jamesbmo Archive

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3	Recommended hygeine products? I meant Fator de Proteção Solar. It seems I've been living in Brazil so long I'm mixing up the languages haha.	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 07:28 PM
9	What are your areas of concentration to get/stay in the top 20% of men? Career, social circle, lifting, guitar, surf, bjj, reading, finances, dancing, skuba diving, skiing, extreme sports, traveling.	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 02:39 PM
1	Choosing a symbol I don't think anything directly related to TRP would be a good idea. But instead a motto that you believe signifies the main value for you as a man. Good ideas are: Vivere Est Vincere (to live is to conquer) or Audere Est Facere (to dare is to do) Really think about what you want to be there for the rest of your life, don't be too impulsive when getting a tattoo.	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 01:34 PM
1	Pickup books Magic Bullets - Savoy	/r/seduction	14/06/19 12:12 PM
4	Changing gyms You shouldn't rely on other people's opinions to make even those kind of decisions. Be assertive. But in my opinion you should look at price, distance and quality. If you find a gym that is cheaper but is closer and is good then I believe you should change gyms. Of course those factors depend on your goals. If you're a bit short on money, then you prioritize price. If you're really busy, you prioritize location. If you are really involved in weight lifting, you should prioritize quality (organiz…	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 12:07 PM
11	Really? Women are interested in attractive men. A good sense of humour is attractive, so is looking good. What's the point of the questions? Do all you can to improve your looks (nice haircut, grooming, lifting, eating well) while also developing your sense of humour and charisma. The thing women value the most will always be a man who is assertive, confident and comfortable in his own skin.	/r/seduction	14/06/19 10:29 AM
39	How to cut off overly attatched girl Don't fuck her, you are already in a bad situation. Red flags are screaming everywhere, what you should do is friend zone her. Think about what women usually do and do the exact same, tell her hoe she's a good friend, never do or say anything that involves relationship and with time reduce contact. Remember, if anything happens, if she cuts herself, you have to remember, this has nothing to do with you, she may try to blame you, but DO NOT feel responsible for her actions. If she has those impul…	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 10:25 AM
2	Fashion advice- Should I wear a graphic tee or a plain tee to a college party? Depends a lot on your personal style. If you have a rock star vibe going on I believe the graphic tee with dark jeans and a boot could work. Although I would prefer to go with a Henley.	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 09:18 AM
2	Recommended hygeine products? A.M Facial Moisturizer with FPS; P.M Facial Moisturizer; Exfoliating Cream; Facial Liquid Soap; Eye Cream; Lip Balm; Eletric Toothbrush; Dental paste; Dental Floss; Beard Shampoo; Beard Conditioner; Beard Oil; Bar Soap (with menthol or something refreshing); Shampoo; Conditioner; Moisturizing Hair Mask; Body Hair Trimmer with guards; Manicure kit; Comb for hair; Comb for beard; Boar Bristle Brush for beard; Milk of magnesia (rub in your armpits to end any bad odor); Anti-transpirant (only when I…	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 02:05 AM
1	Should I cut? Test won't make you lose fat, a caloric deficit will, what a steroid cycle will do is allow for to build muscle even when in a deficit, and when a surplus or recomp, you would gain much more muscle then a "normal" person. But you seem to have no knowledge on that matter, using performance enhancing drugs is not that simple. You need a protocol, a plan of the drugs you will use, in most cycles it is used more than one, you need to know how to inject them, you have to buy medicine to protect your …	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 01:54 AM
4	Frame at pool party? Fun? Of course! Sexual? Well... Not really In every conversation with a girl, it is important to escalate, increase the sexual tension, both with touch AND conversation topic/feel (you don't need to talk about sex to make it sexual). But remember, in a pool party, as you said girls will be half naked, if you come talking sexually there's a good chance you'll come across as creepy. First think about having fun, talking about interesting stuff, asking open questions, make a initial rapport before …	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 01:41 AM
3	Should I cut? I believe a recomp protocol would be the best idea for you. You are very young, the best thing to do is take advantage of this phase of your life where your body is growing to take full advantage of it and build some muscle while eating well. A caloric deficit wouldn't be ideal in your age. Figure out your maintenance, eat at that and train very hard, after a few months, depending in your progress you could do a very slight cut in calories to lose weight over time while still gaining some muscle…	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 01:31 AM
7	TRP view on Instagram Instagram has had no benefits for me, and Insta Models were never the girls that added most value in my life. After some time I realized I would waste too much time, and kept looking for validation. When I entered monk mode I deactivated most of my social media accounts and started improving, got into surfing, rock climbing, martial arts, lifting, cooking, etc... Started reading a lot about TRP, finances, literature. After doing all of these changes my social circle got much bigger, and I got to…	/r/askTRP	12/06/19 12:26 PM
4	Working out decreased my SMV Around 82kg	/r/askTRP	11/06/19 09:29 PM
1	How to plate/ date a recently single friend? What the actual fuck? I would stay miles away from fucking my boss's daughter. I mean it, I almost lost a chance at my residency in a certain hospital due to a similar situation. Believe me, she's not that special, I would just stay as friends, don't shit where you eat. Don't jeopardize your income and professional future over this.	/r/askTRP	10/06/19 04:03 PM
3	[25M] Is not having an Instagram account preventing me from having sex more often? Honestly, I don't think so. From my own experience, after I deleted most social media accounts, I've been having just as much sex. I don't remember one time I got pussy from Insta, and the fact that the only way to contact me is calling or texting seems to make girls see me as misteryous. I find that the girls I fuck (HBs 8-10) have way too many followers, way too many orbiters, wich makes it really hard to stand out, unless you're famous. In my opinion, you need to join activities that allow fo…	/r/askTRP	10/06/19 03:39 PM
11	I hit in a female friend of mine and now it seems as if she’s offended that I did? It just feels like she feels offended I don’t keep playing the orbiter role and dared to want to have sex. It seems that you already answered the question. In The Manipulated Man by Esther Villar, she explains how women a lot of times use sex as a reward. A man provides for her, and to keep him doing that, and gladly doing that, she uses sex. But what happens nowadays is that women don't even need to give the reward anymore. For betas, just being in her presence is the reward. Because of that, s…	/r/askTRP	18/03/19 11:29 PM
2	Low SMV; What To Prioritize? Read the Sidebar, for real, read the sidebar, go lift, eat clean, stop with porn/masturbating, instead of watching stupid TV shows, read a paper novel (good ones). Those habits go a long way, of course you could implement different ones or other ones. But IMO these actions will have a very significant impact in your life.	/r/askTRP	18/03/19 11:21 PM
1	Any seduction dudes in south america Yes and no, in south america, not everyone speaks English, even educated people may only know a very basic english. The good part is that girls here usually love foreign guys, some of them will hook up with you just because of that. Sometimes I would go to night clubs and speak only french or german and girls would be all over me. At least that was my experience in Brazil and Argentina.	/r/seduction	15/02/19 03:38 PM
7	How do deal with - probably insincere - "why"-girls? I don't think this sub is the best place for this questions, it doesn't have a lot to do with seduction. I guess it's a relationship matter, how to deal with your girlfriend. Anyway, is this a petty why? Like defying you? You could be honest and explain exactly the reason you want her to do or no to do something. If it's something that bothers you a lot then break up.	/r/seduction	25/08/18 11:47 PM
7	[FR] Field Report - Invited Tinder Girl Over, Fucked within first 5 minutes, downhill after that... I don't want to be come off as rude here, but would you please keep your field reports shorter. That's way too many details, the purpose of field reports are to give real life examples of good or bad game, or even both. It's most useful when the techniques applied or the mistakes in those are made are the focus. You just posted a pretty long "FR" with no game at all and that resulted to being just a question about you not being able to get your dick hard. As for the answer, try to relax, don't o…	/r/TheRedPill	22/08/18 01:55 AM
1	What’s the call on hitting on women at work? Because your financial security must come first. How can you be sure the girl won't be mad at you if you break up with her and make your life hell because of it. What if she's your superior. Would you like to grown in this company you're in? If so, fucking girls there won't help your reputation, especially if things go badly. If that happens this might end up in you not being respected by co-workers or subordinates. Plus, you should focusing on your job and expanding relationships that can be fr…	/r/seduction	22/08/18 01:41 AM
2	How do I seduce international students / foreign girls? Ahh, ok, now I get it. Damn, I really don't know for sure, I guess you just need to get to know the guy better and kinda understand what he wants before doing anything. Just know for sure what you want from a "relationship", if it's just some fun without any commitment, some type of commitment or nothing at all. And make sure your intentions are met and in agreement with his so you don't have to face any disappointments later. But you won't really know for sure if a guy wants to have sex with yo…	/r/seduction	02/08/18 06:34 PM
3	Did my first approach today. Failed miserably haha. Any advice? [23M] Hahah, that was actually good, you did need some balls to approach like that, congrats my brother. What was "wrong": The first line was actually very good, it sounds like you delivered quite well, a nice direct opener that shows your intentions. But then the boyfriend question, I believe you did that too early, and I actually think you shouldn't have asked at all. Here is the thing: you approached, she still doesn't know you, you are a complete stranger, strangers don't usually come and talk to …	/r/seduction	02/08/18 11:00 AM
7	Day 6/7 Avoid this on work, if you're a beginner, some interactions will sound odd and maybe even creepy. Don't shit where you eat, go out to clubs or even shopping malls, bars, pubs. Just don't practice game at work. Would be better to make some female friends there who can introduce you to girls outside your work environment. Second thing: "I am a fucking pathetic loser". I do know how it feels to think that about yourself, but think, would any girl be attracted to a guy who thinks so low of himself? …	/r/seduction	02/08/18 10:48 AM
2	How do I seduce international students / foreign girls? Nothing mate, just do you and enjoy, girls like foreigners students, I went to Canada for about 6 months and damn, those were good days. Just learn the basics of seduction and apply, the "exotic" effect will do the rest for you.	/r/seduction	02/08/18 09:57 AM
2	I need help gently easing my way into this girls dms! Does she posts stories? You could respond one of those. If not, I usually take a look at her recent photos and try to find something interesting I could comment on. As an example, just a week ago I followed a girl, and did this, but her recent photos were just basic selfies. But at her bio she had a quote from some book. So I said something in the line of. "Wow, so poetic, I just got inspired by your bio. Haha." So that's it, try to see something that stands out, maybe she was traveling, maybe s…	/r/seduction	02/08/18 08:53 AM
2	Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic? Yes, which is shit, cause none of those pictures look good. Now get your trolling ass outta here.	/r/seduction	31/07/18 12:11 AM
1	Texting Main goal of texting is to set up dates, is not the best place to build rapport. Do not respond immediately everytime, if you are always texting them it seems you're just desperate. Joke a bit in your texts, usually jokes that praises yourself, don't be afraid to seem a bit cocky, just make sure it's always funny. Set up dates, don't become a text buddy. That's it, stop spending so much time trying to attract or build rapport through texts. Be funny, be a bit cocky and set up the dates.	/r/seduction	30/07/18 05:54 PM
1	Should I start using mainstream social media? As of lately I've been really focusing on my studies and projects, I decided to uninstall Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat. And I personally haven't been missing it, I never saw much of an use for those things in relation to pick up. I usually just game girls in my college, dance classes, clubs, concerts and events, using Whatsapp only to set up future dates.	/r/seduction	12/05/18 01:27 AM
1	Help! Going to meet a girl my friends want to set me up w at a party tonight? Read the sidebar	/r/seduction	12/05/18 01:14 AM
1	How to deal with this type of girl on text game? Text her: "Yo bitch, get a fucking sandwich" lol Ps: don't do this, just see if she wants to go out, if she gives excuses or say she's busy go to the next girl.	/r/seduction	11/05/18 12:24 AM
3	Am I paranoid or.... Break up with her, get your life together.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/18 03:23 AM
1	First kiss, how do you guys do it? I think you're struggling to build sexual tension, take a look at this articld to see if it helps: http://www.girlschase.com/content/sexual-tension-7-ways-make-women-excited-and-randy	/r/seduction	10/05/18 01:24 AM
6	First kiss, how do you guys do it? First of all, I make sure I already established a physical interaction with her by escalating physically, it comes much more naturally a kiss when you're alreading holding her hand, touching her legs, lower back and hugging then just come straight to kiss. So there are some situations. If we are standing, when I feel the sexual tension is good, I will whisper something in her years, hug her and brush her back a little, then I kiss her neck a bit, letting her also feel my breath. Then I go for th…	/r/seduction	10/05/18 12:21 AM
4	What books do you consider your personal bibles? Books that have been real helpful. About seduction or not. The Prince - Niccolo Machiavelli	/r/seduction	07/05/18 09:30 PM
3	Very odd question - what are best resources and recs to manage a break up most effectively Do it in person, this is mandatory. And don't bullshit around saying shit like it's not you, it's me, you don't need to give an explanation. Just tell her it was an amazing time being with her, and that you hope she finds someone who makes her even happier. Tell things you truly believe, and say you will always remember her and keep the feelings you shared.	/r/seduction	07/05/18 09:23 PM
2	Need grooming / looks suggestions When I said frame I was talking about the way you act, it actually is the most important thing, take a look at this (it's very long, you may want to save it and go back later): https://www.woujo.com/blog/2018/4/26/how-to-hold-frame You look good bro, I would still try to find a better hairstyle, like a crew cut, and take a look at hoe you're dressing and behaving.	/r/seduction	06/05/18 12:37 PM
2	Need grooming / looks suggestions Why is your hair like that? I would let it grow and find a nice looking style. Grooming wise you could start buying and using a face soup(daily), an exfoliant (once a week) and a moisturizer(daily or every other day). Make sure you smell nice and hit the gym, I know, you're not skinny, but it won't hurt, it would benefit you in many ways, and developing a strong physique will make appear less young. If you can, grow a beard, but only if it looks good. Also watch how you're dressing, sometimes it…	/r/seduction	06/05/18 12:28 PM
1	About my Girlfriend's Friend How close is she to your girlfriend? There is a big chance that if you break up with your girl she won't want to have anything to do with you. Not only she could lose the friendship with your girl, but she could also fear being perceived as a slut by her friends in common. She would need to risk her social circle to have anything with you, so if you really want this girl, you can either cheat and end things after, or maybe talk to her and already set up everything so when you break up you guys c…	/r/seduction	06/05/18 02:30 AM
6	Mixed signals from this girl? Just keep ghosting her and game other girls, not worth it	/r/seduction	03/05/18 06:11 PM
1	We’re emotionally invested and interested in each other but I’ve been a Beta until yesterday (when I found TRP) Are you on your phone? If so you gotta go to the front page of The Red Pill, touch on those 3 dots on the upper right side of the screen, some options will appear, touch on the one that says community info, and there it is: The Sidebar	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/18 12:20 AM
1	How important are nice teeth for physical attractiveness? As if the health aspect of this wasn't enough to pay a LOT of attention to your dental hygiene, they are certainly a factor in your attractiveness, a good looking smile will make you look better and give the impression that you take good care of yourself. Brush your teeth twice a day and floss once, it's not that hard.	/r/seduction	28/04/18 12:14 AM
3	Can you guys recommend any good books/resources to read? Magic Bullets by Savoy	/r/seduction	08/03/18 09:28 PM
1	Massive challenge It is always worth pursuing man, if you don't end up sleeping with her, at least you know you tried and can learn from it. Start talking to her, forger about excuses, don't be afraid to go after what you want. No need to try and make her jealous, just make some friends in her group, or talk to her alone then get to know them. Please don't try peacocking at school haha, dress well, that's enough.	/r/seduction	06/03/18 11:21 PM
1	Having a hard time I don't think so, it is interesting, fun to read, gives maybe an inspiration and also shows you what happens if you let your life be consumed by pick up. But in terms of theory of game, doesn't really adds a lot imo.	/r/seduction	06/03/18 11:13 PM
2	Having a hard time Do you mean approach anxiety? If so this video helped me a lot: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RLLbiXcq7ko If you actually don't know anything at all, as in how to open, transition to a conversation, set the frame, attract the girl and everything else, then you could start by reading Magic Bullets by Savoy and going out to apply those concepts. Read the wiki too and look for some infields to kinda get the "feel" of it. But the most important thing always comes down to facing the fear of rejection…	/r/seduction	06/03/18 11:08 PM
4	Had a 10 give me the friend talk.... https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vc108/how_i_unfriend_zoned_myself_fr/?utm_source=reddit-android I found this really good, maybe it could give you some insight.	/r/seduction	06/03/18 09:43 PM
5	Rsdtyler exposed? This is actually very complicated, my view is this: the more success you achieve, the more people come up and try to bash you and maybe even profit from it, with that said, I do think RSD charges WAY too much, and that there's a lot of marketing involved. But I still watch some of those instructors (Max and Julien) and I do believe they put out great free content on youtube, Todd is another guy who has very impressive game and a great knowledge on the logical aspect of it, and even has a free pr…	/r/seduction	06/03/18 09:39 PM
2	Girl isn't over her ex, what should I do from here? Let me assure you that you're right! Keeping your options open and knowing that will be her loss if she can't see the new possibilities in front of her. Focus on yourself, and put your priorities first. Be real to her and make sure she is being real to you. Good luck!	/r/seduction	05/03/18 12:26 AM
5	Girl isn't over her ex, what should I do from here? I wouldn't, I believe that she needs to figure this out by herself until she gets into another relationship. And you may be putting yourself in a bad position if you invest too much on this and things go bad. I would hang out with other girls, meet new people, basically do my thing, still talk to her and hang out if she wants but just not getting so invested on her because she could be emotionally unavailable.	/r/seduction	04/03/18 10:36 PM
1	New to Reddit and in dire need of some advice. Sure, and that's exactly what I said lol. If you already know everything you need to apply to be successful in what you want then forget about it, don't read any of that, but if you don't have the knowledge, then acquire it and take action to internalize them.	/r/seduction	04/03/18 10:25 PM
3	These girls are angels. Yall ever pick up anyone like this? I feel like I havent lived up to my potential with women still even tho I have improved tremendously. Do yall ever get that feeling? https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Mm04s65ncYg These girls aren't different, just the way you would talk to them would differ thinking: oh that's an angel. When you put someone on a pedestal they have no choice but to look down on you.	/r/seduction	04/03/18 10:15 PM
2	New to Reddit and in dire need of some advice. Read the Wiki, see the basics, reed one or two books about game (maybe Models, Magic Bullets and No More Mr Nice Guy). Realize that your priority is starting to be sociable and making friends. (Read How to Win Friends & Influence People). Work on yourself, be committed to self development. (Read 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People, The Power of Now and Awaken the Giant Within). Start working out, grooming and dressing well. Pick up hobbies you find interesting. Those are some of my favorite book…	/r/seduction	04/03/18 09:59 PM
1	Relating this to a high schooler Ok, so I may be going against what other people are saying here, but well, it's just my point of view. I'm 17, I graduated from high school last year, I live in Brazil. The thing is, when I was 16, I still had not kissed any girl at all, seeing my friends being comfortable at talking and even flirting with some girls, most of them starting to date took a toll in my confidence, and in parties I wouldn't even have courage to talk to girls. After studying and binging on Pick Up material, getting to…	/r/seduction	04/03/18 09:07 PM
2	How do I get over my ex girlfriend and stop missing and texting her? I know everyone has flaws, I have plenty of those, but what I mean is that I don't believe he is seeing hers right know, and he's trapped with the idealization of that girl on his mind, wich could be solved by remembering she's a normal person who also has flaws and that there are so many interesting girls ou there. And this garbage advice worked for me, I still think my ex is a great girl, but I don't idealize her. May not work for him, or for you, but if it helped me, it may help someone else.	/r/seduction	01/03/18 12:19 AM
2	Reply on "you are so cute" "I know right"	/r/seduction	01/03/18 12:09 AM
2	How do I get over my ex girlfriend and stop missing and texting her? Stop putting her on a pedestal, you picture her as the perfect girl with no flaws, try to remember the things you didn't like so much about her. Remember the things you may haven't liked in your relationship, and also remember there's a ton of great girls out there and there's no such thing as the "one". In my case, after a few months of learning pick up I started a serious relationship with a great girl, but later I was actually the one to break it up, but I was sad anyways. But in the moment I…	/r/seduction	28/02/18 11:47 PM
2	I drunk texted something stupid CALL HER and apologize, no text. And next time, try to be more concious when drinking, you don't need to get hammered to have a good time, and by drinking the right amount you get all the "benefits" without acting like an idiot. Life's about balance man.	/r/seduction	28/02/18 10:35 AM
3	Has there been a certain point in time or is there a point now where seduction is causing you to fail or perform average in other areas of your life? Yep, last year of high school, when I should be studying, spent huge amount of my time reading pick up material, flirting with as many girls as possible and going ou to parties and dates. That resulted in me not being able to join med school and having to spend a whole other year studying. So yeah, make sure to set your priorities right, getting laid shouldn't the main life goal of anyone.	/r/seduction	28/02/18 10:30 AM
3	A friend posted a photo of me and some girls started following immediately after. What do I do? At least for me, if a girl follows me, and I think she's hot, I will follow her back and dm her very soon, maybe not in the same day, but soon. I may be a little forward about this, but if I don't know her, why the fuck would she follows me? In my mind it is because she wants some haha, but entering in the convo with this abundance mindset helps, even if it isn't true, and at least where I live, slidin into someone's dms isn't a big deal, so I just do it without giving it so much importance, bei…	/r/seduction	27/02/18 10:14 PM
1	Advice on pushing things further My friend, I hope I can help you and will just share my thoughts on that matter. I would also like to point some mistakes I believe you made, just so you can get it right in a next time. First of all: "I thought was getting IOI's but I wasn't too confident in them", by all means, this shouldn't happen, you need to come with an abundance mentality, and the best way to do that is to believe the girl is attracted to you, of course it is good to know a bit of body language, so you can see if she's t…	/r/seduction	01/02/18 03:07 AM
11	Dropped $300 on RSD's "The Natural". Is it any good? I think that if you just spent $300 on it, you should try to get every bit of information and use it to the maximum, cause you already invested your money, now I think you should just try to get the best return of it by making it work. And yez, I think it is good, at least by the videos I watch from Max, wouldn't pay so much on it though. But yeah, by all means, try and learn everything you can with it.	/r/seduction	01/02/18 02:44 AM
2	Im 17 soon, should I be getting into this seduction stuff now? Yes, I think you should, I was 16 when I started and had never even kissed a girl, now I'm 17 too and I'm really glad I got into it, at first I was able to have my first kiss, and started dating with another girl, after 4 months I broke up with her, and one of the reasons was because I knew I didn't want that, I still wanted to become real good at game, and I'm seeing progress every time I go out, recently I kiss closed a girl within 10 minutes, hooked up with 2 others, so I definitly have a lot…	/r/seduction	23/12/17 06:31 PM
1	A cautionary tale You said that it must be bad if a woman tries to be nice and a guy uses that to hit on her, this is where I disagree with you, you can't think that if you approach her she will be doing a favour if she stays and talks to you. You need to have confidence, you will talk to this girl because you can provide value to her life, because you're funny and have an exciting personality, you will make her laugh and make her day just a bit better. So you need to approach her, and you need to approach thinki…	/r/seduction	22/12/17 11:45 AM
3	Girl I like and have slept with is hanging out with someone else Fuck twelve other girls and realize that flower isn't as special as you thought in the first place. So basically get over her.	/r/seduction	21/12/17 12:01 AM
7	How the hell do you close? Ok, so you're talking about number close, and actually how to reduce flakes, first thing I would do is to stay longer after getting her number, if you just get it and leave immediately it seems weird, so chat a bit more and tell her you have to go back to your friends. Second thing, make sure you really built a connection with her, only tellingg stories about yourself won't cut it, even if you're funny, you're not doing stand up, you're doing pick up, so be sure to establish a connection, talk a…	/r/seduction	20/12/17 11:50 PM