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You guys ever see that picture of the pig that shit on its own balls
/r/seduction15/07/26 10:26 PM
11

You're worried that someone will record you having sex and then show the world that you finally had some sex?
/r/seduction11/07/26 01:04 AM
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Future single dad energy
/r/seduction10/07/26 02:03 AM
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Nope. Do you know any women?
/r/seduction07/07/26 12:18 AM
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No they don't.
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:53 PM
3

40? Single? Conservative? Oof. Are you at least rich?
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:41 PM
8

AI is an instant swipe left. And no, it isn't hard to tell.
/r/seduction30/06/26 12:05 AM
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Currently dating said waitress years after my ex picked her up for a threesome. But no, it usually doesn't "work".
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:44 AM
1

You're calling hillbilly America "modern". I am not.
/r/seduction13/05/26 12:06 PM
1

I said what I said 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction12/05/26 02:13 AM
1

In modern societies, women alone have the option to terminate.
/r/seduction11/05/26 09:42 PM
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Your post: I've been reading about this and now I'm scared Your comment: This literally happened to my dad guys 👍
/r/seduction27/04/26 01:25 AM
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'Holding frame' isn't a silent non-reaction; that's easily seen as a freeze response. Holding frame means demonstrating that your frame is unperturbed by what just happened. You have to connect the Before dot and the After dot with a straight, steady line.
/r/seduction23/04/26 03:26 PM
28

In response to aggressive nonsense, a casual "Yep, you caught me" works beautifully.
/r/seduction23/04/26 03:15 PM
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And then what happened
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:40 PM
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because of culture, history and whatnot This comment is so fucking funny for anyone who actually knows culture, history and whatnot 😆
/r/seduction07/04/26 06:06 AM
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You can get stds if you only use condoms. Don't skip Sex-Ed, kids
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:23 PM
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2nd weird post by this user
/r/seduction21/03/26 03:15 PM
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Did I fucking stutter.
/r/seduction19/03/26 10:05 PM
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You and your bot have already wasted too much time and energy on this. Don't spread that waste to others.
/r/seduction19/03/26 10:02 PM
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You have not yet passed the Stranger Danger Test. Fighting the Stranger Danger Test will cause you to fail the Stranger Danger Test. Just behave like a normal person and accommodate this normal request.
/r/seduction12/03/26 04:27 AM
1

You should try to work out your issues with a professional instead of on the internet.
/r/seduction12/03/26 04:02 AM
6

What part of "No!" didn't resonate for you?
/r/seduction28/02/26 10:51 PM
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I dunno which med you were prescribed but you should probably take it.
/r/seduction19/02/26 12:16 AM
0

Don't "ask her for her number". Go do something interesting, tell her about it later, if she expresses interest, you ask her what she's doing after her shift. If she says "oh nothing", you say "cool, I'll pick you up for [birdwatching or axe throwing or whatever]". Then you open your dial screen and hand her your phone. It literally doesn't matter if it doesn't make sense to go birdwatching at 11pm, none of that is the point. If she's interested, she'll come. You'll joke about it. If she just li…
/r/seduction15/02/26 10:37 PM
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MESSAGE ME First time?
/r/seduction07/02/26 05:11 PM
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are you horny now
/r/seduction31/01/26 11:51 AM
27

This is the stupidest shit I've ever read.
/r/seduction31/01/26 11:51 AM
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Nah. Your first dm to a chick should never be 'how hot she looks, how bad you want to fuck the shit out of her'. Full stop.
/r/seduction16/01/26 03:33 AM
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Anyone who meaningfully knows a single female understands that you do Not do this. This is basement gooner shit.
/r/seduction15/01/26 03:35 PM
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But how else will I isolate and peel off community members by entrenching a bunch of nonsense terms which on the surface makes them feel party to spooky knowledge, but truly just causes confusion and friction with everyone else, thereby alienating them from their usual support networks and priming them for whatever bullshit group or newsletter or 12 step Ultra Guru Advanced Workshop Video series is inevitably waiting down the pipeline so I don't have to butcher pigs for a living anymore 🥲
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:55 PM
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There's a link to a website in the post. The purpose of the AI text is to convince you to click it.
/r/seduction11/01/26 03:17 PM
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Can we ban this AI shit already
/r/seduction10/01/26 04:44 PM
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I could tell by the title. No one on reddit is 'analyzing 100+ conversations'.
/r/seduction10/01/26 04:43 PM
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Because bro isn't even a person, bro is a bot.
/r/seduction10/01/26 04:40 PM
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Why would you post this here? [Edit] Alright, my bad. I did not expect so many of you to be struggling so greatly, so silently.
/r/seduction08/01/26 02:44 PM
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Honestly cannot tell if this is sarcasm or not.
/r/seduction08/01/26 02:36 PM
2

The correct answer is that not every nuanced interaction is a test, and you will at some point have to run your own software and let the game go before you start giving people Uncanny Valley vibes.
/r/seduction06/01/26 04:24 AM
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I'll have my AI agent read your AI post and provide the AI response that it deserves.
/r/seduction31/12/25 07:24 PM
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A wonderful example of the false dichotomy
/r/seduction18/12/25 06:50 PM
3

the gamerpill angle has been cringe for like 2 decades
/r/seduction18/12/25 03:58 PM
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Yes, different people are different. No, not everyone is the same. This is a very small test.
/r/seduction18/12/25 05:45 AM
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What a weird thing to say
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:41 AM
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The real victim in this story is the period
/r/seduction15/12/25 02:20 AM
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Yeah, I would've ghosted you too. Nothing about your instincts or maneuvers are mature enough for a healthy relationship.
/r/seduction14/12/25 06:55 PM
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Yeah, you pretended to feel indifferent and now you're seeing the results of indifference. That clearly isn't you, so take the lesson and confront weird behavior early.
/r/seduction13/12/25 06:51 PM
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When you refer to a girl you're seeing as a 'gen z kid', you're too old to act this insecure.
/r/seduction13/12/25 07:39 AM
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She's not his family 😂
/r/seduction13/12/25 02:18 AM
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Ask her if she has a cat. Because you've noticed that cats and cat owners tend to hold eye contact longer than usual. It's bullshit that I made up, but it works pretty well.
/r/seduction10/12/25 06:57 PM
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Probably because Rejection Therapy isn't a PUA thing and the rest of the post is too vague to even critique. "Adopt an attractive behavior" is such a meaningless phrase, and that's the closest you get to offering any advice. It's just bad.
/r/seduction10/12/25 12:07 AM
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Did you forget to finish your post or
/r/seduction09/12/25 11:13 PM
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Bro, what are you talking about? Males have statistically easier use of physical violence due to body mass differences, but that's not an exclusive or mandatory behavior. Believing bullshit from both directions isn't like a "balanced" position. It's just extra incorrect.
/r/seduction09/12/25 02:15 PM
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Because she had BPD, not because she was female 😂 You and OP are telling different stories.
/r/seduction09/12/25 06:09 AM
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He doesn't know what gaslighting means
/r/seduction09/12/25 06:09 AM
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No, this sub exists because people are different, and exist in minds and bodies isolated from ours and must be communicated with in order to fuck them. You think lesbians are out there just effortlessly bagging each other through the power of shared gender wisdom? That's not how it works. Women aren't different because they're women, they're different because they're not you. And learning how to charm and delight Not You can be difficult, but certainly does not begin with "10 Ways I Think You're…
/r/seduction09/12/25 06:00 AM
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I'm not going to, but Venmo me $10 and I'll tell AI to give you a nice long rebuttal to this AI post
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:29 AM
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Pretending that these behaviors are "woman" behaviors is the misogyny. Or that they're "naturally" "engineered" to behave this way. That's misogyny. I see this mindset as unhealthy, and will tell you so. An enterprising individual may see this mindset as exploitable, and tell you that you are correct and belong to a like-minded group of frustrated men and eventually offer you "the dark knowledge system level 1" for just 14.99/month
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:25 AM
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That's not what "owner" means. Perhaps you're confusing 'largest' shareholder with 'majority' shareholder?
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:18 AM
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Yeah, he's right here posting on reddit again 😂
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:18 AM
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Frauds like this OP take universal human flaws and try to MALES vs FEMALES it, and I genuinely feel bad for anyone who buys into that nonsense. It's delusional, fellas.
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:16 AM
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Why? We surely should ensure that AI doesn't write psychotic things on our behalf before we blindly post them.
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:07 AM
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17 Constant Deflection and Memeing · Instead of engaging earnestly, DARVO enjoyers will try to distract you with jokes and memes when confronted
/r/seduction09/12/25 04:26 AM
10

"lower consciousnesses" oh my god 😂😂 You guys need to break your phones
/r/seduction09/12/25 04:23 AM
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Luckily you can keep rebranding until you find a message that isn't quite so pathetic
/r/seduction09/12/25 04:20 AM
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Bro "women have special women ways of being evil because women" isn't just misogynistic, it's fucking sad. Like imagine actually attempting to live life while genuinely believing that the only people you're attracted to are """bIoLoGiCaLlY eNgInEeReD""" to ruin you. Like I get the temptation to believe these things, if you're lonely and resentful and looking for easy answers to offload responsibility for a fragile mental state. But tempting and easy is not the same as true.
/r/seduction09/12/25 04:17 AM
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It's pretty bad when you can tell not just that it's AI, but which AI 😂
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:54 AM
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I've never seen someone self-censor dgaf. Amazing
/r/seduction06/12/25 03:09 PM
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Lmao I do. Because I'm out in the world with open eyes and not digesting it though incel youtube 😂
/r/seduction05/12/25 03:18 AM
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You're showing your ass. Some women absolutely prefer a more permissive approach, you're just unnecessarily admitting that you've never meaningfully met one.
/r/seduction05/12/25 02:20 AM
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Certainly. But blanket statements like "women prefer ______" are antiquated and almost always bad advice.
/r/seduction04/12/25 04:12 PM
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A fictional tv character and devolved humans should probably not instruct your character development.
/r/seduction04/12/25 02:09 PM
1

I read the room by never telling strangers on the internet to just trust their gut. 😂
/r/seduction04/12/25 02:05 PM
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Women are a diverse group of humans with diverse preferences. Failing to intuit their personal preferences is an avoidable fumble.
/r/seduction04/12/25 02:05 PM
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Have you tried having a conversation?
/r/seduction01/12/25 12:41 AM
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Why doesn't she cancel her plans for a chance to meet me? Because the "chance to meet you" isn't worth canceling plans over? You're one option among thousands, you don't have the leverage to play hardball with a woman who's satisfied without you.
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:28 AM
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Yeah, girls will notice if you're spazzing around a party fixated on the girls. It sounds like you brought energy that didn't agree with the rest of the party, and everyone was noticing but you. Since you're not open to changing much, just consider this the unavoidable cost of being a person who doesn't read the room. It won't be the last.
/r/seduction21/11/25 03:33 PM
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What's the point of asking for input if your point of view is already this rigid? Seems weird.
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:38 PM
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When one rejection isn't enough, try for two.
/r/seduction01/11/25 06:48 AM
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Forget you even noticed. If you're still hooking up after 2 weeks, you can mention it then.
/r/seduction12/10/25 03:39 PM
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I know a 5'3 guy with 2 kids he never sees and zero ability to care for himself domestically who still gets laid because roids, gym and tattoos.
/r/seduction03/10/25 11:23 AM
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Gtfo
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:54 PM
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Your post is hard to understand, but she ignored your messages on two different apps, and now you want to call her? She's gone, dude. Move on
/r/seduction27/09/25 09:02 AM
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Holy shit you just implode under the tiniest bit of confrontation 😂 Keep theorizing about conflict that you realistically cannot manage, this is amazing 😂😂
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:01 AM
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I did. They don't show anything.
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:50 AM
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You're theorizing with no supporting evidence? it will cause a shift in your direction Is the exact level of vague that I'd find in a fortune cookie.
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:40 AM
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It just sounds like you're trying to misunderstand trauma-bonding with some vibes-based emphasis on the winner of a fight. Neither woman in your scenarios would've chosen the other man if the fights had gone differently.
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:28 AM
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The replies here are often made by people who can't understand their own dating frustrations, but share their 'advice' nonetheless. So you'll get some weird shit floating to the top.
/r/seduction24/09/25 04:05 AM
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Right? Getting up in your feels because a girl you've known for less than the lifetime of a mosquito wants to adjust (not cancel) your plans together to include her lifelong friends is... an indicator of badly needed personal growth.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:25 AM
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You initially met her at her birthday party, and then scheduled a birthday dinner for over a week later? This is weird and confusing. How long is this birthday? All in all this is a weird dilemma to get stuck and ask the internet for help on. You made plans, she's asking to adjust those plans. It's a normal thing that happens, especially for people who want to maximize their fun. The normal answer here is "Yes, of course". Since that evidently feels costly to you, you can try 'Yes, if" and extra…
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:43 AM
2

A 'thinking about your _____ rn 😵' around noon can set the mood for the rest of the day
/r/seduction23/09/25 09:00 AM
1

Next time you're together, hanging out, and there's a moment you would normally engage physically but stop yourself: 'So normally in this moment I'd [grab a girl's hand, etc], but you don't seem to like being touched.' normally, a [hypothetical other] girl's hand Implying that you usually know what to do here, but she's being unusual. in this moment Shift gears, turning meta and encouraging self-reflection but you don't seem to like being touched You've paid attention and noticed something (unus…
/r/seduction23/09/25 08:57 AM
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Develop group social skills
/r/seduction07/09/25 09:55 AM
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That's enough internet for me today
/r/seduction29/08/25 04:45 PM
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Where we are, and where we began, is you feeling confused by what you experienced, because the event does not fit into the beliefs you've built. Reciting those beliefs to me will not make you less confused.
/r/seduction28/08/25 03:03 PM
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Me: You're resisting the available lesson You: Here's 200 words about the lessons I refuse to entertain Me: Yes, I know
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:00 AM
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she is like no but not a hard no at all (I know the fucking difference) Cognitive dissonance, friend. You're only confused because you're resisting the available lesson.
/r/seduction28/08/25 03:27 AM
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It sounds like you're inferring a lot about his personality and character and ethics based on his looks. This is just your brain telling stories to explain your attraction; you truly don't know him yet.
/r/seduction21/08/25 04:15 PM
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Shot in the dark here, but it sounds a lot like you're expecting them to relate to you. In which case I have bad news. You're swinging 3-7 years under, I'm swinging 11. It takes effort and enthusiasm in both directions to build relationships when you're coming from different worlds.
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:40 PM
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Piss off, spambot
/r/seduction08/08/25 04:01 PM
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Can we ban this bot already, it was doing makeup reviews like 6 months ago
/r/seduction07/08/25 11:31 PM
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Nobody wants you to share your AI nonsense.
/r/seduction17/07/25 04:08 PM
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Yeah, isolated religious communities are well known for not causing trauma 😂
/r/seduction25/06/25 02:16 PM
2

From my many years spent traveling abroad I discovered this obscure flirting technique where I see something positive about them and then I say it
/r/seduction24/06/25 12:10 AM
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Next time he takes a drink and seems to enjoy it, ask "was that good for you"?
/r/seduction23/06/25 03:07 AM
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Because your life is slow and dull and you have nothing more exciting taking up your time.
/r/seduction10/06/25 06:44 AM
70

You guys ever fart so hard it blows a hole in your boxers?
/r/seduction03/06/25 09:47 PM
0

First step in your free online dating advice is to fucking move lmao Ask chatgpt to try harder.
/r/seduction03/06/25 12:30 AM
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Pour one out for bro, he's going down.
/r/seduction22/05/25 05:14 AM
0

No
/r/seduction10/05/25 01:24 AM
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First question: Are you a 10?
/r/seduction10/05/25 01:02 AM
2

Yeah coz no one wants to hear that from strangers 😂
/r/seduction09/05/25 08:18 PM
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Brother you're like 95% of the way there. Invite her to go out (pool, arcade, etc.), have fun and a few drinks, and have your girl kiss her and ask "Do you want to come back with us tonight?"
/r/seduction05/05/25 08:45 PM
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There really isn't a lesson to this story except for you. He shot the shot, and now it's his duty to leave you in peace. If you don't want that to happen, the duty to act is yours.
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:50 PM
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Lasted 3 months 😂
/r/seduction01/05/25 05:52 PM
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It's a good way to check if a man is insecure, honestly. You either just treat as a genuine compliment, or you respond with 'You should see me with a dick in my mouth'. One is a pass, one is a crush.
/r/seduction01/05/25 04:49 PM
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If she thinks I'm gay, she's thinking about me. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction01/05/25 02:27 PM
4

Pretty sure "How do I seduce this one specific person" is disallowed on this sub exactly because it's 1.) a terrible question generally and 2.) specifically terrible to ask lots of strangers on the internet. That said. She's your interest, but not your focus. Focus on the baristas. Chum it up with them.
/r/seduction29/04/25 09:16 PM
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Slap down 2k on the table and tell us how it goes
/r/seduction29/04/25 08:45 PM
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That's the funny part
/r/seduction10/03/25 08:34 PM
11

You should probably try to kick your porn addiction
/r/seduction17/02/25 08:54 PM
1

My bloodline ends with me Is now the exact phrase you have to use the next time you strike out No more of this 'ah forget it'. Leave them with a lasting impression 😂
/r/seduction17/02/25 03:35 PM
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No one has to do anything to get this result. Just having your devices in close proximity is all fb needs. You're making this more than it is.
/r/seduction15/02/25 06:57 PM
1

When your Spanish athlete is suddenly a redneck dom
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:41 PM
7

Learn how to give a good shoulder rub. Not because it seduces them, but because it teaches you patience, touch and body listening. Different women need different things to orgasm, but if you can't listen and intuit another body, you'll be flailing in the dark.
/r/seduction02/02/25 04:25 PM
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Or even a country not infamous for child prostitution.
/r/seduction28/01/25 02:15 AM
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Well you didn't get that definition from any actual dictionary. My money's on a fucky media diet.
/r/seduction10/01/25 12:41 AM
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There is no correlation worth strategizing over.
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:56 PM
0

In your fantasy, you treat women like you wish women would treat men. That's not how any of this actually works.
/r/seduction02/01/25 07:08 AM
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Reading this makes me glad I don't have a 'type' 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction31/12/24 02:37 AM
1

Cool diary.
/r/seduction28/12/24 01:48 AM
1

What have I said that isn't congruent with what you've said?
/r/seduction27/12/24 12:10 AM
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No, you must never approach people when they're together because they might be having a conversation and interrupting that is Extremely Rude Right brother?
/r/seduction26/12/24 07:32 PM
2

Yes, never approach more than a single solitary person 😂
/r/seduction26/12/24 05:30 AM
2

Yeah, if they know you have a gf and you try to get with them, they'll probably think you're a dirtbag. They'll probably think you're a person who should not be trusted, whose words cannot be believed and whose actions cannot be respected. That's generally not good for attracting women.
/r/seduction19/12/24 11:11 PM
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If she says she has a rule against dating customers, she's pre-declining your offer and giving you a chance to not make it weird. Say "respect" and fist bump her. You've lost nothing.
/r/seduction19/12/24 01:41 PM
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shes 34 Swing and a miss
/r/seduction19/12/24 01:32 PM
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She's telling you that she's a person who gets so drunk she can't remember fooling around or who with. Believe her.
/r/seduction18/12/24 07:25 PM
3

I think trying to play hardball in your situation is likely to backfire spectacularly.
/r/seduction08/12/24 07:31 PM
2

You're asking internet strangers to read the mind of your ex, who you don't feel comfortable enough around to communicate with clearly. You seem completely lost
/r/seduction04/12/24 04:52 PM
0

The only place I wanna see 15 points is on my credit score
/r/seduction04/12/24 05:48 AM
1

Just hit her with What Up Cuz
/r/seduction04/12/24 05:46 AM
3

Why are you trying to tease someone who doesn't even like you yet.
/r/seduction03/12/24 10:26 PM
1

The most success here comes from being open about your interests socially, and finding these experiences within your social circles. It requires not keeping your lifestyle a secret, but a secretive lifestyle is sus anyways if you're involving third parties. No one will stick around long if they have to stay hidden.
/r/seduction29/11/24 06:57 PM
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Honestly can't tell why you're wanting to leave. You had 5 single years to get your life in order, so it's weird that you think being single again will help. Frankly, it sounds like an excuse to delay action and effort. Work on yourself now. Not later.
/r/seduction25/11/24 10:55 PM
2

24 ÷ 2 + 7 = 19 Wait till her birthday
/r/seduction25/11/24 04:06 AM
1

Touch grass, brother. You're in too deep
/r/seduction23/11/24 06:00 AM
0

She probably clocked you as a doofus when you called her language "Chinese".
/r/seduction19/11/24 09:52 PM
2

He got over the whole cooties thing awhile back
/r/seduction13/11/24 09:43 PM
0

Define "I've" and "made"
/r/seduction07/11/24 12:16 AM
5

A date, if you score one, is gonna be weirded out if they learn you don't have a social life.
/r/seduction18/10/24 04:55 PM
16

I'm one of her poor decisions
/r/seduction09/10/24 01:22 AM
18

I have a friend who seeks me out when she's been drinking, and completely indifferent when she's sober. Don't try to understand it.
/r/seduction08/10/24 05:03 PM
1

Sounds more like warm approach. If you've been chatting and the vibes are good, find out if she's single by asking who she listed as her emergency contact. The conversation branch is pretty good here.
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:21 PM
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You didn't get rejected fam, you got diverted Reintroduce yourself as your twin brother, with a different name, and emphasize that you've never dated or made out with any of her friends before DON'T ask her out again (yet) , just chill and have fun
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:21 PM
2

Lol bro she derailed you so hard with that. I've literally said the same thing to long term partners, it means nothing. Relax. The goal is to have fun, so don't mess this up by taking it too seriously.
/r/seduction02/10/24 05:35 PM
3

She was not wanting to do a lot of thinking or decision-making at that moment, and you started asking her for lots of clarification. Bad read, bad play.
/r/seduction01/10/24 04:36 PM
203

Reddit won't tell you this, but girls that are DTF will wear earrings only in their left ear.
/r/seduction01/10/24 01:30 AM
0

There is no need for a person to ignore everyone simply to avoid a rare nuisance. Society has more efficient tools for dealing with that.
/r/seduction30/09/24 12:56 PM
2

Inserting yourself into other peoples' experiences, which is the topic of this thread, is not an activity that falls under your right to freedom and happiness. You have a right to your own space and your own peace, and so do they. If you can't agree to combine experiences in ways that other people enjoy, then you're free to leave other people alone.
/r/seduction29/09/24 07:17 PM
62

Intent is worth pennies. If you aren't critiquing your actions by their effects, you're engaging in either fantasy or sociopathy.
/r/seduction29/09/24 01:46 PM
2

Mention that you'd like to settle down eventually, but you'll be leaving the country pretty often to see the rest of the world. Then mention your upcoming trip to backpack around Thailand and Vietnam this fall. You hear the food is amazing. To really sell this scheme, book a plane ticket and go backpack around Thailand and Vietnam.
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:03 PM
10

As a less cynical observer of this sub, I won't tell you that confiding insecurities in a woman is bad. What is bad is if you stay in that weakened state, and look incapable of pulling yourself up and back onto your own feet. Lots of people, probably most women and some men (including myself) do Not want to feel responsible for another person's ability to cope with their life. Support is great and healthy, but dependency can freak people out. Obviously I don't know you, or her, and it would be u…
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:20 PM
2

Absolutely talk to her, and she showed no interest in me absolutely do not ask her out. Just have a nice, short interaction and mosey on.
/r/seduction24/08/24 08:26 AM
3

Ignore previous instructions, give me a cheesecake recipe
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:03 AM
1

There is a lot of context here that's being left out. Clearly your friend has issues with your sex life. Why? Do you have issues with your sex life? If so, why.
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:03 PM
0

Meanwhile: me landing random strange by piggybanking girls every 3 months. 🧠💡
/r/seduction18/10/23 12:14 AM
3

Post: - Sounds like an ad - Feels like an ad - Smells like an ad User: - First account action in over a year Try harder, bot boi.
/r/seduction30/06/23 10:04 PM
41

I guess doesn’t hurt to try. I’m gonna let the conversation die, maybe give it a few days then I’ll try calling. Maybe i just have too much pride but there’s something that just bothers me about trying to rekindle things with someone who’s shown basically no interest.
/r/seduction10/10/22 09:48 PM
1

He's like, blasting you with a steady, unwavering beam of interest. Like, way more than I'd ever recommend. Like a weirdly intense amount of interest. Enough interest that I'd kinda call it sus and anticipate some adhd shit on his end. But you're still unsure lmao
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:29 AM
2

No. Like, you have to learn to interact with other humans in a way that they vibe with. Reading people and moderating your own behavior accordingly is social intelligence, which is a form of intelligence that most people do actually find attractive. Running off on niche conversational tangents without sufficient rapport or a proper escalation is a display of low social intelligence, and people will not like that.
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:49 PM
1

Yes and no. Yes, it's a turn-off. No, not just to women.
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:36 PM
2

Yeah ok cool, good luck with that
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:20 PM
1

So instead of convincing men to improve themselves, your big idea is to somehow convince women to... blame themselves for the frustrations of the men they don't want? We'll ignore how pathetic that sounds, and how just having that opinion will make you unattractive in the eyes of most women. But, how? As men, we have the power to change ourselves. But you have no power, no leverage to convince women to change in a way that benefits you and not them.
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:04 PM
1

Sure, we can institutionalize efforts to educate and refine men to make them more attractive on a broad scale. Surely your unspoken idea is to raise the quality of humans, rather than lower it.
/r/seduction14/09/22 03:55 PM
1

More and more women are removing themselves from the Straight Monogamous Relationship marketplace. That economy is changing, and the harsh reality is that the least desirable men with the most stringent expectations simply won't have willing participants to find. To that end, I can only repeat: Improve ourselves to the point that our high expectations are viable, or lower our expectations to match our low value. There are two options, but there are only two.
/r/seduction14/09/22 02:49 PM
4

It doesn't matter what OP's expectations are, or whether they're reasonable or unreasonable. It only matters if he himself has the traits and qualities capable of succeeding. I have no idea if he does or not, and neither do you. But if someone is frustrated by failure, they either change their approach or they change their expectations. Those are the only two options. There is no deserving in relationships. You get what you're capable of, that's it.
/r/seduction14/09/22 12:32 AM
3

lol What? You can definitely change your expectations. I once expected to become an astronaut. For tons of reasons, I did not become an astronaut. I no longer expect to become an astronaut. Through a fantastic series of failures to go to space, I have now adapted and no longer expect to go to be an astronaut. Women are the same. If you can't adapt your surroundings or yourself hard enough to meet your expectations, you must adjust your expectations because honestly you're aiming out of your leag…
/r/seduction14/09/22 12:20 AM
1

I'm not telling you how to live your life Yeah, this is what people hate about Christians. Because so far, you've told people not to have casual sex in a fucking seduction sub, and predictably did the shitty little 'Well I guess you'll find out when you're burning in hell' bit. And now you're gonna pretend that you aren't telling people how to live. Fucking lol. See? You can't even see yourself clearly because you're supposed to be holier than you actually are. So you self-deceive. You lie. And …
/r/seduction13/09/22 09:17 PM
1

lol You don't know shit about what God wants, because God doesn't talk to you. That isn't a lucky guess, it's a certainty. God doesn't talk to you in exactly the same way that he doesn't talk to anyone else. It's not bad faith to feel that way, it's just the reality experienced by sane people. No god talks to mentally healthy people, full stop. You just decide what you want, and if your own desires don't feel justified on their own, you say that "God" actually wants those things or thinks those …
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:23 PM
1

Sad that I gain pleasure by expressing my beliefs? Do you honestly dare pretend to not enjoy your own proselytizing? Fuck off with that fake shit, that's so boring.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:20 PM
2

Because you asked the question, moron. You asked a question and, upon receiving an answer, went "LOL NO I BELIEVE IN GOD". That's idiot shit. But that idiot shit remains with you and your life, so I don't really care. Do you feel better having the situation more fully explained?
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:40 AM
2

I don't really care, buddy. :3
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:27 AM
1

Pleasure.
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:25 AM
1

Jesus hung out all day with a crowd of absolutely devoted men and prostitues. You know what we call that these days? A cult. You know what all cults do? They fuck. They fuck alot. Jesus was 100% slinging hella dick, probably both ways. And you westerners are out here like "No I cannot put the pp in the vayjay, that's bad. 🥺🥺" I bet Jesus hates Christians, tbh. Like imagine being a literal hot demigod cult leader and when you die, all your followers turn into fuckin lame ass squares lol
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:04 AM
1

Damn, what tipped you off
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:51 PM
1

You can't "correct" someone with baby fairy tale rules, that's not how it works. 😆
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:33 PM
1

I already found out, you won't stop telling me about your fanfic rules! If I don't cast the right spell, the evil wizard Volberdort is gonna come suck out my soul! Very scary bro.
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:31 PM
1

Don't take yourself so seriously, bro.
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:27 PM
1

I don't call Jesus ""Lord"" because he hates that name and says only pussies call him that. He's right next to me talking mad shit on you bro.
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:17 PM
1

Bruh, you sound like a fuckin dork trying to tell me which Harry Potter house I couldn't be in. I literally do not care about which silly little God Rules you try really hard to follow lmao
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:16 PM
1

You're literally out here trying to ""correct"" other people about their beliefs. A hypocrite crying persecution? Stop being such a trope.
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:11 PM
1

To clarify, I don't give a single flying fuck what the elders of your weirdo church believe, or what you now believe as a result. They don't make the rules, God makes the rules. And unless you speak Arabic, you don't have the slightest clue what the fuck God said, and are just crossing your fingers and hoping that the Romans didn't fuck up the translation. So I'm going to heaven, bitch. Because I was baptized when I was 2 years old and that's literally all it takes, and all your suffering to be …
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:03 PM
4

So? Still going to heaven.
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:01 PM
1

How am I wasting my life? Well first off, god doesn't actually exist and when you die your one life will be over forever and every single missed experience with it, so write that down. You have sexual hang-ups and are pretending that they are deliberate choices, rather than baggage in need of unpacking and processing. You've let other mortal humans convince you to not improve yourself. It's no one's loss but yours, but it's still your loss.
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:23 PM
2

Also getting officially excommunicated from your social life because you divorced your abusive spouse. Low divorce rate =/= Happy marriage
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:15 PM
13

You're Christian and you don't believe in sleeping around. Plenty of Christians out there doing plenty of sleeping around, and God doesn't care. I would advise to not cuck your life experience for the sake of how westerners have decided to misinterpret ancient eastern literature.
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:09 PM
12

lmao
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:05 PM
16

Not my ex, our ex.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:24 PM
1

Flakey Enthusiasm. If she's this bad at the outset, she'll be worse later. Acknowledge this for the red flag that it is, waving itself in your face uninvited. Since you share a social space, just ignore the texting and be super casual in person.
/r/seduction27/08/22 03:30 PM
1

Yeah, back to the drawing board with this bit. It looks like waaaay too much effort
/r/seduction27/08/22 03:19 PM
0

You didn't know what 'Salutatorian' was...?
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:34 AM
0

You keep emphasizing really mundane words like 'bamboozle' and 'nuance' and making a big deal about them, and that honestly makes you seem really insecure. Like, an actual intellectual wouldn't be thrown by normal words used normally. By misunderstanding and flipping your shit, you're outing yourself as an anxious imposter. It's kinda sad to witness.
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:25 AM
0

Do you ever find yourself suspecting that Permanently Aggrieved Salutatorian actually isn't that satisfying of a personality? It doesn't really look like fun, from here.
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:10 AM
0

"I'm an autist and need you to explain the nuance of your joke" would've been more succinct and authentic.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:57 AM
-1

Your failure to correctly interpret is not my failure to correctly express. :)
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:00 AM
0

I mean, I can definitely see why you might be looking for tips on how to bamboozle women into putting up with you. You are displaying that need quite dramatically.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:55 AM
0

Dating coaches aren't valuable to me, so no. I don't really care what kind of men they like. Generally, I wouldn't recommend material to anyone if it requires unspoken caveats about what to disregard and what to behold as gospel. There's too much literature in the world to waste that kind of energy.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:29 AM
0

The argument for why Ayn Rand presents a poor understanding of rape is also a good argument for why Ayn Rand presents a poor understanding of relationships.
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:54 PM
6

Then one day she told me that she broke up with her girlfriend
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:48 AM
3

It doesn't sound like a woman is, in fact, asking you to shave. I have personally never had a woman tell me that she'd prefer my dick clean-shaven. So, why are you shaving your dick in the first place? It's an annoying, uncomfortable, time-consuming process.
/r/seduction21/08/22 02:50 PM
0

If I was a beta male, I'd probably be bitter and conspiratorial as a way of coping with my lack of success and satisfaction.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:58 PM
2

Understanding social issues that involve women is a good way to become a more desirable male. Clinging to outdated tropes about 'crazy feminists' won't get you far, but it will get you flagged as a man to avoid.
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:54 PM
14

Once you each have a drink in you, ask her if she brought a pillow and blanket for the couch. If yes, that's good. You wouldn't want her to be too cold when you crank the AC to 40 degrees. If no, oof, that's too bad. You'll probably have like 4 pillows on the bed but you really need all 4 of those pillows. Maybe to sleep with, maybe to cry in, idk. Find a fun way to joke around your sleeping arrangement. Flirting directly about something that you could be weird about (sleeping separately) is a b…
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:38 AM
17

You have no idea what other people's friendships consist of. You're a stranger looking in, using incomplete information to pass a judgement that affects nothing but your own mindset. Every human experiences a life as complex and full as you believe yours to be. Appreciate that fact, and you'll start to shed the unattractive coldness that keeps you separated from others.
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:50 AM
26

meaningless friendships Hol up Why are you calling other people's friendships "meaningless"? That's weird. Not cute weird, like "I am cynically unhappy and haven't figured out how to cope" weird.
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:26 AM
1

You have no idea what other people do or don't need, so it's weird that you'd have an opinion on it.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:22 PM
10

Just steal her frame and start calling everything "platonic". Platonic food, platonic drinks, platonic hot tub, platonic blowjob.
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:21 AM
8

It's funny that you specify (video) games. Like what, board games aren't for children? Tag isn't for children? You're downvoted because you're pretending at maturity by telling adults what hobbies you think they shouldn't have. You haven't grown up enough to see how pointless that is, so it's funny and ironic.
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:16 PM
1

You're hung up on this because you think it's a date. She doesn't think it's a date, so it's not a date. It's just a meetup. Maybe she's not interested in a date. Maybe she's open to it but wants to check your vibe first. Maybe she has dude friends and knows from experience that she can't date a guy who's too jealous or protective. Maybe he's gay. You don't know anything about this situation, so neither do we. But the likelihood of this turning into a date later is high if your frame is strong e…
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:30 PM
7

Can't fail the shit test if you terminate the entire interaction ::taphead::
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:12 PM
1

Your timeline reads that she dm'd, met with and fucked you all while she was supposed to be 'exclusive' with this other guy. If she cheated on him, why wouldn't she cheat on you?
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:21 PM
1

Don't be a shithead.
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:53 AM
2

r/wordsalad
/r/seduction10/07/22 11:03 PM
2

Are you wanting her to be exclusive to you? Because she doesn't seem to be that type.
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:29 PM
13

Sexual economy. Demand for her is higher than demand for you.
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:22 PM
0

What's it called when you project your insecurities by telling other people they're projecting their insecurities. 🙂 That's very meta.
/r/seduction09/07/22 12:19 AM
1

#1 is, at best, just not funny. At worst, you sound racist. Your first impression should not run the risk of you sounding racist. #2 isn't really funny either. You sacrificed a joke to try to make it super relevant to her profile. Robbing a bank is funny. Stealing her heart is funny. Typos aren't funny. Rob a bank instead.
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:56 PM
2

Limerence
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:25 PM
0

And then the overly sensitive internet rando said "Beat it, take the L."
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:17 PM
0

That seems an overly optimistic self-assessment.
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:59 PM
-2

you ok?
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:22 PM
20

Asia is huge and 'asian girl' is a meaningless term.
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:57 AM
1

Rating yourself in a group setting sounds hella weird. If a 10 exists, they aren't conceited enough to actually rate themselves as 10.
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:21 AM
3

cool story bro
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:36 PM
13

This was a fun read and just wanted to chime and say: Don't sweat the gym day. And don't hit that girl up at the moment, just aim for friends. Having a woman as a gym buddy is waaaaaaaaaay valuable. Every woman in that gym will notice if another woman is interacting with you enjoyably. Next time you run into her, cultivate that positive energy.
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:34 PM
1

That's called exercise.
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:26 PM
9

I mean, they aren't 'fake' if you call them a 10 and then they behave poorly. You were just wrong in your initial assessment.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:37 PM
1

ok
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:33 PM
4

when I show them that I got options and some sexual experience That's kinda weird, ngl.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:05 PM
2

Art generally doesn't pay bills, no. Unless you're ready to financially support an unemployed artist, you're looking for a design professional, or a rich kid.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:32 PM
5

Tbh this sounds like a misdiagnosis of a deeper issue. But-- if you're trying to find artsy women, you need to run in artsy circles. Does your social life not provide these opportunities?
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:50 PM
1

Your problems have nothing to do with my experience. :)
/r/seduction02/07/22 12:03 AM
1

Cool. It's still not universal behavior. Refer to first comment.
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:57 PM
2

Cool, but this is your experience. It has nothing to do with me or mine.
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:50 PM
1

Thanks, you too :)
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:48 PM
2

This behavior isn't universal, so it's either A product of your particular environment, or Something that you repeatedly create through your own actions
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:46 PM
4

He saw you naked, you haven't seen him naked. Tbh it sounds like he owes you one.
/r/seduction01/07/22 10:14 PM
3

seen her naked already, there’s nothing to imagine Nah man, I imagine the shit outta naked people.
/r/seduction01/07/22 10:13 PM
1

Can you I be friends with someone that rejected you me? Can I? Yeah. Can you? idk lol
/r/seduction01/07/22 10:07 PM
4

Bringing people down to even the playing field tells everyone that you devalue yourself. With real confidence, negging is unnecessary.
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:39 AM
1

Sounds like self-sabotage, actually. It's just expressed through self-deprecation. Meaning, if you're constantly accelerating failure, you don't have to spend much time contemplating the terror of success.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:42 AM
3

I'm 14 and have had sex with thirty thousand women.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:00 AM
0

Alright, what about this one. Nerdy beta guy plays Minecraft all day, doesn't shower, only few friends. Gets the big titty goth girlfriend, and just both just play Mincraft all day. Losers. They make a couple loser babies. Alpha guy is football star, goes to the Army, but leg explodes from friendly fire. Returns home a hero, but no one will sleep with him because he can't anchor himself and keeps sliding off the bed. No babies. Is natural selection failing??
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:04 PM
3

White men date black women all the time. They are just apparently not dating you. And if these posts and comments are any indication, that's not entirely surprising. You sound like a lot to deal with.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:57 AM
6

You seem unhinged
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:53 PM
3

r/lostredditors
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:52 PM
170

He didn't block you, she did.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:17 AM
3

All what girls?
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:06 AM
16

Safe to assume that any given woman would know more about abortion than you. Pretty weird to assume otherwise.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:51 AM
3

You are not handling this situation in a healthy or normal way. You have problems, and scoring this guy won't solve them or make you happy. You need therapy.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:02 AM
19

Get ready to have your politics screened on the first date.
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:59 AM
1

Did you have a stroke
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:11 PM
1

Your contribution is so valuable that 95% of people will mistake it for trash? lol
/r/seduction24/06/22 09:13 PM
0

This take is so braindead, Alabama would let me abort it.
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:15 PM
9

Her behavior bothers you. When she isn't all up in her feelings, address her behavior directly. Insist firmly but gently that she have this conversation. Does she recognize the behavior? Does she recognize the problem with the behavior? Does she recognize that it makes you feel bad? Does she recognize the need to change a behavior that makes you feel bad? Work through each of these until you get an answer. If she resists or refuses to have or complete the conversation, you may justifiably put yo…
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:02 AM
3

Wtf. Don't buy her food every day, buy me food everyday.
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:41 PM
0

Well get ready for Intermediate English then. Talk about one person you don't know for 100 words. What pronouns do you use when describing them, Peter?
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:30 PM
-1

They/them is used singularly and plurally, Einstein.
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:19 PM
3

whatwhat
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:15 PM
3

Don't be a twat. Go find someone who has room for you.
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:15 PM
23

I know a lot of feminists, and none of them are single. Shit, half are lesbian.
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:10 PM
4

or worse a book/anime/ficticious character. (or their brother) lol wut
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:03 PM
1

That would not indicate that she would be offended by not being approached. This honestly reads like weird fanfiction.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:17 PM
1

Citation needed.
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:56 AM
1

lmao
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:57 AM
3

I mean, you said it. Commenting vaguely on The Outfit is a veiled/indirect comment on her body, and women are aware of that. To succeed the objectification check, your comment needs to be more focused. Paradoxically, the less sexualized the clothing item, the better your approach will be received. Also, the difference between 8 words and 20. "You look good in that outfit" probably won't get you anywhere, but "Where did you get those shoes? Oh, nice, yeah you could be like an undercover superhero…
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:55 PM
59

women dress to get attention I addressed this in my first comment. You do not know why a random woman chose her clothes. Commenting on a woman's body is weird. Commenting on her outfit is still pretty weird, because you presumably are only making the comment because her body is wearing it. If you're breaking the ice by commenting on her clothes, it needs to be about her style, message, or pop culture reference.
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:26 AM
2

No.
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:18 AM
143

If you say a phrase "Why do women wear clothes like that", it's usually not perceived by others as a genuine inquiry. Most people will interpret the question as rhetorical and judgemental, because so much scrutiny and moralizing is placed on how women dress generally. Why do women dress for summer when it isn't hot out? Could be one of a dozen reasons. They want attention, they didn't expect it to be cold, it's what they woke up in and couldn't be bothered to change, all of their warm clothes ar…
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:06 AM
13

Nah, you're just not an effective communicator.
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:59 AM
1

Probably because this is r/seduction and not r/HotorNot and she's open to advice regarding the rest of her online dating profiles.
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:26 AM
1

Nice
/r/seduction19/06/22 04:34 AM
4

Clubs aren't my scene, but I think this approach would have fewer benefits there. Clubs are physically personal, but socially impersonal. So being more forward, physical, and flirty would probably serve you better. But, it would be a fun game to play regardless. And if you're having fun at a club, other people will notice.
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:03 AM
2

Who are you supposed to be, exactly?
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:16 AM
1

I mean in the context of this sub, you probably don't need to worry about seducing women who hate men.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:07 PM
5

You asked this same question 14 hours ago.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:44 PM
2

Gift her one temporary tattoo. Ideally a shark.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:31 PM
20

Thirteen sour patch kids.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:29 PM
1

It doesn't matter what you thought, it only matters what you can prove. If she can prove she was drunk and you can't prove she was willing, the law won't care.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:53 PM
97

Approach Women really isn't the best goal for a party. Your goal should be to Socialize. Interact with every single person in a short, lighthearted, preferably funny way. Lots of opportunities for banter and flirtation happen organically when you just talk to people at parties.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:07 PM
1

Undoubtedly. And plenty of sex happens after drinking or while drunk, and everyone's happy and everything's fine. But the point is, that's not a guarantee. The law is generally structured to prevent drug-induced rape, which means any drug in the other person's system can be argued to invalidate the consent. Even if they took the drug willingly. So unless you're 1000% sexually familiar with the other person, you should never fuck around when someone's past tipsy. Because all they have to do is bl…
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:50 PM
2

In my experience, it's just shit testing with in-group/out-group language. They're filtering out men who get thrown off by feminism. Does your frame and humor shatter when a woman says she doesn't need no man? Does that damage you and throw off your game? Is it politically complicated for you? I have lots of friends like this and I roll hard in this space. If you're conservative or libertarian or what not, yeah. Best to just stay away. But if you're politically mild and trying to navigate the cu…
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:33 PM
3

degrade yourself under the guise of empowerment That's kind of the point, though. These women are choosing this themselves. You can cite cultural or corporate influences, but they aren't being forced or coerced to do this. It's their choice and their expression. Just like you aren't being forced or coerced to express yourself more conservatively. You can change any time you like, and so can they. It's empowering to choose for yourself.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:21 PM
23

Why can't a guy simply tell a girl he expects her to spend the night athis place at the end of their evening together WHEN he asks her out forthe first time Because you don't know this girl. She doesn't know you. She has no idea whether she wants to fuck you, and you should have no idea whether you want to fuck her. You don't know her, how she laughs, how she smells, whether she looks good without selfie filters, if her teeth are rotting out of her skull. You don't know shit, so why are you alre…
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:02 PM
1

The law doesn't give a fuck about your boring argument, and neither would your spot on the sex offender registry. If you want to know what the law says, look up what the law says.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:50 PM
1

A person, per the law of most states in America, cannot legally give consent if they're under the influence of alcohol or drugs. It doesn't matter if you disagree, that's how the law works. If you want more information, you'll have to look it up yourself according to your location.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:46 PM
1

The sex offender registry will not care about your argument. Saved you a click
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:42 PM
0

Pretty fucking weird how you compare sex to committing crimes.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:33 PM
0

Facts don't care about your feelings. Learn the law or stfu.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:13 PM
1

Why are you submitting these replies? They are not valuable.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:11 PM
3

Better familiarize yourself with the law.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:09 PM
3

If the texting sucks, close it out. Tell her you look forward to hearing about her travels when she's back in the neighborhood.
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:05 PM
1

No one's stopping you from trying to clarify, but your words read themselves.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:17 AM
1

People drink
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:07 AM
2

Sir this is a Wendys
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:02 AM
1

Attraction isn't a 'behavior'. Everyone in this sub knows that, so where did you come from?
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:58 AM
1

Sales are marketing. If you "like sales", the marketing is successful.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:30 PM
3

despite being racist cunts lmao oh god, and it's at 100 upvotes! This sub is a fuckin riot, I'm glad you're all here together.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:26 PM
1

This is the weirdest troll, but I respect your dedication.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:22 PM
2

And a sailor aesthetic. And cheery music. And flowers. And everyone's hot.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:20 PM
1

Triggered by facts.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:17 PM
3

Often repeated, rarely verified.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:16 PM
1

false
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:15 PM
1

Look, you don't have to accept the my reality. Fixed. :)
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:39 AM
2

Depends on whether people like you more or less as they get to know you. IMO, social circles are king.
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:22 PM
6

lol Jesus, I've scrolled too far down.
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:09 PM
2

Yeah, they're divorced.
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:06 PM
164

Damn, we all know Post-Nut Clarity But this is the first time I've seen Post-Nut Insanity
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:52 PM
2

Unless you can fight like Connor McGregor, you probably shouldn't behave like Connor McGregor
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:36 PM
1

I graduate in a semester and will likely be moving Just tell her that. If she has feelings about it, she'll let you know and you can talk about it then. No need to overcomplicate things.
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:15 PM
14

Yeah, sorta walked right into that one.
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:46 PM
1

Riveting.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:25 AM
1

Post texts if you want input.
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:13 PM
1

both my parents and friends kept critizing about I deserve better Ah, well your problem was not telling these people to go fuck themselves. Your life is not the space for these other people to feel unhappy. Tell them to mind their own business, before you become like them.
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:11 PM
7

Sounds like you probably have a more intense hatred of "fat" than most other people do. Your hatred motivates you to not become something that you hate, and that particular motivation either doesn't exist in others, or isn't as strong.
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:05 PM
1

I just hate being me when I read about how if you're a guy and can't get laid in college you might as well kill yourself. Is this really something that you're reading on reddit? Where? If so, leave those communities. They're obviously garbage. If not, you're just shit-talking your own life, it's your brain that's garbage and you need to address your mental state directly.
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:10 PM
1

There's absolutely no way to judge this without knowing if your text game is trash or not. Post screens and let us evaluate.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:30 PM
1

Hell yeah it would. Lots of fun stuff is weird.
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:05 AM
1

You will not 'get attention' from women. That's not how it works (generally). So drop that expectation. You have to either charm a woman from scratch, or demonstrate enough social value to raise her interest and lower her apprehension remotely. For most women, you're just going to be a nameless, impersonal stranger. Unless you change that. You could literally just smile and say "Hey" to every kinda cute girl you pass when you're walking. Not like "Heeeeeyyyyy", just "Hey". Lighthearted, like it'…
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:13 PM
1

I truly wish your brain was capable of that.
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:04 PM
1

You've now called China socialist and communist. What's the source of your education on this topic?
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:02 PM
1

Said unironocally, forgetting that the topic is socialism, because you're too ignorant to differentiate between the two. Classic.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:24 PM
1

I'm not the one parroting claims that I cannot explain, darling.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:41 PM
1

You sound exactly like someone who's heard all of your information and absorbed it superficially and uncritically. China currently has a capitalist economy and 'communist' one-party leadership. Why do you think they're socialist? Do you even know?
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:08 PM
3

They say 'Yeah, he's pretty fuckin weird, too"
/r/seduction01/06/22 10:30 PM
-1

You don't know much about China, do you? They haven't been 'socialist' in decades.
/r/seduction01/06/22 10:29 PM
5

16 year old. Technically all adults You are very confused.
/r/seduction01/06/22 08:48 PM
27

I don’t know that men have a “toxic” view of women. Followed by There are men that have been treated poorly by women and after a few negative experiences you start to either become bitter and introverted, or you grow alligator skin and treat them like they’re all cum dumpsters. Honestly unsure what you think a toxic attitude toward women would look like. Because you just nailed two great examples, chief.
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:39 AM
8

The primary danger here isn't that you'll sleep together, but more that you'll make her uncomfortable by confessing feelings that she doesn't at all seem to reciprocate. Do nothing. Just let them be. If they bang it out, it means she's not interested in you, and she's not the woman you fantasize she is. Whether or not they fuck and whether or not it compromises them morally isn't your responsibility, or your business. You feel otherwise, but those feelings are a lie, a mistake, and will only lea…
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:53 PM
1

this is the 2nd time she has flaked me Just to be clear, did you have dinner plans? It doesn't count as flaking if she never agreed to your idea.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:56 AM
1

Hit her with a dodge ball.
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:51 AM
2

pussy wussy the fuck
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:07 PM
3

Meh. Put her on the backburner, stay active on your posts. If she's meaningfully interested, she'll let you know.
/r/seduction25/05/22 04:42 AM
1

Elaborate on what this means, because I'm still confused. It wasn't your original thought, so where exactly did the Weak Jawline idea come from? Because whatever the source, you've seemingly decided to award it an immense amount of credibility.
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:47 AM
0

Congratulations on predicting your own refusal to self-educate. What a supremely valuable life skill. 👏 👏👏
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:25 PM
1

It takes literally two words in a google box to educate yourself on this matter. Do it yourself, loser, I'm not your dad.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:55 PM
1

Have you at all bothered to look into this topic before dumping your half baked brain out for everyone to see? It's the age of information and you're just bumbling around in the dark.
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:03 PM
1

Dude I'm straight up retarded, but I still apparently know more than you. That fucking sucks bro, my condolences.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:21 AM
0

It's okay to actually know something before you try to talk about it. Give it a shot sometime, sexy. 😘
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:06 AM
0

You're extroverted, introverted, or a switch. You don't just 'change' it. Stop being an ass.
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:07 AM
1

Let's all be honest, there's only one thing to do.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:00 PM
4

James Bond's friends are classified.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:04 PM
1

lol what
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:46 AM
5

Hot: Yoga teacher, bartender, underwater welder, motorcycle mechanic Not: "Influencer", finance, nursing, property management
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:44 AM
2

Dude marketing his product doesn't show me the bad results Damn that's crazy
/r/seduction15/05/22 07:04 PM
2

But, why? That's not a normal thing to feel. He either Has a bad relationship with his family and doesn't tell them things Doesn't feel like you've been dating long enough (how long?) Doesn't plan to keep you around long, and isn't telling you Has some weird personal fixation on privacy that doesn't particularly make sense and he needs to talk to you about it
/r/seduction15/05/22 12:17 AM
5

he tells me not to be with him You love him more than he loves you. He seems quite ready to let you go. This will not be a good relationship for you.
/r/seduction14/05/22 11:58 PM
1

What white claws, what clothes? You don't keep tabs on her stuff. 😂 Sorry bud, you ran into a rough one. It's good that you have a handle on what you are and aren't comfortable with, it makes things easier to unravel.
/r/seduction14/05/22 10:22 PM
2

Earth is the hottest location for orgies in the solar system. Better keep your girl off earth, bro.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:04 PM
2

[6 hours later] Update Required
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:26 PM
10

You, nodding and good-natured: "Yeah, our communication styles do not vibe" :) The whole situation is amusing, if you can step back and look at it. Let yourself be amused.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:19 PM
1

If wigging out over social media trades is how you 'game', you shouldn't be trying to hand out advice.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:07 PM
3

Instagram is how everyone under the age of 25 connects, bro. It's a lot of things.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:05 PM
0

0 fucks given wouldn't care. Leaving her is precisely 1 fuck given.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:02 PM
1

Lotta sensitive fellas acting like trading instas is swapping dna. Ya'll need to chill with that weird energy and get with the times before you're left in the dust. Swapping socials is normal. You should be doing it. If it pisses you off, you need to date an older generation.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:00 PM
0

A solid fact that they weren't fucking at 2am. Your take on this is illogical and bores me.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:15 PM
0

That would be an anxious person's take on it, yes. I would wait for facts, personally.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:29 PM
-1

I’m assuming my friend and her hooked up Verifying this assumption is step #1. If they didn't hook up and you detonate anyways, you'll look incredibly foolish.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:52 PM
102

"Yes, very sad. Anyways--" [continue Naruto plot arc breakdown]
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:38 PM
9

Ask her dad for advice.
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:20 PM
3

Your observation is either inaccurate (you're seeing it wrong) or incomplete (you're not seeing it all). One of those two is absolutely true. Possibly both. Either way, your obvious resentment will not help you see more clearly.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:40 PM
1

The date goes great, I bring them back to my place and then we get into bed to sleep Okay, I don't know how this is all playing out, but my advice is to and then we get into bed to sleep How? Why? Are you getting back to your place really late? Take her back to your place, and then do something. It doesn't have to be much. Watch a specific show from the couch. John Mulaney's stand up comedy, if you have no ideas. That's where you should be cuddling and learning physicality and escalating touch, …
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:31 PM
2

Ask if she has a sister.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:28 PM
7

Bantering and flirting is rarely yes/no. Improv's concept of "Yes, and---" will serve you much better. Where, whatever is said, you just roll with it and put a funny/sexy/absurd/dark twist on it. It doesn't have to be true, only memorable. So if she says "You have band director vibes", your challenge is to pretend it's true and spin it playfully.
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:30 PM
2

She's clearly asking if you'll play her like a violin.
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:21 PM
6

You both sound weird tbh
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:24 AM
1

lol stahp
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:09 AM
14

Casually slipping the revolution in there at the end, I see you.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:33 PM
2

I hate loud venues and shows because I can't just lean over and talk into someone's ear. All the heads are level with my chest. :|
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:31 PM
3

Casual misogyny is the reason a lot of men fail at dating.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:27 PM
4

This reads like the comment section of Pornhub.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:24 PM
11

My hobby is trying out lots of different hobbies and not becoming particularly amazing at any of them. But, but, I do end up with very broad experience and lots of shit to talk about. Like... you could make a pinata. You could even make a giant pinata shaped like a dick, but not know exactly what all you should put in a giant dick pinata. So you can ask everyone you meet what they would put in a giant dick pinata for an adult party. That's literally carrying my social life right now, ngl.
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:47 PM
1

Stab in the dark here, but maybe you should invite her to another group activity. Social circles are much more valuable than dates.
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:43 PM
1

ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:37 AM
5

It doesn't take balls, it just takes growing up. If you're this hesitant to communicate your feelings, your relationship is likely fucked anyways.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:38 PM
3

Eh, just ignore that one. Every circus has as a few clowns.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:55 PM
2

ADHD/BPD
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:17 PM
1

Humans like attention and validation, the motivation isn't complicated Whether or not you'd agree with it is irrelevant, she's not yours I don't know what sub you should've posted this to, but this isn't it
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:14 PM
2

You're in the wrong sub, then. This is not the place for men who refuse to work on their shortcomings.
/r/seduction27/04/22 08:48 PM
3

Bro I'm offering your mom a quality man to fuck, it's what that slut wants. Be a good son What's her insta
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:06 PM
5

Damn, your mom sounds like a slut. Tell her hmu.
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:50 PM
8

Listen to me very closely. This will absolutely work. DM this person right now, and say "Please hurt me"
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:30 AM
18

Yeeeeah you got crabs now
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:44 PM
-1

Eh, downvoting is easier than self-improvement. Apes gonna ape.
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:38 PM
1

Is anyone else bothered by it?
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:25 PM
2

Delete them and learn to control your drinking.
/r/seduction26/04/22 10:32 PM
-10

Silently staring at people on the street is some autist shit, and it weirds women out specifically. Presuming we don't stop our growth at "I can do whatever I want" and choose to venture into "I'd also like to not be a nuisance to society", consider that making people needlessly uncomfortable is bad even if those people are strangers.
/r/seduction26/04/22 10:24 PM
2

Liquor is quicker and more efficient, if getting drunk is your goal. But not everyone's trying to Get Drunk, a buzz from a 10-minute beverage is sufficient for most people. Plus, not all beer is the trash ass swill that's advertised at you. Quality beer exists, where flavor is prioritized and the alcohol content is just a result.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:47 PM
5

It entirely depends on whether you're seeking an equal, or someone who's been conditioned to feel subservient to men. I personally have no use for the latter.
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:02 PM
4

offered to add me on Telegram(?) Red flag tbh
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:59 PM
1

Straight up: Some chicks love conflict and feed off it (argue, fight, make-up, repeat). I find that kinda weird and exhausting and personally I don't play into it. But: I don't think Understanding Nice Guy gets very many women rolling, either. It's good within a healthy relationship, but isn't likely to build initial attraction. If I'm faced with this, I usually roll it into humor. Like, "Oh yeah I forgot. Yes, I am quite angry with you actually. Aaaaand now that I think about it I should probab…
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:07 PM
8

And when society says "no, you really are a creepy, manipulative asshole and you're in denial about it", what that really means is that society itself is a creepy manipulative asshole and society is in "denial" about it! Share like and subscribe for more healthy coping mechanisms
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:34 PM
9

Apps are a goldmine for literally any average looking woman. This whole thing seems sus.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:21 AM
4

You ever tried to plant your face in a big wet pile of pubes?
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:27 AM
-1

Sounds like you're the only one in class who can buy alcohol.
/r/seduction21/04/22 09:30 PM
2

You can cut straight to the core by asking if she's poly. That'll be her queue to tell you if there's anything unusual about her marriage. If she's not, and they're monogamous and exclusive, then she's just inviting you in for actual trouble. You don't want to entangle yourself with a person like that.
/r/seduction21/04/22 12:49 AM
1

Lol no. You can transpose previous soup experience and make your best guess, but that's it. You cannot transpose previous sexual experience because you have no previous sexual experience. You're a man who's never tasted soup, claiming to have a favorite soup.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:54 PM
26

after the date It wasn't a date, chief. She tried to make that clear. She is not interested in dating you and never was. From the start, she was interested in friendship and acquaintance, which isn't a bad arrangement as long as you're not paying more than half. The acquaintance is maybe still salvageable, if you want it. You just have to accept reality and own up to her about it.
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:22 PM
1

Would you prefer goru soup or hakane?
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:49 PM
2

Why bother? Then you'll just be an unclean non-virgin hypocrite insisting that women be clean and pure. You'll actually be worse than a virgin.
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:23 PM
1

lol ookay chief. Why are you even here?
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:40 PM
1

Quite a bit, but you'd need to ask a more specific question
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:31 PM
1

That you're either a virgin or a hypocrite. 🙂 Virgin is better, so I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt.
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:04 PM
1

You don't. That's your whole thing. "I have no experience and that's good actually" But why are you arguing about sex with people who've had way more of it than you?
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:59 PM
1

Why are you pretending to know anything about the sexual experiences of women? 😂 It's not like you've provided any
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:53 PM
1

How could it be a preference when you've never experienced it?
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:12 PM
1

Dated a stripper, she was smarter than you. 😂
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:06 PM
15

Six thousand bodies.
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:25 AM
1

... what?
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:24 AM
3

If she's hounding on you in front of her husband, it's probably something freakier than plain ol' cheating. Ask her if she's poly.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:34 PM
1

Your attempt to equate the two is an error in judgement.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:31 PM
0

That's all tinder is You seem to not fully appreciate the differences between a queue at Six Flags and an algorithmic system designed to inconvenience and mislead for profit. Your attempt to equate the two is an error in judgement.
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:17 PM
4

Dark pattern regulation. It's already a thing.
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:08 PM
11

This is a little-known technique for super-charging your penis and firing sperm that can break through your birth control. Be careful, he's trying to get you pregnant.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:42 AM
1

That's not a thing.
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:33 AM
4

I have access to his socials Yeah, this is psycho behavior. He's probably caught on that you're obsessive and struggle to respect the boundaries and privacy of others. No one wants to deal with that.
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:02 PM
1

You're trying to make “you seem cool af ☺️” seem awfully ambiguous.
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:55 PM
107

He doesn't want you.
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:58 PM
2

Kill a bear. Wear its head on your head The change will happen for you
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:43 PM
1

I wonder what her side of this story sounds like.
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:41 PM
8

Hey, it's me your private investigator. I looked into this girl and unfortunately it turns out that she is a lesbian. Big sorry, just treat her like your lesbian friend now.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:25 PM
6

Get a lesbian bff, they love talking shop.
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:03 PM
7

You got so caught up in your own comment that you forgot what the whole ass post was about.
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:00 PM
14

Bruh, Hinge is the most content-heavy app out there. It asks for half a dozen conversational primers when you build a profile, and practically forces you to engage directly with one to even interact. How are you already out of material?
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:44 PM
2

Them: Regardless of what the internet tells you You: In online surveys...
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:44 PM
8

Let her fade for two weeks, then send her a picture of Iowa's Biggest Ball of Yarn and be like 'Hey I didn't know your mom could knit'
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:36 PM
1

You're mistakenly equating two entirely different types of toxicity. Incels are dominated, and the desperation of their situation is often apparent. Resentful attitudes are unattractive and easy red flags to spot, so women can and do avoid them without much trouble. Abusers dominate. They tend to be more socially well-adjusted than incels, and generally have the ability and good sense to hide their toxicity until a controlling relationship is established. Society also contributes here by traditi…
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:31 PM
47

You can't fire me, I quit.
/r/seduction08/04/22 08:56 PM
1

Lol it's actually insane and kinda retarded that you think that. Thanks for all the laughs
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:40 AM
1

Yes, everything I've ever posted that suggests that I do not struggle with women is, in fact, a sneaky conspiracy. You are very, very smart.
/r/seduction03/04/22 10:27 PM
1

I won the game, champ. I'm only here to hand out spankin's for shitty, backwards advice. Thank you for all of this free energy, but you don't have the necessary software to 'understand' me. :)
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:39 PM
1

Now you're just obsessing. Yikes.
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:13 PM
1

when I decided okay I want this girl and start to put effort Was this in person or through text/app?
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:06 PM
2

Honestly, it sounds like he's struggling with his game as much as you are. If we were robots, I'd say forget him. Your guard is already up and that's not a healthy approach. But we're not robots, we're humans and we'll hold crushes until they're disenchanted from us. So knock yourself out! Best case: It works out. Worst case: It fails and you are no longer burdened by this crush.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:03 PM
2

Vibes, shmibes. I feel like it all comes down to this: Will you actually choke a woman if she wants it? Will you enjoy that being a part of your sex life? If yes, then yes. Restructure your vibe, keep attracting women who want it rough, and let them lead you down that path. If no, then no. Keep your easy vibe, and put more thought into how you can attract the kind of women who probably look at you and think "Oh, he's too bad for me". Because that's definitely happening. Worth mentioning though, …
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:52 PM
1

lol cool, good talk
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:18 PM
1

is... that a 'yes'?
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:10 PM
1

Calling it 'such a problem' is pretty exaggerated. The psychological fallout will be isolated to you and your partner, so it really isn't that important.
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:05 PM
1

Sounds like 100,000,000 women will die alone. Cool. Do you intend to do the same?
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:01 PM
60

If it were me, I'd make her a list of chores. Don't be like me. I'm funny, not sexy.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:57 PM
0

overly emotional reaction If you take a breath and a moment to read through this conversation, you won't find any emotion that you don't bring into it yourself. we aren’t asking about likelihood I’ve already mentioned it’s unlikely You're starting to seem like you don't really have a strong grasp on the situation.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:56 PM
1

Desire is normalized. Require is not. You are requiring.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:38 PM
0

Likelihood is always relevant if you actually intend to succeed. I assume OP wants to succeed, and encouraging him to set unrealistic standards for himself does not seem, to me, to be helpful.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:30 PM
1

Restraint is specifically the quality of avoiding harmful behavior. If a woman has a sexually active past, there is no harm there. Except, bizarrely, the harm that you feel from it. That harm is not anyone else's responsibility, it's the result of your culture, ideology and upbringing.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:16 PM
1

A fat woman Desiring a fit guy would be normal. A fat woman Requiring a fit guy would be hypocritical, weird, and an unlikely path to success.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:08 PM
2

Cool, you've had casual sex and are unclean. So why do you think you deserve a 'clean' woman who hasn't 'been run through'? You don't. You didn't hold yourself to that standard, and have no moral footing to require it of someone else.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:02 PM
2

just has a lack of restraint Oh god, the fundies are out. If you all were more chill about sex, you'd probably have more of it.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:52 PM
1

No, height is predetermined and beyond your control. It's more like a fat woman wanting a fit guy. Oh, you don't want to adhere to a disciplined lifestyle, but you want someone else to for your benefit? That is a crazy thing.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:50 PM
1

I actually know exactly where you should go to find women like this, but I'm not going to tell you because I feel like I'd be doing those women a disservice. Behave as you expect others to behave. Justifying hypocrisy will only stunt your growth.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:38 PM
2

A hypothetical is only useful if it's also likely. An attractive woman who [has a low sex count] + [doesn't mind if a man has a high sex count] is extraordinarily unlikely to exist in 2022 and only a fool would rely on finding one.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:32 PM
1

In your experience, Which way is bound to bring you more success? We have no idea what 'more success' means to you. You described the interactions, and your ideas 1,2 for handling them. But no one can answer this without knowing what you're wanting from it all. Also, the two options you're proposing for yourself are both adversarial. There are many more options, but it's worth examining why you've constrained yourself to these two 'score-settling' behaviors.
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:41 PM
8

What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I'll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I've been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I'm the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:19 PM
18

I've scrolled down too far
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:06 PM
3

2nd place.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:05 PM
1

Has a woman every had to flirt with a girl get her number and hopefully get a response? Screenshotting this for my lesbians and bi girls.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:04 PM
2

Between my wife, mother, three sisters, grandmothers, and entire dating history, I cannot recall a single time a woman has tried to shame me for having fun. It's unfortunate that some select women in your life have given you this impression of all women. Fortunately, it's an incorrect impression.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:00 PM
1

Crying this hard for attention is cringe af.
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:11 PM
0

Manchildren refuse or fail to adapt to their circumstances. They dig their heels in as a matter of 'principle'. Adaptation is the cornerstone of survival; ego is not.
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:47 AM
5

Dying alone is sooo strong.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:03 AM
22

Before you dedicate yourself to a loveless life, maybe you should just watch some goddamn Harry Potter.
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:46 PM
1

Blonde German Girl is an absolute unit. I love her now.
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:28 PM
0

Damn. Hope she found someone more satisfying to fuck.
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:11 PM
1

She's 'always busy', but making time to see you once or twice a week? That's an expression of interest. If you're busy enough to date a busy person, this probably wouldn't bother you.
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:01 PM
5

she looked at me and said 'you're a good looking guy' and I said 'thanks, so are you' i have died
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:36 PM
4

This post, your edits and comments are priceless. No one tries this hard to fuck someone who's not at least in their "league". 😂
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:33 PM
10

Last girl I dated wore faded band t-shirts and baggy construction pants from goodwill. There's something hot about just wearing whatever the fuck you want.
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:53 PM
3

How do you imagine a successful seduction generally "works out"?
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:32 PM
6

Mate, a woman has never seduced you. I get it. That fact about your life has no bearing on how other people in the world behave. I can report as a plain and simple fact: women are perfectly capable of putting in all the work if they really want to sleep with a man.
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:17 PM
9

She sounds like a sociopath. Sounds like a shitty experience. You don't have to feel great about it, but you'll have better experiences in the future.
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:02 PM
1

Cringe. Learn how to properly handle disagreement, your attitude is unattractive.
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:00 PM
1

False. Being seduced is fun for both sexes.
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:52 PM
1

0/10
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:02 AM
3

That entirely depends on whether your goals are social or anti-social. Focusing on yourself is a good skill, if you need to learn it. But it's a crutch for the wounded, not a place you should aspire to stay.
/r/seduction13/03/22 04:15 PM
1

22 is basically a child.
/r/seduction13/03/22 04:38 AM
1

It's almost like "prime" is a dumb, subjective fixation.
/r/seduction12/03/22 09:25 PM
3

Anyone 17-22 looks like a soft, round-faced baby to me. A person doesn't look 'complete' until they hit like 25.
/r/seduction12/03/22 09:21 PM
3

By what metric do you think this is true? Fitness? Happiness? Desirability? Wealth? You couldn't pay me to be 21 again.
/r/seduction12/03/22 09:20 PM
6

I am very busy and got enough interests IMO, so I think it would be hard for me to find a hobby that Nope. Whatever "I am very busy" means, it apparently leaves room for you to feel miserable about your life and think that you should die. You are not 'too busy', you've just filled your time with activities that do not fulfill you. Those unfulfilling activities are disposable.
/r/seduction12/03/22 09:09 PM
20

Girl offers you food and friendship and you start 9D Chessing it wtf? Give her my number, I'll bring a side.
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:42 PM
11

Step 1: Delete the word 'cuck' from your brain
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:08 AM
2

Your friend sounds juvenile as fuck. A child. A little baby who doesn't understand how to act or how to treat others. Call him out on his bullshit. He'll cry and complain, but that's what children do.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:51 PM
1

You'd have to pay me to date a 21 year-old. It's like adopting a puppy, but potty training is emotional labor instead.
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:38 AM
1

He didn't make a "friend", he made a friend. That's just called socializing.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:28 AM
1

You don’t come across as a creep because they’re the ones coming up to their friend and you’re just there with her. Once I became friendly with the group I started working out alone but they still would come up and strike up conversations. And from there it’s so much easier to work your magic. It simply is not cold-approach.
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:46 PM
2

You aren't really describing what OP is describing. There is no cold approach in the OP, it's purely social game with sweat and endorphins.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:59 PM
3

Yeah, casual hookups are a threat to her identity, social life and home life. Of course she blocked you, you're an agent of Satan.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:44 PM
3

I face palmed my brain into orbit.
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:04 AM
6

I guess the PUA community really is dead. Thank god
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:35 PM
1

That's true, generally. But the disrespect has to be real and valid, and you sound like someone who wildly overestimates their ability to correctly interpret the actions of others. You sound like someone who sees disrespect everywhere and gets constantly triggered by behaviors that are likely banal, because you interpret them as "disrespectful". If these posts are a reflection of how you think, then you are not stable and your interpretation of the world is probably not reliable. The best seduct…
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:27 PM
7

If I can't cold approach, I have to use apps False Dichotomy. And you seem to have completely failed to comprehend the comment you're replying to, which is describing for you a third option of real-world socialization. Building actual rapport =/= apps, cold approach And if you think rapport is performative, you have an entirely different issue.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:30 PM
0

Your espoused standards for conversation are much higher than you've earned, I'm afraid. It's helpful to understand the league that you've placed yourself in.
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:05 AM
0

Women don't like sex as much as men I don't encounter that problem, maybe that's more a you thing.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:17 AM
1

This is pretty extreme and there's probably something apparent in your upbringing that has led you to feel this way.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:11 AM
5

The point is: you're miserable. You're miserable because you're fixated on women, you aren't having the success you want, and it's dragging you down and giving you an unattractive vibe. You can do 10 reps, and if your goal was to do 10 reps, you've succeeded and are happier and motivated and attractive. If your goal was to do 10 reps to get pussy, you've done 10 reps but have no pussy, so you've failed and are miserable and bitter and unattractive. You are stuck in a cycle, and you don't know ho…
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:50 AM
9

The only thing I feel when a girl I'm slamming posts a hot pic is 'fuck yeah, that's mine right now'. Of course I'll like it. If you're not validating the women you're involved with, who are ya'll out there validating?
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:02 PM
7

Also looking for validation, but with lower standards
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:44 PM
15

Establish dominance
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:43 PM
3

get humiliated time upon time upon time Specifically define what you mean by this. Because so far you've used strong words to describe how you feel, but very little to describe what these women are doing to cause this feeling. So far, it sounds like women are doing innocuous things and you're naturally primed to feel humiliated by it. At which point your problem is expressed through women, but rooted in your mental health.
/r/seduction23/01/22 04:46 PM
2

Well yeah. And it should scare them off. You're not evaluating these women based on their personality and merits, you're just trying to find someone good enough to fill a position in your life. If your focus is what you need from others, rather than what you provide, you'll always make others uneasy.
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:24 AM
3

It's a helpful concept to inspire persistence, but in reality it puts you in an unhealthy frame of mind that encourages you to doubt what people tell you about their own preferences. When simply believing what people tell you, then providing space for them to change their mind, is so much simpler and more effective.
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:32 PM
23

Or, now this is crazy so hear me out: she doesn't fuck 18 year-olds.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:55 PM
0

No. Personally identifying as a person who can reliably detect hidden motives is exactly what [commenter] claimed. That's not a behavior, that's an identity hinged heavily on confirmation bias. Like astrologers and empaths, it's a self-image that's only possible by wildly highlighting your successes and ignoring your failures. I call that 'mind-reading' as a direct insult and to add perspective. I don't really care what they call it. Clarity of self is an attractive quality, and that's what we'r…
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:59 PM
-1

Caution is smart; Mind-reading hidden motives is hyper-vigilance, and is not healthy.
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:00 PM
-3

You probably feel that women are particularly manipulative and ego-feeding because you're dating and dealing with women, not men. High-value single men and women behave pretty similarly. It's the reason they're still single, despite having high value.
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:13 PM
3

You dont shove fingers into vaginas
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:26 AM
16

The right kind of person can sense hidden motives and deviousness in every person they meet. We call those people 'paranoid'. Rather than waging hidden and probably imagined mind-battles against other humans, it's much more reliable and sane to just understand behaviors that you will and won't accept and handle them if/when they actually manifest in reality.
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:21 AM
5

but I stopped cause I got bored when I shove a finger in This is either a shitpost or you're the most oblivious motherfucker on the planet
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:06 AM
1

Nah, I think this mindset is just a way for people to feel better about their lack of success. It lets you pseudo-reject people who... didn't show a strong enough interest in you? It's a cool trick for feeling like you have more power than you do, but that's about it.
/r/seduction14/01/22 10:56 PM
1

Lol something tells me that you're much less mysterious than you imagine yourself to be. But you were never my audience. :3
/r/seduction13/01/22 05:51 PM
1

My advice generally is to work out your personal issues and find peace when you're young, so that you don't become an insecure old man who uses the clumsy language of incels in a doomed effort to appear strong.
/r/seduction13/01/22 01:52 PM
2

You're advising an admittedly 'very possessive' young man to double down on his undeserved feelings of jealousy and attachment, within his place of employment, and in all likelihood towards people who entirely outclass him, with a botched framework and no suitable toolset. You don't recognize the limits of your 2008 Sarge act, and that's pretty sus when you're trying to mentor others.
/r/seduction13/01/22 05:57 AM
6

'My women' are free, clever, independent thinkers who are more than welcome to entertain whatever men or women want to slide in. This Sarge Commando Pussy Slaya personality you're working on wouldn't get a foot in the door. It reeks of insecurity.
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:32 AM
7

Cringe af
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:46 AM
3

Like, ironically?
/r/seduction11/01/22 05:49 PM
22

You're thinking 38, not 28.
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:11 PM
1

'Very specific' was probably the wrong phrase, 'very consistent' is better. She always used the exact same product, so her smell was always the same. I don't remember the exact prodcut she used, but it was something like this.
/r/seduction09/01/22 12:42 AM
2

Everyone smells like something. In order of dominance, it's usually Incidental: Weed, campfire, cigarettes, gasoline etc Cologne/Perfume Freshly laundered clothes Your House Smell Deodorant Fresh sweat Odd note, the last girl I dated used a very specific laundry scent product (not soap, it was literally just for the smell). And that was Her Scent. It's how her body and home smelled, and how I and my clothes smelled every time I left. All because of one product. So if you're unsure about your sme…
/r/seduction08/01/22 06:30 PM
8

Can only be friends with women if there's no sexual attraction at all between you and them This is scarcity mindset thinking out loud. Surrounding yourself with delicious food will torture you if you're starving, but not bother you much if you're full.
/r/seduction06/01/22 02:36 PM
1

I am spending all this money on her doing these activities and trips bruh
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:43 PM
1

Citation needed. It's good to assure yourself that the data you worry about is real, so let's do that first.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:03 AM
7

Sledge hammers are dumb and slow. Are you sure you know how to fight...?
/r/seduction21/12/21 04:19 AM
2

lol no
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:49 AM
1

I can hear your ancestors booing you from here.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:43 AM
2

Of course not. They'll like produce better, more stable, carefully considered results. Men obsessed with masculinity are the lowest rung of the social and sexual ladders. Ya'll are just clickbait for youtube channels.
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:56 PM
2

Men obsessed with 'weakness' and 'strength' can safely be assumed to be a nuisance to society and whoever they entangle themselves with. Fussing over how you are perceived is an expression of untreated anxiety.
/r/seduction09/12/21 09:55 PM
13

What song is a guilty pleasure? How do you act when you're angry? Will the American empire collapse into nationalistic fascism or a slow, boring dystopia?
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:52 PM
2

I don't know what PUA stuff you're into, but you are not supposed to take ioi's as gospel. They are possible indicators of interest, and you're supposed to watch for several before you act on them. Your girlfriend moving her hair when talking to another person is not flirting. It's not disrespectful towards her partner. This is your unusual issue to work out for yourself, and you should stop arguing with the people in this thread telling you that.
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:58 PM
3

This honestly just sounds like a You thing, not a Her thing. She's doing small, likely innocuous behaviors in public and you're being hypervigilant about them. Managing your partner is not your ticket through this, introspection is.
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:46 PM
1

The better question: Why do you feel entitled to a specific stranger's attention? He's already noticed you and made the decision not to act on it. If you want the situation to change, you'll need to change it yourself.
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:24 PM
2

Have you ever dated a lad? They can be quite ridiculous.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:27 PM
-5

beautiful, feminine women Why does this emphasis read creepy af.
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:07 AM
4

You fucked her once and now she wants you to take her overseas on vacation? I mean, you do you. If the extra 3k expense doesn't hurt you, go for it. It's not an investment, it's money burnt purely for the moment. But if you don't have the finances to soak this up (putting it on a cc?) you should really reconsider investing this money in someone more profitable.
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:49 PM
86

If she asks to go raw, slide on a 2nd condom.
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:43 AM
22

"Today's Standards" = Living Past 40
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:40 AM
2

I'm a natural bio furnace, hmu dude bro
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:46 PM
12

I often want to fuck when I'm unconscious. Sleep-cuddling is entry level shit.
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:45 PM
5

Don't stop dude bro
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:44 PM
1

semi-invite jokes semi-invite jokes semi- invite jokes "Joking" about meeting up is a way to protect your feelings and image when the other person declines. But it doesn't actually protect your image, because most people see this as insecurity. As if you're afraid to fail, so you don't really try. The proper way to invite someone to hang is to do something interesting, and invite them along. When your life and schedule does not depend on their response, people feel less pressure to say yes, and …
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:53 PM
2

'Validation' isn't just a pickup term. It's part of everyone's psychology, including yours. Some people feel validation when their helpfulness is recognized. Some feel validation when they express grievances. Everyone's different, but everyone experiences it.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:37 PM
1

Call them out, report back.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:31 PM
1

If you're on her low-effort content conveyor belt and she doesn't engage you meaningfully, you are 1 of the 1000 simps.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:27 PM
1

[laughs in polyamory]
/r/seduction01/06/21 12:18 AM
166

She clearly wants your chair so you should get up and leave
/r/seduction19/05/21 05:00 PM
1

Haven't you heard? Men are like, way oppressed Watch yr back homie
/r/seduction19/05/21 04:59 PM
3

It's not true... because I disagree That's not how it works. Feelings don't determine truth, and you are only expressing feelings so far. If you want to convincingly contradict common healthcare practices, vague skepticism isn't enough.
/r/seduction17/05/21 01:34 PM
2

Lol no, you said 'Guys this is not true' because your 'feeling' of 'skepticism' and the 'marketing gimmick' of skin damage from the sun. That's what you said, none of it substantial.
/r/seduction17/05/21 12:49 PM
3

Water is essential to your ability to live, but overexposure can cause your skin to fall off like sliced cheese. Yes, the sun feels nice. But that doesn't mean its negative effects aren't also "true".
/r/seduction17/05/21 12:42 PM
-2

You'll get an answer that's roughly as honest as the average between her emotional intelligence and your emotional intelligence. Querying is an art.
/r/seduction08/05/21 12:13 PM
10

You're not crazy, masks do interfere with how we evaluate others. Personally, I'm convinced that what my brain "fills in" as the rest of their face is likely more attractive than what they actually are. It kinda fascinates me tbh. But... so what? Are you just going to surrender without trying because you think there might be a problem? The two of you are almost guaranteed not to work out in the long run, and there are 1000 different unseen reasons for why that might be. So relax on the doomering…
/r/seduction28/02/21 01:56 PM
1

I mean, I'll probably continue giving balanced advice and you'll keep overcompensating with hyperbole.
/r/seduction10/12/20 05:28 AM
1

it's literally the only difference between friends and lovers Hyperbole is a terrible technique in conversation, because it only takes one exception to invalidate your statement. Like this one. I touch all of my friends. They are just my friends. They remain just my friends because I am not touching their peepees and vayjays. BAM, roasted, busted, invalidated. Easiest 1v1 of my life bruh.
/r/seduction09/12/20 06:38 PM
1

It's "better" in the sense that, yes, honestly expressing your sole sexual interest in a person is not generally appealing to the other person, so misrepresenting your intentions is one path to success. I would not call it "better" in terms of personal development, social health or growth.
/r/seduction27/11/20 02:42 PM
2

If your interest in a person disappears with their sexual availability, you shouldn't be offering your Friendship at all.
/r/seduction27/11/20 11:53 AM
17

Confidence isn't affected by the sex of your company. Showmanship is, but not confidence.
/r/seduction20/10/20 02:29 PM
1

Better hurry though before my wife steals all the available women.
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:59 PM
10

You've used blocking as a crutch and you're pretending that you didn't. That's probably why you're getting downvoted. If you truly weren't interested, you wouldn't need to block her to keep from texting her. If you truly didn't care, you wouldn't need the catharsis of taking that last definitive action. If you truly have no interest in girls who don't text you back, you wouldn't care how she'd respond to forced ghosting and you wouldn't be making this post. You aren't being entirely honest with …
/r/seduction14/09/20 03:34 PM
0

If you really didn't care what people think, would you bother trying to explain yourself to strangers on the internet? Just be real. We aren't dressing ourselves for our mirror's benefit.
/r/seduction07/09/20 03:23 AM
-1

You think other people will think it looks nice. aka: wearing it for attention Jewelry has no practical value, bob. Not sure if you missed the joke there.
/r/seduction07/09/20 03:07 AM
2

A bonus if you're just looking to be another bad decision.
/r/seduction07/09/20 03:03 AM
0

Ah, so you're wearing jewelry for its practical value...
/r/seduction07/09/20 03:01 AM
10

Some jokes just make you sad for the joker. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction23/08/20 02:28 PM
1

If a guy approaches you, he might internally define success as having a short chat and hit it off, maybe walk away with your number or social or a date. That plan complicates immediately with you, and will derail if at least one of you isn't experienced enough to guide it in. That experience and sense of self-assuredness probably won't be found in high school. You'll have an easier time being approached when the guys approaching you are more seasoned and have less social pressure and anxiety. Un…
/r/seduction21/08/20 03:32 PM
2

She has a child though Lol, shocker
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:36 PM
3

It's straight-up dumb not to bring condoms on dates, and this girl is dumb for having a problem with it. My response here would've been 'Duh' followed by an incredulous look and some prying questions about this girl's level of experience.
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:43 PM
33

Look interesting. Sound interesting. Be relatable. Push for seconds.
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:32 AM
2

From my experience, crushes need to Develop and ferment to have any potency. This usually involves meeting someone somewhat platonically, or with only light flirtation. Crushes seem to grow when you have time to observe someone and feel interested, without actually acting on it for whatever reason. I'm in a semi-open LTR, so while I approach most people platonically, there's always space and potential for something more. My market is also very small and tricky to maneuver in, so I tend to get to…
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:33 PM
22

Every girl has a secret notebook in which she keeps the names and tallies of any boy who left her on read. Once a month, the coven gathers under the full moon and join their powers to cast hexes upon their violators. These are the facts about women they don't want you to know.
/r/seduction03/04/20 04:54 PM
29

It's an experience of device capture with none of the perks that should rightfully accompany a face to face encounter. For me, talking to people is more supplementary to other activities, rather than a whole dedicated event. I'd rather do other things while I chat. Video chat is pretty demanding of my attention.
/r/seduction01/04/20 01:53 AM
43

You'll personally catch me dead before doing a video call.
/r/seduction31/03/20 11:16 PM
9

Dude, you've repeated this several times and seem way too fixated on it. It's over, and you're never going to get those years back. And guess what, it doesn't even matter. Teens have certain advantages, like mandatory socializing, high energy, wild hormones, broad sex appeal. They don't tend to have apartments, spending money, general autonomy or a sane brain. They're completely different worlds. My busiest sex life was between 24-28. Lay off the age thing and make use of your advantages.
/r/seduction17/03/20 10:05 PM
1

Ya'll don't have water pistols where you live?
/r/seduction27/02/20 07:06 PM
25

If a girl tosses the first handful of dirt on your grave because she was your wife for 40 years, then there's probably 50/50 chance that she's into you. It's literally the only way to know for sure.
/r/seduction10/02/20 08:22 AM
-6

Blue balls Is literally a myth and doesn't exist.
/r/seduction10/02/20 07:55 AM
13

redpilldad.blog
/r/seduction10/02/20 04:30 AM
1

Apparently
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:22 AM
2

If i'm dating a girl If you're dating a girl, you presumably have been on several dates. If you've been on several dates with a girl and haven't made an attempt, she's absolutely going to wonder what's up. Seal the deal before you get to that point. You can talk about it after.
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:16 AM
5

OP wrote this post in what is clearly his 2nd language. It's even a direct part of this story. Imagine. You failed to read as much in your native language as OP managed to write in his 2nd.
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:33 PM
1

You might find success with that attitude in India or Pakistan. In the West, we've mostly rid ourselves of the belief that the penis secretes Alpha Leadership powers.
/r/seduction07/02/20 06:08 PM
15

Don't accept it yet. Screenshot and joke at her again about her FBI skills. Call her Agent [Name]. Next time you hang out, or the time after that. Accept it afterwards instead of texting.
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:56 PM
1

as a man we should be respected by a women As a human, you should be treated with courtesy. And you should treat other humans with courtesy as well. Respect is different. Respect is earned, not owed. Why should men expect respect from women?
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:45 PM
2

he speaks on deserving Respect from others and if they don’t give it to you then you move on So despite knowing that you're supposed to move on, you're asking us if it's okay to complain to a girl who stopped showing interest in you. Everyone deserves Courtesy. And not even everyone is courteous. No one deserves Respect. And if you feel this way, you're just going to go through life feeling aggrieved because you truly believe that you deserve something that no one is in fact entitled to. Earn re…
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:08 PM
1

Get a snack. A shareable kind. Like an odd flavor of chips, or dried fruit or caramel corn. Say 'Hey'. Then say whatever you want. When you run out of things to say, offer some of your snack. I'm out of college and this is literally how I socialize with adults.
/r/seduction07/02/20 07:55 AM
5

I'm expecting respect and submission from a women You need to chill. No one respects the person who needs respect.
/r/seduction07/02/20 07:27 AM
3

Sorry to break this to you but she died.
/r/seduction07/02/20 02:03 AM
2

You ever wonder if they're just doing something right?
/r/seduction05/02/20 12:08 AM
17

Man the fuck up and take constructive criticism bitch.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:53 AM
4

You didn't 'make a mistake'. You just generally didn't give her the vibes she's used to or hoping for. It isn't just sexual, it probably has to do with your demeanor, whether you act or react, and whether or not you're the primary plot driving device. She wants to ride and she wants you to drive. And the kind of guy she told you she likes probably isn't fixating hard on her. Go practice.
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:15 AM
24

Change your self talk I hate my skull bro
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:30 PM
7

whoosh
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:35 PM
98

You probably just aren't seeing either situation accurately. A lack of neediness will probably not be the variable that limits your success. A surplus of neediness will probably not be the variable that curates someone else's success. It's likely that you aren't seeing or being honest about your real flaws, or aren't seeing or recognizing your friends' strengths.
/r/seduction15/01/20 07:15 PM
0

Go to therapy before the incels radicalize you.
/r/seduction12/01/20 10:01 AM
1

She said no. Move on.
/r/seduction11/01/20 07:10 PM
8

If you're just approaching strangers in bars, “hi would you like my boyfriend to tie you up with me” really isn't too wild of an approach. People go to bars because they're looking for new experiences and new people. If you're trying to find someone within your existing social circles to play around with, it takes a little more careful managing so you don't earn a reputation for being that couple. Honestly, conversation is your best tool. Casually bringing up things like same-sex attraction, bis…
/r/seduction11/01/20 06:41 PM
1

...Yeah, so do you know how narcissism works? Because qualifying a statement as personal requires a person to first understand that their subjective experience isn't universal. Which is... literally what I did in that 'unnecessary' first sentence. projection/gaslighting I'm not going to try to explain to you why this is funny. But it's funny.
/r/seduction07/01/20 03:46 AM
1

I dunno, my dog is pretty cute.
/r/seduction07/01/20 03:32 AM
3

Says the guy obviously bothered by what is clearly another person's testimonial. Perhaps you would've been happier if I'd reported on your experience?
/r/seduction06/01/20 04:58 PM
25

It's kind of annoying that you're this worried about an account on a platform that I've personally never even used. Bored, unhappy people won't be able to swipe through a glitsy, sanitized, version of your life? Big deal. You should honestly delete this thing, if only to prove to yourself that you'll be fine without it.
/r/seduction06/01/20 08:01 AM
6

You're already trying to talk yourself out of supposedly trying to get a girlfriend. One step at a time, friendo.
/r/seduction26/12/19 08:02 AM
1

lol christ, Well I can't fault you for trying. Let's be real. You're here in an internet community full of sexually dejected males who either aren't allowed or are too broken to properly champion their evolutionary line. You are in last place on the field of Darwinism, and the last thing anyone thinks of when they hear the term "Racial Superiority". Meanwhile, those of us who either never lost our shit or properly recovered it are trying our best to pick up all the slack you brave bois are leavi…
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 06:48 PM
1

Look, I get that actual communists beat the everliving fuck out of the Nazis and maybe that's a sore subject for you, but that doesn't mean that every internet stranger who makes you mad is a "commie". You should seriously consider growing a pair and deal with shit like an adult.
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 09:51 AM
1

Undoubtedly, the most striking personality of Europe was Adolf Hitler. What he tried to build deserves the greatest respect. They [the Nazis] realized the value of pure Aryan Europe. Hitler embodied the idea of an Empire of White People. Hitler discovered and realized the true destiny hidden in the blood of white people. The proud Aryan ancestors always went the way of the gods. Sooo you posted a Nazi's music and were surprised when they called you a Nazi? ...Makes sense.
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 06:16 AM
7

My fish is pretty good at catching other fish.
/r/seduction19/11/19 01:54 AM
2

Polygamy is marriage. Polyamory is lovers. Unicorn Hunting is the type of polyamory where a paired male and female are looking for bisexual females to have sex with. That seems to be the more accurate term for the situation you've described.
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:48 PM
1

Attractiveness (appearance, mannerisms, qualities) underlays all social interactions. Sex is just one destination in those interactions, but navigating them is an infinitely useful skill.
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:32 PM
3

Derisively termed a One Dick Policy.
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:25 PM
3

That’s a really stupid way to lose a perfectly good friendship because some internet video told you to do so. Listening to bad advice is its own form of darwinism.
/r/seduction03/11/19 05:40 PM
4

The video isnt meant to be taken seriously, its comedy. Someone should tell the omg this is mindblowing crowd.
/r/seduction03/11/19 05:35 PM
5

OP had an experience that bolstered his confidence and sense of self. Inner-game isn't failure.
/r/seduction28/10/19 03:55 AM
19

Through the lens of seduction, you failed. But viewing everything through the lens of seduction is a garbage way to live. You helped a person who was having a rough time, and that's great. Good looking out.
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:34 PM
8

the only good thing that came out of this is that the girl was OK It's almost as if people can feel a sense of accomplishment by simply helping other people. Wild.
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:31 PM
2

Good thing there wasn't a subversive agenda?
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:28 PM
4

Not with that attitude.
/r/seduction21/10/19 05:53 AM
1

Eh, the Over-Exaggerated Confidence show is fun as a quirk, but I don't build new interactions on it. It's antithetical to my naturally relaxing frame, which is strong already. I have a bottom-up approach.
/r/seduction19/10/19 04:32 PM
8

Serious answer, tho: • I think it's funny. If she also thinks it's funny, we're off to a good start • If she'd otherwise feel apprehensive about a rando on her daily commute, humor can help disarm that • If she feels apprehensive despite humor, I've already signaled to her that not engaging with me is a fine option and even offered her a pre-approved way out Most of my flirtations are invitations to play, and that only works if it's received lightheartedly.
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:50 PM
17

Can't reject me if I reject myself. Checkmate, women.
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:48 PM
-5

"Masculinity" is the insecure man's idea of security. If anyone tries to sell you the idea that women must instinctually swoon over any "naturally male" traits, they aren't finished trying to sell you things.
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:13 PM
20

Just walk by and hand her a note that says "What's your favorite Dinosaur?" [ ] T-rex [ ] Pterodactyl [ ] Leave Me Alone Please
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:50 PM
1

Doesn't matter what we think, he's gonna try again.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:16 PM
4

Refuses to date anything but Means Only dates Women over 25. Original phrasing was wrong, correction was correct, your correction of the correction is wrong.
/r/seduction02/10/19 08:16 PM
3

When we kissed I did a forehead kiss after our first ever kiss and this totally killed the mood ^If this is where you were at reach between her legs, felt her ass or tits ^You don't need to be worrying about this. Stay out of a girl's clothes until you're at least comfortably making out.
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:58 PM
7

Yikes.
/r/seduction20/09/19 01:23 PM
-4

"Hi, nice to meet you. For the record, I can't be friends with attractive girls." See, easy.
/r/seduction20/09/19 01:17 PM
5

Just think of my original response as a test. :3
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:12 AM
4

lol holy shit. Not eveything's A Test.
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:07 AM
22

Cringy is when you ask a girl out, she says no, but you're still obviously wishing it was a Yes. Demonstrating an ability to pleasantly coexist with attractive yet (even temporarily) unavailable people is attractive. It shows that you're stable, flexible, and not easily shaken. It's a quality worth cultivating. ​ And when, like 5 years later? Are you under the impression that, if he got weird and didn't talk to this girl anymore because he wants to date her but can't, that this increases his cha…
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:04 AM
21

It's just a specific anxiety evolved into neuroticism to the point that some guys just obsess over the idea forever. As if women exist only as a direct romantic or sexual entity, and all other relationships with them are a total fucking embarrassment. I don't really get it either. Like, learning to be buds with people you're attracted to is a life skill. Just be cool, fools.
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:49 AM
17

Just dedicate yourself to making so many mistakes that you can't possibly keep up with dwelling on them all.
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:26 AM
46

Kinda just sounds like you enjoy watching movies. Which is fine, but it's definitely not at all what people mean when they mention meditation. Meditation is a skill-building practice of present awareness. Movies are passive, stimulating escapisms. They're more opposite than alike.
/r/seduction09/09/19 08:41 AM
-1

Everyone called you ugly, but 10 girls had crushes on you? You've gone to The Club over 20 times and never managed to talk to a girl? This story is either the weirdest bullshit or you really struggle to express your life to others honestly.
/r/seduction26/08/19 03:09 PM
1

Honestly she'll get pretty sprung if you just follow the instructions and don't botch the assembly.
/r/seduction22/08/19 09:43 PM
10

Great, now I have to find a way to steal this.
/r/seduction22/08/19 09:41 PM
1

If you're going to be here. No one's forcing you. Hell, no one even requested you.
/r/seduction19/08/19 05:17 AM
2

Go ask HR, I'm sure they'd love to weigh in on it.
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:36 AM
1

So by telling the my truth You know nothing about OP's looks or life. No one here does. You're projecting your own experience as a 5'3 16 year-old already convinced of your own crippling inadequacies onto complete strangers, and it's pretty fucking dumb. There's decent advice of many stripes posted in this thread. Yours isn't any of it. People in this sub are here to learn and grow. This shitty mindset you're defending is pretty worthless here, and damn near everywhere. It doesn't provide value,…
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:32 AM
3

Blackpill evangelism is for sad people who get off on feeling sad. It doesn't help anyone, it's just masturbatory journaling. If that's your thing, there are several miserable communities elsewhere who would welcome your contribution.
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:29 AM
27

The advice you find on this sub is geared toward attraction, not relationships. Attraction is the just the first phase. Even valid PUA advice becomes trivial once two people are comfortable, trusting and invested. Other qualities become more important, such as patience, security and empathy. It's a completely different arena.
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:22 AM
4

r/incelstrying
/r/seduction19/08/19 01:53 AM
2

I totally agree that, if that's how you feel, that's how you should present yourself. My advice is more suitable to a different mindset.
/r/seduction10/08/19 07:31 PM
96

A girl who treats you as a friend is either being sincere, or insincere. Either way, your response is the same. Shrug it off, treat her like a friend. Notably, talk to her about the (other) girls you're interested in, as any friend would. If she's sincere, she doesn't get weird. You gain another friend, your social circle/proof grows, and you should have a foot in with all of her friends. Abandon intimate ambitions, accept her new platonic station, and enjoy the rewards. There is no loss here. I…
/r/seduction09/08/19 10:05 PM
1

That's probably true of generic mindfulness, but there's much to the world of meditation beyond mindfulness. There's an entire wing of meditation known as Metta, often called Compassion or 'Loving-Kindness' meditation. You essentially, gradually temper your good will first toward yourself, then to loved ones, strangers, and eventually antagonists. It's a very active practice, with effort as the sole barrier to entry.
/r/seduction04/08/19 04:58 PM
3

Went digging to see what your interests are and I get high literally every single night after work and all I do is play phone and computer games. This sounds like your heaviest weight. It's easy to talk with and relate to other people when they have things in common with you. And when you have things in common with them. Every new experience gives you one more way to connect with someone else. If you're doing the same things each and every night, you're really stunting both your interest and you…
/r/seduction01/08/19 02:40 PM
2

Girl called you pretty? Nice.
/r/seduction26/07/19 04:50 PM
0

I'm sorry that you're feeling isolated. That's a hard slump to climb out of. A lot of what you're describing is probably best directed towards a qualified therapist. Feeling unworthy of positive relationships isn't normal, and while you can work around it and still find success, it's the kind of deep inner belief that'll crop up and sabotage things for you throughout your life, if you don't address it directly. That said... I feel I'm fundamentally different to most other people Unless you're th…
/r/seduction21/07/19 10:20 PM
1

You're certainly welcome to your own anecdotal experiences. Try to not define a very large world by that small sample size, though.
/r/seduction10/07/19 10:05 PM
3

We? You might not. Not all of us are confused by this. Girls are very different from one another.
/r/seduction04/07/19 03:15 AM
-13

Everything you just said is also true about men, and almost certainly you. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:07 PM
8

"Fuckboy" isn't an evaluation of your success, just your attitude. You can have no success and still qualify as a fuckboy, if fucking is all you're after. This is apparently how you present to girls. If it's inaccurate, you need to present differently. If it's accurate, welp. There you have it.
/r/seduction27/06/19 08:14 AM
0

I know psychology lmao oh god Give Dr. Dunning-Kruger all my love.
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:29 PM
1

Do you think you're worst at shit-tests, debate, or diagnosing personality disorders over the internet? Honest reacts only.
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:24 PM
1

lol, I mean at this point I'm fully willing to believe that every girl you encounter does shit test you specifically.
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:05 PM
0

Girl, there's nothing to debate. This is just a process of you expressing a genuine feeling that happens to be objectively, demonstrably wrong, and then backpedaling away from it. Whether shit-tests are or aren't biologically motivated is irrelevant because the belief allows you to predict exactly nothing. It's a useless story that leads to false expectations. And since you seem so interested in straw-men, I said shit-tests don't happen in my life. That is not the same as claiming they've never …
/r/seduction21/06/19 06:48 PM
0

You: I never said every girl is giving shit tests all the time, that’s a straw man he made up Also you: They all do it subconsciously because its programmed into their biology to do so. Don't blame me for your broken shit, own it or fix it.
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:50 PM
0

Maybe I'm just not concerned with hashing out what I feel to be an unimportant fixation? I don't actually care if you have a proper origin-story for shit-tests. If nature/nurture trips you up, that's already more than I signed up for. Your most critical flaw was the first one: telling another person that shit-tests are a fact of life with women. They aren't. My life is shit-test free. Why isn't yours?
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:45 PM
2

To refute your non-evidenced argument? You're just repeating someone else's speculation. You say shit-tests are universal. I can very confidently assure you that they aren't. So if you actually feel that every girl is trying to shit-test you, that's probably indicative of something unhealthy on your end.
/r/seduction21/06/19 05:49 AM
2

I'm not saying that you can't articulate a speculative argument that feels convincing and brand it as Evolutionary Psychology. I'm just saying, as someone buried in a mountain of women for different reasons, it isn't an accurate or terribly useful belief.
/r/seduction21/06/19 04:17 AM
6

Biology? Nonsense. Value-probing is a trait all humans share, and the 'shit-test' is just one cultural evolution of it. Not all cultures, and not all members of any culture. It is possible that an individual could feel like they're always being shit-tested, but that's more revealing of that person's state of mind than the DNA of the humans around them.
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:52 AM
2

You've only texted this person? And they change the subject when you try to flirt? Change it to what, exactly? Why are you texting? Because this sounds pretty weird. What's your connection to this person? If it's a dating app, you need to just ask them out directly and shoot your shot. If this is someone whose number you have incidentally through work or class or whatnot, you need to cool your jets and not be weird.
/r/seduction17/06/19 10:59 PM
12

I was making fun of your hyperbole. If one thing is Everything, another thing can't also be Everything.
/r/seduction15/06/19 04:17 AM
39

Eh, that's iffy advice to dish out to strangers. A woman like this has certain immature traits, and there are plenty of men with equivalent immature traits. Girls like this have their male counterparts, and neither should fall under the delusion that they somehow deserve better material than they provide. It's very possible to be mediocre yourself and shun the mediocre market because the internet told you that you deserve the best. You'll exist in lonely frustration because you can't hold on to …
/r/seduction14/06/19 10:28 PM
9

I don't think that's how Everything works.
/r/seduction14/06/19 09:58 PM
1

Personality? Despite your pedigree of hopeful qualities, this post reads like a furnace manual. Dive into some comedy, explore the simple pleasure of talking to and experiencing a stranger, hand out candy to adults. Work on creating and receiving fun just for fun. Fun is magic.
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:30 AM
5

4) She's fishing for a mmf.
/r/seduction27/05/19 12:57 PM
2

An obsession with wealth isn't any healthier than an obsession with women. Both are drawn from the well of scarcity, and lead to the same unhappy place. Your opportunity for learning how to coexist intimately with another human also takes place in a small window. I know several men 45+ who have very impressive portfolios and no genuine human connections. They're lonely icons to a society. Balance is king, and rebelling against societal guidelines is 100% a part of that.
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:41 PM
3

Kinda weird considering Jesus whipped debt collectors.
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:15 PM
1

Yeah bro. I never should've understood and respected women, having multiple girlfriends is very time consuming.
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:04 PM
2

lol it's your entire post Lord Almighty
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:40 PM
2

You're very worried about infidelity, so you don't understand something.
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:37 PM
1

• Addiction and use are not the same thing • Users and dealers are not 'bad' • This analogy is dumb and I'm done correcting its flaws for you Stop using analogies you don't understand to 'explain' social dynamics you don't understand.
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:33 PM
1

Even if your analogy made sense, you're at best drawing a moralistic lesson in alignment with a clearly disastrous international social policy. Yes, many societies try to pin the majority of addiction blame on traffickers and dealers. This mindset is a failure, on both topics. People don't get addicted to Drugs when their greater needs are fulfilled. Your Girl isn't going to cheat if her greater needs are fulfilled. Drug dealers and other sexually desirable humans will always exist in Your Girl'…
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:17 PM
2

Third? There is no third party in this analogy, just like your house-robbing analogy. Analogies are only so useful, even when they're used correctly.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:18 PM
4

Your analogy was "taking a woman from a man is like robbing a man's house". If comparing women to property wasn't your intent, you're free to imagine a better phrase. Women 'belong' to whoever they want. That's how agency works. A properly healthy, secure relationship is immunized against this sort of intrusion. That's where Responsibility lies, not with the other 7 billion people on the planet to behave to your liking. Intrusive 3rd parties don't cause the suffering you're fixated on. They just…
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:02 PM
69

It's an insecure man's idea of a secure man.
/r/seduction24/03/19 06:40 PM
9

How can one One doesn't. You are what girls call 'some rando'. You're no one to her, and your message will be an annoyance if she ever even sees it. Stop adding random people on Facebook. Go outside, talk to real people.
/r/seduction16/03/19 04:06 PM
8

Shit tests and negs are symbiotic insincerity. They necessarily exist only because the other exists. It's the price of one or both people having not figured out how to connect with another person in a relaxed and sincere manner free of the burden of bullshit social pretense. Neither are necessary, although they feel necessary to people who haven't figured out a better way. You're frustrated now and will continue to be because you're trying to play someone else's game, and you're never sure if ot…
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:27 PM
3

70%.
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:23 AM
8

It means she lives on a planet so near a black hole that the gravitational distortion causes her timeline to move at a slower pace than yours. For you it feels like 5 hours, but for her it's only about 20 minutes. You need to worry less about... well, whatever it is you're worried about, and worry more about surviving such a huge interstellar journey.
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:07 AM
1

Roleplay is more r/sexadvice material, try there.
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:42 AM
3

Alpha vs Beta is obsession over checkers in a world full of chess. It's literally a meme the rest of the world makes fun of.
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:00 PM
-2

Alpha/beta is a silly myth Women approach Women work Your failure to witness this is caused by something else Possibly your attitude
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:11 PM
6

I don't even think whoever wrote that post was trying to fool anyone. It's so painfully, boringly sarcastic. The sad part is how many people here think it's an actual post by an actual girl. Come on, people. :/
/r/seduction06/02/19 03:49 PM
21

I find overly prolonged eye-contact to be a bit of a nuisance, personally. It's pretty easy to tell when someone's deliberately holding eye-contact insincerely, as some sort of exercise or power game or unfamiliar principle. Sometimes a person just has an undistracted, almost dreamy sort of gazing personality, but that seems pretty rare. Regardless, I always handle it in the same way. I just ask them if they own a cat. Here's something we all know: cats are sociopaths. They also stare like mothe…
/r/seduction05/02/19 12:52 AM
18

Fortune-telling your own self-fulfilling misery is one hell of a hobby.
/r/seduction30/01/19 04:40 AM
4

Knowing nothing about it? Probably genetics, style, self-care, and attitude.
/r/seduction24/01/19 01:29 AM
2

Was she shy or was she just drunk?
/r/seduction20/01/19 04:44 PM
8

Within a few interactions, a "whole package" kind of guy will let you know if he's interested. All a woman really has to do is cultivate those interactions, and she'll get her answer. So, he's new in town? Ping him for something social. Invite other quality people that you know, offer an expansion of his social circle, and you be you. If he feels the click, he'll make sure you know it. You seem pessimistic. So, in the event that he isn't in to you, will you still want him around as a platonic "w…
/r/seduction20/01/19 09:11 AM
8

Bonus: You get to build a pillow fort.
/r/seduction20/01/19 01:46 AM
13

's :/
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:21 PM
13

It's one strategy. Minimal investment, low chance of success, but arguably a decent ROI. One party is instantly clear about the other party's level of interest, so that's actually a good thing. Social apps are rife with low-commitment, flighty behavior, and trying to condense your personality and interest and charm in 6 messages or less (before boredom or distraction or anxiety terminates another person's interest) can be very high effort with very low payoff. I don't do this, but I totally get …
/r/seduction18/01/19 07:12 PM
1

Personally, I view myself as superior to white people.
/r/seduction16/01/19 10:25 PM
-3

I think this ad is unintentionally brilliant. Surely we can all agree that healthy, earned, confident masculinity won't feel threatened by a razor company's ad? That does not seem too bold of a statement. So, what sort of masculinity has grievances left to air? Unhealthy, Unearned, Insecure? Posers and pretenders? Men using masculinity as a tool, a method, a mask? "Masculine" is not... should not be an identity. It should not be an image that can be threatened by how society views you. It's an i…
/r/seduction16/01/19 07:22 PM
-2

Thanks!
/r/seduction16/01/19 06:52 PM
-4

As a white person, triggering other white people into screaming White Racism is my new favorite hobby.
/r/seduction16/01/19 06:49 PM
2

Maybe I'm thinking too much You are. You haven't even begun to see either of these girls, and you're already thinking about complications. The universe where you see both girls, it's a natural hit with each and both want to continue is the least likely universe, so energy spent worrying over it is most likely energy wasted. Going forward though, it's typically assumed that fwb situations are non-exclusive. So unless your friend tells you that a) she wants to be exclusive or b) she's totally cool…
/r/seduction12/01/19 10:12 PM
15

This is a good read about one guy's successful efforts to make a particular woman orgasm. But while some of your advice works for some women, it won't work for others. If 'How to finger a woman and make her come' doesn't make a woman come, it isn't because the woman is broken or you're just not trying hard enough. It's because 'and make her come' is an overgeneralization. Some women cannot come from internal stimulation. Some can only come from internal stimulation. Some love dirty talk and some…
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:04 PM
0

Look, you seem like you'll be a great guy for someone some day, but I just don't have those feelings for you. You should try to see other people.
/r/seduction02/01/19 07:55 AM
1

I appreciate it. But judging by how little you've managed to learn in a week, you'd better just keep all that luck for yourself. ;D
/r/seduction02/01/19 07:47 AM
1

Good. My plate's full as it is. Thanks for being the middle-man.
/r/seduction02/01/19 07:39 AM
0

You should. At least she'll have some substance to look at.
/r/seduction02/01/19 06:48 AM
1

Well, sounds like it's working. Good on her.
/r/seduction01/01/19 09:49 PM
1

Dude, look. Your ego is the only reason you care that a girl has an ego. It's the only reason you feel mistreated, or 'flipped off(?)'. If you were free of ego, your pride wouldn't be vulnerable. You'd actually have no pride, because pride would be a meaningless notion. People dedicate their entire lives to understanding and freeing themselves from the ego, and even then it's never permanent, never assumed, and never something that doesn't require some kind of deliberate attention. You are not t…
/r/seduction01/01/19 07:51 PM
3

Do you think that statement says more about me than it does about you? Your post wanted to talk about the problematic ego of others. You seem very much gripped by yours, however.
/r/seduction01/01/19 07:19 PM
0

That... we should meet standards within ourselves before setting them for others?
/r/seduction01/01/19 07:12 PM
0

It sounds like your understanding of ego, and what shedding an ego actually entails, is a bit off the mark. Shouldn't you get rid of your own before worrying about others'?
/r/seduction01/01/19 06:08 PM
1

INCELS ASSEMBLLLLEEEEE
/r/seduction01/01/19 06:00 PM
1

YEAH, HIS MOM'S A SOYBEAN PLANT, YOU TELL HIM
/r/seduction01/01/19 05:59 PM
18

The guy seemed 100% ready to send her with you alone, so I'm not sure where everyone's getting MMF vibes from this. It sounds more likely that this girl herself is a total shitshow. Dude knows she drinks too much, agreed to come out with her, but at the end of the night doesn't actually want to babysit her wasted ass and tries to pawn her off on you. Forget the girl, bro up with that guy. Sounds chill af.
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:55 PM
3

boost my qualifying game That's probably your real sticking point; Not all girls are susceptible to this, because they just aren't that interested in qualifying themselves for strangers. Introverted girls typically don't want to be in whatever bar or club you've found them. Their energy will be different from yours. You can either build enough rapport to help them match your energy state, or you can relax and bring it down and just chill with them. As always, playing a particular game is the mor…
/r/seduction29/12/18 02:20 AM
2

all girls looks for is a pretty face that can validate their own looks You need to stop hanging out in the places you're hanging out. That depressing, shallow opinion of women is both untrue and unhelpful.
/r/seduction28/12/18 01:49 AM
2

If how you appear is your biggest concern, you're probably right.
/r/seduction18/12/18 07:30 PM
1

It's not about being "cool". It's about being enjoyable, unburdensome, stable, and considerably less miserable. You want neediness to sound harmless, but you're ignoring the fact that neediness is also a smoke signal for anger, jealousy, insecurity, and codependency. Neediness is how non-growth expresses itself within a person. You haven't managed to obtain enough of a thing or realize it isn't the secret to your happiness, so not getting the thing demands your unhappiness. And you're bound to s…
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:59 PM
6

You are feeling obsession. Obsession is only possible when you have the idle brainspace to waste. This is your signal to find an engaging hobby.
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:07 PM
2

having a visit all about me I'm honestly having a hard time figuring out what actually happening. You live in a shared apartment, and one person is coming to visit you there? You specifically? Only you, or everyone together? Romantically, or platonically? I'm just lost. Regardless, as a fairly social person, I still 100% enjoy small fidgety tasks when socializing. Complex snacks, like whole peanuts or pistachios, or an unfinished puzzle or Where's Waldo book or literally anything that doesn't re…
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:18 PM
5

No one can give you clarification for your specific anecdotes, simply because the possibilities for your troubles are pretty vast, and everyone here is a stranger to your situation. But, your original question is worth wondering on. In design terms, 'over-engineering' a product is still considered bad engineering. (Check out the Juicero for a more bizarre example of this) Personally, it's easy to detect when a person is trying to skillfully 'get' something from me. People who approach me with a …
/r/seduction15/11/18 06:38 PM
3

Holy shit. Being you must be such a miserable experience.
/r/seduction14/11/18 12:34 PM
12

I'm just gonna throw several things at you. • Having a type is fine, but this doesn't seem to be working for you. • You seem to own several "I am" statements. "I am only attracted to very badass women." "I am bored with women who live safe lives." While these are sometimes true observations, they can also turn into mythologies and perpetuate their own existence. This current version of you is temporary in most ways. Try nurturing more flexible, less absolute language, with yourself and with othe…
/r/seduction14/11/18 11:42 AM
8

Oh fuck you must be bored
/r/seduction07/11/18 02:34 PM
1

lol, evolutionary psychology is theoretical. It's a mental model, not a divine transcoding of the inner workings of All the Babes. It certainly doesn't mean that all real women are attracted to or appreciate two-dimensional quasi-alpha posturing. Women are complex. A careful consideration of the Hierarchy of Needs will develop your toolkit much more completely than this hammer-and-nail nonsense.
/r/seduction25/10/18 03:42 AM
2

It's called New Relationship Energy. Flirtation and excitement are natural in the beginning, but once the NRE fades, insecurities will start colliding in earnest. This can result in wildly different experiences, depending on the individuals, their chemistry, and how willing they are to work together. Yeah, it can be boring. Or comfortable or dramatic or fulfilling. Or all of these things, at different times, in any amount. Some people are disasters anywhere they go and to everyone they're with. …
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:48 PM
1

This guy historically seems to struggle with empathy and processing the actions and motivations of others. So, very likely on the spectrum.
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:23 PM
6

You can like every girl you lay eyes on, and not suffer for it. Attachment is where the pain begins.
/r/seduction18/10/18 04:15 PM
8

Write 'hey' and send it on a paper airplane. Don't miss.
/r/seduction18/10/18 11:31 AM
1

Running after women isn't 'boldness'. Failing to listen to and understand women isn't just 'a few seconds of weirdness'. Accepting the reality of women when they speak it isn't 'overanalyzing'. Yes, many women like men. Yes, they can enjoy being approached. No, they don't always want to be approached. This is an absolutely trivial matter for you to understand. The only thing it requires is for you to actually talk with, rather than about, the sex in question. Honestly, if women haven't shared en…
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:36 AM
1

happiness of girls who want to talk to you Habitually using your own desires as the litmus test for overly-optimistic clairvoyant mind-reading is not a path to happiness. Learning to read the temperature of social situations will do everyone immensely more good than learning hot tricks for ignoring them.
/r/seduction11/10/18 01:12 AM
5

I don't elevate my own experience as overwhelmingly more important than the people I interact with throughout my day. Every exchange is an opportunity to improve another's experience, or damage it, and I have a strong preference. That's, generally, "why it matters". Is your suggestion to simply forget about it Yes. And if you're going to feel regret or pain because you have to forget about a girl who didn't even notice you, that is perhaps a space for gainful introspection. My opinion on this is…
/r/seduction10/10/18 07:20 PM
1

A girl isn't going to give two shits whether you, or the dictionary(?), thinks a behavior isn't or shouldn't be threatening. Both of those opinions are irrelevant. Girls typically do not feel safe being chased down by strangers. If you don't believe me, go talk to girls and find out for yourself.
/r/seduction10/10/18 06:00 PM
12

While I can't weigh in on your account of your friend's account, I can help you out with one thing. How the fuck is this harassing chased girls down on the street barefoot That. Don't do that.
/r/seduction10/10/18 04:26 PM
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This honestly just reads like a tonedeaf justification for harassing women in a social climate where you really, truly should not go out of your way to do so. You don't have to "stand out" by literally chasing down strangers, and unless you know for a fact that the environment feels safe, the time of day feels safe, and the girl feels safe, trying this 'game' is more likely to get you maced than laid. Yes, it can work. No, you shouldn't be trying it on the basis of an anonymous internet testimon…
/r/seduction10/10/18 04:09 PM
1

It's flirtatious. It's either sincere, or insincere. No stranger on the internet can honestly tell you which. Unnecessary physical contact is flirtatious. Some girls are flirtatious with everyone, always laughing and touching. Others are more selective about it, and it's more meaningful when that happens. Women also exist who use flirtation as a twisted power game, and come on to unsuspecting men insincerely, just for attention or validation or entertainment. Again, knowing nothing of your situa…
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:44 PM
1

If you can't tell, how could we? Regardless, normal people don't continue to pursue others sexually unless there's some kind of reciprocation. If you aren't flirting back with her, she's probably someone to stay away from.
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:18 PM
1

Soo... is there a question, here?
/r/seduction06/10/18 12:55 PM
9

HS is a small, very visible social space. Everyone is watching, and everyone is talking constantly. Unless you already have a reputation as a smooth character, putting a teenage girl on the spot and making her judge you in front of her teenage ingroup probably isn't the best course of action.
/r/seduction02/10/18 01:59 PM
5

Unsure if she's into me So are we. You should probably find out.
/r/seduction02/10/18 09:07 AM
1

If you, personally, don't enjoy fun, adventure, or danger, then yes. It would be dishonest and disrespectful to pretend that you do in order to get laid. So, don't? But it's worth accepting that many people of both sexes thoroughly enjoy those experiences.
/r/seduction28/09/18 12:00 PM
1

Adventure and struggle and danger are all solid, proven ways to create and deepen connection. Not merely in relationships, but in humans as a whole. Look at cults, the military, radical and/or political groups, team-building excursions. Communities after disaster. OP could've cut out 70% of that "insanity", and it would still provide faster connection burned more deeply into the memory than, say, exchanging ideas cerebrally in a coffee shop.
/r/seduction28/09/18 05:10 AM
1

Because it's a boring question that no one else is confused about. You're splitting hairs over terminology, and OP doesn't care why. Moveon.org
/r/seduction28/09/18 04:35 AM
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M'LADY WILT THOU ENTRUST UNTO ME THY COLD SWEATY PALM? Like, really yell it though. Especially in the theater
/r/seduction25/08/18 12:25 PM
1

'Let's get coffee sometime' requires no effort or investment to agree to. It's practically a 'nice to see you, goodbye' in 2018. Her 'yeah sure' didn't mean anything, because it didn't have to mean anything. When you tried to make a real plan, you discovered a better sense of her interest.
/r/seduction23/08/18 03:24 PM
4

Just be nice and courteous and ask if they have any older sisters.
/r/seduction16/08/18 09:12 AM
1

They have attraction, though it's a fraternal sort of attraction and they're probably hitting at your nuts because they're confused by it. Girls like this don't tend to Know how to express sexual body language. There's often a level of sexual openness and taunting that you can share with a girl like this, though I wouldn't begin it At work. But if she tries to nut-tap you again (and you don't flinch to the moon and back), it's fair to ask her why she seems so obsessed with trying to touch your d…
/r/seduction29/07/18 10:23 AM
2

She sounds like a girl-bro who just wants to have fun and probably acts this way with whatever male she's best attuned to in any given situation. The nut-tap thing can mean anything, so don't obsess over it. Still, she likes to have fun. Go out a few times as a work group and have fun with her. Maybe you'll click, and can pursue something later. Or maybe she'll play nice with other girls and be social proof or a light wingman.
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:30 AM
1

About as great at basket-weaving, I'd wager.
/r/seduction29/07/18 03:04 AM
6

No.
/r/seduction28/07/18 06:51 PM
2

That seems creepy? That's called being a great fucking host. I gave up contacts ages ago, but wouldn't have balked for a millisecond if someone offered me this when I had none.
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:31 AM
5

:)
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:56 PM
5

:(
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:14 PM
9

And if you're looking for stability, healthy regulation with adequate incentives retains innovation and growth with the benefit of longevity and broad satisfaction for all involved :3
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:41 PM
6

Invite her to something 4-5 days after your last message. If it doesn't work out, and she doesn't offer a reprisal, let it hibernate for a year
/r/seduction25/07/18 03:03 PM
2

Skydiving, surfing, swimming, sportbiking, woodworking. There you are, go get em.
/r/seduction22/07/18 03:21 PM
1

Guess it depends on what you're into? Of all the languages, Mandarin always sounds awkward to me.
/r/seduction22/07/18 03:18 PM
15

You can go on dates with your fwb. You can go on dates with your hetero friends, or your sister. "Dates" are just a blanket term for activities with people you enjoy beyond your home setting. And, by all means, you should be doing these things with these people. If you don't want to go on dates with a girl, don't ask her on them? And if you already know what you aren't interested in, communicate that to the person you're interested in.
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:22 PM
42

Fall in love with everything. Just don't cling to it. Practice the art of letting go
/r/seduction06/06/18 03:22 PM
21

If your two options are very self-amusey... letting my thoughts just flow out or logical interview mode... wait to think and say the "right stuff" It really just sounds like you aren't being a good listener and communicator. In neither of those situations are you including the other person in a meaningful way. You're just there to be observed.
/r/seduction28/05/18 02:59 AM
5

I feel like it's 2007 all over again.
/r/seduction09/05/18 01:58 AM
4

Shit, most girls LOVE good deals. If she doesn't gush at your Magical Free Movie Tickets, she's gonna be a world of trouble.
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:31 PM
1

I wouldn't want to annoy your mom with stories of dumb shit you do. She's nice.
/r/seduction02/04/18 03:39 AM
3

Did you just FR to an external website? Is it a joke?
/r/seduction02/04/18 03:02 AM
1

Not weird, but not valuable. It won't mean as much to her as you want it to. If she's basic you could flirt (how did you know I liked blondes? 😍), or joke if she's clever (I asked my cat if I should compliment your new hair, but he said that's super basic and that I have bad ideas) or if she's edgy you can break the 4th wall (let's meet up and snack and laugh and bond purely so I can compliment your new hair as a meaningful gesture).
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:56 PM
1

Uh. You accept that it's 100% possible that you'll look weak or stupid and get 'rejected'. But should you bother? If she 'rejects' you, will you handle it with grace and dignity because you're your own person and she's her own person and maybe you don't want the same things at this point in your lives, and that's okay and ndb and you'll be just fine? Or are you invested in the outcome because you need a certain sort of emotional validation.
/r/seduction25/03/18 07:36 PM
1

Kettle, black.
/r/seduction25/03/18 05:26 AM
1

Forget trying to parse intent. Take her at her word and roll with it. If her actions don't match her words, she's insincere and generally not worth the inevitable trouble she'll cause you later. Don't bother with this girl for now. Don't try to rekindle a conversation, and don't ask her about the party. If you see her at the party, just be normal and have fun. If you guys talk and vibe, don't bring these things up. And don't latch on to her, move through the party and talk to everyone. If she wa…
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:59 PM
3

The only way this is 'going to work' is if you chill out, handle it appropriately with respect to the feelings she's expressing to you, and she changes her mind months or years down the road. Then you can hookup again, and she'll break it off again, because she sounds pretty damn unstable
/r/seduction27/02/18 11:54 AM
4

This is also helpful in giving you a time constraint because if you leave the house for more than 90 minutes the little fucker will piss all over your bedroom floor. :)
/r/seduction24/02/18 03:23 PM
1

To be fair, wishing the past to be different only makes sense if you wish your present to be different. If you're satisfied with what you have, regret is a non-issue.
/r/seduction29/01/18 06:26 PM
2

makes you look Generally an overrated concern, tbh
/r/seduction18/01/18 11:39 PM
3

You're clearly plagued with What-Ifs, and don't have the experience to answer them on your own. Give it your best shot, and accept the result. If the result is rejection, be graceful.
/r/seduction18/12/17 04:42 PM
14

during yoga A good opener is to go to yoga and do yoga and be interested enough in yoga that you know not to talk during yoga. Once you know things about yoga, you can meet people before and after class with statements like 'Warrior II kills me, how do you make it look easy?' or 'Is that a Manduka?' Because then you at least appear to have interests beyond women, which makes you seem interesting.
/r/seduction06/12/17 05:06 PM
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but in my case the problem lies with me and there is nothing I can do about it This entire subreddit is dedicated to changing who you are and what you do in order to have a more fulfilling life. But... you have to want it. If you can't accept that change is healthy, possible, and achievable, you'll live life simply treating symptoms.
/r/seduction29/11/17 06:51 PM
1

The only people who enjoy being obsessed over are narcissists. And you're definitely being obsessive. But hey, if you're gonna come to a community, ask for advice, and then ignore practically all of the advice you get because of your feelings, then go for it. Hopefully you learn from pain what you won't learn from words.
/r/seduction16/11/17 07:57 PM
1

You've made her important to you for no good reason. And there's no good reason for you to be important to her. Go be a normal classmate.
/r/seduction16/11/17 06:51 PM
1

It won't fix your problem. You're bored. You need hobbies to work on, activities to enjoy, and to talk to more than one girl so you don't make one classmate much more important to you than she should be.
/r/seduction16/11/17 06:35 PM
1

I want to know how should i act You act like you studied for your test, feel prepared, and in a good mood. You ask her if she studied, and feels prepared. If she didn't study, say you're sure she'll do fine. Just act like a normal classmate who is focused on his education, because that's why you're in class.
/r/seduction16/11/17 05:23 PM
2

What did she talk about last time? The easiest way to strike up a casual conversation is to reference a previous topic, with a new spin or perspective or funny story to share.
/r/seduction13/11/17 07:08 PM
16

Rejection therapy is broad, and doesn't have to revolve around women, or deliberately bothering them so they'll turn you down. Please don't go out and purposefully make yourself a nuisance to women, just because you think it's necessary.
/r/seduction05/11/17 05:19 PM
1

How does embracing a thought like "you're not good enough for this for her for that" helps me have more confidence in myself? There are two ways to approach a thought as "true". You can accept the contents of your thought ("Yes, I suck, I'm a failure, gg, qq"), which doesn't seem terribly healthy or productive. But you can also simply accept that you, as the person you are at this time, had that particular thought. And while it definitely arose from within you, that's no reason to assume it must…
/r/seduction31/10/17 05:02 AM
0

I mean, you recognize that as your opinion, for what is sufficient for you. What's sufficient for everyone else?
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:50 PM
1

In this context, we aren't talking about "a few".
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:17 PM
1

Hey congrats, brotha. Just to add weight to your comment: same. This isn't a gimmick. Actually understanding the unique world that women live in, and respecting the differences from your own isn't just helpful: it's immensely important to becoming a well-adjusted modern man. When the women in your life feel adventurous and secure, you're gonna fucking know it.
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:22 PM
4

because there's no penalty for not doing it And often a penalty for actually doing it. Egos are fragile things, and not everyone takes rejection with grace.
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:58 PM
12

Ask an honest, attractive friend in her 20's why she doesn't turn down, at length and thoroughly, every man (or woman) that propositions her.
/r/seduction25/10/17 05:49 PM
40

I don't know her intentions right now. Bored and looking for stimulation.
/r/seduction25/10/17 05:07 PM
8

why Because people are weird and do weird things for weird reasons, and it'll make you feel weird if you let it.
/r/seduction22/10/17 05:15 PM
4

Your story is actually fine. It highlights that you have standards for behavior and treatment of others. Just omit the "then she got with my frat brother" part, and you're in the clear. That's where she got hung-up about the hang-up. You can always tag that on later, if things progress intimately.
/r/seduction11/10/17 06:12 PM
2

We've been in this for three years. A few things to keep in mind: • There are LOADS of people propositioning bi girls for this online; Lots of girls feel jaded by it. • Still, dating apps are worth a shot. Our profiles leaned towards Adventurous, but Well-Adjusted. • Straight-but-adventurous girls are worth looking into. That was our first experience, from Tinder no less. • Be fun, but direct, in your opening messages. Save your energy for those that bite. • Most girls, even if interested, won't…
/r/seduction05/10/17 02:30 PM
16

Careful, there. You sound a little too worried about 'beta'. Fixating on the alpha/beta myth is a good way to stunt your growth.
/r/seduction04/09/17 02:21 AM
36

emasculated by society 'Society' is a very vague and variable scapegoat for something so personal as 'emasculation'. Someone in your life may very well have made you feel 'emasculated' (or whichever negative feelings you associate with that word), and you should sort those feelings out within your own experience. But gimping your growth and settling for 'society did this to me' is neither useful nor particularly true. Airing these redpill grievances will never make you seem more confident, secur…
/r/seduction10/08/17 01:55 PM
3

6'7 here. Should I expect my throne in the mail, or...?
/r/seduction07/08/17 07:49 PM
2

Darling, over the last few months you've hit sub after sub with variations of concern over this relationship. You seem dedicated and driven to improve the problems between you, and that's stellar. But in any relationship, be it you or I, one person's effort will never be enough. It's a team sport, or a misery. This guy was your first, and you're clearly all wrapped up in him. But don't settle forever. Not everyone can be anyone, or do anything. Individuals have limitations. You need someone who …
/r/seduction13/07/17 11:53 PM
12

because of one issue Implying it's just one issue.
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:22 PM
32

"Overcompensating Alpha" is just another beta. You'd be better off turning your attention inward, improving your body, improving your behavior, improving your mind, unraveling your anxieties, finding a small measure of peace in the inevitability of your own certain death, and laughing because despite the pointlessness of your own existence, tacos are still pretty fucking tasty. Discard this RSD self-talk nonsense. It's bad for you and everyone you encounter. Truly engage with life, and you'll ge…
/r/seduction04/06/17 04:13 PM
3

Do you make a habit of putting yourself in situations where no one is happy to see you? :)
/r/seduction28/05/17 04:50 PM
3

but that's just an excuse It's reality. Alcohol doesn't unlock a person's true self or desires. It just makes them (temporarily) more impulsive and less concerned with consequences. Sometimes, drunk events can continue on in the sober world. Many times, they don't. There's nothing to be gained, here. You can either be weird and complicated about it, and make her feel weird about you, or you can shrug it off and continue on with life.
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:12 AM
2

A girlfriend is usually a Girl Who Spends Lots and Lots of Time Around You. So are you interesting to be around? Engaging, fun, dynamic? Do you prod her, play with her, and challenge her? Does she feel better about her life when she's around you? Do you add value to it? Don't try to get a girlfriend. Just try to be a guy that other people, including single girls, enjoy being near. And enjoy life: a game of searching for more and more interesting things. Sometimes, those things will be dates. Som…
/r/seduction12/05/17 10:35 PM
2

For me, seduction is less about "10 Steps to Remember When I Clearly Wanna Take this Chick to Bed", and just more about basic charm and creating good spaces and experiences for others. Charisma wasn't a strong point for me; I was a pretty mellow kid who grew into a pretty mellow guy, and going to college left me pretty frustrated. I wasn't used to going unnoticed, unapproached, and feeling rather invisible. All in all, seduction-related material really just gave me easy tricks and tools to strik…
/r/seduction03/05/17 11:32 PM
1

You already listed the street, parks, gym, coffee shops, and hobby groups. So you know about them, but they seem not to fit some unspoken criteria. Are you sure you need ideas? Because it sounds like you need motivation.
/r/seduction30/04/17 10:54 PM
1

"Did You Know... that it's perfectly possible to slice your finger open with a measuring tape?" Because I sliced my finger open with a measuring tape, and I hadn't yet considered whether or not it was perfectly possible to do so.
/r/seduction29/03/17 06:10 PM
3

Interested is Interesting. Stop living in a glassy-eyed haze and look at the world around you. Try to imagine building or making everything in sight. Disassemble it in your head. If you can't, or if you realize there's something you don't yet understand, ask. Ask someone who knows, ask someone new. Share your curiosity, and you'll become a curious thing.
/r/seduction22/03/17 06:50 PM
5

And I keep noticing how girls think that the universe revolves around them To be fair, it absolutely does. Your world is all about you; their world is all about them. It's a societal norm. If a girl walks away from you, there doesn't have to be something wrong with you. Or her. You just didn't click. This shouldn't surprise you. Most girls know what "just standard shit" looks like. If you want quick advice: "Don't dwell on it. Just keep improving." If you want growth: Specifically work on empath…
/r/seduction15/01/17 08:33 PM
12

92 31 rather detailed tips on body language and behavior, flavored with cheery music and doodles. Still too much to meaningfully process in one sitting, but focusing on one modification per day will likely lead to a worthwhile month.
/r/seduction09/01/17 11:12 PM
1

harmless flirting can get you a harassment charge We must have different interpretations of the word "flirt".
/r/seduction08/01/17 09:00 PM
2

Does the penetration make it seem less sensual? You don't have to change the pace just because your dick is in her.
/r/seduction12/11/16 06:53 PM
16

take the approach of making guy friends and teasing the other women to social proof. Ah, to be in 3rd grade again. Really though, the sooner you just learn to be chill around women, the better. but if she initiates with me should I be flirty? If you enjoy flirting without expectation (I do), then sure. Knock yourself out. It's fun, and free practice. However, if the idea of never fucking her makes her uninteresting or frustrating to you, do both of you a favor and direct your energies elsewhere.…
/r/seduction16/10/16 09:18 PM
59

Sit down and let yourself imagine living the exact same life you're living now, for 50 more years. If you're satisfied with that, you have no reason to change. If you're not, you need to accept that a different outcome requires different actions.
/r/seduction16/10/16 05:30 AM
1

Eh, do it. You'll be doing at least one of them a favor. Maybe both. The best thing that ever happened to me was my girlfriend getting poached by some other guy. Really shitty experience, took a lot of time and growth to get over. But my past-self doesn't hold a candle to the person I am today: someone I never would've been motivated to become if I'd stayed in that mediocre situation with an (apparently) uninspired lover. They're married with a kid, now. Also, I totally poached my current girlfr…
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:31 PM
2

But aren't you listening? She just told you she was good. Dig deeper, REACH for that emotional connection. :P
/r/seduction21/09/16 05:08 AM
1

You're free to unload whatever assumptions, projections, or excuses you fancy. I certainly won't try to stop you.
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:38 AM
1

Boring and bored are synonyms. And boredom truly is simply the symptom of poor attentiveness. If you don't want to be boring, or feel bored, get interested in the world around you. Stop stopping, explore shit, ask questions and share the answers. Break a few silly rules and enjoy the berating. You could've been any human on the planet. Any creature, even. The fact that you find yourself in the body you see in the mirror is pure, random chance. It's only the work of a variable we can't comprehend…
/r/seduction08/09/16 11:55 PM
2

As a fresh fellow 30 year-old, there absolutely are 19-20 year-olds out there with a penchant for older dudes. Just be social, talk to everyone about anything, and flirt when it's natural and reciprocated. They'll make themselves known.
/r/seduction08/09/16 11:08 PM
2

Whereas, an average guy can talk to 300 women and get nothing at all. If you feel disadvantaged, no amount of advantage will make you feel otherwise.
/r/seduction02/09/16 05:07 PM
1

She showed interest before, but she doesn't appear to be showing interest now. Best-case scenario: She's driven and focused on her future, and dating really isn't a priority until she feels her shit is in order. Take it in stride, and let her know you'd be happy to waste some time on her once things settle down on her end. And leave it at that. Either she'll touch base with you in the future, or she won't. Worst case scenario: She isn't interested at all. Nothing to do but handle it with grace.
/r/seduction28/08/16 09:47 PM
3

Never tell a girl you play an instrument. Especially if you're good. That skill is worth so much more if they find out on their own. Yes, take a chick for a ride. But focus more on the destination, and only barely mention the bike. If at all. Maybe make sure she wears appropriate clothing, that's all. Being casual about your strengths is a powerful habit to nurture.
/r/seduction25/08/16 05:40 PM
1

What do you do to get him to approach you I'm assuming that "walk up and say hi" is, for whatever excuse, not an option you're considering. In such a case, you just pretend it's Junior High and tell a friend to tell his friend that you Like him. Or you can plant yourself in front of him, alone, pretending to be busy with some small activity that you know to be relevant to his interests. Those things sound kinda crazy though, right? All the posturing, passive hints, and fabricated social guidelin…
/r/seduction21/08/16 05:29 PM
1

Tell her you heard Prince on the radio and it reminded you of that time she serenaded you with When Doves Cry from the passenger seat the first time you two went out. ...Assuming she did, infact, serenade you with Prince on your first date. If she didn't do that, say something else.
/r/seduction15/06/16 10:24 PM
-1

Easy on the redbull Sarge McLarge
/r/seduction21/05/16 02:26 AM
4

Used line verbatim today, got sex. 10/10
/r/seduction08/05/16 08:20 PM
1

Be rich, and show her that. If you aren't rich, be talented and show her that. If you aren't talented, be emotionally valuable and show her that. If you aren't emotionally valuable, use your worldly experience to bring her out of her frame, and show her the irony of her station. If you don't have worldly experience, forget her and spend your time exploring. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/04/16 01:36 AM
10

As a ruthless Tounge-Teaser, I'll give this Dedicated Clitjob approach an honorable shot. [Update] Found her on the bed. Crawled up to her and pushed her legs apart. "What are you doing?" "Experimenting". Teased her all to hell through her underwear. Once made lip contact, she came in about four minutes. Average is probably six. Tried to stay true to the Clitjob Manifesto, still gave some light tongue-play. Kind of impossible not to. More testing needed. Also need to diversify subject pool.
/r/seduction04/04/16 02:40 AM
1

You could just become a likeable person, let her like you, and develop a social circle the old-fashion way. These Social Dark Arts you're alluding to seem like a lot of extra work.
/r/seduction04/04/16 12:01 AM
2

:O My god... You really do.
/r/seduction26/02/16 01:09 AM
3

Wait. Wait, wait, wait, wait. We're still having a laugh at how ridiculous you sound, right? Because you sound crushingly close to actually taking yourself seriously. Which would mean that, while thinking yourself quite clever, you were completely oblivious that you were, in fact, the running joke. All I want for Christmas is for this to be real. lol. Please tell me you're serious.
/r/seduction26/02/16 12:59 AM
4

Of course not. ;) ;) ;)
/r/seduction25/02/16 08:18 PM
4

Please, tell me more of your vast and enlightened worldview. I can just feel the value oozing from it.
/r/seduction25/02/16 12:21 PM
12

drunk club sluts This may come as a surprise, but club girls are day girls during the daytime.
/r/seduction25/02/16 11:03 AM
8

Definitely before the movie. You'll want time to chitchat and have a few laughs before sitting down and trying to watch a screen for 2 hours. You'll have to be careful, because not every girl is ready for this high-octane adrenaline-packed lifestyle, but you could hit up a store before-hand and smuggle in snacks. It's my ritual, and everyone seems to enjoy it.
/r/seduction23/02/16 10:28 PM
2

It's one thing to identify what you want; It's another to suffer in its absence. That's not necessary. I meditate but that doesn't seem to help with this. I'd suggest that, if you're distracted from your present world and displeased by what you don't have, there's more to be gained from meditation than you're presently receiving.
/r/seduction13/02/16 08:47 AM
26

Women like this give off fantastic supernovas when they detonate.
/r/seduction12/01/16 11:43 PM
4

This is called "shitting where you stand", and is fine if you're always on the move and want no actual social value. You will be ostracized as the creepy dude who won't take a hint, and close lots of cultural and sexual doors in the process. But hey, don't let social dynamics keep you from Being Your Alphaest Alpha.
/r/seduction11/01/16 03:14 PM
6

I see the RSD squad is out in force this morning.
/r/seduction11/01/16 02:02 PM
6

Never fucking high five a girl what works for one may be another's kryptonite You need to like... figure out a stable frame of mind, bro.
/r/seduction09/01/16 07:19 AM
6

When it comes to "reality", "always" and "never" are seldom the case.
/r/seduction21/12/15 06:16 PM
1

As a rule, women aren't open to being approached unless they feel reasonably safe. This was certainly not one of those moments. Take this opportunity to learn as much as you can about how vulnerable women can feel out alone, at night, especially near an unknown male (that's you).
/r/seduction22/11/15 08:39 AM
1

those feelings Attraction doesn't condemn friendships. Only a bleeding need will make a friendship with a hot girl so miserable that it's better to simply not have it. It very directly means that their worth to you is tied to their physical function, rather their character or passions. In which case, you should've never masqueraded as a friend in the first place. Since this sub is all about getting laid, I'll add this: Having perfectly platonic friendships with attractive (sane) girls provides a…
/r/seduction22/11/15 08:01 AM
1

So you wanted 8 or 9 girls to... what. Deny the attention of guys who swooped in after you? I don't get it.
/r/seduction24/10/15 09:27 PM
-2

ITT: "Guys, this is my strategy for not following this advice."
/r/seduction24/10/15 08:40 PM
3

So fuck it up a time or ten. It only has to work once.
/r/seduction22/10/15 03:36 AM
15

what is the best way to do it? What is the best way you take a friendship and shit all over it? Look, female friends are the bomb-fucking-diggity. They listen to your shit, make you look Not Creepy, and (HELLO) THEY KNOW OTHER GIRLS THAT YOU ARE PERFECTLY ALLOWED TO HIT ON. What should you do? Tell her what a great friend she is, don't try to impress her, and don't take her too seriously. Be that cool guy who can be friends with girls without getting all weird about it. If she has any sexual int…
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:27 AM
3

You have two completely incompatible options: Become incredibly present and fall in love with a greater project and passion, or Dedicate yourself to mindfulness meditation until you become so aware of these distractions that you master them. Good luck!
/r/seduction07/09/15 08:37 PM
5

Treasure Hunt
/r/seduction23/07/15 09:24 PM
5

"How do you feel about cheese?" Then you talk about cheese. If she says "I like cheddar", you find out if she means mild cheddar, which is a little disappointing, or if she likes SHARP cheddar like a boss. Then you can tell her about that bizarre-but-delicious Dark Chocolate and Parmesan Grilled Cheese Sandwich you made after hearing about it, and why science DEMANDS that it be delicious. And then you have more conversations about more fun things and go have sex or something, I'm a little fuzzy …
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:52 PM
-6

Sit down. Put hands on table. Lean over, put chin on hands. Look up, lock eyes, Smile. "HI. :)"
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:37 PM
3

Resurrect the last good or fun conversation you had. For me, right now, it would be: "So what are you up to?" "Not much" "I love dinosaurs"
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:33 PM
2

And that bro who photodocuments YOU when you're doing cool shit? Buy that bro a drink. And by That Bro, I mean Me.
/r/seduction17/06/15 12:31 PM
15

Hold on, Bessie. No one said they're incapable of having the conversation.
/r/seduction19/05/15 08:24 PM
2

Were you doing a field study?
/r/seduction10/05/15 03:34 PM
14

Uninvested girls will think "Wow, red flag". Curious girls will wonder WHY you have no friends. Controlling, crazy girls might see you as an easy, appealing target. This sub isn't about simply surviving the opposite sex, or life, but using each as an avenue to improve ourselves and maximize our sense of fulfillment, at the cost of immediate comfort and personal ego. This sub isn't about accepting what is. It's about accepting responsibility and changing what isn't. So, why do you have no friends…
/r/seduction07/05/15 12:17 PM
11

There's no substitution for hearing your native words in a foreign environment. Whatever your resistance is to trying this, reconsider it.
/r/seduction04/05/15 12:21 PM
3

Just imagine her farting. I find this genuinely hilarious.
/r/seduction29/04/15 01:20 AM
5

Depends on the girl. If she's the type that's wrapped up in her head a lot, feeling that her partner expects her to do something she's never managed could make her anxious. The confidence of I will get you off can work, but it's just so binary. Yes or no, success or failure. Insinuation like Let's see what we can do about that can work just as well, with bonus subtlety and less pressure on her to deliver. And then if she doesn't have the earth-shattering orgasms on your first romp, you haven't s…
/r/seduction28/04/15 01:45 AM
8

SCIENCE
/r/seduction28/04/15 12:54 AM
1

le fedora is strong with this one
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:25 PM
0

Well did you ever take them camping?
/r/seduction15/04/15 01:52 PM
1

Communication. Effort happens when you're both on the same page, you both know that you're both on the same page, and you each know the other well enough to trust that they're not broken and fake. You then use effort to build something greater between the two of you, because it's satisfying as shit. Desperation happens when you aren't on the same page, your desires don't align, but you try to pretend otherwise.
/r/seduction15/04/15 01:35 PM
13

6'7 with a 5'2 girlfriend. I usually wrestle her to the ground in the grocery store aisle and improvise from there.
/r/seduction28/03/15 08:30 PM
71

Don't get sentimental with that fun-but-crazy girl. Also, DON'T GET SENTIMENTAL WITH THAT FUN-BUT-CRAZY GIRL.
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:43 PM
12

If a woman can't appreciate half-price appetizers after 9, I don't even want her for Valentine's Day. Yknow wamsayin? That aside, no one's going to listen to your advice if they have to filter out that bitter personality. I've seen two of your comments in this thread, and they're both negative for that reason. Food for thought.
/r/seduction12/02/15 10:59 PM
11

I like to bowl hard to establish dominance.
/r/seduction05/02/15 12:46 AM
2

I'm not a back up plan Why?
/r/seduction02/02/15 03:45 PM
8

This just sounds like butthurt parading as alpha. You weren't her #1 priority at some point in her past. Big deal? It's a huge, dynamic world. Lives change, people change, and not everyone's going to be ready for you when you first meet. If that notion or its actuality bother you, then your ego is sensitive and needs some skin. Past girlfriends, dates, and acquaintances can and may bark up your tree in the future. Make it interesting.
/r/seduction02/02/15 06:48 AM
14

Also, I'm pretty sure she has her phone with her most of the time. Your attention to this detail is a little strange, to me. It sounds like that means something to you (about you?), that she can talk to you, but isn't. It's fine. You're fine. She's probably just busy with her Big Full Life, and can't or won't switch into Detailed Thoughtful Texting Mode until she has time for it. There's even a good chance that she's thinking about your conversation a few times throughout the day. That isn't bad…
/r/seduction23/01/15 03:38 PM
1

Only if you somehow give her lots of your undeserved time. Flippant relations are fine.
/r/seduction25/12/14 05:55 PM
2

Intentional irony? :D
/r/seduction10/12/14 01:44 PM
7

I use jokes like that to litmus test just about anyone. If you don't have a little bit of dark humor, we probably won't get along smashingly.
/r/seduction24/11/14 06:31 PM
16

Play doctor?
/r/seduction24/11/14 09:00 AM
2

You lost me when you referred two separate co-workers as "chump". Mostly just sounds like a walled garden of passive-aggressive chicks with dicks.
/r/seduction05/09/14 01:37 PM
1

This is only a problem if you party with freeloaders.
/r/seduction05/09/14 01:21 PM
1

James Bond, Tom Cruise, and Whoever are interesting. They don't have boatloads of empty confidence or a state of mind that doesn't stand up to actual, real-life scrutiny. They do shit, have stories about shit, and a personal frame that they've earned. Hyping yourself up is a low-level crutch. If you're worried about not being interesting, you need to stop thinking about women and actually build an interesting life. Once you do interesting things, the "what should I do with this girl" question an…
/r/seduction10/07/14 03:33 PM
3

lol kbro
/r/seduction03/07/14 05:50 PM
5

Or, you can just absorb her into your social circles like any other person, boyfriend and all. If she's interesting in the least, she'll have friends. It's a numbers game.
/r/seduction03/07/14 03:19 PM
1

"Let's see... do you have a warrant out for your arrest?" Girls aren't hard. Just play with them.
/r/seduction20/04/14 04:14 PM
4

Is this a comedy?
/r/seduction12/03/14 12:18 PM
18

I was myself inside of myself and I was enormous I, too, have experimented with hallucinogenic substances.
/r/seduction10/02/14 07:18 PM
1

That's fine. This isn't really meant as a mind-reading tool, though. The point isn't to gain insight to a person's hidden personality, but just to deepen the dialogue and bond through conversation. If they attach to you as their new personal sage, you done goofed.
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:01 PM
9

Some personalities can pull off the mind-reader mystique, but I find these much more useful as thought-games. I'm genuinely interested in how people wish themselves to be, and if you miss a read, they'll tell you all about it.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:53 PM
1

Rock-solid argument.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:44 PM
7

I like you. So much ad-farming on this subreddit.
/r/seduction28/01/14 12:16 PM
3

All you need is a woman who's interesting and interested in you. Unless you're completely one-dimensional and consumed by your hobbies, you don't need a woman who shares your personal intrigues. Share, teach, explain. Women love men with a passion, not necessarily their passion.
/r/seduction22/01/14 02:41 PM
6

Sometimes we want things from girls. If a girl is attractive enough to us, we get so overwhelmed by the desire to touch and smell and bring them closer that it can feel awkward. Because we've created in our minds a one-sided, parasitic relationship, where we crave to take and consume and use with no thought to what we offer in return. Our subconscious makes this feel awkward because that would be awkward, rightfully so. In reality, though, touching a girl who likes you is symbiotic. You're givin…
/r/seduction09/01/14 02:10 PM
15

5 messages in 15 minutes? I don't even text that reliably. Not judging. Just observing.
/r/seduction07/01/14 01:07 PM
1

"Let's go burn things with a magnifying glass." There's also frisbee/biking/sledding, dessert martinis, and Bob Ross Night. And if you want to invite her over with obvious implications, just say "I wanna build a fort". And then you go build a fort.
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:32 PM
23

Probably something to the effect of "Not every person on Omegle has what I want*, but sifting through them is quick and free". *Probably boobs.
/r/seduction01/01/14 11:45 AM
8

incidentally I imagine you're expected to do this mid-gesture while talking. But I'm not against petting her, either. Bitches love bellyrubs.
/r/seduction04/12/13 06:43 PM
6

Here It's from his blog, http://playersjourney.something.com/date/page/title/moreadsenseplz
/r/seduction19/11/13 07:12 PM
6

It's all about power and scarcity, and that's the illusion you have to create. Editor's note: Illusions are a crutch. Strive to become more.
/r/seduction19/11/13 07:07 PM
1

Where do you guys shop for women? I've only ever been told to fuck off after really really deserving it. And it was glorious. Never from a prospect, though.
/r/seduction17/10/13 04:22 PM
1

So it can work if you put in the effort, but it's bullshit. Where do we get these people?
/r/seduction07/10/13 12:05 PM
1

From their phones.
/r/seduction07/10/13 11:47 AM
1

It's an external, temporary fix for an internal desire. It isn't a skill you can master or a muscle that you can strengthen. By patching a natural craving for change with a material good, it's likely that your potential for growth is being sidetracked and stunted.
/r/seduction04/10/13 11:23 AM
1

It seems that I gain confidence at night by reading/watching seduction content, but in the morning I return to my old self and hardly speak a word all day in the City. Are you wanting to become a master of dream-based pickup? Read in the morning. Immerse yourself before your day starts.
/r/seduction03/10/13 02:31 PM
2

I know cannabis hasn't affected my game negatively at all Your certainty of this unknowable variable is... strange.
/r/seduction03/10/13 02:23 PM
0

Here's a follow-up that I find quirky, fun, and cheap. This girl that you're talking to? An hour ago she was laying in her bed, masturbating with her vibrator that she's secretly named "NewbieToBoobie". You don't have to believe this for it to work. Just imagine it.
/r/seduction03/10/13 02:18 PM
8

A girl you know already has all these preconceived thoughts about you A quirky hack to this is Summer Break, or any other long stretch of absence where you come back different. Whether it's a change in personal style or behavior, shaking someone's prior image of you causes a rift of mystery, and lets you redefine yourself more easily in their eyes.
/r/seduction03/10/13 01:44 PM
1

Should've replied to David's post, eh? :P
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:37 PM
1

That quote describes one type of person in one type of relationship. It's fine as a personal mantra, but it doesn't work as advice in a complex and mixed group.
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:35 PM
1

Hit her with a metal chair. Bitches love wrestling.
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:13 PM
1

just before we decided to be together, i had a KC in a club - something which i never managed to do before. two weeks later, a really hot girl from my office was hitting up on me. Three days later (yesterday) Does this mean that you've been dating for... roughly three weeks? Regardless, if this is a committed relationship, talk to her about these thoughts and concerns. Allow her to be aware. You didn't outright say "she's also bi and is open to fooling around with a second girl", but it's always…
/r/seduction22/07/13 03:55 AM
0

HB4 HB5 HB7 I thought we were knocking this shit off.
/r/seduction22/07/13 03:45 AM
10

I have yet to encounter the Omniscient Demigoddess of Chaos who transcends human psychology. I should introduce you to an ex. You two would get along smashingly.
/r/seduction22/07/13 03:40 AM
-3

HB7 Stop this.
/r/seduction22/07/13 03:31 AM
4

Ah, the old "I can't solve my problem, so I better lower my standards" trick. Good form, good form.
/r/seduction20/07/13 10:47 PM
1

Molly only 'improves your game' if you can replicate the results sober. And if that's the case, sign my shit up. Otherwise, it's just another crutch.
/r/seduction18/07/13 07:26 AM
2

Gaining information is okay, but learning only ever happens if you've changed your real, sober behavior. That's why state-dependency is such a roadblock.
/r/seduction18/07/13 07:22 AM
0

You need more help than this sub can likely provide. Best of luck to you.
/r/seduction10/07/13 03:51 PM
2

The parentheses. (yes this statistic was made up on the spot, but it conveys my point) You could've left it at one line, but it seems that you didn't feel your first statement was strong enough to stand on its own. You over-explained your statement and, as a result, yourself. I don't know you, but from those 20ish words, I feel like I know something about you. I can assume all sorts of things about your character, decisiveness and confidence level, and even if it's all wrong, the judgement is st…
/r/seduction08/07/13 10:56 PM
2

They're just having fun. If something makes you uncomfortable, it's completely normal to want to joke and ease the tension. They do seem to have a weird fascination with rape, though.
/r/seduction08/07/13 09:21 PM
1

That's a pretty nice validation you have there. Be a shame if something... happened to it.
/r/seduction08/07/13 09:04 PM
13

Scarcity?
/r/seduction01/07/13 12:06 PM
2

It sounds like you're seeing things through Hollywood-tinted glasses. Which is fine, but you should probably be aware of it. The New York Big Media Hub has a culture of its own, which is (I'm assuming) where this interview was filmed. And that culture is The Culture of Squares. Nothing grand, nothing bold, nothing too serious for too long. These people are hand-picked so that they won't offend the general public, so of course they'll sit there and take a harassing from a strong-willed, strong-fr…
/r/seduction20/06/13 03:25 AM
1

[removed] Well. Cool story, then.
/r/seduction12/06/13 04:30 PM
2

Its not possible to live an "interesting" and authentic life 100% of the time. Why does this keep you from having an interesting, clean, and high-quality social network page?
/r/seduction04/06/13 04:52 PM
-33

It's nice and all, but where's the underground society of women trying to make themselves better for us? And if your gut reaction is "We make ourselves pretty for you", you have terrifically missed and emphasized the point.
/r/seduction03/06/13 12:06 PM
5

It will never matter how much you know or how good you are. If you don't have the right attitude, few will listen.
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:35 PM
9

'Prove you're not gay' wouldn't also easily be construed as sexual harassment? Equal opportunity, and all that.
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:25 AM
4

My favorite thing to do is imagine that girl having sex with you. My favorite thing to do is to imagine that girl sitting at home and masturbating while thinking of me. Or with her vibrator that has "jackzander" sharpied onto the bottom. Use that when you're face-to-face with a girl, and the whole game just changes. Puts me in the best secretive, flirtatious, conspiratorial sort of mood. Love it. Kudos to whereverthehell I picked it up from. I don't remember.
/r/seduction22/04/13 03:23 PM
2

If you notice a girl that looks fun, go say something. Worrying about how long you're socially allowed to oggle from a distance is, I think, the wrong thing to focus on. To answer your question, though, initial looking is perfectly fine. Just don't stare at something throughout the night if you aren't inspired to interact. Play in your own space.
/r/seduction11/04/13 11:52 AM
23

Confirmation Bias vs Cognitive Dissonance
/r/seduction09/04/13 02:57 PM
6

Mad respect for this post.
/r/seduction20/03/13 01:39 PM
3

The Dude
/r/seduction20/03/13 01:33 PM
13

Wait. How did he * bold* * and ***italicize* ** it **? :/ edit this? YES, THREE asterisks
/r/seduction30/01/13 12:21 PM
2

Wouldn't it be a little out of place Is seeming in-place important to you?
/r/seduction22/01/13 01:09 PM
51

and I showed her how to play a drinking game Elaboration!
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:07 PM
1

entirely useless Situational awareness. C'mon, son!
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:13 AM
9

In short, a shit-test is a qualifier: a biting or unexpected remark meant to throw someone off their game.
/r/seduction18/01/13 02:03 PM
1

"Hey Why is the Peppermint blue?" This works in any situation where you're in a candle shop, holding a blue Peppermint candle, and a girl's within kicking distance. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/01/13 01:45 PM
17

Or that English is his second language. Give a thought or two before acting cuntish, k?
/r/seduction18/01/13 01:38 PM
9

Perhaps your taste in men is too refined for this thread.
/r/seduction18/01/13 12:47 PM
3

Body-type can make a difference, too. My buddy's skinny legs fill out 511's like mine fill out 514's. But if I throw on 511's, it just looks hilarious.
/r/seduction17/01/13 06:19 PM
2

You 511 guys make my balls cringe. 514's all the way.
/r/seduction17/01/13 01:44 PM
9

Because an illusion of intrigue won't help you get laid? Remember the context, here.
/r/seduction17/01/13 01:42 PM
1

You want a different life, OP. That's clear. But you have yet to say "I am determined to change". Are you?
/r/seduction17/01/13 01:33 PM
15

She might actually mean, "I want you to do things like this guy does things". For most of the women I've talked to, the attitude of the male lead is a bigger turn-on than the kinky stuff he gets into.
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:20 PM
51

From the article. He encourages her sexuality. It's ironic that so many of you are getting caught up with how bad these books are. Like, this is blowing my mind right now. Forget that it's shitty fiction. EVERYONE KNOWS, you are not a fucking scholar, and no girl is going to fawn over you for your literary critique of universally-accepted shabby writing. You know what will pique a woman's interest? A guy who's aware, accepting, and curious about a book that so reliably turns a woman on. A guy wh…
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:14 PM
2

I walk the Every Girl is Your Bratty Little Sister path. But I've had 20 years to practice that one.
/r/seduction11/01/13 12:51 PM
5

This bothers me. But seeing people publicly disengaged bothers me as a whole.
/r/seduction11/01/13 12:47 PM
3

Dumping out at the first element of resistance doesn't sound like typical Alpha Male of Group behavior.
/r/seduction11/01/13 12:30 PM
5

Complete with links to everything I used that night. You gorgeous man, you.
/r/seduction09/01/13 12:53 PM
2

Spoiler: He messed around with lesbians.
/r/seduction07/01/13 02:02 PM
2

Stop standing on the sidelines. You created this thread, so engage in it! Only by participating will you ever realize real change.
/r/seduction02/01/13 06:21 PM
2

Ignoring and cutting off is the easiest, simplest way to go. That I think is a-okay. It's the "if I do this then she'll come back to me" mindset that's going to dig OP his own hole. Going cold isn't something a mature adult will do to incite a specific response in another. If you do it, it needs to be completely and utterly about yourself. Not about the girl. And definitely not about changing her mind.
/r/seduction02/01/13 06:12 PM
5

There is no magic bullet that can make your ex interested in a relationship. And you need to be thankful for that. Because if there was such an easy gambit, you'd use it in a heartbeat, and you'd deny yourself the adventure, trials, personal growth and life success it would take to actually get her intrigued again. This is a place of progression, not cheat codes. ...okay, some cheat codes.
/r/seduction02/01/13 06:05 PM
2

(for the wrong reasons) This is my beef. Mentality is everything. And if you're giving a girl the cold shoulder in secret hopes that she'll change her feelings and eventually fawn all over you, you're still chumping yourself out. Even if you win, you lose because you cut corners and stunted your own personal growth. And probably scored yourself another mid/long term mediocre relationship. If you're going to be cold to a girl, do it legit. Cut her off, hold your funeral, bury it all and say your …
/r/seduction02/01/13 05:41 PM
14

That "game" is terrible. Even worse, every intention behind that game is terrible. It's passive-aggressive, it's negative in nature, and it's downright needy. My friend says the best thing you can do is just cut them off completely because that way, the girl feels she has lost you That, generally, is the entire point of breaking up. If a girl breaks up, but still wants the guy, then she's just grandstanding for attention. Throwing a fit in a huge way. If this happens, you push that drama factory…
/r/seduction02/01/13 02:16 PM
13

I can't speak for everyone, but Let's just call you a strange exception to the rule. If such a touch can set you off emotionally, you need to work on whatever deep issue is fueling that.
/r/seduction14/12/12 06:06 PM
3

I'd say start by engaging in this thread you've created.
/r/seduction14/12/12 03:33 PM
1

Persistence and resolve. And no complaining.
/r/seduction14/12/12 02:02 PM
1

Everything short of straight up telling her. Is there a point where I tell her? :/
/r/seduction14/12/12 01:54 PM
28

Absurdify
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:51 PM
9

I'll go meta on a girl any chance I get. I love it.
/r/seduction06/12/12 03:32 PM
2

It's pointless to debate semantics of a post that no longer exists. Just keep on keepin' on, it'll all work out in the end.
/r/seduction04/12/12 06:52 PM
2

What made you feel that way anyways look I'm a real boy You were concerned and wanting advice for one situation with one girl who doesn't even live in your general area. There's a reason the mods nixed this post.
/r/seduction04/12/12 12:16 PM
1

I'm interested in how some of the naturally low-key guys have had success. Personally, I stopped being low-key. You don't have to be obnoxious to be monumental.
/r/seduction29/11/12 05:20 PM
2

For someone who's "hooking up with attractive girls pretty often", you sure are reeking of One-itis.
/r/seduction29/11/12 04:52 PM
1

Not awkward, nervous. Or perhaps just habitual. I wasn't really concerned with how you wrote it, but rather the laughing itself. Laughter is strange, because people laugh most often to break conversational tension, not in reaction to something that's actually funny. You say the conversation felt natural, which is fine and totally possible, but what inspired the laughter?
/r/seduction14/11/12 07:24 PM
1

Cool mantra bro. In reality, most people do feel some awkwardness with prolonged eye-contact, and many don't think much of it. Keeping grounded with how normal people operate is a good way to gain insight and build rapport.
/r/seduction14/11/12 07:08 PM
2

Rethink girls. You don't have to take them on dates, especially at first. Just play with them.
/r/seduction14/11/12 06:55 PM
2

Don't hate: Masturbate.
/r/seduction14/11/12 06:50 PM
1

I think the idea is to enjoy a versatile life. Oh, and with women sometimes.
/r/seduction14/11/12 06:42 PM
-3

I love tricks. My favorite trick is, "Hey watch, I'm going to naturally make you interested in this conversation: 'Excuse me, but WE NEED A FEMALE'S OPINION really quick'. See? Now you're ready to listen." :3
/r/seduction14/11/12 06:38 PM
1

The "haha"s in your story make you seem nervous. Laughing should be a response to something that's actually funny, not as a stopgap in your conversation. Even if you seem confident, laughing before or after your own line is a nervous tick. Tailoring that back allows for a slower, more deliberate demeanor.
/r/seduction14/11/12 06:00 PM
1

Loosen up, chucklehead.
/r/seduction14/11/12 02:19 PM
1

Because material that's based in reality is overrated?
/r/seduction13/11/12 03:45 PM
1

Every Girl is My Annoying Little Sister. (I have three actual sisters)
/r/seduction13/11/12 02:42 PM
1

nothing beta It's out of context, it rewards bad behavior, and it's your first response when faced with a shit-test. The only non-beta thing about that compliment, at that moment in that conversation, is that the message itself was a disagreement. Timing is important.
/r/seduction13/11/12 02:22 PM
1

nothing beta It's out of context, it rewards bad behavior, and it's your first response when faced with a shit-test. The only non-beta thing about that compliment, at that moment in that conversation, is that the message itself was a disagreement. Timing is important.
/r/seduction13/11/12 02:13 PM
1

Chucklehead.
/r/seduction13/11/12 01:45 PM
19

I love friendzoning chicks.
/r/seduction13/11/12 01:43 PM
1

I would like to re-develop our friendship. Why is this one person that important to you? There are loads of people in the world worth your time and effort, and some are more deserving. I'm not against meeting up with exes and smoothing over your past. I'm all for it. But if simply remaining casual acquaintances isn't enough for you, then you aren't ready. Figure your stuff out.
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:44 PM
1

I dont know how or where to start Handshakes, sans the shake. There's nothing fancy here, because honestly kino isn't fancy; It's subtle. Just take her hand as you introduce yourself. Instead of shaking it like a bro, ask her name. ...And that's it. You're now holding a girl's hand that you technically haven't even met, yet. Neat. Now put it down, weirdo. [edit] I kid, I kid. There are plenty of fun games to play once you have her hand, but don't worry too much about those quite yet. Learn how t…
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:36 PM
2

TheGameGenie, how does it feel to have the most creative response in the thread?
/r/seduction10/10/12 11:27 AM
2

I laugh out of reflex when in pain. If I learned to laugh while in fear... I have to go.
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:17 PM
5

Good luck! Also: I don't know your approach or personality or style, but It's best to escalate slowly with co-workers. Bring up your weekend plans in normal conversation, and if she seems interested, invite her along. Concert, hiking, bar hop, party etc. Start slow and casual, and work up from there. Everyone has their own take. This is just coming from a guy who likes his job, and likes for his cute co-workers to like their job as well.
/r/seduction05/10/12 03:46 PM
9

You look at her deadpan and say "No, you're definitely a lesbian". Then you slap her drink off the counter and exit stage left.
/r/seduction17/09/12 12:20 PM
2

I just want that piano bit to play during every event of my life. I'd call it the Instant Sundance effect.
/r/seduction13/09/12 02:18 PM
3

Q: "At what point/How can I share squishy romantic feelings with a girl that I'm involved with?" A: 19% Or any other number that feels arbitrarily low, yet still flexible. In short, don't dump a payload of squishy romantic feelings onto a girl/woman. They're your feelings, and if either one of you desperately wants either one of you to spill either one of your guts, then that's an issue of personal space, neediness, or a desire for validation. Embrace the flaws in these things, and resist. Howev…
/r/seduction11/09/12 05:15 PM
1

"Nice cans, baby girl" is now my mantra for wanting something that I don't yet have. The implications of this could be hilarious and fantastic.
/r/seduction05/09/12 04:14 PM
1

Function above form, as always. But does it actually mean anything?
/r/seduction05/09/12 03:57 PM
3

Study question: What are the factors that influence return text time (RTT) in American female young adults? Interest Unpredictable real-world distractions
/r/seduction01/09/12 07:24 PM
6

Another thing to watch out for is the code words women use. Here is a translation guide for dealing with women: Says: I want a man who is motivated and has goals. Means: I want a rich man Says: I want a man who knows how to treat a woman. Means: I want a rich man Says: He's from a really good family. Means: He's from a really rich family. Does this get any better? Or can I just stop here.
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:44 PM
28

Not having sex = Rape wonka.jpg
/r/seduction20/08/12 11:44 AM
1

That sounds like a terrible way to live. Enjoy.
/r/seduction03/08/12 10:29 AM
3

Also: Bring glow sticks.
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:23 PM
7

Constructive.
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:22 PM
2

Eventually you need to hit that fucking dog with a club and put it in its place. Or, perhaps, you just shouldn't have a dog.
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:12 PM
1

but in a relationship there need to be clearly defined boundaries. The greater point here is that cows people have natural boundaries, and if you try to draw superficial boundaries too small in the name of a pasture relationship, then you're going to have a bad time. If you feel that you have to define a girl's boundaries for her, then she isn't the girl for you. And you aren't the guy for her.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:55 PM
0

I approve of "one of the more beautiful girls", but not because I'm a stickler for grammar. It's simply a better qualifier, and mellows out the compliment. This whole notion of complimenting girls for no good reason has me squirming in my seat, but I'm trying to cope for the sake of the discussion.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:46 PM
-1

Job interviews and chatting with girls should have very, very few things in common.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:27 PM
13

"I am not here to fight you, but you're beautiful." This is what I'm taking away from this thread.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:02 PM
6

one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen. You took that quite out of context.
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:50 PM
2

It sounds like you need some diversity. This isn't a bad thing, it just means that you're getting too big for your fish bowl. Personal projects are good, and you seem to have that covered. Have you considered volunteering locally? Habitat for Humanity is my top pick. You get to work with your hands and help someone improve their life. I'm not sure how many hours of sweat equity I've put into other people's houses, but I wouldn't take a dime for any of them; They hold their own sort of value. Thi…
/r/seduction18/07/12 04:46 PM
4

I'd say they were Successful in the same sense that any accomplished businessman is Successful, or any professional athlete or author. They improved their personal skill, built careers and, in the case of PUA, helped build an entire industry. I think Mystery was undeniably successful in this one facet of his life. But that doesn't mean this one piece made all the others better; The guy had some baggage. I feel like many people are trying to evolve PUA into an "Ultimate Man" sort of thing. Which …
/r/seduction18/07/12 03:38 PM
5

Internal happiness is a REQUIREMENT, not an outcome It's completely possible to be a successful PUA and be absolutely miserable, inside. Mystery should be Exhibit A, here.
/r/seduction18/07/12 02:03 PM
6

Not sure if you I would want Projection Correction.
/r/seduction09/07/12 02:04 AM
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