the goal to one where the act of enjoying sex is the goal. I know you went through this process as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 06:01 PM
4

Yeah, I can see that now. However, she wanted it and fully expected me to comply. I guess I chose the option of not complying (AKA standing up to mommy).
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 04:25 PM
8

OYS # 29 34 yo, 6’1”, 193 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). ~15 BF %. Squat 250x5, Bench 190x4, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 125x4, PClean 175X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Currently reading Bang by Roosh. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang, The Art of Seduction. Currently listening to Game by Roosh. ​ Lifting / Diet I’ve been bulk…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 03:03 PM
4

OYS # 28 34 yo, 6’1”, 189 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). ~15 BF %. Squat 250x5, Bench 190x3, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 125x4, PClean 170X3. I estimated my BF% for the first time in 8 weeks: Jackson / Pollack calipers method: 9% Durnin / Womersly calipers method: 16% I know the Jackson/Pollack results are way off. But in those 8 weeks I’ve put on about 8 pounds, and my BF% results have remained the same. Which means I’ve been adding about 1 lb of muscle per week. ​ Reading Complet…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 08:42 PM
2

They'd probably magically go away... am I right? 100% certainty. But you won't find that treatment plan on r/PrematureEjaculation. And yes, I've always fucked in her frame. And I have no idea how to fuck like a real man. It's basically her masterbating with a dildo that just so happens to be attached to my body. Thus, she has no idea what it's like to be fucked by a real man. I was going to write some excuse about getting around to it someday, but truth is I'm just scared. Sexual shame.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/20 11:09 PM
1

That sounds like a better treatment plan than any I've heard before. It's clearly a mental issue for me, coupled by my lifetime of sex and masturbation habits. Usually sex was a race to the finish. Tried SSRIs. They worked, but fuck with your mind and make it so you don't even want to fuck anymore. It happens so slowly (months) you don't even realize it until you're staring at some hot girl's ass and wondering why you don't feel anything. I stopped taking them immediately. Anyways, it's all seco…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/20 10:39 PM
1

I am not sure if it will take the form of divorce, separation, me opening the marriage or whatever. I need information and time for that decision. What are the chances you are waiting for the decision to be made for you? I only ask because I think I see some of this mentality in myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/20 04:35 AM
2

Fuck me. Thanks. I have work to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/20 04:26 AM
2

For clarity, does it lower your sensitivity/ make you last longer first time? Or do you bust a nut, but keep on going? I’ve had issues with PE. Cialis seems to make it worse (like, blow it after 20 secs of foreplay BJ) but the fact it keeps me hard let’s me keep going. And the second time I can last much longer.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 10:16 PM
2

I understand what I wrote could have been perceived as contradicting myself. I was told that I don’t communicate anything...I didn’t pay much attention to her words followed by a failure in my leadership... I think there may be a level of openness and communication that I’m not operating at. I state that I don't believe her when she says X, then go on to say that I may need to do more X. But what I was trying to get at with my second statement was more along the lines of what you said here: But …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 03:49 AM
6

OYS # 27 34 yo, 6’1”, 188 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). ~15 BF %. Squat 240x5, Bench 185x5, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x5, PClean 170X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang, The Art of Seduction. ​ Mental Thanksgiving week is a busy week. In addition to the holiday, there is deer hunting and the s…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 08:11 PM
2

"Not nearly as full as you're going to be." Yeah, my game needs work. Haven't used AM much, and I've only recently brought AA back on the table. Was using it early on but it seemed to be providing comfort more than anything. Like I wasn't in a place to back up the statements. She's a pretty submissive wife outside the bedroom, and extremely functional. But sex is 100% in her frame, and she knows she has the power. I cultivated that with my scarcity mentality and bowing down to the almighty pussy…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/20 02:38 PM
3

I dont want others to think they can MRP for 4 months and wave their dick in thier bosses face like I did and expect a similar outcome. I was thinking along these lines when you stated your intentions last week. Was wondering if it was going to fail miserably. Happy to see you know what the hell you're doing and are reaping the rewards.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 10:23 PM
5

wife told me, “you are my partner, forever.” ... instead gave her a nice kiss. TWOTSM teaches us that she speaks with her feelings, and right now she feels good about the relationship. Leaning in for the kiss is likely all the response you needed to give.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 01:27 PM
2

OYS # 26 34 yo, 6’1”, 187 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). ~15 BF %. Squat 240x2, Bench 185x4, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x5, PClean 165X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP x2, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang. Currently listening to The Art of Seduction. ​ Sex / Desire I've had issues with my sexual desire for the past couple of mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 01:14 PM
3

I do give him a fair amount of praise. Often enough, but could probably be more. I'd never considered just how positive an effect those small acts could have though. I don't think he walks on eggshells, but will keep an eye out. I was there in my childhood. I don't want that for him. My wife tends to have a lower threshhold than I do when it comes to him acting up. She disciplines more often, but if he talks back or reaches a certain level I'm the one that drops the hammer and gets compliance, u…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 05:09 PM
2

OYS # 25 34 yo, 6’1”, 185 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 14% B.F (Navy method). Squat 240x2, Bench 185x4, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x5, PClean 165X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Currently reading MAP. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang. Currently listening to The Art of Seduction. ​ Lifting/Exercise I’ve mostly recovered from …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 01:03 PM
1

This was very helpful this past week, btw. I've read it in the past, but think it was an appropriate time to come back to. I definitely noticed my congruence being tested this week. Seems like she's trying to figure out if I actually believe I'm as awesome as I walk and talk.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/20 03:36 PM
3

Thanks for the feedback. I was wondering if it might be part of the process or something my mind had created, but hadn't seen anyone articulate it before.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 11:06 PM
5

Did you ever feel a loss of desire as part of your journey? I'm experiencing this now and am trying to figure out the reason. ​ Let that desire build up. And then take your balls and fuck your wife the way you want to. I'm trying to get my desire back so I can work on doing exactly this.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 03:01 PM
3

It's hard mode, and a lot of people will take the shortcut. My state now allows everyone to use crossbows, so most people now go that route now. But you can see, the people that are there for the challenge keep using a bow and rely on improving themselves. Fuck, maybe I just saw MRP in a new light...
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 02:55 PM
3

OYS # 24 34 yo, 6’1”, 184 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 13% B.F (Navy method). Squat 240x2, Bench 185x4, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x5, PClean 165X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Currently reading MAP. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x3, Day Bang. ​ Lifting/Exercise Not a lot of gym time lately. I got sick early last week and have been i…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 01:51 PM
2

OYS # 23 34 yo, 6’1”, 184 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 14% B.F (Navy method). Squat 240x2, Bench 185x4, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x5, PClean 165X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Currently reading MAP. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x2, Day Bang. ​ Diet Kind of shitty last week while on a mini-vacation. Back at it 100% this week, counti…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 03:14 PM
1

Spending time focusing on masculine polarity has caused a similar rise in her feminine side. Anything in particular you've done here? Or are you referring to the lifting, mental work, etc that goes along with MRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 12:45 PM
1

OYS # 22 34 yo, 6’1”, 184 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 13% B.F (Navy method). Squat 235x5, Bench 185x4, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x5, PClean 165X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models, Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM x2. Currently listening to Day Bang. ​ Lifting/Exercise Watched some weightlifting videos to help me improve my form, mostly rel…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 12:33 PM
1

So, what's the way through this phase? Let go / get past the anger and butthurt? Get over the validation seeking from sex? Tap into that real emotion? I get motivated at times and believe I can lead to where I want. Then failure hits or I get caught up in the current state of affairs and all that goes out the window. And I'm back at angry/resentful. And the cycle repeats.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 05:16 PM
5

OYS # 21 34 yo, 6’1”, 182 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 13% B.F (Navy method). Squat 235x5 (+5), Bench 185x4, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x4, PClean 165X3 (+5). ​ I estimated my BF% using a few different methods and got widely different results: - Navy method: 13% - Jackson / Pollack calipers method: 9% - Durin / Womersly calipers method: 16% ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 08:33 PM
1

Bad girls need to be punished
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 02:45 AM
1

Thanks. You showed me the door. Or rather, showed me the door and made me tell myself I'd better jump through or just get off this fucking sub and stop wasting everybody's time. ​ you lived at your edge It's a bit exhilarating. I feel fucking fantastic today. ​ A man takes what he wants with no fear. With no fear? Or despite fear?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 08:50 PM
2

I'm honored - you got a blow job this morning, and this is what made your day ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 08:37 PM
2

I may have started posting in my OYS too early You're comparing yourself to others. I did the same thing. Just focus on making yourself better.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 03:42 AM
4

OK Horns - I fucking did it. I was scared and nervous all fucking day but I did it. I pulled her into the bedroom and kissed her. Pressed my weight against her and pushed her up against the wall. Told her to get on her knees. She was taken aback and said no. I tried pressing through the rejection. She stayed firm. Told me she had offered the HJ yesterday and I'd declined. That it's more fun to tease me and make me wait until her period is over. ​ What's the worst that could happen? You get told …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 03:34 AM
2

Thanks - actually helps a lot hearing you still get nervous... I've had a feeling of anxiety in my chest all damn day even thinking about this. Trying to get over 1/2 a lifetime of habits and nice guy tendencies and waiting for things to escalate mutually. But fuck me, this is why I'm here.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 09:51 PM
2

Yes, 100%. After reading u/SoggyTrain's comment and thinking through my response I came to the conclusion that the whole doing it for losing weight thing was just what I wanted to tell myself. Full of shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 04:51 PM
1

OYS # 20 34 yo, 6’1”, 182 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 14% B.F (Navy method). Squat 230x5 (+ 10), Bench 185x4 (+5), Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x4, PClean 160X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models. Currently reading Saving a Low Sex Marriage (70%). Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM. Currently listening to TWOTSM. ​ Lifting / Exercise Squat has been going up very well latel…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 12:24 PM
1

I saw a guy get chased out of a strip club once for doing that during a lap dance. Hilarious.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/20 02:15 AM
1

After that did she say "slufppppuggghslurrrrp" when she blew you? Ha. No, I’ve never gotten a reaction like that. The next day I was told I was “being snippy lately”. ​ Are you still grinding with a rubber on, or did you finally fuck her how you wanted to? Sometimes yes and sometimes no. There was the whole wanting-to-make-a-baby thing. So for a time I was going in hot. The biggest mental shift I was able to make after that was that - for the time being - I want to hold off getting her pregnant.…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/20 02:14 AM
1

What helped you the most to let go of the fear and rejection? It’s been a major sticking point for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 03:43 PM
1

What would be an effective way to lead in that situation?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 12:40 PM
1

OYS # 19 34 yo, 6’1”, 181 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 14% B.F (Navy method). Squat 220x5 (+ 5), Bench 180x5, Deadlift 320x5, OHP 130x4 (+5), PClean 160X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG x2, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models. Currently reading Saving a Low Sex Marriage (35%). Audiobooks: NMMNG, TWOTSM. Currently listening to The Art of Seduction. ​ Lifting/Exercise I had hurt my back a few wee…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 12:33 PM
3

You're hitting two birds with one stone. I'm just as guilty. God knows I've resented my wife over the years. Still do at times. But one thing I've started to learn the longer I'm here though, is just how much value she does bring to my life. Rock star mother and SAHM. And these past few months, she's really been trying to improve physically. She's busting her ass to lose weight, counting macros, even started doing the Insanity videos this week, and then goes on the treadmill afterwards. I actual…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 03:28 AM
2

a once-whalish, now seal-like fat woman. As I have said in prior OYS she is getting better but starting from 5' over 200 lbs, there is still a lot to go. She is probably 175 now. Are you doing anything to actively lead her to lose weight, or is she doing it all on her own? I think we've touched on this before. My wife was also 200, probably worked her way down to 175ish now as well. She is 5'7''. She's starting to look OK in clothes. But when she takes her shirt off in front of me and I see thos…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/20 03:00 AM
1

Yes, 100%. And thank you. I've read that post twice in the past week. ​ Inside of every woman is a little slut that is begging permission to be freed. These weekend trips away are generally the only glimpses of that slut that I've seen. And now that I think about it, probably the biggest reason why I've wanted to continue. The first weekend away trip, I got just drunk enough to lose most of my inhibitions. I commanded that she come over and give me a lap dance. No idea where that thought came fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/20 02:51 AM
1

OYS # 18 34 yo, 6’1”, 182 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 14% B.F (Navy method). Total T: 608. Squat 215x5, Bench 180x5 (+10), Deadlift 320x5 (+10), OHP 125x5 (+10), PClean 160X3 (+5). Lately I’ve really started to begin seeing this community for what it is. It’s difficult to really open up sometimes, but I force myself to do it, and the advice rarely disappoints. A big thanks to w&s and everyone else involved for the OYS streams. I’m working my way through the videos he’s d…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 02:37 PM
3

I understand where you're coming from. I go two weeks without sex often enough. But I don't jack off anymore. When I used to jack off, going two weeks "wasn't too bad". Now it fucking sucks. I walk around half cocked and can't concentrate. So when I can't take it anymore I get over whatever shit has been preventing me from going after it, I game my wife, and initiate.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 03:21 AM
2

OYS # 17 34 yo, 6’1”, 177 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 12% B.F (Navy method). Total T: 608. Squat 215x5 (+15), Bench 170x5, Deadlift 310x5 (+10), OHP 115x5, PClean 155X3 (+5). ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP, Models. Currently reading NMMNG (70%). ​ Lifting/Exercise Continued pushing the squat, going up 5 lb per workout. All other workouts seeing increases in weight o…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 05:42 PM
2

Fortunately, there has been no sticking my dick in anything this past week (that's the first time I've ever said that). I didn't have to make that choice. But I know I would have filled her up if the opportunity had been there. I would not have been able to say no. I'm still working through this. ​ You're welcome. Yes. There's a reason why I included that line. They were mostly tears of gratitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 04:01 AM
2

OYS # 16 34 yo, 6’1”, 176 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 11% B.F (Navy method). Total T: 608. Squat 200x5 (+15), Bench 170x5, Deadlift 300x5 (+5), OHP 115x3 (+5), PClean 150X3 (+10). ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP. Currently reading Models (70%), NMMNG (46%). ​ Lifting/Exercise I started pushing the squat up 5lb per workout. Need to get those numbers up. Knees are stil…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 09:40 PM
2

OYS # 15 34 yo, 6’1”, 175 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 11% B.F (Navy method). Total T: 608. Squat 185x5, Bench 170x4 (+5), Deadlift 295x5 (+10), OHP 110x5 (+5), PClean 140X3 (+5). ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger, 48 LOP. Currently reading Models (65%), NMMNG (6%). ​ Lifting/Exercise Lifts continue to improve. Since I increased my caloric intake I definitely feel stronger and …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 12:05 PM
0

OYS # 14 34 yo, 6’1”, 173 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 11% B.F (Navy method). Total T: 608. Squat 185x5, Bench 165x5, Deadlift 285x5, OHP 105x5, PClean 135X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM, Bigger Leaner Stronger. Currently reading 48 LOP (Law 43), Models (60%). ​ Diet I had been eating around 3000 calories/day, but aside from the DL, my lifts weren’t going anywhere. Bumped up my intake to 3700 ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 11:41 AM
2

You watch porn together, but she freaks out about doggy style? Yes. It's been a while since we watched any, but she was notably excited when I turned on the porn. Is she a land whale? She's 5'8" and probably carrying an extra 40 lbs. I know she was about 200 lbs at the beginning of the year but has lost a bunch of weight. Still carrying a lot between the belly and thighs.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 06:42 PM
5

OYS # 13 34 yo, 6’1”, 170 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 11% B.F (Navy method). Total T: 608. Squat 185x5, Bench 165x3, Deadlift 270x5, OHP 105x4, PClean 135X3. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, TWOTSM. Currently reading 48 LOP (Law 32), Bigger Leaner Stronger (62%). TWOTSM has provided a lot of clarity. Prior to reading it, I had begun to form this notion in my head that my wife was not feminine enough for wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 02:15 PM
2

Yeah, I've definitely put some thought into the vasectomy route. I do think that's in my future, but it will be a couple more years until we are done trying to have more kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/20 03:12 PM
3

​ If you enjoyed this, you should be leading your sex life to a place where you don't have to wear a gay raincoat when you fuck your WIFE. You hit the nail on the head. I used to put up a fight at times about wearing them years ago. She would threaten no sex without it and that would be the end of it. In time I got so used to them. Now that you've pointed it out it's pissing me off all over again.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 12:20 PM
2

Yeah, that’s what drove me to take him out - forge those timeless memories for him. I need to practice mindfulness when in those situations... I found myself getting distracted, checking my phone, responding to messages, etc. They pick up on those distractions. Need to learn to just be in the moment and fully there for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 03:05 PM
7

OYS # 12 34 yo, 6’1”, 170 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 11% B.F (Navy method). Total T: 608. Squat 185x5, Bench 165x3, Deadlift 265x5, OHP 105x4, PClean 135X3 I had felt lost and over my head for weeks - I think I was pushing too far and trying to fix shit I wasn’t ready to yet. Felt like I was grasping at straws. Didn’t have any self confidence. Realized I was overextending myself. Pulled shit back to the basics and just focused on STFU. Holding myself back from saying wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 12:02 PM
1

OYS # 11 34 yo, 6’1”, 170 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 11% B.F (Navy method). Total T: 608. Squat 185x5, Bench 160x5, Deadlift 265x3, OHP 105x4, PClean 135X3 ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Currently reading 48 LOP (Law 17), Bigger Leaner Stronger (22%). ​ Health/Diet Got in for a visit with a new PCP last week. Followed up with lab work to get my testosterone checked, which came back at 608 for Total T. H…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 02:35 AM
2

OYS # 10 34 yo, 6’1”, 171 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 12% B.F (Navy method). Squat 185x3, Bench 160x5, Deadlift 255x5, OHP 100x5, PClean 135X3 Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook. Currently reading Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck (80%), 48 LOP (Law 11). I’m enjoying Subtle Art’s focus on values. Determining what you value in life and how to ensure that you are living with good values. I’ve identified a couple of exercises that I will follow up …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 02:24 AM
1

OYS # 9 34 yo, 6’1”, 172 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 12% B.F (Navy method). Squat 185x3, Bench 160x5, Deadlift 255x5, OHP 100x5, PClean 135X3 ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP, Pook. Currently reading Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck (38%), 48 LOP (Law 5). Completed last week’s goal of finishing Book of Pook and starting 48 LOP. Smuggler-Tuek recommended Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck based on my post last week. Definitely seemed useful for me at…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 02:23 AM
1

I appreciate the perspective. My novice self-awareness jumped right to "avoidance behavior = must eliminate" and saw it as an easy win. I am confident with my recent weight loss, but as my goals switch from losing weight to gaining mass, my outlook is likely to change.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 10:00 PM
1

OYS # 8 34 yo, 6’1”, 173 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 13% B.F (Navy method). Squat 185x3, Bench 160x5, Deadlift 235x5, OHP 100x5. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP. Currently reading Pook (75%). Goal to finish Pook by next week, start 48 LOP. ​ Lifting/Exercise I’m always checking myself out in the mirror. Admiring the progress, taking BF% measurements, etc. But I realized that I’m trying to do it in secret, when my wife won’t catch me in the act.…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 03:04 AM
1

OYS # 7 34 yo, 6’1”, 175 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 14% B.F (Navy method). Squat 185x3, Bench 150x5, Deadlift 225x5, OHP 95x5. Last week’s comments were helpful. I was called out for writing shitty, aimless OYS posts. Despite my attempts at keeping it from turning into a journal, I’ve been focusing on writing many of the “good” things that have been happening and documenting my improvements. This was either me kissing my own ass, or perhaps more likely an attempt at val…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 10:06 PM
1

Thanks, you hit the nail right on the head. I'm assuming you're not talking about a full-blown mission at this point? I certainly have goals that I have not yet articulated yet - I'll get these outlined on my next OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 02:37 AM
1

OYS # 6 34 yo, 6’1”, 176 lbs. Married 9 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 15% B.F (Navy method). Squat 165x5, Bench 140x5, Deadlift 205x5, OHP 90x5 ​ Not doing much of anything for hobbies or social lately. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM, MAP. Currently reading Pook, Starting Strength. ​ Lifting/Exercise Missed 1 or 2 of my supporting workouts late last week. First time in weeks I’ve missed any. Still lifted 3 times though. My body weight dropped like crazy last week af…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 03:38 AM
1

OYS # 5 34 yo, 6’1”, 178 lbs. Married 9 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 15% B.F (Navy method). Every week I tell myself to start writing next week’s post sooner so I can be ready to post it Tuesday morning, and every week I fail at that. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM. Currently reading MAP, Pook, Starting Strength. Reading has slowed this past week, I haven’t been able to get as much time early in the mornings as I have in the past. Will need to find alternative time…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/20 03:15 AM
1

Thanks Horns. I don't expect it's T-levels, but if the PE clinic comes through I'll get those. I'll be calling them tomorrow. I will definitely get a prescription for Cialis and try that as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/20 03:10 AM
1

OYS # 4 34 yo, 6’1”, 180 lbs. Married 9 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 16% B.F (Navy method). ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSL x2, SGM, TRM. Currently reading MAP, Pook, Starting Strength. Read a few Red Pill Sidebar posts. ​ Lifting/Exercise Continuing to complete my 6 day exercise plan. Gym will open next week, allowing for scheduled 45 min visits. I have to put together my lifting plan by that time. I’ll be learning / relearning most of the workouts I’ll be doing, so I am treati…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 12:03 PM
1

OYS # 3 34 yo, 6’1”, 182 lbs. Married 9 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 18% B.F (Navy method). ​ Reading Reading was back on point this week. Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP x2, SGM. Currently reading RM, Starting Strength. Goal for this week: re-read MRP introductory materials on Reddit (FAQ, Glossary of Terms, Steel’s Guide to Married Red Pill). ​ Lifting/Exercise Exercise was on point. The activity leaves me exhausted by the end of the week. Gyms may be opening up within a few weeks, no …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 12:22 PM
1

OYS # 2 34 yo, 6’1”, 184 lbs. Married 9 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 18% B.F (Navy method). The thing that helped me more than anything else this past week was reading the Here's Your Example post (user deleted). It put things back in perspective and helped remind me of the reasons why I want to do all of this. Reading Didn’t make as much progress this week as in previous weeks. My time for reading and journaling is early in the morning before anyone else wakes up, but sometimes I need t…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 11:27 AM
1

OYS # 1 33 yo, 6’1”, 185 lbs. Married 9 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 18% B.F (Navy method). Was a Deadbedrooms lurker for 6 months until I discovered MRP last month. 4 weeks in. ​ Reading Completed WISNIFG, NMMNG. Currently reading MMSLP, SGM, and working my way through RM. Read MMSLP 2 months ago but re-reading it anyways. ​ Lifting/Exercise Run 3 miles 6x/week. 30 mins of Tabata with my wife 3x/week, along with 100 pushups program the same day. Plank routine and 10 min ab/core workout …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/20 11:12 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter