jacobj404 Archive

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1	You're supposed to not filter yourself when you talk, but you end up saying stupid shit that turns people off. that advice is only really until you get comfortable being unfiltered. then you chose the filters you want	/r/seduction	10/12/17 06:03 PM
1	Beating neediness hard to know from your post are there any common themes other than this? from what i can tell you probably are afraid of messing up and are being very safe and therefore filter yourself try to avoid this. how would you act if she was already your girlfriend? act like that. next time a girl talks like that ask her for genuine feed back as to anything specific she can point to (just be honest and you might get good feedback) we could maybe help you more if you do that. my advice summarised: 1- don…	/r/seduction	10/12/17 04:38 PM
–	Had been talking to this girl for a while, she invites me over to her place to watch a movie and....nothing don't get too victimized this is one girl. assuming this is the furthest you got with a girl in a while take that as a win and move forward. figure out things you could do better on the next time. remember its only one step on your journey continue to put yourself out there and get better at game. shes the one who missed out on an opportunity. sounds like the opportunity is over if youve got feelings for her it might not be good for you to keep in contact. but if you think you can handle it by a…	/r/seduction	10/12/17 04:24 PM
1	Never getting to the kiss despite concrete attraction stop looking for the perfect time. there are 5 levels of escalation according to todd valentine. not doing anything blindly escalating constantly escalating until you notice a negative reaction escalating 2 steps forward one step back invisible escalation. escalating in subtle ways that aren't noticeable on a conscious level reverse escalation - where you create a frame that she escalates on you. something that might be useful to you is to disqualifying while escalating really lowers her resista…	/r/seduction	10/12/17 04:14 PM
1	Nervous around unknown girls you can start slow try getting more comfortable in steps. saying hello and smiling to strangers having polite short interactions with stranger try with men then after a while with women make those interactions with women longer progressively say try 30 seconds then as you get more comfortable try 1 minute and keep going till you feel you are more comfortable. also on every progression realise you just got better and be proud of yourself. be patient as long as youre progressing no matter how slow…	/r/seduction	10/12/17 03:51 PM
1	My experience in going from below average to average/good looking the tone of this isnt the best but the advice is pretty solid. if you assume all girls are into you all the behaviors that you stated you wouldnt use. if you think about your behaviors like that you will start to figure things out.	/r/seduction	10/12/17 03:40 PM
1	My experience in going from below average to average/good looking you might not be a 10 now but you can think of yourself as a "10 in progress" what girl wouldnt want to be with a guy who will eventually be a 10? as long as you're working towards being a 10 thats your reality. if a girl rejects you its her loss for that lack of foresight.	/r/seduction	10/12/17 03:32 PM
1	What percentage of your platonic friends are women? this is pretty much why screening and disqualifying is a part of game. (picking girls you want)	/r/seduction	10/12/17 02:44 PM
4	How to "chill guy" game? as long as you have the capacity to be loud and goofy id stop. that advice is only really for beginners who are uncomfortable being the centre of attention. being chill letting the girl invest is generally a higher value trait. when you do something ask yourself the question "if every girl here i had a 100% chance of closing would i act like this?" ill give you a couple of example of proven tactics. "qualifying" testing to see if the girl meets your standards, "disqualifying" looking for reasons…	/r/seduction	10/12/17 02:40 PM
2	Is it possible to talk too much? at the start of an interaction you should be the one who is chatty setting up a high value frame of being the high value person in the interaction. once theyve started to invest let them while asking questions by qualifying and being flirty and when talking try dropping hints about whats cool about you. Todds manifesto on youtube covers this topic i believe	/r/seduction	10/12/17 01:48 PM
1	I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA) watch the infield of JP he has a good vibe for that	/r/seduction	07/12/17 10:44 AM
43	I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA) "10 in progress" now thats gold	/r/seduction	06/12/17 08:30 PM
1	I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA) Hey todd, Since youve been back everything released so far has really hit the nail on the head and im looking forward to a lot more. here are my questions how much more infield footage are you releasing? i find it extremely helpful in finding new ways to apply theoretical knowledge could you list some plotlines that you believe would be useful for a Young student and soon to be young professional to use? ive never used them before but i want to find ones that i can use. i especially have no idea…	/r/seduction	06/12/17 08:28 PM
1	What are the best books/courses about Seduction/PUA ? the natural lifestyles is amazing they have a number of products	/r/seduction	20/10/17 02:38 PM
1	How to believe I can do it? have you ever done any approaches at all? cold, warm... anything	/r/seduction	20/10/17 01:58 PM
1	How do I stop being socially awkward after trying for a year so a couple things of the top of my head that could help Cultivate awareness - you have no idea whats causing people to feel uncomfortable, develop awareness for example you may notice that when you done something the person seemed to feel weird. generally its hard to be aware of other people if you arent aware of yourself. start to meditate learn to observe how you feel then start to use that awareness to pay attention to other people this will help you to gain a lot of empathy. Be genuinely in…	/r/seduction	20/10/17 01:50 PM
1	Your authentic personality will always show if you stop creating new goals for yourself goals are what what gives you purpose nothing wrong with goals. as for the girl thing its quite possible that its because you dropped into a lower state of being... who you are isnt necessarily this thing you revert too. if this is what you believe then rather than pretending you should be working to change your sense of identity rather than building up with shell of things i do. instead turn your attention inside and work on there. ask yourself deep questions and follow them to the source and f…	/r/seduction	20/10/17 01:24 PM
2	Ready to learn. Do I just read all of this? Learn inner game its probably most important and will have the most benefits on your life in general. Its basically self improvement.	/r/seduction	20/01/17 12:33 PM
1	Leaving a girl at a restaurant your number after talking to her? just ask her on a date instead man its better than just exchanging numbers and shows confidence/courage	/r/seduction	19/01/17 10:08 AM