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not to be a "le wrong generation" guy, but saying "ALEXA! Play the Sensual Music Playlist" just doesn't hit the same as putting on a record.
/r/seduction30/10/24 06:31 PM
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She might want to, but generally I think your line of thinking is more correct. The girl might have some songs in mind, but I think she is ideally hoping you set the mood for her by choosing that song or something similar.
/r/seduction30/10/24 06:27 PM
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lol but most RGB lighting looks cheap, I would say that is the one thing on the list that shouldn't be... and I own RGB lighting. It's very hit or miss and I find guys tend to miss with it.
/r/seduction30/10/24 06:22 PM
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It’s like I skip past the friendship stage and dive right into wanting a relationship, which doesn’t feel healthy. I would say it's more unhealthy to think that being friends first is a necessary step.
/r/seduction30/10/24 06:19 PM
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It's mostly in your/their head. If you have to tell people your actual age for them to know, then what difference does it actually make?
/r/seduction29/10/24 06:01 PM
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how did you go about finding the photographer?
/r/seduction22/10/24 06:38 PM
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nj, I think 25 approaches to get 1 good relationship is probably a normal amount, maybe on the high end, but for someone just getting back into it I'd say that sounds about right.
/r/seduction17/10/24 01:01 PM
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because if dating apps worked well there are obvious benefits, yeah you get better results IRL but it's also takes a deliberate effort, whereas dating apps requires just a bit of upfront effort to make a profile and then it's as easy as just taking your phone out of your pocket and making a few taps.
/r/seduction16/10/24 06:44 PM
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Specifically what jargon do you have a problem with? Sarging seems like the only actual pick-up term used.
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:20 PM
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Painted nails are a perfect example, subtle enough not to give "look at me" vibes but definitely will make you stand out.
/r/seduction03/10/24 07:16 PM
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Most women think I'm 26-28. Honestly I think this perception hurts more than it helps. I'm in the same age range and get told I look much younger, why do you think it hurts more than helps?
/r/seduction01/10/24 12:02 PM
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Being rich makes everything easier.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:19 PM
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Over 50% of couples now met through dating apps. nah, divide that figure by 5. One-in-ten partnered adults – meaning those who are married, living with a partner or in a committed romantic relationship – met their current significant other through a dating site or app. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/02/key-findings-about-online-dating-in-the-u-s/
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:18 PM
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how did you have so many options for dates?
/r/seduction24/09/24 05:48 PM
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Based on the second sentence, it's the logistics of getting to a situation where you can approach. It's one thing to just see a girl and approach in your daily routine, but if you have to actively seek out situations to see them then it can be a lot of effort for relatively meager rewards.
/r/seduction22/08/24 04:38 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/seduction01/09/23 11:01 PM
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Just be a normal person and live your life. You do realize that's the reason a lot of guys are here right? They literally were just being "a normal person" and living their life, and it didn't get them girls... Why is this such a hard concept to grasp? Have you always been a natural with women? If not, then you're kind of a hypocrite, but if so, then why are you here?
/r/seduction01/09/23 06:01 PM
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I do think there is something to be said about learning through osmosis, just by observing people who are good at the things you want to be good at, consciously or subconsciously, you'll pick up some stuff.
/r/seduction01/09/23 05:59 PM
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but lying and putting up a fake face to trick people into liking or sleeping with you helps no one. You need to do the real work. Why are you assuming they are doing this?
/r/seduction01/09/23 05:57 PM
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Y’all think too much and chill too little. Ironically this is a massive oversimplification, people that are struggling with this stuff are here precisely because they didn't think enough. If they could get girls without as much of a conscious effort, they wouldn't be here. If you're a natural, then yeah you don't think about it much and you're just chilling, but if you're a natural then you're not gonna be in here...
/r/seduction01/09/23 05:52 PM
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Rizz is one of the few recent slang terms I actually like. :(
/r/seduction21/08/23 07:49 PM
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Yeah, I'm no master of seduction but I went to a girl's apt for a movie night and we were fucking within 20 minutes. If the tinder date is at your place or hers, there is a good chance she's down to clown. I wasn't even trying to get laid, I was mostly just getting bored of watching 500 days of summer so I made a move and yadda yadda yadda.
/r/seduction26/11/16 06:12 AM
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I wouldn't wait until the end but depends what you're doing for the date. She definitely is into you so if you have the chance to make a move, just go for it and she'll probably be cool with it.
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:21 AM
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Hopefully the truck is parked when this occurs. I do know a guy that literally had a ball pit in the back of his truck, it was pretty cool.
/r/seduction24/02/16 01:07 AM
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I feel like disc golf is one of the few sports where getting behind her and guiding her through the motion is actually useful rather than just an obvious kino move. Most girls(and inexperienced players in general) seem to angle the disc too high instead of throwing it level.
/r/seduction27/01/16 05:36 AM
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I could see it being a pretty hot make out sesh after you finish climbing all those abandoned children.
/r/seduction27/01/16 05:32 AM
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Guys I think OP understands that the guy may have reasons for not going for it but there is no harm in what he did. He was just trying to help.
/r/seduction14/08/15 03:32 PM
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F.O.R.D On mobile otherwise I'd double check but it stands for family, occupation(?), recreation(?), and dreams. Easy conversation areas to get the ball rolling.
/r/seduction17/07/15 01:27 PM
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Realizing it later is much better than realizing much later or not all. I cringe thinking back to my younger years realizing I missed so many opportunities.
/r/seduction23/06/15 07:36 PM
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Think of it like the fast food of dating, usually not the optimal choice but it is extremely convenient.
/r/seduction07/04/15 04:41 AM
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Grats OP. Next FR try to include more details so you can use it to improve.
/r/seduction07/04/15 12:51 AM
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Point gun Say "wait" Go for the kiss ??? Jail!
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:13 PM
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You'd think /r/seduction would be familiar with this but judging by the comments, it appears not.
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:08 PM
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Just like the safest form of sex is abstinence. /s
/r/seduction03/04/15 01:14 PM
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It's more like a gradual build up to ease into more sexual territory instead of an excuse to feel up a girl or something.
/r/seduction02/04/15 07:44 PM
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Using your major is a terrible excuse because you shouldn't be limiting yourself like that when there is a campus full of women.
/r/seduction02/04/15 07:39 PM
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No one goes to chipotle for tacos, it's all about the burritos and bowls.
/r/seduction02/04/15 05:28 PM
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Chipotle is a perfect spot for a casual date for two high-schoolers.
/r/seduction02/04/15 03:16 PM
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In my experience in the tinder world: Watching a movie = hooking up
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:43 PM
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Flirting isn't as tough as it seems. Flirting is just teasing with a sexual undertone. I'm sure you and your buddies give each other shit and tease each other, flirting is basically the same idea just applied differently.
/r/seduction20/03/15 07:45 PM
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Not as stupid as a girl and her sister telling him "let's fuck together"
/r/seduction29/01/15 08:39 PM
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Plot twist: she murdered him.
/r/seduction09/10/14 09:33 PM
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How do you usually open?
/r/seduction18/09/14 03:39 PM
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I don't think it requires much elaboration. Try meditating because it helps you clear the clutter for your mind/thoughts.
/r/seduction17/09/14 03:05 PM
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I heard someone put this very succinctly: you just need to be good enough looking that she wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with you. You don't have to be Ryan Gosling, you just can't be a trainwreck.
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:09 PM
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There is literally no risk unless you end up sleeping with them and still haven't figured out that they are underage which is possible but not likely.
/r/seduction16/09/14 03:12 PM
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Making EDM shows the perfect storm.
/r/seduction12/09/14 03:07 PM
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The only extra effort required is writing a sentence on a post-it note and I think the uniqueness would trump any try-hard vibes anyways.
/r/seduction12/09/14 03:06 PM
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It's splitting hairs but essentially he became the life of the party by acting like he was from the start. Sort of like the "fake it til you make it" type of thing.
/r/seduction10/09/14 07:38 PM
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Why do you think she switched teams ;)
/r/seduction05/09/14 07:37 PM
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I wouldn't say it's the opposite. Most would agree never buy her a drink but the rest is just a standard direct opener and believe me it probably has failed many times but usually girls are flattered and not upset if it doesn't work out.
/r/seduction05/09/14 03:31 PM
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It's so true. A bad game can ruin your mood, on the other hand a great game can get you absolutely psyched up. I've transitioned back into CS:GO as my main game as I find it to be just as fun and exponentially less frustrating.
/r/seduction29/08/14 04:13 PM
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Props to you my man. First person on here that I've seen take an entirely different approach on tinder.
/r/seduction29/08/14 04:11 PM
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Imagine the pussy him and bill Clinton could get together. It would make for a great sitcom
/r/seduction24/08/14 09:29 PM
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waste energy on them Treat it as a warm-up/practice. It'll boost your confidence because she'll act totally into you. Just realize she's trying to game you too.
/r/seduction19/08/14 12:36 AM
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It's great that he's here not only to get better with women but for self improvement as it generally is prerequisite to that.
/r/seduction11/08/14 09:24 PM
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Use it as motivation to better yourself with seduction or any aspect of your life, so when you do see her she will regret passing on you the first time.
/r/seduction05/08/14 06:18 PM
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She seemed perfect but you never actually met and interacted with her face to face. One of the first girls I started talking to through tinder seemed perfect until we met. Take everything from tinder with a grain of salt and a bit of healthy skepticism.
/r/seduction05/08/14 06:15 PM
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You don't need an excuse but colleges usually schedule stuff to help freshman meet new people so everyone you talk to (guys or girls) will be receptive during that time anyways.
/r/seduction29/07/14 09:31 PM
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Also, let her be the one to try to hold her hand. For me, it works to be physical (hugs, dancing, tickling, etc), yet neutral (no hand holding, or outright making out or similar until we are isolated and I know we can escalate). Anticipation is a good thing. Seems risky, how long do you wait before you're actually escalate if she doesnt?
/r/seduction09/07/14 09:37 PM
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Try reframing the nervousness as excitement. Elaborated in video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBF9xXhSFRc
/r/seduction13/06/14 03:46 AM
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God damn it that was way too fucking interesting to stop watching. I've always wanted to visit Japan but I still underestimate how "weird" it can be.
/r/seduction21/10/13 03:38 AM
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Target, Coffee shops, clothing stores like TJ Maxx etc.
/r/seduction16/10/13 07:34 PM
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I'm almost the same age as you and I had the same problem at that age(I look somewhat closer to my age now)but I always make them guess and tease them about it because they obviously won't guess right. Then at least that way they know your actual age and aren't assuming you are really young and you can just play it off as a compliment. People pay hundreds of dollars to look younger so I treat it as a genetic gift.
/r/seduction15/10/13 10:33 PM
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If I was gonna be completely direct I would use whatever word I felt best described her. I would say beautiful would be used on only the hottest girls, and cute and pretty are girls to me would be similarly attractive to eachother but in different ways. What you say isn't as important as how you say it.
/r/seduction08/10/13 05:19 AM
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He sounds like a character Ryan Reynolds or Matthew Mcconaughey would play in a RomCom.
/r/seduction26/09/13 06:53 AM
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If you started by reading The Game, then you should just let him read it. It's a fun read and he will get a good idea of what its about + you giving your own input to anchor the book to actual real world results so they know its not just a made up story (a lot of The Game is dramatization).
/r/seduction16/08/13 07:33 PM
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This is sort-of what I did and it worked well. Made friends in dorm + around campus > leads to more friends and more parties, bigger social network > rinse and repeat. The start of freshman year everyone well likely get along with everyone else until the whole college "honeymoon" phase winds down and reality starts to set in. Use that first week to grow your circle of friends around campus and don't worry about the "friendzone", that girl's friendzone will most likely draw other girls to you tha…
/r/seduction16/08/13 07:28 PM
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Around here we have free buses that leave 15 minutes before and after bar close that are free to students. If you catch the early one usually there are very few people. The bus driver will even drop you off at your house if you're the only ones riding.
/r/seduction19/10/11 01:37 PM
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Almost everyone here has or has had social anxiety. Thats why we're here on this forum! What I'm trying to say is that people have varying degrees of social anxiety. Some people can barely even talk to people they know let alone an attractive girl they just met. And these medications change your brain so much that its actually EASY to talk to people. There's not much hard work involved. When you are not on the medication, it becomes hard again. IMO, that is not progress. Its more like taking ste…
/r/seduction11/10/11 11:07 AM
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If he has social anxiety than there is nothing wrong with medication. Just because its the hard way doesn't mean its the only way. It's like telling someone that is lifting to stop taking supplements. It's not a magic pill, just an aid to help you.
/r/seduction10/10/11 11:15 AM
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Is it ok in the right context/situation or is it pretty strictly an offensive gesture in any case?
/r/seduction01/09/11 08:59 AM
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