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jax_christian/r/askRPC28/04/22 08:13 PM
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Copied from the Discord: PHYSICAL 28 (soon to be 29), 5'8", 137.8 lbs, 13.2% BF, 160x2 BP, 205x5 SQ Since my last update, my behavior has been pretty wretched. Frequent PMO. A vicious cycle since it provides little satisfaction. I seem to have periods in which my drive goes into, well, overdrive. MENTAL/EMOTIONAL The biggest development here is a potential relationship. The 25 y/o woman I mentioned in my last update visited me. The on-video chemistry did translate to in-person chemistry ... I th…
/r/RPChristians07/08/23 08:47 PM
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PHYSICAL 28, 5'8", 140 lbs., 14.2% BF, 155x2 BP, 205x3 SQ I sold my full rack and bought a half rack. I figure it's more portable and does the same job. I got a little weaker during the intervening two weeks or so. Job is okay. Eight months until I'll allow myself to look for something else. About a week ago, I lapsed and indulged in amateur pornography. I even entertained the idea of the real thing, by re-installing Tinder and looking at escort listings. EMOTIONAL/MENTAL I'm doing better now, b…
/r/RPChristians05/06/23 05:26 PM
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I hadn't considered that, because my tastes are pretty ordinary, but that makes sense. I have no intention of adding to my count anyone but said future wife. And oral (receiving and giving) is absolutely nonnegotiable. This speaks to the importance of genuine desire. If a woman genuinely desires a man, she'll do anything (within biblical bounds, as you qualified) to satisfy him. When I was a wretch and blue-pilled, I enjoyed giving but my first girlfriend wouldn't reciprocate. If I hadn't been s…
/r/RPChristians25/04/23 08:41 PM
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u/rocknrollchuck, what do you make of a man's body count? I'll be honest, I couldn't tell you the exact number, but mine isn't good. I fed my flesh before I was a Christian. And even while I was investigating Christianity, I accepted a woman's offer. I was truly convicted during her third visit (end of 2018). A year later, I gave into temptation twice (not intercourse). Since then, I've been "clean" but have had weak moments, although not recently, by God's grace. It's sin, and a lot of it. But …
/r/RPChristians25/04/23 02:38 PM
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PHYSICAL 28, 5'8", 143 lbs., 15.3% BF, Single Bench: Fluctuating between a couple reps at 155 lbs. and failing on the first rep. Probably need to work on completing several reps at 145 lbs. and then at 150 lbs. Had my shoulder "popping/crunching" looked at. Primary-care provider said don't worry about it unless there's pain. He didn't give it a name, but I learned that it's an AC joint separation, which is permanent. Squat: 5 reps of 205 lbs., with some difficulty I haven't deliberately looked a…
/r/RPChristians25/04/23 01:23 PM
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PHYSICAL 28, single, 5'8", 140.6 lbs., 16.4% BF Bench PR: 3 reps of 150 lbs. (last: 5 reps of 140 lbs.) My left shoulder "crunches" and "pops" as I go through the motion. There's no pain, but I don't know if it's inhibiting me from making better progress. Either way, it's worth mentioning at my next health appointment. Squat PR: 3 reps of 205 lbs. (last: 5 reps of 185 lbs.) I had thought about again investigating my subpar sleep and my daily tiredness and need for naps. But I don't think it's wo…
/r/RPChristians13/03/23 02:47 PM
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True, I should be grateful for that. A woman should serve as a helper in a man's mission. In trying to find a suitable one, it's aggravating when average-looking women lack humility and their hypergamous nature exceeds reason. I have read NMMNG but not WISNIFG.
/r/RPChristians15/02/23 09:38 PM
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PHYSICAL 28, single, 5'8", 142.2 lbs (+1.6), 15.3% BF (+1.1%) Bench: 140 lbs (+5) -- 5 reps, but kind of a struggle; short-term goal is is to do this more easily and reach 145 lbs and then 150 lbs Squat: 185 lbs (+10) -- 5 reps, but also a struggle; short-term goal is to do this more easily and reach 200 lbs I have a couple months until my job becomes hybrid. I'm hoping that things change or at least become more lax between now and then. I'd like to find a new job, but I think it's best to remai…
/r/RPChristians06/02/23 06:09 PM
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Thanks for the response, Chuck. Remote work affords flexibility that being tethered to an office desk does not. A small example: I've been able to meet people for lunch and not have to watch the clock. Being in an office, I may have casual conversations with people (if they choose the same days to be there), but my productivity will almost certainly suffer. If I do take another job, I'll be relinquishing about $8k in unvested retirement funds. However, if that job is better-paying, then this los…
/r/RPChristians23/01/23 02:33 AM
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I've posted my previous entries on the Discord server. I thought that there'd be value in posting subsequent ones on the sub and linking to them on the Discord server for all to see. 28, single PHYSICAL 5'8", 140.6 lbs (+2), 14.2% BF (-1.2%) Bench: 135 lbs (+0) -- 5 reps; short-term goal is to reach 145 Squat: 175 lbs (+5) -- 5 reps, but barely; short-term goal is to do 175 without trouble and reach 185 My job, which has been remote since I started two years ago, will soon become hybrid. This co…
/r/RPChristians17/01/23 12:29 AM
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Perhaps it’s my area, but proper young adult/singles ministries are few and far between. Your three points describe the one that I attend. The gatherings aren’t much different from Sunday mornings; they’re just smaller and younger. Three songs followed by a 40-minute sermon on whichever passage the associate pastor wants. I’ve yet to hear any teaching about masculinity, femininity, dating/relationships/marriage.
/r/RPChristians03/01/23 03:32 AM
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The sidebar is a bit overwhelming, but the book that I highly recommend reading -- aside from the Bible, of course -- is No More Mr. Nice Guy. A central message of the book is that there is nothing wrong with having needs and making them a priority. You are the only one responsible for getting your needs met. You need to socialize, so do it. You need to spend time with family, so do it. Your wife needs her own friends and hobbies. She can't be involved with everything that you do, and she needs …
/r/RPChristians27/12/22 05:04 PM
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I'm in northeast Florida. If attractive women attend church at all, they by and large attend the nondenominational (or seemingly nondenominational) megachurches. But don't expect them to live any differently than the rest of the world; there is zero accountability. Unfortunately, the reformed church that I've been attending for a couple months isn't much better. It surprisingly has a sizable population of young women. The ones who aren't overweight are fairly average-looking, which is okay with …
/r/RPChristians29/10/22 02:02 AM
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Right, it's ultimately a personal decision, as u/F_Reaper said. And personally, I don't think that I could look past it.
/r/RPChristians18/10/22 07:08 PM
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There is r/askRPC for quick questions like this. But sexual immorality -- including infidelity -- is the sole allowance for divorce, per Jesus in Matthew 19:1-12.
/r/RPChristians18/10/22 04:01 PM
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On my way out, I noticed a TARDIS on his desk and simply noted. "I like your TARDIS. Who's your Doctor?" He shooed my opposing counsel away and had me sit down again as we continued to chat for 40 straight minutes about Doctor Who. He didn't give anyone else that time or attention - but something lit up when he experienced that shared enjoyment. I'm rereading How to Win Friends & Influence People, and this is a great demonstration of the principle presented in Part 2, Chapter 1: Become genuinely…
/r/RPChristians13/10/22 04:06 PM
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Starting to lift when you're a twig is a lot harder than when you've got extra fat on you. I know this all too well. I'm almost envious of overweight guys because at least they have something to work with. I've always had difficulty putting on weight, and it's exacerbated by GI issues. I eat something and then 10 minutes later I experience GI discomfort.
/r/RPChristians08/07/22 07:32 PM
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From what I’ve found, the general consensus is that Jesus was (is) no taller than 5’5”. On Judgment Day, what will these ladies think of such a height then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/22 09:49 PM
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I was aware of pre-ejaculate fluid and the possibility that viable sperm can leak into it, but I didn't know how common that really is. I'll read more into it.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 08:56 PM
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Why would you ejaculate in a woman you don’t want to have a child with? Unless it was an accidental firing.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 01:07 PM
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And the women in my own personal life that I'm referring to are from a time when I was quite well-off financially, so no, I don't think your beta bux idea really applies. You were financially successful when these women expressed openness to submission? I fail to see how it does not apply.
/r/RPChristians24/06/22 05:31 PM
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This is good advice.
/r/RPChristians18/06/22 12:48 AM
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I was a little vague, sorry. The ministry is affiliated with the city's Baptist association, so it's open to any college-aged student from any church. But it convenes at my church, which is a little under three miles from a state university with an enrollment of ~17,000. Like you said, though, the church itself and its Sunday school class only draw a handful, much less than those who attend the ministry. There is a PCA church (all ages) that convenes in one of the university's administration bui…
/r/RPChristians17/06/22 09:59 PM
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There's a Baptist college ministry that meets at my church during the fall and spring semesters. If I weren't already known, I'm pretty sure I could pass as a student. I don't think it's all that big, however. Only a few of the guys who belong to it actually attend the church. I don't know where the others and the women attend; maybe nowhere. There's a "nondenominational" megachurch here that essentially has a monopoly on that demographic. It's sad but unsurprising. If a young woman attends chur…
/r/RPChristians17/06/22 07:47 PM
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If you go to a conservative church and target women aged 18 - 22, there are plenty. I'm still wondering where these churches are that aren't megachurches and have a population of young women that can't be counted on just one hand, if that.
/r/RPChristians12/06/22 01:05 AM
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Why aren't you guys meeting girls at church? Perhaps you can tell me where these churches are that don't have sophisticated lighting and whose population of young women can't be counted on just one hand.
/r/RPChristians11/06/22 01:50 AM
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I don't like that the first letter of each word is capitalized for some reason. But more importantly, a shared restroom is a terrible idea.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 06:15 PM
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I understand his confusion regarding that sentence. I had to read it a couple times to see that you meant that you declined opportunities because you are waiting to be intimate in either marriage or a serious relationship that could lead to marriage. I'm guilty, but marriage is the only proper place for sex.
/r/RPChristians05/05/22 04:18 PM
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Other than my circle of influence, not much, To be honest. I serve on my church’s A/V team at least a couple of Sundays during the month, but I wouldn't call that meaningful. My church really doesn't do any outreach aside from the typical Easter and Halloween events, which are targeted toward families, and the impact of those is probably negligible. Of course, that's a sorry excuse since, like u/rocknrollchuck said, I am the church. But it would be nice to have some facilitation. I'll have to th…
/r/askRPC04/05/22 02:01 AM
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That's fair. I'd like to tell you that I have a grandiose mission to win X number of people to Christ and disciple Y number of men. But I guess at the moment it's just to work on myself, which sounds cliché. I want to be successful in my career without making success an idol, so that I have a solid financial foundation for a family. A little beta perhaps. I honestly don't know how to accurately measure those things, but I'm on the shorter side (5'7"-8") and slim. I'm trying to correct the latter…
/r/askRPC03/05/22 01:33 AM
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Even if she is in the word regularly you still have areas of weakness. Same is true with men and porn, anger, and other areas where they struggle. That is a fair point. Dude, you haven't even tried where you are yet. Once you've taken out a few dozen "Christian women" on dates and tried to lead them and it all failed then start to consider looking at your leadership capabilities (if they're improving) or then only consider moving since the quality of women might suck. Well, that's a large part o…
/r/askRPC02/05/22 02:57 PM
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I'm hesitant to call a woman faithful if she isn't in the Word regularly. All of it, not just the feel-good passages, but probably with an (understandable) bias toward the NT. As such, Ephesians 5, 1 Peter 3, etc. should be very familiar. If her only exposure to other parts of the Bible is through sermons, then that's a real problem, because there's a possibility that either those passages will never be taught or, like you said, they'll be taught incorrectly. Many of the comments in the thread a…
/r/askRPC01/05/22 01:20 AM
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I'm trying to be monk, but I found sex-induced clarity to be much longer lasting. I don't know the science behind it, and I wish "solo work" were just as satisfying, but that has been my experience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 04:13 PM
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One would think that if a woman were genuinely F and S, then she should also be T. If not, then I guess I really am unicorn hunting.
/r/askRPC30/04/22 03:46 PM
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Not directly related to my problem, but there's good advice in there. And I've added those three videos to my watch list.
/r/askRPC30/04/22 02:26 AM
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Jacksonville is a large area. If you can't find what you're looking for there then you're unicorn hunting. My two requirements are faith and physical attraction. With the former, I know that my role is spiritual leader. I don't expect a woman to have a breadth of theological knowledge, but she should be able to tell me, for example, if she has a favorite Gospel. I once asked that on a first date when the topic shifted to Christianity and the woman was totally baffled. As to the latter, I try to …
/r/askRPC30/04/22 02:18 AM
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Change your Geography Is there a thread for sharing where one lives? I'm curious to know what cities are represented here and in which ones guys have had success. My username gives away mine, and I've been wondering if I need to relocate.
/r/RPChristians09/04/22 03:04 PM
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With how things are today, I'm inclined to agree. In a saner time, though, I think that I would've gotten a lot of fulfillment from raising kids.
/r/MGTOW06/07/21 07:06 PM
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I don't have any experience, but I have to think that the "having kids" part is rewarding.
/r/MGTOW06/07/21 04:28 PM
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There are still some non-apostate denominations.
/r/MGTOW06/06/21 05:26 PM
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He even took her virginity. Read what you wrote.
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 07:18 PM
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"Decent" is subjective. I think that there a lot of decent guys out there who get passed over by women.
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 01:46 AM
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I'm not sure. I just know that of all the Protestant denominations, Southern Baptist spoke the most to me.
/r/RPChristians25/09/20 07:22 PM
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I went from Catholic (I was raised as such, but I was essentially a lapsed Catholic) to Southern Baptist. It seems like that and PCA are the last conservative Protestant denominations.
/r/RPChristians23/09/20 06:36 PM
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Even Ruth, who some might call a "good woman," used her charms and seduction to manipulate the Persian king. I'm going to be a bit pedantic: I think that you meant Esther. Great post otherwise, though.
/r/MGTOW15/10/19 08:00 PM
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Sexual Harassment and You
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 01:15 AM
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What is the difference between pump and dump and jacking it? Well, in my experience, post-intercourse mental clarity is much longer-lasting, allowing you to focus on important stuff.
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 01:27 AM
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"You knew damn well I was a snake before you took me in ..."
/r/MGTOW21/08/19 12:47 AM
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fornication Do you know the definition of fornication? Scripture does not say anything about masturbation.
/r/MGTOW19/07/19 12:55 AM
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Without porn, masturbation is a much more satisfying experience for me. I used to do it almost daily, but I've cut back to two times a week at most. Like the others said, it's up to you. But for me, cutting out porn has helped me greatly.
/r/MGTOW19/07/19 12:52 AM
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No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. 1 Corinthians 10:13 Possibly a gross misinterpretation on my part, but I've always thought of this verse as supporting masturbation (in moderation, of course).
/r/MGTOW07/07/19 01:59 AM
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