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This is akin to saying the onus of proving god doesn’t exist rests on atheists. It assumes as true the unproved. It’s not logically sound
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:13 AM
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Sure i suppose. But anarchism is a self contradictory philosophy that in its very essence leads to populist tendencies and decision paralysis. It can’t exist outside of ridiculously small communes. Even tribal societies aren’t anarchist. The human population has been too large for too long to have had such a philosophy practically function. Searching for matriarchy in that form is searching for a given impossibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:29 PM
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What you’re describing is just egalitarianism. Property in tribal societies is always communal. And communal property doesn’t exist in larger organized societies due to the tragedy of the commons. The question is whether men or women as a group are controlling that property. But i wonder, why should matriarchy be based on consensus? It plays into the stereotype of woman being gentle, submissive, community building etc. what’s wrong with imagining a society where woman call the shots and are as c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:08 PM
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https://www.routledge.com/The-Invisible-Sex-Uncovering-the-True-Roles-of-Women-in-Prehistory/Adovasio-Soffer-Page/p/book/9781598743906 Maybe you would enjoy this book! Sadly it doesn’t support the matriarchy in pre history idea either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:22 PM
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It’s because their criteria for a matriarchy isn’t rooted in scientific rigor. It doesn’t pass the test for what anthropologists would require. For a matriarchy to have existed, women should have been at the top of all political, social, religious organization and decision making. They would own property and culture would center around them. Further, an egalitarian society isn’t one that can come under this umbrella. At least for anthropological sake. It’s very widely accepted in the anthropolog…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:20 PM
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No, there is no evidence of any matriarchal societies having ever existed. This was actually quite the topic of debate within earlier waves of feminism (i studied it in a feminist anthropology class). A lot of movements against oppression involve a period of revisionist & revivalist history. Its basic aim it to get people to be proud of their roots. Restore a sense of self respect and self esteem as infliction of inferiority is a prime tool of psychological subjugation. Feminists weren’t able to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:50 PM
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This is such a good post! We need more like this. Waiting for your next installment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:47 PM
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Of Woman Born by Adrienne Rich. This book was my first step into radfem literature and profoundly impacted how I view the institution of motherhood. It’s brilliant and thought provoking.
/r/askFDS13/06/21 05:22 AM
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Hmm, You seem to be posting the same thing using alt accounts all the time. Ive seen the same writing/questions on vindicta and its replacement subs too. Is there a reason you keep posting this again and again without actually taking anyone’s advice? It’s always about you feeling undesirable, men not paying attention, you posting pics of yourself asking if you’re ugly. Honestly, you need to stop. You’re wallowing in your alleged misery and turning it into a self fulfilling prophecy. This has lit…
/r/askFDS13/05/21 03:31 PM
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You have just the right approach and I’m so proud of you ♥️ The common thing with the nerds and bros is that they’re both insecure (as most people are). One tries to rope you in by showering you with overwhelming attention while the other takes the indifferent route (with crumbs of attention). Both get old real quick. It’s easy to see once you know the pattern. Set some ground rules for yourself. Only suggest mid/higher end restaurants when he asks you what you like. Only be available one day of…
/r/askFDS21/04/21 05:28 PM
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If all these men haven’t offered to pay and alcohol consumption is a big deal for you, you need to rethink your pre-date vetting strategy. You’re only encountering such men in high numbers because you aren’t eliminating them before the date. How long do you talk to them on tinder for? Do you do a pre date screening call? It is a rough scene out there but men like this are also very easy to get rid of before actually meeting them. 6 dates a month is also a lot. Don’t underestimate dating fatigue,…
/r/askFDS21/04/21 09:50 AM
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I’m not the original poster lmao. Pay attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:28 PM
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I didn’t label him as HV. I stated that your attack on him was logically unsound. His chosen profession, and advocacy for his business does not make him an LV which you very conveniently seem to be doing. I don’t label him as anything. But i can appreciate a sweet post someone puts up about their wife which comes across as genuine. That’s all there is to it. You’re the one who talked trash about his very ethical and accepted business practices and profession, and then jumped the gun to state tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:16 PM
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A poor attack. You’re confusing business practices with his character. Ofc anyone with a business aka a vested interest is going to advertise for their own products; and its superiority over others. Being HV doesn’t mean being a saint. We still live in a capitalistic society. That calls for self advocacy for success. As for holistic, his approach to plastic surgery is one of last resort. When other methods don’t give you the results, you go under the knife. He’s not the type of surgeon who’s gon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:05 PM
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Damn this is a great piece. Scum everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:57 PM
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Would like to join!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:19 AM
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This man is so ugly and has creepy, dead eyes. Yuk. His energy is repulsive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:46 PM
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“Unpur gaon wali” lmfao. 🤣🤣🤣🤣Desi boy is def gonna require mommy to rescue his dumbass. He’s pulling no one with a vile personality like that. Brown men and their fucking entitlement. Ugh. Sends me into a fucking rage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:39 PM
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That man is smart and such eye candy. He has my vote 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:31 PM
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Lmfao can’t disagree with you on that 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:39 PM
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I don’t want to rule out a whole race for you and I have met a couple of decent brown men but at this point I’m just over them. My scars run too deep. I would look into doing the same vetting FDS advocates for + really looking into his upbringing. That’s absolutely essential. It gives you an idea of how brown men might behave in the future. Was he raised abroad in a liberal country? Was he socially well adjusted or one of the outcast ones (simmering resentment issues)? Any sisters? How does he d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:33 PM
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Lol. I feel this comment heavy. Wasted my youth dating a brown man who was a straight up narc (hello pampered, mummy’s boys) and it ruined me. Haven’t dated a brown man since. I get a lot of pushback from desi men and bs comments of how I hate our culture but nah. Y’all are too deeply misogynistic. Brown culture breeds it by putting them on a pedestal since birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:03 PM
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This seems to have a very religious/ white/ drop hella cash vibe to it, none of which is needed to be an HVW. Your activities can be anything that make you happy. If you’re working on saving rn, by all means stick to that. You don’t need to read “n” number of books or have a fake bougie vibe to be HV. It literally all comes down to having a full life for yourself and great self esteem. Whatever gets you there works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:46 PM
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The comments on this Instagram post were encouraging tho. Lots of women talking about how they expect their man to be able to pay for the whole thing and deserve to be treated like queens. I think the FDS mindset is spreading 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:19 PM
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This comment lacks any compassion or understanding of how psychologically damaging domestic violence is. Look into trauma bonding. Read about the effects of abuse on victims. You also seem to lack cultural sensitivity. She’s not in America and you need to view her actions under the lens she’s raised in. Moreover, she owes nobody anything. Just because she had a platform doesn’t mean she has to perform to YOUR standards. This is a victim. Making such comments shows how willfully ignorant you are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:16 PM
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That’s a choice many don’t get. Even amongst the extremely wealthy, personally vetting the man can be a luxury. Many of my friends who are well within the top 0.1% income bracket didn’t have a choice in the man they married. One girlfriend was informed two weeks before her engagement of who he was. She went on a hunger strike and was completely hysterical but her family locked her away in her room for those two weeks. Another one had her match set when she was 8. The official ceremonies only too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:58 PM
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I feel really bad for her. Asian communities can be very, very repressive and divorce still isn’t an option for most. She was more likely than not forced to do this by her family. Divorce or filing charges against your husband is perceived to bring ‘shame’ to the whole family. They rather you die than do something like this. Honor killings are still very, very common. Sigh. I hope he doesn’t kill her eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:56 PM
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I personally couldn’t go for that. I do have more of a masculine energy (tho very feminine appearance) but I couldn’t go for a feminine man. It’s just not attractive to me. I want someone who is very securely masculine in his being. It makes me feel more feminine, if that makes sense. When I dated women in the past i realized that I took on the masculine, caretaker role very naturally and it left me feeling like something was missing. I think because I’m petite I want someone who makes me feel p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:05 PM
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That isn’t the story tho? He was a pretty well known artist in Delhi at the time and the two got married in India before she returned to Sweden. He wanted to make the journey to Sweden on his own. And they kept in touch the whole while they were separated. Many Indian men are creepy but at least get the facts right if you’re gonna try shitting on an actual good story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:08 PM
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She needs to divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:00 PM
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Good for you! I think that was a great move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:27 PM
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In a perfect world a woman’s value won’t be bound to her body. The oldest ‘profession’ in the world is just a testimony of how we have been dehumanized & treated as replaceable holes for men. There’s nothing feminist about supporting sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:07 AM
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You’re displaying a scarcity mindset rn and that is something you should really try to change. You’re young, 24 is literally the start of your professional and stable life and it’s absolutely okay to not want children. I myself have no screaming maternal instinct that many women speak of and I’m ambivalent about them in general. Kids just do nothing for me. They’re sweet little beings but I quite simply cannot imagine myself with them. Kids are also such a huge commitment. You’re committing your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:12 AM
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I would have probably avoided the last line “I appreciate your offer” because women have been programmed into being too kind at every step of the way. You don’t need to be so appreciative of his extremely low balling effort. But you were firm and kind with the rest which i think is great :) did he ask you out to dinner after your last reply?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:02 AM
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Aaah yes. Because all it takes for a man to beat a porn addiction is to turn into a porn actress in bedroom yourself. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:41 AM
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“ Underneath all the obviously false bravado, they do admit that most women in that community will not be able to strategize a successful man into paying for expensive dates and waiting months for sex.” —Who the heck has said that? I’m not looking to date trash which is what he seems to be familiar with so those losers have already taken themselves out of the running. And I’ve had no trouble with making men drops hundreds of dollars per date without sleeping with them. “Unfortunately, nothing I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:30 PM
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This is not good advice at all. Women in their early 20s should be exclusively working on bettering themselves and establishing their long term career and wellness plans. Men should NOT be a priority then. There’s a 60% chance your marriage will end in divorce if you get hitched before the age of 25. More so, our frontal lobes aren’t fully developed until the age of 25. This is why you see more egocentric behavior, risk taking, and poorer decision making in younger people. The frontal lobe contr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:59 AM
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This kind of shit literally makes my blood boil. I dated a narc for years and all the gaslighting really did a number on me. Friends or men, I’m out at the slightest hint of manipulation now. I’m sorry you had to deal with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:28 AM
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What were they even thinking while making this title? Besides the fact that this man probably has some creepy fetish, this by no means gives any dignity to the woman. The title just makes your mind wander to how weird this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:02 AM
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Give them 72 hours. They’ll respond
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:54 AM
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Wish there was a women’s focused platform like reddit where other banned subs like pinkpill could also thrive. Reddit it too much of a misogynistic cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:31 PM
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So prostitution as it happens in other countries where women are only trafficked into it isn’t sex work? Kids who grow up in brothels and then turn into prostitutes aren’t doing sex work? women who are strapped for cash and turn into strippers and eventually get forced into prostitution by their Johns aren’t doing sex work? You can’t view any of this in isolation. If the vast majority of those in the sex industry are trafficked into it the two are very much related. The industry doesn’t work in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:26 PM
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You seem to have ignored everything I’ve said about the exploitative nature of the sex work industry outside of your little privileged bubble and the realities of it in the vast majority of the world. You also haven’t answered why you got into this line of work in the first place. It is black and white. If a vast majority of women are being exploited, it needs to be shut down. I don’t care for the tiny, ignorable number of women who allegedly enjoy it. Internalized misogyny is real and you’re di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:00 PM
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Sure, but what percentage of the overall actually enjoy sex work and want to willfully be in the industry? What was the initial reason you got into sex work? Reality is that a glaring majority of women are forced into it. This is especially true in developing countries. Check out some YouTube videos on the largest brothel in Bangladesh. Women are drugged up constantly and forced to sell their bodies. They are forced to bear kids and the girls born to such women are themselves forced into prostit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:30 AM
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His account name “ analyzing male slavery”. WOW. These men are only going to grow louder as more women wake up. Screw them. We’ve been gaslit for too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:33 AM
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Do you really think a woman whose whole brand is built on bagging rich men isn’t going to flaunt a key indicator that she is in fact in a legal union with one? Let’s not be naive. The same goes for how she always acts flabbergasted when asked if she is East European and retorts with “I’m from Sweden” when in fact she was born in Estonia and only moved to Sweden later on. She works very hard portraying a certain image and a ring would certainly be a part of that if she did have one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 07:22 AM
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Agreed. I like some of her videos but the one on how she got her start in “high society” was basically a hush hush confession on being a sugar baby. Moving to Italy at 19 without any higher ed to party around Rome and hang out with older rich men isn’t inspirational. It’s far from empowering and not the message young women need to be listening to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:41 AM
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She literally never has a ring on in any of her videos. She hasn’t referred to “her partner” as her husband anywhere. Not on her insta stories either when she’s interviewing women who are married and discussing how to bag a rich guy. Definitely a forever gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:33 AM
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Yikes. Comes across as someone unwilling to spend actual resources on a real proposal. Imagine reminiscing about it in 20 years and having to explain what AC is/how the proposal was in it instead of having a timeless, beautiful story to tell. Hard no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:49 AM
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What the actual fuck is wrong with these men. They all need to be thrown out with the trash, Christ. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:17 PM
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Oof. Been there. finally waking up and seeing just how brainwashed I was and my friends are was pretty heart wrenching. And this is definitely a journey every woman needs to take on her own because trying to get my girlfriends to see the light completely backfired. I’ve had to distance myself from many of my girlfriends as their negativity was bringing me down. I just couldn’t deal with how little self respect they had for themselves. That helped a lot. Energy vampires are so real. I’ve also bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:14 AM
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Def a red flag. Likely a commitment phobe. Probably has had a lot of short term flings but whenever it hits the 3-5 month mark and the woman wants more, dude back out/ gets cold feet. They leave a string of women in love with them but are so emotionally backed up that they don’t let themselves fall in love or form any real attachments. I would inquire more about the past relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:54 AM
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Damn. Check out Grimes’ latest posts. She’s got blonde too. This man’s such a textbook narc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:50 AM
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Nope. That’s how he actually looks 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:23 AM
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Her question may not be in English but his replies are. Maybe watch the video before commenting 💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:48 AM
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Hang out with your girlfriends, cry it out. It does suck that you invested so much time. But you’re the prize here and you can’t forget that. You’ve got a solid career going, you know what you want from your future, you literally have your shit figured out, and that kind of energy deserves to be fully appreciated. You deserve a man who sees your value from the get-go and is excited to have an amazing future with you. Don’t settle! You know you’re worth much more than that ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:42 AM
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Look at it this way, at 15 months, you’re at a place where you know you want to have a long term future with him...instead of him reciprocating the same feelings, he straight up told you that he needs 3-4 years to even be sure. This isn’t a man who’s even thinking of you as wifey material. You two aren’t even on the same wavelength when it comes to emotional investment in the relationship. Yea, student debt is hard, getting your career started is daunting but there are countless couples who are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:31 AM
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I would be so down for something like this 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:15 AM
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Shitttt....he’s not wrong...this grass is always greener mentality has taken over dating. So many men think they’re hot shit and can get with any woman they like until reality hits and it’s far from the case. Rather than genuinely investing in their current relationship, they’re always on the lookout for something else. There’s real truth to constant dating taking away from being able to invest in other areas of your life. Dating is emotionally tiring especially when you’re running the same scri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:47 AM
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This this this. I personally want to be surrounded by women who love themselves deeply and won’t settle for anything less than the very best that they deserve. FDS is at its core all about self love. My new year resolution is to love myself with the same intensity that I do others. I want to have healthy boundaries and healthy relationships. How can pickmes make for healthy friends when they have such poor boundaries? Such friendships demand inordinate effort for unequal returns. I will always b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:05 PM
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♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:36 PM
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Definitely crave monogamy and stability personally but heck, I was gonna have my fun if this is what he wanted. 🙃🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:36 PM
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Lmao...my long distance ex broke up with me over this. He barely managed to make out with one girl while I got all the action and actually moved in with my side for a few months (he offered cause I was leaving the country soon). Ex called me crying saying he didn’t want us open anymore cause he felt “guilty”...smh...but once I dropped the truth bomb on him that I was doing very well under our arrangement, his ego couldn’t handle it. Should have thought of that before thirsting over every walking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:06 AM
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Too many pickme girlfriends in my life that I’m slowly detaching myself from. Fact of the matter is you are the company you keep. I’ve gotten enough of the “your standards are too high” or being encouraged to date LVM because “you need to have a bf.” smh, bye. If you need to convince your bf to buy you flowers for valentines or beg him to meet your friends cause he couldn’t be arsed to do it otherwise, you are valuing yourself too low, and I refuse to let that type of thinking subconsciously imp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 03:49 AM
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Low value woman & high value man :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:44 AM
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Ugly losers with nothing to offer women irl trying to get their dicks hard online...oooofff....such a sad, pathetic existence 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 02:39 AM
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