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| 1 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.But the original post did say it was their (the person without the crush's) responsibility to create, maintain, and enforce a boundary. How is that not saying they have the responsibility? (at the end of the day, if you truly have no interest in being with someone, the healthy way is to draw a very strict boundary and enforce it. And if needed, avoid that person entirely if they refuse to respect that boundary. Even if someone is cool and can take being rejected and remain friends anyway, it doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 04:14 AM |
| 2 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.Exactly-- depending on your level of maturity. I'm not saying It's wrong to take a break, but obviously everyone is different. So it makes no sense for the person without the crush to be responsible for deciding if the friendship should be over, if the other person needs time, if so how much time. At that point they're just guessing. Not disagreeing that it can be unhealthy, but that looks differently for different people, so the person being affected should be in charge of deciding how things s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 02:59 PM |
| 4 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.this is stupid. You're an adult (I assume). If you're in love with them and can't handle being just friends, then YOU break things off. Believe it or not, some people can have a crush but still be okay with just being friends. Thus the decision should be made by the person who has an issue with it. Not a blanket rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 09:16 PM |
| 2 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.I agree with a good amount of what you're saying but confused to why the onus is on the person with no interest to draw the boundary. If I confess to liking a good friend, I don't want them to cut me out just because they don't like me back. As long as everyone is an adult, it should be your responsibility to set your own boundaries. If you're giving a girl flowers and gifts after she said she doesn't like you, that's on you. She's not forcing you to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 09:12 PM |
| 12 | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.Ah, so men are ruled by their emotions when it comes to this stuff, whereas women can analyze things rationally for an ideal outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:18 AM |
| 2 | What is Creepiness?Going to someplace like a club might be a solution for this kind of thing. In clubs the default expectation is socialization, so it might be a little easier to find friends there. (I mean like video game club, knitting club etc., not like party club) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | if you're a fake dishonest woman you can't complain about fake dishonest menYou have the patience of a saint, my friend. OP is not in a place to appreciate your efforts to bring him to a mindset more grounded in reality, so I will appreciate you for him. I hope OP gets well soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 05:40 PM |
| 7 | Why do women gas up unattractive/ugly women?I know a lot of red-pillers don't have this experience, but a lot of times when you really care for someone, you can't help but see them in their best light. And not just with who you wanna fuck. My friends are great. When I look at them, all that affection changes how I view them. Maybe other people would find them unattractive. But I have so much love for them I can't see that anymore, they're just associated with happiness to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that the female sex drive is as high as the male sex drive on average?While I don’t disagree, the evidence you mentioned is still just correlational. The only way to prove causation is with experiments. The example you mentioned (a doctor treating women with hypoactive sexual disorder) doesn’t control for placebos, and there could be a third variable or a mediation issue. Eg. Exercising less -> hypoactive sexual disorder Testosterone -> more exercise -> treats hypoactive sexual disorder Again, I don’t disagree, i’m just saying, even a LOT of observational evidence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | What's your minimum requirement in a women for you to date her?So you’re saying you want an “obedient” woman, and then we point out how thats weird, and you act like we’re telling YOU to be obedient? I got some news for you buck... the ideal for a relationship is two equal partners, no one should have to be obedient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 07:14 PM |
| 10 | Relationship questionDefinitely would recommend leaving as soon as you are able to!! Rough stuff is fine, but never out of anger, and only with permission. Just the way you said he talked to you was awful as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/20 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men prefer younger women?No no no. I’m not arguing that men don’t prefer more fertile women. Literally the only thing i’m arguing here is that you said “evolution doesn’t care about which genes get passed on”. How does it work then? You tell me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men prefer younger women?You’re missing my point. My problem is you saying evolution doesn’t care about which genes get passed on. How exactly does evolution work then?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men prefer younger women?So you’re saying evolution is NOT driven by the passing on of successful genes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men prefer younger women?Then why are you saying evolution isn’t concerned with successful offspring???? Selecting for successful offspring is nearly the definition of evolution!! God, take a biology class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men prefer younger women?Evolution selects for genes that continue to be passed on. Your body may do that by looking at markers of fertility, sure, but thats a method evolution uses, not something evolution itself ““looks for””. So yeah, WE might look for fertility, but EVOLUTION is only looking for genes to be passed on. Fertility is just a part of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't men prefer younger women?Uh, no. Evolution is looking for offspring who are successful enough to produce their own offspring. You can be fertile as fuck but if the babies you make end up dying before puberty or are unable to produce their own offspring for some reason, you may as well not have had a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Marriage Is All-Time LowI don’t think this marriage is blue pill— blue pill would have the woman having and abusing the dominant role. This is a situation where the man has the dominant role, and he is abusing it. I agree she should keep some basic red pill ideas about strengthening and improving herself, but for now, not red pill ideas about a woman obeying a man. That is for a better partner | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/19 02:45 AM |
| 41 | Marriage Is All-Time LowGet off Red Pill forums. There is a time and a place for choosing to be a red pill woman, but it is not with a man like that. Get away from him if you can, stop trying to please him, and live your own life for a while. Red pill women is about a relationship style that works well for some couples— it’s about mutual respect for each others strengths and weaknesses. It is NOT sitting down and letting an asshole walk all over you. Try red pill again if you find someone worthy of it. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/19 06:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.I don’t think wanting a low n-count is necessarily bad at all. It’s just a preference. You have every right to politely turn down someone for their n-count. What WOULD be fucked up is judging other people in your life for their n-counts. That’s their personal life, they can do what they want. If you only date 6-foot tall purple haired girls thats your business, but you still don’t get to shit on your short brunette coworkers for not matching your preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Dating these days***Ever heard of punctuation you stupid bitch? | /r/MGTOW | 24/05/19 10:29 PM |
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