jakekickass Archive

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8	What do I do about the age question? I'm 32 and the last 3 girls I've dated have been 19, 21 and 21. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Most girls really don't care about age its more about how they see you carrying yourself.	/r/seduction	13/03/11 09:57 PM
1	Getting nowhere... getting depressed You've got to be able to pull your feelings out of it. Rejections happen. They happen all the time. The key is to not let someone else's actions have any type of bearing on your emotional well being. It's always an interesting thing, to watch someone first get involved in pick-up. You've got to remember that you are undertaking a complete life-transformation. The more you do it the better you get. Believe me, if it was as simple as 2 short weeks into nailing every girl you talked to, there would…	/r/seduction	05/10/10 05:43 AM
1	Girls drunk/on drugs, do you give a shit/make any changes? This sounds almost more like a brag than a question. I have been a club DJ for years. I usually just do what most of the cocktails and shot girls do. Put off the single but not available and let them chase me. Really all that it's done is make my quality control go through the roof and I am very selective now. Remember one of the rules of seduction is to be the exact opposite of everyone else so I don't jump into bed w/ anyone and that makes them want to chase even more. Especially the overly dr…	/r/seduction	14/09/10 06:52 PM
3	How to deal with her challenging my suggestions for dates? Don't tell her what you're going to do, just take her. I always have girls that tell me "you just drag me all over the place but I have fun." Tell her that you're taking her out and just tell her "I'm taking you out" and if she persists to know tell her "it's a surprise." If you have a strong frame and lead, they will follow. Just make sure that if you tell her it's a surprise you don't end up at a coffee shop.	/r/seduction	10/08/10 07:51 PM
7	Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel. Ya. In your tone I could tell that you had gone to far right now. The push-pull was more for next time. Even after I'm sleeping with a girl I will still do push pull. The other day I playfully stripped down a girl I'm sleeping with as soon as she got over to my house, just to tell her to get dressed so we could head out for the night. You never want them to think they can hold sex over you. As far as dating several girls, I have had a lot better luck getting back into a relationship then just da…	/r/seduction	27/07/10 08:05 AM
11	Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel. I know you don't want to learn anything but I'm going to throw some advice out there for you anyways. Learn how to push-pull. You were probably getting carried away and it was always her that would stop. Some stuff that really helps is for you to be the one to say you are kissing her and then take off her shirt and then say "we shouldn't be doing this" and then go back a step. A few steps forward and one step back. If it's her that says that we should stop, you need to get up and completely stop…	/r/seduction	27/07/10 07:17 AM
1	[FR] A nine day rollercoaster ride with an HB9, some mistakes and lessons learned Agreed. Jealousy is such a nasty emotion. It's better to get it out of the way upfront before things like this can happen.	/r/seduction	27/07/10 07:00 AM
3	[FR] A nine day rollercoaster ride with an HB9, some mistakes and lessons learned One thing I do upfront when I first start to get to know a girl and they start asking me questions about me is the "I don't do jealousy at all." It makes things a lot easier. The other day a girl that I have been seeing but won't commit to told me her ex-fiance asked her out on a date. Without even hesitating I told her "you should go, just make sure he takes you somewhere expensive" with a smile. The look on her face was priceless. She then tried to push it a little bit and asked "you really wo…	/r/seduction	27/07/10 06:59 AM
2	HB: I was going to get a drink with my friends. I would have said "Uh oh?" with a funny look on my face. When she responds with "what?" you respond back with, "well its just that every time touchy girls (tie it to whatever you know about her) drink around me that can't keep their hands off me and I am more then just a piece of meat!" With the right smile on your face you can get away with saying anything and probably would have made her laugh or at least tease you back. Also telling her to "fuck off" with a grimace even w/ a wink after, after…	/r/seduction	27/07/10 02:17 AM
3	[FR] A nine day rollercoaster ride with an HB9, some mistakes and lessons learned Just a couple of notes. You said over and over that she danced with other guys and you just waited. You could have upped your value by either dancing with other girls or just opening other girls. Remember, you are the prize. If she thinks every other girl wants you then she has to want you as well. On Day 6 you already had plans with her for Day 7 but you showed up when invited. You shouldn't have done that. If you were out with your friends, it would have kept a stronger frame if you had not ch…	/r/seduction	26/07/10 09:50 PM
2	[FR] Met a girl from OkCupid If he tells her that he has plans to have movie night with his room mate all day and then after he makes out w/ her in the park, then decides to blow his friend off, he will lose his whole frame. Never bend your plans for a girl. As long as your frame is strong enough, she will change her plans around to fit into your frame. Thats what AFC's do. They drop everything for a girl when they first meet them and then can't figure out why the girl loses interest in them.	/r/seduction	26/07/10 05:31 AM