jamminamon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. Looks help. Confidence is better.	/r/seduction	07/04/23 09:21 PM
1	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. That's literally all there is. If just confidence in yourself and who you are. Not who you're trying to be or who you want to be. Integrity also helps. It boosts your confidence.	/r/seduction	07/04/23 09:19 PM
4	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. Yes. Exactly.	/r/seduction	07/04/23 08:06 PM
1	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. If you think that's the ONLY thing that matters or being rich is their other excuse. Their 1, 2, & 3 rule. Be attractive Be rich If not attractive, be rich If you think this way you might be an incel.	/r/seduction	07/04/23 08:03 PM
0	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. No I can't relate. I don't have that self-defeating mindset. I don't think "because the odds are against me that I'll just quit." You wouldn't understand. I know it's hard to think outside of that echo chamber telling you that you are not enough when you are. The problem isn't physical. The problem is your mentality. Incels begin to believe these reasons and statistics for why they can't get a girlfriend and blame the universe for making them exist. All incels care about is being handsome and ri…	/r/seduction	07/04/23 06:31 PM
2	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. With this mindset, you will always fail This is how incels think	/r/seduction	07/04/23 05:33 PM
-3	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. You're pretty much spouting every excuse incels use to explain why you and your friends can't get girls.	/r/seduction	07/04/23 05:30 PM
2	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. This is the way	/r/seduction	19/09/22 09:52 PM
2	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. It's a good thing to emotionally detach but you can still be friends.	/r/seduction	19/09/22 09:51 PM
2	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. People don't realize this strategy and stay clear of it because they don't want to be in the "friend zone". When they don't realize that having them as a friend opens the door to all her friends.	/r/seduction	19/09/22 09:48 PM
1	What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you? You can brag about yourself and still be humble and not sound arrogant.	/r/seduction	06/07/22 09:25 PM
2	Why do girls do this? My dad always told me. "Never meet your honey where you make your money."	/r/seduction	01/07/22 05:51 PM
0	Why do girls do this? Another tip would be to offer your number instead of asking for her's. "Can I give you my number and text me later? We can catch up on our conversation and maybe we can go grab a coffee or drink?" This takes the pressure off of her to give you her number and leaves the ball in her court if she wants to get back with you. Also sets up the invite for later and that you don't have to initiate the next interaction.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 05:30 PM
0	Why do girls do this? Another tip would be to offer your number instead of asking for her's. "Can I give you my number and you text me later? We can catch up on our conversation and maybe we can go grab a coffee or drink?" This takes the pressure off of her to give you her number and leaves the ball in her court if she wants to get back with you. Also sets up the invite for later and that you don't have to initiate the next interaction.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 05:23 PM
3	Why do girls do this? Right. I probably didn't finish my thought but like you mentioned it'd be weird going out with a complete stranger. If they have something in common to talk about or continue a conversation it would feel less of an obligation and more like something to look forward to.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 05:10 PM
9	Why do girls do this? You need to cut this bitch ass attitude NOW. Build yourself up. Create your own self image and have some pride in yourself.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 03:46 PM
3	Why do girls do this? BITCH ASS NYUKKA	/r/seduction	01/07/22 03:44 PM
9	Why do girls do this? You should probably not go in with the intention of hooking up. She'll see through that. If she's DTF then she's DTF. But if you don't have any rapport with her it probably won't happen. This is where flirting helps. Flirting will openly tell her your intentions without you actually "saying" it. Like using innuendos or funny sexual jokes. It's all about timing and the flow of the conversation. Same applies in OLD.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 03:33 PM
2	Why do girls do this? You need to build more of a connection for her to WANT to text you. You cold approaching her and asking for her number is not giving her really any interaction. Think about first impressions. Why would she want to text you? Were you funny? Have a good conversation? Similarly interests?	/r/seduction	01/07/22 03:20 PM
1	Girls who flex about stuff other guys are providing them Tell them to have fun or take you with them on the yacht. If y'all are cool, she'll bring you along on the yacht. Just don't be simping or sidelining waiting for your chance. Play the field, don't give her your full attention. Enjoy yourself but don't wait on her.	/r/seduction	26/06/22 10:48 PM
0	Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind! With your mindset you've already lost. You're staying to sound like a real "nice guy." Careful not to fall down that hole.	/r/seduction	20/06/22 09:08 PM
-1	Girls think I'm gay. What says he's gay?	/r/seduction	25/03/22 05:55 PM
2	losing hope... I highly recommend checking out their videos. He's a really great speaker and gives his own personal experiences. It feels more easy to understand or relate to than other dating/flirting videos. I'd suggest watching the celebrity videos. Those I just genuinely enjoyed watching. He also has coaching if you want more one on one but his videos are pretty informative.	/r/seduction	21/03/22 03:42 PM
1	losing hope... Check out this YT channel. Charisma on Command. https://youtu.be/j4b5T-RAgec I've found these guys to be extremely helpful. Watching their videos have helped me develop better social skills and understand different styles of charisma. What I realized with flirting, as someone mentioned before, it's not what you say but how you say it. Once I found a particular style I was comfortable with I felt much more confident. I really liked watching their videos when they breakdown celebrity's types of ch…	/r/seduction	21/03/22 03:15 PM
1	losing hope... I'm neither and I still get matches and meet girls on OLD apps. You've been reading too much into that bullshit.	/r/seduction	21/03/22 03:00 PM
7	You should be dealing with 2-3 girls minimum at all times. Check out this video on my YouTube! Don't forget to Like and Subscribe!	/r/seduction	17/03/22 12:03 AM
2	Why men have to suffer so much of rejection? Even the attractive men sometimes could find it hard to get matches? Good for you. I wish you the best. However don't blame others for your inabilities or think you are less of a person because you can't achieve the same results as others. Learn your strengths and weaknesses and focus on where you can improve. Don't read into those bullshit statistics because that'll only discourage you from trying to be your best.	/r/seduction	16/03/22 03:14 AM
3	"My neighbors hate me" Solution: Gag	/r/seduction	10/02/22 04:20 AM
2	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? Nah just trying to help you out. You seem really sad.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 04:53 PM
1	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? Sure man. I'm not the one complaining "woe-is-me" I can't get a girl and crying on the internet and it.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 04:30 PM
0	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? What point is that?	/r/seduction	22/01/22 04:11 PM
1	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? You really just have no idea how relationships and courting works do you? You make it seem all black and white when there's really a rainbow. People are themselves when they meet people. Will if they're not they'll so be found out. You can't honestly think that, do you? You seem like you're really trying to dig a hole of excuses to rationalize your inability to talk to girls, understand relationships, or whatever your issue is. You can express yourself but do it in a manner that is genuine and u…	/r/seduction	22/01/22 04:07 PM
5	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? No but you should really check that self deprecating. Yeah it can be done with the right comedic effect. But with that constant mentality you'll just drive yourself in a hole then you'll really be alone. Self fulfilling prophecy as it's said.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 07:31 AM
11	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? Also imo. Another way to tell a girl she is beautiful is to say it in a witty indirect flirtatious way. Like the other guys said, compliment something specific. It shows you're paying attention to detail. From her eyebrows, make up, outfits, accessories, to physical traits. If you want to compliment her smile "If you keep smiling like that you're going to light this whole room up!" Or if has a real cute outfit. "That outfit would definitely turn some heads!" Something like that. Kinda keep it li…	/r/seduction	22/01/22 07:23 AM
3	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good r/neckbeardthings r/incelsinaction Idk choose one. Or both.	/r/seduction	18/01/22 10:43 PM
29	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good Well it's also full of ugly self doubting guys that only want confirmation that they're unsuitable for dating.	/r/seduction	18/01/22 10:36 PM
3	How many rejections in a row is too much? Your approach was bad. Your timing was bad. Your initiation was bad (situational awareness). Your conversation is bad. No flirting, telling her she's 'hot' is not flirting. She's giving you obvious signs she wants no interaction yet you persist. I'm not saying talking to people on the streets is a bad idea but at least come with some substance like something relevant to your situation that you both can relate. Cold approaching someone and going straight to the questions more or less won't get yo…	/r/seduction	03/01/22 05:11 PM