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It’s your life, we never know when our time on earth will be over. But I will say that even to keep one single woman interested for an entire relationship, you have to keep reaching for new heights and improving yourself. The game never stops, you can never relax
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 01:01 AM
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Being “fine” with just being “content”… does that sound like a meaningful way of living life? This is usually the scarcity mindset of clinging to the one girl that has chosen you in any way, instead of actively pursuing higher states of living and improvement, and abundance. Being fine and content with old married couple energy is the death of a man’s soul
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:37 PM
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Happy in a marriage is a relative term. Yes you have someone to come home to, tell things to, travel with. That can be great. But you also get bored to death of them eventually, no matter how great they are. Then the spark/desire wanes, and even though you have a great frien and roommate (in the best of marriages) you will feel like a beta chump because you aren’t getting passionate sex or pursuing and conquering. Her sexual strategy wins, yours loses
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 05:45 PM
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You’re right, everybody fantasizes about others and has sex dreams about random people. But if she’s no longer fantasizing about you (the most classic tale of marriage) that’s not the role I wanna play. I’d rather be lusted after, the object of desire, wild free and single, than the safe provider teddy bear husband who gives her back rubs for an occasional unenthusiastic blowjob. That is the death of the masculine spirit
/r/TheRedPill11/11/22 05:04 PM
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There is no “destination” other than maybe death. Marriage and kids is no destination. Spinning plates is no destination. We just wake up every morning with desires and needs, many times ever changing, and we do our best to optimize our lifestyle for those parameters. However, perhaps the most important thing is the freedom to pursue this optimization process. Where redpill comes in. Don’t trap yourself, and have the skills to optimize freely
/r/TheRedPill10/11/22 05:13 PM
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Well the alternative is getting married, becoming congruent with the feminine imperative to “keep” her, losing her genuine attraction, slaving as her utility, and laying in bed next to her wanting to kill yourself as she cuddles up to you and has sex dreams about the guy she banged in college
/r/TheRedPill10/11/22 05:04 PM
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You should care what people think of you. Your self identity is based off of what people think and reflect back to you, it's hardwired into our brains, no matter what self help book tells you otherwise. It's comfortable to not give a fuck, it feels good only because it releases you of the burden of improving yourself. You will only truly feel good about yourself to your core when your desired identity is frequently reinforced and reflected back to you, by those around you. You must win amongst o…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 05:00 AM
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Strong emotions are always a hair's width away from arousal. Not much more of a strong emotion than jealousy from your wife fucking a better man in front of you. Stirs an extreme emotion which can be weaponized into extreme arousal. The reason it's possibly more popular now is that there are a lot of weak men who want to be dominated by their wife
/r/MGTOW29/07/21 01:05 AM
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Her anger and life regret is just absolutely palpable
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 01:42 AM
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You told her you were the prize? Wrong move. You should never communicate something like that directly, it should come across indirectly by the way you treat her. Misstep man
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 10:08 PM
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I think it's a fucked up complex. Sons can sometimes provide the masculine energy in their mother's life, in which case a part of her attaches in an unhealthy way. Especially single mothers or mothers with unavailable husbands
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 03:47 PM
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Because she wants to keep you as her child, and not see you become a man who takes care of a woman other than her. I know it sounds crazy but your mom will become jealous of the other women in your life. Female nature.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 03:19 PM
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Lol I'm sure you do
/r/MGTOW27/05/21 08:05 PM
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Hookup culture ruined any value you had to us. So we have to find value in other things now. We don't hate women, they just aren't appealing anymore for relationships.
/r/MGTOW27/05/21 03:56 PM
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To preserve your self agency. It's really that simple.
/r/MGTOW15/05/21 03:34 AM
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Discovering true human nature. They are opportunistic, just like every living thing on this planet. No, I have a girlfriend who knows we won't marry or live together ever. We're just temporary lovers.
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 03:00 AM
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Go low carb, but not keto. Lots of lean meats, little bit of dairy, small portions of whole grains, protein shakes with blended fruits, and plenty of healthy fats. If you need dessert, just grab a square of 70% dark chocolate. Stop drinking coffee/stimulants. Take a multi vitamin, and additional trace minerals so you get plenty of zinc and boron. Take apple cider vinegar before each meal. Lift as heavy as you can go for 12 reps of any given exercise, working out 3-5 days a week. Squats, deadlift…
/r/MGTOW22/02/21 05:15 AM
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Dogecoin.
/r/MGTOW04/02/21 12:38 AM
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You can't just work hard, you have to work smart.
/r/MGTOW01/02/21 10:56 PM
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Peace. Of body and mind.
/r/MGTOW31/01/21 03:23 PM
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How a girl wishes to see herself, and presents herself, is always different from who she is, and what she'll do. They are opportunistic, not virtuous.
/r/MGTOW30/01/21 03:45 PM
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You derive all of your self worth from relationships. Mistake number one. If you want to get rid of that you need to swear off women and accomplish things that make you fall in love with yourself, instead of getting back into a relationship and trying to get that self destructive drug back again. It will be painful and lonely breaking yourself of that bondage but you have to do it. By the way that girl you were with sounds like she was using you for money and attention, was likely seeing other g…
/r/MGTOW08/01/21 03:52 PM
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From experience, just because she's slept with a bunch of dudes doesn't mean she's good in bed. Pillow princess even after a body count of over 20.
/r/MGTOW26/12/20 05:38 PM
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Spot on
/r/MGTOW26/12/20 03:55 PM
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They don't want to come across as sluts. Because no high value man wants to wife a slut.
/r/MGTOW26/12/20 03:01 PM
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Ex officios
/r/MGTOW26/12/20 03:10 AM
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I dated a girl like this. Was mostly timing that allowed it to happen. She came out of a LTR and was one of those girls that couldn't be alone for long. Needed male validation like it was oxygen. Never was single for more than a month in her life. I was at the right place at the right time. And I'm a superficially high value male .. rich, tall, fit, big cock. Dated her for 3 years. Then when the good initial feelings were gone, all that was left was for her to suck my resources dry... she became…
/r/MGTOW26/12/20 03:04 AM
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It gets boring. The validation, the excitement, it fades over time. And you're just left with a bunch of actresses trying to sap your time and money. If you have any ambitions outside of sex, you realize a quick wank and back to your projects is the way.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 03:54 PM
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MGTOW is really the end game of red pill. You're two steps ahead of this subreddit, you need to head over to MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 04:08 PM
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I've taken the dog pill. If she's got a dog, run.
/r/MGTOW22/12/20 02:52 PM
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Nothing you described is anything like a real human relationship. Yes if you have a relationship with a woman it should be beneficial to you, but you described a robot. You just need a sex robot.
/r/MGTOW22/12/20 02:38 PM
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One for cuddles, money, stability, and security, that she can control. One for excitement, fucking, abuse, and drama, that she can't control. Which one do you want to be? The correct answer if you have anything else important to do in your life, is neither.
/r/MGTOW17/12/20 10:38 PM
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She'll cheat on you for being too critical, with the first coworker who "accepts her for who she is" and makes her feel special. Not to mention after about a year or two of fucking I'll get bored of her anyway. Were all different, I can tell you're at least redpilled but this sub supports the exact opposite of commitment. A downvote is just a disagreement anyway, it's not like your comment was deleted. You weren't censored you were just disagreed with. I'm sure there is some Machiavellian strate…
/r/MGTOW17/12/20 08:13 PM
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It's a subreddit for living a free life and you came in supporting the opposite, of course you got downvoted. It sounds like you still have a fantasy about what adult life is like. I've dated many girls that paid for half while we were dating. Expectations change after marriage, the mask comes off, and she will expect things from you she never did during the phase she was trying to win you over. Maybe not even the first year of marriage, but slowly the bar is raised until you no longer recognize…
/r/MGTOW17/12/20 03:10 PM
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Because underwhelming hookups and serving as an ATM utility for a used up adult-child is... not wasting time? Nah these are your prime mental years. Develop, build, create. Do your hobbies. No worse existential crisis than the one you'll get just sticking your dick in a warm hole.
/r/MGTOW17/12/20 02:19 AM
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Every man has different needs. MGTOW simply says don't be a simp. Don't cohabitate and don't marry, don't become a lifeless utility for a blood sucking woman. Stop drinking. Work on your diet. Get your testosterone checked, boost your testosterone and dopamine with natural supplements. Date casually but never get attached beyond what you're willing to lose
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 06:21 PM
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Don't stay in a miserable relationship that holds you back. Be selfish. And don't feel bad about it. It's your life, you don't get any brownie points at the end of it for being nice
/r/MGTOW15/12/20 12:07 AM
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They also divorce, 90% of them. Could be publicity, staying relevant, shared work style. Doesn't matter, they almost all end, and never seem genuine
/r/MGTOW11/12/20 06:32 PM
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Oh this is a good one. These girls don't even really care for the dogs they just want cuddles so they think they're not alone. Kind of like how they treat men.
/r/MGTOW09/12/20 10:53 PM
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Nah. This isn't 4chan this is MGTOW, there are actual well functioning adults here. This level of immature hate doesn't belong here.
/r/MGTOW09/12/20 06:09 PM
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https://amp.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/k9o87a/24m_my_girl_of_5_years_fucked_my_her_best_friends/
/r/MGTOW09/12/20 04:36 PM
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I don't agree with these summaries of red/black so hard to vote here
/r/MGTOW08/12/20 10:50 PM
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What does it say about relationships if the more time we spend together, the less we want to be in them?
/r/MGTOW08/12/20 07:56 PM
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Should be noted he's severely depressed, despite being married and having kids and likely following most of his own advice. He's a smart guy, lots of great insight, but his approach to life is idealogical rather than based in reality
/r/MGTOW08/12/20 05:16 PM
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The war of the sexes is just beginning
/r/MGTOW08/12/20 04:51 PM
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Don't take yourself so seriously. It's not about perfection it's about improvement. If you were perfect today you'd have nothing to get better at and that life would be miserable. Getting better is where all the fun is
/r/MGTOW08/12/20 12:51 AM
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Hit the gym. It will catalyze all of the other goals you have for yourself.
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 09:32 PM
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Most traits that we hate in women exist within ourselves as well. Better to just stay out of it altogether and keep things light
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 05:39 PM
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She can't go to work and flirt with her co-workers, can't get time away to text her alpha, can't hide her phone
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 03:12 PM
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"I'm tired of having to be an adult, time to get a rich beta to take care of me while I flirt with my real crushes on the side" Welcome to 2020
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 01:14 AM
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You have to make a hard choice. There is no right or wrong answer, it's up to you. If it were me, I'd finish my degree, get a remote source of income, and travel. While talking often to your father. Your dad shouldn't hold you back, it's your turn to live your life.
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 12:32 AM
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Women's words will speak to who they want to be. Their actions speak to who they are. Remember that.
/r/MGTOW04/12/20 11:40 PM
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You're right. It's not a need. But it is a want, and if it minimally impacts your life to get off, then get off. Not every man has to be a stoic
/r/MGTOW04/12/20 11:17 PM
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You don't get married to the doll. It's a sex toy. And it's not about being "the same" as a woman. It's about satisfying the urge enough with the minimal amount of risk. Sex doesn't run my life, I need the release, then I get back to doing things that are constructive to the life I want to live. A sex doll can provide a nice release. You won't get the temporary oxytocin, and bonding, and intimacy you get with a woman, but you also won't ruin your entire life as a utility for an aging hypergamous…
/r/MGTOW04/12/20 11:13 PM
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Your receptors or production could be off to the point you need more than just a dopamine cleanse. Try exercise and natural dopamine supplements, look into nootropics, if you're still anhedonic then look into dopamine agonists or something stronger. Your body is just a complex machine, sometimes you have to fix it yourself
/r/MGTOW04/12/20 03:02 PM
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Exercise and natural supplements. If still nothing you're doing feels good, dopamine agonists or other dopamine receptors medications, do a shit ton of research
/r/MGTOW04/12/20 02:59 PM
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Supplement your dopamine receptors. They will give you greater feelings of reward for the productive things you do. Have an end goal of setting up a relaxing life that rewards your body and mind with healthy hedonic experiences
/r/MGTOW04/12/20 04:29 AM
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I just need an acceptable release then back to my work. Sex dolls will be there pretty soon. If I have to invest the time/money/risk into a real girl I'm just not disciplined enough. Don't let dopamine run your life.
/r/MGTOW30/11/20 09:30 PM
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You've cast your black pill on every possible life choice... if you can't be happy you must logically reason that nobody else can be either. It's called projection and it's a warped world view. A cope of its own. But I love my "wage" job and I love my freedom outside of it. And you're not clever for thinking you know better, you're just comforting yourself with a narrative that nobody's happy so that it's ok that your aren't either. Good luck seeing beyond that.
/r/MGTOW27/11/20 02:41 PM
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I guarantee you that you calling out a woman this way will only make you look worse.
/r/MGTOW27/11/20 01:36 AM
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Fuck no, you've got the wrong mindset. All you have to do is ignore them. Their currency is attention. Go your own way. MGTOW is not about hating women. It's about understanding them and choosing explicitly how to allow them into your life, if at all.
/r/MGTOW27/11/20 01:29 AM
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Death causes only pain for others. For you, you just disappear, you won't know if you're alone or not.
/r/MGTOW26/11/20 08:54 PM
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I'd rather die alone, peacefully, after a lifetime of following my passion and spirit and truth without pause, than die living a confined life knowing I was simply a utility for an opportunistic actress.
/r/MGTOW26/11/20 07:47 PM
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Good marriages were possible, when society didn't enable the worst of female nature. When hypergamy was limited to just a handful of potential men, and as a man you were always her best choice. Women love opportunistically, and will love you well if her opportunities are limited and you're the top man among her exposure. With society now, you are always competing with every man on all the dating apps, her slew of coworkers, the fuckbois at the bars and from her past, and her idealized man constr…
/r/MGTOW23/11/20 11:17 PM
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If you feel sufficiently smarter than the woman you're with, you'll never respect her or connect with her in bed. Been there.
/r/MGTOW17/11/20 10:50 PM
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Beware also the "makeout slut". Same basic DNA as a slut but will keep her self image intact by sticking to makeouts. Dated a girl like this who liked to think she was innocent. She had kept a list of dudes she'd made out with during high school, had at least 30 names on it. Noped out of that
/r/MGTOW17/11/20 09:22 PM
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Read Manipulated Man. Then get into a relationship and keep your eyes open. Nothing more educational than that.
/r/MGTOW17/11/20 05:39 PM
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Awesome, excellent night. Now leave it. You had fun, she had fun, now leave it at that. But you'll want to do the thing that makes it all go to shit. You'll try to capture it, wrap it in a relationship so nobody else gets it, and strangle it for all it's worth, until it no longer has any happiness left in it for you or her, and you'll leave a broken man. Don't do that. Just enjoy the lightning for what it was, do not try to put it in a bottle.
/r/MGTOW17/11/20 03:59 PM
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A son would be great. But if you have weekend custody and are paying your ex-wife alimony and child support while she bangs other dudes, it looks less great. Or if you have to stay in a failed marriage for the kids it also looks less great
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 02:10 PM
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RedPill endgame is MGTOW. Find one or more cool chicks to satisfy your physical and emotional needs, but never marry, never cohabitate, never impregnate. Men don't want to be utilities for society and women. We want to be men. MGTOW is the only way
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 12:51 AM
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There are women men want to casually fuck and women men want to marry. N count has a lot to do with that distinction. RedPill doesn't advocate marrying every woman you fuck
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 06:52 PM
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We need to be able to tell fellow men when their sexual strategy is self destructive. Sexual strategy includes how to fit sex into your life.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 02:24 PM
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"I have other goals, other dreams, other pursuits" It's that easy
/r/MGTOW02/11/20 03:46 AM
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You can see the pure sadness in her eyes. Clinging desperately to any form of validation left in her dying form. This is what happens when you base your entire value on your ability to be fuckable. When you have no other redeeming qualities. You hit 50 and the male gaze you once condemned is the only thing keeping you from losing all sense of purpose Imagine being married to this woman, exposing her body to every man in the world like this. Imagine your kids being taught this is acceptable. Imag…
/r/MGTOW27/10/20 03:15 PM
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Religion is what gave non-alpha men the ability to have secure monogamous relationships. Take that away and we have alpha men knocking up multiple women, and the state and beta men taking care of the kids.
/r/MGTOW26/10/20 04:36 PM
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Wait until you're older and more experienced. Sticking your dick in a warm hole for 20 years eventually loses its novelty and you'll want to spend less time chasing pussy and more time doing something productive.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 04:05 PM
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MGTOW is about learning and accepting female nature and acting accordingly. This involves educating others about female nature, with examples. In my opinion this forum is most helpful with anecdotes from experiences men that educate why mgtow exists, rather than what you do once you go your own way, which is infinite. There are posts that are just aimlessly hateful towards women, those don't belong here. No need to hate women for their nature. We just need to be rational about how we allow it in…
/r/MGTOW26/10/20 04:02 PM
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Done. Liberalism has created such degeneracy in today's society, ruined our generation. Have to keep up the fight
/r/MGTOW23/10/20 04:01 AM
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It is great. Just don't let it last much longer than that. Don't marry, don't cohabitate, don't impregnate.
/r/MGTOW23/10/20 03:03 AM
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The end game of red pill is MGTOW. When the novelty of women wears off, you get a dog, some good games, a good kitchen, and a hobby to create/build something useful
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 02:24 AM
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This. It's a lesson you only really learn once you've been in a LTR with a hot girl. The sex gets less interesting after about a year, the novelty of her face/body wears off, and she basically just looks like a bag of skin in bed after a while and you're imagining her sister instead of her. It's never worth it.
/r/MGTOW23/10/20 02:15 AM
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No matter what consciously drives a woman, her subconscious drives are the same as all other women. Hypergamy, and opportunistic mating. Most girls are a few glasses of wine and a Chad away from that hindbrain kicking in and her instincts taking over, regardless of what opinions they espouse
/r/MGTOW21/10/20 12:00 AM
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You do have less value. In every conceivable way regarding a relationship. Only beta male nice guys where you're their only option will sign that deal
/r/MGTOW20/10/20 07:34 PM
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Wow she's so virtuous. Yea let's just tax the businesses and the rich and make sure they have no incentive to reside or invest domestically. Classic liberal thinking, only have the ability to process direct consequences, never the indirect ones.
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 06:40 PM
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Have a backup plan. Do not put all your eggs into a basket for some "automated online income stream". Sounds like you bought into a scam.
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 12:23 AM
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Yes, AWALT, but also you made some dumb fucking decisions here to chase pussy. Stop that.
/r/MGTOW15/10/20 07:17 PM
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Women will find attention one way or another. If they're unattractive and bitter, they'll take the victim route.
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 05:17 PM
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This is my experience as well. I have a GF of 2 years, and she's pretty good to me. But it's still not worth it. That's when my eyes opened to MGTOW. I get more fulfillment from my projects and time spent alone than I do with her. Sex is fun, and companionship is occasionally nice. But eventually the sex is less fun. And hanging out can feel like a chore. It's simply not worth all the time spent at family functions, lost free time, anxiety, "spicing things up", dull conversations, favors, it all…
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 03:04 PM
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He has much better material. Quite obvious he's married to a black woman now and that she's got his balls in a jar, his older stuff is way better
/r/MGTOW11/10/20 03:25 PM
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To each their own, but I can't sleep next to and fuck a woman that doesn't genuinely want to fuck me like I'm the man she wants. If I sense duty sex or a lack of attraction I'm out
/r/MGTOW11/10/20 02:15 AM
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The Manipulated Man. Only book you need
/r/MGTOW11/10/20 01:39 AM
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This is the correct MGTOW mindset. It's not about hating women, it's the truth that our lives in this modern age are better keeping them at a safe distance. I've dated my whole life, and the juice is never worth the squeeze. It's soul sucking being in a committed relationship. FWB on your terms is the only way to make it worthwhile. Everybody I know who has kids is miserable. Owning a house is a prison. College is a liberal brainwashing clinic, and the culture has ruined women. It's all bullshit
/r/MGTOW10/10/20 02:54 PM
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Sex isn't worth a relationship with 99% of women, but it is fun. Just be up front that you have all your needs met in life but sex, and if she's down then wrap it up and have a FWB. Just don't fall for her, cohabitate, or marry. Always be ready to break it off and assume she's talking to someone else at all times
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 07:09 PM
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"Safe man" aka a beta that she will give duty sex to in exchange for being provided for. She won't be attracted to him a day in their relationship, she'll feed him just enough ego boosts to keep him on the line, then divorce him when she finds another bad boy she wants to fuck
/r/MGTOW08/10/20 09:34 PM
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Success is a lot more than a salary. But good on asian men, I have no issue with them making higher salaries than other races. Asians are intelligent, no issues with that
/r/MGTOW25/09/20 07:34 PM
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Enjoy it while you can, and once the honeymoon phase is over, be smart enough to get out of there. Love the shit out of her but don't commit. Better yet tell her up front you don't want to get married or live together, and if she sticks around you'll know she has decent intentions
/r/MGTOW24/09/20 04:52 PM
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Go your own way, sure do what you want. But falling in love with drawings isn't a constructive way to spend your time. Better to date real women and never attach emotionally than to jerk off to screen pixels, which will slowly kill your soul
/r/MGTOW02/06/20 07:16 PM
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