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I guess the root of the problem is not women having a lot of sex with different men, but the betas accepting them despite their promiscuous behaviours. Women know there will always be a nice guy willing to stick with her as long as she pretend she repented her past sexual behaviours. I had a friend who's a true beta, he only had one girlfriend and she wasn't even attractive. So, since my friend, who didn't have a great income, didn't have a nice shape, didn't have the capacity to entertain women…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/20 11:19 AM
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Exactly. I have a friend who's not even that ugly, but he refuse to study and work hard to get out of the underemployment he works in. He wants to watch porn and play the Witcher all day long in the weekend, but hate to read books, investing some time on his looks, any sort of improvement. How could such a man turn into someone more attractive, a better human being if he's lazy? Some men deserve to be losers, unfortunately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 07:37 PM
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These apps were not intended for decent women. The only women you'll most likely find there are old ladies still trying to get back the old days or the classic ones, old women who're still trying to make Chad commit to them. The younger ones are quite interesting, though some of them appreciate the idea of having something more serious, the environment pressures them to have something casual. Since they have hundreds of desperate billy betas trying to have a chance with them, it boost their egos…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 11:21 AM
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This is very true. Once my friend try the same approach with a woman he met in college and she accused him of being harassing her. At the end he had to change his class.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 11:12 AM
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don’t ask about sex It's interesting that most of the time they're the ones who iniciante the dirty talk. At least it has been my experience with women from America and the UK specially.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/20 08:03 PM
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English is not my native language and I probably make a lot of grammar mistakes most of the time. Even though, why the hell these women seem to have an English worst than mine, I mean, this one doesn't even know what proper punctuation means. Then why should any man have to accept a child of a chubby, not attractive plus not so smart woman lol this is insane.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/20 11:45 AM
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That's why I use anonymous fake WhatsApp when I talk to these women lol, I also never send pics nor disclose vital informations. Leaches are cruel and they're willing to do almost anything to get what they want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/20 02:58 PM
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Tbh sometimes I pity women like that, not because they're who*es or anything related, but because of the fact they're conditioned to seek the wrong type of men (of course this is never an excuse to be a white night and date a woman like that, If she can't even recognize what's a bad or a good man, she's incapable of being a good mother or wife either). In my life I've met some women who were truly family oriented, kind and sexy without being vulgar, however, all of them were not taught by their …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 11:29 PM
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In another article of her she said that the first emotion a man has to be able to provide for her is "excitement". Gentlemens, it's not hard to figure out why she's having a hard time finding the decent men she's looking for. This is getting clichê af.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 03:00 PM
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And guess what is the first emotion a "real man" has to be able to provide for her: Excitement! Yes Sir, now it makes sense why she's single. Oh and it's not me saying that, she herself said that in another article.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 02:54 PM
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I'm conservative libertarian myself and I'm definitely not saying you should pretend to be that kind of liberal LOL. If you try to do that you most likely be seen as a soyboy. Also, the chances are you're going to attract the exact opposite of women you would like to get. What I'm saying is solely regarding sex. Women are the only ones who are willing to cross the lines of morality just to see if you can handle that. It's a sh"t test, no matter how conservative and modest she acts, she'll have h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/20 11:08 PM
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It's not that hard to tell. You just have to pretend you're a liberal who's into weird kinky stuff. If you come across as too "conservative" and family oriented she'll lock her secrets down in a shell to trap you into the deal. Why do you think Chads have it so easier with them? Because they act as insatiable libertines. Women can sense kilometer away the smell of a beta stable guy. Many women I've met in church tried to play the tradcon born again BS when I was younger and naive, but as long as…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/20 01:01 PM
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Look at their audience target, theyr're unattractive fat women who wouldn't find a man they want anyway. Also, this guy looks much better than all of them, you don't need to worry about critics when they come from below.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 09:41 AM
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I'm from Brazil and over here it's legal to have sex at 14. Many countries like France have loosened their laws about this regard too. In the near future it's not going to be a big deal to see teens having sex and getting pregnant. I mean, isn't the US the number one in teen pregnancy? Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/20 09:51 PM
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It makes sense. Also, if he was more selective he probably wouldn't have married her in the first place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/20 08:02 PM
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I'm not sure if this is true, but anyway, generally when a woman propose "opening" the relationship she intrinsically knows that women have way more chances to get laid than man. Also, women tend to be more selective, and some desperate men are willing fuc* everything that moves, that's exactly why no men should never accept such a devil's deal. It only backfired on her because apparently she manage to get married to a Chad who had just as much opportunities than her. Something is off in this po…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/20 11:05 AM
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For sure she is. How dare me to think she's more like a plump Patric star.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 11:22 PM
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She needs to look up the definition of thick woman in the dictionary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 08:48 PM
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Why would I spend 30k on a degree for afterwards get into a low paid job (in the best scenarios) or being unemployed, when I can simply get good at something and offering my services, maybe opening my own business? Stupid people do what everybody else is doing. It's actually smart not going to college now days. In my case I'm only doing that because in my country I'm forced by the stupid government to have a degree if I want to work with law. In my situation, there's no other way around, but if …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/20 03:40 PM
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Lol, good answer, and I should also mention that the justification for being raped is that they're stupid enough to drink too much and walk around in the dark putting themselves into dangerous situations. Thank God I'm not a psychopath.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/20 12:10 PM
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saying I'm a loser for finding her profile in the first place. Every simp who pays for onlysh"t products should read it before spending more of their scarce money again. These women you sponsor the promiscuous, shallow and superficial lifestyle don't give a damn about you, they actually laugh over your stupidity. And they only treat you well because they don't have to get in touch with you, the reality is that these girls find their audience repulsive. It's time to wake up beta simps, you're des…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/20 11:24 AM
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For me the problem will be maintaining the balance: Oh dude tell me about it. I think this is the biggest problem ever, maintenance of the balance. If you're too cruel and cold, she leaves, if you go full on simp mode she enslave you. IDK how I will manage this if I'll ever marry. Unfortunately, there's no other way around. If you don't do this, your marriege will fall apart. My father is the perfect example of this balance. My parents have been married for 26 years and I still see my father giv…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/20 08:40 PM
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I'm not saying that you should be exactly like that and still expect a woman to crave your love desperately, actually, doing that till the last consequences will only get you alone in the long run. As I learned in my BP stages you have to be able to dosage the way you treat a woman. Yes, most of the time being cold, not showing emotions (women hate men who do it) and not giving a sh*it about her drama is perfect at the beginning, but you should also once in a while spoil her making a breakfast f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/20 11:56 AM
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Fortunately, for a man it's simple to avoid these situations once in a relationship like that: Do not respond to her messages immediately nor attend her calls. Give at least an hour or two before you reply, she needs to feel like she's not that important to you. Do not fear having agressive and different sex experiences with her. Actually, you should be the one who propose these experiences. Ex: Having sex whenever you feel the need, in the car, in a forest, besides her parents' room, in her fri…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/20 09:33 PM
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Let's be honest here, she's most likely ashamed of who she was, hence she deleted that past from her memory and omitted some important informations from her potential partner. Unfortunately, life is tricky, probably one of her closest friend sent her boyfriend the video. Women generally choose promiscuous Don Juan type of men to have intense and voluptuous sex activities while choose a husband nice beta simp to have a cold sex with. Interestingly, while the promiscuous Don Juan gives nothing to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/20 09:03 PM
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Let me translate it to you: A man who doesn't want ***his kids. For sure the beta bastard will be obligated to like the kids she already had with some Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 06:17 PM
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Where did you find that? I look up in his profile and he said he saw no possible future with her anymore. If he changed his mind, it just shows us why we should never ever take advices from the common sense like these sub reddits relationship advice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/20 04:57 PM
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Man this is harsh, I feel the pain of this guy. But I guess it's the price you pay for believing that the affection of a woman is something you can rely on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 08:40 PM
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Also she: My kids come first!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 12:37 AM
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This is stupidly high and unrealistic expectation. It's the equivalent of man demanding an Olya Abramovich for example, or an Anastasia Kvitko. It's not that easy, people like that are just scarce. I'm a tall guy and I've never met a man of 6'7foot like this one. I wonder why giants didn't extingued us in the times of king David since women clearly must have wanted to have sex with them too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 10:22 PM
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The worst of it is that she'll eventually have her beta boyfriend forever taking care of her when necessary and giving her the validation she will constantly needs. If women knew upfront they wouldn't have such an option for the future, many of them would back down the idea of living a stupid promiscuous lifestyles (not that this is bad, it's just bad when you can't handle the consequences). The worst enemies of real men are not sl*ts, but the betas who give them validation and resources.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 04:45 PM
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Lol you're agile. You're right, now days you can't just make porn in another continent and then come back expecting nobody's going to find out. Probably sooner or later these nudes will start to haunt her, specifically when she finds a BB to take care of her and her child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 11:01 AM
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She deleted her onlyfans post. It just proves that either she was desperate to make some money at the time so she thought it would be a good idea or she's just about to put in practice her plan B, that is, deceiving a dumb Billy to make him believe she's different, that she's just unfortunate to have fallen in the hands of an evil "sperm donor" that possibly ate her ass for quite a long time. But don't worry Billy, after 10 years of marriege, a step child that won't respect you and sex once a ye…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 10:53 AM
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Because for men sex is a reward given to the ones who manage to become or naturally born a Chad, while and for women sex is most of the time a burden as they don't have to work the sh*t out of them to get it. Dãaa! This is not so hard to understand. Women need to stop seen us as equals, that's the only way to fix that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 03:50 PM
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I agree with you. Nobody can scape the degeneracy of living these sorts of life stile. Even though I would still enjoy having these hedonically moments for a short period of time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 07:30 PM
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It couldn't be more accurate. I have a friend who's a well succeeded lawyer and a semi Chad looks-wise. One day we're talking about marriege and I argued that it must be horrible to be married to a frigid cold woman who only does have sex with you for obligation. He laughed at my face and said I just had to find the right woman, lol. Then he tells me he have several sexual adventures with his wife every other day. These adventures as he told me includes threesomes, kat orgies, traveling abroad a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 01:41 PM
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Honestly, if she was 10 years younger I would wife her up immediately lol. I don't really believe that there's a woman who's incapable of complaining, every woman does that for pure instinct, but it's hard to find a woman who wants to be a sex doll in these times of empowerment. I still believe this one is fake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 02:02 PM
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I think you're right. I watched another video in her channel where she was questioned about what love means to her, basically her response was: "To give something without expecting something back." For sure this woman had good parents and is not like the pump and dump who*es we see out there, like the ones who demand the world but are not willing to be even gentle. But you know, life is hard and sometimes things just don't work out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 11:46 AM
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Every case is different man, as I said in the other comment, I have a friend who has endometriosis and can't have children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 01:57 AM
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Dude I'm not trying to defend her, I'm just making an statement. I won't put her in the same category of a tinder sl*t because clearly every case is different. Maybe she's just unbearable or crazy idk, but in this case I would need more information before making any harsh judgment. A female friend of mine dated the same man for 8 years, she had endometriosis and couldn't have children, and to make things worse he came out of the closed (he was cheating on he with another man). She obviously dump…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 01:55 AM
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I feel the same way. Also, she mentioned she dated the same guy since her lete teens till her late 20's it's not like she whor*ed herself around and now is looking for a BB.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 12:45 AM
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You're being unfair with her looks. I just found a much better pic of this chick. https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/pt/7/7b/Wally_Walrus.jpg
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 11:18 PM
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If you had enough patience to read her entire bio you must be a hero.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 02:00 AM
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I've had the same experience, though I've never had much time to date. Younger women tend to demand less from men, also they are not in a rush like most women who just hit 30. Btw 6ft4? Wtf dude you must be a Golias, you're super tall lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 09:18 PM
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It always surprises me on how women really overvaluate their own SVM and truly believe they deserve a man with certain qualities when they themselves do not have enough attractive traits to demand that. (let's keep in mind that even for the top attractive women out there it's not that easy to find a Chad who checks all the boxes). It's funny though that if she even manages to find her +6ft guy does she really thinks he won't have any demand (or at least is not supposed to right?). I'm 6ft2 and h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 08:37 PM
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The author is 28 and most of her articles are about how her successful carrier "scares" away guys and how it's hard to find a guy who finds her so call "degree" attractive. I've read some other posts and it's like she's really self aware of her problems and what's preventing her of finding good men. But at the same time she's not willing to give up her BS ideologic belief, so she knows what's going to happen... If you turn into a feminist you whether settle down for a beta orbiter soy boy or cat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/20 04:16 PM
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Lol, that's exactly what I'm trying to say. They genuinely think this is a good advice for men. It's not their fault in my opinion, they're just incapable of seeing life from a men's perspective.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 03:41 PM
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That's why I almost never take advices from women in general, not even from my mother if possible, they always tend to preach acceptance instead of improvement. When I asked my guy friends about what I had to do to get better at dating their answers were always the same: Improve yourself, figure out your own passions, hit the gym, put on nice clothes and do sports. But whenever I asked my female friends about it, well... You know the answer, they just said "be nice, be yourself, you have to show…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 12:00 PM
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Speak for yourself my friend. I would certainly hate to come home and compete with my wife or GF about who makes more money, who is a better cook or who have better social skills. I had to compete with women once when I got my first part time job and I hated the competition and her too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/20 12:04 PM
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English is not my native language, sometimes I tend to use words that doesn't seem aggressive to me, I'm sorry haha. Anyway, I'm not sure If I'd ever have sex with a robot lol, I mean, I'm 6'2 foot and fairly attractive to the women in my environment (though I'm definitely not a Chad yet). I think it's a valid alternative to guys who are tired of modern women and the ones who can't have sex in the current dating scenario (even though I have my doubts about the efects of sex robots will cause in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 05:24 PM
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the socially acceptable space for men to live meaningful lives is getting smaller and smaller with each passing day. That's exactly the problem. Also, the fourth industrial revolution will completely take away most heavy jobs. Men who do not manage to adapt in the future will be doomed to live with some sort of universal income forever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 03:00 PM
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You're welcome. I'm not sure if you'll find some of these kinds of books in your language, but it's worth looking for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 02:00 PM
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I feel like it's a failure to reconcile remnants of traditional values. I agree, as the old says "women want traditional privileges, modern privileges but don't want neither traditional responsibilities nor modern responsibility men have today". Edit: If we try do to something like that it's more probable that women will still benefit from both cultural models (having modern affairs and traditional marrieges) while men will be forced to be traditional when these women decide it's time to "settle…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 01:41 PM
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Lol I've lost count of how many "Carols" I've met in my life. For sure I'm gonna show these posts to some of my BP friends in hope they change their views about life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 12:50 PM
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Interestingly, it's because we associate cultural success with high levels of economic development. India had strong values about sex and marriege in the past, but no powerful economy. Now Indians are experiencing a development of their economy and their military power, but their values are falling apart. René Guénon talks about that in his book Crisis in the Modern World.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 11:56 AM
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It's just unrealistic to think you're a catch just because you have a STEM PhD when you live in a society where men are dropping Uni. Men don't foc*ing care about degree omg this is so hard to understand? Also, "to have experienced love and loss means high N count, a lot of failed relationships and casual dates, who's is the dumb simp who finds this attractive? I don't use to joke about single moms or women who have unrealistic expectations, but it's inevitable to laugh over something like that,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 11:35 AM
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To be frank I think some RP concepts have always been around us, but only the internet made it possible to organize these studies, deep thinking and ideas into something rationally "condensed". I learned about the RP when I was 19 but only managed to put this knowledge into practice some years later when I dealt with hard situations for the first time. It's hard to put these concepts into practice no matter how prepared we are, life is a bag of tricks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/20 10:25 PM
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Lol it reminds me of my girl friend of last year. I was super beta at the time and thought being her psycologist would make she loves me. I don't need to tell much, she dispised me once she didn't need me anymore. Now guess what happened when quarantine started? She went insane as she have mental health problems and no one wants to hear her drama, she even tried contacting me again, while I've never seen my life so peaceful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 10:35 PM
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Oh I just mentioned look (I guess because men most focus on looks), because I was trying to describe a perfect relationship. What I meant to say is what if the guy is perfect but can't give you orgasms because his dick is too small, would you stick with him or go over the guy number 2, not that great but the sex is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:27 PM
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Interesting, because most women I've talked about that would never consider dating the guy number 1 unless she's already with a guy with this characteristics. Yeah I agree, most women don't get off by penetration, it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:24 PM
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Lol ok you won. Too much information to process at once. I'll only take your words seriously because in fact these posts seems ridiculously fanciful, plus, as you said you have a lot of experience and I've never tasted a dick so I can't compare sizes lol, women have more properties in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:45 PM
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My evidences are empirical when it comes to dicks size. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3dqud9/boyfriend26m_is_angry_and_jealous_that_my26f/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3qo7gj/my_boyfriend_28m_feels_bad_because_i_28f_told_him/ https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/7ve9kx/sometimes_i_wish_my_boyfriend_had_a_bigger_penis/ https://www.reddit.com/r/smalldickproblems/comments/33drp7/advice_needed_insecure_boyfriend_because_of/ https://www.thestudentroom.co.u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:27 PM
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no point in bettering yourself according to conventional standards or female imperative if all you’re gonna get is the town bike or a single mom. Oh I see it, yeah that's definitely an issue. If your efforts will lead you anywhere it doesn't make much sense to work hard after all. I think there isn't a solution to that honestly, I was talking specifically about getting laid, but when it comes to meaningful thing is life, sometimes the effort is not worth I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:47 PM
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B I would say so. Women's sexuality in incredibly fluid and mysterious, they have multiples erogenous zones and can in fact have sexual arousals by almost anything independently of her sexuality, contrasting with men that tend to have a more strict sexuality for social reasons I guess. So if we suppose that most women are not 100% heterosexual and they can have sexual attraction for their own bodies independently of being bisexual, I would conclude that yes, women are comparing us to them as the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:25 PM
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If I got one gold coin each time I see a question about N count trying to put men and women in the same boat, I would be a millionaire for sure. Women hate virginity in men, they despise with all their hearts inexperienced guys because in their minds it means he's not desirable enough to other women! They irrationally conclude that he's not competent or attractive enough genetics wise to have lovers, hence, he can't be himself a good lover. Women like what other women want, not what's the best f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:08 PM
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Don't deny it lady, you know I'm telling the truth! Thank God I have a normal size dick lol. But still, I'm not sure if I would date a woman who has ever gotten a bbc, that seems too intimidating to me. You can call me insecure, I don't care!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:59 PM
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A virgin waiting at the finish line? Not exactly. If these guys (I'm talking specifically about nice guys and incels, not BB) stop whining about the unfairness of online dating and start to live a real life, things might be quite different. Let's imagine we take piano classes in a fancy school. In this class there are about 28 guys and 2 girls. Do you think that the 80/20 is applicable in this scenario? Do you think that only about 3/4 guys would be consider "Chads"? I don't think so, when women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:53 PM
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The problem sometimes isn't the n count itself, but the fact that the shape of a woman's vaginal canal can adjust to the shape of the last dick that penetrated her. So that is to say if a woman has had a bigger dick than the current boyfriend she'll in fact feels the difference between them, she'll perceive instinctively the last dick as more desirable because women like to feel full when they're being penetrated. Reality is that women like big dicks, it doesn't matter if her current boyfriend i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 08:41 PM
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Because there's nothing worst than finishing last. "But she wanted the dumb jocks in high school and now she wants to good guy?!" Yeah. That's called maturity. Nope. If Chad didn't get fat nor become incapable of being a good provider do you really think women would change their minds about dating Chads? This argument is only applicable when a teenager is in the process of becoming a woman, after that she knows pretty well what is good or bad for her. Try to defend women who who*e around and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 08:07 PM
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So who holds the blame? Nobody, this is just how society functions and adapt itself to bear the demand of males starving for sex. Since the beginning of human history, there's been prostitutes, concubines, harlots, hetaeraes (specifically in Greece), porn theater, strip clubs, and many other kind of sexual services offered to supply the demand for sex. Certainly not the companies running it or the women making money off of it. They are filling a spot in the market that is bound to be filled. Yep…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:22 PM
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Once I was reading a brazilian sort of blogger talking about the first time she met her husband. She sad she met him at a club and had sex with him in a public bathroom! Oh and to my surprise she mentioned they're married for more than 20 years, unbelievable isn't it? She also said that was the first time she had sex lol, first boyfriend, etc. Now look at my aunt, when she was 16 she met an amazing rich beta guy of 30 (in Brazil it's pretty common to older guys date late late teens). The guy was…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:48 PM
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Once I was reading a brazilian sort of blogger talking about the first time she met her husband. She sad she met him at a club and had sex with him in a public bathroom! Oh and to my surprise she mentioned they're married for more than 20 years, unbelievable isn't it? Now look at my aunt, when she was 16 she met an amazing rich beta guy of 30 (in Brazil it's pretty common to older guys date late tete teens). The guys was the definition of a provider, he was gentle, give her flowers and buy her m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:47 PM
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I don't agree with that. My female civil law professor is 45, have a well established carrier, has a fairly nice body (at least young males are eager to fuc* her), and still she looks defeated. Always smoking, stressed as hell, always obsessed with her phone... one day we were talking about marriege and she got off her chest how hard it was to find a good man and dating now days. She didn't seem happy to me, she doesn't seem to have a happy life either. Some women can pretty much have this lifes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:01 PM
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>that can make you give a chance to a potential partner for being overweight ​ Sorry but there's no physical characteristic that a woman might have that can compensate her overweight. I've honestly tried but I couldn't. I love women with thick ass who twerk and a giant belly is a huge turn off. I know it hurts, but the alternative is just a lie, and lies are much worse than harsh truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 09:14 PM
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Well developed countries have the strictest laws against tax evasion and still the a smart lawyers can help people to do that through some fiscal paradise. There's also very strict COMEX laws to prevent international crimes but still the black market manages to get through that. Maybe depending on the price, some countries might try to manufacture their own national sex robots lol, so they will most likely try to set laws against imported ones, but it's a very extreme view in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:57 PM
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Well, not that optimistic once I'm against sex robots. I'm believe that self-improvement and self control is the best way to improve your life instead of going to something so artificial. But regarding feminists, yeah, they probably will try to stop that, like ludists tried to stop industrial revolution but didn't succeed, technology is unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:05 PM
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I think the same, even though I don't find it correct. The thing is that female bisexuality is more acceptable because we as a society have this archetype of women being caring and loving with each other. So for most people it doesn't sound any strange to see two women expressing their lovely feminine sexuality with each other. Plus, 3somes are between the top 1 fantasy of most men, to have two women having sex with you is just the most intense indescribable pleasure. Now when it comes to men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:35 PM
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When I think about power and gender dynamics I try to imagine a "rope" pushed by men and women but in opposite sides. Now women have the laws in their favor, they have the state to take money from families to subsidize their mistakes... they literally don't need a man anymore because all the cash flows towards them via tax, onlyfans and strip clubs. Once sex robots become a trend (I'm pretty sure the market will make a way to make this happen), the flow of money for women will dry out, and they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 06:25 PM
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This is what happens when you radically change the dynamics between the genders and diminish the incentives men should have to work hard, they simply turn into simps. What is left for short ugly and poor guys who can't compete in the dating market now that relationships are becoming more superficial and digital? — Plus, what if he was raised without a father figure to teach him how to be a real man? Women can't teach boys how to be men. — And what if he was also raised in a society that underval…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:13 PM
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Lol I didn't think about that from an alchemist perspective. Yeah pretty much, but golems can't be use for sexual purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:48 PM
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Will something like this happen for the bottom 80% of men? What would that be? Yes it will for sure, but it's not going to happen in the next 30 years I guess, and it's going to be so disruptive that I'm pretty sure society will never be the same ever again. Think about that, artificial intelligence is getting smarter each year, it's likely to assume that sooner or later they'll be able to fake emotions. Also, micro biology is so advanced that they are now able to replicate human flesh. Also, ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:01 PM
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Yep. Unfortunately sometimes only experience can teach us, not matter how much you try to help other men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:11 PM
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With me basically... I got punched in the face two different times by two women (keep in mind that I already knew about the RP and this stuff, but I simply couldn't believe them I didn't want to, I refuse to accept that I had to change with all my forces). Then there was this cougar I had a crush on in college, she was 11 years older than me, she had an awful relationship with her parents, were heavily addicted to mental drugs, she had an abortion, she was sociopathic to some extent, she was onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:30 PM
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To me the ones who complain about it are either the ones who are not pleasant with the current situation (so the resentment for that) or the ones who wanted to have something meaningful with a woman (generally the guys with a romantic view of women who had their hearts cruelly broken), this has nothing to do directly with the RP in my view, except for the fact that they teatch men to adapt in this scenario. You can perfectly live in a world that you hate and complaining about everything that cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:03 PM
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>idk who told you that women think he’s attractive Acutally all the people who told me Putin was sexy were some russian guy friends. Lol I guess you're right, power is hot. >actually tend to not talk about him/about politics too much as a whole. I know, in Russia you guys also don't have much freedom to talk about it. Some opponents of Putin tend to simply disappear. Anyway, I'm sure this is going to change your mind, isn't it hot? Just kidding haha. https://www.google.com/search?q=putin+montado…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:27 PM
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Hahaha thank you so much for the insight, quite accurate to what I've heard from other Russian guys, expect from the last question, I consider Putin very sexy lol. Anyway, thanks again for replying, I'm planning on learning Russian next year after learning Japanese, I guess it's gonna be fun to meet this cold country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:17 PM
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You probably have known some people who either don't drink or at least doesn't like drinking, the problem is that now days this is not social cool or socially acceptable. I'm 22 and most of my friends are alcoholics who drink before going to take class in college lol, I don't drink at all and I see that there's a huge difference of treatment between them and me. People take me as a more serious guy, not to play with, maybe because people who don't like to drink presents themselves instinctively …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:11 PM
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It depends. If you have money then yes, and it's not that hard. Skin care treatments/hair products. Nice clothes/combination of colours that fit well in your shape/accessories like Wristwatch/glasses, etc. Being fit, 6 pack, eating healthy. Having great hobbies (forget about video games). Playing individual sports like tênis, meeting good places at every seven months (planing a trip, going to a different restaurant, etc). If you have social media and you present yourself like that, you'll most l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:02 PM
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Lol the day before yesterday I just wrote a post about how I give all my values away and turn into a BP when I met a Russian girl, but it was removed. Anyway, there're some things I would like to ask you, but exclusively regarding Russian women, I hope you don't mind. Money is more important than looks in Russia? As the Soviet Union fell most Russian women (at least in my country) for the fame of being gold diggers. Do you think that Russian cultural aspects influences the view of women about da…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 11:48 AM
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I think it's dehumanizing and toxic and sex work/drug dealing are to be avoided if only bc you have to open yourself up to knowing so many shady characters. But in a perfect world I can see how it would be sexy. It is. The woman I was seen at the time was only there because the didn't have money to get go to college. I have not been working a traditional May I ask what do you do? i feel like i could pretty much do anything and my friends/family/acquaintances would immediately accept it. Now days…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 11:31 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately you're totally right. However, I should mention that there's a reason why social pressure exist. It exists only for the purpose of maintaining the social stability that was so hard to achieve today. If we hadn't some pressures to assure people will follow some "antiquate" norms, society will sooner or later die out. Old people intrinsically know that, that's why they pass these values to their descendants. If people simply ignore what rationality tells them to do they'll make…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:05 AM
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Yep. Men know women are prone to reject men who are too much upfront about their sexual intentions, they mostly likely will deceive in order to achieve their goals (though I think this is not acceptable, I don't do that myself). aside what you want What you mean by that exactly? Once I met a very funny girl whom I later found out worked as a stripper. She was super funny, but her life also was a mess. Do you truly think It would be wise not putting aside what I wanted? Men tend to be rational, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:25 AM
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Men know before hand if they want to have something serious with a woman, it's a kind of mental block men have to prevent them getting into trouble with the wrong woman. Think about it from a biological standpoint. Women who are more permissive in the "cavern times" would most likely raise doubts about her loyalty to her "cavern man" and the certainty of his paternity. On the other hand women who play the difficult, shy, modest, whatever makes a cavern man think she's trustworthy, would be consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:40 PM
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I also have a very close friend who went through the same path. This guy is a complete BP btw, (though I consider one of my best friends) and a few months ago he was dating this girl with such a wild past. He was totally unaware of the fact she had many wild adventures and was not even keen to ask her about that (I guess he feared to hear something he couldn't deal with). Then I (as a good demon adviser lol) putted on his head that he should ask him about her number. I don't need to say much, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:49 PM
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I honestly don't think it would change that much. People are saying the civilization would die out and so, but the fact is that high sex drive is not equal to be incapable of having a monogamous life, that's the point. If men with high sex drive can get married and have sex solely with his wife, then why couldn't women? In my opinion it would only beneficiate couples, since after women give birth their sex drive mostly likely goes down. Another thing that could possibly happen is an increase of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:54 AM
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Lol, I've never tried to apply though, I've always turned into full BP mode. Maybe I'll try that when I learn Russian.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:51 PM
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The men ztill found time for fun, probably a lot moreso than the women, I was not thinking about getting a college degree specifically, actually “entrepreneurship” as a bunch of guys are running now out of Universities (at least as compared to the majority of young men who wanted to get a degree in the past), as most of courses are led by women now. If you want to build something, to program a new revolutionary software, to write a fantastic novel, basically doing something that no one has done …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:30 PM
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They say it has to be this way. As they say, there must be a certain percentage of them (low quality women) every year ... Hell! There must be for others (women of honour) may display praise and do not disturb them. Percentage! Really famous are words that these people use: they are reassuring, scientific. It is said: there must be this percentage and it goes without saying a lot about it. If they used other words instead ... it could be that they were unsettling ... And if Dúnietchka also falls…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:19 PM
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> I definitely don't assume good looking men I meet have had no fun. This is the problem that generates all this imbalance between the RP/MGTOW men and women. You have to understand that in order to become successful, if a man really wants to be admired in the future like some rich CEO, he is obligated to sacrifice his 20's, he has to sacrifice all the fun he can have at the moment. Its like to make a pact with the devil, you give your best year in exchange for the hope of becoming a successful …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:04 PM
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Why would a woman assume you did not have your fun before, too? Well do you know that there's a significant disparity between the amount of fun an average man can achieved compared to a woman, right? It's easier to presume that if you're a woman, because women don't pay to enter I clubs most of the time, for example, they don't need to have money to get chances of visiting good places and socialize... they don't have to seek fun, basically, because the fun comes to them as long as they're merely…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:59 PM
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don't think men have any more stigma to get surgery It depends on where you live. In South Corea is normal men using make up, in my country this is being gay. Everything is opposite of what it should be Lol we live in a fallen world, we shouldn't expect something good from society, we can only find justice inside of ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:41 PM
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As I like to say, the RP as well as MGTOW and black pill are good to acknowledge the fact that there's something wrong in our society regarding gender dynamics. With the Advent of the well fair State women gained an incredible amount of power and it changed surprisingly the way they now select their mates. Before these men we had nothing that could help the average men to understand what's happening in today's society. Most of men of the last decade were raised by single moms who preached to lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:32 PM
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Not only that, but also the fact that the female body is malleable and with the proper adjustments any 5/10 can turn into a 9/10. With men this is not possible, and adding the fact that most men for biological reasons do not put other traits into account, we end up with this enormous disparity between both genders. A woman can make a surgery to thin her waist, she can put on silicone to make her tits and ass huge, she can use make up to hide some imperfection she might have, she can use Botox to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:09 PM
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You're considering the exception the norm, but a wise man base his decisions in generalities. At every couple who met on tinder or who were FWB before they start to take the relationship seriously, there are a thousand o failed ones, rivers of tears and hate. Men are prone to have casual sex with women they're not attracted to just for the sake of putting his pipi in a hole (because you know society and women as a whole reinforce the notion that men have to have sex otherwise they're not men eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:13 AM
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Well the way you wrote it didn’t sound pleasant. English is not my native language, also I write and draw comics, I guess I'm kind of inclined to use words with impact, don't take it personally. What you see in porn is preceeded I don't watch porn my friend, at least not alone. Lol And I’m a fan of and bit of an expert in anal. Oh your partner must be lucky sexuality wise, I don't think every woman can take pleasure out of it. The example high N girl isn’t a world famous whore she’s just a norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 10:54 AM
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You care about the thought of one person who will never share that thought with you? No I don't, but you say that as if we live in a world where reputation was based exclusively on what we think about ourselves, which is absolutely false. What other people think about us will always affect our personal and professional lives no matter how much we try to dismiss or deny that. Also “brutally penetrated” implies rape. I don't think so. When I say "brutally", I meant to say that women like it rough,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:17 PM
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That makes sense, a I've seen women saying that they can feel the difference between the size of a dick when they're been penetrated. I guess that to hurt a woman it would be necessary a +8 inch dick or something incredibly disproportional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:06 PM
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Well I've only been with girls who were ~5'2, but you might be correct, I'm thinking that maybe I don't know how to use my dick properly lol. I wish I had a big dick like yours, I would brag about it all the time hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:48 PM
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Lol too many MGTOWs in the same environment would be a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:24 PM
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Haha yeah that's what I'm trying to say. Even though to live with good friends seems pretty funny, to live with someone who loves you deeply is so much good that it's impossible to compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:16 PM
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Sounds like living in a magic land, this just can't be real!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:54 PM
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7 inches? Lol this guy must be a horse. I'm 6.7 and never managed to go deep, though my "lovers" have always been very tiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:52 PM
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Interesting, I thought big dicks hurt the womb, lol. Personally, I haven't met any woman who likes that, my experience has been quite the opposite, to be frank, "don't do that it hurts" or "I can't stand this position it hurts" it's awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:43 PM
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But what about those in the military or in some big construction projects or mining sector. Well all of them have something in common, a purpose. Militaries are serving their nation, miners want to make money, and so on... having something in common is the key in my opinion... As for our girls we didn't allow anyone to bring their partners in. This is bad, I didn't know women could be so authoritarian lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:32 PM
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Lol no matter who she is or where she comes from, women always demand something that cannot be changed. Do you know that the average dick size is about 5.16 inches?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:25 PM
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The problem is that men are not prone to cohabitate peacefully with other males around. Haha It's like to have two lions in the same herd, it just doesn't work out. I'm curious to know what you girls use to do when you wanted to have a fling with a boyfriend. Were you allowed to bring males to the environment? I think this is the biggest problem to me. I wouldn't like to make love to a woman while my friends are just in the other room listening her noises, I need privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:17 PM
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Yeah it seems pretty cool, but definitely not for me haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:34 PM
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Oh I got it, in my country we call it "republic". I also have a friend who live this way. Lol you must be super easy going. I personally can't imagine myself living in a "republic" I'm too easily annoyied sometimes. It's hard to live with parents, even so with friends if they're not organized. I guess it's not a big deal for women, you tend to be more organized than men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:22 AM
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wow this is very interesting... however, I don't think It has that much appeal to become a trend in the west. Historically, women and men tend to get their shits together despite their differences in order to try to survive. Of course in the past ideologies were not that strong like today, but I bet that in a dystopian scenario like that, women would end up doing what they did they did in the middle age, get together with men they don't love not to die from starvation. What I think that might ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:39 AM
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First option, even though I know I would be miserable. Interestingly, I rather live a miserable life with honour and peace of mind, than living an adventurous life without respect. A man is seen by the woman he can get. If other men won't respect my wife because she was a sl*t in the past, why would they hold any respect for me? A Man without respect is just a piece of trash, it's nothing. We know it happens all the time, the BB chooses some post sl*t, he then "accept who she is" because you kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:39 PM
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Actually, last year pornhub released some data showing that women watch much more porn in there smartphones than men. Also, gangbang, rape fantasy and violent sex are amongst the most searched by them. It's far from reality assume that porn is only a male issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:22 PM
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It all boils down to economics and politics. If the U.S. is destroyed from within (the dollar lost its power compared gold, the public debt implode the government and the social aspects of coexistence create this "civil war" feeling), the West as a whole is going to be replaced by some sort of authoritarian force. The same happened to the Rome empire and the barbarians, it's not crazy to think like that. Talking specifically about men in this scenario, we have to consider what's going to happen …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:37 PM
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To bem honest, not trying to defend women's position, but both men and women have risen their standards in the last decade. What you think of women with cellulitis? I don't care at all, but there's this guy who just divorced his wife because she didn't have a porn star tight. Btw, most of what men see I porn today is totally fake, and it's not fair with women either. I think the more hedonistic and materialistic our society becomes, the more we gonna see a disparity between what we expected from…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:51 PM
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You can't fake it, That's what I'm trying to say. If you genuinely become one, you have highly chances of being perceived as such. But this is hard to do, honestly, because it goes against our own instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 01:28 PM
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It depends on what you mean by beta. Are you talking about personality traits or physical ones? If you're attractive enough to catch women's attention but have a beta personality, then yes, if you change your behaviour they'll look up to you in a completely different way. My experience has been quite similar to that. I'm tall and so (even though I'm not a Chad) but I use to behave very beta, giving women attention, being their psychologist, listening to them, giving them love... I was treated po…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:53 PM
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It's never been the case with me. I've met a few (as far as I know) low N count women and most of the time they were just afraid of the things I've done or fearing that I might want to do that again. Other than that it's never been a problem and they have always been honest about being inexperienced. a low n might lie and say she was a slut too to fit in Well there's the problem. Some women in order to adapt to your preferences might try to pretend to be a sl*t. It's never happened to me, but I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 05:14 PM
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I've said that once and I'll say that again "If you want to know a woman's past and make sure she won't lie to you, just pretend to be a depraved." A brazilian "men relashionship-wise" guru called Nessahan Alita said in one of his books and I quote "Depraved and promiscuous men stir the curiosity of any woman and her desire to submit him to her own definition of love." It doesn't matter whether she's traditional conservative or liberal, if you present yourself as a savage lion in bed, curious di…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:22 PM
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Women do concern themselves with more non-looks based factors than men I totally agree. Actually, I've seen that in my personal life. I just pointed that out because some men base their points of view on the results they have on tinder, and there women most care about looks, so to a genuine hook up other traits are not necessarily important. The amount of 'alpha' women need does vary Exactly, there are many factors involved that can make a woman consider a man alpha or not (her social and econom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 10:55 AM
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Before I forget, RP focuses too much on getting laid, that is a "short temporal preference" as far as I know, while I try to focus on keeping the woman interested, because I tend to have a "long temporal preference" for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:24 PM
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BP men tend to neglect biology believing that social constructs are more important than that. They also romanticize interactions with women as a mental trick to avoid taking responsibility and recognizing that there's something wrong with their lives and that they have to change. It's easy to lock your self in a bubble instead of recognizing that you have to make deep changes in yourself... your style, the way you dress, the way you behave... become a better version of yourself is stressful and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:12 PM
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You might be right, I never had to deal with rejection from women specifically, so maybe I didn't't hold problems regarding attachment with them necessarily, but projecting problems that I had with my parents. To me this is something that it's better to talk with a male psycologist, cause you'll have to consider many individual factors that we might neglect when analysing this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:47 PM
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This is strange. Well, in my case I could easily rationalize over what was going on in my head. I think we may approach the situation differently whether or not we are unconcsiousous about the fact that we're sabotaging ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:26 PM
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Never felt attracted to competitive women at all, maybe because they lack femininity, or because they tend to be agressive, I don't know. But I should point it out why I like submissive women instead of "competitive" carrier oriented ones. I like to be dominant, I like to take control of the situation, I like to decide... I also have this strong paternalistic instinct, I like to protect and take care of the woman I'm with. That's why I always prefer women who show some vulnerability, femininity …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:03 PM
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I used to be sort of dismissive-avoidant, but it's due to my childhood. Growing up my parents never showed much consideration for my efforts as opposed to my brother, then I subconsciously putted in my head that I was not good enough (even though I'm not at all a beta male genetics wise), and that I had to defeat everybody to be loved. I never feared to be alone, nor my partner leaving or something like that, but I also couldn't feel good enough to feel ease in a relationship, I was kind of cold…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:47 PM
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Dude you gave flowers to her? After she break up with you and have sex with another man? Lol you were deluded, definitely. Keep in mind that women want a man to love and worship them, that's exactly what they want. However, once you give it to them, they lose interest and begin to see you as weak. That's why you should love a woman if you want to, but never whatsoever demonstrate that she managed to steal your heart. If she noticed that, she can control you, you gonna be screwed because most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:35 PM
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I know how you feel man, I understand your pain. But think with me, do you really think that a great person like she (as you are saying) would break up with you and then have sex with another dude 2 weeks later? Come on my friend, you have to love yourself first. She didn't see you as a mate because you're probably in love with her. You have to understand that she despised your feelings, she's only thinking about herself and her experiences. Why?. Because she know you're acting beta, she knows y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 01:57 AM
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Lol I don't think only Europeans have this kind of kink. I'm Brazilian and once my friend and I were asked to be the stud of another couple. He specifically wanted us to DP her. Couldn't that either, just felt like I was violating some sort of boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:44 PM
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How common it is I really don't know, but I've met many men like that, I only think that porn has a huge impact on these decisions. Once I met a man who asked my friend and I if we would like to have sex with his gf in front of him. At the first moment I just couldn't control myself but laugh, then when I realized he was serious I felt shocked. Later on I found out some sort of forum where men asked other men to fuc* their wives in such a normal conversation, I just couldn't understand how some …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:38 PM
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Not at all dude, stop trying to defend her. You need to care about your own feelings first! Do a high libido is an excuse to dump the current bf and having a threesome with another man? I don't think so... Again, if she has a high libido, then why she didn't try to improve her sex life with you? My guess is because she didn't see you as this guy who provide these sort of emotions. I know it's inconvenient to her that, but trust me, if she have these "feminist" mentality, you wouldn't like to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:22 PM
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Everything has opposite poles that complement each other, creating this sort of balance between these two driving forces that leads the world to a direction. These thirsty useless simps exist only because they need to contrast with real men in this world. What do you think that would happen if most men were not like that? Well, there would be no disparity between strong and weak males. As well as if all men were BP thirsty losers, there would be not masculine strong males and (I'm my humble opin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:06 PM
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If a woman brings up these arguments in order to justify her desire to sleep around she's not a nice woman, period. Whether she's very naive, which is the most common reason women think this way when they're young, that is, their female friends introduce her to stuffs like that and she doesn't have enough strength to stand by herself, or she's just envious of some privileges men have and women don't regarding sex and promiscuity. In both cases it's not a good idea to have a gf like that in your …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:21 PM
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Why's that? Lol do you have something to hide?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:41 PM
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Honestly the only people I wouldn't allow to take my phone are my parents. I actually allow my friends to use my phone sometimes. They know me kind of well, they wouldn't be surprised if they find porn or something embarrassing like that. (No I don't have porn in my smartphone).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:34 PM
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Well I would never share my bank account's password to a gf lol, but stuffs like social media I don't see a problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:10 PM
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My parents have been married for 28 years and they both have access to each other's phones. Sure, they come from a very distant scenario where social media didn't even exist, but as this was the way I saw it a kid, I truly believe that being an open book to your spouse or LTR is much better. Some people might say this is not healthy or whatever, that "if you trust your partner you don't need to check their phone". I also agree that we should have our little secrets (this is the key to make a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:41 PM
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Not necessarily, it vary from age ranges from what I've seen. When I was 15 the boys who got laid the more were definitely seen as more valuable and desired by the girls, as also respected by the other dudes. That was the major reason why I shift from blue to red. However, as you age people tend to have different views on that. By the age of 25-26 you're expected to be a grown responsible adult, for some reason people tend to associate promiscuity to lack of maturity and youth, so it's not a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:42 PM
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Yep. To me this guy is just blinded by love, therefore incapable of having a rational thinking about it. You get to hear the I'm too tired, or not right now I'm not in the mood, Thank God I've never been on this side, but I had a friend who broke up with his gf of 4 years because of that. We hung out together and the conversation turned somewhat "softly sexual". At the end of the night she naively said she had done something she refused many times to do with my buddy (threesome btw). Don't need …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:00 PM
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Am I absurd for taking her back or should she deserve another chance should there come another. Lol yes man. This is the definition of BB, that's exactly what we're talking about here. She'll enjoy her sexuality with many foreigners, live as if there was no tomorrow, and then when she's tired of being used up by Chads she'll come back to you, the lovely man willing to give her love, companionship and stability. Great deal, isn't it? If she wanted to explore her sexuality, why didn't she want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:38 PM
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if you type "woman cheats on her husband" Nope. I tipped "wife lie about her past" lol which is totally related to the topic. I can do the same and find any number of stories of a man cheating on his wife The thing is that men generally don't need to lie about their N-count. You're just deviating from the topic. How common do you think it is for a man to lie for the purpose of getting into a woman's pants? I don't know, I'm brutally honest and straightforward when I'm just looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:45 PM
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You're totally correct. But I just can't throw away some Christian values that I grew up with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:32 PM
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If you aren't interested in women who have slept around a lot, don't pursue that kind of woman. The problem is that women lie. They know pretty that well men have this instinct of discarding this type of woman when it comes to a serious relationship or even marriege. It would be easy if they didn't fear to be judged, I would be much easier if women simply take responsibility for their acts. But they don't do it, they pretend it doesn't exist and blame the men for having preferences, as if we're …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:29 PM
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Lol I think it depends on the country were talking about. Indians are much more obsessed with it than any other country as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:05 PM
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Great point, trying to get out of our bubbles and talk to them might have some effects in other men who are not awaken yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:03 PM
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This is not something to concern about if you're a good actor. What women fear the most is being judged by society, as I've said before, women were much more reliant on their social status than men. You just have to act like an "open-minded" kind of guy. If you cannot do that, if somehow you disclose just a little bit how "conservative" regarding sex you might be (I'm completely ignoring the political term here), and she noticed that you might be judgmental towards her... then forget it, she'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:55 AM
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Classic. It happened to me so many times that now days I just simply ignore. It's a waste of time trying to argue about it when people genuinely refuse to listen. The good is that I always thought I was alone, but apparently there are many men who were not brainwashed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:16 AM
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Good look trying to explain that in subs like de dating advice, the liberal Inquisition will burn you up if they have a chance. TBH, I'm not fond of this "diamond philosophy". To me the ideal is to find a virgin, however, the same way we harshly judge people, we also gonna be judged with the same harshness. There are some women who were cruelly molested by some step parents, this is getting more and more common with single motherhood. There are women who were unfortunately raped, others who were…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:09 AM
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Hahaha yeah that's a better idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:55 AM
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Well, would you lick a woman you barely know in a one night stand? I'm not sure if it's a good idea. Sure men have to put more effort in it, but most women only get off by receiving oral sex, then there's a problem because you know... STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:02 PM
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I guess it depends on her background. Women who naturally doesn't care about her social status are more likely to get off. Women who come from conservative backgrounds tend to overthink about the morality of it, therefore having less orgasms. But I'm just speculating. I've also seen studies that showed the same results like ~3/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:34 PM
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Yeah you're right about that, I can't deny it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:26 PM
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Hahaha you're a dude? I thought you're a woman. Anyway, to me it's just psycological. The fact that you have a woman desiring you makes you feel like you have a better quality orgasm. It just proves my point that the more you feel like a sultan the better it's for your self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:22 PM
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Lol do you have a penis? The there's not much difference between the degrees of the pleasure I have when using my hands and when I'm using a pussy. The only difference is that with a pussy is much more funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:13 PM
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Only 1 in 10 women orgasm during one night stand. :?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:01 PM
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If tomorrow orgasms no longer provided pleasure This is unpredictable. We can't considerate all possible prospects once it's not productive. Nobody ever brags about the most difficult to obtain sex in their life, it is always the best sex they've ever had Maybe we should consider that our social circle has a huge influence on it. Most of my male friends do not consider at all quality over quantity. The generic conversation about sex is always like "dude that chick was hard to get but I finally g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:58 PM
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One thing is the biological imperative men have to reproduce with as many women as possible, another thing is the social structure they're set in to. In the past, the strongest male (kings, sultans, leaders of tribes, shamans) had rights to reproduce more with females, therefore, these guys were able to perceive themselves as valuable and strong, an "alpha" of that times. This feeling of perpetuating our genes (hence feeling like a valuable male) still persists in today's men minds. Why do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:55 PM
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Let me tell you my own experience. When I was 17 I fell madly in love for a girl the same age as I. She was basically exactly like me in many aspects. We had the same aspirations, principles, plans for the future, tastes... She was genuinely the fist woman I met who was really similar to me as a whole. Anyway, even though I really liked her, she was not as attractive as I wanted my partner to be. That said, I couldn't imagine myself married to her, showing her to my family nor growing together w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 12:08 PM
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I've never been to America, but I would never have guts to even try to ask an American woman out I guess, at least not if she's not sober, specifically in some States like California.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:27 PM
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I know my friend, that's how I seduce ladies lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:08 PM
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To be frank I don't know. If I remember well the guy in the video was wearing pink glasses, not yellow ones lol. I probably might have mixed thing up with my hyperbolic quote. But anyway, "Match Group" owns most popular dating apps so it doesn't make much difference, in the end they're all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:27 PM
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It doesn't. Introverts are cool, and sl*ts too. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:35 PM
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Good to know that some women with "sl*t in the name are introverts. Not incoherent at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:21 PM
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True, it's getting harder to date in the "traditional style" these days. But it's important to know that approaching a woman is only harassment when you're bald and short. If you're at least average, like 6/10, for sure you'll have to put some effort on your social skills, but the chances of having a successful date is much higher than it would be in a dating app. The worst thing can happen to an average guy is being rejected, women only truly hate ugly short men and actors. The fist ones becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:02 PM
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The problem of being tiny petite is that as you age you have worry about your weight, otherwise you turn into a goblin really quickly lol. The only problem of being tall is that for some guys it can be quite "intimidating" if not hot, specifically if he's short.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:07 PM
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If I remember well, I watched that in a YouTube channel called VisualPolitik EN. it's just a 10 minutes interview, but he's says really helped me realize that dating apps are just a waste of precious time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:31 PM
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Actually, dating apps were created to lead you astray. It doesn't matter whether you're woman or a man. I once watched an interview of the dude who created tinder, and did you know what he said in the middle of the interview? It was something like that "If people do find love or something serious here they'll just leave and uninstall the app." Why would both women and men have it easier in dating apps if these same apps profit over the hopes of finding something interesting there? For every coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:25 PM
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Yep. As a teen a thought I was heinous, no woman wanted me because I wasn't too effeminate. Thank God I got older and finally suitable to women's taste haha. I also think it happens to boys too. I had a strange crush on these effeminate boys even though I consider myself 99% heterosexual. Only when I grew up I started to have more masculine males as an ideal role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:54 PM
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I don't believe so. Not only attractive women prefer masculine man, actually every woman desire a masculine guy. Why do you think women are so reluctant on dating bisexual males? Women who go after guys with feminine features are precisely the ones who are not attractive enough to get a Chad, hence, the ones you're not attracted to. When I was a teen, in my 14's, no woman wanted to date me because they only used to go for feminine boys with a Justin Bieber or K-Pop hair style. These "pretty boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:33 PM
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For sure, libertarian soldier. I'm also from a "third world" country and I do agree that the government shouldn't dictate who are we as individuals or society. Politics and vipers are synonyms. Also I do advocate for the natural law over positive law. If we hadn't so many useless laws now days trans people would have much less problems with that. But what it has to do with SMV exactly? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:34 PM
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Lol right before someone posted some research stating that women who dated ugly guys (vide men with less options) are the happiest in a relationship compared to women who constantly date "Chads" why do you think it happens? I also saw a video on YouTube where women had to choose between a super hot guy and a short chubby dude to have a LTR. Guess what, every single one of them said they would prefer to date the chubby guy over the super hot one. Why? Easy, women who date super successful and hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:11 PM
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Yeah for sure. I mean, don't get me wrong, the ideal is to be "made" for just one person, that's what I believe. But when you live in an extremely sexualized society, where sex has become trivialized and easy to get, it's hard to stick with just one woman. I'm definitely against cheating and I believe I'm incapable of doing that. But to be frank, it's hard to see a thick or a vulgar woman and do not desire her sexuality when she demonstrates sexual interest in you for example. That's why I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:53 PM
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Yes and yes, even though I'm not a Chad in all aspects". It doesn't really matters how attractive you are, no matter how confident you might be, if you don't have money you'll never have a chance to get nice experiences with women and friends in general. You can't have dinners, you can't travel, you can't date, etc. I want monogamy because I was raised kind of conservative, I just can't see myself having a polyamorous relationship never ever. That's the reason why I seek some sort of "married gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:49 PM
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Hahahaha I'm not sure whether or not I am. I mean, I'm definitely not a Chad, but never really struggled with women. I mean, I'm 6'2 with big hands, plus I have many skills that stand me out of the bottom 80%. However, I don't have status, I don't have social media, I don't have any money at all to boost my shape and buy nice clothes, nor I have a super sharp jaw. So genetically wise maybe I am, financially and socially wise definitely not, I'm invisible. If I had a prosperous carrier I could ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 12:38 PM
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I value both. The stability of a LTR and the stability of a marriege. But if I had to choose I would pick marriege. Why? I don't know, we don't need to have rational reason to do something. One thing is the concept, another thing is the putting this concepts into practice. Since the beginning of the civilization alpha males were not monogamous, they had many, many concubines. Kings and sultans had an incredible amount of sex. Now days theses kings and sultans are the Chads of our time, doctors, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 10:18 PM
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Wait I'm talking about two different types of stability. The first one is the peace of mind knowing that I have someone to share the burden of living and having sex with. The second type is knowing that my partner won't all of a sudden become a psyco that only (in my view) a LTR can garante. I said that I seek marriege, but I didn't say that it's the smartest way of thinking. I was raised in a conservative family so maybe I do want that because it's more natural and comfortable to me. Well, when…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:45 PM
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Unfortunately no. When a woman finally makes a man compromises himself for her in a marriege she will then have the feeling that she no longer needs to please him anymore, so she can be irritating as she wants cause her man is already trapped. Have you never heard of the story of women who after marriege become a totally different person? However, if you don't get married she'll constantly seek your approval because of the feeling of "floating". I have seen people who dated for more than 10 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:24 PM
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Well said, I think exactly like that, specifically when it comes to age gap. Spartans had a similar way of thinking. In their culture, when a military boy managed to survive in the mountains and become a real man (that is to up their SMV with the title of captain) by the age of 30, they had the right to have a wife at least 10 years younger than them. It was pretty much the norm and they made history. I only disagree about the number of sexual partners. A woman who has banged too many dudes is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:16 PM
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Yes, basically. I like sex and I need it regularly, otherwise my mind can't function properly, so... It's better to have sex with someone I trust (and maybe some threesome eventually to scape the routine), than burning my patience and sanity in the dating pool. Dating now days has become unbearable to any man with a little bit of rationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:01 PM
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To me (and to the lawmakers of many western countries) there's not that much difference between marriege and a long term relationship. If you move together with a woman for like 2 years in Japan for example, it can be consider marriege, or "common law" in some places. I don't necessarily want a "traditional" kind of marriege, but I would definitely appreciate putting my surname in a female. Why? Searches indicates that men who have stable relationships/marrieges tend to live longer. https://www.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:31 PM
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Maybe the climate exerts some influence in their behaviour lol. I'm from Latin America and I've seen that many times. Even though I definitely do not agree that personality is everything a guy need (to me "game" is most of the time BS), I can't believe how many times I've seen an ugly short guy with a hot girl. I actually had a friend whom I got extremely jealous of because hes only 5'7 feet and managed to date the hottest girl in college, he's not even that much attractive nor have status, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 06:18 PM
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Probably in every western country, unfortunately. Even though this is the trend of the future, some places still preserve some cultural traditions and do not allow this modernism destroy their foundations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 01:07 PM
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In Brazil. Most things that happen in the US also happens here but with some delay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 01:03 PM
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I agree with you, treating people like objects is heinous. One of the reasons why our society is so bad is that. But let's remember that men and women hardly can be friends. Men always have some interest in women in general, independently whether or not THEY see us as a "detable" male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:57 PM
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Lol I can't believe I read that. It should be a common sense now that masculinity is equal aggressiveness and competitiveness which is bad for society because we're more prone to take the leadership, hance the top positions in business hierarchies. How dare we to be masculine, we should be more sensitive, we should show our feelings and emotions to women like they do, we should cry! We should then lose our capability of handling hard situations to give women more positions of power in business I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:40 PM
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I'm not sure in other countries, but where I live it became popular when polyamory became popular too. As I like to say, we don't like in a monogamous society anymore since the start of the sexual revolution in the US in the 60's and the invention of the pill. In the past the distribution of sex was fair for both alpha and betas, but now we live in a society where women as more likely to be a concubine of a man with status than the wife of a normal guy (that is to say a bigamist society). For so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 11:56 AM
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You're totally right, that's one of the reasons why societies collapse. Cultural development is strictly related to the repression of female sexuality. Many societies and hierarchies did fall apart exactly when there was no more prospect or incentives to have a family with a woman, men simply don't work hard enough in these scenarios... And we know what happens when men stop working hard... very bad things happen. Btw, the EUA is being destroyed from the inside by the Central Bank, and my guess …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:37 PM
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Besides the other reasons already given in here, let's keep in mind that in the past we had strong social morals to enforce a good behaviour on women. If a woman cheat she would at best be stoned... In a very recent past women did not own property and divorce didn't exist. Even before the State, women were exclusively dependent on men to eat and survive. So it's not that impossible the fact that most women gave birth to beta babies because of security, food, stability. Christianity also had a ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:26 PM
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Lol this is not a marriege, it's the definition of nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:14 PM
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Exactly... to me it seems that the problem is that women in general are not willing to treat their LTR like a short term "Chad". It's impossible for a woman to treat an herbivore like a carnivore, and once they made up their minds about the guy they're curretly dating, the first image will almost never go away. That's to say it's impossible for a woman to make a man to fell like that if she genuinely do not see him as such. That is why most of them do virtually any crazy and dangerous stuff with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 04:38 PM
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Totally disagree from my stand point. Women outside the beauty standard still have desires even though they do not have much to offer in terms of genes. I've seen ugly chubby women as horny and dirty as guys, willing to do many crazy stuff due to their lack of opportunity. Most of them would undoubtedly accept to have sex with a random guy just as any other man would have a one night stand with some random sl*t only for lust and luxury. So in my perspective it has nothing to do with beauty of ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:59 PM
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Because most men are not much attractive, do not have much money (let's keep in mind the economy is fragile compared to what is was in the past), nor have much status. So it makes incredible hard to a normal guy to achieve sex, that is why most men focus so much on looks and sex when it comes to women. It's almost like the ultimate goal for a normal guy who's sex is equal scarcity, who barely have a chance to talk to a woman I his daily life, who's rejected all the time because he's not appealin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:34 AM
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