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jack_skellington/r/MensRights29/05/11 01:54 AM
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Literally at the end it shows her passing a sobriety test, the officer drops the drunk charge and only gives her some resisting/eluding charges.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/24 05:55 AM
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https://youtu.be/DTTBWLzQbY0?t=65
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/22 11:52 PM
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I don't think I'd ever disqualify someone for having an affair. However, if there is evidence that the cheater was being spiteful about it, manipulating the victim, and then on top of that was laughing/gloating about it, wow, that's different. I don't know if it's legal to factor that into decisions, but it sure seems like that person is a piece of shit in general, and I don't want to have anything to do with them. Again, I wouldn't feel the same about a "mere" affair. Sometimes people get heate…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/22 12:01 AM
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I doubt it. She doesn't think she's wrong. I heard that she's now writing a tell-all book about her time with Johnny Depp. If she tells all in the same way she did regarding the court case that she just lost, then she will get sued again over the book when it comes out. She's just doubling down, even as she loses, and she's not learning from her mistakes. She's gonna keep repeating them. It's kind of wild. I have a friend who is like this on a small scale. He cannot at all take in any criticism.…
/r/PussyPassDenied14/07/22 03:37 AM
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Snopes: are masks useless? Conclusion: In sum, the varied claims in these viral posts (with their dubious origins) for the most part misrepresented information provided by OSHA and the CDC. Scientific wisdom argues that wearing a mask is more effective than doing nothing, and, combined with social distancing and other safety measures, offers protection not only to the wearer but to others. Given these posts’ combination of only a few correct facts and largely incorrect conclusions, we rate their…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/22 08:06 AM
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I don't even understand that anyway. It's a fucking drawing. It's fiction.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/05/22 07:54 PM
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there are a lot of white knights willing to jump on their own sword for a damsel in distress I mean, isn't that exactly the case for Aquaman? The reason the petition is getting ignored is that the producer, in an interview, said he doesn't care about "internet opinions" or something like that, and that he was keeping Amber Heard so nyah nyah to everyone. Let me find it. Here. The guy, Safran, is apparently is in control of the movie? And he says: “I don’t think we’re ever going to react to, hone…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/22 10:54 PM
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Yep. One characteristic of being borderline is that you don't believe you are borderline. You might admit it when backed into a corner, but mostly you believe "This is bullshit, I'm only admitting this because they suck." That's super-simplistic, and I'm sure an actual psychologist will stop by to chastise me for boiling it down so simply, but since borderline personality disorder involves denial or minimizing of one's own faults, that can include denying the diagnosis itself.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/22 08:30 AM
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In the longer video, he just walks off stage and stops performing. So there is that, he sorta punished her, but... you know... everyone in the audience got punished too. He should be allowed to walk off under harassment, though. Maybe it was for the best.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/22 01:30 AM
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I hope you're not suggesting that the only way we can have a free speech site is to be a haven for underage materials, and therefore we must settle for the shithole we have now. Reddit could allow free speech, drawing the line only at illegal activity -- and not fictional stories about illegal activity, but only actual illegal activity. This would create a site that was free of underage blah blah, while still allowing people to type words without the need to self-censor. This site is so concerne…
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 10:51 AM
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Reddit has gotten so soft these recent years A few years ago, someone was self-censoring in a post. You know, they put in asterisks themselves (it wasn't anything that Reddit did): "This f***ing sucks," or something like that. Anyway, it felt a whole lot like a kid who had been told by his mommy not to swear had finally made a Reddit account, and innocently started posting like that. I replied, "This is Reddit. You know you can swear here, right? No need to censor." Well, last week it happened a…
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 03:53 AM
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Just a sadist with newer magazines I mean... dental torture porn is a real fetish (don't look it up, NSFW &&&&& NSFL), and there are people on both sides (sadist and victim) that would willingly participate. So I don't get why she did things the way she did. She probably could have put out an ad and got a bunch of applicants to willingly allow her to do painful dental procedures with no numbing agents. They would have loved her for the torture. Instead she goes to jail.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/03/22 01:12 AM
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At the time, she had tons of Facebook photos of herself in various states of hotness (well, maybe not "tons" of photos, but 20 to 35). A green bikini, cute shots in her scrubs, a couple thirst traps, etc. The photos were bundled up into an album and circulated on Reddit for a while. Probably all lost now, probably can't even find them online anymore. But at that time it was fun. I could kinda see why she was so entitled -- she wasn't model-gorgeous, but she was the cute one in her friend group, …
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/22 10:04 PM
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broke her window without telling her they were going to Yes. If there is anything I've learned from sovereign citizens and the like, it's that cops cannot break your window without your permission. The officer should have asked, and respected her "no" if that's what she decided! /s
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/22 05:10 AM
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he's apparently sort of a dick on set Meh. His co-stars like him. That's not everything, but it's something.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/21 12:06 PM
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Skip to 4:25 for the actual start of the video.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/08/21 10:36 PM
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Glad to hear that someone actually prevailed from such a shithole situation. Thanks. I should clarify that I didn't really prevail. She walked away with my 401k & other retirement accounts, I walked away with debt. One of the most telling moments was when she and I were arguing, about 4 years into the court battle -- just the two of us, in a waiting room in a court house. And I said that I was sleeping on a cot in my mother's garage because she (my wife) had taken everything from me. And her res…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/21 08:22 AM
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why the fuck are you not helping me? My experience, similar to yours, is that the court functions much like a machine that doesn't care. It's just an endless sea of nameless faceless citizens that are arguing about how to divide up their Pokemon cards in the divorce, and the court is just... fucking whatever. You know? The lawyers are like, "I might as well get paid to do this," and the judges are like, "I guess this is my job," and nobody gives a flying fuck anymore. The only way I got a victor…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/21 07:42 AM
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She should not have said that if he wouldn't pay he was "putting himself in the friend zone," because that implies that paying for her does obligate her to more. I do not think feminism would appreciate what she's doing here. I don't think she realizes the implications of what she said.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/21 05:42 AM
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Pretty damn dark. An abuser giving talks to victims, telling them how to act & behave & recover from being a victim? Almost sounds like a setup or scam -- she'll speak from the perspective of an abuser and make things worse. I hate it.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/05/21 01:01 AM
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I encountered two in my life, and I hated both. One, when I was a kid/teen, was an absolutely beautiful blonde girl. She tried to use me over & over again. She'd ask me for money, ask me to buy her food, ask me to drive her around when I got a car, took some of my family's expensive products and destroyed them, saw me in a grocery store once (maybe two years after graduating high school) and assumed I'd buy her groceries, etc. I remained distant from her almost all of junior high and high school…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/21 10:00 AM
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I mean, that is close to her preferred age.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/21 05:14 AM
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He did. They're divorced.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 08:47 AM
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This is just so pathetic I think that's the takeaway here. The EMT union said they still insist it was sexual assault and they feel the video "speaks for itself." OK, well then I think "pathetic" is the label that the EMTs earn, after watching the video -- both the woman who alleged the charge, and the leadership that backed her charge even after an independent investigation contradicted them. It's very odd & uncomfortable to say that, by the way. My brain is used to thinking "some cops are good…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/21 04:22 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:24 PM
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Here's a link to that comment, in case you want to review it or ask the person for links to proof or something.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:02 PM
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One of the hardest things for some companies to realize is that the blue checkmarks don't buy anything. They're a vocal minority and they cannot keep your product or your business afloat. Yet lots of businesses listen to them, and pay the price. The big one I care about because I'm a Comic Con nerd and anime nerd is... comic books. Superman, Spider-Man used to sell millions back in the 80s & 90s. But at some point it started to feel like comic book authors & publishers cared more about appearing…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 01:57 PM
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Although a reply to that top comment notes that the reason the fans made a stink is because the woman posted on social media that she felt harassed. So the fans didn't just imagine a harassment scenario -- she fed the fire some kindling at the start.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 01:37 PM
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Actually, yes to the upvote. It didn't un-bum me, but my gut was right. She's not really a terrible person. She's just... I dunno... she's missing the mark, she might get better with just a little nudge. I kinda have some sympathy for her. She's not the usual villain we see in /r/pussypassdenied.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/01/21 11:53 AM
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This one kinda bums me out, because her response was not "fuck you" but instead she kinda metaphorically stood on her tippy-toes and said, "Please I can be taller." Oh well. Live by the sword, die by the sword. Still bummed though.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/01/21 09:06 AM
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Thanks for the link. The video seems pretty tame to me, but I'm not from that culture. Maybe for other people it is wild/risque.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 10:44 PM
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Its all the idiots on the internet who ensure it does. Yes. I went to her TikTok page, and she links to her gift registry for the baby, and it shows 15 items on her wish list have already been bought. Granted, they're not super-expensive items; most are around $20 to $60 in value. But this means she's pulled roughly $600 (average) from the simps she's milking. I could understand this if she did something of value, as simple as being incredibly funny on videos, or being incredibly pornographic on…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 02:48 AM
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The right answer is just as you get to make the decision to stay, he gets to make the decision to leave.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/20 03:44 PM
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Why don't we just call her what she really is: the ambassador of abuse. She's an abuser, and anyone using her is putting more abuse into the world. She's furthering the cause of pro-abuse. Call her what she is. Make organizations be ashamed to use her.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/20 10:08 PM
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900k a year That was for the one month. Not a year.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/20 06:26 AM
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Am I really "hurtling toward middle age" at 35? Bitch, you're already in middle age at 35. You're not moving toward it. You're moving through it.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/09/20 09:15 PM
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I don't know. I'd take Notepad++ over WebStorm any day of the week.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/20 12:44 PM
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And before that it was Ghostbusters And after all these films is coming the new James Bond. I've been told that the director (or someone involved) has done some interviews in which they brag that the movie will be "woke" and super heavily focused on the female lead. Apparently she was initially just a gender-swapped 007, but when people objected, they made her 001 or 008 -- I don't recall which. The idea is to make her supplant 007 though, and I just don't see people wanting to pay for that. Man…
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 05:23 AM
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This is the discussion we are having. Not, it's not. You can reframe it all you want, but I am responding to this and only this: Til that boomers rewrote fat people out of reality in nostalgia And my point is that that specific comment is bullshit. That's all. Not engaging in some other discussion you want to have about obesity or whether the girl qualifies. I'm only countering one BS post.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/09/19 04:12 AM
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Actually if you look at studies, we are getting much much fatter. It's not nostalgia. This has a chart showing our actual weights going up over time, and you can extrapolate to earlier on that chart -- back in 1980 when I was a kid, people were even thinner on average than is shown in that chart's earliest point. And this shows some charts about obesity including what our soda drink sizes used to be and now are -- a huge difference. America really is fatter, and maybe the whole world is. I'm not…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/09/19 03:40 AM
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most engineering schools don't even have enough women for them to be the top 10% of the top half Again, agreed. I believe he's full of it. However, if we give him the benefit of the doubt, it could be like this: only consider the top 10% of the school count up the women in that top 10% ...then it's possible. Not likely, but possible. For example, if 10% of people who enrolled overall were women, AND if all 10% were in the top 10% then it would be easy to suggest that the engineering school was d…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/17 10:50 AM
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Agreed. Graduates are publicly disclosed, right? We can simply ask to see which engineering school this was, and get a list of the "top" graduates for a given year. What do we define as "top?" Is it the top 10% or the upper half? I don't know, but I'd like to see a list of engineering schools or departments that have graduates with even just the top 10% being mostly women. That would be interesting. I'm sure it exists. There are all-female schools, after all. But in a mixed-gender engineering sc…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/17 02:27 AM
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Jesus Christ, the ending of that article is brutal.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/06/17 04:30 AM
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Since when do kids pick their parents? My kids did it. They can go to court. There is a 3rd lawyer in family court, called the child advocate. He/she works for free to represent the kids. You are not allowed to get rid of that lawyer, and he/she gets to chime in whenever needed. So your kids can ask to go to court and ask to be with one parent. The courts have listened to the kids as early as age 12 or 13 as far as "I prefer to live with one over the other." The courts will of course listen to a…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/05/17 12:42 PM
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Why are people this stupid? Wouldn't it just be better to admit you did wrong? At least act apologetic for the jury... I think you're right. The OP's article states as much. It says that she asked for leniency and the prosecutors refused due precisely to her refusal to admit wrongdoing or accept responsibility or do anything contrite or remorseful. So I think the fact that it has gone this far is almost entirely her own fault. It was her fault to take the photo. It was her fault to send it to an…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/17 08:59 AM
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You are giving this the serious consideration that it deserves. I approve.
/r/seduction27/09/14 07:21 AM
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Here's something I learned late in life that really surprised me. I was dating a girl after having just ended an 18 year marriage. My new girl was much younger, into gaming and very kinky parties (not orgies or anything, but if she hosted a party and 3 girls ended up topless and making out, well, that was pretty normal for her). So, she invites maybe 100 people to my house for an all-day gaming party, no real start or finish time. People will constantly churn in & out. There is a large TV with 4…
/r/seduction09/08/14 08:06 PM
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Eh, ignore him. When he makes comments like this: The first is that women aren't available. They are. They will be receptive to you talking to them with just a few basics done right. ...it's pretty clear that he's not yet had to experience women shouting, "Ew some old dad just tried to pick up on me!" He preaching a young man's PUA instead of calibrating for the old man's reality. That shit's silly, don't worry about it. You know what you need for your own game. You know it's different at 40+ an…
/r/seduction20/04/14 11:19 PM
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I'm a member of The Geek Club Silicon Valley, Tabletop Gamers, Friday Night Movie Night, Morning Mountain Bikers, and a Silicon Valley singles group whose name I forget. The singles group is the best, but I have to be careful -- they will offer a meetup at a bar and it'll be all 22 year olds. Then they'll offer hiking and it's all 30 year olds. Then they'll offer hot air ballooning and finally it'll be people my age. I have to watch the signups and see what ages are responding, and I only go to …
/r/seduction20/04/14 11:02 PM
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What obstacles did you have? I can't gauge ages as well anymore. And certain flirty behaviors that are welcome from a 25 year old guy are very creepy from a 42 year old guy. For example, I spent a lovely 30 minutes chatting up a beautiful 30something woman -- great fashion sense, pretty long dirty blonde hair, very "regal" and held herself so well -- only to have her mom approach me at the end of the conversation and tell me that if I didn't start running, her husband was going to beat the shit …
/r/seduction20/04/14 07:55 PM
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I'm giving this an upvote. I'm 42, and it took hard knocks to learn that day game is a 20something thing. I can still be friendly and outgoing and do the standard admonition of "talk to everyone." However, rolling that into age-appropriate dating is meh. Much harder than at 21. I do better at planned events. Someone else suggested going to a munch. I don't really do that in particular, but I do have some kinky friends and we have social parties like anyone else would, and that seems to do OK for…
/r/seduction20/04/14 03:28 PM
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My point is that you are not given license to say or do whatever the fuck you want. Where I live, at least in the context of the video under discussion, you absolutely are given license to say & do everything that was in that video. Legally, socially, ethically. And if an accusatory douchebag wants to try to shut down another guy who is being successful with women by goofing off, that douchebag should expect words to be spoken right back at him. And yes, I'm OK with that. And yes, we're "allowed…
/r/seduction31/01/14 07:36 PM
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Toxic relationships are not just "the other person is awful to me." Toxic relationships can be those that are untenable or unlivable. This: "I just ended up sleeping there, with no touchytouchy, fuckyfucky or suckysucky" is unlivable. The OP cannot keep putting himself in those situations. Well, I don't know, maybe he can. However, I would never suggest doing that. Deliberately giving yourself blueballs and torturing yourself emotionally because you have oneitis -- that's bad stuff. It's not hea…
/r/seduction18/10/13 05:41 PM
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I don't know how old AlaskanPotatoSlap is, but, I'm 42 and there is no way in hell I'd take this advice. Part of "growing up" is recognizing toxicity in your relationships, and you don't fucking remain in them as some sort of obstinate "I'll be a man about this" thing. If a relationship is toxic, a grown-ass adult will get right the fuck out. The only adult "difference" is handling: a kid will do the fade; an adult will be up front and help the other person to understand that a fade is coming. E…
/r/seduction18/10/13 02:29 PM
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Describe specifically what your roommate said & did.
/r/seduction10/02/13 10:35 AM
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OK. If you're doing all the seddit stuff, talk about what you've done to address the "Don't be unattractive" rule.
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:39 AM
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Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:31 AM
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What I do doubt is that she thinks Im younger than 24. She's 30. So long as you're of legal age, she doesn't care. She will care if you leave her unsatisfied, though.
/r/seduction27/11/12 06:00 PM
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I think most people in this subreddit (and the author of the article, I suspect) use the term "nice" as defined by the book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy." It's a very popular book in our subculture, and it explains exactly what you're having trouble with: the idea that "nice" people are actually not so nice because they are typically "nice" with strings attached. Strings that even the "nice" person may not be aware of, such as hoping/expecting that the girl notices him after all his friendly gestures,…
/r/seduction02/11/12 08:06 PM
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You're right. Since attempted murder seems nearly as awful as actually pulling it off, I've amended my post and feel it's just fine with the revision. So I stick by my point.
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:40 AM
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But Wahlberg has been charged with attempted murder in real life. I think that gives him a killer instinct that Ferrell doesn't have.
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:41 PM
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:)
/r/seduction10/10/12 07:38 AM
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Homophobic? Dude, I've gargled cock more times than you've been laid, because 1 always beats zero. So I'm not sure who you think you're standing up for, here. You really need to stop being an Internet cop. The pay sucks.
/r/seduction10/10/12 07:11 AM
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You have no sense of humor. Grow a pair. Maybe you could borrow a pair from the guy in your bed. He seems to like giving it to you.
/r/seduction10/10/12 06:58 AM
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Does being a male fashion model help you to bed more dudes, or are you getting about the same amount of cock that you were before the modeling career took off?
/r/seduction10/10/12 06:39 AM
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Yep, I've seen that. Some people are definitely like that. I'm glad not everyone is.
/r/seduction20/09/12 07:24 AM
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Feel free. I bet they don't exactly love the hell out of sexual posts, do they? But yeah, I'm OK if you want to try it. I'd love to see what a more mainstream collection of people think about sexual alternatives to monotony monogamy.
/r/seduction20/09/12 07:03 AM
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You made me laugh. Upvotes!
/r/seduction20/09/12 06:56 AM
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Hi. I'm Jack. I'm a threesome addict. I'll give you the usual advice: 1) be attractive; 2) don't be unattractive. Now for the extra. First, as a typical part of seduction, use kino. But not just "go for the kiss" -- I mean, assume that a threesome is normal and that she desires it, and then just go about doing it without talking her out of it by questioning her and double-checking with her and triple-annoying her. Twisting another part of seduction, use your value. This is not "do I add value by…
/r/seduction20/09/12 06:18 AM
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To help you fairly assess your time (and whether your clock should be "ticking"), for me personally, I was fine to get divorced at age 38. Women in their 30s were starting to look to settle down and I got to date a bit, even considering that I had not needed "game" for 20 years. They were fine with me being 38, and them being 29/32/whatever. However, I'm now 41, and it's a bit different. A chunk of women on dating sites have disappeared for me, because lots of women put their cutoff at age 39 or…
/r/seduction16/09/12 07:39 AM
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I've gotten mad at her for this, explained that she needs to learn respect. We've fought many times over the same issue without knowing what the REAL issue was, which I think is her view of ME as a MAN. I don't think it's going to work to put "you should view me as a man" on someone else. In fact, I think that's kind of unmanly. I think you'll have far more success viewing yourself as a man, and letting others respond to that. If you're having trouble with it, maybe it's time to look at how men …
/r/seduction14/09/12 08:20 AM
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Happy cake day. :)
/r/seduction10/03/12 11:36 PM
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This comic phases me not at all. It's inaccurate and misrepresents what is intended by those here. More than that, it tries to portray people who want help with women as hopeless, when in fact we've seen exactly the opposite. Too many times, the lessons here have helped a shut-in to get out, or helped a virgin to finally get a date at age 30 or whatever. So, screw XKCD. He got it wrong. I'm going to give zero fucks about this, and continue improving.
/r/seduction10/03/12 09:14 AM
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did I fail the shit test by failing to ask her to join me? I guess I'll just ask her when I see her and it comes up again. Sure, ask her later if it comes up. Just keep in mind the common themes in every response I had. 1) I don't beg or even really ask her on the date -- I state what I'm doing and say that she can come along. This makes it less of a question and more of a statement. 2) I have a plan that she might enjoy, or else a plot is being hatched right there. I really wouldn't quite ever …
/r/seduction29/01/12 04:56 AM
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No, seriously, TheDukeDevlin has the correct answer. She's asking because she's interested in your plans specifically. So the correct answer is, "I'm hanging out with you." Most of the time, that's the right answer. However, it is true that "hanging out" is not what a person often thinks of as "OMG awesome must be there!" So you can flavor your answer. Add in your hobbies. "I was thinking about trying the local archery range, or just spending the night inside watching movies at my place. Why? Do…
/r/seduction29/01/12 03:12 AM
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Its a really hot chick. Why should I start the process over on someone else when I can salvage this one? Because that's starting to lean toward one-itis. Not really, of course, as it's just some girl in a bar. But you're fixating on her. Let it go. Find a way to get your heart & mind to be happy with the other hot chicks in the bar. Go talk to those women. Also, since we're tossing around the alpha flags, I would note that the very alpha guys I've seen do not salvage rejections -- they move righ…
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:35 PM
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Yeah, you do. Triobot is right. You are too close to this; you don't see how it looks to those of us reading your posts. We see a guy with a multi-year crush pining for a girl who has encouraged him to date other people. You're in deep. EDIT: You can downvote me, and triobot, but it won't change the truth. Sorry. :(
/r/seduction28/01/12 10:04 PM
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She just stares at me deadpan and says "Don't fucking touch me! Don't fucking talk to me motherfucker! Get the hell away from me and go kill yourself!" Dude, this says more about her than it says about you. Seriously. There is very little more to say about this. There is very little that can be done to help any bruised ego over this, because it really is just that simple: she had a million ways to interact with you, and chose one of the most horrible, negative ways possible. That's on her. Why a…
/r/seduction28/01/12 09:52 PM
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No, that's the kind of charm to use when something is starting, not the thing you say when you need to end things with a girl who is treating you like a yo-yo.
/r/seduction28/01/12 09:06 PM
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Damn, that's good.
/r/seduction28/01/12 09:04 PM
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OP, I know you started this topic to discuss how "not giving a fuck" you are. But I'm getting a very different read from what you posted. Let's talk. HOUR AND A HALF LATER What transpired during that hour and a half? Let's look at that, shall we? OTHER GUY: "Hey." HER: "Good news! I dumped him! Ha ha!" OTHER GUY: "Wow." HER: "Yeah, now I'm all yours! lol" OTHER GUY: "I think we need to take a break." HER: "WHAT?" OTHER GUY: "Yeah, I just wanted a fuck buddy. This is getting too serious. Thanks. …
/r/seduction28/01/12 08:32 AM
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Well, my experience there was frustrating, as usual. This is the 3rd or 4th time I've interacted there, and each time, the person I interact with will not understand what I'm saying, in a way that just perfectly leaves it to them to assume the worst possible intentions or outcome. It's like they want to find negative things even when there isn't a negative thing there! I keep saying "that's not what I said and not what I meant," and they continue to say "You said it and meant it!" I hope the mis…
/r/seduction27/01/12 06:27 AM
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"Hey, I'm heading out to dinner and then to The Comedy Factory on Friday night. I want you to join me."
/r/seduction16/12/11 06:23 AM
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I don't know what the "right" answer is according to /r/seduction or anything, but if it's a one-on-one conversation, I know that I love those silences. They are the breakfast of champions. They are the moment that you look the girl in the eyes, comfortable with the silence, and she knows that you want her. It's not just the eyes, but the smile. I love that kind of contact. Do it just right -- absolutely not creepy, please! -- and the two of you will fill the silence in ways that don't involve t…
/r/seduction16/12/11 05:41 AM
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Ha ha! Thanks. Just between us, the "fallout" from the post has been wonderful. Lots of cute Redditors starting up messages to me privately, and one in particular is so much fun. I wish she lived anywhere near me. I'd be there in a second. -Jack
/r/seduction16/12/11 02:31 AM
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To be honest, when I read the article, my feeling was not "wow, guys are bad and we all should really stop approaching women," but rather, "wow, she's kinda not handling things very well, and probably isn't representative of the kind of women I'd like to be with, so I can't take what she wrote as advice for either gender." I mean, if anything, it kinda makes me want to approach more just as the male version of a shit-test, to weed out the skittish and those ill-prepared for male/female interacti…
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:46 AM
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Thank you! Upvote for you.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:25 AM
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I'm really grateful for this post for one reason in particular: you're in your late 30s. I'm used to reading from guys in their 20s. Since I have you here, I'd love to get input from you on one front. Namely, how are you getting laid twice a week? I don't mean, "teach me the skills that /r/seduction teaches," but rather, what are age-appropriate places for a late-30s guy? Are you getting laid by doing the usual club routine and then just taking home younger women? Or did you find a good way to t…
/r/seduction15/12/11 02:12 AM
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This: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFWGOKuFyjk Amended by this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PuSyX2d1tbY
/r/seduction10/12/11 07:55 PM
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Woo hoo! Great stuff!
/r/seduction10/12/11 03:01 AM
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I must be getting old. I still remember the previous time someone made a video like this. It was done by Billy Crystal.
/r/seduction09/12/11 05:53 AM
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Here's the thing. If I'm in a situation similar to that, my impression is that I'm just a tool being manipulated to her own ends. Those ends serve no use to me -- she already doesn't value me, and capitulating will not raise value. In fact, capitulating confirms to her that I'm OK to be devalued. So, my impression is that: 1) giving in cannot win, and 2) I wouldn't want to anyway, as she's a user. I don't like being with people like that. And suddenly, when I realize I don't want her, I lose all…
/r/seduction25/11/11 01:17 AM
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Heightened testosterone from lack of masturbation Testosterone hits 145% of baseline after 7 days of absinence The reason you may "hear this a lot" (especially on Reddit) is that 4 months ago Reddit collectively learned about this Also, testosterone is a motivating source, which may be partly where the "don't masturbate and you'll do better with women" school of thought comes from. If not masturbating increases your horny male caveman-ism, and if it also increases your desire to get out and meet…
/r/seduction16/11/11 07:25 AM
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Of all the suggested replies, this one, with no upvotes, is the best I've seen. It exudes inner game without insulting her or being petty. Well, I guess there is an implied "Oops you got our relationship wrong; I was just fucking ya" statement. However, that's less insult and more "I'm over you already, moving on." I like that.
/r/seduction16/08/11 10:49 AM
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I was dating Redditor vampire_kitty last year. She's polyamorous, so having multiple lovers is normal to her. Also, that means having multiple people vying for her time, and potentially getting jealous, is something that is so "normal" for her to manage that it's almost boring. She made it clear that when we go out together, I can expect her to give me attention, and that other people don't get to distract her from that. She made it clear that she expected the same from me. At one point, I was g…
/r/seduction24/07/11 10:48 PM
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I'm glad you posted. I think it was a good read; helpful, even. Thanks.
/r/seduction24/07/11 10:33 PM
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Ugh. Is it a joke that all those responses are terrible? Are they deliberately bad? Am I humor impaired? Anyway, the best way to handle this, IMHO, is to say, "I'm dating, not exclusive with anyone." It's honest, it doesn't try to justify or explain any weird "open relationship" thing, and frankly, doesn't even allow the woman to make it her business. It's just synonymous with, "I am not cheating, and any confessions beyond that are none of your business, thankyouverymuch." If a woman pushed for…
/r/seduction21/07/11 09:26 AM
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Right! :)
/r/seduction16/07/11 06:50 AM
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A proper alpha would have just dumped the logs instead of playing this timid "May I?" thing. What you have right now here is just a waste of space. Do or do not.
/r/seduction16/07/11 06:42 AM
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Um, no, they don't. Unless they want a relationship. Because that's what you just described. I'm so glad you wrote this, because her comment stood out to me too, and I think you've found the reason he's not replying. She says she doesn't want "tie downs" but describes what she wants as pretty much a normal relationship. Frankly, if a woman said to me that she wanted no tie downs, I'd think yay until she followed up with, "I want to have someone that I can be good friends with, do things with....…
/r/seduction16/07/11 06:22 AM
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Just keep your head down, make those kids your priority, and stay away from crazy. Don't overthink this. Stay away from crazy.
/r/seduction10/06/11 03:04 PM
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I don't agree that "who cares" is "stupid shit." It's a legitimate question. Why should anyone care if you ragequit because you don't like it? Do you imagine that you're bringing up good points that we could learn from? Well, you're not. Your points illustrate that you don't understand the PUA community, and that you don't understand the "unsubscribe" and "make your own sub-reddit" options. There is nothing to learn from your tantrum other than that you're right, you really need to go. This isn'…
/r/seduction05/06/11 06:20 PM
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Thanks for the reply. A couple of people in this topic have asked about any "warning signs" I saw, and there were a few, but greed wasn't prevalent. She never appeared to be a gold-digger. I guess maybe my potential for success caused her to latch on, and maybe I could have looked at that as an indication that she was all about money, but really, at the time I married her we were still in college. There was no money to grub. Just the maybe promise of it. It's hard to see a gold digger when there…
/r/MensRights30/05/11 11:27 AM
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I'm sorry for your situation. I appreciate that you wrote it out for me. Upvote for you. And good wishes.
/r/MensRights30/05/11 11:13 AM
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Looking back on your entire relationship, did you see any warning signs that it might come to this? Hindsight is 20/20. I could have noted that her mother was a hateful, prideful Christian who didn't live up to the teachings of her faith, and would almost certainly stir up trouble. In addition, I might have predicted that the old cliche "you become your parents" would apply to my ex, even though she hated her mom. I think what I wrote here about her lying was a warning sign. Also, I was slightly…
/r/MensRights30/05/11 10:48 AM
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Guys can get alimony. My dad has a male friend who has enjoyed alimony from his ex-wife for years. In my case, my ex filed a petition with the court stating that because she was trying to grow a psychology business from the ground up, she should be exempt from paying any to me, should the tables turn. I don't know where that is in terms of court approval. It's just one of many filings.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 08:13 AM
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Thanks for the hint about the subreddit. I don't think I want to leave, but I'll bookmark it to keep my options open.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 07:55 AM
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Thank you so much! I'll check it out now! Have an upvote.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 07:34 AM
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For the wrong reasons. Some good ones too, but mostly just wrong. I was a Christian, and I believed in saving myself for marriage. However, I was also horny, and she was a model. So, you can imagine as a 19 year-old guy, horny as hell and with a very pretty girl brushing up against me constantly, I was eager to propose. And I have to admit that she did many wonderful things for me in the beginning. She was funny and helpful. She liked to stay in bed with me in the mornings on the weekends and ju…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 07:33 AM
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She had an affair with her karate instructor, then had an affair with her "Team in Training" trainer (I found out when the Team In Training people posted the photos from their celebration on Facebook, and tagged her in them, and she wasn't wearing her wedding ring, and she was making out with the guy, drunk). She told me that it was my fault because I worked long hours (I worked roughly 50 hour weeks; on average, I missed probably 3 of 5 dinners during the work week, coming home later in the eve…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 06:39 AM
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Good point. Thanks!
/r/MensRights29/05/11 06:16 AM
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Thanks. I don't know what I should tell the kids (or not) because I don't want them to feel dragged into an ugly divorce and feel pressured to take sides. That could backfire on me. At the same time, I'm admittedly feeling a bit overwhelmed with how badly things have gone over the last few months, and maybe I don't have a lot of options any more. I appreciate the suggestions.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 06:06 AM
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Thanks!
/r/MensRights29/05/11 06:02 AM
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But that is a terrible state for the legal system and divorced people to be in! I don't understand how this could have happened. How can the legal system think that driving one person to poverty over another is good? I'm really confused by this, and bummed to see that you're about the 5th or 6th person to list "leave the country." Nobody lists "fight it in court and get justice legally!" It's like that doesn't happen. This is... blarg. I mean, I really appreciate the input because if those are t…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 06:02 AM
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I wish you were my ex. I've asked and she absolutely will not adjust. She's asking for more, actually. :(
/r/MensRights29/05/11 05:56 AM
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I'm not sure what you can and cannot afford to do, but it seems to me that having her take 60% of your income means that she relies on it far more than you do. I'm really embarrassed to admit this, humiliated even, but she needs it not at all. Her father is a millionaire -- he liked finding busted companies here in the valley, joining on as the CEO for only stock options in salary, and then when he turned around the company he would sell the stock for a huge windfall, and then find another compa…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 05:54 AM
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Yes, my lawyer is FREAKED about my job. He worries that if I ever go before a judge and I am jobless or ask for a reduction, odds are good that things will get worse not better. Again, I don't know if my lawyer is actually being reasonable when he says things like that, but it does seem to line up with some things I've seen about how trying to get any edge at all can really hurt you in court.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 05:49 AM
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Thanks! I currently suck at doing things freelance off the books. I just don't know people who are OK with that kind of thing. I'm used to working for large corporations that pay well but are 100% straight-and-narrow. I did just befriend an accountant. I'll take your advice and ask him for ideas.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 05:46 AM
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I have asked her for less. She actually ran the family finances, so she knows intimately how much we can afford, and she knows that what she's taking is forcing me into the red. Her response was, "When you file for bankruptcy, be sure to put all the debt into your name only, so that the kids & I can start a new life." She really doesn't care. Importantly, she doesn't feel that her approach is hurtful or wrong, either. She feels that if the law allows it, then she's a perfectly reasonable person …
/r/MensRights29/05/11 05:43 AM
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Thank you tons! If you have a house that you share, how does that work when you have your kids? Is the house big enough for all? Does the person(s) you're sharing it with have a problem with kids being in the house?
/r/MensRights29/05/11 05:40 AM
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Thank you. That's disheartening, but at least getting a second opinion, however short and imperfect, helps.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 05:35 AM
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Thanks! I'm already looking at bigger places online right now, and in some cases you are right. I think getting a bigger place and splitting might be the way to go. Maybe we could even crowd in the boys into one "boys room" and the girls into their own "girls room." We might be able to get away with a 4 bedroom house that way. Still nervous about moving in with a random dad & kids, who might be psycho, but looking into it all the same. I appreciate the ideas & thoughts!
/r/MensRights29/05/11 03:51 AM
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Thank you! I'm not suicidal, but I am grateful to finally have the name of an organization for divorced men. Upvote for you. I read the 2006 article on the service, and it was disheartening. Someone said that any man who gives up and leaves obviously never actually cared about the kids. That seems horribly unfair, like kicking a guy when he's down. I love my kids a lot, but if the system makes it so that I cannot physically live, then I don't know what to do. That's not because I'm all about mon…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 03:47 AM
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You obviously know that I put her through school, and you can probably guess that she did the traditional dumping a month after finally passing all the exams and being certified. My lawyer says that because she has no income, there is "no potential community gain" from her degree, and therefore, no claim that the community expense should be reimbursed. So it's just $75k I spent on her that my lawyer won't try to get back. He's sure it will fail in court. I have no money left to hire a new lawyer…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 03:28 AM
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You are paying for kids that are not yours?!?!? Jesus, I feel badly for you. Thanks for posting, if only to make me feel better about my own situation. Also, you have helped. You have illustrated that it may be better just to bail instead of fighting in court. My agreement with my ex is actually still not finalized, and I have lost about $20,000 fighting it over the last 2 years. I keep fighting because I keep hoping, but if it's going to end badly, maybe I should just concede and walk. I don't …
/r/MensRights29/05/11 03:26 AM
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I can hardly believe it myself. It's why I'm asking around now. I talked to a divorced dad last night who pays $800/month for child support and nothing more, yet he makes twice what I do. Of course his wife has some income, around $60k. From what he said, if the spouse makes a decent wage, even if it's way lower, the courts sorta assume she can survive without taking much. I have no idea how to get that deal. My ex has a PhD in Psychology, but she refuses to work.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 03:07 AM
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Moving back in with my parents will happen at the end of June. However, they're a few hours away. It's fine for now -- I see my kids one week on, one week off, so I can just drive to get them and keep them for my week. However, once school starts back up after Summer break, I can't drive 3 hours to drop them off at school each day. So I've got this tiny Summertime window to figure out how to afford to be in Silicon Valley. If I can't do it, I have to give up my kids. I really want to avoid that.…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 02:55 AM
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In California, the lawyers defer to a software program called the "Dissomaster." It takes the wages each side has and "evens" it. She makes $4000/year. I make $100,000/year. It makes it even. However, it allows for one side to plead for burdens. In her case, when she moved out, she quickly moved to a more expensive area with even bigger rent costs. The court figured that in and said that to maintain her lifestyle, she needed more. In addition, the court agreed to charge it going back to even bef…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 02:49 AM
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I have heard -- just through 2nd-hand stories, though -- that almost all countries are very eager to garnish and extradite divorced dads, across borders. I don't know if it's true, I've just heard it repeated a lot, sort of as a warning (like, "don't you try to escape by moving, cause they'll get ya and penalize ya for trying.") I would love to hear from any parents that did in fact move away. Did the courts frown on it? Were you punished for it? EDIT: This post got voted... down? What did I say…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 02:44 AM
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The 60% includes both child support and alimony. We were married 20 years. My lawyer said that for all practical purposes, I should assume that I will pay alimony "forever." Obviously not, but he wants me to understand that I won't get out of it for years & years. I don't know if that's true, but that's what he expressed. If you have any experience with this stuff, what do you think of that?
/r/MensRights29/05/11 02:42 AM
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Of all the ways you could have disagreed with my post, this was the best. I fully agree. However, I suspect that the nuances of your point will be lost, and I also suspect that if he does this, she will be just fine to lose him. So if he does it, he does it knowing that she is forever lost to him. Still, if I were in his shoes, I'd do it.
/r/seduction25/05/11 05:05 AM
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Bulk up, become a stud. That's the only way. If you won't do that, then the answer is a solid no. There is no possible way.
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:42 PM
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Work out for an hour in the morning and an hour in the evening, 5 or 6 days a week? That's what she's asking for. If you supposedly want to save the relationship, you'll do it. And you'll figure out how to clean yourself up -- get your hair cut exactly the way she likes it, groom your beard or lack of it exactly as she likes, get your chest and genitals waxed or shaved or however she likes it, and start dressing to impress. However, I suspect what you really want to hear is a way to save it with…
/r/seduction24/05/11 01:09 PM
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I think you're turning what might have been a one-time thing into more. Leave it alone for a while. I don't mean shun him, but I do mean stop suggesting dates to get together. Let him do that. If it takes him a month, well, then it takes him a month. If a month from now you're no longer interested, well, that's the risk he took. I have a friend who I will booty call, but probably only once or twice a year. We make a weekend of it, have fun, and then don't do much together for a while afterwards.…
/r/seduction20/05/11 06:08 AM
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They understand a little, and sympathize a little. When my ex moved out, she hauled off almost everything, until my daughter said, "Mom, we still have to live here. Please leave something for us!" So they understand that their mom is greedy to the point that she'll forget about the feelings or needs of others. However, when she buys them expensive gifts, it obviously messes with their feelings.
/r/MensRights09/11/10 06:50 PM
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I pay more than half my income to child support & alimony, even though I have the kids half time myself. So apparently, while they are with their mother, the courts feel they should be taken care of better than when they are with me. I wish I could pay only $500 a month. The same week I had to cancel my life insurance because I could no longer afford it, is the same week my son got a new bike & skateboard from his mom.
/r/MensRights08/11/10 07:50 PM
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Sadly, I'm very similar to one of the guys described in this article. I've been financially ruined. My ex just shrugs. When I told her I had to declare bankruptcy, she replied, "Well, move everything into your name only before you do, so that I can make a fresh start with my kids." She doesn't care what harm she's inflicting; in fact, seems to delight in it. She has repeatedly shrugged off my efforts to cry uncle, and instead just said, "It's legal, so I'm allowed." What's worse, we live in a no…
/r/MensRights08/11/10 05:45 PM
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