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Hey, something I can help with. I could buy a really nice car with what I've spent on Disney cruises, and just debarked this past Saturday. Here are some miscellaneous tips. The service from every staff member on the ship will make this time the closest you'll ever feel to royalty. No one tops Disney in this regard. Enjoy it. Order dinner for everyone. Get three of the appetizers if it looks good. Just live it up in general. Go ahead and be your family's cruise director, it's a great opportunity…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 01:33 AM
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Have you read NMMNG? Given that you're readily able to recognize your own fear of abandonment, there is a lot in there that would resonate with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 12:02 PM
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Noob to lifting here, and when I read this line: When I see guys working out for cosmetic reasons, I see vanity exposing them in the worst way ... my brain immediately said, "Wait, I'm lifting so I look better so my wife will fuck me, right?" I know that's not the case, but I obviously still haven't internalized it yet. Great read, bookmarked for when I need a reminder.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 05:49 PM
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My searches initially brought me to the same conclusion - but I don't think that's it. I can get very low (almost ATG) in a goblet squat or (slightly more difficult) with no weight. I feel like it's either balance or a mental hurdle - or something else I'm not thinking of. I have had a trainer try and help me and while he recognizes the problem, I don't think he knows enough to help me fix it. I need to quit fucking around a post a video.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 02:56 PM
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make sure your diet is in order and you getting enough protein I feel like I finally have this in check. I'm shooting for ~1g/lb LBM which is about 200g per day for me. I'm carefully tracking so I'm comfortable I'm getting it. switch your stalled lift with a volume program [...] Thanks for the detail here. I'll follow the SL protocol until I get frustrated with the stall, and then give this a shot. It clearly worked for you. I feel like you are coming from a introspective life and realizing that…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 12:34 AM
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Bench: 295 Damn. I'm a newb to lifting, but isn't this out of proportion with your other lifts? Not criticizing, I am just curious if you emphasized your bench on purpose, or if there's another reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 12:42 PM
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Thanks for this post, it is good timing for me. I started very close to where you did, just much later. About 3.5 months ago, I was 305#. I'm down to 280 now, losing steadily. I fucked around for a while finding the right diet, but have found that IF works very well for me. I can't exactly call it Leangains, but that's where I got most of my information. Hearing your current weight is encouraging. I just finished my 9th week of SL, without missing a single day. That's a pretty big accomplishment…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 03:02 AM
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Her SMV is declining, every moment. Your SMV can only go up, for the next decade or two. Thanks for the succinct reminder. Just got back from the gym, sore as fuck, shins bleeding, and I needed this. Start throwing away clutter without asking. Start fixing all the shit that needs to be fixed, and don't call attention to yourself for doing it. Just do it. And now I know what I'm doing this weekend while the in-laws are here.
/r/askMRP06/05/16 04:15 PM
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This is the correct answer, and it's refreshing to see some realistic responses that mention calorie consumption. I have done keto myself, and while it has advantages, you cannot eat as much as you want that is low carb. Which is what you'll often hear people on /r/keto say you can do.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 03:38 AM
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It sounds like you're doing more cardio than I am, and also running a larger calorie deficit. I have hesitated to do both thinking that it will set back my gainz. I don't know if that's true or not... there is way too much info out there to digest and it's overwhelming to come up with a plan. Keto has worked for me in the past too, but again, I've read that it could be counterproductive. I am not avoiding carbs entirely like on Keto, but do stay away from bread and pasta, which are a vice for me…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/16 03:53 PM
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Of all the posts I've read here, yours hits closest to home. "Affair" and all. Thanks for taking the time to write it out. One question: how in the fuck did you drop weight so fast? I am not quite as heavy as when you started, but am having a very difficult time moving the scale since I started lifting. I am 6'4", started at about 305. After 2 weeks of dieting and 4 more of lifting and dieting, I've been stalled at 290 for 3 weeks now. I'm very curious to hear what's working for you, if you'd be…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/16 07:51 PM
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Fellow fat fuck here, about 2 months ahead of you. Still a newb myself so I'll be nicer than the vets. I'll give you some concrete steps instead of hand waving. Listen to these guys and go lift. Go to the Stronglifts 5x5 website and ingest that for a few days. Schedule those 3 days a week ahead of time so you don't have any bullshit excuses. If you've never lifted before (I hadn't), and have some money to blow, hire a trainer to get started so you don't fuck your body up and waste your time. Squ…
/r/askMRP15/04/16 12:28 PM
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Make sure you get plenty of quality protein. I am a Premier Protein kind of guy, one scoop a day, but any good protein will work. I'm doing 2 scoops most days, sometimes 3. I am finding it very hard to hit my daily protein and wouldn't be able to without it. Initiating right before sleep is probably the worst thing you can do and can expect a high level of rejection. This is particularly the case with a wife who loves to sleep. Our work schedules make this difficult but I work it in the morning …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/16 08:07 PM
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Owning: Workout/Diet: Never lifted for real in my life, now in my fourth week of SL 5x5 and loving it. I am disappointed when I wake up and it's a rest day. Tracking calories and trying to hit macros. Lots of weight to lose and am hoping to find a good balance where I can burn the fat and still build muscle. Now if I could just get that squat form down. Alcohol: Drinking has been an issue my entire adult life. Late last year I took a one month break and considered going sober. I decided to try a…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 06:26 PM
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I use unsweetened vanilla almond milk. 30 calories per cup, basically no carbs.
/r/askMRP11/04/16 10:25 PM
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know about youporn, right? All too well. pain and difficulty in maintaining OI in the face of rejection comes mostly from the fact that your wife does not desire you, not because you want sex Sitting at my computer now, I can make sense of this. In the moment, it's much more difficult. You've given me something to ponder. Thanks again for the input.
/r/askMRP11/04/16 07:44 PM
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Thank you for the reply. You are correct that I have an issue with validation. But in this instance, I am referring specifically to OI from rejection of sex. When I want sex it doesn't seem like I'm looking for validation, I just want to fuck. Maybe the two are related - but I am not seeing it. If that's the case, where can I learn more? Something in the sidebar I haven't gotten to yet?
/r/askMRP10/04/16 08:50 PM
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Married 15 years, DB issues started happening almost from the get go and I ignored the symptoms. I have tried every-fucking-thing. Talking, pleading, whining, choreplay, kissing her ass, suggesting therapy, buying books, the whole fucking 9 yards. I stumbled on MRP a couple years ago and stayed for a while, though it didn't stick. Some other shit has come to a head late in 2015, I wound up back on DB, and wandered in MRP again. Exactly two months ago, after spending two days reading the sidebar …
/r/askMRP07/04/16 10:37 PM
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