It's too bad I've already been through the marriage, divorce, and now permanent parasite phase. Love my kids but damn I wish I never met that woman. I hope I'm a lesson for someone else.
Unfortunately it doesn't work that way and, once the state requires you to pay the child support or alimony, she can do what she wants with it. You'll pay the expenses for the new house she lives in, utilities, travel expenses, etc. And there's not a goddamn thing you can do about it but not participate in the first place. If got don't pay your child support you go to jail, lose wages, and are still expected to come up with your child support obligation. This is why more people should support th…