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| 1 | What do you say when asked "what are you thinking?"?Well I mean if shes asking that question shes likely having some second thoughts about where this is leading right? So I think you do need to give her some validation in the sense that she doesnt feel buyers regret later on. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when asked "what are you thinking?"?something that builds "comfort". like maybe how you feel like the luckiest guy in the world right now, something along those lines. i'm old school and don't know what people are doing these days, but mystery's three step model, i'm still a firm believer in. attraction, comfort, seduction. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 09:02 PM |
| 2 | 6 cold approaches field report since last time, I'm hella busy, but still eager? :vfirst off. good job. cold approaching in public is not easy. and honestly, whether or not she has a boyfriend shouldn't be relevant. it's a shit test basically to see if you're just trying to get some or not. anytime they mention it, just pretend they didn't say anything and carry on. a lot of girls just want excuses for you to go away so some guys will just give up once they hear that. if you want to get an idea what it might feel like to be a hot girl is, imagine that you're walking out the ma… | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Hot Club girl offers to pay , to get me into the club and i tell her no , its sounds like a scam - feel stupid AFyou dodged a bullet. no sense of humor. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Im a retardstart talking to other girls and ask them out. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How to turn dancing into kissingor you can kiss her neck, arms, ears. you can wait for her to turn around or you can turn her around. and more likely than not, you need some more rapport before she'll start making out with you. so pull her off the dance floor and run some game. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 11:29 PM |
| 5 | I just sent this to a girl who I have been chasing/texting for long but isn't reciprocating. I hope it wasn't too immaturenot immature, but sounds bitter/desperate. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Dating someone just to make my ex jealoussounds like you haven't gotten over your ex. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Why Being Your "Authentic Self" Is The BEST Advice For Being A Better Communicatorthe squeaky wheel gets greased. there can be a fine line between someone who speaks up about a genuine issue vs someone who's just seen as difficult and a complainer and impossible to please or the debbie downer of the group. in large groups or out for a party, if the waiter/waitress messes up your order or bills you incorrectly, most people say you shouldn't bother with it since you don't want to ruin everyone's mood. so choose your battles (or you can just go find the waiter/waitress privately… | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Convos fizzle out of you Leave too long before the date?i think part of the problem is that people treat getting a setting a date as a milestone that once it's met, then job is done. so there might be low effort now. and maybe there's just too many concurrento convos going on at once. so once a date is set, goal reached, then check the next one. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Making the move Bars, clubs and other placesi haven't been keeping up with the various "methods" but the mystery method is likely the OG and simple enough. attraction comfort seduction you seem to have no problems with the attraction part and it seems like you're lacking comfort and seduction. so what you should do at the club/bar/club is isolate the girl, get her alone. if you're dancing on the dance floor or whatever, ask her to move "over there" with you, it doesn't matter where but the point is to move her away from her group or whate… | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Newly single and I want to chatr/penpals | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 01:20 AM |
| 43 | A guide to kissing on a first datethe kino escalation ladder goes more in depth. here's a summary https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ the point is to start with low risk contact, reinforce, and then move on to higher levels, and keep reinforcing the lower levels. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Girl on the busbasically the same way as any cold approach. you go in and just say something. and you need to talk most of the time because at this point, she's probably gonna have low effort responses until you create some attraction. you mentioned you saw her holding a book. you just go into a monolog about your favorite book. "hey, i noticed you holding that book there. let me tell you about my favorite novels. i recently read xyz and i thought it was awesome. so much depth and in the story telling blah bla… | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 01:06 AM |
| 4 | How al I supposed to get “Social Proof” and “Status” when Im not already in a relationship?being an alpha male is one example. being popular with everyone in the room is another. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Approaching women without showing high interestyou can start with negging. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Is verbatim asking for a "date" weird in college? hardcase virgin asking for helpno it's not weird, but if it's someone new, then it can seem like a high pressure ask and i'd say you need to exhume higher than normal levels of confidence when asking vs asking for some casual low pressure meetup. | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is impossible to get a second chance if you mess up the first?depends where you are in the relationship and how badly you fucked up. if it's early on, then yeah mistakes can cost you. if it's later on, giving it time is your best option. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Being upfront about casual sexuse the apocalypse opener. | /r/seduction | 14/03/19 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Going to Club Solobe super social and high energy with everyone there. without pals to back you up. you need to make some friends there. | /r/seduction | 14/03/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | DM a girl I dont know but have a lot of mutuals with?https://www.google.com/search?q=how+to+message+a+girl+online&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b-1-ab just message her. don't turn into a stalker/follower. | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Group Sets - How to play the dynamicswhether or not she has a bf really shouldn't be a relevant. we already know that girls will tell you she as a bf as a shit test. having other girls interested in you can work to your advantage. creating jealously is a thing. you shouldn't overthink this too much. | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 05:19 AM |
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