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| 194 | always shoot your shot. | Field Report | jacob_89_ | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 07:46 AM |
| 68 | it really isn't difficult. | Conversation | jacob_89_ | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 04:18 AM |
| 9 | trying not to incriminate. | jacob_89_ | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/21 08:18 AM |
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| 6 | How can I date and have sex when I’m broke and living with my mom?theres a market for everyone you just have to tap into it, 36m divorced and due to cost of living ive had to move home for a bit, let me tell you im getting laid few times a week. divorced older milfs are where its at. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 07:03 AM |
| 36 | For those who have pulled from the gym what was your approach?i have a number of times, 3 have resulted in sex etc. once you see a women enough times you can introduce yourself, and build from there, ive spoken to countless women and you can tell within the 1st few convos if she will atleast hang with you outside of the gym, if the vibe doesn't seem like it can get physical then just maintain a friendly manner around her, if it feels like it could escalate then ive taken it to IG and work from there. anyone saying its a no-go zone doesn't understand humans… | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?thank you for the compliment sir | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 07:36 PM |
| 9 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?get a good tinder my bro, they basically make it so easy | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 12:00 PM |
| 17 | Do you guys actually experience women initiating sex?if they are older, then yes, the number of women 45+ who have basically raped me is out of this world, I'll never complain, and it makes things a lot easier. | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 05:02 AM |
| 4 | Does anyone approach at the gym?if the opportunity arises, then go for it. It has to be subtle and also an almost slow burn approach, but just because people say you shouldn't doesn't mean you can't. i go to lift, although if i can eventually find a GF out of it, then it's a win-win. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 10:52 AM |
| 4 | How did you level yourself up?bro i was 32 when I got divorced, now 35 and still at home with my parents, i have my kids every 2nd fortnight and for school holidays, yeah its a cock block and not the easiest but i actually enjoy it, im able to focus on my fitness, have very little distractions and I've found genuine happiness. your still very young, take the time now to figure out who you are, get skilled and earn more money, hustle now so by the time your in your 40's you can create the life you want. one thing that got me … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 11:42 AM |
| 3 | What happened with your relationships with step kids after divorce?i met my step son when he was 12 months old, and got divorced when he was over 12, he's bio dad hasn't being in the picture for almost half his life. he's called me dad for most of that time aswell and i am his father, i have 2 biological kids with my ex and tell people i have 3 children, he spends the same amount of time with me as his 2 sisters, infact sometimes more because we bond and do shit etc, me and his mum spoke about adopting but never got around to it, and she tried to hit me up for … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/23 09:52 AM |
| 38 | Anyone elses ex or stbxw really hot?bro you gota change your mindset, my ex is extremely attractive, like 10 attractive and i thought like you, 32, fat, father of 3, poor, living with my parents the list goes on, that i would never find some 'as good' as my ex that was 2 years ago, i went thruw the hard work, packed on muscle and got some style, alot of self development and bagged another 10 who litteraly is crazy in love with me, and the best part shes not crazy like my ex and we have so much more fun together. don't give up king… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/23 04:04 AM |
| 5 | always shoot your shot.you gota flirt bro, learn to touch in non sexual places also. this chick I was talking to is a few years older then me and I would often say things like she can buy the next round because she can get a pension discount. little shit like that ive found creates a fun atmosphere and allows them to feel comfortable. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | always shoot your shot.yeah bro, would rather head up to Burleigh or surfers. did see a few bars in cooly that i will check out tho. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 09:31 PM |
| 5 | always shoot your shot.yeah mate, and from what i could tell she wasn't lying. she is a single mum and a nurse so she may not be going out weekly or alot at all. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 09:30 PM |
| 8 | always shoot your shot.hahaha always one miserable cunt in these threads, well mr Einstein while you work out the maths, i also suggest leaving your room for once so you can see what its like in the real world. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 08:22 PM |
| 15 | always shoot your shot.bro it was during deadlifts man, worst pain ever! i got a corterzone shot but did fuck all, just being resting and not putting much pressure on it, has definitely shrunk and am feeling better. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 09:31 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?i can agree man, i have being hitting the gym regularly for a while now, went and spent a few hund buks on some really nice clothes etc, 50$ on a decent haircut. went out last weekend past and could feel eyes burning me. ended up getting lucky and scored a number of a cold approach aswell. and without sounding judgemental, the vast, and I mean vast amount dudes who were out all looked like slobs. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 05:39 AM |
| 2 | it really isn't difficult.self improvement is a marathon mate not a sprint, while at the start things are difficult, thats should be motivation to continue on that path, learn that only you can make you happy, not some random girl, not social media, nothing but you, once you come to that understanding you will view the world differently, also master the art of not caring what others think, every day you look in the mirror, ask yourself of your happy with who you are, your the only person that needs to validate yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | it really isn't difficult.I talk about it the same way I talk about my ex wife, its just part of the bigger picture, plus the 6 dates i went on, only 1 of the girls i would have approached in real life, if i was at a bar i would have spoken to the other 5 and maybe had something casual with them for the night, although if it wasn't for that stupid app I would never know them. girls do infact like it, I would suggest you examine your approach, if i can go by your attitude on here and how you can't really read into a conve… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | it really isn't difficult.don't mind at all. i was selfish, only cared about my wants, and what would benefit myself, if i mowed the lawns i expected sex and would become an asshole when i didn't get it, was emotionally abusive and lazy, drank and smoked to much, gambled it was bassicly the whole 9 yards except for physical abuse. the biggest change was looking at who I was as a person and what I wanted, and wanting a loving relationship i needed to adress all my issues. I would recommend a book called 'no more mr guy' b… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:21 PM |
| 2 | it really isn't difficult.yeah i might give it a week so i don't come across as desperate, i also asked her if she could help me do my re growth so atleast i have a legitimate excuse to revisit. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | it really isn't difficult.im not talking about tinder my friend, my whole post was to summarise hitting girls up in real life, the world would be a better place if tinder and bumble were gone for good, and us blokes need to work on our selves 1st and start shooting our shots in real life. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | it really isn't difficult.100% man you hit the nail on the head. while the girls i dated from tinder weren't 10's this one in particular ticked litterly every box of mine except she was overweight, and i still laugh thinking back to how she was head over heals for a divorced father of 3 living back at home. i don't have much advice about your neighbour, but maybe play the long game and work like hell to get out of the friendzone | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:11 PM |
| 2 | it really isn't difficult.i mean im happy to casually date the 6's and 7's till i find someone im attracted to, honestly my ex was a straight 10 so i know i can land them ive just developed patience and deal with alot of rejections like you mentioned. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:09 AM |
| -3 | it really isn't difficult.i can agree with your last statement, when i say it isn't hard i would say that most men need to figure out what they need to target. a 6 hitting on a 10 can definitely work in real life depending on the circumstances, online no chance and the 6 dates i had were 6's to high 7's at best which is why i didn't pursue it any further, call me shallow but i won't settle for less then an 8 🤣 funny enough i consider myself a 6 at best, although all the dates ive had have said i am attractive and couldn'… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:03 AM |
| 3 | it really isn't difficult.if she is smiling and apologising, and i only ask once and don't push the topic, why would any sane person call the police? its not against any law to ask once for a number. im 5.9 btw. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | trying not to incriminate.yeah, i really shouldn't have gone to the house, but I feel good knowing the guy is a bitch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Please help :(yeah or withhold sex for months and get upset that i wack off to porn, then proceed to have an affair with her boss and claim it was never sexual even though they could never keep there hand off each other, | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/21 07:39 AM |
| 7 | Please help :(its a funny isnt it right, like i know my ex and she will never acknowledge to anyone the damage she did to me, let alone the fact that she cheated and i did not. i spent months telling everyone how much of a failure I was to realise that it takes to 2 tango and she took fuck all blame | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/21 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Please help :(its difficult my man, im 7 months into my separation, divorce papers filed last month. honestly the 1st 6 months i was a wreck, couldn't fucking work properly, struggled to sleep, all i wanted was for her to see how much i loved her, tried everything to no avail. i was lucky I've had tremendous support from family aswell as guys at work, some I've never known before this year, they all told me the same thing, it gets easier and ill move on and find someone who truly values and loves me. and ever… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/21 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Losing my mindyeah i mean, they all love validation regardless of where it comes from, my ex still has a good relationship with my mum and she will tell me that she brings up shit from 8 years ago regardless of the fact that she cheated last year, classic narcissist, and if anyone tries to correct her about her wrong doings she just cuts them out of her life. ive only started getting better after months of fighting for a dead marriage, and i take comfort in seeing my changes and she hasn't. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/21 04:30 AM |
| 8 | Losing my mindthe best trait of a narcissist is to project onto you that you are the narcissist, my stbxw is the most stubborn narcissist ive yet to encounter and yet her problems are all my fault. you should read that book yourself my man and heal from her | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/21 03:00 AM |
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