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jap-a-negro/r/seduction30/06/13 05:52 AM
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1

Stay scared, simp ;)
/r/PussyPass24/11/22 04:13 AM
0

The nerd is scared of bots. Go touch an incarnation of grass. Fuckin weirdo.
/r/PussyPass24/11/22 03:51 AM
1

It's the internet. You can say "simp", it's not a bad word... Stupid.
/r/PussyPass24/11/22 03:40 AM
0

Everyone in this thread is stupid but you are the stupidest.
/r/PussyPass24/11/22 03:29 AM
2

I personally think it'd be pretty similar. That's just my opinion.
/r/PussyPass29/03/16 06:47 PM
-1

The deflation made the ball easier to catch. I believe it was raining that day too.
/r/seduction19/09/15 06:03 AM
2

Yea, I know. Having the mindset and acting on it are two entirely different things. I feel like that was obvious with my first comment.
/r/seduction23/04/15 04:02 AM
0

Only in a club or somewhere where that's socially acceptable. Otherwise it's "creepy".
/r/seduction23/04/15 12:03 AM
1

Came for the field report. Where is it OP?!?!?!?!
/r/seduction19/12/14 01:00 PM
-2

Why would u think that? I've never heard either side of the debate.
/r/seduction19/12/14 01:00 PM
2

There's some interesting info here from time to time. But as u said, it's mostly a starting point that will push people to try.
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:54 PM
1

The people who actually know their shit are comfortable doing this shit and have no reason to visit this sub because they've got their game figured out.
/r/seduction08/08/14 10:00 AM
-8

Uh... Actually girls will say no and not mean it. I've had a girl throw serious signals at me and when I escalated she said no. I was high, so I thought, maybe I misread and she wasn't serious and was tryna hint without being too forward. Escalated once more and it was good.
/r/seduction21/06/14 07:52 AM
1

I feel every interaction/ girl is too different to have rules. I've gotten girls thru texting only. Never once called them.
/r/seduction11/06/14 06:58 AM
7

To validate others you can just compliment them. Make them feel special which also means you may have to suspend your ego as the article says. Which has worked amazingly for me, might I add. To share personal info, you can just interject with a story similar to one they tell. Show that you can sympathize.
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:03 AM
1

Can I get a quick rundown?
/r/seduction22/05/14 01:48 AM
1

You seem to have many interests in common with a lot of people. What exactly are ur interests?
/r/seduction26/04/14 02:05 PM
1

Lol, nigga plz.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:25 PM
1

That's awesome. I saw a 10 once. I actually got nervous every time I saw her. That's what inspired me to start following this community. So if I ever see another 10, I might have a chance. I also stay looking out for that chick.
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:34 AM
0

Plus, the way u say things can help. My sense of humor is similar to Julians, so I could see myself joking like that without a problem.
/r/seduction10/03/14 08:15 AM
1

Yea, listen to this guy. When I first started reading this sub, the people who were saying "be bold, stop being a pussy!" fucked my head up. I actually believed that if you were ridiculously forward that girls would be impressed by it. Obviously I was wrong. Subtlety is key in college.
/r/seduction25/02/14 09:22 AM
1

I don't think she wants a relationship.
/r/seduction25/02/14 09:12 AM
1

My friend tried talking to a girl after me and a friend pushed him to. She was cool but nothing came of it. Nowadays, they ignore eachother and it's not too awkward. I've seen enough to help me come to the conclusion that approaching in the gym is fine if done right and if I ever get an easy opportunity, I'll take it.
/r/seduction25/02/14 09:08 AM
1

I work as a cashier and because I don't want to be the "creepy cashier" that hits on all the girls, I try to put the power in their hands. I'm pretty good at twisting words to create a flirty vibe which lets them know my intentions. I will only go for the number if she makes it really obvious she's into me.
/r/seduction23/02/14 01:32 AM
1

Sorry for bombarding you with these messages, but I find this particular style pretty counterproductive. And those women you mention are trying to impress the man they already have or want. We are the ones approaching these women so it's a different game. Overall, I think the man should be chasing a majority of the time (when first meeting/dating the girl), otherwise it's counterproductive.
/r/seduction19/02/14 10:36 PM
1

I'm cool with being nonchalant but dealing with a cranky person who i'm "dating" would annoy me and i'd probably drop her. But I guess we all got our own styles. Also, if i'm gaming the girl it would seem counter-productive to try and make her chase me all the time. Like, she can't be invested enough to feel obligated to chase the dude who came after her.
/r/seduction19/02/14 10:21 PM
1

When I date girls they are thinking that there might not be a next date, not the opposite. U are an interesting little guy. Mind explaining why is that is a good thing?
/r/seduction19/02/14 09:26 PM
1

As a man, my interests aren't always binary. Just saying. Also, I don't know why you think he got attached. She clearly says she didn't have a romantic connection with the dude. But whatever, who cares, I'm tired.
/r/seduction19/02/14 01:17 PM
2

I just got this 2 days ago. I responded with "Man, you're so selfish" and laughed.
/r/seduction19/02/14 11:19 AM
1

I'm with u man. OP acts like he really knows his shit when that whole conversation was obviously a routine that he's practiced a couple times. He's nothing special.
/r/seduction19/02/14 11:15 AM
1

She's not freaked out, she's just uninterested. Most likely she thought he was good looking but after hanging out decided that they didn't have enough in common.
/r/seduction19/02/14 10:50 AM
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You're so alpha.
/r/seduction19/02/14 10:48 AM
1

This is what he needs to hear. He's doing it for the validation. Validation that he doesn't deserve because he's still gonna be unattractive even after he got laid.
/r/seduction15/02/14 09:37 AM
1

Yooooo, be careful with your advice. Some dudes will take that shit to heart and be 100% completely blunt and think that will work. I am blunt a majority of the time and subtle when I need to be. Being blunt is respectable, but don't forget, that shit can fuck you up.
/r/seduction13/02/14 10:11 AM
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/U/sobes20 AIN'T GOT NO ANSWER! HE JUST A BITCH BOY WHO JUST GOT SHUT DOWN!!!
/r/seduction31/01/14 11:23 PM
2

Well, if you know the guy's wrong why not let him know. If the guy said 1+1=11 and everyone should know that, wouldn't you correct him? Also, he came at Tyler like an asshole, you don't respect yourself if you just let him disrespect you like that.
/r/seduction31/01/14 11:09 PM
14

The weak way? Naw, that's the socially acceptable way. OP instead went the creepy way. Stop being such a hippie with your "He has to learn to be emotionally strong so he can one day conquer his one true love" shit. Fuckin weirdos in this sub.
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:28 PM
20

Bro, piece of advice: Being super forward and honest straight from the beginning is gonna scare a lot of chicks away. Being so passionate about your feelings towards these girls is gonna come off needy. I'm sure you think otherwise, but keep doing what you're doing and you'll learn. I don't like it either, but these little subliminal games are actually really fucking necessary. Sad but true.
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:16 PM
11

Preach! OP is a strangely emotional man.
/r/seduction26/01/14 09:42 AM
25

That was weird. Confessing all that. You're really fucking dramatic, my dude.
/r/seduction26/01/14 09:38 AM
0

I think you guys are overthinking it. Ima just use the ol' 1-10.
/r/seduction17/01/14 08:07 PM
1

Listen to this guy OP. I have become an entirely better person by talking to everyone. Think about how rare it is to see a quiet guy who is good at getting girls. Possible, but not common. The dudes getting girls are the outgoing loud ones. Just become a more social person in general.
/r/seduction17/01/14 08:00 PM
1

If this is real, this girl was incredibly desperate. I'm not sure what to believe.
/r/seduction17/01/14 07:40 PM
1

But what if she keeps trying to start a convo!? I can't be mean!
/r/seduction14/01/14 06:40 AM
0

How old are you? Do you think you're ready or do you just feel like you have to?
/r/seduction14/01/14 06:32 AM
4

The ones you don't like are "undesirables", they know they have to approach because they just aren't attractive. You probably only go for 7s and up, right? Are you a virgin? Have you ever tried to illicit a response from the girls you like or are you waiting on them?
/r/seduction14/01/14 06:30 AM
1

YOU AIN'T GOT THE ANSWERS SWAY! It's a Kanye reference. I couldn't resist.
/r/seduction21/12/13 09:25 AM
1

I feel like the why will actually make you comfortable. It provides closure. I know how you feel. When you can't understand a girl's actions it's frustrating as fuck but I try to just let it go and not ask her for anything more, just to preserve my pride.
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:29 AM
1

True. Like Julien from RSD says, "motion creates emotion".
/r/seduction14/11/13 11:01 PM
1

-Keep an upward spiral of positivity in everything u do. -Frame control -Speak slow and clearly -Kino, (Just wanted to brag and let everyone know that Kino is becoming very natural for me, it's who I am now) -Having value will make shit a lot easier for you. Create the best life possible. I think these apply to any interaction.
/r/seduction07/11/13 07:40 AM
2

Do what robotman707 said and also incorporate kino. That shit works wonders brah.
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:17 AM
4

I personally don't think you have to recover from anything. She is making it incredibly easy for you and you just aren't escalating. Just forget about the lack of kino from before and start kinoing now.
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:15 AM
1

So what's the game plan now?
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:10 AM
1

Why would dinner be bad?
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:00 AM
23

Psh, this guy doesn't let girls touch his penis. Get it together man.
/r/seduction30/10/13 03:56 AM
2

It's been like that for months now. I don't even see the more experienced guys here anymore.
/r/seduction11/10/13 11:39 PM
2

He makes it too easy to decline.
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:36 AM
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I only got to the third one, and I saw issues everywhere.
/r/seduction22/09/13 02:12 PM
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Yea, I get that. But when you're interacting with a girl, you can tell if she is saying something to test you, fuck with you, feeling you out, etc. And I have yet to deal with a serious shit test. Note: While writing this, I remembered some really hot chick who would throw out shit tests, so I would assume that the really hot ones, who know that dudes want her are more likely to do it. Even then it's not all that common (in my experience).
/r/seduction19/09/13 07:27 AM
1

This may be the push I needed... She's making it pretty easy too.
/r/seduction05/09/13 08:02 PM
1

I'm actually looking at a girl with a very pretty face (faces are very important to me), but she is a little fatter than I'm used to. So, I don't even know if I should persue it.
/r/seduction05/09/13 07:20 AM
1

If I were you, at some point I would've gotten a little more aggressive. Just for a second to see if she was playing hard to get. If that fails, I probably would've just gotten super bored with her.
/r/seduction30/08/13 08:24 AM
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Yea, I don't know what the fuck it is, but everyone here always says grab a chick you've just met by the waist as if it's no big deal. I'm gonna keep saying this shit: IF YOU'RE GAMING IN CLASS/AT SCHOOL, TAKE IT SLOOOOOOOOOOWWWW!!!!!!!!! All the kino, super forwardness, charisma stuff is for night game.
/r/seduction30/08/13 08:15 AM
4

I had a girl who asked a lot of really lame interview questions but she was obviously interested. I've had a girl who sucked at conversation, so she resorted to being very blunt with her questions. And I've had girls that were disinterested but could carry a conversation. If you are attentive enough you should be able to tell the differences. Although, I do have suspicions that I may be a natural at this shit, but then again, I think everyone discovers they're a natural at some point. That's for…
/r/seduction30/08/13 08:09 AM
0

No one needs to be big. He does if because he wants to. And he's hitting puberty so this is actually the optimal time to be lifting.
/r/seduction18/08/13 12:57 PM
0

Lol, no worries, I got my own life. But when he was born I vowed to make him better than me.
/r/seduction16/08/13 07:24 AM
5

Just teach him what you know. Fuck the books. I have a little brother who just turned 12 and I teach him about the mindsets and other intricacies about human behaviour that we discuss in these forums. That lil dude pretty much runs his school, he knows everyone and the little girls are all over him. And I got him lifting every now and then, so high school is gonna be awesome for him. I'm rambling but dammit, I'm just so proud of him. sniff
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:24 PM
5

Japanegro here. Bitches love my face. And black chicks LOVED my hair when it was long.
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:14 PM
1

I've really gotten my shit together over the past couple years and I've ended up hurting people's feelings while joking around. Maybe they see u as high status, that's why it hurt them. No one likes to be talked down to by a superior. Edit: Just reread ur comment, I think u already knew this. I guess if you keep the joking Alpha vs. Alpha and Beta Vs Beta then nobody really gets hurt. That's pretty much how it goes. U can tell when someone is gonna be bothered with certain types of jokes.
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:07 PM
1

As long as they don't see u as beneath them, ur good. Like if some peasant tried to fuck with a king. King doesn't really give a shit about the peasant, but if he speaks up against him, he's gonna put him in his place.
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:02 PM
1

It's not as bad as it sounds. We are all men, so when we poke fun at eachothers insecurities, we bounce back instantly. But it's always funny seeing the look on their face when you just roasted the shit out of your friend. We've always got ridiculous amounts of positivity between us.
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:32 PM
2

This sarcasm?
/r/seduction15/08/13 05:52 AM
1

U got a strange sense of humor. I couldn't pull that shit off.
/r/seduction15/08/13 05:36 AM
10

I actually used to be this guy. My friends would talk shit and because I legitimately did not give a fuck, I didn't respond. THAT was my mistake. U gotta make it seem like you don't take other people's shit. At this point in my relationship with said friends, I will pretty much always talk shit back and in some cases can actually make them feel insecure. Make it so that they know if they fuck with you, they should expect to be fucked with.
/r/seduction15/08/13 05:35 AM
2

I assume that part of the reason you felt awkward with your hand on her shoulder is because that probably didn't match the situation and felt (probably was) very forced. When do you see people put their hand on someone's shoulder? Typically when they are greeting or consoling them. Not when they're having fun. Next time try grabbing around the waist or something a little intimate. I know people say make it seem like you have to kino real subtly, but if you've already got a flirty vibe, it's okay…
/r/seduction10/08/13 12:30 PM
10

When someone has the attention of the group, don't try to one up him cuz you'll look like a dumbass. I would just match his energy and we would both just be two cool motherfuckers in the group. Kinda like when someone tells a good joke and a second person adds to it. Makes them both seem funny. But when someone tells a good joke and the second tries to one up him, he looks stupid.
/r/seduction01/08/13 06:04 AM
27

Don't let it happen again.
/r/seduction26/07/13 08:13 AM
2

This is just bad. You sound like you're trying too hard and trying to be some funny, jokey guy that you just aren't. All your moves are painfully incongruent. I assume you're in the beginning phases where you're just testing out some of the shit you learned here. I've gone thru this, so I'm sure you'll eventually figure out your style.
/r/seduction21/07/13 01:08 PM
0

Stand between her and the friends so she can't see their judging eyes. She should react based on however she feels.
/r/seduction20/07/13 11:10 AM
3

The fact that pussy will make men do strange things. Why are you asking stupid questions?
/r/seduction07/07/13 01:40 PM
2

Pretty much, but there's some truth to it.
/r/seduction07/07/13 12:45 PM
0

The second pickup sounded fun as HELL. I always wanted to try that "you're done in this town!" line. Too funny.
/r/seduction07/07/13 08:51 AM
1

That pickup was pretty lame. Here's a note: Practice projecting your voice. I've found it pretty useful. The only reason I mention that is because she replied with "what?" to your opener and I remember someone saying that you should always be speaking clearly enough so that she never makes you repeat yourself. I'm not saying that's gonna fix all your problems, but it's a useful nugget of information.
/r/seduction07/07/13 08:30 AM
11

Yeah, those are the best ones. Humping away wondering when it will be over so you can roll off her, go home and watch cartoons.
/r/seduction07/07/13 07:42 AM
0

Woah. This is too true. Crazy how we can self-analyze like that. This is all subconscious, and we pretty much all take part in it, but don't even notice.
/r/seduction07/07/13 07:09 AM
1

Ok, but should I still say thank you to every compliment I get?
/r/seduction02/07/13 09:26 AM
0

I see what's going on here. You're one of the newbies! Here's what gave it away: -You actually take what the pickup "gurus" say seriously, like they make the rules or some shit. -You said something along the lines of "When was that ever a rule?" In response to my "generalization comment". Which implies you don't practice pickup enough to have established your own rules. -Last but not least, you said derp. I don't even know what the fuck you're complaining about anymore, but it's fun to watch you…
/r/seduction02/07/13 08:41 AM
0

it's kind of ironic that you say "Don't ever use generals", and you're generalising that, You're getting nitpicky. Don't act stupid and pretend you don't know what I mean. that's not what I said. Proper does not mean "Definitively" The word "proper" implies that any other way is wrong. You said nothing to disprove my point. I'm done with you. Go away.
/r/seduction02/07/13 07:53 AM
1

So, whenever someone compliments me I HAVE to say "thank you"? You know that's wrong, I don't even have to explain why, you're just mad I called you out on it.
/r/seduction02/07/13 07:31 AM
1

Did you get the number or did she?
/r/seduction02/07/13 07:06 AM
4

True, I think my traps is where my game comes from.
/r/seduction02/07/13 06:48 AM
0

Nigga that's a life lesson! If anyone ever says never do this or always do that, then they're probably not too smart. No offense.
/r/seduction02/07/13 06:40 AM
2

It may have been the "token rejection". Which is what girls do because they are taught that they are like prizes to be won and shouldn't give up Da Booty too easily, so they say it but might not mean it. Funny thing is, that may be the optimal time to push your luck. But typically they'll make it easy for you and say it in a tone where you're not supposed to take her seriously. But you were drunk and the fact that you're wondering about it is like your subconscious telling you that you fucked up…
/r/seduction02/07/13 06:35 AM
3

I feel like refusing to give up your number wastes both of your time. Because of course she's gonna act like she wants to call you in order to avoid looking like a bitch. Be honest, have you ever called them or even got a Day 2 out of it?
/r/seduction02/07/13 06:23 AM
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Don't speak in generals. Especially with game.
/r/seduction02/07/13 06:17 AM
-1

Some may not agree with me, but I think this format should be a thing for outer-game posts. Put the...uh...move?... In the title. I'd like to see more outer game in this sub. I won't be using OP's approach but I like how he wrote this shit.
/r/seduction02/07/13 03:33 AM
3

Nothing fancy, just a fade with a size 4 razor on top. http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_RN5ErZkAEKI/S_2PE9bvvVI/AAAAAAAAABU/FVrTYrUAQ4U/s1600/tahj.jpg
/r/seduction02/07/13 03:22 AM
1

Haha, if she comes back, I'm definitely gettin dem numbas tho and your username made me laugh as well.
/r/seduction02/07/13 03:19 AM
1

Haha. I plan to. Gay pride parade is tomorrow. Women galore!
/r/seduction30/06/13 08:35 AM
3

What the fuck man! A third chick came in tryna flirt! She wasn't as cute, she was nice tho.The fuck is going on tonight? Divine intervention!? But I'm not tryna get into a relationship. Imma just go for a friends w/benefits thing with that one chick.
/r/seduction30/06/13 06:38 AM
6

You know what's fuckin hilarious? This whole story happened about 30 minutes ago and just now another chick who came in earlier, came back to ask me out. I think my new haircut is working...
/r/seduction30/06/13 06:24 AM
8

Sounds good to me. But these are obviously not 100% true 100% of the time. I also think this mostly applies to higher value women. The women who look good, got their shit together and know they have options.
/r/seduction16/06/13 06:40 AM
6

That shit cray. Good luck with all that.
/r/seduction09/06/13 10:19 AM
1

I second that. I ain't reading this shit!!!
/r/seduction27/05/13 10:55 AM
1

I don't get your point but that was entertaining.
/r/seduction25/05/13 06:51 AM
1

I would say "Sup gangstas. What are we doing?" But imagine a sexy ass Japanegro dude saying it.
/r/seduction25/05/13 06:34 AM
1

You're right, but OP is not asking for honesty. It's all hypothetical.
/r/seduction25/05/13 06:31 AM
7

You got that from rsd right?
/r/seduction12/05/13 06:29 AM
1

There really is a certain level of experience you need to pull some shit off. Don't tell him to ignore the vibe and just go for it, he doesn't even know how to kino, how the hell could he successfully kiss a chick? I guess if he wants to get the reference and do something he knows he would fuck up, he could go for it. Otherwise, its stupid.
/r/seduction09/05/13 02:18 PM
3

Don't listen to that guy, you're not at that level yet.
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:54 AM
37

This. It's because they are never forced to get over it. Most women have zero game. At best they walk up to their target, start a conversation, then wait for the man to take over and make everything happen. This is so hilariously true. I've had it happen a couple times. It took me a while to realize that girls actually do this. A lot of the time they will resort to being SUPER fucking blunt about they're intentions. She could be a normal cool chick, but if she approaches, she will be just as cre…
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:20 AM
1

I know this now. I made that mistake a while back. I guess it was a good thing.
/r/seduction13/04/13 07:53 AM
1

Well, I wasn't trying to fuck his shit up, but that works too.
/r/seduction13/04/13 07:33 AM
1

Sure, I did. But it was because of the over-excited fuckers that pushed the "BE ALPHA" mentality. It's all good now tho. Plus, the guy I replied to pretty much suggested to ignore the vibe she was giving him.
/r/seduction13/04/13 07:22 AM
4

Ever considered that maybe getting sexual thru texts was the problem. She could've assigned any tone she wanted to whatever you wrote, especially because she never got to talk to you. Maybe it wasn't your fault... Well, it kinda was.
/r/seduction13/04/13 07:18 AM
4

I don't even watch Archer, but I'm very aware of the Danger Zone.
/r/seduction13/04/13 07:04 AM
1

She could just be fucking with you. I sometimes like to flirt with girls who like me but I don't like them back. I know it's fucked up.Anyway, just throwing that out there. Does she ever flirt with you?
/r/seduction13/04/13 06:38 AM
1

Don't tell him to be random! When I started trying this PUA shit out, I kept seeing people say "Stop being a bitch and just go for it". That fucked up some potential dates for me, because I actually listened to them and ignored whatever vibe she was giving me and tried to escalate.
/r/seduction13/04/13 06:32 AM
3

Motion creates emotion. Move a lot, do whatever you would do if you felt really good and you just might trick yourself into feeling good. Try clapping your hands, jumping around with your hands in the air or my personal favorite, The Air Hump dance.
/r/seduction13/04/13 06:06 AM
2

That's crazy, I had the same "Ah Ha Moment" as you. I've had a lot of girls approach me and one actually said "How come it took you so long to bang me". I've even noticed other guys watching me and comment on my "game" before I even heard of the pickup world. While trying to implement the game into my daily interactions it didn't feel right, I still do some of it but apparently I had it all along. Feels good man. I'm still experimenting with different techniques tho.
/r/seduction13/04/13 05:47 AM
12

Op's theme song https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XV5mi2hqKAw&feature=youtube_gdata_player
/r/seduction07/04/13 04:36 AM
1

I agree that she is trying to keep her options open, but hittin it could still be an option. I know if a girl was doing this with me, I would escalate.
/r/seduction06/04/13 12:28 PM
3

This actually works. I had just got a German Shepherd puppy, brought him to a PetsMart and the bitches flocked.
/r/seduction30/03/13 08:38 AM
0

I just read your blog. You are a smart dude. How long u been doing this?
/r/seduction30/03/13 07:29 AM
3

Maybe you're just going to the strip club too much.
/r/seduction30/03/13 05:53 AM
7

Agreed. I can tell just by the way he types, he's not gonna get anywhere with her.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:03 AM
1

You know what, I'm drunk and tired and I just read over everything. I'm on your side. But then again, I've been in his situation and picking up chicks is kinda hard when you live with parents and you're broke with no car. You compared him to you friend with ED, who I assume has the tools to get the girl and after that its up to chance to decide if his dick will work. Their situations are not the same. All I'm saying is, OP's logistics are fucked and confidence is hardly the issue.
/r/seduction24/03/13 09:01 AM
1

Bro, I know you're really passionate about pickup but you don't have to go all out with every chick. Maybe he cares about what his mom thinks. I don't think that's a confidence problem. Matter of fact, none of the things you mentioned are even confidence problems.
/r/seduction24/03/13 07:16 AM
8

He's asking about logistics and you tell him to take a dance class...
/r/seduction24/03/13 04:57 AM
1

I've learned that gaming in school should be taken slowly. It's hard to kino and flirt sexually in class, especially in college. I would suggest that you talk to her whenever you can. Be her friend at first, but get your car and other logistics in check ASAP. Keep her on a leash until you get your shit together. If she's the one staring, I don't think the attraction is gonna fizzle out to quickly.
/r/seduction24/03/13 04:53 AM
2

Well if the main objective is a k-close, I would like to remind you to do kino and lots of eye contact. Pretty basic shit, I know, but very fuckin important. I've never gotten an insta-date so I'm just gonna leave that alone.
/r/seduction22/03/13 09:19 PM
3

Well, you sir, definitely give a lot of fucks. You came prepared. What is the end game to these interactions. Numbers, fucking, nice conversation?
/r/seduction22/03/13 08:45 PM
2

This makes me respect the PUAs who can get same-night-lays so much more. They can create that attraction and investment in just a few hours.
/r/seduction10/03/13 07:04 AM
9

A lot of the time, corny jokes work. Keeps the convo light-hearted.
/r/seduction10/03/13 06:31 AM
1

Keep in mind that you don't need to get to some master level in order to get laid. You can get laid right now. There's always some girl who's DTF. Go out enough and stay confident and you will realize you never needed game. Game is for getting "top of the shelf pussy", even though you're not supposed to put the pussy on the pedestal.
/r/seduction09/03/13 08:52 AM
1

Any sexual tension you make should be made in that classroom. Eye contact, kino,all that fun shit. Walking and gaming is fucking hard! At least for me.
/r/seduction13/02/13 08:00 PM
6

TL;DR: Keep soft eye contacts. Or wear glasses. No, but seriously. I forgot about this rule when I was talking to some chick. I walked her to class, had a good interaction but due to us walking I couldn't hold good eye contact. Left the conversation feeling good, but something was missing. Twas the eyes.
/r/seduction13/02/13 07:50 PM
8

That elbow is looking mighty sexy...
/r/seduction12/02/13 08:10 PM
85

I tried, I can't. My biceps are too huge!!!!
/r/seduction12/02/13 08:00 PM
-1

Go to /r/askseddit
/r/seduction10/02/13 07:17 AM
6

I heard somewhere that when you start making excuses not to do something, that's just your brain being lazy and trying to find the bitch-ass easy way out. So, yes, your brain is an asshole.
/r/seduction10/02/13 06:42 AM
1

I don't think the point is to put down the game. The title sounds harsh but its actually just reinforcing the abundance mentality and confidence rules we have here.
/r/seduction10/02/13 06:23 AM
5

My mother was a Jap and my dad was a Negro. They fucked.
/r/seduction10/02/13 06:20 AM
1

So you're saying its bullshit because noobs should discover this on their own?
/r/seduction10/02/13 06:02 AM
5

This is the greatest article I've ever read. Everything in it is true. I knew pretty much all of it already but never worded in a way that I could remember. NEWBIES SHOULD SAVE THIS SHIT
/r/seduction10/02/13 06:00 AM
4

Hot babe 5, Hot babe 6. Read the sidebar for acronym explanations.
/r/seduction05/02/13 03:17 AM
2

I would like to add that even if you don't have the best conversational skills, as long as you're listening, it's fairly easy to hold a convo. If there is ever a momentary silence don't think of it as a bad thing because it's not. I heard someone say once that it's a beautiful thing when two people can shut the fuck up together instead of trying to fill up the silence with their talking, or something like that. The point is, awkward silences are only awkward if you think they are. Plus, if you l…
/r/seduction05/02/13 03:15 AM
1

The title doesn't match with what you're asking. First of all, I wouldn't turn my game "off". Seduction is useful in any situation. But that's irrelevant to the real question you're asking, which is how to focus. ...I don't have an answer to that...
/r/seduction04/02/13 08:35 PM
6

I think you need work, but you know that. You're learning from your mistakes and that's all that really matters. Don't stop trying, my dude.
/r/seduction04/02/13 08:31 PM
1

If you like her- "Awesome, I'm down. What do u have in mind." If you don't like her- "That's sweet, but I would rather stay friends."
/r/seduction03/02/13 10:50 AM
0

Very cool, very cool.
/r/seduction03/02/13 10:47 AM
1

As a japanegro, me and my family call eachother kokujin all the time.
/r/seduction03/02/13 10:37 AM
-3

This is a pretty pointless comment. Use your common sense dude. Who the fuck doesn't know this and why were u upvoted?
/r/seduction01/02/13 09:19 AM
10

This dude is actually right. I don't know if you guys have actually had one of those moments where u just stare into a girl's eyes and you can just tell what she's thinking or feeling. Words aren't even needed, the shit is crazy.
/r/seduction25/01/13 12:18 PM
-5

Fuck you, I do what I want.
/r/seduction10/01/13 12:19 PM
2

I'm on my phone using the Reddit Is Fun app and having no problems.
/r/seduction14/12/12 03:16 AM
15

Good shit. I love the game, it makes me happy. This makes me happy.
/r/seduction06/12/12 10:31 AM
6

That last part was graphic.
/r/seduction21/11/12 09:03 AM
11

I can confirm that younger girls make the most obvious shit-tests. It's really fukkin hilarious to watch. Had a chick that I didn't really want and she keeps saying that she found an older guy that she would do anything for that she wouldn't do for anyone else. Obviously, she wanted the D.
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:13 AM
2

You say that you have problems dominating a 4+ person convo? Well, if ur trying to pick up a girl from the group it should be best to isolate her and let the other three talk amongst themselves. I don't remember the guy's name who said this but he has a show on YouTube that talks about the psychology of seduction and it is very easy to isolate 1 person out of a group of 4 or more because the other 3 will talk to each other and leave u two alone. Keep in mind that I did not explain this well at a…
/r/seduction30/09/12 02:20 AM
1

And who did it belong to?
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:32 AM
1

I think posture and muscles help make a good, manly first impression. I've recently started working out pretty hard and I've always been conscious of my posture being straight. So I think I carry myself well. And this past week I've met some people, men included, (makes me feel kinda gay to think about) but the men seem to instantly respect me. I'm not used to that, so I blame my looks.
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:30 AM
11

Haha, I'm 19. So many of us.
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:19 AM
4

Haha, the kool-aid and climbing trees line is from Cajun, isn't it?
/r/seduction02/09/12 09:32 PM
1

No one has actually given u advice on how to dance yet so here is my very small contribution: Girls where I'm from are usually expected to grind by doing a quick circle with her hips and dropping it to the beat. Sometimes when she's a little more frisky she will bend down, touch the floor with her hands, raise her leg for u to grab and put around ur waist as she grinds. That particular move happens on occasion. You are usually expected to do the circle/hip-drop thing. Haha
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:52 AM
2

Listen to this man!!! Putting yourself in uncomfortable and new situations can really help u grow and learn. And stop psyching urself out thinking that some girl is "too hot", she's a human being that poops in toilets, does stupid shit and bleeds from her disgusting vagina, she's not all that, haha.
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:43 AM
2

Kinda like noserape! Psst, It's relevant cause It's Neil Strauss. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8IXDii5FZ3s&feature=youtube_gdata_player
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:26 AM
2

Apparently I'm a natural at gaming chicks. My main downfall is my approach anxiety.
/r/seduction02/09/12 02:21 AM
1

When she said "see u around" you should've said "how about later this week?". But with this info, I'm not sure whether or not she's interested. U haven't told us whether or not it was just casual conversation or were u actually flirting. But, if I were u, I would text her. Because when I'm in the gym I like to actually workout. And if I'm interested in this girl I would just hit her up instead of waiting to see her at the gym to talk and plus I don't want my workout buddy waiting on me to talk t…
/r/seduction01/09/12 06:17 AM
20

Fuck, that sucks. But my advice is to go thru everything in the sidebar, especially checkout the inner-game articles and whatnot. Good luck bro
/r/seduction01/09/12 06:04 AM
4

TL;DR anyone?
/r/seduction31/08/12 08:27 AM
1

I assume the whole AIDS joke was you trying to deflect a possible shit-test, but sometimes, I think it's okay to answer an alleged shit-test truthfully (especially since she thought u were gay). Also: Keep us updated.
/r/seduction29/08/12 06:53 AM
5

And fappin with your laptop. #PORNO
/r/seduction29/08/12 06:41 AM
-1

Meh, fair enough.
/r/seduction28/08/12 09:15 AM
2

Nigga, take yo ass ova to /r/askseddit. Dafuq u think dis is? U high as fuck, startin' question threads and shit.
/r/seduction28/08/12 08:29 AM
1

That is pretty much what she just said.
/r/seduction28/08/12 08:09 AM
1

I need a list of those skills he mentions. Like the handwriting thingy. I'm genuinely interested in learning one.
/r/seduction25/08/12 07:48 PM
2

"Black/Filippino" A fellow blasian!!! Awesome FR by the way.
/r/seduction23/08/12 08:21 AM
7

Before I started reading r/seduction I used to use negging all the time. Worked for me and I wasn't even conscious of it, they were just jokes.
/r/seduction18/08/12 05:03 AM
2

You: Hi. Girl: Hi You: Are you doing anything later? Girl: Maybe, why? You: Would you like to come home with me? Now don't say SHIT!!! HOLD THE LINE, and wait for her response. If she says no, just continue building attraction and comfort from there.
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:54 AM
2

I'm in L.A right now with my family and I've considered running game in front of them. This may have been the push I needed.
/r/seduction15/08/12 03:52 AM
1

You didn't sound like a douche, it was obviously a joke. Your friend scoffed because she was jealous. Overall, nice pickup.
/r/seduction14/08/12 12:15 AM
1

I'm a half-black guy that fuckin loves white girls, so maybe It's the same for black chicks. Plus, theirs this theory in the black community that white dudes don't like black girls, so she could've been super excited, lol.
/r/seduction13/08/12 07:42 AM
0

Slide her the phone and say, "Hey, I don't wanna get you in trouble or anything, but put your number in here real quick." Disclaimer: I just started here and am by no means a PUA.
/r/seduction13/08/12 07:26 AM
9

"Life's a competition, and if he wants to try to outgay me he's going to have a sore ass tomorrow" I like this line.
/r/seduction12/08/12 01:25 AM
5

Same with me. I guess for us It's more like; Step 1: Be attractive, Step 2: Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction11/08/12 09:26 AM
-3

I disagree, guys are just sluttier. Not much to know about us.
/r/seduction11/08/12 09:15 AM
1

I think if you're a somewhat confident girl, you should be fine. Dudes are easy to please.
/r/seduction11/08/12 08:23 AM
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