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Me: Turned 39 last week. 12 yr wedding anniversary last week. 2 toddlers, 5 and 3. Alpha>drunk captain>beta husband - working on getting back. Observations: Last week I got some great advice on SFTU vs Rambo, and toned my attitude down to STFU. I think it worked, and I was definitely tested on it. Some sexual frustrations this week that are entirely my fault, will discuss later. Also, need advice on a drinking/social situation. Successes: STFU. There were a couple of potentially anger inducing/f…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 06:51 PM
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First time OYS. Link to my askmrp thread that got me here: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8ba2wh/how_the_f_did_i_end_up_a_married_beta_having/ Physical: Added more upper body lifting and boxing/heavy bag training to my workout routine. Pushing my boundaries with cycling, upping my average mileage per week to 125 @ ~20mph. Crushing my legs every time I go out. I've lost at least an inch off of my waist since I posted in askmrp and have been getting tons of compliments on my upper body. …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 02:56 PM
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First time OYS. Link to my askmrp thread that got me here: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8ba2wh/how_the_f_did_i_end_up_a_married_beta_having/ Physical: Added more upper body lifting and boxing/heavy bag training to my workout routine. Pushing my boundaries with cycling, upping my average mileage per week to 125 @ ~20mph. Crushing my legs every time I go out. I've lost at least an inch off of my waist since I posted in askmrp and have been getting tons of compliments on my upper body. …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 02:15 PM
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Here's where i'm at today. Lemme know if i'm missing the point. Regardless of which approach is right, I need to get my shit together. So i'm gonna get my head back on straight and let the rest of the pieces fall where they may. I hope she comes around, and it would be great if she does. But, I need to make sure i'm independent enough to stand on my own, and desirable enough to magnetize people. This needs to happen independent of my relationship, it's about me.
/r/askMRP11/04/18 05:40 PM
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Naah, not a troll. Wish I was, tbh. Sometimes this shit sneaks up on you without you seeing what's happening. I have no idea how I got here. I see it's me though. And I can change me. So that's good news.
/r/askMRP11/04/18 05:27 PM
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Loud and clear. I was weak. Cut me some slack. I'm a quick study though. Sometimes you need a smack in the face though. thanks.
/r/askMRP11/04/18 05:25 PM
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Wow. Can't thank you enough for this. It all makes perfect sense, and there's a lot to absorb in there. A lot of stuff i'm not sure how to reply to yet. To quickly address your questions/points that I can: I have a little bit of bf% to lose, but that will come as the weather warms. Hard to cycle and run as much as I want in the winter. Expect to be 195(ish) by mid summer. My cycling will go from 30 to 125 miles per week. Working on correcting the diet and beer consumption as we speak. Just bough…
/r/askMRP11/04/18 05:21 PM
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Yeah. Ok. that makes sense. That is/was one of my fears every time the conversations started. It turned starfish sex into pity sex, and what the fuck do I want that for? The few times I knew it was pity sex, it was the worst. That's why I'm here. There's still a part of me that just wants to sit her down and look her in the eye and ask her what the fuck her problem is. I mean if there's really an actual problem, I would love to know what it is.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 07:44 PM
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Really appreciate the reply. See, I thought denying obviously lazy starfish sex was the right move at the time, But I absolutely get what you're saying. I just started getting familiar with the covert contract stuff. But I already see how it applies here. I need to read up a bit more on the caveman stuff, and figure out how to apply it with the infrequency we have sex. Starting reading your links now, will proceed with the full on sidebar as I get to it. I picked rational male first because of t…
/r/askMRP10/04/18 07:40 PM
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I'm a slow triathlete. I definitely don't show up and expect to place or win. I actually hate running and swimming, but do it to stay in shape. I'm a good cyclist though, I think the leg strength comes from playing ice hockey my entire childhood. I noted it because physical strength and being in shape are always mentioned as a core part of the everything here.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 07:32 PM
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Thanks. I appreciate this advice. I've tried, and will again. You're right, communication with her is paramount. This has been a struggle though, and in the past, every time i've brought this stuff up, she's taken it personally and shut down. Now that i'm thinking back, the conversation has never actually yielded a solution or even a definite problem Her basic excuses revolve around being tired, worried about the kids seeing/hearing us, and being stressed about work/life. If
/r/askMRP10/04/18 06:46 PM
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