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Hey guys, can you help me and tell me where in the sidebar should I search the answer for following question?: While I agree with a lot of redpill principles in dating, when it comes to long term partnerships, it seems that constant need to ''hold frame'' ,not show weakness and thus to be on guard, precludes any real person-to-person communication, vulnerability or support. Which, at least to me, seems unhealthy. Does redpill allows for any vulnerability when it comes to long term relationships?…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 06:12 PM
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Just wanted to write and tell you I'm glad your dad is alright. Take care man <3 !
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 05:51 PM
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Positives: * Way more consistent about working. I'M slowly slowly slowly startung to actally enjoy working in this weird masochicst sense so that's fucking awesome :) * I'm becoming better at generating joy and having fun , even when I don't feel like it.At this point I'm really good at this. Can improve: *Everything else But overall I'm improving :D So that's awesome , fuck yeah :) I love the fucking low grind that self-development consists of :)
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 08:20 AM
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Good * Being overwhlemd in new job forced me to work which was awesome Areas of improvement: Everything else (habits, side-hustle, work ethic, addiction) Once I start earning salary I can use it to force me to do shit, which'll be awesome. Itš a long road ahead of me, but thatš awesome cause I want to enjoy every second :)
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 10:00 AM
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Understatement of the Week.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 06:58 PM
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This so much. I have fucked up badly in past, and now from time to time I get in these ''victim pukin'' patterns where I just eviscerate myself and then genuinely feel like I accomplished something by being ''brutal'' with myself.. I didn't. but If you're in that state of mind, it's extremely tempting pattern of thought. What ultimately helped me get over it, is that I realized that it's nothing more than a mental masturbation, me wanking over how ''special'' and victimized I'm am. And as it acc…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:24 PM
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Positives *Pushed myself hard this week in challaneig work front.Overall more proructive than last week. * Did good with training. *Chose to not take too much work, to not dilute the quality. Negatives: *Meditation kind of went to shit at end of week *Need to work way harder *Put off important work project.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 07:41 PM
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Hey man, care only about the things ypu can directly control. You can't control that your brain misses her or that break up lowered your brain's natural automatic confidence level. That's not within your control. You might as well be sad that it rainded today. Instead focus on what you can control - shutting those BS ''I miss her'' thoughts down when you notice them and doing things that increase your confidence - working hard at school and gym, sticking to diet, going out and approaching. That'…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 09:59 AM
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Well my specific speech issues are 1)speaking to fast 2)lack of clarity due to lisp, so I 5 min everyday force myself to quickly ,clearly enunciating everything, make a short speech. For me it's quite unpleasant, so to keep tempo I usually twist my arm until pain forces me to speak quickly . it's quite amazing how doing this for just 1 month can impact your default speech. I used to speak so quickl people had no fucking diea what I said, but now I speak super slow, confidently and I come off as …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 09:44 AM
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Positive Have been consistent in my daily body habits (meditation, Exercise, Speaking exercise). Good shit. Negative Engaging in my addiction all the time, which means that my work habit is functionally 0. Completely unacceptable. If I don't ,even temporarily, fix this shit, I'll irreversibly fuck up my relationships (as I have before) which'll means I'll miss out of enormous amount of opportunities .I'm in middle of this process already. Engaging in mental porn on daily basis. Not doing approac…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 02:49 PM
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About talking english in foreign places - agreed. When travelling in Ukraine, after being appproached by 3 scammers in one day, I quickly learned to STFU. If it's daytime or in centre, then it could be fine, but if it's nighttime and not a lot of people around, then you're just asking to be robbed (As I almost was one time anyway)
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 09:58 AM
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Thanks so much for this post. I realised that I've been making excuses that ''I need to reach ''sufficient'''' self-development level'' before I can start working hard, approaching or doing other ''painful'' but necessary things. It's amazing how easy it is to fall into BS thinking patterns, even long after you've found right way. So I'm gradually working daily on changing my mindset. I doubt I'll do it as fast as you (1 month) but I'm in no rush. Thanks :)
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 06:13 PM
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Positive Consistent in Meditation, Exercise and Speaking training everyday. Already see the difference.Am able to project confidence, and competence way more easier Still fucking awesome in person to person meeting Showed initiative in couching relationship Negative Completely allowed myself to disintergrate when it fucking comes to doing daily work.Fucked Monday's deadlines. A big part of my brain doesn't want me to change and I'm allowing that part to dictate my behaviour. Need to get on top o…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 06:56 PM
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Thanks for advice :) ! I didn't mention it specifically but I do, do daily exercise, as part of habits I mentioned above.But it's not so important for me now so I just do 7 min HIIT per day instead of lifting. Have a great day :) !
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 05:01 PM
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Positive: Been applying and going you job interviews, in which I'm fucking AWESOME in. Good job for me doing breathing and visualisation work. Better consistency in habits as before Negative Still MASSIVELY indulging in addiction and mental pornography and time wasting Lack of consitnecy in habits.Fucking broke for few days with habits. Overall I'm moving in good direction but it's slowly. Good - it alllows me to enjoy pain WAY more.This is EXACTLY as fast I want this to go.FUCK '' 'feeling good…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:00 PM
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Great post :) Thanks for sharing :)
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 03:15 PM
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