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| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreThey want chad/ty'rone/mohammed to approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it considered cheating if there was never an explicit conversation about being exclusive/monogamous ?Yes. Exclusivity should be assumed unless discussed otherwise. I never date more than one person at a time and I expect the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:34 AM |
| 3 | TRP will not solve your problemsWomen are generally into the same 10% of men. This is why there's a few men getting a lot while the rest get crumbs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:57 AM |
| 0 | Society looks the other way a lot more with women's toxic behavior in heterosexual relationships than with men'sIt's the women are wonderful effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Can men just not be loved for who they actually are?They're probably encouraging her to eat even more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Can men just not be loved for who they actually are?Most of the women on My 600 pound life have a steady boyfriend. And the guy is usually thin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 06:02 AM |
| 7 | Why does Polyamory get so much hate here?It's not beneficial to society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Men do not have high beauty standardsI would totally make an effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 10:30 AM |
| 13 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?rp: women make rules for unattractive men and break rules for attractive men bp: monogamy is good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 10:33 AM |
| 0 | Prenup a red flag?Aren't all prenups getting tossed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Would you be a beta bucks?I would but I'd keep it casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 07:30 AM |
| 8 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.They only vet the unattractive men. The attractive men get a free pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.Women want a guy her friends will approve of. She wants them to be jealous that she was able to get him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:47 AM |
| 10 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.It has the opposite effect. If you take off the shackles women will exclusively pick the men at the top. The biggest losers in the sexual revolution were the bottom 80% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.That's it? That's your rebuttal? It's true though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 02:48 AM |
| 6 | Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating.all i said was that more women than men are content being single I disagree with this because women are never single the way men are. They can get companionship from their friends. They have orbiters that they could promote to relationship status whenever they want. They have a fwb or hookup situation with guys a lot more attractive than the ones that will commit to her. Take all that away and women will be just as desperate for a relationship as men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 02:04 AM |
| – | Do you believe life is generally easier as a single person?The cost of living is too high for just one person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 09:34 AM |
| – | Women usually don't care about looks as long as men are not autistic or socially awkward.Makes sense. Ultimately rizz, as they say, is the most important thing. Aut!st!c people have no chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 09:22 AM |
| 3 | how is hookup culture accepted if you’re supposed to get to know women "as people" first?Hookups are for chad. If you aren't chad, you have to know her as people first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 09:16 AM |
| 2 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?I agree with this 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?They only want to be approached by chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 08:06 AM |
| 2 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?Women don't do this for men, they do it for themselves. Men generally don't care. Most men aren't getting sex. See #1. What's wrong with wanting someone nice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Another reason why some men can't do LTR with women and either go volcel or the spinning platesThey have higher standards for a relationship than they do for a hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:33 AM |
| – | Do you lovely ladies think you'll be able to pull off a alpha fuxs/beta bucks strategy in a post red pill world?It seems like you're taking the extremists as representative of the whole red pill movement. Red pill is just men informing themselves about women's dating strategies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Is there any justification to the notion that men should be allowed to cheat?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 09:27 AM |
| – | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantThe thing is women are never truly single. They can get companionship from their friends. They likely have orbiters that they can promote to relationship status whenever they want. They likely have a regular fwb that is a lot more attractive than the relationship guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:32 AM |
| – | Any tips to avoid being betabuxx?Never get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:16 AM |
| -4 | What societal scenario would make redpilled men happy?Enforced monogamy would be good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:14 AM |
| 1 | What societal scenario would make redpilled men happy?What do you think about the red pillers that just want to have casual sex and “spin plates”? They're grifters. RP is such a wide range of voices. It's frustrating when people take the craziness and try to say it represents the community as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Women tell men how to be attractive not sexually attractive and men struggle because of itit assumes the fish (women) don't want to be caught The reality is, they don't want to be caught. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Women tell men how to be attractive not sexually attractive and men struggle because of itPsychhacks on you tube talked about this. Women tell you what they want from someone they're already attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.Women have low standards for the guys that give her the tingles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Do men even like women anymore?Sure, men just don't like the way so many women are these days. Selfish. Entitled. No empathy. Not loyal, always looking for something better. I'd be happy if I could find a quality woman for a lifetime monogamous relationship. Hard to find, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:14 AM |
| – | How do you rank the importance of these traits / factors in a potential partner?integrity compassion, kindness and empathy humility and ego awareness dating and sexual history openness and clear communication healthy relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Do you think young girls need to bring back the 90 day rule, or even more extreme like wait until marriage?rake [ reyk ] noun a dissolute or immoral person, especially a man who indulges in vices or lacks sexual restraint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 06:48 AM |
| 0 | Do you think young girls need to bring back the 90 day rule, or even more extreme like wait until marriage?Women control access | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Do you think young girls need to bring back the 90 day rule, or even more extreme like wait until marriage?It's about men not wanting to feel like they're second best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you think young girls need to bring back the 90 day rule, or even more extreme like wait until marriage?Sounds like has low confidence. If I get it early I'll look at as I'm doing something right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you think young girls need to bring back the 90 day rule, or even more extreme like wait until marriage?Most men are pretty desperate. They'll be happy to honor whatever rule is necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you think young girls need to bring back the 90 day rule, or even more extreme like wait until marriage?I think they should wait for a committed relationship. I hate the idea of dating someone when there's a strong likelihood they're doing the deed with other men at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Do you think young girls need to bring back the 90 day rule, or even more extreme like wait until marriage?The word you're looking for here is "rake". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 07:07 AM |
| – | If women say they don't enjoy casual sex, why does hook-up culture still exist?How often do you see women admitting to something that could make them look bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:59 AM |
| – | If women say they don't enjoy casual sex, why does hook-up culture still exist?I think it's the result of women only being attracted to such an extreme small percentage of the men. Those men have a lot of options and can leverage it into getting hookups. She knows if she doesn't give it up some other woman will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How is it not better to be toxic?Karisma King talks about this all the time. Women are dry for the stable guy. Always be the toxic guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Do you feel like the sexual revolution benefits men more than women?True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:24 AM |
| 17 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?I'm sure the confident ugly guy would be labeled "controlling". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:02 AM |
| 53 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?The dating apps and social media have made it very difficult for the average man to be successful. They don't have the power to demand better because they can be replaced in 5 minutes, they just have to accept whatever they can get. Either that or be long term single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel like the sexual revolution benefits men more than women?It enabled the majority of women to get casual hookups with the most attractive men. The bottom 80% of men got pretty much nothing. Then those attractive men became her standard that she compared all future men. Even when the average man gets a relationship, it won't be as fulfilling because she feels like she settled. The alpha widow, if you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:43 AM |
| 3 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityIt's not as big of a deal for women as men will typically treat their relationship partner better than the casual partner. The reverse is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:32 AM |
| 10 | To women who have had both casual flings and longer-term partners, did your attraction to your long-term partners ever match up to your visceral lust for your flings?The random always seems to be chad though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 11:40 AM |
| 6 | Women give bad dating advice for MenIt's because women want you to be the safe relationship guy. Unfortunately that guy makes her dry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 09:26 AM |
| 1 | How is Richard Cooper able to afford multi million dollars properties, exotic cars, millions in the bank, exc?I think it's an act. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/23 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: Why do you disagree with the manosphere's explanation of the "MECHANISM" through which dating apps & hookup culture destroy dating, courtship, and formation of relationships? Do you have alternate explanations?A 5 woman has no incentive to get in a relationship with a 5 man when she can get a casual ho0kup with a 9 man whenever she wants. It totally ruins the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 11:08 AM |
| 1 | not even trolling, what is a red pill?Originally it was men educating themselves about women's dating strategies. But it seems to have been co-opted by some grifters into something different. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/23 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Thinking of ending my relationship because of anxiety caused by redpill beliefsIt's only an issue if she isn't attracted to you. If she is, she won't care. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/23 08:03 AM |
| 14 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beMen go for whatever they can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 10:23 AM |
| 15 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beThe claim is that women are attracted to the top 20% of men. It makes no claim about relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Woman who complain about ot being able to find a "good man" just have very high standardsIt would be better if women were more open minded about what they were attracted to instead of settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 06:36 AM |
| – | Do wommen even truly like men at all?I think it's women's actions they don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 10:06 AM |
| – | Do wommen even truly like men at all?Yeah it's probably 5% or so they are into that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 10:05 AM |
| – | Do wommen even truly like men at all?They like 5% of the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 10:02 AM |
| -7 | "Women are born with Value (Sexuality) and all they have to do is maintain it while Men are born without value (income,power) and they have to create it"Totally. Women control access to both. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/23 08:40 AM |
| 1 | “Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence”We have low confidence because we are unattractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 09:57 AM |
| 3 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itI have no interest in taking part in hook up culture. I dislike it for other reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Choose better is always the response when women are in bad relationships? Do you show the worse parts of yourself when just meeting someone?I was always told women could sniff out jerks and misogyny. Is that not true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 08:56 AM |
| – | The Wall exists but also doesn'tAverage men are more likely to value the relationship and be loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 02:50 AM |
| – | The Wall exists but also doesn'tThe wall only exists for women that want a high value man. If they're willing to go for someone on their level, there is no wall. Too many desperate men out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | I cant get the 80/20 Rule and "Hypergamy" theories out of my mind.Why worry about it? Worrying won't change anything. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/23 09:06 AM |
| 10 | Why do men let their gfs push them around?Men generally don't have power. Their only options are take it or break up and be single for a long while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 09:19 AM |
| 1 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleI agree. Yet for some reason women are attracted to these men. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsI wish women would have more empathy on this issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Do women look down on men who approach them?Only if the man is unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:57 AM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.You are exactly right. This is why I'll break up with a woman if she makes me wait for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men demand obedience over collaboration in a marriage?Men have no issue with collaboration, I think it's women that have a problem with it. Women want to be in charge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:23 AM |
| 6 | Why do some women object to the stat that women find 80% unattractive, if they also say there aren't enough quality men?women are generally attracted to the same men. otherwise we wouldn't be having awdtsg groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Why do some women object to the stat that women find 80% unattractive, if they also say there aren't enough quality men?How is that done easily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Why do some women object to the stat that women find 80% unattractive, if they also say there aren't enough quality men?It's something that can't be controlled by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do some women object to the stat that women find 80% unattractive, if they also say there aren't enough quality men?Men are attracted to all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:33 AM |
| 8 | Why do some women object to the stat that women find 80% unattractive, if they also say there aren't enough quality men?Women are pretty much all into the same guys though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:31 AM |
| 1 | The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship?Mainly women want chemistry and status. Those other things only factor in if chemistry isn't there. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Would you like women settle for you or even be forced to be with you? Do you even care about love?Ideally women wouldn't be extremely picky and instead be open to being attracted to all kinds of different men. That just isn't the way it is. It's better to be needed and get *something* than get nothing and be single your whole life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:17 PM |
| 9 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Then what accounts for the women who date broke ass dudes that offer nothing? Aren't those dudes the chads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:51 AM |
| 1 | "Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely willThe dangers of the alpha widow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.We need the men at the top to stop having casual hookups with lower women. That's the biggest issue we need to address. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:10 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHer past affects her future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:02 AM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWait for a committed relationship for any man you're with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:01 AM |
| 2 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?Women make rules for the men they aren't attracted to and break rules for men they are attracted to. Society was better off when women needed men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanI mean, I cook/clean/laundry myself. I only eat one meal a day lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 09:54 AM |
| 1 | How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game.Norah Vincent did it for a year and was so traumatized that she self deleted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableMen want to be loved for providing sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:01 PM |
| 0 | “Where are all the good men”It's the apex fallacy. They assume all men are like the jerky chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:52 PM |
| – | There’s a hypocrisy around spotting red flagsIt's expensive though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 05:38 AM |
| – | There’s a hypocrisy around spotting red flagsMost men don't have many options and pretty much have to take what they can get. Sure, in an ideal world, they would vet better. It just isn't really an option for them. Women choose to ignore chad's red flags because he's hot. He doesn't try to hide that he's a jerk. She picks him anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:59 AM |
| – | There’s a hypocrisy around spotting red flagsIt's because the guy is hot and they want to ignore the red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 04:53 AM |
| 2 | What causes men to compete for the affection of women ?Low confidence? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/23 12:20 AM |
| -7 | Red pill traits but no luck with women helpThat just gets you in the door. You still need game to be successful. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/23 12:19 AM |
| 3 | CMV: As a society there's almost nothing we can do to help lonely menI'm not very optimistic. The only thing we can do is for men to support each other better. For example, not pursuing a woman that is in a relationship. Or helping when he's struggling with something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Doubts about the red pill ideologyThis is more about her not being argumentative. It should be a partnership. For example, if a woman is wanting to spend a weekend with a male co-worker. How does she react if her partner doesn't like the idea. Does she see where he's coming from or does she gaslight him? I don't think it's in men's dna to cheat. Men generally can't support, financially or otherwise, several children from several different women. Alimony should be banned. You shouldn't be able do divorce for no reason and still g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Why is asking for a paternity test a relationship ender?How many people that cheat give you reason to suspect something? Usually they are good at hiding it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:17 AM |
| -16 | You’re making yourself a loser[removed by reddit] | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/23 06:43 AM |
| -1 | Most men cause their dating issuesIt's the top 4.5% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 07:17 AM |
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