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javyd/r/RPChristians07/05/18 02:59 PM
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javyd/r/askMRP28/12/17 01:39 AM
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It's possible she does. However, I haven't noticed anything that would suggest she is. I'll do some research on MRP and askMRP and reread the appropriate section of MMSLP this evening and see if anything stands out.
/r/RPChristians10/05/18 07:22 PM
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You sound like someone who has a mind for the first but your practical reality has been the second. Correct. I've been Christian "red pill aware" for many years, I just hadn't been able to figure out what to do with that knowledge and always fell back on the behaviors I knew. In reality, you need to act like you're single... You've let her run the show for too long. This is the only option at this point. See below for details. This is wonderful! But don't limit it to free counseling. Have him dr…
/r/RPChristians10/05/18 04:01 PM
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cut off her access to the joint bill account The only joint accounts we have are one auto loan, the joint bill account, and her personal spending account (no credit cards besides the one she added me to as an authorized user), so it should be fairly easy to keep my plan under the radar until it's in place. My only issue with the approach in the post you linked is the deception used to get her to change her direct deposit destination. Once I determine how to do it without lying to her, implementi…
/r/RPChristians09/05/18 02:03 PM
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This is the primary spiritual issue my mentor has identified and is working with me on: forgiving others for hurting me when they fail to affirm who I am, which they can't do anyways, and seeking God's forgiveness for not looking to Him alone to affirm who I am.
/r/RPChristians09/05/18 01:44 PM
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This is all excellent advice as well. Thank you. Remove all of the logs from your eyes before going after any of the specks in your wife's eyes. Otherwise, you look like a hypocrite to her. This right here is a big problem for me. I'm not sure I truly know how big the logs in my eyes are, so she probably does see me as a hypocrite. In other words, focus on being excellent at all of your roles and responsibilities as a husband first and foremost. Only then approach her rebellion kindly and gently…
/r/RPChristians08/05/18 01:09 AM
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1 Corinthians 7:12-15 Amen to that. It's a passage I've thought about rather often lately. Have you read No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG) and When I Say No, I Feel Guilty (WISNIFG)? I have read both, as well as MMSLP, but I should probably reread them. Why not rent an office, and work from there? I live close enough to my headquarters that I could make the daily commute without too much of a problem. However, I'd rather not waste 1-2 hours per day in the car if I don't have to. I'll definitely explo…
/r/RPChristians07/05/18 11:41 PM
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What progress have you made since then? I've read NMMNG, and most of WISNIFG, MMSLP, and the RPC sidebar. I've made some, but not nearly enough, progress with STFU and fogging, taking initiative to get things done around the house, interacting with my kids more, and have been blessed to find a Christian mentor who has been helping me deal with some deep-seated spiritual issues. My first inclination here was to ask how you're doing on putting on muscle mass? I'm still at 11-12% body fat and haven…
/r/RPChristians07/05/18 11:35 PM
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Original, unedited post I’m looking for advice as to how to save my marriage. I’m working on leading, but am finding it difficult to overcome being beta my entire life while learning how to lead a Type-A, strong-willed, career-driven, matriarchal/feminist wife. She’s at the point where she wants a divorce, and, despite believing that the Bible forbids it and knowing that it would be terrible for our two girls (3 and 6 years old), I suspect it may be the only way I will no longer need to continue…
/r/askMRP04/01/18 02:24 PM
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The more I think about it and look into it, I suspect it's a nasty combination of depression and low T with masturbation being a non-factor. With this in mind, I'll definitely need to make a doctor's appointment and get this figured out ASAP.
/r/askMRP03/01/18 11:38 PM
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Harsh, but much deserved and helpful.
/r/askMRP29/12/17 03:11 AM
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I can't say I agree that your time was wasted on a much needed wake up call, but to each his own.
/r/askMRP29/12/17 03:10 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/askMRP29/12/17 03:06 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement and the links.
/r/askMRP28/12/17 06:00 PM
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This in combination with what u/derrickhoardlmft said really has me thinking. Thanks.
/r/askMRP28/12/17 01:18 PM
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I have not told her, but I will consider it. She is a physician assistant in a cardiac surgery ICU.
/r/askMRP28/12/17 01:05 PM
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Will do.
/r/askMRP28/12/17 12:54 PM
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