jabruno12776 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Making sure wife doesn't move children to a different school district What 4agreements said. If she has no intention of moving she shouldn’t have a problem with it being part of the agreement and decree. Then you’re locked in. Similar situation for me. Add 3 hours to that distance though. She didn’t want a residency requirement at all then found out that it was standard in our county in NY. Then a school district was added. She doesn’t move the kids without my approval or a court order.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/20 06:32 PM
5	Just got the I want a divorce talk I had a similar situation. The above post is spot on. I put together a spreadsheet detailing what an “equitable distribution of assets and liabilities” would look like. Consider all cash’s and real assets and liabilities. Don’t forget retirement and life insurance. Try your best to be fair. Take some, give some. Come to agreements as best you can between you two. If you are both committed to this process go see a divorce mediator who will help with things you’ve not thought of and work through w…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/19 10:41 PM
5	Just announced divorce to wife of 15 years, telling kids today. Need help The way we did it (I find it odd that she told them without you there) was to explain to the kids that the one of the most important jobs we have as parents it to teach our children what a loving relationship is. Mom and I can’t do that for you and it would be dishonest for us to continue as a married couple. Our focus is on you and your life will be filled with love from both of us. Expect tears from them because they are uncertain of their futures but remain positive that this will be a good t…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/19 01:42 PM
2	I would appreciate help on the details of getting out. The issue is that the debt is considered marital if it was incurred during the marriage. You’re likely going to be responsible for half. I’d advise you getting alot of this worked out before getting a new place, furnishings Evy so you know what your overall financial situation looks like.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/19 08:04 PM
1	Wife cheated, gonna try to be amicable to end it quick Everything comes in the form of a contract. Once she signs the divorce agreement which should include full financial disclosures. I’d have the lawyer put in the agreement that the cash you’re giving her releases you of any claim against any financial asset (401k included)	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/19 07:39 PM
2	Telling the kids Be honest without telling them whatever details exist. For me I said that Mom and I don't love each other the way we should anymore. They cried. My ex and I told them that we know it hurts but all of our lives will be better for this in the long run and that we both love them more than they can imagine and whatever happens they will always be first in our lives. Mine were 8 and 10 so a bit older.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/19 11:13 PM
3	Simple Divorce to a Headache (Health Insurance) I just signed my agreement in NY. There was an additional document we signed that stated that nether of us will qualify for the other's insurance. I'd be shocked if it were different elsewhere.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/19 11:10 AM
1	Wife's affair and child custody From a place of empathy, I am so sorry to read this. I am on the completion side of a very similar story: Wife asked for a divorce, I shortly thereafter found out about multiple affairs. I live in NY which is a no-fault state with respect to child custody and adultery. Under tremendous legal advice, I kept my powder dry on the confrontation which was the hardest thing I could ever do- it destroyed me emotionally and physically for two and a half months. We both from the onset said we'd do 50/50 …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/19 03:42 PM