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jamesy69/r/seduction21/05/17 01:58 PM
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jamesy69/r/seduction08/03/17 12:44 AM
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I feel you bro. This seems like the kind of situation that tends to work itself out though. Trust yourself, trust the process, I’m sure you’ll figure out if this is what’s right for you or if you need to make a change
/r/seduction09/04/18 11:35 PM
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If you’re having this much trouble trying to figure out what to do, I’d recommend just doing it. I think it’s better to walk away from these things with lessons instead of regrets. Life is long homie, if it doesn’t work out there’s always more girls out there. At least in my life, the experiences I resisted the most were the ones that helped me to grow the most. If it makes you uncomfortable, there’s a solid chance it’s the best thing for you.
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:31 PM
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Dry spells affect us all at some point. Taking a little break from going out can help - just try focusing a lot on school/work. If that doesn't help then sometimes all you can do is keep trying, keep going out, keep approaching until you find a slump buster. Good luck!
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:40 PM
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Best tip I can give you: Stop calling yourself a beta - if you want to "improve" you just have to socialize and get the reference experiences. We all started out without a clue how to get girls but the sooner you start just trying things the better you'll get
/r/seduction27/06/17 10:45 PM
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Why would you think it's bad that they gave you their snapchats?
/r/seduction27/06/17 10:42 PM
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Friendzone doesn't exist. That's all your in head. I fuck my "friends" all the time
/r/seduction27/05/17 01:30 AM
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I feel you dude, I'm in a similar situation. 21, plenty of lays, but no gf. I daygame, night game, have a good social circle and do online game but it seems that whenever I start to date a girl I just get bored and start ignoring her. The longest "relationship" (if you can call it that) that I've had lasted a month, and I was still getting with other girls at the same time. I have that same feeling of being kind of unfulfilled by my sexual experiences but I'm not really sure how to progress from…
/r/seduction15/04/17 03:38 PM
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Yeah bro I read a thread about doing that like a month or two ago and it's been working wonders since
/r/seduction14/04/17 03:47 AM
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Idk if you ended up reading the book but if you haven't definitely do it. Very solid use of $30
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:23 AM
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I meant more along the lines of how are you opening on snapchat but I think I get the idea, but I'll just assume you sent them a hey watsup or something like that Best thing about snapchat is stories. The utility of this feature is why I rarely ask for numbers anymore, just snapchats. Best way to open a girl on snapchat is to wait for her to post something interesting on her story and then reply to it with an observation, something funny, whatever you get the point (swipe up to send chat). Bante…
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:22 AM
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For anyone having trouble resonating with this concept, I'd say it's not really something you have to actively work toward but maybe just an idea to keep in the back of your head. You will naturally become less emotionally invested in girls as you gain more and more experience with new ones
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:14 AM
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It's good to have had at least one solid relationship by that age, but since you already have that experience I'd say game. This is the time to grow like you said, so go have some fun
/r/seduction12/04/17 02:16 AM
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Yeah daygame flakes are kind of rampant so don't worry about it. Though if you're using snapchat right, you should probably have a higher response rate. How are you opening? Just saying hey/a pickup line, sending a selfie,...?
/r/seduction12/04/17 02:13 AM
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Nah usually in my experience when a girl asks for help with homework she's just looking for an excuse to talk to you. My grades aren't exactly the best though
/r/seduction12/04/17 02:10 AM
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This video is good, maybe not for the reason in the title, but it is worth the five minutes. The questions he wants you to ask are nothing new but the explanations provide really good examples of using stories for comfort building, as opposed to the typical DHV story telling tips that get posted about everywhere
/r/seduction12/04/17 02:07 AM
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Read this first. I just read through the Christian Grey guide and it's basically a more fleshed out version of what's listed here: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-57460.html
/r/seduction05/04/17 02:05 AM
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Take some shots and just try to get your friends to introduce you to the girls they already know so you can socialize more easily Get hammered, get laid!
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:23 PM
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I think that if you look around the pickup community you'll find a pretty sizable percentage of guys here who didn't do anything until their mid or late twenties. Even a few guys around here who were virgins into their 30+ years. At least I've seen a lot of posts on different forums during my times perusing the internet from new techniques and info. Never too late for it to happen. In one of Tom Torero's videos he was even coaching a guy who was 42 and that guy got several number closes. You can…
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:20 PM
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They say that you peak for pickup in your mid 30's. Be patient, you'll get there
/r/seduction23/03/17 04:57 PM
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Girls don't go out to pull, they go out for validation
/r/seduction23/03/17 12:35 AM
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For indirect game (places like bars/clubs where the girls get lots of attention already) MM works perfectly since the girls are already overdosing on validation. Direct game (daygame and those 2 AM pulls on the street) you gotta show the intent right off the bat if you wanna pull Social circle game I usually approach a little differently: show that I'm interested but just be calm and patient, wait for her to hit me up to do something
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:23 PM
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I wouldn't read into that too much. Some girls just save everything. On the other hand, even girls I dated wouldn't save any of the snap messages unless it was an address or a song name or something like that. I mean I can't see the convo either that's just my experience, but my rule of thumb is when in doubt, assume attraction. Never hurts to preassume that she likes you cuz 9/10 times she does
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:18 PM
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Thanks imma try that when I get her on a date, hopefully this weekend. Btw just looked at your posts and saw your YouTube. Looks like a unique channel. Subbed, looking forward to seeing what new content you put out
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:38 AM
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How to get rid of approach anxiety? Just accept the feeling. Everyone wants to fight their feelings, but trying to get rid of your anxiety will only make it worse. You just have to be okay with feeling a little uncomfortable. If you are having trouble getting yourself to do something uncomfortable like putting yourself in a possibly awkward situation, just baby step your way up. Just start about by smiling at people and making eye contact with strangers for a week. Then make yourself say hi to s…
/r/seduction21/01/17 03:01 AM
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It's all about self amusement The girl will laugh if you are laughing. They straight up will laugh at anything if you think it's funny because they just want you to know that they are attracted to you. Laughing is really just an IOI. Literally 95% of what they laugh at will not be things they actually think are funny. So relax, enjoy yourself, and don't forget to smile because life is good :)
/r/seduction13/01/17 03:15 AM
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Bro chill the fuck out Sex is honestly not a big deal.. like at all Never tell the girl you're a virgin but if you're afraid that she'll know because you're not great don't worry pretty much 90% of dudes have no idea how to work a pussy regardless of how much sex they've had Don't be so rushed to lose your virginity because it'll happen eventually if you put yourself in positions where you are around girls If you're getting the escort because you're a fucken savage and wanna bone like you're jor…
/r/seduction13/01/17 03:03 AM
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