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This is philosophy 101 if you are a philosopher ( a lover of wisdom ) but its never openly discussed because in our society there are sets of values and ideals everybody like to be judged by ( for their own interest of course) and as soon as you start talking about egoism and all these things that in reality drive people but go against those ideals everybody hold so dear, they take you as an unscrupulous person that is devoid of those values. And maybe it needs to be that way, otherwise it will …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 06:29 PM
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Quick updates before I leave, lol. The last piece I wrote about women settling with beta men instead I think is what Rollo calls " the alpha fucks and beta bucks" Because in reality it would be imposible For whatever we call alpha man to settle with a women, so all the ones that do automatically become a beta, even if before marrying they were an alpha. Betafication happens when you settle down with only one woman.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 03:29 PM
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I downloaded a copy of that book 'the sublime object of ideology" from the internet archives, and I started reading the introduction piece ( it's is really bad format as they do automatic scanning ) but I see now where you are coming with with this post, lol. You are almost regurgitating Hegel's argument; "that when we observe a thing we see too much in it" I think you are philosophizing too much about the redpill construct. The redpill is a sexual strategy for men that want to maximize their su…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 03:21 PM
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Thanks man, I'll put that book in my list to read. I'm half through Nietzsche's 'Will to power" at the moment, and though I had read Nietzsche before, I had never understood his message, but this time has been a paradigm shifting for me.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 01:39 PM
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Bravo señor, and thank you for writing down your thoughts so succinctly. You are a philosopher, and only another philosopher will understand you, so your audience will be small around here Do you have a blog, or where can I follow you ? This stuff fascinate me, and I don't want to slip into a tangent going through what you wrote, but I understand exactly what you mean, the way I understood the concept you wrote about was that words are just labels that represent an object in the world. But label…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 01:15 PM
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In all honesty, I read the whole excerpt and then read the comments to try to figure out what the message of this post was about, I didn't even notice it was from Rollo. He is getting too much into himself now. It seems like his priority is playing with words than actually conveying a clear message. What the fuck is he trying to say? That responsibility is an illusion? Responsibility is essential to live a good life . Without responsibility there is no accountability, without accountability ther…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/19 05:31 AM
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I was talking with a friend the other day about the dual mating strategy for women "alpha fucks vs beta bucks" if you don't know what that is, its the fact that a woman will fuck an attractive man, but if the guy has no resources or she has more resources than him then she won't be interested in marrying him, because she will be only interested in marrying a man that has more resources than she does, even if the man is not as attractive. In other words, a woman can compromise in looks, but not o…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 11:33 AM
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This post is full of shit. I've been married for 14 years and my marriage has been anything but a smooth ride. My wife shit test me every time she gets a chance, but every night I show her who her daddy is by sticking it in her ass https://giphy.com/gifs/cat-angry-LLupVlomU88k8 For the younger lads reading this post be careful in thinking marriage is a ticket to happiness land, marriage is actually a ticket to responsibility and a lot of headaches, and if you don't handle your wife like a cowboy…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 01:31 AM
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Attraction and women choosing a mate for marriage are two different processes. I don't know if you have heard about the Madonna-whore dichotomy, the gist of it is that women indeed are attracted to Alpha males traits, and those are the guys they fuck with gusto, but once they turn their focus to marriage, they will only marry with the highest status man they can find. That's what hypergamy is. I would say that most women in the US only care about fucking guys with alpha traits until they are 25 …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 11:41 AM
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Before I discovered the redpill, I had a female colleague that was smoking hot, tall, tight body, nice ass, and great personality. We became very good friends. She was married, and after she got very comfortable with me she started telling me things about her marriage and how miserable she was living with that guy. She used to work until very late into the night to avoid going home and spend time with her husband. I browsed her photos in her Facebook profile one time and saw all her happy weddin…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 11:37 PM
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That's exactly what they do. I've known many women that had settled with a Prius but after some time, normally after 3-5 years they start driving the Lambo on the weekends again. You see, when a woman marries a beta bux, she does it for comfort, and maybe at that time she truly believes that she will be able to settle and start a family with that man, but by doing that she is going against her female imperative, because a woman would rather be miserable than having children with a man she consid…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 11:11 PM
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Hey! I'm glad my story was encouraging to you. Just make sure her vaginal breeding is not a real medical issue before you do anything. If she already saw a doctor and went through all the medical tests about it, and they didn't find a specific cause for that bleeding, then yeah, go ahead and do your own thing. The doctor told my wife that her bleeding was probably being caused by the birth control pills she was taking, so they adviced her to stop taking them, so whatever little pussy I was getti…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 07:47 PM
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I've been married for 14 years, and about two years ago my wife started complaining about low sex drive and vaginal bleeding, so all the sex I was getting from her was the occasional hand job and a blowjob once in a blue moon. I found the redpill by searching online regarding this problem, after reading the sidebar, and some other popular books in the manosphere, I went monk mode. I adopted a very strict diet and started hitting the gym about 5 days a week. I bought a new cologne, went to the de…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 02:56 AM
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This morning, I was thinking of unplugging from this community for the same reason, too many teenagers posting shit lately, and then you get a post like this and realize putting up with the teenies is worthwhile. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 06:04 PM
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I think you are over thinking this, and you are in danger of getting onities. Some women like confidant guys, but that doesn't mean they will suck your dick. There are only two reasons a woman will fuck you, if you are sexy or you have a lot of moolah..
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 07:41 PM
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Oh gosh, I think about these things almost everyday, I have a 12 years old boy too. This resonated well with my fears as a father, and the type of life I want to instill on my son..
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 02:41 PM
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Some of the articles posted in this thread are written either by very young people or people that lacks critical thinking. If I remember correctly, he argues that when you are on a horse, you are not in control, the horse is, therefore that diminishes your manhood. What he fails to see is that a horse is a tool just like a car or motorcycle so owning a horse increases your SMV. Besides, men that ride horses are badass. Most revolutionary heros like George Washington, Paul Revere, etc are often p…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 04:31 AM
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A man on a horse is a sign of weakness! Who comes up with this shit?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 05:36 PM
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There is no such thing as a too valuable man to a woman. Do you think a woman would think, oh, he is too valuable or unreachable to me, and lose interest in you? If you can make a woman think this way about you, you got yourself a stalker my friend. You are either insecure or are not talking to women the right way if at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 12:15 PM
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The other day I told my wife that she should probably finish her degree so she can get a job and make some money. She said, if I have to work and make my own money, then what would I need you for? I acted surprised, and threw in the blue pill argument that she was with me only for the money then. Oh boy she became defensive. I've been married with her for more than 15 years, and she is a lot younger and way more attractive than me. She takes care of our house, and keeps me satisfied in the sack,…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 11:37 AM
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This is the difference between "knowing" and internalizing or comprehending things. TRP is not a misogynist cult, is actually a philosophical framework on sexual strategy and how to better your life as a man... Hang around, everything you read from all these fuckers, one day will make sense if it doesn't now.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 10:01 PM
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If Brazilian sluts are so easy to fuck, can you give us some examples on how you have scored with some of these gals? What you are asking is very subjective, what is depraved or immoral for some people is perfectly fine for other.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 07:40 PM
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It's depressing, I do the same too.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 12:32 PM
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Haha, it seems like the idea of women being coy and men being promiscuous hasn't sunk in with some of these guys posting these field reports in TRP, uh. Women only care about looks and resources, with the younger ones caring more about looks and the older ones ( 25 up ) caring more about resources, having both is a perfect match. Most women in tinder only care about looks, because most of them are young.. if by the grace of God, you were born ugly, then your chances of scoring in tinder are slim…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/19 05:00 PM
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You wouldn't imagine how terrible this shit in the US is. I work with a bunch of young guys, and they are terrified even at the idea of getting married. Is fucking crazy, women here are like porcupines, don't get too close because you might end up with a spike in your ass!
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 11:48 AM
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I think most married women especially the ones with children would be happy to take this role if the husband was able and willing to be the sole breadwinner. Most married women with kids I talk to always complain about not being able to spend enough time with their kids at home. I asked a guy the other day if he would be OK if his wife stayed at home with his daughter instead, he said, HELL no. I asked him why, he said because that wouldn't be fair. And he was complaining about how expensive chi…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 11:25 AM
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I didn't know about the LTR thingy. I'm 14 years into my marriage and still getting plenty of pussy almost every day... Let's see how long it last!
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 07:45 PM
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That's how my father was too, as redpill as you can get. Everyone knew who the man in the house was, and when he was pissed not even a fly dared to move. When he passed, my mother died soon after, she couldn't fathom a life without him.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 01:59 AM
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I've been married for 14 years and I have never experienced such a thing with my wife. My father was also married for a very long time and I don't remember him having major issues with my mom. One thing is for sure, women will always put their kids before you, or at least that's been my experience and my observation. What you described here might be a cultural or a specific instance in my opinion, but it's definitely not the rule.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 02:26 PM
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I think you are going through some serious paradigm shift right now. Good post btw.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 03:25 AM
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One of the interesting things in this subreddit is the variation of posts you read, some of them are very inspiring and thought provoking and others are like they were written by the biggest fat lipped pussy, this post is one of them. This OP is attributing his lack of success with women to his height, when one of the men regarded one of the most attractive in the world is 5'7, Tom Cruise. What does Tom Cruise has that the OP doesn't have? Resources! The fucking guy is rich, and take care of his…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/19 09:32 PM
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Happiness is an ambiguous thing. what most people call happiness is the euphoria of new excitement, and it becomes a constant persuit.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:55 PM
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I couldn't agree with this more. I always have been a guy that women see as potential LTR. even the girl that everybody used to use as the village bicycle didn't want to give me pussy easily but instead played hard to get and wanted to get me into a LTR. I think it depends on the age of the woman, but a single woman beyond her 25s, her LTR antennas are longer, and when she finds a husband material guy, she will become a Madonna, but she will be a whore with the guys she doesn't care. Get familia…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 05:38 PM
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I don't think you will be able to find the advice you are looking for in this forum, as you seem to have a handle of the situation already, but you are uncertain of which path to take, that will come down mostly to your gut feelings, and make the decision of what is best for you and your family. Sit down with your superiors and have an honest and direct conversation on what your expectations are, and size up their reaction. You seem to be a very conscientious man, I'm sure you will end up doing …
/r/askTRP29/12/18 05:22 PM
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You don't understand trp quite yet. But continue doing what you are doing, you'll figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 05:02 PM
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Have respect for yourself and move on. Set values and standards in your life.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:20 PM
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I've been married for more than 15 years and I have never read something truer when it comes to a marriage. Marriage is a choice, and staying married is also a choice. The euphoria of a marriage fades away in the first few years, then it becomes a continuous decision if staying with that person is the best choice so marriage is not an emotional choice, is a rational one, at least for us men. You went very deep in this post, some of these things are very hard to grasp, I'm an atheist, but I'm sta…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:11 PM
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Is not the curse of trp, smv is what women are attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 02:18 PM
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I'll be hitting 40 very soon, and for the first time in my life I'm starting to realize and accept the fact that there are certain things in life that you can't understand by reason alone. You can probably know about it, but you will never be able to internalize it without experience. Experience is the reason why your manager makes probably twice as much money as you do, even though you think all he does is sitting on his ass all day. I always been ambitious and a bit of a rebel, and I hated whe…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 04:40 AM
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You need to assess your own unique situation, because it all comes down to how much SMV you have at this point in life. I don't have a college degree, but I manage and mentor college educated people, and they all respect me for what I know, so not having a college degree is almost a plus for me, because they see me as an example on how far you can go if you put your mind and soul in reaching your goals. But it used to bother me a bit disclosing my level of education, because people use education…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:47 PM
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Listen bro, I am probably a lot older than you and I've been married for a long time, and I know where you coming from when you say that you don't want to leave your girlfriend, that's because you love her, and are emotionally invested with her. Living with with someone for a long time almost become a habit that is hard to break. But, here is a hard truth you will realize soon or later while you wander through this world: "You cannot change people" Change can only come from within once that pers…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:00 PM
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Don't get caught up in the alpha and beta dichotomy, as that will only feed and validate your ago. The ultimate goal of every human being is to be happy, and you have to carve your own path to achieve that. The red pill is only a framework a guideline on how to reach that goal. Get off meth now, nobody will have respect for you until you cut that shit off your life. And if you find a woman that shares your world view, then there is nothing wrong wanting to create a life together with that person…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:34 AM
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I've been married for a long time and have a teen aged son. My wife has always been at stay home mom taking care of my son and the stuff around the house while I work. I used to think a lot on how would be the best way to raise my son. Naturally, if he spends more time with his mother he will be greatly influenced by her, and at the beginning that was the case. It was amazing for me to see the incredible bonding my wife and my son developed during the first years, but as he grew older he became …
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:13 AM
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The most important thing is keeping the frame and confidence when people ask you that question. What do you do? The answer can be anything really, as long as you are confident in your answer. I don't have a great academic education, but I like having intellectual discussions with well educated people, and I used to feel a bit uncomfortable when that question came up. People will sense your level of intelligence when talking to you, and will try to find out your education level out of curiosity I…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:39 PM
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Men trade commitment for sex, women trade sex for commitment. I agree with that statement. I think OP needs to look into himself and make sure he is not fooling himself claiming he doesn't care about the girl, but he is bringing her to bars and is secretly checking the lady's behavior while she is interacting with other men, it leads me to think that OP is in denial that he is probably developing feelings for the girl, and she already sensed that.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:25 PM
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Are you sure it wasn't the "aspirin" subreddit you were looking for?
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:56 PM
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You are using TRP as a gaming tactic, and because of that you will appear insecure to women, the very thing you are trying to avoid. You should focus in yourself raising your value as a man ( building attraction) and conversations with women will organically develop. Talk to people and women whenever you feel like it, as long as you don't become clingy or a stalker you should be fine.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:50 PM
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It appears more like she is not your plate, she is your girlfriend, that's what exclusivity means. if having a LTR with this woman is your intentions, then you need to find out what you really want. You said that you don't care about a person past sexuality, but here you are asking a question regarding that very thing because you are not sure. For a woman having such a high count means she needs a lot of validation, and she is more prompt of continue seeking that validation even when she is with…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:38 PM
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Go on with your original plan and deal with it later. You fucked up by telling her what you were doing, most likely you ruined the chances of making your unicorn a LTR, even if she accepts it, she won't forget it.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:20 PM
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Thanks man! Is not easy to keep up and nurture a relationship for a long time, because your wife will shit test you all the time, is a constant bombardment, but if you always stay solid like an oak, she will always be that little submissive kitten, urinating of admiration every time you are around. And the best of all, it all looks natural, for everybody around us, we are a normal couple. It might look or sound misogynistic to people that haven't taken the red pill yet, but this is the reality w…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 07:36 PM
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Another immature sex thirsty sucker in search of validation. Go back to monk mode.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 03:35 PM
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I've been spending a lot of time thinking about this concept in philosophy called "idealism" and that's the idea that you shape your own reality based on how you perceive the world. In other words, your interpretation of the world is based on on your ideas, beliefs, and your entire perception of the physical world. It sounds like a strange idea, but is worth noting that quantum mechanics one of the most successful theories in physics is based on this idea.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 03:13 PM
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Kudos to you man, physicists have a special way of looking at the world.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 02:57 PM
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I think its lack of abundance which makes it happen. I've been married for 14 years, and I've been faithful to my wife all this time, and I have never had issues with my wife as the OP described here. You need to define and accept the role you play in a relationship. Some men want to be the leaders in a relationship but they don't act or do what a leader is supposed to do, which is "leading" If your GF or wife is making more money than you, takes care of the finances, and take the initiative to …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 02:44 PM
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I've been doing the same since I discovered The Red Pill a few months ago too. I've been married for almost 14 years now, and I have a good relationship with my wife, I'm a natural red pill guy. The red pill has given me a framework for understanding women and relationships in general.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/18 09:11 PM
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Programming is a craft I agree with this, and your mindset should always be "what value do I bring to the table" than asking employers what value they can provide to you. Remember, an employer needs to make money on you, so the value you bring in need to be double or more of the value you get out. Learn, learn and learn some more. Create a blog and spread out your ideas, find open source projects and contribute to them, build a nice GitHub profile. Life is like that man, start building your equi…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 07:10 PM
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Buddy, pull yourself up from the bootstraps, and finish the degree, you are almost there. Many other horizons will open up to you once you accomplish that milestone in you life.. software engineering is a good field, and you will do fine in it financially, even if you are a mediocre one. I'm twice your age, and I can tell you, crises the one you are going through in your life are normal, is the tax we pay for living. Humans are complicated, but steer the ship streight, you know the destination a…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 05:52 PM
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By pure chance I discovered the red pill a few months ago, and I've been reading all about it ever since. I've been thinking about the hypergamy theory lately, and besides the almost self evident truth that women always want to marry up, there were some real world experiences that didn't quite fit well in the theory for me. Before reading this post, I was leaning to the idea that women subconscious objective is to "make you fall in love" once they achieve that, they will lose interest in you.. a…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 03:46 PM
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It seems like you are going through some philosophical debates in your head. I come from a rural part of a third world country, and I own a farm with a lot of lands over there, and I don't pay taxes for that property at all. I own multiple properties in the US, and I pay a boatload of taxes for them every year. What's the difference? ​ The "Commonwealth" ​ Your taxes pay for roads, police, firemen, schools, etc. even in rural America, these things are needed. ​ ​ ​
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 09:27 PM
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