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Take it easy, older geezer. Before you pop a blodvessel. How shitty a man are you when you allow a deadbeat drug dealer in your house? When getting your dick wet has you high fiving the world for 'winning'? what kind of man are you striving to be? Pay attention. It's not my house, it's her apartment. And I commended her for being there for her brother. and from before, you never did answer the question of what specifically you disagreed with, because all I see now is you assuming women are diffe…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 08:03 PM
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It did directly affect me. She wanted a framed picture of us, I gave her one, and she hid it in the drawer when her mother was coming to visit. It is a small action, but symbolically, it shows that she is somehow ashamed of me. That is immensely disrespectful in my view. Honor is a male term that has been with us since the dawn of time. Feminists are tarnishing the term. I will teach my son about honor, unlike the pussified Hollywood society we live in.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 07:57 PM
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in your case, you should't have noticed. she made you her bitch for noticing something that is not an action. That is some leap your making. No, she hid it from her mother, fearing she would be jealous of our picture when none existed of my GF and her family. FOR A WOMAN??? listen to yourself No. For my honor as a man. And also her perception of me. Granted, you shouldn't stoop to the level of a hood rat. So you are treating her like I would treat a guy friend then? just beers and shit talking..…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 07:28 PM
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You got upset because a picture was put away? It was disrespectful, and I corrected it. You would fight to the death for a woman? Against her drug dealing, lawless brother who threatened me. Not some other schmuck looking to date her. If you fold from someone threatening you at the spot, then you're the definition of beta. ou broke up and continued to see her AFTER sex was off the table... I took sex off the table MYSELF! Because I took your fucking advice on moving the fuck on. Youre a child, u…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 07:01 PM
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Here's a proposed addendum to the new rule: MRP mods need to stop acting like they're twoXchromosomes mods. How about not shunning away from discussion? Since it feels like I prompted this weak ass response from you. Here's a PM I sent to BluePillProfessor when he asked me to clarify: "First of all. I'm a fan of your stuff. Here's a reply I wrote a while ago to summarise my thoughts: I think the material is too fragmented for one. The best stuff is in general text-posts IMO. The side-bar stuff i…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:26 PM
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You guys are mental. Calling me a doormat for standing up to her gangster brother, a beta for correcting her disrespectful behaviour regarding the picture, and not understanding the material WHEN RP AND MRP ARE SO CONTRADICTING. I appreciate the material on being an oak. And I understood that I'm naturally inclined towards the "dad" path, rather than being the player type. But I can easily see that 90% of the people here are so incredibly confused about the content. Telling me to run from a punk…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 02:37 PM
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Thank you. Yesterday, I was browsing through his Facebook page. It was filled with gangster worship and glorified thugs who rioted against police. That was the last straw. It's clear that he isn't stuck in his situation. So earlier today, I told her that there would come a day where he wouldn't be welcome in my house. She couldn't accept, so we're now officially over, and I'm sitting here during new years with good, lawful friends writing this. Somewhat bummed out, but life's short. Thanks to ev…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/15 06:56 PM
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Letting her brother intimidate me (and my future family) is not being a captain of my ship. It's characteristic beta to just walk away immediately after such a thing. There are only two options when that happens: ignore or confront. During: I confronted, later: I ignored. It was a definite shit-test from him, and I know I aced it like a motherfucker. He later came apologizing to me. If I want to play the dread-game, I do it afterwards when the shit has calmed, which it now has. It's also impossi…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 10:34 PM
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Thank you for your thoughts. I feel like his claims have nothing to do with religion. I'd call it a cultural thing. He can't be so stupidly hypocritical to demand the Christian path from me when he's such a loser himself. Either way, I was ready to tolerate his lifestyle. As long as it was HIS lifestyle while he stayed out of the picture completely. But I cannot tolerate him interfering with my future wife. P.S. sorry for describing my Christian past with "bullshit". It wasn't my intention to of…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 10:26 PM
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It was my decision
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 04:06 PM
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Update: I took a break in the relationship. We are friends, without others knowing. I'll give this relationship maximum two months. If I'm not satisfied by then, I'm nexting. Thanks for everyone's input.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 03:03 PM
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Typical female behavior does explain things, but it doesn't change the fact that I'm so affected by it. If all women would react the way she did, why even fucking seek to marry one? My hope is that I realise that I shouldn't expect anything less from a woman and just accept it. Or should I give her an ultimatum between me and her brother as a test? It feels like a last resort though, but loyalty is important to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 01:22 AM
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We don't actually live together, but her mother knows we're in a serious relationship. So I don't understand why she felt the need to hide the picture before she arrived. It is incredibly disrespectful, but I don't feel the need to correct her about it. Because the purpose and intention behind the action is a bigger problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 01:14 AM
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Your wife's parents are gravely ill. Your first thought as a captain should be "what can I do to ease this situation?" Since this is about her parents, it's difficult for you to take control, but you offer her your help. She's naturally the one who helps them directly, but you can take care of the kids entirely while she's gone. Easy as that. It wasn't a comfort test initially, but your lack of practical support gave way to secondary problems. It's not "beta" to take care of your children when y…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 01:24 AM
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I think the material is too fragmented for one. The best stuff is in general text-posts IMO. The side-bar stuff is by far catered more towards TRP than MRP. Besides spelling out what MRP is, it needs to be clarified what it ISN'T. Hypergamy, abundance theory, shit- and comfort testing, and self-improvement are both incorporated in TRP and MRP, but to a lesser extent in MRP. Being a captain and a leader is unique to MRP. Comfort testing should be handled differently in a relationship as well. Som…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 11:51 PM
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I spend most of my time on reddit here, so clearly I have.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 11:15 PM
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OP clearly doesn't. Or there is a lot of material that directly contradict each other. Whether or not RP is true (which I know it to be), shunning your woman in this situation is idiotic. Regardless of which color pill you swallowed.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 11:14 PM
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This is golden. Especially this: assume comfort test over shit. Makes sense from a LTR point of view. Thank you for taking the time to write it out, and clearly trying to be as objective as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 09:59 PM
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Shit I need to own: Started keto THE DAY BEFORE CHRISTMAS EVE! Yep, I'm a lunatic, but by God I will persevere. Shit I'm owning: Last time I slept over, she exposed her breasts in a non-sexual way to itch them. It made me ravenous, and I jumped on them in a second. After some fondling, she asked me if she could masturbate. (Neither of us wanted sex). This comes from a so called feminist. Yep, pretty sure I own her pussy now. Even before her. My frame is better than I thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 09:37 PM
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This is not being a captain. It's a no-brainer to be there for your wife when she's in a bad situation. I think MRP needs more solid ideas than borrowing most of the stuff from TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 08:57 PM
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Still a broad generalization. Throughout my childhood, I had a batshit crazy mom that made my life miserable. I told myself never to marry someone mentally unstable. There is an ocean of women out there that aren't suitable because of this. I specifically looked for the quiet, timid, book-nerd type, and fortunately I found one with my current GF. We never fight, even when we're in a rut. And it's so goddamn refreshing. Even her PMS is like a walk in the park. Looks are usually what us men seek p…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 08:46 PM
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This seems like an apocalyptic view. The prejudice about eastern European women being controlling should be considered. I know from experience as well, one of my best friends has a Russian GF. Sometimes, AWALT is taken too literally. If you don't want crazy (besides the usual AWALT behavior described by TRP), don't fucking marry crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 12:02 PM
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You just inspired me to learn sign language too. I'm studying to become a teacher, so besides relating to your reasons (I have the same soft spot for kids and elderly) it lifts my market value in the work place. Never even crossed my mind. Good luck and thanks! Edit: work, not world.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 08:01 PM
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You're right. It's a way to play the game on home turf. And it's so incredibly easy to execute.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 07:05 PM
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You're right. I've changed my mind regarding that. Now I'm going all in on the "daddy role", a la MRP.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 06:08 PM
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This. This is what drags TRP down. Along with the stupid "bro, have you even read the sidebar?"
/r/askTRP23/11/15 09:58 PM
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Well. I think I am beta. TRP isn't for natural alphas anyway. But I know she doesn't wear the pants. Especially now.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 09:11 PM
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Daddy issues here.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 02:17 PM
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I will keep this in mind. Thanks
/r/askTRP23/11/15 02:13 PM
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Well. I meant the rest of the world really. Which is a bigger place. Scandinavia is the worst of the lot.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:39 AM
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Definitely. Every time I read about the sex scene in America, it's like looking at another planet.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:32 AM
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Because she's a princess and wants the fairytale life, even though she would never admit it. I don't have a problem giving her the illusion that she's in control. But she now knows who's in charge, without any doubt.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:30 AM
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Sweden. Where men are pussywipped and women rule.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:26 AM
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Thanks for this. Never knew it existed. Subscribed.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:24 AM
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You're right. I described to her how easy it is to satisfy men. Otherwise, secondary problems arize that make it more difficult to maintain the relationship. However, there are a lot of compromises in a LTR. I mentioned in the other threads that her attitude was just as big of a problem as the fact that I didn't get any. Two weeks is not a long time really, but her handling of it made it much worse. I taught her how to turn me down by straddling me, looking me in my eyes, and show genuine guilt.…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:19 AM
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That's one huge leap. Unless the father has been convicted of something, this is very prejudiced. An example of the mentality this subreddit is trying to fight.
/r/MensRights22/11/15 11:58 AM
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I wonder if he has the option to not pay child support if he doesn't want to.
/r/MensRights22/11/15 11:56 AM
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Thanks. This was helpful.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 02:38 PM
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The sex was fantastic. She came every time and clung to me afterwards like a newborn monkey to a mother. She thought she could control me with it in the end. She misconstrued my kindness to her as weakness. Fortunately, I was exposed to TRP to see through the bullshit. The shittests came as a complete surprise though, but I reacted accordingly. But the bitch still kept going. I've now slept on it and I still haven't shed a tear for her. Feels good. Thanks for your input.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 10:33 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:57 PM
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Sweden Democrats (a nationalist party that wants to completely halt the immigration) is getting 26% support and becoming the biggest party by far, according to recent polls. Don't worry, it wont lead to complete self-destruction. Either way, I'm not one to care about macro issues at the moment, since I just went through a breakup with the woman I thought I was going to marry.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:42 PM
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Even though I agree that the attraction, respect, and my firmness weren't there. You still need to realise how fucked up her delusion was: she sympathised with terrorist when I was bashing them during the news. She is so PC, it has turned into a madness.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 07:34 PM
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I love how broad of a generalization you make on me and her. After 6 months, of course I bring up the issue in an agitated manner. It's a serious relationship, not kindergarten. Last time, we didn't fight about it, we discussed it, and nothing changed. I'm not a baby to start fucking other women. Becoming distant from her in response didn't feel right either. It's childish, and I'm a grown ass man. But the fact that it did make me agitated also made me feel childish and self-loathing, which I cl…
/r/askTRP15/11/15 07:02 PM
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I'm giving it a week before moving on. If she hasn't come crawling back before next Monday, I'm moving on completely. Thanks.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 06:40 PM
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Thanks. I'm convinced that those tears were 100% real though. She's not one to cry usually, especially in a situation where she's trying to "maintain her dignity" instead of satisfying her partner. Either way, I was prepared to not get affected by tears. Now that my adrenaline has settled, I'm starting to reflect too. But I'm sure I'll get over it in a heartbeat.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 06:39 PM
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We'll see.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:23 PM
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It's going to be obvious alright. All I'm going to do next time I'm sitting on the couch with her is to call her like you would a cat (psst sound), motion her over with a finger and point to my dick. She's a clever girl. Birch better do it or I go out the door forever.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:28 PM
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Be more busy, or say that you are tired/don't feel like it at the moment. This was my plan. I'm also adding her being busy and tired and I don't want to bother her. I.e. guilt tripping her. Also dread game will help if you have high SMV. I don't really need to go this far, since she isn't top shelf material. Prefer a monk mode period as well. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 01:37 PM
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I did this early on in the relationship. Sucks to do it again. Thinking about just ending it instead. Not sure she's worth the hassle. She's so deep into the blue pill mentality, it's almost hopeless.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:17 PM
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I know about maintaining frame an stoicism. These things come naturally to me. Thanks though.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:32 PM
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Intimacy requires effort, and constant maintenance. Your gf's actions indicate that she isn't willing to exert the effort required to keep things thriving. This is very interesting. I was imagining if she would have done the same if I was Brad Pitt. Clearly, the answer is no. The fuck should I do to salvage it then? Do I pin her against the wall and sweep her off her feet? I don't want to feel like a rapist. I'm thinking about just asking her to (literally) blow me next time we hang out as a tes…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:17 PM
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No to little sex will soon become a habit for her in the relationship and will stay that way. You need to move on. I will keep this in mind and take the leap if it comes to that. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:13 PM
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I won't be moving and yes, I'm in my late 20s.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 12:02 AM
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She wont shatter me, and she knows it. I'm very strong mentally. Grieved the death of one of my closest friends for only a couple of weeks. She knows that I would get over her in a heartbeat. You're getting the wrong impression.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 07:48 PM
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You showed your willingness to leave the relationship. That's powergame right there. Finally, someone who interpreted it correctly! I opened up all my dating accounts the day after. It turned her world upside down. Did you even read TRP literature? Do you expect that your girlfriend is gonna be your mother. It doesn't work that way. I also learned that the hard way. Good luck with that. Not my mother, but definitely someone who supports my life decisions. I have amazing support from friends, fam…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 07:43 PM
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Every time I'm angry at a partner of mine, I always have the urge to aggressively fuck her brains out the next time I see her. It has worked out well with another girl in the past. Maybe I might do it this time too, but it's very risky with this one, I feel.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:54 PM
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crack_tobi is pulling stuff out of his ass. There's not a chance in hell that she's cheating on me. Or get angry, tell yourself we're a bunch of women-haters and keep going until the train derails. This is what's going through my mind. Half of the comments here have been helpful, but the other half tells me some people here have never even been in a real relationship.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:51 PM
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I have a knack for it, but never actually thought about going into the profession as a career. How is that weird? Edit: grammar
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:47 PM
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Thanks. This was very helpful. It's what I usually do. She calls herself a feminist, and we sometimes have heated discussions about it. Where I mostly laugh at her ideas. I'll apply the same method to most of the other stuff she mentions.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:45 PM
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It seems that my statement has been misconstrued. I tore her a new asshole and made her realize that what she did was abysmally wrong. She was the one who cried for 3 straight days when it happened, not me. I made HER change her ways, instead of dancing to her melody.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:41 PM
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I've read quite a bit, and hung out here for a while. It's just that I think I'm fooling myself into thinking it's possible to have a healthy relationship, instead of all the BS power struggle.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:28 PM
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There's not a chance in hell that she's seeing someone else. Not a doubt in my mind.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:13 PM
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Thanks, dude. You've been very helpful.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:04 PM
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This is a much more helpful response. Thanks. My response to it was actually very cool and collected. As I said, I told her that it only inspires me more in order to disprove her, but that she had made her choice to be my antagonist instead of supportive spouse. It wasn't until later that I realised how fucked up it was that she had said it. My question to you is: should I discuss it with her tonight, or let this one slide until I see a recognisable pattern?
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:42 PM
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Dude, what is it that your waiting for exactly? Some divine premonition to say now your gf has changed and from now on she will respect you. Equal,(?) you are no where near her equal. Judging from her behavior she thinks you are the stuff from the bottom of the barrel also she has the nerve to tell that your choice of career is shit(then again maybe she is onto something ...are you putting enough effort?) and by being with you she thinks she is doing you a favor. So yes come to your senses now. …
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:30 PM
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I assume that means you took her back in? Why? I took her back because ignoring people is a personality trait of hers, which she has worked a lot on. She has gotten much better at sharing her feelings since then, instead of avoiding the issues. She is supposed to be your bedrock? ......??????? something about ...respect. Is that the word? You tell me. Is this a common thing with women? Should I expect them all to be condescending instead of supportive?
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:18 PM
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...Then come Kurdish/Turkish immigrant nice guys and ask these 19yo teenage mom women to marry them because "she is the most beautiful flower he has ever seen to cross the night sky blah blah"; lives on her salary and beats her up/abuses the toddler. Good argument, before this garbage.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:35 AM
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Exactly. Unless you are naturally dominant, I don't see how you would even enjoy it in the first place. Some women are very passive and would love nothing else but to be treated like little sluts. Others are more give and take. I for one like passion, so I emphasize kissing, fondling and closeness. Doesn't mean the sex I have is worse, on the contrary. I only like some occasional ass-slapping, mostly out of fun. Don't treat sex only how you think your partner likes it, do it as you yourself pref…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 06:05 PM
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Some very good stuff. Not really groundbreaking, but this is important at a time where gender roles are shifting. This sub has countless threads where psychopathy is romanticized, unfortunately. I'm far from being one, more like overly empathetic. However, I'm definitely naturally machiavellian, which I realized later in life. Fortunately, I keep it in complete check just by self-realization. I have a close acquaintance who seems to fit the description of a "sociopath wanna-be". He seems to be q…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:05 AM
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My bad. At first it seemed that you could have been addressing OP, but you did respond to me, which was confusing. Thus my framing it as a question. You're absolutely right. Physical appearance is at least 70%. Thing is, I think this whole sub gets constantly misunderstood by people. I can agree with treating women as children (sometimes, if they're being brats) in order to become dominant. In my experience, the best way to create dominance is to sexualize them. Not only is it successful in that…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:55 PM
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What the hell does that mean? So you don't agree with my arguments and share the ideas on psychopathy with OP? By all means, continue your journey towards becoming a hermit. At least you'll have your precious code.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:24 PM
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Get on Tinder, don't be ugly, don't be a pussy, make sexual advances, profit. Most women on Tinder are skanks. It's not a shocker that one 19-year old wanted to screw on the first date.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:54 PM
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Did you not read the part later where I talk about how she drank herself to death on a Vegas trip? She was obviously emotionally disturbed and had substance abuse problems. I also explained that my mother was an alcoholic and that severely detrimented my development as a child - its something I still have issues with today. She's the last girl in the world I'd ever want to have a LTR with. This is irrelevant since you had no idea about it at the time, and she could have developed the alcohol abu…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:40 AM
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This will be my first post on TRP. I had to do it, because you're like a cartoon character and will probably mostly get pats on the back. Either you're completely convinced that you blew it with the chick you met in chemistry class for being "beta" and want to compare it to the latter example, or at least trying to make it seem that way. How about there being a middle ground where you would have ended up in a happy relationship with the first girl? What made you not hook up with her was simply t…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:16 AM
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