jamie29ky Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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22	Artificial womb in the next decades It "overrides" feminism? I literally laughed out loud, good lord get off the internet. Lmao If anything, feminists will love that idea so women can stop dying and being murdered over pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/24 05:18 PM
1	What is the appeal of casual sex for women? I can think of a few reasons. 1- Sexual satisfaction. Masturbation will never be the same as actual sex in terms of enjoyment, Imo. Orgasm is not guaranteed, no, but one can hope. Its like seeing a plate of delicious looking food- it might not actually taste as good as it looks but you dont know until you start eating, and everything in your body is telling you that it definitely will taste so good. And someone who doesn't want a relationship right now would opt for a one night stand for this. 2…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 10:03 PM
1	Women of PPD. Do you encourage your male friends to shoot their shot with women/ approach? Why or why not? Tfw no friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 11:00 PM
-1	Do women understand that not all misogynists are incels and not all incels are misogynists? It's true that men can hate women and still get laid, but those men aren't the ones posting about it online. For one, if they are getting sex, they have something to lose by posting their true thoughts about the same women theyre fucking, so they would be more likely to keep those thoughts inside. For two, while they might hate women, they are still getting what they want from women, so have less fuel for their anger for posting. It just makes sense that the more hateful and more frequently some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/24 11:50 PM
4	Question for women who don’t see sex as an essential part of your relationship No. The relationship is over if you open it. I'm sure somewhere out there in the universe, some couple opened it and lived happily ever after, but that's not how it actually happens most of the time. If the sexual aspect is the only thing wrong in the relationship, and nothing you've tried has helped, you need to decide how important that is to you and decide to stay or go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 11:46 PM
3	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? Mixed bag. Some of them are still married. Some of them are divorced. I couldn't tell you who regrets it and who doesn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 08:17 AM
4	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? Deleted original comment to move it here, oops: My family has a tendency to marry their highschool sweethearts or at least very early into adulthood, and immediately start having babies. I have a lot of cousins, and Im sitting here trying to think of ones that didnt, and its a very short list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 01:08 AM
0	this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to be No, hes saying all women are like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 04:18 PM
15	What can autistic guys do to not make women feel like predators? I know exactly what you mean, and it makes sense. Some autistic people have characteristics that make them seem child-like. It's a common situation among autistic people. It's not a turn-off for men because those qualities don't come into conflict with the qualities they look for in women, but when it comes to what women are looking for, child-like qualities do come into direct conflict with the image of the mature, strong, leader type that they seek. Unfortunately, I don't think there is much t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 04:30 PM
–	Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild. It doesn't mean the woman actually wanted a relationship. She just didn't want to feel used. I'm not sure how much friendship is in a normal 'friends with benefits' thing, but it sounds like he wanted zero, and she wanted at least some. If he wanted to keep it going, he could have palled around for an hour or whatever and made her feel less used, but it sounds like he wanted her to walk through the door and assume the position. Neither of them are an asshole. It just clearly wasn't going to work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 05:20 PM
1	Why is there such a large double standard? That does make it better, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 08:53 PM
2	Why is there such a large double standard? This one is actually hard to answer. I think its fucked up to lie about being a virgin when you're not, but I dont think its fucked up to lie about being not a virgin when you really are. Maybe I'm a hypocrite, but there's a difference there, to me. One example of difference is the STD aspect - saying there's no chance you have one when you actually might vs. saying you could have one when really there's no chance. One is hiding a risk, and one is making up a risk, and hiding a risk is way worse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 12:38 AM
9	There is no presumption of cheating and no paternity test. (That's why, presumption of cheating does not justify being against the test). "On the other hand, a negative result does not guarantee that the woman is unfaithful, since: Exchange in the maternity ward; Chimerism; Open relationship; Rape; Changing relationships when she is already pregnant with her previous partner; Any other possible circumstances that I haven't thought of." This is just a legitimate list of reasons someone might be in a relationship and want a test. If you are not in any of these situations, the only possibility of it coming back as not yours is that s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/23 02:31 AM
1	Should we encourage Peer Pressure? I dont think so. There are plenty of socializing opportunities that you dont have to make bad decisions to be included in. Hell, you can even go to a party and drink responsibly. I partied a bit when I was in the 19-20 age range, and gained absolutely nothing from it but memories (good and a lot of bad). I dont even know any of those people anymore, and the only relationship I gained from it was a drug addict that stalked and threatened to kill me once I realized how into drugs he was and broke …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/23 10:37 PM
2	Success with women is influenced by the “observer effect” You should have put this in the post	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/23 04:57 AM
1	Let's say there was a reliable test to see if your male partner had ever cheated or would ever cheat on you. Would you use it, and would you judge other women negatively for using it? Also included in the test is if they've ever abused a woman in the past, or will abuse you in the future. Striving for their future is not the same as treating them as an investment. You can do everything in your power to make sure your child has a good future, AND not once think of the money you spent as an investment. You do it because you love them and want them to be happy. These people I know did not have parents that only came around when they wanted something, they had parents who pushed them to succeed with a "you owe me a successful life because of all the money and effort I put into you" m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/23 12:48 AM
4	Let's say there was a reliable test to see if your male partner had ever cheated or would ever cheat on you. Would you use it, and would you judge other women negatively for using it? Also included in the test is if they've ever abused a woman in the past, or will abuse you in the future. Sorry to tell you but I am married and have 3 kids. Hope that fucks up your day! :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/23 12:40 AM
4	Let's say there was a reliable test to see if your male partner had ever cheated or would ever cheat on you. Would you use it, and would you judge other women negatively for using it? Also included in the test is if they've ever abused a woman in the past, or will abuse you in the future. I just know. He proves to me with his actions that he is still in love with me and would never do anything to hurt me. I would find it hard to believe that his dad treated his mom the same as my husband treats me, but lets say he did and she was just as convinced as me- that doesn't mean I should stop trusting him because he has done nothing to deserve it. Why is trust so reckless and unbelievable? I hope some day that you can have what I have and you will realize what I mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/23 12:25 AM
7	Let's say there was a reliable test to see if your male partner had ever cheated or would ever cheat on you. Would you use it, and would you judge other women negatively for using it? Also included in the test is if they've ever abused a woman in the past, or will abuse you in the future. You realize how bad you are going to fuck up your kids, right? I've met people whose parents treat them as investments, and they're the ones that cry about how their parents don't love them as soon as they get a couple drinks in. If you are looking at them as though they owe you for the money you spent, you will destroy their self-worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/23 12:07 AM
5	Let's say there was a reliable test to see if your male partner had ever cheated or would ever cheat on you. Would you use it, and would you judge other women negatively for using it? Also included in the test is if they've ever abused a woman in the past, or will abuse you in the future. A child is not an investment, its a human. Please don't have any if this is how you think of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 11:55 PM
4	Let's say there was a reliable test to see if your male partner had ever cheated or would ever cheat on you. Would you use it, and would you judge other women negatively for using it? Also included in the test is if they've ever abused a woman in the past, or will abuse you in the future. Then don't have one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 11:17 PM
10	Let's say there was a reliable test to see if your male partner had ever cheated or would ever cheat on you. Would you use it, and would you judge other women negatively for using it? Also included in the test is if they've ever abused a woman in the past, or will abuse you in the future. "Your argument as to why it's bad.. ..its not extensive enough in its test for infidelity?" I never said it was bad. Paternity testing as a whole is not bad and is needed. Paternity testing because you have deep-seated insecurities that you are projecting onto your partner is bad, and it will destroy your relationship. I'm just warning you of what the real-world repercussions will be. "Lovely of you to give men permission." You're welcome. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 10:00 PM
10	Let's say there was a reliable test to see if your male partner had ever cheated or would ever cheat on you. Would you use it, and would you judge other women negatively for using it? Also included in the test is if they've ever abused a woman in the past, or will abuse you in the future. I would not use the test. I have been with him for almost 10 years. If he was going to cheat or hit me, it would have happened by now. It would be a stupid waste of time, only proving my own insecurities and projections I have put onto my partner with no real justification besides my own fucked up mental state. A paternity test is not what you described. All you find out is if your partner cheated on the day the baby was conceived. If you have reason to believe they cheated, the test will not pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 07:36 PM
1	Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractive Idk how creepy it is because someone who will really stalk you isn't going to tell you first. But anyway, nice. Get her number the next time you work with her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 06:17 PM
11	I don't want to judge but do we now have proof of girls' poor choices? Isabella Janke was mentally disturbed on another level and had orbiters supporting her every move. Pixiteri is obviously mentally ill and never bathed or showered, and she has had a ton of men who come out of the woodwork to brag about banging her. "Manic pixie dream girl" is an entire concept created to explain men who directly pursue a certain type of mentally ill women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 10:41 PM
10	The final solution to dating It's just a meaningless platitude, whoever it's aimed at. People have been shoving "just impove yourself" advice down everyone's throats all our lives, and not even just for dating, its a cure-all for every discontent anyone might feel. I personally think that every person in the world should always be trying to improve. Thats basically what life is about, imo. But when someone comes with a problem, it seems to be the only answer anyone can come up with, and it just doesn't help as far as advice…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 11:29 PM
15	The final solution to dating Right? This advice changed my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 10:53 PM
2	The problem with stepdads is that most of the time these women wouldn't date them if they didn't have kids Lmao If you dont think she has offers coming out of her ears, you've lost it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 09:08 PM
3	The problem with stepdads is that most of the time these women wouldn't date them if they didn't have kids I was a single mom when I met my current husband. He is handsome, fit, and made good money as a welder when we met. He is also soft-spoken and extremely kind, the nicest man I've ever been involved with. I'm pretty but I've always been overweight, and I'm extremely socially awkward while he's the type of guy who can make a new friend waiting at the dmv. I married way out of my league, with or without a child. You could argue I had self-esteem issues, but the people I dated before him, even befor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 07:08 PM
2	Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them? If your spouse has taken them to the doctor after being alone with you, then you have either royally fucked up the trust with some extremely questionable behavior, or the child was genuinely showing concerning signs that something happened. You can choose to be offended, or you can open your eyeballs, understand what triggered the concern, and realize your child's safety is always going to be above protecting your feelings. If your spouse is doing these checks regularly, leave and file for custo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 06:46 PM
42	It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention. This is just normal dating - you don't marry a person as soon as you match on Tinder because you have to date them to find out who they really are and if they are a good match for you. I mean, look at the show Seinfeld- the entire show is just them dating random people, finding out about a tiny weird quality they have, and then dumping them over it. That show was made before internet dating even became a big thing, and I'm sure they didn't invent the concept. If men are constantly finding themse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 05:52 PM
3	Discussion: If the guys here aren’t cold approaching or giving women attention where is all there attention this forum claims they are getting coming from? Men still are cold approaching and getting good results from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 10:11 PM
1	Q4M: Why don't you post more selfies? I post like 1 selfie a year, so I'm not convinced it has anything to do with sex, but more to do with the social reaction to the selfies. If men posted and got the same reactions women got, theyd post just as much. Its positive reinforcement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 08:38 PM
0	"Progressive" women falling short? The thing about ideology is that it is often near impossible to live up to it 100% because doing so would not only require immense sacrifice, but in reality, it might not even be possible. One example is being anti-capitalist but still shopping at walmart- a lot of people HAVE to do it, bc thats the only place they can get groceries. It doesn't make them hypocrites because the only other option is going off-grid, which is not a real option to most people because even getting a hunk of land to do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 08:09 PM
2	Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex? Truth hurts, I guess. Anyway, I'll ask my husband of 10 years for his opinion on my experiences with positive males and take your advice into consideration. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 03:31 PM
5	Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex? I think there is a large percentage of the male population that only cares about sex, and that percentage makes a majority of men online talking about it. I mean, isn't the whole redpill thing supposed to be that women aren't good for long-term companionship, just for sex? I've seen with my own eyes that men in this sub say that women are only good for "pumping and dumping." In the real world, you're more likely to find men who actually want a real relationship, but looking online (message board…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 06:59 PM
14	How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game. I'm not sure it would make much of a difference. Well, dudes having to have a period might make them more sympathetic as far as that goes, but when it comes to dating, I dont know. Even a single months experience wouldnt show you the whole picture. Its the same thing I think when people joke "make billionaires live poor for a month". They still wouldn't get it because the true torture of some things only show over time. A lot of things hurt, but the worst things hurt because they are never endin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 05:58 AM
1	How often do you have to deal with competition from other women? It's been a long time, but I dont remember ever trying to compete. I think if I was in a situation where a man's attention was divided between me and another woman, I'd just cut my losses and move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/23 10:39 PM
2	Is true love even real…? Once you get in deep with another person, all those little boxes you originally looked to check aren't relevant anymore. Anyway, if you leave a good thing for Mr. Perfect that you just met, you're a moron. Theres no way to know they are good for you until after you get with them. And by that point, you threw away something real for a fantasy. The real world just doesn't work the way you think it does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/23 07:29 PM
7	Men's income is possibly the most important factor if he will get divorced Okay. I wasn't arguing that fact, I assume it's true. The issue is the assumptions being made based on that fact. Someone could really get carried away with theories that aren't supported by reality if they allow themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 07:00 PM
27	Men's income is possibly the most important factor if he will get divorced None of that information supports your assumption that it's the woman's feelings about her man's income that causes the collapse. Theres way too many things in play for you to just grab one idea out of the air and say "so thats what it is." Maybe these relationships don't work as much because the low earning men get a big chip on their shoulder about it and his ego sabotages the relationship, since he always expected to be the bigger earner and now hes not? Maybe they don't work because either o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 06:37 PM
2	CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept. I'm sure it is tough to live thinking you're not allowed to even express sorrow for a loved one. My husband lost his dad semi-recently. Sometime after, he sent me a link with Jordan Peterson telling about how men can't cry at their dad's funeral because they have to be tough for everyone around them. That's not true at all. I told him it was not true. Cry. Bawl your eyes out. You're still a man. I pointed out that Jordan Peterson was on the brink of tears saying that because it was such a hurtfu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 01:37 AM
3	Q4A: Are women more responsible for divorces? Who initiated the divorce or who filed the divorce is not at all the same thing as who is responsible for the divorce. I think each and every single divorce is an issue between two people, and trying to blame one gender or the other as a whole is meaningless. The gay statistics can't be compared to heterosexual statistics because their relationship dynamics have a lot more things influencing them. Like, lesbians are known for jumping into marriage early in a relationship because finding a good p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 12:57 AM
1	Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GF A lot of people commenting here are gonna die alone. I've been married for about 9 years now (together 10) and I definitely wouldn't ever have stayed this long without being married. To me, it's not a commitment to be exclusive in the relationship. It's a commitment to be partners in life. Whatever life throws at us, we are a team, and we do it together, and our marriage was an oath to each other to signify that. Theres nothing wrong with never marrying, and Im totally sure its possible to have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 09:12 PM
1	Turning 30 and worried about losing desirability from men. Growing old is inevitable. What happens when you are undeniably not "hot" to the majority of men anymore? It will happen. You need to figure out who you are without it and why it means so much to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 07:56 PM
6	The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado men Its just that attracting a woman is a very delicate thing, and autistic people suck at social interaction. Its that simple. It has nothing to do with how masculine he is. There are dudes who are very feminine who attract women. It all boils down to social skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 06:52 PM
1	Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself? No, because at least 1 person needs to be mentally stable, two crazy people is just a recipe for disaster. Jk (kinda) Seriously though, in a couple, you should compliment each other. One picks up the slack where the other person can't. Like puzzle pieces, two different people that fit together. Like, in my case, I am completely anti social and I hate going out. So if I ended up with another anti social person, we would just end up being 2 people locked up in a house together, never going out, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 10:23 PM