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1

Sex with prostitution and Asian massage lady
/r/seduction03/09/25 02:39 PM
0

We did… but now social media, the digital world and tech dependence are retarding human social skills. It’s rather obvious.
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:57 PM
7

100%
/r/seduction01/09/25 11:52 PM
0

That’s not a good sign man
/r/seduction01/09/25 02:23 AM
10

If you aren’t already jacked, get jacked. A shaved head works best with a muscular physique. And if you look better with a facial hair definitely grow it out. If you are very fair skinned a tan is probably also going to help your appearance.
/r/seduction26/08/25 01:32 PM
11

No you never get to stop, keep the autism going full steam ahead.
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:13 PM
3

Yeah… dating other men.
/r/seduction28/07/25 07:06 PM
-1

Because some of these women are nasty cunts. Move on quickly when they are being like that. You didn’t win any frame battle. You win the frame battle when she complies with you and things progress.
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:55 PM
1

You’re fine, this is ideal, let him lead you.
/r/seduction23/07/25 06:23 PM
2

Worth a quick bang or purely sexual fling and that’s it.
/r/seduction23/07/25 03:19 PM
1

Be above average it ain’t fucking hard go to the gym eat right, dress right, have some swagger develop some confidence and attitude, put yourself out there and shoot your shot it’s not rocket science.
/r/seduction22/07/25 03:57 PM
7

Be attractive
/r/seduction20/07/25 01:03 AM
0

Autism
/r/seduction15/07/25 01:34 PM
3

No sane person is going to tell you it’s a good idea to stab or shoot someone because they stepped to you over a girl in the club. I would say find better venues where the men aren’t so aggressive and looking to fight. Also probably do a better job selecting women. If you are talking to some bimbo who is telling you about her shitbag ex, have some standards and next her. Pick classier women who aren’t going to drag you into drama because she’s there with some friend group that involves scummy me…
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:54 PM
1

Go abroad if you can (you say you work from home). It’s going to be the superior option at this point in your life.
/r/seduction10/07/25 12:36 PM
1

I never said be a petulant PUA and kick her to the curb, I said move on. Men and women can’t be friends, truly, one side is always romantically interested in the other. You agreeing to “friendship”on a girls terms, a girl you want to have sex with, is weak. You are a beta orbiter at that point. She knows it and deep down the guy knows it.
/r/seduction06/07/25 08:31 PM
5

How. Give an explanation.
/r/seduction06/07/25 07:24 PM
3

Yeah this is 100% true and it should be obvious. I don’t know why it’s a hard pill for a lot of men to swallow. If you are going to have success attracting women and keeping them around, they have to find you physically attractive, you need to have sex appeal. Period.
/r/seduction06/07/25 07:23 PM
1

Those men can still do the best they possibly can to improve themselves. As long as you aren’t physically disfigured or disabled, you can get yourself to at least a 6. Get fucking jacked, have style, dress well, get your money right so you don’t appear to be a sloppy poor mess, develop some confidence and social skills. You don’t have to be above average in every category but be above average in every category you can control.
/r/seduction06/07/25 05:53 PM
1

Why waste your time trying to win over this low interest woman? Shoot your shot, she either is into you or she isn’t and you move on.
/r/seduction06/07/25 04:40 PM
-1

I don’t believe in any of that shit, it’s all a waste of time for me. Focus on girls who show you clear interest. Choose the girls who make it easy for you. You should be playing don’t fuck up game essentially. If you are in a good dating environment (such as a fun city with lots of young single girls around) and you don’t have an adequate number of girls showing you interest regularly, you need to work on yourself.
/r/seduction06/07/25 04:34 PM
3

I’ve heard people say that, but I’ve never experienced it because I wouldn’t ask a girl out for a drink if she hasn’t shown any interest. Maybe this happens to men who can’t read signals and can’t tell when a girl has no interest in him but will use him for free drinks. And I have to say I think it’s retarded for a woman to go out to drinks with a guy she has no interest in when clearly the man has interest in her. I almost have to think in most of those cases, she may have started out intereste…
/r/seduction06/07/25 04:24 PM
14

You did fine, you made your intentions clear (a man asking a woman out for a drink is clearly making a move). The outcome (her being unavailable) isn’t going to change because you went about it a different way.
/r/seduction06/07/25 03:23 PM
1

The most important factor is that she finds you attractive, once you have established that, the superior path is showing your attraction for her and of coarse keep it cool and non needy… that’s a given. You can actually do that and still keep her guessing but it’s not something you should be consciously thinking about, as long as she’s attracted it won’t matter.
/r/seduction06/07/25 03:06 PM
31

Never happened to me but if it does obviously you end the date quickly and move on from this girl
/r/seduction06/07/25 01:47 PM
1

I didn’t read all that shit you wrote but based off the amount of shit you wrote you are way over thinking it. You make eye contact and say hello, use your social skills to navigate the interaction from there. This isn’t wizardry, have confidence and talk to the girl.
/r/seduction06/07/25 01:15 PM
4

I generally agree with that sentiment, PUAs are cringe and autistic. You should just be the best version of yourself possible (dress well, develop style, hit the gym, groom properly, have proper hygiene, eat good, look after your health, build confidence) and then be a natural masculine man and simply talk to the women you find attractive. None of this curated openers and spam approaching 100 girls a day to get 5-10 numbers and 1-2 lays (figures I’ve heard PUAs give out).
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:32 PM
1

You perceiving what you do as creepy is 100% all in your head. Simply stop thinking like that.
/r/seduction05/07/25 03:37 PM
1

That’s fucking awesome dude
/r/seduction18/06/25 02:07 PM
1

Obviously they weren’t great dates
/r/seduction16/06/25 04:42 PM
1

10s don't exist
/r/seduction10/05/25 07:52 PM
1

"On paper, I’ve got a lot going for me: I’m a good-looking guy, I have a solid career, a strong sense of humor, decent charisma, and I’m genuinely interesting" No offense dude but clearly not. Be realistic. Something major is lacking otherwise you wouldn't be struggling with women.
/r/seduction09/05/25 01:44 AM
15

Proceed as normal. I had this happened (banged one first) and then when they found out they were both talking to me I YOLO'd it and invited them both over and we ended up having a threesome.
/r/seduction02/05/25 03:20 AM
1

6 all fucking day
/r/seduction25/04/25 12:29 PM
30

Shoot your shot and stop thinking so much about it, she'll either be into you and date you or she wont.
/r/seduction16/04/25 12:06 AM
3

Great post, this is something that needs to be pushed more. Guys act like women are so terrible for being entitled, but 90% of those guys who are complaining are the exact same, they are 5s at best and they think they are entitles to a 7 at minimum. It's completely delusional.
/r/seduction26/02/25 04:52 AM
1

Imagine you create a profile on a dating app and after 3 days you have like 300 matches and 100 messages... you are bombarded with severe thirst and desperation, you are going to reevaluate the dating market and your options immediately. It's like if you are an employer putting out a decent job offer in a shitty jobs market, or a landlord putting a decent apartment up for rent in an insane housing market... these people get overwhelmed with takers, and then they get to be super picky. You can th…
/r/seduction13/02/25 09:17 AM
1

Early 30s is peak as long as you keep it together and don't become a sloppy out of shape guy.
/r/seduction19/01/25 05:52 PM
1

A coffee date is really just an excuse to meet someone to see if there is attraction/chemistry. If there is, you could literally invite into your car or back to your place at the end of the date and make your move there obviously, but not ON the coffee date.
/r/seduction30/12/24 01:44 PM
1

What does that have to do with the discussion?
/r/seduction18/12/24 07:41 AM
5

It's on her to communicate those expectations BEFORE giving up the pussy.
/r/seduction16/12/24 07:34 AM
41

Well then tell her you aren't looking for an exclusive relationship at the beginning if you really want to be as transparent as possible, but if she doesn't ask.... why divulge that? Girls are going to come in and out of your rotation, that's part of dating like that. I wouldn't advocate for lying to girls (telling them you want a relationship just so you can smash and never give them commitment), but if they don't do a better job screening you, that's on them.
/r/seduction15/12/24 07:29 PM
101

That's how that works, some girls are going to give you a free trial period but ultimately they want a relationship, and if you don't give her that within a period of time, it ends.
/r/seduction15/12/24 07:20 PM
11

Get off the internet and go outside
/r/seduction01/12/24 12:27 PM
0

Extremely lame. Just wear a pair of boots or sneakers with a decent sole to begin with.
/r/seduction21/10/24 09:18 AM
2

Move to a country with shorter people. Wear boots or sneakers with a chunkier sole (not elevator shoes).
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:05 PM
1

I usually just pull my penis out
/r/seduction09/09/24 06:21 AM
24

What the fuck does that sentence mean. Try again
/r/seduction28/08/24 07:29 AM
80

On an instinctual level, yes, but nothing is ever black and white in life. The natural response of a man who finds a woman attractive is to pursue sex. You can pursue sex on the first date and she can decline and still feel attraction and give you sex on a later date. You could also come off like a thirsty dork and never hear from her again. You could also not persue sex at the end of the first date and she could still give you a shot later because she finds you attractive. Generally the correct…
/r/seduction28/08/24 05:01 AM
1

That's right, people act like there is a magic answer, there isn't. You simply have to come out of your shell and talk to girls.
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:33 AM
1

Lose the fucking weight. Period.
/r/seduction15/08/24 06:51 AM
11

Google it, that's what it says, born with 1-2 million. Regardless, it is the least important factor here, far more important is the fact that she can only carry one pregnancy per year, for a relatively small window of her entire life.
/r/seduction14/08/24 01:26 PM
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Yes. They have to be more selective by nature. Let's think about this, you can blast a load multiple times per day, you could theoretical impregnate multiple women per day, hundreds per year. A women is born with 2 million eggs, one is released per month, she can realistically only be impregnated once per year. You can spread your seed as much as you want, or as often as women will allow/select you. She has to be far more selective because she does not have that ability, and she has far more res…
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:08 AM
3

The hair doesn't matter as much as you think man, the last girl I was with (2 nights ago) was 23 and told me I look 22 (I'm late 30s lol). Take care of yourself, get a nice tan so you look healthy and build some muscle, if you look better with a beard grow one. Get your wardrobe on point. Those things can really help round out the bald head look. Own that shit and be confident.
/r/seduction13/08/24 08:43 AM
25

I actually bought one a few years ago from northwest lace, did a lot of research and was ready to go. The amount of shit you have to do and put up with to wear a hair piece is ridiculous. You have to color match it, you have to get the right density/thickness, the right curl/texture, then you have to have it fitted and cut to your scalp, then you have to get the whole system cut and styled, then you have to figure out how to regularly apply the system properly with various adhesives, keep your b…
/r/seduction13/08/24 03:29 AM
0

You guys need to stop over complicating this shit, this is why I call PUA.... pick up autism. Remove your autism from the equation and just act like a masculine man. Say hello, have a normal conversation and exchange contacts. It's really fucking simple, she either finds you attractive or she doesn't, sure you can grind it out like a true autist and approach 100 uninterested women and have 3 give you a legitimate shot. Or you can be smart about it, make yourself more attractive, go to better loc…
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:07 AM
2

Sure bud, sounds like tinder is what you're looking for.
/r/seduction07/08/24 08:34 AM
1

Look her in the eyes and give her a big old smooch dog.
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:24 AM
0

Go into the city it's going to be a lot better.
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:17 AM
5

You have to work on your inner game and confidence, if you are really good looking there's no reason for them not to be solid. It's either that or your social skills are just completely retarded, which is fine but you need to begin with improving them by talking to more people and being in more social interactions. Put your phone away if you tend to stare at it a lot during the day. Really you have to not be ashamed of your sexuality. Don't be ashamed of the fact that you are a man. You have tes…
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:52 AM
1

Yeah it's really going to depend on where you live. NYC? Just go outside and walk around. Any big city really you have to find the walkable downtown core where people hang around... coffee shops, restaurants, parks, malls, and yes bars and clubs. Also give the gym a try.
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:44 AM
1

No offense, but this is social retardation. You don't know what to do? Walk away dog.
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:37 AM
2

Fucking gross
/r/seduction05/08/24 10:09 AM
3

Really has to be approached on a case by case basis. You have younger women who are prudish and also younger women who are horny sluts, same goes for older women. The only thing her age is going to change about how I deal with her is my own interest level. I'm going to personally have a lot more interest in a 20 year old 6 vs a 35 year old 6. One isn't necessarily going to be more difficult then the other based on age alone. I've been on so many dates and seen everything, high maintence stuck up…
/r/seduction03/08/24 07:30 AM
8

Sorry dude but that's such a low effort bullshit post. Try harder and maybe you'll get some useful answers.
/r/seduction02/08/24 05:35 AM
9

I really believe so much of this is baked in during your upbringing/youth, and it's really hard to say how exactly. There's so many contributing factors. Like whether you had to struggle, fight through adversity, deal with some significant level of independence, experience a plethora of social conditions, who were the males who showed you how to be a man? Genetics can almost certainly play a role as well. But trying to become a man you are not later in life almost never works, and almost always …
/r/seduction02/08/24 04:01 AM
4

Facetime? Invite her out for a drink, or just take her invite and go play pool.
/r/seduction01/08/24 04:41 PM
4

What do you mean when she connects with you it's "fucking great"?... you're penpals. If you enjoy all the back and forth texting, whatever, keep at it, but its a waste of time if you are trying to meet and bang chicks. You have to strike while the iron is hot or she's going to move on to one of the other 100 dudes in her messages.
/r/seduction01/08/24 07:40 AM
1

P4P
/r/seduction01/08/24 06:03 AM
3

What's your end goal? To make out with a girl all night? Kiss her once maaaybe twice towards the end of the date, then try to pull her back to your place.
/r/seduction30/07/24 11:51 AM
20

Guys gotta stop beating around the bush. 99% with these questions it's a really simple answer, she's low interest, move on. If she comes around at some point thats great, but stop dwelling on it.
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:09 AM
1

I'll DM you.
/r/seduction29/07/24 03:48 PM
3

Big Asian city, apartment centrally located within a very short walking distance to malls, bars/clubs, stores and restaurants, always lots of hustle and bustle going on right outside. Basically just a combination of meeting girls on dating apps and out during the day, and inviting them to meet me at the nearby mall or coffee shop for a quick date and then inviting them home, and also meeting girls out at night at bars and taking them home.
/r/seduction29/07/24 03:46 PM
7

I go through cycles, short periods of meeting lots of girls and longer periods of being in relationships with the ones I like the most. The game is taxing and tiring as you get older. I've been through some real hornball phases where I banged 8 different girls in 1 week. Looking back that was fun, but it was crazy. It takes a lot of effort to do that, and it comes with risks. Really a far more comfortable number for me now when I'm single and in one of my dating phases is like 2 to 3 quality new…
/r/seduction29/07/24 03:16 PM
1

That's fine man, the world isn't black and white, that's just been your experience so far in life, it doesn't represent the experience of every man. If you never get IOIs, I don't know what to tell you, some men do. But I totally understand that some women don't show them, and end up in relationships with men who still pursue them. I'm not saying you can't get laid doing PUA style approaches where you totally cold approach a ton of women with the outcome that 5% or less have any interest in you …
/r/seduction28/07/24 10:06 AM
2

Nah. Women throw IOIs at men they find attractive. Not every woman, and not all the time, but it's a pretty common and basic aspect of male female attraction that maybe you aren't grasping.
/r/seduction28/07/24 07:09 AM
1

Ok, after reading that, a few things seem apparent. You are poorly socially calibrated. Stop approaching women who are giving you zero signs that they are attracted to you or want to socialize. I personally just don't subscribe to this autistic PUA bullshit that you need to spam approach uninterested women in order to get better with women. Look for warmer targets. That means look for at least some signs of interest and attraction before approaching. Which brings me to my next point... you aren'…
/r/seduction28/07/24 02:38 AM
5

School and social circle are the prime avenues at your age, without them you are just going to have to figure out other ways to interact with girls. Gym, hobbies, the beach, concerts, house parties, going about your day to day shit and just being social, etc.
/r/seduction27/07/24 05:04 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction27/07/24 03:28 PM
1

Why exactly?
/r/seduction27/07/24 01:14 PM
284

Totally, if you have the means and desire to do so. It's a no brainer. I'll just say, remove the passport bro label from it because as you can see already white knights are screeching in the comments. Have legitimate reasons to travel, like you want to surf, or hike, or experience different cultures, or see your money go further and experience a lifestyle upgrade. There's a ton of reasons to go abroad besides just chasing pussy. Let the pussy be a really great side benefit. Players have been tra…
/r/seduction27/07/24 10:14 AM
5

There isn't one, it's a farce. Your pictures are responsible for your pulling power on dating apps. You can leave the bio blank it basically does not matter.
/r/seduction26/07/24 07:12 AM
1

Thats interesting. Do you speak Japanese and are you white?
/r/seduction26/07/24 07:10 AM
19

If the woman is genuinely attracted to you, if she is a yes girl, you can literally say the most plain cookie cutter shit and everything will go fine and she will sleep with you. The point is, she has to be physically attracted to you. That's all aspects of your looks, body language, sex appeal, as well as tone of voice.
/r/seduction25/07/24 12:50 PM
12

Sounds solid. You've fucked how many women from the gym? This is why I like having a membership to a gym chain like anytime fitness, planet fitness etc. gives you the option to explore a lot of different gym communities aka meet a lot of gym girls.
/r/seduction25/07/24 09:00 AM
5

If the chemistry isn't what it needs to be because she doesn't get your sense of humor, there's nothing you can do bro, don't force shit, if it fades it fades... next.
/r/seduction25/07/24 08:17 AM
1

so find some bros to crack it up with
/r/seduction25/07/24 07:39 AM
1

There's no way for you to know so I wouldn't worry about it. She may have a longstanding boyfriend who she has decided to go back to after getting piped down by you. She may deem you too much of a risk for a relationship for various not bad reasons. At the end of the day she seemed like she had a good time and enjoyed the sex, but pulled the plug on continuing with you for unknown reasons. Happens to everyone. Chalk it up as a win. NEXT.
/r/seduction25/07/24 06:03 AM
5

PUA (pick up autism) is dead, thank god. Move on.
/r/seduction25/07/24 03:57 AM
1

Sounds like a girl was talking to you and you are putting way to much thought into it. Some women will flirt and string along men regularly for fun. It's possible she felt some sort of attraction and opened a door for you and you failed to walk through it. Next time this happens If you find her attractive try flirting with her.
/r/seduction24/07/24 03:24 PM
1

Why force anything? Try to be natural about it, if you aren't in the mood to talk to random strangers... don't.
/r/seduction24/07/24 10:07 AM
6

If someone says "just be genuine" and your first thought is "won't she friendzone me" then you have major inner game issues that need to be worked out. You need to reach a point where you are confident being genuine.
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:24 AM
6

That's a pointless thing to consider, one isn't universally more attractive to women then the other. Go with which ever one looks best on you and suits your personal style best. Also consider a beard.
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:18 AM
3

With that mindset she will
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:11 AM
1

Does that stuff actually work
/r/seduction21/07/24 03:11 AM
57

Are you 13, dating in India, or is it the year 1962? You need to give more context.
/r/seduction20/07/24 09:16 AM
17

I call that PUA... Pick Up Autism. Of coarse cold approach is just a method of meeting women. I don't know why anyone wouldn't work on themselves, self improvement should be a given if you want better results with women.
/r/seduction20/07/24 03:29 AM
31

Not a red flag, that's normal healthy female behavior. Once they have given a man sex she has given him her most valuable asset, a normal girl (not a slut) will feel a bit vulnerable after that and (as long as she sees value in you) she will look to advance the relationship.
/r/seduction17/07/24 08:07 AM
32

You are the definition of a stranger. Invite her for a coffee (or drinks) date in public, if she is still hesitant.... next.
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:46 AM
9

Obviously don't keep reaching out to her (sounds like you might have already done this). Let her come around when she comes around, if it never happens, it is what it is... next. Go on your trip and have fun regardless.
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:43 AM
8

You are wasting your time conversating with women and playing the long game on dating sites. Get a few back and fourths out of the way, build a little comfort, but you need to move the conversation towards the topic of meeting quickly, within the first 10 messages and 24 hours ideally. This will screen out low interest girls quickly which is what you want to be doing in order to make the online dating process as efficient as possible and get out on as many real dates as possible.
/r/seduction16/07/24 05:28 AM
12

If your issues are deep inner game related like this, you need to go do some real shit with your life and build character. For starters, get off the internet (and don't stare at your phone all day). Honestly, I'd start with seriously going to the gym. Put yourself through the personal hell (I say hell but it fun and rewarding) of building strength and muscle. Start training some MMA discipline like BJJ, boxing or Muay Thai. Your going to meet other cool guys and get pushed and learn to fight thr…
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:20 AM
16

Sounds like you have a touch of oneitis, otherwise you wouldn't care. Go find another hot girl to fuck, that's the best move.
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:58 PM
13

Of coarse theres a chance but I'm calling bullshit. 9s are INCREDIBLY rare, and they aren't on reddit bitching about their dating life. Learn how to use the objective rating scale properly.
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:51 PM
25

You aren't a 9.
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:07 PM
6

What are you going on about? Go back to whatever zoomer incel forum you came from.
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:06 AM
61

If you were actually an 8 or 9 looks wise, you wouldn't be having "no success" and you wouldn't be asking for this advice on the internet. I'm just being real. You'd have to be painfully awkward and socially retarded to be an actual 8 or 9 and not slay, the pussy would be raining down on you. You probably need to reevaluate yourself, because you are most likely delusional about your looks AND to some degree awkward and socially retarded.
/r/seduction14/07/24 05:27 AM
2

It happens all the time dude, every day/night all over the world. The guy doesn't have to be "very good looking" but there has to be physical attraction.
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:54 AM
6

Why? You think girls don't fuck guys after 1 conversation? Never heard of a same day lay? If she works at a bar it's a possibility. Didn't say it was likely going to happen for OP which is why I also said exchange contacts. But for seasoned players/naturals it can happen.
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:28 AM
25

Make eye contact, smile, introduce yourself, have a conversation, exchange contacts/invite her home. Not so complicated
/r/seduction13/07/24 10:24 AM
18

As always, it depends. Looks, status, wealth, lifestyle, confidence, vibe, style, attitude all play a part. A 45 year old who is killing it in most of those categories is still going to get the 20 year old pussy wet.
/r/seduction12/07/24 07:00 AM
2

Your first date routine is very standard and there is nothing wrong with it. If it ain't broke don't fix it. Some girls will balk at the invite back to your place at the end of the first date. That's just the way it is. You can't convert them all. But we all know many women who say they are looking for a relationship come back and bang after a quick first date. Looking for a relationship does not mean unwilling to have first date sex. I'd say the more important questions are - what's your conver…
/r/seduction11/07/24 02:19 AM
1

Move on for now, next. If she comes around she comes around, it's possible, but there's nothing more for you to do. The ball is in her court. Focus on other prospects.
/r/seduction11/07/24 01:39 AM
7

Your pictures do all the talking on dating apps. Your pictures build the investment. Calling yourself charming just isn't the move.
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:53 AM
48

You could have just said yes and avoided all of that. The charming man line is almost definitely going to come off as try hard and cringe. You don't tell a girl you're a charming man, you just are.
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:31 AM
3

Sounds like a retention issue. Which is usually related to the sex. A girl who is flaking on you is showing signs of low interest. Plain and simple. Whether that's before you meet or after you've already fucked. If the sex is good, girls will typically (almost always) invest further after the first date/sex. They'll make your life a lot easier. They will make your access to them a lot easier. After you've fucked her properly you shouldn't need to play any games or worry about any strategies. It'…
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:41 AM
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I would just brush that shit off and not give her this stupid thing that she's asking for. Faking it is maybe the lamest shit, if you want to genuinely open up to her on your own terms tell her some truth.
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:03 AM
1

Super nuanced subject, but I can tell you what helps me. I agree with other guys that the whole sarging, daygame session, borderline autistic approach to meeting women is not the way to go. I don't like the whole "I'm gonna go out today to do 10 day game sets" or "I'm in the mood to approach today so I'm going to force myself to approach multiple women" thing that's been so common in the pick up community for so long. I have friends that fall into this camp, I've witnessed them forcefully approa…
/r/seduction09/07/24 07:29 AM
14

Low interest.
/r/seduction08/07/24 08:15 AM
7

Exactly. If it's an issue, move on. I would never waste my time in a relationship with a woman that doesn't satisfy me the way I want.
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:15 AM
15

Agreed, I'm from Boston, I would not pick up and move to Boston specifically for a better dating scene. The ratios are better, more younger women because of all the schools, it's a nice pedestrian friendly city layout by US standards, but the people are generally cold and called massholes for a reason, if Seattle attitudes are an issue Boston isn't going to be much better. New York City is a million times better then Boston in every way. If warmer weather is your thing Florida (Miami, Tampa) mig…
/r/seduction08/07/24 04:46 AM
2

Get off the internet. Stop worrying about this stuff, just live your life.
/r/seduction07/07/24 02:21 AM
3

I know this sounds crazy, and I'm not trying to be an asshole by stating something so simple and obvious, but just be within talking distance, exchange eye contact and say hello. There is no magic opener or line. If she's open to talking to you, a simple hello is enough to get it started. Of coarse you can say more then that, you can play off the moment, mention something that is happening around you, make an observation about her, ask her a simple question, but really there's no need to make it…
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