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I don’t know why, but I’ve always had a fantasy for guys who lose in competition. Like, a guy who comes in last in a race or a member of the worst team in a league. Maybe even a guy who drops out of college because of the academic difficulty. I never wanted the winner. I wanted to comfort the loser and tell him it’ll be okay and that he is loved. Maybe it’s the motherly instinct in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:35 AM
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Kindness really is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:59 PM
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I’m thinking about going to pharmacy technician school when my baby is older and goes to school. I’m very excited for my baby to be here, but I’m nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:43 PM
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Our baby will be loved and well cared for. He had a girlfriend who had an abortion years ago, and our first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. He wants at least one living child. There’s a good chance we will have just one baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:41 PM
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We qualify for WIC so I’m going to get that assistance. We could get by without it but it will really help. We’ve both paid in through taxes as long as we’ve been working, so we’re going to benefit from it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:28 PM
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My husband makes enough to take care of us. I was working to build a savings and buy a couple things for the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:08 PM
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I love him too much to even think about doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:55 PM
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He fixes tractors. He’s the only man who wanted to nut in me, actually. That’s why I’m married to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:48 PM
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Being attractive really does change your whole life. My thinner, prettier younger sister is going to Mexico with her college friends and boyfriend for spring break. She’s probably going to go to dental school. I’m spending my weekend inside, out of the rain, researching my state’s WIC program. I quit my minimum wage job because I was tired of being bullied by teenagers all the time and the stress wasn’t good for the baby in my tummy. Sometimes I wish things were different for me when I was young…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:36 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:08 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:37 PM
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My husband works, and we will be able to live off of his income. He paid cash for a little plot of land next to my parents, so there’s no payment for that. There’s a small payment for the double wide we live in. We have no car payments. We don’t live a luxurious life but it’s enough. It’s the life that will enable me to stay home with our baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:37 PM
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I don’t know when I’m supposed to tell my employer that I’m pregnant. I’m still early in the first trimester. I work at the Christian chicken restaurant chain, and it kind of stresses me out. The high schoolers and college freshmen who work there always seem to take their anger out on me when it’s busy. Management picks favorites and I’m afraid they’ll cut my hours to nothing if they know. My hours are already lower than some kids who are in college full-time. I’m not in the “in” group, so I get…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:26 PM
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I don’t think anyone is a failure for being single at 30 and I don’t know why some people act like it is, especially for women. You never know what was going on in their lives or relationships. Maybe they just ended a long relationship, or they haven’t found anyone they genuinely enjoy. It’s just how life is. It’s not like there’s a deadline where you have to find a spouse before 30. I’d rather keep looking well into my 30s than marry someone I’m not compatible with when I’m 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:34 PM
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That doesn’t take away from what I’ve gone through. I was ignored by men who I’m sure were lonely as well. I just wasn’t pretty enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:05 AM
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Being ignored physically hurts my heart. It’s the worst feeling I’ve ever experienced, and it happened to me for too long. It’s such a heart-sinking feeling. Imagine asking someone how their day was and they don’t even look at you, they just go talk to someone else. People have told me I’m a fool for marrying my first boyfriend, but I want to be with the one man who listens to me and cares about what I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:54 PM
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I wish I had more people who wanted to celebrate my accomplishments with me. After this quarter at community college I’ll officially be a high school graduate at 24. My husband is going to take me out to dinner, which is a very rare treat for us. He may even buy me a little cake. My parents don’t care because this is something I was supposed to accomplish 8 years ago. I know I won’t accomplish much in life at this rate but I wish more people cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:55 AM
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I see a lot of people say something is wrong with an older man if he can’t find a girlfriend his age. I’m a younger woman who couldn’t get a boyfriend my age, so I married an older man. No one tells me there’s something wrong with me, even though there obviously is since I could find an age-appropriate man. I think that older men who struggle with relationships should marry young women who struggle with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:30 AM
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He may not have been ideal at the time, but I love him more than anything and I’m so glad he came into my life. I wouldn’t have anyone else. We’re flawed people, but love each other so much. God bless you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:12 AM
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Men have different “types” but typically don’t like unattractive women, no matter what their type is. I understand why. Men want women they’re attracted to, it’s only human to do so. I wanted to settle down and have children early. I’m trying to do so with a man in his early forties, but I’m struggling to get pregnant. I would have done it with a younger man, but no one would have me. I understand why they haven’t wanted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:08 AM
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I would have loved to marry a guy my age who wanted to provide and have a family. I just wasn’t good enough for them. I married a recovering alcoholic in his early forties instead. Life is as good as it can be. He doesn’t make a lot but we get by. I’m struggling to get pregnant so far. Life could have been a lot different, but I’m enjoying what I was given.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:02 AM
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I often browse Instagram and see videos posted by young country boys who are struggling to find good girlfriends. They want nice, honest girls who want to live humble lifestyles with them. They’re not bad men, in fact, they’re typically quite pleasant, and hardworking, and kind. But I can’t help but think about how they fall into the trap of getting with a very attractive girl who doesn’t share their values, end up with a broken heart, and complain about a lack of “good girls.” The “good girls” …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:35 AM
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I’m sick and tired of people jerking me around. At that point I knew I wasn’t going to get the job so I didn’t care about what I said. I’ve worked several different jobs and it’s insulting to suggest I’m not good enough to work in a warehouse store. I have things to take care of and I can’t wait for a smug hiring manager to call me when they feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:15 AM
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My husband wasn’t providing anything for me when we met. I was providing for him. He was so thin and he barely had any money. I was giving him my free lunches from work so he could put some weight on. I still fell in love with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:44 AM
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I went to the local Costco to ask about my job application I put in a couple weeks ago. After enough harassment I got to someone in charge of that kind of thing. She told me that their hiring process is really selective and I probably wouldn’t make the cut. I told her that it’s a warehouse store, not Goldman Sachs and she should stop being so pretentious about it. That’s when I got kicked out of the office. Maybe Subway will call me back soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:35 AM
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I’m glad I didn’t dump him. He got sober and he has a better job and we’re trying to have a baby now. It wasn’t my responsibility to help him, but I did. What I’m saying is that most women shouldn’t do what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:20 PM
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I think there’s a fine line between a man who is flawed and a man who is in no shape to be getting into a relationship, and it seems like a lot of men don’t understand that. I started dating a man who really shouldn’t have been entering a relationship, and I’m now married to him. He was an alcoholic and he bounced between shitty manual labor jobs. I would get a free meal every shift at the restaurant I worked at, and I would give it to him because he would buy more booze than food and he was so …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:07 PM
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They basically are. One of them just turned 21 and she’s a registered nurse with an associate’s degree. The surgeon who runs the place is young and likes to hire hot nurses, so I don’t know how I was hired. The youngest nurses get weird when he is nice to me during our brief interactions. They don’t like the fact that he treats me just like them. The whole environment is so fucking weird sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:24 PM
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I actually hate the nurses I work with. They’ve treated me like garbage since day one. My job is nurse’s ASSISTANT. I’m there to make their lives easier and they just shit on me all the time. Some are younger than me and have bachelor’s degrees and boss me around like I’m a slave. They think I’m dumb and that’s why I’m not a nurse. One of them even told me the brand of scrubs I bought are for “real” nurses. The only people who are nice to me there are the surgeons, and I don’t interact with them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:12 PM
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Eh, not really. I’d bet it was a lot better before the internet and in a small town. The men would probably be a lot more enthusiastic when there’s only five women to choose between and beautiful women only exist on television.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:01 PM
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I married a man that many would consider to be broke. He was borderline unemployed when we met. I knew he was more than his salary. He makes $43K a year now and he feels rich with that salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:53 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:50 PM
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I married a 5’10” former alcoholic who makes $43K a year. I didn’t have anyone to reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:30 PM
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Almost no one wanted to spend the time to get to know me and discover that I wanted to settle down and have a family. One man did, though. He was an alcoholic and bounced between shitty jobs. I took a chance on him because he wanted to love me despite my appearance. Now he’s sober and has decent, stable employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:10 PM
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I would have loved to settle down with a man in his thirties. I didn’t want to party. I knew I wanted marriage and a family. But I was ignored by men because I wasn’t pretty enough. I was everything they would have wanted besides the looks. Maybe the women who want those things aren’t the hot ones at clubs and out partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:55 PM
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Does anyone still have a normal job these days? I think everyone who has moved onto my road the past three years is some sort of tech bro with an engineer or attorney wife. They all build huge bardominiums but I’m thankful I can’t see them through all the trees. None of them share values with the people who have lived here forever. My husband fixes tractors and I’m a nurse’s assistant. We’re just normal people trying to get by. I’m tired of people with tons of money complaining about not having …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:50 PM
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My fiancé really liked the babydoll lingerie set I bought yesterday. I think now he’ll start buying me cute underwear rather than socks. God, that man loves to see me in socks. I used to think foot fetishes were weird, but having a man who loves to rub your feet is so fucking nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:59 PM
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Former alcoholic, but yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:54 PM
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I think financial subreddits have ruined my brain. Somehow every other 23 year old has a six-figure income, maxed out retirement funds, thousands in investments, and is trying to buy a $500K+ house with a garage big enough for their Tesla and Lexus GX. It’s so crazy to me seeing people that young with such a high salary still complaining about money. It really rubs me the wrong way, and irritates my fiancé. He’s done hard work his whole life and can just now afford a little house at 41. I really…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:31 PM
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It wouldn’t impress most girls, but it impresses me. I’ve only had a couple boyfriends and they didn’t put a lot of effort in. And that was after years of being ignored by boys and men, so anything feels impressive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:58 PM
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It’s really special to me. I’m amazed someone did all that for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:47 PM
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I meant it as in not a lot of people have treated me this well before. He’s just so sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:30 PM
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The guy I’m seeing bought me a cute headscarf that goes with one of my favorite dresses 🥺 and he knows I can’t have sugar or very many carbs so he bought me sugar-free candies. He’s too good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:50 PM
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I’m a little chubby and my facial structure makes me look very young. I’ll never look like a “baddie” which is what guys my age want. I’ve been told I look like a 1920s farm girl. I’ve been starting to dress more cutesy in conservative dresses and such. The older men like it much more than guys my age. Maybe they like a cute appearance more than a hot one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:16 AM
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Visiting my brother at his college makes me grateful guys my age don’t like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:09 AM
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I feel dirty and tainted for being pregnant before. I lost the baby early on and I’m no longer with the father. Any time I see a guy I’m interested in I just want to shrivel up and die because I feel used up and dirty and not good enough. I feel like I would just be resented by any man with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:48 AM
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I’m at a good weight now and I think I dress okay. I don’t wear a lot of feminine things because they don’t fit my body well. I look younger than most people my age and I’m afraid that’s why people don’t take me seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:29 AM
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I don’t really want to move away since this is my home. I’ve tried OLD a couple times but I get discouraged. I don’t get a whole lot of matches and when I do I can tell the guy just swipes right on everyone. I want a guy to genuinely pick me because he likes me. I know it sounds like I’m making excuses. It’s also hard to say no to positive attention when I do get it since it’s not often. Of course I want to spend more time with a guy who gives me positive attention, even if he’s 40 with a baby. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:13 AM
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Yeah, I’m in a small town. There aren’t very many younger guys around here. There a big college a few towns over but those guys like the college girls. I just like to think the older guys see something in me the younger ones don’t. Maybe they think I’d be a good mother or I’m sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:51 AM
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I’m 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:04 AM
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This guy I went on a few dates with is now the third middle-aged man to introduce his infant to me. I don’t know how I keep attracting forty year olds with babies. They seem to be the only guys who like me. I’m not complaining, though, I’ll be a stepmom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:42 AM
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It is, but I don’t want to stress about those kinds of things while raising a baby. Having children and raising a family is one of my biggest life goals and I just want their lives to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:56 AM
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My dad tells me I need to relax and not worry about money and possessions so much. But I have to work really hard and get stuff done soon because I have a limited amount of time to have children. I want to have a decent house and a safe vehicle before I have my first baby. I want to stay at home after I have kids so I won’t have time to work and buy those things. I’m 21 and would like to have my first baby before 28, so I really don’t have a lot of time. I’m basically spending my “carefree” year…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:34 AM
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I’m trying to learn to ski and most people who do ski had parents who could afford to pay for it when they were children. I’ve never been judged harder than by other skiers at a resort. I just feel really discouraged when people stare at me and I’ve been laughed at several times. I feel like I don’t belong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:36 AM
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I want to stay here. It’s home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:55 PM
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Most people around here have small farms, and there’s some larger ones, but we don’t. People think we don’t belong here because of that. My dad works in a trade and my mom is a dental hygienist. They always put their money into their own projects and just didn’t want to raise large animals because they were afraid of running out of time and neglecting them, especially horses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:40 PM
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No, not really. They’re interested in the farm girls and rodeo girls I described. The younger male customers, which are typically the same guys, ignore me for the most part. The ones around his age are always so kind to me, so I decided to go out with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:20 PM
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It just makes me feel like I’m not enough. I’m insecure about not having a lot. I’m not poor, my parents aren’t poor, we just don’t have the things other people in our area have. And somehow I’m not good enough because I don’t have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:03 PM
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They’re my peers, I’m 21, Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:47 PM
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Gen Z country kids are so pretentious. I live in a small country town. I was told I can’t wear my cowboy boots because I’m not “country” enough. Sorry, my parents didn’t have enough money to buy me a horse growing up, just let me wear my boots. The girls especially have a superiority complex when they work on their parents’ farm and need to let you know they’re better than you for doing so. Again, sorry my parents don’t have enough money for that, why are you putting me down because I don’t have…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:42 PM
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My dad says I’m too naive. Growing up, other girls had grown men sexually interested in them and would harass them or say things to them. That never happened to me. I was out and about with him when a guy said he liked my hair and we started chatting. I never get compliments so I was very flattered. My dad chased him off and said all he wants is sex from me. My dad says I never learned to not talk to random men and I need to learn. I have a date with a thirty-seven year old tomorrow. I’m twenty-…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:50 AM
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People said things to me I didn’t like and I wanted to forget about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:01 AM
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I work at a little restaurant in town and we have a customer who comes in twice a week or so for lunch. He works on a ranch nearby. He’s in his late thirties or early forties. We’ve had casual, pleasant conversations before. Yesterday I took my lunch break and had lunch with him. It was really nice. I kissed him on the cheek before he left. We exchanged phone numbers but he hasn’t contacted me yet. Now I’m worried I did something wrong. Is it my age? I’m 21. Was I too direct by kissing him on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:17 AM
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My fiancé always looks better when he’s bulking. He looks stronger and more masculine, less pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:43 AM
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