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Something I've found NT's do a lot is confuse agreeableness with empathy. Meaning, they label people who don't agree with them about a subject/opinion as being lacking in empathy. Topics that can be discussed, politics/ethics etc, with the goal of finding a solution or outcome, are usually taken as an impiricial discussion by aspergers/autistic people. Emotions matter, but do not override the evaluation of possible outcomes. I've found NT's misinterpret this as cold, or unempathetic. I hold the …
/r/BlackPillScience27/09/22 06:05 AM
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I think you need to one up this other dude and surprise her with tickets to the hockey game Not a good idea to enter a 'must compete' situation. This guy is obviously trying to get the girl to leave OP for him and getting into a brinksmanship exercise just makes it a disaster overall. This 'colleague' will simply escalate each time and ultimately OP will have expended a lot of capital for her to swing away. I think his response is best as the 'colleague' has to pay for OP and the girl, which rea…
/r/askTRP09/12/13 07:22 AM
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Ultimately hamstering is any attempt to blame someone else for something you did. Hamstering in this case is the rationalization that her reaction to finding condoms was a good thing to do. Explaining her withholding sex with "it just happened", instead of saying to her partner "I'm upset that you don't trust me, can we talk through it?" is her displacing any responsibility for her own actions. Many of the comments are support hamstering because they don't discuss the contribution of the girl in…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 03:27 PM
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A female mind is too wrapped up in it's solipsism to even craft the concept of honor. Each gender uses honor, just in different ways. Women use it for what they can get from it. Men use it as a way of showing they value others. A woman might think she can use the concept of honor to shame a guy into doing something for her, but it doesn't mean honor is a tool of manipulation.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 03:04 PM
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It never happened. Arrange for the next meetup as if nothing had happened. When she raises the topic say you wanted to watch the fight, but don't expand or explain. If she asks how was it, tell her you enjoyed yourself. As it is unusual for you so things short notice there is nothing wrong in this situation. Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. In a week or two, take her on a 'special date' without explanation, the date is her reward for how she is able to brush off minor issues. Then go bac…
/r/askTRP26/11/13 01:29 AM
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I've quoted you in my comment
/r/askTRP24/11/13 05:39 AM
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Why are you afraid of an orbiter? What is it about your interactions that would make your girlfriend want to leave you for a new guy? Are you afraid she is going to next you? If you don't want your girl to hang around other guys don't give her reasons to not hang around you. Being 'mad' or jealous will drive her away because she won't feel safe. (not the 'uncertainty gives me tingles' unsafe, but the 'I'm afraid I'll get hurt' unsafe) If you're 99% sure there is no problem, then there is no prob…
/r/askTRP24/11/13 05:38 AM
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The funniest thing of all is the instant you stop chasing it, it smothers you with attention.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 01:26 PM
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Contrary to some of the advice here Aspergers is not something that can easily be dismissed with flowery words. Aspergers can have an effect, but that affect does not have to be negative. To reach your goal, which seems to be self esteem and confidence, you need to push yourself. Getting fit is a good start, dressing well is better, but none of it has any value if the rest of your existence has no meaning. Something that had great benefit for me when I was a hyper blueballs beta was rock climbin…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 12:25 PM
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Aww crap, in that case I'll have to retract everything!
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 01:24 AM
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There's plenty of reasons to shame him. There is no man in the original article, just a whiny little child who can't control his responses to his emotions. This idiot can't even read his girl well enough to see how his neglect promotes a bad attitude from her. I'll shame and ridicule all I want and I'll support any woman capable of identifying similar childish behavior. To re-iterate; There is need to shame him by calling him a child because no man would behave that way. The original article hol…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/13 01:45 PM
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Your outlook is to achieve. Do a thing because you want to. Do it again to master it. Don't waste time telling anyone how great your thing is, your work will speak for itself. Fulfilment comes when you reflect on a days work and say to your self "I did those things, tomorrow I do more" When you pass, people will remember the things you've done and all will say "He was a great man, he achieved so much" and they will smile with the memories of the things you did.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 12:06 AM
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Rubber baby buggy bumpers.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 02:24 PM
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He might be the crime boss in Last Action Hero.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 01:17 PM
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RecForge Light has a widget mode that I have used a number of times. Because I always have my tablet out anyway nobody suspects that I'm also recording them. And before anyone asks, yes I absolutely have to record the dumb shit people say to protect myself in my work.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 02:56 AM
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does the rhetoric of feminism cause you to be in a similar plight to the average Black American? During WWI feminists shamed males not in military uniform with the intention of forcing them to go die in the slaughterhouse that was trench warfare. This is further evidenced by their drive to implement involuntary draft. This indicates that they had full knowledge of the likelihood that the men they were publicly shaming would die Early feminists specifically and openly called for men to die so wom…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 10:19 AM
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Most guys like to 'teach' so get them to explain what they are doing as they help you. Men prefer practical conversation over emotional, them describing a process as they go though it can be a way of getting through the self protection barrier. You actively listening to them will show that you're worth longer interactions. I always pay my share. Never accept free stuff and dinners. This can backfire. If I take a girl out, I expect to pay, because I'm the one that asked. I prefer that they don't …
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/13 05:26 AM
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If you've ever heard any stories of girls using compliments and other social manipulations to get free drinks at bars, you'd see how male 'defenses' are high and that kind of approach will come off as sketchy. just a familiar friendly face to acknowledge on campus Guys have that with our social circle already; you need to want to be more than that. If you're looking for normal social interaction you'll find it easier in the groups you are around naturally based on your classes and interests. It …
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/13 02:08 AM
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Jim Jefferies has a very amusing comedic bit from a very male perspective. While his phrasing is intended to get laughs, it does highlight how modern women place the burden on men for every aspect of seduction. For women to seduce guys they need to understand that they are responsible for responding to advances from guys. If you don't want anything, shut it down in a way that isn't shaming. This can be done by simply turning your body away from the guy you don't like. If you do like the guy, mak…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/13 08:49 AM
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I've been pondering doing exactly that. I'll start an alt account though, I've been getting some hate in RL from beta stalkers who think I'm a filthy misogynist.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 09:24 AM
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I've been using many of the concepts discussed here in my professional life. Overall it has been resoundingly successful, to the point that female clients have spoken praise of my work, which beforehand was unheard of. I'm doing the same work, getting the same result, the only change is how I interact with them. Understanding the Alpha concepts has completely turned around my interactions with male clients. Before I was so beta it was painful, now people defer to me for things and wait for my re…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 08:43 AM
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He might be Redpill-ish. But he's nowhere as Redpill as Jim Jefferies.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 03:30 PM
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And the most reasonable hypothesis from this particular study is that the differences found remain and continue on into adulthood based on the trend. No it's not. I've read your comment and I hate NAWALT as well but you are a fool bending the data to suit your agenda. Your position that genetics absolutely dictate the intellectual capacity of people is an argument for eugenics. Your a bigot and moron pushing your agenda. I won't be responding to your tripe anymore.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 02:18 PM
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There is no reason to think that this trend will stop, let alone reverse, as people enter into adulthood. It's not a 'that's true but statement'. This is a scientific study, it's results are only pertinent to the range of items being tested. The findings of this study explicitly do not show the capacity of people 60+ years. But it does give indicators into what further research is needed to fill the gap in knowledge, and it allows for scientists to hypothesize and test predictions. It couldn't r…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 01:53 PM
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This only measures adolescents, not post graduate adults. All the results here are only relevant to young adolescents, not the entire population. This study does give a strong indicator into the numerical differences in men and women in STEM fields, but it does not provide evidence that educated adult women cannot do the same work in STEM. Further research should be taken into the influence of societal expectation on gender segregation in the workplace before extending this idea into "women don'…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 02:46 AM
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You're putting a lot of words in my mouth and arguing against a case I am not making. Within a spectrum of competence is to mean that there are men who will excel in traditionally feminine tasks and vice versa, there are always exceptions to any rule. Also the spectrum will show that the bulk of both sexes fall within a similar range of competence as few actually step up to master anything. All of your arguments depend on the concept that the differences between sexes exclude the ability to over…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 08:29 AM
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Are you seriously arguing that there are no neurological differences between women and men? No. But you are arguing that these differences are absolute and not affected by social conditioning. Women are different, but that does not mean that they are incapable. You are consistently making the case that they are not as able as men cognitively. This is where I disagree. My position is that males and females are just as capable as each other (within a spectrum of competence) and that the conditioni…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 03:57 AM
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Almost all the discrepancies you list in numbers are due to socially reenforced segregation. Your using numbers as if they actually have any meaning in this discussion. Yes there are less female chess masters, does that indicate anything apart from a lower participation rate? Lower participation rate =/= lower ability/skill/expertise. I hate to claim NAWALT but I fear I'm leaning towards it in this discussion. Don't pick the numbers, discuss the point as originally stated.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 03:02 AM
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You could do the same for men. History may be littered with notable males, but those that have made significant advances to the betterment of humanity is also a very small number. And my cherry picked list is not the definitive, complete list. The issue of the number of women does not address the main point of my previous comment, which is that this solipsistic attitude of the womyn movement today is not reflective of the historical attitude of equality seeking women of the past. And the subject…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:53 AM
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Discoveries and inventions? Technological innovations? Few and far between. Men created everything you see around you Not so fast, Marie Curie, Ada Lovelace, and Grace Hopper all made major contributions to modern society. Rosalind Franklin also did some pretty impressive work. Yes, the vast bulk of technological advances were discovered by men, but many women were significant contributors before the modern sense of entitlement crept in and gagged any woman who wanted to do things that weren't f…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 12:02 PM
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Dry your eyes cupcake. don't let a random on the internet make you blink twice . Im calm mate, I just think you need to choose your words wisely. While I may take a deliberately antagonizing choice of words, my point is about how you're letting someone else control your frame. One of the things your advice leads towards is the concept of controlling your 'frame' and not letting someone else step in and force you to respond in a way that is negative to your goals. It really doesn't matter what wo…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 02:02 PM
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It wasn't, but I'm amazed at how (seemingly) rational this redacted version is.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 09:13 AM
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There was a short period where /r/upskirts was full of totally creepy no permission photos, but as the sidebar states that type is banned now. Sometimes people confuse their own unwillingness to participate to mean everyone is unwilling to participate and will then run over the choices others make for themselves.
/r/MensRights20/07/13 09:03 AM
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Am I "beta as fuck" if I don't care if I'm being used as a life raft for her to get away from this guy? I've never made her think I love her, and vice versa. I don't understand all the hate in the thread. The only question to ask is; what is the cost? If he gets sex and maybe some arm decoration when going out, but doesn't have to commit to anything to get it, what's the problem? If he decides to stay with her until she 'gets over it' then he's beta, but until then hes just a guy getting some of…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 01:27 AM
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One day we're going to have to get you a podium and a backing choir.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 05:30 AM
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This is a new thing? I've got a female friend that thinks I'm an orbiter, but what's actually happening is I'm using her for free dinners; I play poor in order to allow her 'success' to be waved in my face. While she rambles on about some inane bullshit, I'm actually getting some writing/structure planning done in my head. I've used hamster shenanigans to my advantage for a long time, I just didn't know it had a label.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 12:58 PM
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Alpha is mastery of the self. Even if the sarcasm was missed initially you still hit the mark with that.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 10:53 AM
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Wow, you really are a moron. I don't know what mommy did to you but you got issues. And I don't want to know.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 04:21 AM
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First thing; don't call me an apologist, that's exactly the same kind of thought stopping rubbish as calling someone a misogynist. And posting here about women's issues is certainly not the reason for the sub, but if you completely ignore the inane crap that women do to themselves, you'll never learn how to live without that toxicity poisoning your own life. The poster is asking for the opinion of people who have a perspective that is rarely voiced or given credence to; the opinion of males not …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 02:48 AM
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No. This forum is for people who want to learn about The Red Pill. Man or woman, the purpose is to further knowledge about the specific concepts listed in the sidebar. It may be about men, the audience is not exclusive to men.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 07:40 AM
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I like your assessment. For me one of my wake up moments was just after doing a face forward abseil of a cliff. Some douche tried to "assert his dominance" and my first thought was; I just ran off a cliff face forward, you got nothing punk. After holding a level gaze I walked off. That's when I realised I had what it takes to face any serious issue in my life and now I just stride through chumps as if they weren't there. I don't think it's a confidence derived from achievement, but a confidence …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 07:59 AM
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you got into this relationship to please me, right? That's your problem right there. Until you fix that no other amount of advice will help. Why do you empower women so much by expecting them to please you? Are you unable to please yourself? Do you do everything in your life in based on whether a woman does something for you? A relationship is not a transaction, and the reward is not sex. If all you want from women is sex, pay a prostitute; it's easier, more cost effective and vastly more honest…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 12:54 PM
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These posters are propaganda, and they absolve the people of responsibility and place the burden of protection onto everyone around them, which infantilizes 'womyn' as weak and needing protection. But.... I agree with every word you wrote, but I won't use it as justification for letting a person come to harm, even if they drink so much they can't make sound decisions. Yes some people drink too much and become too intoxicated, but that doesn't mean that they deserve sexual assault or rape as a co…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 07:38 AM
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When I was younger (20ish) I held some really poisonous opinions about this whole topic. I got that way by being a lame, pathetic beta that put females on pedalstools and resented them for not meeting my lofty expectations. I ran that hamster wheel up to some seriously high RPM's and just burnt out. They lie through their fucking teeth about what they are Often they don't know what they are, or what they want. Many humans live in strong denial of their desires. There are many influences that tel…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/13 06:50 AM
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The biggest misunderstanding here is that women continually mistake the nature of porn consumption. Men do not use porn as fantasy/escapism. It is a utility intended to facilitate the reduction or temporary removal of a physical need. To believe that you have to compete with the fantasy represented in porn is actually a projection of the need for fantasy in your own life. The numbers show that even the fantasy of pornography is rather average.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/13 03:04 AM
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Get him thinking about you naked This is pretty much the "Green Light" to a guy that you have a "more than friends" interest. I know a quite a few girls who are very touchy/feely and it took a long time to understand that they weren't hitting on me, so I wouldn't recommend that as a reliable method. A number of comments have "Be attractive" as advice. I know it's sort of joking, but basically a guys definition of "attractive" is breathing, clean and showing a female figure*. So that means shape …
/r/seduction05/12/12 10:10 AM
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There has been a long push to have more women in engineering, so I guess this is a visible result of it? Also, maybe all the guys are all "NOPE - I aint doin no girlie traffic shit". Which is a shame really.
/r/MensRights12/11/11 10:22 AM
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Apparently they are people studying engineering at Uni and the traffic management part is to get them to understand the realities of projects so that they don't design/plan inane things in the future.
/r/MensRights12/11/11 09:59 AM
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