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| 1 | The magic number of girls in a man's life2 is good for me women tend to do things at the same time (call, hangout etc.) so it’s too much overlap for me beyond 2. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | My ex girlfriend and I have started hanging out again, need advice/comments/concernsGo for it but don’t forget she left you over her unresolved stuff help her get that handled so the excuses don’t come back in the future. Rooting for you dude. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Should I be going after a committed relationship if I know I am not presenting the best version of me at the moment and need time to self improve?Or success at getting lays | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Should I be going after a committed relationship if I know I am not presenting the best version of me at the moment and need time to self improve?You have a good point I only gained this level of understanding after a bunch of hook ups and a not that great relationship. The hookups won’t fulfill you and the relationship should only be started once you work out some personal things. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | A good problem to have: they want me to settle, would like opinions pleaseI’d run out of fingers if I counted all the “good” women that got away because of my fear of commitment and dalliances. If you forced yourself to settle down you’ll be miserable and she would be miserable (I literally just got out of this). Enjoy your virility and keep getting better they will find different men and start families, will you feel a twinge of sadness? Sure but at the end of the day that’s a better feeling than being miserable or wasting a good woman’s time. If your not going to do… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Should I be going after a committed relationship if I know I am not presenting the best version of me at the moment and need time to self improve?It depends, we have so much relational toxicity because some guys think game and women will fill a whole that only therapy and possibly medication will. Waiting until your prefect is impossible but taking your time to figure out who you are as a person and a man before possibly contending with another persons baggage is perfectly reasonable.( This is advice for a serious relationship/marriage OP, if it’s something light total different rules). | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I love that, one thing that I’ll give that improves game for me was to go up to girls with no plan whatsoever you’ll fail a couple times but your improv will get sooo good. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 04:36 PM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]A 2 on one for your first approach is pretty damn bold tbh i bring a wing for those nowadays I’m too old to be dealing with linebackers. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | I almost NEVER saw a successful pickup in my life. Why??How did you ask them out? When did you ask them out? Where did you ask them out? What were you dressing when you asked them out? Was the conversation free flowing? Did you make them giggle? Are you handsome? Are you sexy? Did you smell good? Was your breath minty? Was your mood good? All these questions and variables should swirl in your as you approach to talk to a women. Your asking us to explain something that is SUPER complicated. Like explaining sex to a virgin no amount of explanation will… | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Checked into a hotel, high charisma the whole interaction, old school wrote number on paper. Text game was mundane until I said “Fuck you” about something (it was a joke). She made a comment and it moved more sexual. Same night she was in my room. In review it was the High charisma, opportunity, luck. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Do other people ever try to sabotage a relationship for no reason?It’s a lesson not a loss build from that! I don’t know your age but I’m knocking on 30 and things are coming together in an amazing way. Figure out a couple goals and pursue them things will work out. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm a handsome but socially inept, depressed, frustrated 20 yr old virgin and it's ruining my mind (kind of long)Post pic so we have context, try older women if your virginity is not super sacred to you, was at the bar yesterday and the amount of 40 year old cougars hunting for young meat was borderline pathetic 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How can I seduce a girl I want to sleep with?Tell her in a charming/confident way. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 02:44 AM |
| 16 | Sent a 🔥 (hot) react to a girls selfie on her Instagram story. She liked it and sent a 🥰 in return. Should I continue messaging her?Do a food emoji with a question mark. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | How to can a man Stop hiding his intentions and be upfront or show his sexual intentions?I have a friend who is Jamaican that employs this direct technique, he’s able to push through a lot of the flakes and gets a lot of lays, maybe I’m a fool or a traditionalist but I like a little bit of “slow pimping” before I move in. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 03:33 AM |
| 7 | Getting stuck making a moveTry cave-Manning her a little and stare into her eyes and at her lips. Your at the easiest part of the hookup. With me and my friends once were one-on-one it’s basically a sure thing (with CONSENT of course). Have fun OP the anticipation/build up is the funnest part of the process. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 03:26 AM |
| 2 | How do I pick up girlsTalk to them like an old buddy, point out environmental things and be the person you wouldn’t mind chatting with. Add in some charisma to power through dead spots also don’t be afraid to steer convo. I had mentors in college that hammered in a lot of this stuff, hopefully you have real world older guys with game that can show you some things. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 21 | I want a BADDIEYou need a BADDIE therapist 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 06:23 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Op so confident he’s doing B&Es lol congrats, don’t be discouraged by the flakes in the future just need to up the numbers 👌👌 | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m a “slow pimp” lol I chat girls long conversations get them comfy and have better relations because trust is built. I have a friend the complete opposite he’s super upfront and lets his intentions be known. He gets less but the girls he get know the drill. Try that approach. Be a bit more direct and try positive self talk. I’ve been chatting with a younger girl and tbh these girls are as sexual as dudes nowadays you should have no issue. I read the book by John Alexander around your age there… | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 4 | I went out alone for the first time, and came off as a creep...Find either the bar or the bathroom when you first walk in OP. If you don’t drink get cranberry juice. Lean against bar check scene, try to capitalize on small opportunistic things like for example a drunk guy raging through crowd making a scene. Cute girl and you both saw it, lean into her ( not creepy close) and make a joke about it. Quick laugh quick ice breaker and you just got a single! Lol baseball analogy, enjoy yourself major props I was scared to solo when I was younger but it’s very fu… | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 01:08 AM |
| 0 | How do I reject someone without being rude?Is she chunky OP? | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 04:11 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Post pic I bet your overblowing things, my nephew is the same way tall, and fit but thinks he’s bad with chicks. Lol he doesn’t know he’ll be beating them off with a stick after he gets his confidence up a bit. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Are all women like this?You were the woman in this situation, snooping is beta. You should always have a backup plan, some women(most) are pretty contradictory. Sorry this happened OP are you gonna confront, keep casual or fade? Also not trying to be rude just straight talk, respectfully. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 04:19 PM |
| 0 | How to open without being creepy?Bruv your a incel bruv | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh definitely you can’t just be a good looking rake and slay like back in the day, I say choose your targets wisely and be ok with a little rejection. The average type girls are usually the most interesting tbh just have fun with it! Best of luck. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | What does it actually mean to "respect yourself"Only Lay down with higher value women, put sex lower on the list behind personal achievements and well-being. Career and goal attainment. The funny thing is if you respect yourself woman are about #5 on the list but they’ll feel your energy and will suddenly be all over you 🙄🙄 sheesh | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There is an old video of a pretty handsome dude working game in NYC but it was like in 2006 lol. Still interesting. Props for even attempting this I’d probably grab a cute nerd in a library or bookstore and call it a day lol | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | How to keep a friend with benefits interestedTry spicy photos lol | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 12:03 AM |
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