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52	Mandatory Paternity Test protect children's mental health [repost under new flair]	Debate	jay10033	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 01:50 AM

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–	Why should women care that men don't have partners? You shouldn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 12:26 PM
1	Men have been programmed to think sex is everything. Women have been programmed to believe that men think sex is everything, so they wield it as a weapon in their favor when they want, using it to shame, criticize, even calling straight men gay when they don't get what they want. Watch what happens when a man rejects a woman sexually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 12:06 PM
2	Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism" You also know most women won’t accept the bare minimum of just being able to make half of rent. They in fact call that a "roommate".	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 09:34 PM
3	Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One? Anecdotally I’ve seen men say they want their sons to have it so they’ll get laid more. I wonder who is setting that standard. Sort of like the increase in height surgeries since women won't entertain a 5'4 dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 06:20 PM
-1	Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One? I'll go one further and say they want/encourage male genital mutilation for the aesthetics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 06:12 PM
1	Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One? What labor are you expected to perform while dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 06:05 PM
2	Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent women Women often say men's bodies are ugly without anyone claiming they are misandrist. Try again. Your reasoning fails.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 09:22 PM
1	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Have you ever asked? Have I asked if they were being abused? No. But I have lifelong friends who I am very close with who share intimate issues and no, abuse wasn't one of them. Not to mention, many don't even know they're being abused, especially considering that there are several different types of abuse that can take place within a relationship and multiple different types of relationships that can take place between two people or multiple people. Don't redefine abuse to fit your narrative. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 01:35 PM
1	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Your friends sure know how to pick them or maybe it's the people you surround yourself with because surely not every single woman I know has been in an abusive relationship. In fact, it's more of a rarity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 01:30 PM
2	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Are all your friends in abuse shelters?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 11:59 AM
–	Most Men that struggle with Women compare Dating to Sports where its just linear "just be better then your competition and you win" that logic only partially works in Dating. Got ya	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 09:38 PM
18	CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men. Generally, it's only worthwhile discussing democracies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 09:38 PM
–	Most Men that struggle with Women compare Dating to Sports where its just linear "just be better then your competition and you win" that logic only partially works in Dating. Why are random words capitalized?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 09:26 PM
1	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Are you sure you’re not conflating the study that includes lesbians having been divorced from men and experienced domestic violence at the hands of men before they got in any relationships with women? It has to do with this statement. You called them lesbians, not bisexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 07:46 PM
3	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands The problem is not a gender. It's the reasons for divorce: infidelity, financial difficulties, abuse, regular limits of a relationship. There are many reasons and "working on your marriage" is not a magic phrase to make shit better. Yet your earlier paragraphs contradict this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 07:45 PM
2	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands There are no absolutes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 07:41 PM
3	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Sure, but the comment you seem to be defending is a definitive claim that lesbians get married at a younger age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 03:32 PM
4	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands So women are not born lesbian? They are made that way via DV from men? That's the new theory?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 03:14 PM
5	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Explain the divorce rate of homosexual men through your lens of coercion. I'm not sure why the quick marriage among women is a justification for you. Seems to say women are reckless at choosing partners, ignoring red flags along the way. Sounds like hedonism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 03:09 PM
1	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands What does this have to do with the average age of marriage?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 03:08 PM
1	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Have you compared to the level of trauma predating heterosexual relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 03:06 PM
0	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands What even tells you, that couples that do not divorce are getting along well? Because divorce is a threshold event. Whether you like it or not, it is a pretty good proxy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 03:05 PM
5	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Lesbian couples tend to move in with each other much faster and take big life steps much faster. I don't know why you think this is a justification.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 03:01 PM
3	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands It still holds the same implication. An equal amount of bad relationships leading to a higher divorce rate than other categories does not track. Assume a simple model where you ascribe blame to one party or another for a "bad" relationship. And a bad relationship leads to divorce. A higher divorce rate implies there are more women doing "bad" things to end the relationship. Someone would need to work through how it makes statistical sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 02:55 PM
2	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit You seem to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:57 PM
1	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit And men? Oh, you didn't answer the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:53 PM
1	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit Ok, how many women are in the woods in her lifetime?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:50 PM
2	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit Are bears typically in the business of raping humans after tearing them apart? Do bears pretend to help humans? How many women are in the woods on an annual basis?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:49 PM
2	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit Problem solved. Everyone is discussing a situation that they either a) never experience or b) never will experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:43 PM
0	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit Ok, how many bears does the hypothetical woman see on a trail in her lifetime? There you go. We're in the land of hypotheticals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:41 PM
4	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit Yes. What's the point here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:35 PM
1	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit How many bears does the typical woman see on a trail in her lifetime?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:34 PM
-2	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit If you antagonize a bear, it will attack. Maybe don't antagonize other mammals and you'll be fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:32 PM
2	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties Check your millennial math. Most were becoming young adults during and after the Great Recession.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 08:40 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. I wonder how society progressed when there was no compulsory education	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 06:28 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. Because one person is contributing more financially. If you would like it to be that way, then each person should consume only what they bring into the household and no more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:45 PM
1	Is Working a Blue Collar Job a Death Sentence for Male Datinf? Lead with that. Say you're an engineer for the train system. Leave it at that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:43 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. No goalposts were changed unless you think being a soldier isn't a job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:42 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. That's the economic value. It's objective and market based. It's worth as much as someone is willing to pay for the labor. I'm not using another fuzzy measure that's a matter of opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:36 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. I can measure the value in terms of dollars per hour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:30 PM
1	Is Working a Blue Collar Job a Death Sentence for Male Datinf? Women use the bachelor degree as a signaling mechanism to stay away from blue collar workers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:23 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. And women throughout history, have also died with no offspring doing dangerous jobs. Ah yes, all those female soldiers we heard about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:20 PM
1	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. They're both in Project 2025. What do you define MAGA as, if you don't define it by Project 2025's standards? Project 2025's authors are not "MAGA". It's the Heritage Foundation. Dismantling the Education department for example wasn't MAGA. That was on a Republican wishlist for decades. I can counter that Trump said he's the greatest supporter of women - are we to take that as a counter to your point? The fact that they use female spokespersons doesn't mean they don't want women to submit to men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:19 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. Ok. So are most of the comments here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:06 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. You do understand men throughout history have died with no offspring, by doing dangerous jobs, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:03 PM
2	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. I'm trying to understand how women are oppressed under your rubric. For one thing, the lifestyle that MAGA promotes is not "traditional", as it only barely existed for like two decades in the mid 1900s. Which part of MAGA are you referring to? The part where Marjorie Taylor Greene is a congresswoman and Pam Bondi is the top law enforcement agent in the country? Otherwise, a woman not having an income in her own name is not in her best interest, unless she is taking steps to mitigate the husband'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:02 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. You don't think CEOs are busting their ass?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 03:53 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. ? Is that the part you're responding to, because I said CEO?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 03:04 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. Ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 02:53 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. This is also a matter of opinion. If the engineer didn't design the roads, buildings and homes, no one would be able to do much of anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 02:53 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. Ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 02:52 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. The engineer's time is more valuable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 02:38 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. Women want an HR job to make as much as a stressful software engineer job, but women on average don’t want to do the actual software engineer job. This is the part that's unsaid. They want the cushy air conditioned office job where they are talking about feelings while making as much as the CEO or sewage treatment worker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 02:36 PM
1	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. So do you believe choosing to live a traditional lifestyle is self harm? What aspects of maga are contrary to what you wrote?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 02:30 PM
2	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. Do you believe feminism means the right for a woman to determine her own outcome in life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 02:18 PM
3	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. But she's the one having multiple children with multiple men. She carries the burden of pregnancy as ya like to say. Women take all the risk, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 12:53 PM
3	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. Yes, so one would think she would select better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 12:50 PM
2	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. It means women are more likely to have children by men who already have children. 15% of men have children with multiple partners. Almost double the amount of women, 30% have children with multiple partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 12:47 PM
-2	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. Are you making the claim that you can't be MAGA and a feminist? This can be easily disproven.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 12:45 PM
1	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. For men: Prevalence: Approximately 15% of men will have children with multiple women by age 40. Associated factors: This is more common among men with lower incomes, less education, and those who were incarcerated or whose first birth was unintended and occurred outside of a marital or cohabiting union. Relationship: Men with children by multiple partners may have a higher number of total children, and some studies indicate higher levels of relationship instability. For women The likelihood of h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 12:39 PM
-4	If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship. If people lie in job interviews, this is no different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 05:14 AM
2	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. Future has 7 children. You're saying baby mother #3-7 were misinformed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 05:05 AM
3	Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women. Also you hear about the extra emotional labor a woman put in to organize an entire day with a complete agenda on her bf's day off when her bf didn't want to do anything, and they talk as if the bf was lazy and shouldn't be anything except thankful when it was basically work for him to go along with it. Emphasis mine This part is the most sickening. Being dragged to hang out with awful friends, make small talk, do ridiculous things that you don't care about and still having to keep a sunny dispos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 12:26 AM
8	Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women. It's not that they don't understand. They don't care. Most modern women have deep narcissistic traits where they have a high estimation of what they do (even though it may be minor to a relationship) and are completely blind to what a man does in a relationship. This is why, although everyone can objectively agree money is important to living, a woman these days would say a man working too much, while she does very little or stays at home, is her performing emotional labor because she has to ele…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 12:22 AM
2	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 11:59 PM
-2	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. Give the child up for adoption.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:57 PM
2	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. You can also choose to gather information in the face of imperfect information. That's called vetting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:52 PM
-4	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. Get an abortion	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:51 PM
0	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. You guys believe men I do believe men. What's the problem with that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:50 PM
4	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. we are understanding Happy you understand why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:47 PM
9	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. Yes. Blame the victims when they are reckless. If you are Future's 2nd through last baby mother, blame yourself. He's a known quantity. I don't understand how you don't get this. When you have knowledge of something, you have the responsibility of acting with that knowledge. If you want to act stupid and get knocked up by a deadbeat, don't come complaining anywhere about it. Shut the fuck up and live a quiet life of pain. We don't care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:44 PM
5	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. Wait - you mean the men who have multiple baby mothers that was known to the woman who decided they wanted to be #5? A serial killer will continue to kill. It's what they do. But when the serial killer is particularly looking for people who wear red shirts, and you wear a red shirt everyday thinking you'll be immune, yes, don't be surprised when people say you were dumb for wearing a red shirt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:39 PM
3	Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often Hypocritical The solution is to not play the game. Attention is currency. Stop paying it. Let them wallow and figure out what their priorities are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:25 PM
1	Starting to believe that the man needs to love the woman more So women are attracted to shitty men - you're just trying to justify it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 07:06 PM
1	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD I’m happily married, but fewer people now want either marriage or family. Great! It’s great for individuals who are happy with this in their personal life, women seem to do better without sex than men, but it’s not great for society in general. Nothing survives forever. Why are women sacrificing for "society"? I thought in all other areas, you push back against what society cares about, like the "patriarchy", "body image" or "beauty standards". Ya go your own way on all that stuff that makes you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 12:52 PM
6	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Why are they asking? Just don't. I don't get this. You don't like meat, you become vegetarian. You don't discuss amongst yourselves. You make the decision and go from there. Someone asks you if you want a steak, you say no, I didn't eat meat. No dissertation, no discussion. You don't want to be with men, make your decision and move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 12:34 PM
8	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD You were talking about eating pb&j sandwiches. Keep up. Just because your ancestors were developmentally challenged, doesn't mean most men are. Take it up with the women who procreated with them and created offspring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 03:33 AM
2	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD I don't complain about anyone's standards. But I will point and laugh when they are on TikTok crying about being alone, how no one wants them and how they are going to be single forever. They had sky high standards but forgot to look in the mirror and see the person looking back at them didn't meet this same standards. I'm in a happy relationship, thank you very much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 03:03 AM
9	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Are you dense? Someone who has crafted a simple life for themselves now has to do more complicated shit because you think you need to have 14 throw pillows on your couch? You're one of those fools who told people they needed to be in mcmansions when they were happily in a 1 bdrm apt. Now they have to clean up 4 beds and 3 baths and are unhappy. You're complaining that someone doesn't want complicated shit in your life? Some people think your life is terrible and want no parts to it. While at the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 03:01 AM
7	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Women also tend to come into your space and have already designed plans for how they will change it, by mostly making things more complicated than they already are, adding to the burden of upkeep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:56 AM
6	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Again, why do you care? Why are joining the victim parade when you just said your personal experience is not this? What are you hoping to achieve?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:41 AM
9	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Adjusted for shit that's unnecessary, I would probably say it's about even. Just because someone wants to fluff 8 pillows on the bed with a complicated duvet when a simple bed set would do is likely the source of a lot of this shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:40 AM
7	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Then die alone. There's a solution to everything. If it isn't worth it, don't do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:35 AM
8	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Who cares? Who are you to prescribe a more complicated life for someone to live? There are tech people drinking soylent all day because they have other priorities. You want them to focus on making coq au vin in their homes when they don't give a damn what they eat. People have different priorities. Just because it doesn't match yours means nothing. Solution - find someone who matches your priorities and stop fucking complaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:35 AM
10	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Why the fuck would she get with him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:25 AM
2	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Sounds like someone who wants a simple life and can live off a PB&J sandwich. That should tell you something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:24 AM
3	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD I don't how old your granpa is, but he sounds developmentally challenged. Maybe your mother's husband doesn't want to celebrate Christmas and put a ridiculous amount of decorations. Why are you ironing your friend's boyfriend's shirt? Are you fucking him? Why wouldn't you be cooking for your boyfriend in the future? Are you expecting not to cook at all, ever?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:21 AM
–	Where does this idea that looks don't matter really come from? Blue pill personality fantasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 07:55 AM
7	How do you reconcile the extreme selectivity that women have with their assertion that "most people end up in relationships"? They're "settling".	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 07:53 AM
1	Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time. I don't want anything. It's simply a recognition of how things are - observed reality. You folks are the legacy kid telling the inner public school kid that he just needed to study harder to get into Harvard. That's what AF\|BB refers to. You can ignore that reality if you want to. And yes, one would be cognizant that you be with people who actually like you. Not some resource leech that settles for you because they believe their time is running out or that makes you jump through 50 hoops to show…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:53 PM
3	Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time. In the work world, you'll call it nepotism when the amount of effort the CEOs son needs to get a job is far less than the pull himself up by the bootstraps mid level school kid. You didn't view nepotism as a good thing. In Higher Ed, it's called legacy or daddy wrote a big check. I would already think you'd find that unfair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:43 PM
11	Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time. Why do you act as if what you do at 18 is completely disconnected from your life experience and results at 30?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:39 PM
1	I think all women would be happier single Why would you assume all other women would be failures just because you were a failure in your relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 11:16 PM
–	Despite what the internet says, money doesn’t help a man much in dating Have you tried spending it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 04:12 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? Well if you're going to ask why, you're going to be told.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 04:10 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? Poor decision making	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 04:08 PM
0	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. This really sounds like believe women even if they're lying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:58 PM
1	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. And that's fine. Those aren't usually the people going on a social media campaign.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:57 PM
1	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. They don't have to be made public. Just like the victim's names in these cases are often hidden for their own protection. The court system has ways to have closed door cases. It need only be public to the attorney representing the accused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:03 PM
3	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. Would you also extend this to cases where the accuser was just found ‘not guilty’ tho? Because people can be found ‘not guilty’ for a multitude of reasons, and only means they were found not guilty in the court of law. They could still have actually committed the crime, and they weren’t falsely accused just because there wasn’t enough evidence, for example. No. In that case, the case is public record and anyone can see what happened. The issue is with accusations that are not tested in court or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:52 PM
0	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. I don't disagree with any of that. Court is highly technical and you need to get all the components right to prove guilt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:49 PM
2	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. About name blind - okay, i don't see how it's possible It's very much possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:47 PM
0	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. You can prosecute. You just need evidence. If you can't prosecute, you don't have a case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:42 PM
3	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. There needs to be remedies just like if someone's identity is stolen. A letter from the state that follows them saying they were falsely accused. Need news coverage to place statements on their website as to the current state of things [it was determined x was falsely accused by y] with a link pointing to said letter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:40 PM
6	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. Distinction without a difference. Certainly by "believe women", it wasn't meant to be read as "Believe some women".	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:35 PM
6	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. No one has to say most accusations have to be false. Only enough that begins to call into question the nature of these accusations. You don't ask whether most commercial flights crash, but you'd certainly question and feel some type of way if 3 commercial flights crashed in a row. The point is if there is a critical mass (far less than 51%) of false accusations that have occurred, it's a problem, just as if you would be troubled if you saw the post conviction exoneration rate in a justice system…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:32 PM
8	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. Seriously. The shrieking on here by people defending her was ridiculous. The same with Roda Osman who claimed she got in the face with a brick by a man. That is what becomes dangerous when attention is a commodity. Wrongfully accusing people to increase their own profile. This should put to bed the call to believe all women. We need to be more focused on finding the truth. I doubt those who were making excuses here will say they have egg on their face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:15 PM
–	Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of Women The problem is she doesn't keep her dissatisfaction to herself. She joins the cacophony of voices saying men are defective because she can't achieve some ridiculous standard, then jobs with the other voices of equally delusional women creating a social cry that is somehow men's fault that they can't achieve their delusional fantasies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 12:19 AM
–	Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of Women Treat them the same way we treat schizophrenics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 12:16 AM
–	Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of Women Having rye bread as someone going hungry is different than having no bread at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 12:08 AM
–	Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of Women It's sad really. And you see it in many other contexts, especially in the Therapy Industrial Complex. When a woman is old, single and has trouble staying in a long term relationship, the party line is: women are happier single! Look at the data! Being in a relationship with a man is dangerous! But when men are generally single: there's a male loneliness crisis! Men need to do better to be in relationships! Men aren't emotionally mature enough! They will come up (and others will go along) with ps…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 11:57 PM
1	Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights. If there were no men, your argument would be a moot point given humanity would not exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:35 PM
1	Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights. So the solution is to make sex a crime outside of marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:31 PM
2	Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights. The only way to find out is to remove external enforcement and see what happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:17 PM
3	why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content? They seem to come from the "trust me bro" school of philosophy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 11:19 PM
-4	Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier. And?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 11:42 AM
-1	Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier. Pussy is plug that makes their equations work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 11:40 AM
-1	Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier. You take a shit on your bath mat? And who said "months at a time"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 11:37 AM
1	Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier. Show your research concerning this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 11:35 AM
7	Q4M: what makes a woman not marriage material? No. This makes no sense whatsoever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 01:08 PM
8	Q4M: what makes a woman not marriage material? You're implying I'm here because I'm unhappy. You just be here for the same reason. Single, lonely and unhappy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 01:08 PM
9	Q4M: what makes a woman not marriage material? People in relationships don't have opinions? At least you admit that you aren't happy. I'm sorry for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 04:57 AM
4	Q4M: what makes a woman not marriage material? Unlike you, I'm in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 02:29 AM
14	Q4M: what makes a woman not marriage material? Getting married and being marriage material are two different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 01:28 AM
13	Q4M: what makes a woman not marriage material? If she is a whore, she is not marriage material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 10:04 PM
2	Women Don't "Mature" faster than men So women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 03:02 PM
2	Women Don't "Mature" faster than men This already happens with sports.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 02:59 PM
–	Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anything Women are narcissists who rewrite the rules of what they want depending on how they slept the night before. When they work, the money is for them which is why by and large, women want men who make more than they do, while not realizing the complete irony that they are the bum in that situation. They are consumers/destroyers of wealth, wherever they go. Ask yourself - who is most likely to reject the idea of a prenup? If a relationship doesn't financially benefit them, they complain. So no, this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 01:35 PM
4	Women Don't Actually Put More Effort Into Dating. It's because the bar for women is in hell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 11:04 PM
5	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? Ah, so here you are on social media, telling us what real life looks like. Oh wise one, go ahead and tell us about this wonderful world!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 08:29 PM
0	Women hooking up with casual flings are NOT desperate for commitment- a lot of the time they know what they’re getting into. Seriously. They lather themselves in olive oil then make these wild claims. Try to catch them they say - it's a fool's errand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 01:50 PM
0	The percentage of genuinely loving marriages is astonishingly low Define love first so we can understand what you're claiming is low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 12:19 PM
5	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? Maybe, just maybe, it's observed in the real world. You not experiencing it is meaningless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 12:05 PM
0	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? AI is turning brains to mush, I swear. You won't read a single original source, but you want Gemini to summarize it for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 05:13 AM
1	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? You made the claim that I was wrong. So prove it. Ha ha. I spewed bullshit, now show I'm wrong. Not how this works buddy. You made various claims. Show your work that misogyny has increased from some objective baseline. Show that misandry was caused by misogyny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 05:09 AM
1	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? You made the claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 04:59 AM
1	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? More SIGN language because you can't defend your statements, and that's sad. You fail at debating. No men are not entitled to have whatever the hell they want. You honestly don’t sound like a good person to begin with. This is where you become emotional because your line of sight becomes myopic. The comment said "do whatever I want as a man" meaning defining his own manhood. You see " entitled to have whatever they want". You can't even read well. Or maybe you can and you honestly believe men do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 04:58 AM
1	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? Oh, so women were enslaved under chattel slavery? Is that your argument?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 04:54 AM
1	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? Common sense clearly isn't common. Show an event, historical evolution, something. Not some axiomatic statement that "of course misogyny created misandry". If you don't know, say I don't know. I just said that it wouldn’t exist if not for misogyny Because it’s literally women reaction to being fed up of oppression. Show your work. You're making these flailing claims with no historical backing. Which still continues today despite women having equal rights. It’s significant in work place, SA cases…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 04:53 AM
-2	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? I didn't need your opinion. Show your claim where misogyny causes misandry. Your other link doesn't show misogyny "not decreasing". You have to do better than Google AI. Point to a research study with a baseline of "misogyny" and an increase from said baseline.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 04:37 AM
-1	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? Whatever he wants. That's what he said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 04:30 AM
-1	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? Misogyny has not decreased at all and misogyny created misandry. Source?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 04:28 AM
16	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? I want pure equality. No picking and choosing the parts you like. Pure unadulterated equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 04:19 AM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. I didn't know you were right next to me to see my state of mind. Why are you so angry?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 11:53 PM
–	Men have massive egos and because of this it clouds their judgment on dating dynamics. This is such a terrible take, but let's dismantle this one by one. I am a man and I have noticed this with the following examples. I'm confused - is this statement an appeal to authority? Men see sex as something being done to women rather than it being something both men and women do. So because of this anything a woman has to say about dating dynamics is automatically invalid to most men. You cannot be serious with this comment. Women most often vote sex as something that exclusively benefits …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 11:41 PM
3	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. This is a debate sub. If you don't want men talking, probably go to the femcel sub or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:15 PM
3	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Most men do. Women are the ones harping about emotional sensitivity and all that other bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:12 PM
3	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Your first mistake was assuming men wanted to be vulnerable. That's women wanting men to act like women. So the ones who are vulnerable are giving you what you want and picking up crumbs of pussy along the way. You are the authors of your own demise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:06 PM
–	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. No one even comes close to bitching at the level women do in public that no one wants them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 05:44 PM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Then why the fuck do men expect us to tolerate that shit from men? Make up your mind. Men aren't vulnerable remember?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 05:38 PM
1	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Men are doers, not talkers. Why would we want to hear women whine and become raging narcissists who hijack our issues to talk more about themselves and use their faux therapy tactics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 03:33 PM
9	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. No relationship is "equal".	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 03:17 PM
–	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Are you talking why: Remember that's why you never follow a woman's advice for dating if you are a man, they will be fucking any tom dick harry in a one nighter but ask you to get a job , have a personality, get rich , get a proper job , dress so and so which I am not saying it doens't work ..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 03:06 PM
–	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Absolutely not jealous of women like that. I pity them. I would never consider a woman like that for a relationship or anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 02:57 PM
–	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Actively getting dick from a hobosexual then saying you deserve better is nasty work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 02:53 PM
2	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. What makes you think he wants a 40 year old woman and cares about what she's attracted to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 02:46 PM
12	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. They yasss queen that woman to death	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 02:43 PM
1	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. My bad, I posted under the wrong automod.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 02:42 PM
-1	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. It's older women's heightened overestimation of their worth in the sexual marketplace. They need something to cling to so they are indirectly saying older women are better. It's not only a revenge fantasy, it's heightened delusion and grasping at the last straws of sexual value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 02:41 PM
–	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. You hear this when they say "I need a man who's ambitious" but they've been in a multi year FWB situationship with a hobosexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 02:38 PM
0	What do men mean when they say women's standards are too high What does "same socioeconomic level as your family" mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 07:35 AM
5	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. I agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 06:18 PM
0	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. I'd agree, if not for the constant messaging we get to from women to create "better men", to call them out, etc. We know what that means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 06:15 PM
21	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. Women don't want to be educated sadly. What they want is for other men to make the toxic ain't shit men they are attracted to better for them and only them. It's sad really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 04:16 PM
1	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. The store is the person being approached, the person getting hit on. Generally that is women. Hope that helps! Edit - I also see you ignored all of the very simple insurance examples that make a similar point!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 04:13 PM
3	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. I'm not surprised you don't get it. I suggest you look up adverse selection and moral hazard. Your response is nonsensical. You have the same thinking as people who say they don't get car insurance because they are great drivers. By making decisions that get you taken advantage of, then complaining that you were taken advantage of, with no change in your behavior, you're abdicating responsibility for yourself. Risk reduction techniques should be part of the package. That's why women who have the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 03:56 PM
2	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. Yea - your position is at odds with the majority of humans. In every case where something similar has happened, the store owner would be at fault for creating the conditions that led to violence. Anywho, there has always been a moral hazard and adverse selection issue in dating. It exists in most human endeavors. It is up to the person bearing the risk to put tools in place to reduce their exposure. For example, life insurance companies have health exams or car insurance companies have age/educa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 03:24 PM
0	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. Answer the question first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 03:09 PM
1	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. You opened a store and say you are giving out 10 free iPhones (or some popular thing). A bunch of people show up - some good, some terrible. The terrible people begin beating others with bats so they get to the front of the line. You choose to not have any security, no line - it's just pure mayhem outside your store. Who do you think is at fault in that case? Take it one step further. You open your store - see a bunch of bloodied and beaten people on the floor but you see there are 10 people out…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 03:07 PM
1	30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men. Of course it won't. But she will find that her resources are not sufficient to support her lifestyle generally or even her retirement, so she will seek out a simp willing to underwrite her until 1) she gets lucky or 2) sufficiently has used the legal system to buttress her financial security and then leave. She begins to give the unattracteds a second look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 02:48 PM
–	Most dating advice from women here comes from a point of extreme ignorance Ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 09:43 PM
–	Most dating advice from women here comes from a point of extreme ignorance Have you seen the suicide rate among young men? Getting rejected repeatedly because they are who they are - what do you think that leads to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 09:32 PM
–	Most dating advice from women here comes from a point of extreme ignorance I say the same thing when a woman wears a lot of makeup, fake lashes, fake nails, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 07:00 PM
–	Most dating advice from women here comes from a point of extreme ignorance "Just be yourself bro" The advice is laughable at best, dangerous at worst.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 02:33 PM
3	Men who claim touch is their love language are a yellow flag. Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 01:25 PM
9	Men who claim touch is their love language are a yellow flag. Receiving gifts is an even bigger red flag. It means women want you only for your money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 01:23 PM
3	Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” I think we equally know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 03:38 AM
7	Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” It means that loyalty is for sale to the highest bidder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 11:53 PM
5	Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” Anyone who disagrees with that basic premise is a misogynist. Loyalty is for sale to the highest bidder. We must just embrace the world we live in and stop being delusional. As the great philosopher Brown once said "These hoes ain't loyal".	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 11:52 PM
3	Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” You have no idea what they were thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 11:48 PM
10	Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” 😂😂😂 those paragons of rule followers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 11:44 PM
11	Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” You go to a nice restaurant and eat a perfectly cooked ribeye and drink the best wine - you know it will end, so what's the point? For the experience. It's just your turn, enjoy the ride while it lasts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 11:43 PM
2	Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discrimination but I’ve never heard about a woman using a weapon in real life( rarely I’ve seen it in the news) https://www.live5news.com/2025/02/08/woman-stabs-boyfriend-neck-after-argument-over-wedding-venue-police-say/ https://wcti12.com/news/local/greenville-woman-arrested-for-alleged-knife-assault-on-man https://local21news.com/news/local/lancaster-county-woman-accused-of-stabbing-man-with-steak-knife-police https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/police-woman-attacked-man-knife-215403782.html?ch=1 https://ny…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 09:42 PM
2	Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discrimination But you wrote: A man should never hit a woman no matter what	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 08:06 PM
2	Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discrimination So if a woman is chasing you around the house with a knife, attempting to stab you, you shouldn't hit her to fend her off?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 07:09 PM
1	Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify why men should adhere to gender roles. Reproductive supremacy you mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:34 PM
1	Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify why men should adhere to gender roles. Interesting how you left out economic equality. And with these come social, economic and political responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:33 PM
1	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? 👍🏿	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:24 PM
1	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? Not a rant, a response. Good 👍🏿	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:24 PM
-7	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? I feel like that's why I posted under the automod. You understand how this sub works?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:23 PM
1	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? Yes. Because it benefits me. I take care of my own home currently. It's really not that hard. It's called being an adult. No one said life should be easy. You make your decisions and you live with them. As an adult, you take of your responsibilities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:22 PM
1	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? I mean, you shouldn't. I don't understand how you think this response changes anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:21 PM
0	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? I can care less about the birth rate. And I can care less about some magical standards you have. Your results are the only things that matter. If you can't find what you're looking for, you don't qualify for it. It's a hard pill to swallow but no one sees you as you see yourself. You were just delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:20 PM
-3	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? Exactly. A man should not work himself like a mule and modern day slave just for a woman to claim she isn't happy or they "grew apart" taking years of his hard work in the process. No way. Equality means everyone works. There is no other way. Women are in the labor market - wonderful! Increased labor participation decreases average wages. Thus, women need to work to contribute to maintain the same standard of living.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:16 PM
-1	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? I agree. Do just that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:12 PM
-4	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? The broke men need to worry less about having children and more about getting money. Y’all can barely afford a good life alone for yourself and now you wanna torture your future wife and kids too lol. SIGN language to justify laziness. I'm good with my financial situation, earning in the top 3%. Staying at home is an opportunity cost for a woman. If she is out of the workforce 5 years to raise kids, that’s 5 years of experience she’s missing out on to get raise and promotions. Then don't leave t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:11 PM
-3	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? Who said I don't see value in it. It's not revenue producing. There is no monetary value to it, except to benefit one's self. Yes, I want her to have a job. In that case, you share in the burdens of what it takes to run a home which is first and foremost, money. No money, no home to take care of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 02:07 PM
-3	Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair? The people who call it financial abuse ignore the idea of tradeoffs. The reality is, it is much easier to spend someone else's money than it is your own. It doesn't matter, marriage or not, having skin in the game means you work, and the time and effort put into work generally translates into being cautious with how your money is spent. An allowance simply balances the playing field. It places reasonable restrictions on how money can be spent by the person earning it. Pretty sure there will be a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 01:59 PM
2	Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discrimination I think you should answer the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 12:44 PM
2	Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discrimination Why do we need to amplify their voices? They have a voice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 12:43 PM
2	Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discrimination You are completely wrong. They are called white knights because you've considered what they've said and it is usually devoid of logic. One questions why they would hold that Illogical opinion expect to get crumbs of pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 12:41 PM
3	Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discrimination Or assault generally. Doing nothing and being a bystander when a woman is hitting a man, but becoming a knight of the round table when he retaliates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 12:03 PM
2	Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discrimination Definitionally, you're just wrong. If you were to say people use terms in the wrong way, that's one thing. But the definition is quite clear from a quick Google search: In slang, a "white knight" is a person, often a man, who rushes to defend someone online, particularly a woman, in an unsolicited and excessive way, usually with the motive of gaining romantic or sexual favor. The term is typically derogatory, implying the defender is trying to "rescue" someone who doesn't need rescuing and is mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 11:59 AM
18	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. In response to a post that starts with "I don't think".	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 04:10 PM
7	CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting women Do you really think sharing in life's small things, like making someone lunch, makes you a pick me? So men shouldn't pay for dates, pick you up when you're stranded somewhere, help you carry groceries, etc, because that would make him a simp? You want to push the message "never settle" while realizing no one will settle for you. The men you want don't want you, or else you would have him. The results speak for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 03:58 PM
1	CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalism Don't let facts get in your way. Folks complain about how the wage disparity, but when you point out a natural analog of that, assuming one believes it, you all of a sudden throw a different rationale. No one forced them to get pregnant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 12:01 PM
-1	CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalism Well, generally by men's taxes. But yes, please continue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 11:20 AM
5	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. I'll keep it simple. Women want men who other women want, even in church. Easy exhibit - the preacher is likely fucking multiple women in his flock.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 10:50 AM
6	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. They would. Look, let's be real. In the Christian tradition, even Eve are the apple and Adam followed suit. And they were created by God's direct hand. You aren't going to tell me that regular men and women, horny as fuck, will suppress it? Why? You have an automatic out, forgiveness! There's no punishment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 05:37 AM
1	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. Out of the mouth of babes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 05:31 AM
3	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. Again, extremely rare. 98% of men don't get sick from ejaculation. Sorry for your condition though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 05:26 AM
8	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. Chads learn early in life what women say and what they do are like Mr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. The UbërChad learns this far earlier in life, using his chad-like skills early in the school environment. He's perfected the art of NSA sex. The average Chad typically learns it later in life, say in his late teens, and realizes he has a harem of women at his disposal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 05:24 AM
11	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. Visit a church, lol. Even in a church, the men who are the most wanted are those who have slept with many women in the congregation. Don't get fooled by the okey doke. People in churches are having lots of sex out of wedlock.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 05:20 AM
2	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. What do you call this? That's only true if a man is past a certain age like 30+. A statement of fact?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 12:37 AM
1	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. I'd argue, mid-20s the latest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 12:26 AM
13	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. The problem is women don't stay around long enough to learn the reasons, so that's a moot point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 11:06 PM
5	The idea reagrding male virginity as failures is painfully wrong, red pillers please stop lying on here. This is so off base, it must be rage bait. Women want men who other women want. Men who have social proof with other women. That's why women don't want virgins. No woman wants to be the first test case. It would be a form of settling, which we know women don't want to do. And there's no way you women came up with the term incel, which quite literally means involuntarily celibate, which is a shot at the bow of any male virgin and you have this take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 11:04 PM
12	Why do women claim "personality matters most" but then act revolted when they see a mid to ugly looking guy with a beautiful woman? BECAUSE THEY ARE LYING THANK YOU FOR YOUR ATTENTION TO THIS MATTER!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 04:20 PM
1	Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven false Again, state the facts in this case. Not your hypothetical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 04:13 PM
1	Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven false It wasn't always done. The issue is an accuser can make an accusation, be protected, then choose not to move forward with it, leaving a void that the accused, publicly known, must navigate. The drawback is we, as a public, won't know what prosecutorial powers are being used in our name.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 04:13 PM
2	Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven false What was she charged for? It wasn't vague. What were the underlying facts? The deflection here is rich.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 02:03 PM
2	Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven false Except that's exactly how it works. That's not how it works. So to you, because the crime and punishment doesn't specifically say "false accusations" it somehow doesn't count as punishment? The law is exact. Unlike here, words mean something. If it wasn't for a false accusation, it wasn't for a false accusation. There are many false accusations that in and of themselves have gone unpunished. She was charged with theft by deception because she created a GoFundMe, raised 40k and spent the money. H…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 01:52 PM
2	Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven false She was charged for an ancillary crime. She was not jailed for making a false accusation. The risk still remains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 01:31 PM
2	Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven false It presumes neutrality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 01:29 PM
0	Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven false The response is to wait for the facts, in either direction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 01:25 PM
0	Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven false Our legal system does not allow this, unfortunately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 01:12 PM
0	What do women like about going out on a date? Wouldn't you want an all expense paid meal that you had to plan from beginning to end, which cost you nothing, with the power of rejection at the end if you didn't feel the "vibes"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 06:22 PM
7	What options do high income women have? The options they've always had - men that find them attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 01:43 PM
2	What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to. It becomes unattractive when their own interests are harmed or implicated by an emotionally mature guy. If they can't get away with the weaponization of emotions, all of the sudden, emotional maturity becomes something new and transformed, like "controlling", "narcissism", "DARVO", or whatever new pop buzz words their Tik Tok compatriots dream up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 12:11 PM
6	What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to. Fortune favors the bold	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 09:33 PM
1	What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to. Watch what they do, not what they say. It can all be so simple. A lot of this emotional vulnerability/maturity/intelligence crap is Tik Tok induced buzzwords by pop therapist. They repeat it because they saw it somewhere and it sounds good. They don't know what it means. You ask 100 women, you'll get 100 different answers. They will hammer it over your head to explain why they don't want to be with the proverbial average guy but when Chad comes along with the emotional maturity of a gnat, he'll …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 09:27 PM
2	Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a Problem Women's intuition is one of the most bigoted statements out there then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 04:34 PM
2	Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a Problem It's because women generally believe they are the main character in everyone's lives and should be treated as such. Their feelings and experiences take primacy over everyone and everything else. To disagree or not validate their feelings is the highest insult because they believe they are always right. Remember, these are the same folks who created weird concepts like "vibes", "energy", "a woman's intuition is always right" and things like that, completely unsupported by facts, but all resting o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 12:02 PM
1	Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a Problem It's because of this strange obsession women generally have with being the main character in everyone's lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 11:52 AM
2	Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a Problem it will make men think that the real problem are women Not think. They are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 11:50 AM
1	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. Read the first post in this thread and you'll see. Thank you for your attention to this matter!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 05:57 PM
-1	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. Of course. She gave another man the highest honor - risking her life to have his child. So now, she can just have a good time with the next guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 03:34 PM
1	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. Until she risks her body for him, it's just a good time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 02:53 PM
1	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. Did you read my post or are you dense? You're trying to change the measure that I brought up in my post then accuse me of moving the goalposts. Nice to see you don't have an argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 02:52 PM
-1	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. How many babies did she have for those men? Did she risk her body for those men? No. You're purposely being dense and missing the point by pointing to one woman, with a very poor argument, when I gave you countless examples of women in their prime going after older men to carry their seed. They are willing to be baby mother # [_] by choice to a valuable man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 02:51 PM
0	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. You responded to my post about harems of women having these men's babies and now you accuse me of moving the goalposts by me asking if she has Elon's babies? Make it make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 02:47 PM
0	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. Did she have his babies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 02:27 PM
1	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. How many men's babies did she have prior to Musk?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 02:25 PM
-1	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. And? He does it because that amount of money is meaningless to him. And Grimes has a new boyfriend now. 😂😂😂 She risked her body to have a baby for a man in a harem and your response is someone got to eat the leftovers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 02:24 PM
1	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. Wonderful. He has Musk's leftovers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 02:22 PM
-1	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. You're right, men don't have a prime because there is no ceiling. It's ever increasing. So long as men like Elon Musk and Bill Gates and the like continue to gain more financial resources, there will be women waiting in the wings for their chance, even as part of a harem. Look at the women in their prime willing to risk their bodies for Eddie Murphy, Elon Musk, Nick Cannon, Robert DeNiro, Jude Law, Alec Baldwin, Mel Gibson, Diddy and the list goes on, even when some of these women knew they were…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 01:24 PM
4	Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile? So men aren't looking stuff up online either because it's not that big a deal to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 05:09 AM
2	Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile? Why can't smile be used? It's not like smiling is some unique aspect of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 04:58 AM
7	Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile? Your evidence is the existence of a website?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 04:56 AM
5	Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile? I'm very interested to see the response to this	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 04:46 AM
3	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Someone doesn't understand basic law... I learned this basic shit in high school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 11:29 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right When she was on his porch, she was in his house. What don't you understand about that? She was on his property. She simply had to place a bag in front of a door (the location specified) and leave. What did she choose to do? Take out her camera. Angle herself so she had a view of the couch. Zoom in. You have no clue what she did because the damn video is from her biased perspective. It's not a ring camera that showed you the before, during and after. She's not a passive bystander taking a video.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:26 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right No one was there. You're left taking the word of a person whose motive is to go viral on Tik Tok, judged by her actions after the fact, who is a biased and unreliable narrator and whose story has changed repeatedly. Folks are pointing out the inconsistencies, similar to what OP is doing, but his goal is to justify everything she did and call it a grand conspiracy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:16 PM
7	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Exactly. These arguments are flimsy and fail with the slightest bit of scrutiny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:00 PM
3	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right No. Make your argument. Don't point to random documents. Use your words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 09:52 PM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right You should ask OP that. He is the one justifying her actions by saying they legally are permissible using doctrines of plain sight. You keep bringing up the guy. The guy is the object of the video. We are discussing her actions - the person who filmed a sleeping man and uploaded it to the Internet - being justified because things were in plain sight. Hope you can understand the nuance. There is no justification for recording video and especially posting a naked toddler to the Internet because a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 09:51 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right She was told to leave food on the porch in front of the door. That's it. Simple instructions. She wasn't told to film inside his home. Leave the food at the door as instructed, and leave. How difficult is that? Now you want to turn it into a crime because she decided to stare at a naked man on his couch. She wasn't forced to, she chose to. She's a predator.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 09:45 PM
6	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Because that's what you've just justified in your post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 09:42 PM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right This is the legal argument OP is making. That child pornographers should have access to publicly filmed toddlers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 09:40 PM
3	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right She's on his property.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 09:10 PM
5	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right No, because that's not the argument the OP made. They rest their entire argument on legal concepts of "plain view", "plain sight" and the door being in "public" so long as a naked toddler is in plain view, filming said video for child pornographers to see is justified.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 09:09 PM
3	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right So she could have just walked away after dropping the food off. She needed to have zero interaction with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 09:02 PM
3	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right The burden of proof is on you to show intent. You're doing quite poorly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 08:59 PM
8	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right So let's understand the blue pill argument. If a contractor was working on your front door or a window, and you were bathing your toddler, and say while drying your toddler, they start running through the house - the blue pill argument here is that they can film the naked toddler, and post it to the Internet for the world, including child pornographers, to see because the toddler did not have an expectation of privacy while the contractor had the door open?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 08:56 PM
9	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Yes. No curtains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 08:47 PM
2	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? I see a trend of women flocking to the party they say is taking away their rights..	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 12:44 PM
2	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Women are responsible for Trump.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 12:27 AM
0	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? I am not your free source of research labor. There are websites like that. Then don't participate in debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 12:27 AM
1	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Now check votes for the Republican candidate. This doesn't give any information about affirmatively voting for what OP is talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 12:26 AM
1	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Yes, it's been an increased share of the women vote over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 11:28 PM
2	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Women are. Looking at voting trends over the past 8 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 11:28 PM
-3	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Don't participate in debate where you're not prepared to defend your points with sources.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 10:57 PM
-1	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? But they've increasingly voted for these policies, so I didn't want to hear this weird narrative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 10:55 PM
2	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Stick to the OP. While women's rights have been supposedly under attack, women moved increasingly to the right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 10:14 PM
1	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? "Biden made gains with men, while Trump improved among women, narrowing the gender gap. The gender gap in the 2020 election was narrower than it had been in 2016, both because of gains that Biden made among men and because of gains Trump made among women. In 2020, men were almost evenly divided between Trump and Biden, unlike in 2016 when Trump won men by 11 points. Trump won a slightly larger share of women’s votes in 2020 than in 2016 (44% vs. 39%), while Biden’s share among women was nearly i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 10:04 PM
0	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? But more voted for Trump than the prior election which is what matters. I'm sure you know how elections work. The suburban women of a certain hue who swing back and forth are the ultimate ones who decide elections. They swung towards Trump because of the price of eggs, everything else be damned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 04:54 PM
0	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? https://cawp.rutgers.edu/facts/voters/gender-differences-voter-turnout Scroll down to voters by gender who reported voting. Thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 03:15 PM
1	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? 82mm women voted, 73mm men did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 02:35 PM
2	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? They won't have a good answer to this. The most rabid anti-abortionist are women. Women are the ones who put Trump in office.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 01:55 PM
18	Why do you think that women seem to believe that "leagues don't exist" more than men do? I too would like the salary of an NBA player while having the audience of a WNBA player. All of the benefits, none of the responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/25 12:22 AM
–	If there are women's issues men collectively don't have empathy/sympathy for, how do you deal with that? A part of society is talking about it. We are close to 50/50 on those who care and don't. More don't care about it than I would expect. What are you basing this conclusion on? The South Carolina law in consideration may even ban some daily oral contraceptive pills. Sure I could be more specific, but there are more examples than just that. This is not indicative of folks caring for maternal health. As opposed as I am to getting rid of contraceptive options for women, up to and including abortion,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 01:30 PM
–	If there are women's issues men collectively don't have empathy/sympathy for, how do you deal with that? Healthcare laws and deaths. This is vague. Articles from big publications and Jessica Valenti with her newsletter talk about it. So "society" is talking about it, contrary to your initial point. If it doesn't apply to your culture or your group, I think that's great, really. It actually does, thus my education on the topic. You're misguided. I'm just going on things I've seen near me (without fixing myself). All of the US has had an average rate of deaths increase when it already started off gre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 01:21 PM
–	If there are women's issues men collectively don't have empathy/sympathy for, how do you deal with that? Literally one state. Women are not the only ones talking about this. I've know about the uptick in maternal mortality rates for a while now. It's been national news for a while. What reasons are abundantly clear? Have you spoken to ob/gyn's to determine whether "nothing is being done about it"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 12:44 PM
–	If there are women's issues men collectively don't have empathy/sympathy for, how do you deal with that? You don't make much sense. If "society" doesn't care about maternal deaths, how is it that everyone has the information that maternal deaths have increased and why are folks investigating the reasons why? A society who did not care would turn a blind eye to it and let it fester, but even as you admit, it's been detected "the last years" and not only has the NYT done a large story of it, multiple outlets have followed up. How is that indicative of a society that doesn't care about maternal health…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 12:34 PM
1	Men Who Part With Their Money Easily Are Always Mentally ill. True	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 12:18 PM
2	Men Who Part With Their Money Easily Are Always Mentally ill. Concert ticket are different	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 11:27 AM
5	Men Who Part With Their Money Easily Are Always Mentally ill. If you decide to go be a stripper at a psychiatric hospital, you can expect some strange things to happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 11:25 AM
–	If there are women's issues men collectively don't have empathy/sympathy for, how do you deal with that? A lot of society does not give a shit about women's healthcare, and maternal mortality. Checks insurance and what I'm covering with my premiums even though I don't use it as a man What the hell are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 11:18 AM
1	Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked better She never denied that was an option	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 11:08 AM
2	Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked better You don't have to pray for me. I'm good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 12:42 AM
4	Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked better He started treating you bad while you were pregnant. You decided to keep your ties to him. You could have aborted. Nothing was stopping you. That's on you. The fact that you didn't use the tools available to you is no one's fault but yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 12:27 AM
4	Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked better Most times, the rationale is "I can change him".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 11:58 PM
1	Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked better Abortion is available to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 11:57 PM
9	Women get blamed for becoming single mothers and are told they should have picked better What is the debate? Yes, if you haven't vetted the father of your children, you will be blamed for choosing a shitty person. You bear the risks of pregnancy as you ladies like to say, one would expect the one who bears the risk is the more vigilant one. Women control access to sex. Men control access to relationships. If you choose to be a man's 6th baby mother, that's your fault. If you choose to have a man's kid who you haven't vetted and have not gotten any commitment from and complain about,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 11:55 PM
1	Yes, women’s standards have changed and no, its not the way you think. Women are hedonistic. End of story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 08:43 PM
6	The best thing about modern world is that as a woman I can choose to have a job that pays me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 08:25 PM
0	The best thing about modern world is that as a woman I can choose to have a job that pays me Liberating on the revenue side, not the expense side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 08:20 PM
6	Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal? I'm pro-slut.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 07:57 PM
6	Women tend to be all about mental health awareness, yet practice a zero tolerance policy for socially awkward men I agree with you - women don't care about mental health. This is where I disagree. Women only care about it insofar as it can be weaponized in their favor. The Therapy Industrial Complex ("TIC") is a capitalist product of commoditizing mental health (in the domain where women stand to gain greater economic benefit) for profit and gain. Hence why you hear terms like he was a narcissist, therapy as maintenance, speaking my truth, I'm neurodivergent as a sexy label to be treated special, among many…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 07:19 PM
1	Why is sex a nontradeable ? I don't know. Maybe they do. Someone should study that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 01:05 AM
1	Why is sex a nontradeable ? Please, delete this response as soon as you can. Lol. You think this was a smart reply, it isn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 08:13 PM
-4	Why is sex a nontradeable ? What makes you think they are in seedy buildings? You know what a seedy building is implying right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 08:06 PM
-3	Why is sex a nontradeable ? I hear, like every profession, there are those who make a lot and those who make a little. There are high class escorts (a la Eliot Spitzer, former governor of NY) and lower cost prostitutes who sell their wares in the streets. There's variety across the budget spectrum. Very interesting how you view them with such disdain and believe they are all crack whores living on their last dollar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 08:01 PM
3	Why is sex a nontradeable ? As moral as the folks getting lattes from Starbucks knowing that one of the baristas only works there to support their heroin addiction and whose bf abuses her at home unless she goes to work everyday to bring him money. As moral as they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:57 PM
1	Why is sex a nontradeable ? This is ridiculous. I can't walk into a grocery store and offer financial advisor services in exchange for my groceries either. A lot of these comments are grasping at straws and no one can actually coherently write a philosophical defense outside of "yuck".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:50 PM
0	Why is sex a nontradeable ? If you were deep in a hardcore drug addiction and knew the only way to get your next fix was to suck a random man's dick, is that really a choice? Yes. Can't get a minimum wage job because of possible criminal record and the fact that she'd need to shoot up at work. It's the best of a very bad bunch of options. Yes, a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:39 PM
1	Why is sex a nontradeable ? So dating is coercion as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:37 PM
-4	Why is sex a nontradeable ? because there is no alternative way of making as much money FTFY	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:36 PM
1	Why is sex a nontradeable ? They didn't propose cuts, they actually cut. That led to a rise in black lung disease. I'm not going to do your homework for you on this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:29 PM
1	Why is sex a nontradeable ? https://share.google/vLBjsjsbGumcIywm8	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:02 PM
0	Why is sex a nontradeable ? The difference is one spreads public disease. This can happen at McDonald's. The difference is, for McDonald's, consumers are able to eat. For sex work, no one benefits except for through sadism. No one benefits? One person gets money. The other person received a service. Do you argue the same about the massage industry? No one benefits there? The difference is how two people who are working at McDonald's equally don't require one to pay the other. Yes, you do. In fact, McDonald's, similar to a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:00 PM
0	Why is sex a nontradeable ? What is all the time. We were talking about porn stars. You then create a larger group that includes more than porn stars and say look at these stats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:53 PM
0	Why is sex a nontradeable ? Let me add to this. Mine workers are dying from black lung. What are you even talking about? I don't see anyone up in arms about the forced labor of mine workers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:49 PM
2	Why is sex a nontradeable ? Exactly. Labor that one does not want to do is effectively slavery by their definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:47 PM
0	Why is sex a nontradeable ? Sex worker =/= porn star.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:43 PM
5	Why is sex a nontradeable ? I'm confused as to why the nature of the work matters. Porn stars have sex all the time on film. Is that rape to you? They are getting fucked and nutted on all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:33 PM
2	Why is sex a nontradeable ? You're ok raping someone for their labor. You're just ok with it since it benefits you. Nice to know as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:16 PM
1	Why is sex a nontradeable ? The same way you don't know whether someone who is serving you or providing a service is being paid a legal wage and is doing it for the money. But you have no outrage doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:13 PM
4	Why is sex a nontradeable ? So was interracial marriage at one point. That's not the conversation and is irrelevant. You are simply appealing to authority at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:10 PM
3	Why is sex a nontradeable ? You can also be coerced into working at McDonald's because you need the money to survive. What's the difference	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:07 PM
-1	Why is sex a nontradeable ? And? Others put money on a pedestal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:06 PM
0	Why is sex a nontradeable ? So as long as she's thriving, is fine to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:05 PM
3	Why is sex a nontradeable ? You literally created a definition of rape that says it's an unwanted use of your body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:03 PM
0	Why is sex a nontradeable ? What if she's having sex to thrive, a la Onlyfans?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 05:51 PM
3	Why is sex a nontradeable ? First, you're very wrong. But let's assume you made sense. By that same thinking, are you calling the labor markets one big rape fest?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 05:49 PM
-3	Why is sex a nontradeable ? Folks sell their bodies for labor everyday. Some well their bodies for scientific study. I too am confused why this differs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 05:46 PM
1	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA Yup, they should. Everyone should choose better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 05:49 PM
1	Men who dated "experienced" women, how do you deal with the fact that your partner likely hooked up with guys hotter than you? Still hit though	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 11:00 PM
1	The “Innocent Privilege” Women Have Enjoyed for decades Is Fading As Technology Evolves "You know Steve's wife as been around. You know that guy with a huge dick that's fucking all those women? Yeah she was a side piece in his haram for months right before meeting Steve... That's the type of women he's settling for haha, Steve's big dick's leftovers." 😂😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 10:33 PM
3	Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most men 😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 05:29 PM
5	Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most men So you agree men can get ruined without regard to socioeconomic status?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 05:23 PM
4	Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most men You just repeated what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 04:41 PM
1	Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most men Statistically, no more than the number of women who cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 04:25 PM
2	Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most men Preach	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 04:24 PM
6	Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most men Until said woman changes her socioeconomic status while in the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 04:23 PM
7	Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most men This. Men's mental load is dismissed or non-existent because they are taken as being a real man. Any complaints and they (women) question your sexuality in response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 04:20 PM
1	Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most men Triggered by those words?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 04:15 PM
-1	They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married. Sure, but that's not what the studies and women's resulting talking points actually say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 02:06 PM
3	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex The only difference between a situationship and a FWB is delusion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 12:46 PM
–	Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers? Like dude, you deny it, and then later in the same paragraph you do the same again, mocking any woman who went to college claiming she’s automatically a bitch screeching “qWeEenz”. You clearly have issues about women making money and going to school. And this is the problem. The sisterhood won't even concede that women with bad attitudes exist who make their education and career everything and walk around with the "I'm better than you" attitude. Pointing out a flaw in a large number of women who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 11:42 AM
0	Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers? I think it's very interesting you switched your argument from claiming there's nothing about social class that makes any difference in a woman to specifying a "master in gender studies", a title routinely used to mock women with careers as being useless. It really shouldn't be interesting, because I used an example of one of my original three. This would fit in the education bucket. I get it, you think women shouldn't have jobs. Triggered much? Specify where I wrote that. When you make your educ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 09:46 PM
1	Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers? You may feel there’s nothing inherent there, but statistically, higher educational outcomes for women are strongly correlated with lower divorce rates. The answer you're looking for is financial stability which you mention in your next paragraph. So long as household income is above a certain level, the divorce rate drops. But also remember, women will only typically date those who make the same or more than they do. You are not making the point you think you're making. No where in my statement …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 04:58 PM
4	Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers? It's because your reasoning is terrible and obfuscating the actual point. Women's careers and achievements do not matter because there is nothing inherent in a career, education or achievement that leads to a good relationship. No one has ever argued that being a good lawyer makes you a good wife or mother. Even further, as a general rule, women want men who make as much or more than they do as a barometer of fit. The amount of money one makes is generally arbitrary and has zero correlation to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 01:38 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Deflecting the question I see. This was about marriage, but I know, deflection is a sport for folks like you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 05:28 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. I mean, point me to a place, online or in the real world, where you find a group of men complaining about not being married. If not....	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 05:24 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. You're watching too much 90 day fiance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 04:18 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Go read r/Waiting_To_Wed and go see the huge number of desperate guys just screaming out to get married /s 😂😂😂 This comment is ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 12:22 PM
2	Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down? Because men actually care about love. Women care about what can be done for them. They are transactional as fuck with little reciprocation, generally speaking. They expect to be taken care of as the base case. Not all, that is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 11:28 PM
3	Men are cowards on abortion Glad to hear a woman finally say it. It was women who were staunchly anti abortion, so we can stop this whole, it's men trying to control women's bodies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 12:22 PM
5	Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad? No one cares about your standards. Go seek the billionaire 6'7 guy you've been pining for. The problem is that the men you want don't want you. Your experience tells you that you don't qualify - those men don't find you attractive. Essentially, you don't meet your own standards. Then, rather than work on yourself, you complain and blame the collective "men" saying they don't meet your standards, "where are all the good men" and other stupid comments like that. No - you just don't qualify for you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 11:25 PM
5	Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 03:49 PM
9	Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex? Not really. Also, read the fucking prompt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 03:43 PM
28	Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex? If she doesn't like sex, she's not attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 02:12 PM
2	Men want women to settle for them I'd rather touch grass in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 02:30 PM
5	Men want women to settle for them Women are far more likely to post on social media like a daily diary, so I just don't believe you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 02:09 PM
4	Men want women to settle for them Somehow i don't see that. I see daily posts about too high standards of women etc From other women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 02:05 PM
1	Men want women to settle for them You're acting like it's a singularly male phenomenon. You center women as perfect beings who men want to settle. No, you all want people who you think have (often better) qualities than you to choose you because it reinforces your belief of what you "deserve" and inflates your ego. You just don't want to call it settling when it comes to women. The point is everyone wants to be settled for by someone better than them. You (women) can't say you were settled for because it hurts your feelings and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 01:57 PM
2	Men want women to settle for them And those same women want the Chads to settle for them, so what's the difference?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 01:48 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Being a hoe is an addiction. Lack of sexual discipline is similar to drug addicts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 02:36 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Addictions aren't normal by any stretch of the imagination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 02:28 PM
1	Why would a woman want to get married even though men overwhelmingly reap the benefits at the expense of women? Because men lie to make women happy. You can't in one breath argue men withhold their feelings and are not "emotionally intelligent" while then taking what they say in surveys at face value. Either they are in touch with their emotions and express it or they lie to make women happy and don't say what they really feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 03:34 PM
0	Why would a woman want to get married even though men overwhelmingly reap the benefits at the expense of women? Living longer is not indicative of quality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 01:56 PM
1	Why would a woman want to get married even though men overwhelmingly reap the benefits at the expense of women? Here's the secret: it isn't better for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 01:32 PM
1	Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationships I mean, of course they are. Otherwise, where would they be finding the women to beat in the first place?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 11:40 AM
4	I think women are worst in bed then men are Yea, I'm starting not to believe that she's a dancer	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 03:05 PM
-2	I think women are worst in bed then men are What kind of dance do you do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 08:28 PM
4	I think women are worst in bed then men are Found the person who can't twerk	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 07:31 PM
1	I think women are worst in bed then men are The bar is in hell for women's skills	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 07:30 PM
1	Dating is prostitution. Exactly, there is emotion involved in standard run of the mill prostitution. I'm not sure what you mean by love? Love is not involved in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 02:54 PM
1	Dating is prostitution. This is not necessarily true. You are saying if there is no exchange of emotions (as women say, they can have meaningless sex) then it's classified as prostitution right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 02:07 PM
1	Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23% So ChatGPT told you she was posing for the male gaze? ETA - see the thing with AI is shitty prompt, shitty answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 10:34 PM
1	Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23% Well, the one you said in your post was posting for the male gaze...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 10:02 PM
1	Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23% Can you prove she's "posing for male gaze"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 05:13 PM
1	All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal men Wrong. This dating app is serving as a menu for women to experience the toxic men they claim they dislike. This is simply increasing the popularity of so called "bad" men because women will 1. think they can change him or 2. they actually enjoy the toxicity if he has a big enough dick, has a large enough bank account, is tall enough or has the looks. Normal men were never part of the conversation. Women want men who other women want. Watch what they do, not what they say. This app will quickly d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 08:46 PM
1	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. And how is one supposed to know a therapist is using "evidence based practices" as a lay person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 04:49 PM
1	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. Sort of like "be yourself bro", "get a better personality" that's touted around here by the blues?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 03:04 PM
1	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. Psychology and therapy are not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 03:03 PM
0	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. Psychology and therapy are not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 03:00 PM
2	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. No. This is wrong. Doctors have tests to verify things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 02:55 PM
0	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. Apologies - put under the wrong post. But a grift indeed. Women rebelled over their medical doctors calling them fat, they certainly are going to rebel over any therapy that isn't a feel good personal human vibrator they can go to once a week. The problem with therapy as practiced generally is a bunch of "therapists" are not really therapists at all - they're professional cheerleaders with worthless training/degrees who believe they can address all issues - even those they were never trained to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 02:44 PM
-3	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. 100% agree. Women rebelled over their medical doctors calling them fat, they certainly are going to rebel over any therapy that isn't a feel good personal human vibrator they can go to once a week. The problem with therapy as practiced generally is a bunch of "therapists" are not really therapists at all - they're professional cheerleaders with worthless training/degrees who believe they can address all issues - even those they were never trained to address. The part I most enjoy hearing and lau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 02:37 PM
1	Society Hates Men Who Adapt to the "New Normal" Created by Feminism Stop it. The investigation into Adams started way before there was a migrant crisis in NYC. You clearly never read the evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 12:56 PM
1	Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductive Who are the top 100 OF earners? Name them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 10:45 AM
8	Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductive What's the point of this when he just got married again, to a woman that's like a 4 in the face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 10:42 AM
–	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. Then why are so many deadbeat fathers repeat offenders with multiple women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 03:47 PM
–	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. They look at the man who had three kids who he doesn't see or pay for, then choose to have his child because they have an inflated sense of self, they are different. Then they say he's a deadbeat and could he do this to her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 03:30 PM
–	“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. Yes it does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 03:28 PM
1	''Women aren't subjected to the draft therefor they shouldn't be able to vote'' is astoundingly bad logic What? So why did early legislatures not want the unwashed masses voting, so they chose representation directly to Congress?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 11:28 AM
1	''Women aren't subjected to the draft therefor they shouldn't be able to vote'' is astoundingly bad logic So include women in the draft. Problem solved. It breaks the logic chain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 11:26 AM
4	Stop the "emotional labor" But yet in all these spaces, it's only discussed with respect to women. It is blind to men. I dare you find a widely accepted piece that quotes emotional labor with respect to men or recognizes the "emotional labor" they must do in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:00 PM
4	Stop the "emotional labor" By who exactly? By people who threw the kitchen sink into a term that tries to define every grievance. There's not even a questioning of whether the concept of "emotional labor" exists in a relationship. Logically, it doesn't. It's allowed mostly women to devalue any labor that their partners go through (for example, the "emotional labor" of financially providing for a family that men go through and keeping up with unreasonable spending habits of their partners) to prioritize their own grievance…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 03:16 PM
4	Stop the "emotional labor" That's because they tried to ram a term that had absolutely nothing to do with relationships into their relationships and home lives. Even the sociologists who created the term has criticized the extension of its use in this context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 03:02 PM
-2	Stop the "emotional labor" It's also wrongly applied. At least use the actual definition. It's about suppressing or ignoring one's own emotion, not about managing others emotions. So if you are suppressing and not expressing how you truly feel at home just so things go nicely, that's the labor, the active suppression. But the workplace is more pernicious because one's income is tied to doing so. At home, the stakes are different, which is why it's a ridiculous term. If you want to say you don't want to manage other's emot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 02:59 PM
6	Stop the "emotional labor" Emotional labor was about additional labor required in the workplace, especially hospitality and service industries. It was never meant to cover the home. And even if you want to ridiculously extend to the home, which has serious problems, it's about suppressing or faking emotion, it's not about taking care of the emotions of others. It's not about actual external labor. That's just a perverse definition to extend victimhood where none exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 02:52 PM
4	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter They'd blame it on the patriarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 02:53 PM
-1	What are your thoughts on woman's "expiration date"? Yes, life is not fair. Women get magnitudes of more attention when they are younger vs when they are older. Men have to work on their value to be "worthy". Men are called broke while pretty women who situated similarly financially are referred to as the "prize". Women die older, men die younger. Eggs stop ovulating while sperm get generated for longer. So yes, all of the advantages you get when you're younger expire. All of the disadvantages as a man disappear as you get older, you just don't ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 01:59 PM
1	Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”? She's recreational use only. Not sure why you're taking this person seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 12:39 PM
1	Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”? Don't worry about why. Just pump and dump. Is recreational use only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 12:37 PM
1	Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning? I'm cleaner, clean better and more organized than all the women I've dated. It's a myth that women are cleaner/neater.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 06:54 PM
1	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. That would be just fine. 30 days in jail, community service, etc. People here are acting like it's the end of their life if the get a sentence. Anything to excuse this abhorrent behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:34 AM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. It really is disgusting using a child as a shield for fraudulent behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 12:37 AM
2	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Cheating isn't a crime. Fraud is. For purposes of calculating damages, that is a reasonable proxy. No court can force you to go to work and share your paycheck with your wife. On the other hand, a court can compel child support regardless of whether you work or not. That's the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 09:41 PM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Again, disagree. One can reasonably assume that had the fraud not been committed, the father would have divorced, had he known the truth at the time, if he decides to divorce at the time. We can then infer the same fraud as he would not have been responsible. Any calculation of child support would then be backdated to the first instance in the fraud (conception) as what it would have been in that instance and restitution made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 09:04 PM
4	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. They need to figure it out. Simple way to avoid this is to not engage in the fraud to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 07:35 PM
5	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Damn right. Fucking kid living on easy street through the proceeds of a fraud. If she was the mastermind of a Ponzi scheme and used all the money to give her kid a great life, no one here would blink an eye snatching the ill gotten gains from their grubby little hands. Run me my fucking coins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:16 PM
9	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. It's in the best interest of justice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:09 PM
6	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. The jail sentence will end. Just because you go to jail doesn't mean you earn zero forever. What kind of logic is this? Yes, it's a good outcome. He will receive restitution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 06:06 PM
6	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Fuck them kids. She committed fraud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:57 PM
2	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. what do you think should be done to make men whole in cases where a woman has little to no assets and the state incarcerates her and she will not be capable of even beginning repayment for several years? the man is just fucked? She will begin her restitution when she gets out of jail. There are lots of programs that deal with this already. It's not new.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:54 PM
8	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Deterrence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:51 PM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. How is it not intentional deception when you've let another man ejaculate in you unprotected, don't have clear guidance on who the father is, then say for a fact it is a person who is in fact not the father? Are they unaware that they had unprotected sex with another man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:44 PM
7	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. The biological dad did not force the wrongly accused to pay. How hard is it for a woman to say "I fucked another man/other men and this child may not be yours"? Problem solved. You're implying that the biological father has actual knowledge that the woman has his child. Everyone is running around here saying men should operate on "trust me bro, I'm your wife/gf/etc" and now she wrongly accuses a man and drains his resources and your saying the bio dad, who may not even know he has a child, shoul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:27 PM
9	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. You don't get the idea of chained lawsuits. She needs to get the recovery from the father. The wrongly accused has a cause of action against the person who caused him harm. The biological father never claimed the wrongly accused was the father. It was the mother of the child. If she wants to recover funds she received to take care of her child, she can recover from the biological father, assuming she knows who he is. That's her burden, not the wrongly accused. If you sold me something based on a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:12 PM
11	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. And she can sue for that. Her crime, which she benefits from (especially more if the wrongly accused has a higher income) is falsely and fraudulently assigning paternity to the wrong person which she should not have done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 03:11 PM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Sure. Is this the norm in fraud cases? Bernie Madoff went to prison. Are you arguing an injustice there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:15 PM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. How exactly are all women being punished for the actions of a few in the case of paternity?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:15 PM
5	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Which is the case in a lot of crimes that are committed. You think a single mother who murders someone, assaults someone or engages in embezzlement shouldn't face any consequences because "there's a child in that that needs to go somewhere"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:14 PM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Then why are you deflecting by bringing up an example of someone who got away with fraud?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:12 PM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. I'm more interested in justice, not some nebulous "peace".	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:11 PM
17	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Dollars are fungible. She indirectly benefits from the fraud by reducing her financial obligations and fraudulently imposing them on another person. The fraud originated from her intentional misrepresentation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:07 PM
2	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:05 PM
9	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. The majority of men aren't rapist either so I guess by your logic, we shouldn't strengthen any laws pertaining to that either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:03 PM
6	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Why is that anyone's problem except the criminal who engaged in fraud? "Oh no! It's so burdensome! It's tough to get a job" so don't engage in fraud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 01:59 PM
5	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Because the child is innocent and didn’t scam you. They loved you because they grew up thinking of you as their father. You spent years raising this kid with your own values and tucking them in and holding them while they fell asleep. I don't know whose heart strings you think you're pulling by saying "but what about the children?!". The child isn't going to jail. The fraudster is. Children don't choose to have murderers, rapists, fraudsters, etc as parents. But the parent still goes to jail if …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 01:57 PM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. This is not a serious response. Arguing no one should go to jail for murder because here's one person who got away with it is not a winning argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 01:47 PM
2	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. i do think jail is way overused for civil, non-violent matters. i think sending a woman to jail, a child going into the system, and the man getting no money because she’s making $1/day in jail sounds like possibly the worst outcome for society in these cases. getting absolutely nothing is not the outcome i wish for men in this situation. Completely disagree here. Jail is part of the sentence. Restitution is the other. No reason why this would be treated differently than any other crime of fraud.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:59 PM
7	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. What's your point with this statement? Of course you do. But you can face jail time if you don't pay child support. How far is this to understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:36 PM
2	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. paternity fraud is different than regular fraud. there is an innocent child at play, and a father who may or may not wish to continue a parental relationship. i think restitution to the victims here is more important than punishment to the perpetrator. So parents who commit tax fraud shouldn't go to jail if there are innocent children in the house? Explain this logic and cite a case where the existence of innocent children ended a prosecution or impacted a verdict. If a man (not father since he'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:35 PM
6	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Again, this post is addressing criminal action. That doesn't exist although it does for other fraud. It exists for failure to pay child support as well (contempt of court).	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:16 PM
8	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. But there are consequences, up to and including jail time. Loss of driving privileges, loss of passport, wage garnishment, the list goes on. There is no punishment for paternity fraud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:10 PM
3	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. They can serve their jail time and pay restitution. This is common. It's a little ridiculous to say you shouldn't serve your punishment because it will be a taxpayer burden. No other case of fraud works like that. Sounds like you want a special carveout for women. Did you think the same for Bernie Madoff's fraud? the man cannot be made monetarily whole by someone who earns nothing. Yes, he can. Again, this is done all the time in fraud cases. Asset forfeiture, wage garnishment, etc. After they'v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:09 PM
4	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. I'm not sure where you've read that cheating is a crime. No one is suggesting that. Fraudulently ascribing paternity to the wrong person should be a crime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 11:52 AM
4	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. If you committed any type of fraud, you'd go to jail. Your child would suffer then as well. Are you suggesting that if a parent were to commit a fraud (say embezzlement, tax evasion or a Ponzi scheme) that they shouldn't go to jail because they have children? That's very strange that you think parents now should have a defense against committing fraud that their children would suffer. But judging from OP, I guess some men really don’t care about kids much They are being scammed. Why would they c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 11:50 AM
7	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. They do. There's jail time associated with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 11:44 AM
6	If paternity fraud was considered a serious crime and the mother was made to pay. Completely disagree with this. There are lots of crimes that come with penalties where money cannot make the person whole (wrongful death as an example), yet we still have remedies. It didn't mean men are robotic; it means that that is the only remedy available at law. So yes, there should be restitution, pain and suffering and jail time for fraudulent behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 11:43 AM
–	How do you gauge the emotional intelligence of a man you’re interested in? Emotional intelligence doesn't factor for the UbërChad. It's a buzz word to explain away the unattractive/average ones. If you don't serve as an emotional tampon to her, you're emotionally unintelligent. As Chad or Chad adjacent, you can do all the fuck boy stuff. They get a pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 09:45 PM
8	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" Advancements in science, the increase in life expectancy and general increase in standard of living is also due to the patriarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 07:36 PM
0	The "No True Good Guy" Fallacy You wouldn't be able to tell 5'11" and 6'0" apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 11:49 PM
6	CMV: Men use "logic and reason" as an excuse for low EQ If this is the video you wanted to use to make a point, you failed miserably. You're literally advocating for childlike behavior. You're an adult responsible for how you act, point blank.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 03:27 AM
1	Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnership Same thing. Custody is in relation to the child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 03:04 AM
1	Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnership So, are you seriously saying "standard of the marriage" is not measured via combining the income together as a starting point? I have experience in this area.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 02:35 AM
1	Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnership Child support is a different matter. That money belongs to the children, so that is your responsibility in relation to the children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 02:29 AM
1	Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnership No one is saying there are no other considerations. Not sure why you're stuck on this point. But maintaining the marital standard of living is a major factor. And discretion from the judge makes it quite subjective at the end of the day. My personal belief is you return to the position you were pre marriage, adjusted for the children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 02:27 AM
2	Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnership Which legislation? You understand divorce laws differ state by state right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 01:38 AM
4	Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnership I'd have to agree with maintaining the "lifestyle which one is accustomed to" is a terrible standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 01:39 PM
4	Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnership It's the only quantifiable thing, unless you have some ideas how to qualify and validate the other things. Would love to hear them if you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 01:37 PM
–	“ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spaces Taken to its logical conclusion, those men will die off. As I said, anyone can say anything. It's for attention. People already have the tools to extricate such thinking from their own lives, so why give it attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 03:05 PM
–	“ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spaces So that thinking doesn't last long does it? Even if it's aspirational, it runs into the reality of divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 03:00 PM
–	“ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spaces How many people in your life are property of their husbands?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 02:46 PM
–	“ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spaces It's extreme for liberals not to conservatives. Please adjust what you're trying to say here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 04:05 PM
2	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 02:21 AM
2	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? Yup. So, not a refugee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 12:43 AM
2	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? Not the definition of a refugee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 12:00 AM
3	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? Move to NY, CA or IL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 11:48 PM
6	How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied? Lol. Good luck. You'll see women trot out these same statistics to show men are not worthy of them but then turn around and claim they continue to be oppressed by the patriarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 11:47 PM
11	“ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spaces My opinion is by giving these comments/viewpoints the light of day and oxygen, you elevate them and give them more worth than they deserve. These comments thrive on shock value and in a world where attention is currency, in order to get said attention (by people like you), it gets increasingly extreme in order to capture your eyeballs. This rhetoric only thrives on attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 08:41 PM
3	Women don't oppose patriarchy completely, only parts that harming them. They oppose the idea of a draft. When it actually happens, most stay quiet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:49 PM
1	People need to stop throwing the word "predator" around Wonderful argument you made there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:36 PM
1	People need to stop throwing the word "predator" around The greatest resource transfer between men and women has happened under the guise of divorce. It is one of the most predatory legal constructs that exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:22 PM
3	People need to stop throwing the word "predator" around Great. Would love to see it eliminated entirely. The issue is, people use it when it benefits their argument or their bias in a particular topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:12 PM
1	People need to stop throwing the word "predator" around Just like divorce, one of the most predatory things that exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:55 PM
3	People need to stop throwing the word "predator" around Wonderful, so we can retire the women mature faster myth?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:53 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. It is disconnected. You sleep with an attractive person because they're attractive. Whether they give you an orgasm or not is a gamble. As you said, you hope. But you act like women being horny for guys who don't give them orgasms is some new discovery. You don't "hope" you get erect for someone. That's the difference. You do or you don't. A woman doesn't hope they're horny for a guy. They either are or they aren't. They are not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 12:47 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. It is disconnected. You sleep with an attractive person because they're attractive. Whether they give you an orgasm or not is a gamble. As you said, you hope. But you act like women being horny for guys who don't give them orgasms is some new discovery. You don't "hope" you get erect for someone. That's the difference. You do or you don't. A woman doesn't hope they're horny for a guy. They either are or they aren't. They are not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 12:47 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. You wrote: Men certainly aren’t deliberately hooking up with women they don’t get erect for. Nor are women. You're changing your argument. Your comparison of being erect and a woman having an orgasm is just plain wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 12:34 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. In your statement, if someone wrote women aren't sleeping with men they don't have orgasms with, that would be really dumb. Women do get horny or wet for certain men. That's the equivalent. ETA: and you clearly haven't heard of men going soft during sex because the woman is terrible in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 12:27 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. What? Being erect and having an orgasm are two very different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 12:24 PM
5	Women love romance but men do romance. Link your study.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 01:54 PM
1	I think that marriage is risk. It actually doesn't reinforce anything. Men need to focus on their happiness and do what makes them happy. Wealthy people take their own lives. A longer life span doesn't mean a better life. More responsible, that's a view from others and it means in service to others - men should focus on what makes them and not what benefits others. Engage in less risky behaviors, again, what benefits others, not what makes men happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 01:56 AM
-2	I think that marriage is risk. Life satisfaction and happiness are not the same. English is hard for some of you. I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 01:48 AM
0	I think that marriage is risk. Funny it doesn't say happier. Focus on your happiness. That is all that matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/25 12:31 AM
9	Alimony laws force men to provide after the relationship ends. Men seek sex and affection. No laws force women to uphold that role in or outside of the relationship. Did the husband not provide the wife with sex? I'm confused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 10:51 PM
25	Alimony laws force men to provide after the relationship ends. Men seek sex and affection. No laws force women to uphold that role in or outside of the relationship. Disagree. Having forced sex is ridiculous under any circumstance and would be contrary to public policy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 10:43 PM
–	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming Woah. Didn't know you knew what I cared about. So on one hand, you write why men should care but then turn around and proclaim, you don't care. Make up your mind. The need to be right makes you sound crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 11:17 AM
2	4B movement after Trump's victory did not last long last Ah, so you don't think those women didn't really give a fuck about women's rights but were doing it to say fuck you to men in a fit if lonely woman rage. I think your brain is pretty fucked to try to explain or reason through anything. But I'm just an observer of your tortured logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 01:48 AM
2	4B movement after Trump's victory did not last long last What action did I ascribe to them? I'd like to tease that out a little more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 01:30 AM
2	4B movement after Trump's victory did not last long last You think the 4B movement is "made up"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 11:25 PM
6	4B movement after Trump's victory did not last long last Likewise for the 4B movement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 11:05 PM
0	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming We care because women care. That's the point. No, it wouldn't. In theory, men would just make more. Women are the ones who argued it was a zero sum game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 10:24 PM
2	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming No it doesn't. Men are the ones being told to tackle the pay gap. The fact that it's essentially zero tells you men had to care about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 10:15 PM
3	Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conforming Pay gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 10:06 PM
1	Should men try to get into/initiate relationships? They scream like banshees about revenge fantasies when they are the primary purveyors of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 11:35 AM
5	Should men try to get into/initiate relationships? They're using the same statistics that they responded to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 11:33 AM
2	Should men try to get into/initiate relationships? Would it be fair for those men to act like women who can't get a man today and complain? Seems egalitarian to me, unless you believe women should have a special pass to bitch and complain while men should shut up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 11:31 AM
3	Q4M: What are some examples of "womanese"? Talking about problems incessantly but not wanting to solve those problems. The joy is in the complaining, not the solution. If they have nothing to complain about, it's like a ship lost at sea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 03:34 PM
3	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece You have no point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 02:01 PM
3	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece You don't think women complain about emotionally unavailable men in real life? You think that's a revenge fantasy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 12:42 PM
4	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece Yes - you think a person to split expenses with is a feature of a bangmaid, not an adult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 12:41 PM
3	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece Then what do you think is the obnoxious therapy speak that women use when they are on some guys roster? You don't think labeling a guy emotionally unavailable is a complaint?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 12:40 PM
3	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece I'm sorry, this is pathetic. What details in particular? An entire sub of women who weren't intelligent enough to know they wanted to get married and that their partners dragging their feet was indicative of them not wanting the same? You're the one consuming these echo chambers for your own fantasies. What percentage of the population do these women represent exactly since you've consumed it all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 12:39 PM
7	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece More like, stop complaining when they don't want to be with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 12:23 PM
5	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece You described it, pretty succinctly. I don't need to read women complaining on the Internet about their choices. You describe men as dragging their feet on marriage as emotionally unavailable. If marriage was important to them, they'd find people who'd want to marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 12:20 PM
11	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece Maybe it's time to look in the mirror.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 12:18 PM
5	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece You folks come up with the most ridiculous terms. A woman being an adult now means she's a bangmaid ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 12:17 PM
2	Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piece Emotionally unavailable does not mean not wanting to get married. That's ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 12:15 PM
-1	Elephant in the room: Taken guys on the dating market are a big problem Why would you let your girlfriend stop you from finding the love of your life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 11:15 PM
2	Q4Men: Would you date a woman who claims she was falsely accused of falsely accusing a man? How attractive is Sally?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 12:34 AM
1	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard Women don't realize it's a swamp because they are in it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 12:19 AM
5	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard If women don't want to have babies, why are they having them. No one is forcing them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 12:12 AM
2	Is there a shortage of relationship material men as compared to women? This has nothing to do with people carrying their weight. It has everything to do with materialism. If you can't tell the difference, might be why you're single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 01:19 AM
2	Is there a shortage of relationship material men as compared to women? Of course you woman would discount men for materialistic reasons. We already know that. Thanks for saying it out loud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 12:09 AM
2	Working husbands and wives do roughly equal hours of labor Here we go. Part of the women are never wrong crew	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 11:45 PM
0	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. of course this would be deleted by the mods although it rebuts the initial claim of the post - the point is they are lying Of course. The woman in the post you linked said it perfectly. Size never mattered° with her partners, but her ex was huge, while her current boyfriend is small. It's virtue signaling because they can't be seen body shaming, they have a reputation to uphold. But in the back of their minds, you're inadequate. ° - Unless you meet the minimum size requirement	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:48 PM
–	What is the reason that women have longer sexual experimentation leashes than guys do? Because women are even more homophobic than men are. Rules for thee, not for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:04 PM
–	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. Of course. The woman in the post you linked said it perfectly. Size never mattered° with her partners, but her ex was huge, while her current boyfriend is small. It's cute signaling because they can't be seen body shaming, they have a reputation to uphold. But in the back of their minds, you're inadequate. ° - Unless you meet the minimum size requirement	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:25 AM
5	Q4M: What do you believe are some rules of The Sisterhood? Sure. There's the example of when women cheat on their spouses. Cheating Is Now Being Described as a Feminist Act of Self-Care "She was interviewed by Bustle in an article entitled "When Having An Affair Is An Act Of Self-Care," which claimed that infidelity can actually be a feminist act of empowerment for women. In some of Piazza's interviews, the women gave various reasons for their affairs: they were unhappy and not sexually satisfied by their husband, they were unfulfilled during the Covid …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 07:48 PM
4	Q4M: What do you believe are some rules of The Sisterhood? Those are called simps or the male orbiters who seek out crumbs of pussy wherever they go. This is a core belief of the sisterhood. That there are certain men who internalize it doesn't change that fact. Stop centering men in this conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:56 PM
16	Q4M: What do you believe are some rules of The Sisterhood? If a woman does something that is clearly wrong, blame a man, blame the patriarchy or blame society. A woman is never responsible for her own actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 03:36 PM
0	This place does not match up with reality And when the UbërChad comes along...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 02:03 AM
2	This place does not match up with reality You don't need a course to go to the gym, excel at work or be social.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 11:24 PM
1	Orgasm the physical experience of sex is the discussion, not "happiness". part of being responsible for my own "happiness" is having a partner who is good in bed	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 07:15 PM
3	Orgasm Are you reading the thread or just making stuff up. The person three posts above said women don't judge those men. You gotta try reading sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 05:04 PM
-1	Orgasm Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 04:59 PM
-3	Orgasm Now you get it! So happy how it took you one paragraph to contradict yourself and get the actual point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 04:16 PM
-1	Orgasm She doesn't. It's pure virtue signaling painting women in the reasonable, perfect light. "Of course we don't judge" they proclaim, while the reality tells a different story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 03:34 PM
-2	Orgasm I want you to read your own response. Desirable and good, aka being happy with the sex you're having, is your responsibility. Stop relying on others to do that for you. Sounds lazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 03:31 PM
-2	Orgasm What kind of monster uses a woman he cares about for his sole sexual gratification when he can do it himself? One who's paying for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 02:47 PM
-1	Orgasm I don't know what this is supposed to mean in the context of my response. It's sort of self evident by my statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 02:43 PM
0	Orgasm You're responsible for your own happiness	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 02:16 PM
2	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Where exactly did you read the word feminist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 03:51 AM
-2	Why do you think some women settle for relationships with men who don’t share domestic responsibilities according to their preferences? Ah yes, yet again, women are never responsible for the choices they make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 01:57 AM
3	Women more prone to express disgust and take offense when a guy perceived as "below their league" shows any kind of interest You said you wouldn't advise them in the first place, so I'm not sure why you're saying it's up to them to decide. You wouldn't get to the deciding part in the first place because you wouldn't say anything. I didn't say I expected them to do anything. That's you adding additional things that weren't written in my response. I asked you how would you advise someone. And you said you wouldn't because that's their preference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 01:52 AM
2	Women more prone to express disgust and take offense when a guy perceived as "below their league" shows any kind of interest Meaning you wouldn't advise this wayward person of reality when they hold unrealistic expectations. You don't advise friends or others when they're about to do something foolish, you just call it their "preference". I completely understand how you approach those around you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 01:42 AM
2	Women more prone to express disgust and take offense when a guy perceived as "below their league" shows any kind of interest So you would tell them nothing and have them go on their way? Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 01:38 AM
2	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? It's not a matter of "fighting my battle", it's a matter of consistency & intellectual honesty. Either you have a problem with a particular argument, or you simply don't. It can't be both, that's too convenient. Again, you want me to respond to others comments. Rather than focusing on the question you asked and the answer you got from me, you deflect to another comment that wasn't yours. What does that have to do with me exactly? Nothing, that's the answer. Or just say you're being disingenuous …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 09:29 PM
2	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? No, I literally responded to your comment. Now you want me to fight your battle with every other person you're engaging with? It's not cherry picking. It's literally responding to your top level comment. Do you not know how this works?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 08:26 PM
3	Women more prone to express disgust and take offense when a guy perceived as "below their league" shows any kind of interest So you would counsel a high school dropout with no work experience who was holding out for a job that paid 1,000,000 per year to stick with their preferences? How would you counsel such a person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 08:23 PM
2	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Why are you telling me someone else's argument when I directly responded to your comment. If you have any response to my comment, I'm willing to engage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 08:13 PM
1	Women more prone to express disgust and take offense when a guy perceived as "below their league" shows any kind of interest Women want men who other women want. That simple. Regardless of what people may say here, the men they attract continue to be one of the most powerful barometers of their attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 08:10 PM
7	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? She's younger, and therefore not a mature adult, even though feminists love spreading the propaganda that women "mature faster". That's the funny part. "Women are more mature" but then turn around and say "she didn't know what she was doing". It's ridiculous. Guess she risks losing out on her human right of being a gold-digger. Correct. I wish these women would call a spade a spade. They want her to walk away with 50 million because girl power and that's it. If she's old enough to be an internet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 08:08 PM
-2	What do you consider emotional cheating? Emotional cheating is whatever is making that other person insecure at the time. It's so vaguely defined that anything falls under the definition. Remember, the same people who champion this idea of "emotional cheating" in one breath will turn around and tell you that no relationship can fulfill all your needs and you need to retain your other relationships. It's a catch-22. You can never win. The goalposts will move to where they need to to accuse you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 07:59 PM
4	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Name the power imbalance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 07:58 PM
1	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? So are you saying 19 year old men in college who rape women are not responsible for their actions because of their prefrontal cortex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 07:51 PM
2	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? There was no relationship. It was sex. So your question is why seek sex with a younger woman? Maybe they are better at it, much like you would choose a 19 year old basketball player other a 54 year old one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 07:36 PM
16	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Please tell me how her prefrontal cortex is developed enough to file a lawsuit for 50 million dollars, but not developed enough to engage in consensual sex with a popular media figure?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 07:29 PM
7	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? She's old enough to know what baby gravy is and how babies are made, but of course her prefrontal cortex is all fucked up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 07:27 PM
4	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Enough to have applied to college, gotten in, understood my financial aid package, chosen a major, worked a few internships, be responsible for my academic work and overall life on a college campus, and not engage in kinky rough sex. That's how intelligent I was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 07:26 PM
7	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Exactly. They run around screaming "sleep with them all sis", "have your hoe phase", and other such ridiculous platitudes. But when they go and do that, all of a sudden, they are victims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 07:16 PM
4	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Then they should contact the police when a crime has occurred. Not sue for 50 million.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 06:34 PM
5	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Have you considered that she also may have consented? Do you not think 50 million dollars is sufficient incentive to say something you consented to wasn't in fact consent? What's strange with some of the responses here is that she's too young and her prefrontal cortex is not developed enough but it is developed enough to sue someone for 50 million dollars?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 06:33 PM
5	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? You don't know that and you don't know her. I don't know how you people dismiss stuff and substitute your own narratives for a situation you know nothing about. You folks love infantilizing women when it fits your narrative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 06:25 PM
9	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? He holds all the cards, and that creates a situation where he could easily exploit his position. What position does he hold exactly that he is exploiting? Does he employ her? Does he control any stream of revenues that she relies on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:54 PM
7	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? Most 19 year olds aren't online Onlyfan models.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:50 PM
4	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? It's not a criminal case (for a reason I would say - if he committed a crime, adjudicate it through the courts). It's purposely civil so the lower "more likely than not" standard holds and she can get a pay day. Also, it's not really innocent until proven guilty. More like not guilty until proven guilty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:50 PM
5	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? When you send text messages saying you want someone to put their "big black baby" inside you, yes, that may constitute as crazy and not a victim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:47 PM
9	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? This is the only thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:45 PM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Show evidence they funded the creation of the show.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 03:06 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Ya love making stuff up and calling everything else a psy-op. It's funny actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 02:43 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere “The government spent £3.4m funding its promotion and likely its creation through an NGO called Tender.” They funded the promotion because they think all parents and students should see it. That's after the fact. There's no evidence except this guy saying "likely funded its creation." A cursory search of the involvement would clear this up. https://tender.org.uk/tender-joins-efforts-to-bring-adolescence-to-all-uk-secondary-schools/ Why would Tender join efforts to show a series in that they crea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 02:11 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Order of operations is all wrong. And you completely made up that it was "funded in part by the government". In fact, the chi creator of the show implored the UK government to keep funding to the BBC and publicly funded stations saying it was not up to Netflix to fill the gap if public interest shows. But addressing your psy-op point - are you saying the increase in teen boys stabbing teen girls in the UK wasn't real? The government is recognizing loners, etc... that may be a threat, identifying…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 01:08 AM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere So it's a psy-op unless it agrees with your preconceived belief? That's strange.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 10:39 PM
5	Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves. It allows them to say they owned the libs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 10:59 PM
1	If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her? How is this a racially charged comment when it's in fact what this administration is doing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 11:17 PM
1	If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her? I'm sure you're the believer that highlighting Jackie Robinson's contributions to the military is DEI that doesn't hold up to the same "standards" of white people who fought?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 12:05 AM
-7	If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her? You have no idea what DEI is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 11:04 PM
-1	Majority of "misandrists" are men. In study after study, in group violence is a greater threat than out group violence. Explain why gender should be different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 02:41 AM
0	Majority of "misandrists" are men. And no other sex hates women more than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 01:11 AM
7	"Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie. A common saying whenever i have argued with women on tt and reddit Your first mistake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 09:58 PM
0	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Never wrote that. But they clearly went to where the successful men were, infiltrating their spaces for their ultimate goal: SAHW.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 08:13 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Looking for a husband so they can stay at home	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:35 PM
0	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman The vast majority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:33 PM
3	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore Your data set has 2.1mm total women. 1.6mm are listed as unmarried, no partner households. 1.4mn are listed as never married. If you look at the unmarried, no partner, 1.6/2 = 80%. You're double counting somewhere because 50% doesn't make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 04:20 PM
3	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore You may want to do your math again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 03:43 PM
2	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore Is this counting older women who were likely to be married earlier?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 04:07 AM
4	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore Or even simpler - women should approach and stop using those dumb signals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 04:06 AM
7	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore And men should not approach them. This is what they asked for. Didn't buy into their feelings	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 04:02 AM
3	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore Remember that even the accusation is sufficient to ruin you. No one ever says you're innocent. They only say there's not enough evidence to charge you, always keeping the cloud of suspicion over you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 03:58 AM
5	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore Why would they admit defeat in real life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 03:52 AM
3	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore This is an excellent development. This is what women wanted and finally women are being made to be safe in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 02:48 AM
2	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... Why do folks keep asking this question when they know they will getting a bunch of gaslight type answers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 10:32 PM
5	"You're just jealous" is becoming overused and is a low form of conversation in these debates I have multiple mental illnesses and PMDD. Even just ovulation hormones affect my mental health. And this is the reason you should probably stay off the Internet and not worry about what strangers are writing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 06:58 PM
0	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? So he doesn't care "a lot" about your income. Rather, how about you define eggs "a lot" is? An example - I care a lot that my girlfriend is not abusive. I'm not going to accept abuse, temporarily, for 3 months. We just won't be together. So if he cares a lot about your income, what you're saying is there's a limit to your unemployment, that he'll break up with you, even if the job market is terrible? Of course, there are limits. He'd almost certainly break up with me if I decided to be a "homema…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 04:27 PM
0	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears Everyone thinks they're normal and everyone else isn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 03:02 PM
1	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? The underlying assumption is because men feel worse about themselves, it must be from intimidation. That's what you wrote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 02:10 PM
1	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? So he would break up with you if you lost your income?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 02:07 PM
2	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? Yes, women spend money to acquire what others want (an artificial look of beauty) What they think others (who they want) want. You folks never seem to acknowledge personal choice. It's always somebody else's fault that you make the choices you do. Men spend money on themselves to acquire what they want (a fake image of a womanz0. No they don't. They spend it on women because that's what women typically demand they do. Saying a coffee date isn't shit because it's "low effort" as an example. Nice …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 02:04 PM
1	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? If they actually cared, they wouldn't have dated you in the first place. It was likely the women in their family who cared.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 02:00 PM
1	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? Actually men tend to feel worse about themselves when their female partners are successful so there is some factual basis for the “men feel intimidated by successful women” trope. You guys love this intimidation trope. It could never be that the woman is an asshole and verbally abused him because she thinks she's better than him since she makes more money. Ah, but have a man make more money and all of a sudden, he's controlling and abusive. You guys don't even pretend to hide your women are wond…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:54 PM
2	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? In comfortable and/or functional clothing men and women's bodies do not look very different. Only a small portion of women naturally have the large breasts that fascinate men so much and those women usually have some fat on them. What? Please take a biology class. This is unhinged. Healthy weight is whatever it takes to not be tortured by hunger pains continually. It's plumper than most men want (i.e., usually size 12 and up). Ok, you should have just said fat because that's what you're trying t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:52 PM
1	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? I'm glad you can tell the difference. One spends it on others, one spends it on themselves. Now you got it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:49 PM
2	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? Surprise in our natural states (no make-up, comfortable clothes, easy to manage hair, healthy weight as opposed to starving, etc.), women and men look more or less the same. So what you are saying is that heterosexual men are not attracted to normal women only to an artificial image. No you don't. Men's and women's bodies are very different. What a ridiculous statement. Men generally do not have large breast. Men tend to be larger and more muscular. Is "healthy weight' your way of saying fat?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:43 PM
2	Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing? Women have to spend incredible amounts of money and time to conform to the beauty ideals men want. No. Women spend incredible amounts of money to conform to the beauty ideals of the men they want. Again, you do it for yourself. A lot of men make comments about how unattractive (butch masculine) lesbian women look to them. Surprise. Heterosexual men are not attracted to men-like persons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:24 PM
1	The commercialization of marriage is a lesser known factor that’s contributed to the loss of legitimacy for marriage as an institution After BLM, in some cities, police are no longer wanted. Isn’t it valid to ask “why is the legitimacy of an institution important” in situations like that? Sure, it's a valid question but we operate in a democracy, so we already have the answer. Those asking whether police were legitimate were a minority of the population. Don't let popular culture and the flavor of the day rot your brain. ACAB and Defund the police are conversations centered around delegitimizing the police. Who cares. Also, fuc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 10:44 AM
0	The commercialization of marriage is a lesser known factor that’s contributed to the loss of legitimacy for marriage as an institution Do you ask this of the courts and do you ask the same of the police and firefighters? You think anyone should just be able to imprison someone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 11:02 PM
1	The commercialization of marriage is a lesser known factor that’s contributed to the loss of legitimacy for marriage as an institution You're mixing up two different arguments (I don't know if on purpose) and combining them to criticize an argument of your own making. No where in this post does it say marrying someone with a vapid job is somehow illegitimate. It clearly says jobs have been increasingly developed with no benefits to society and it's among that vein and thinking that people view marriages with the same vapidness that they reward empty calorie jobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 10:58 PM
0	The commercialization of marriage is a lesser known factor that’s contributed to the loss of legitimacy for marriage as an institution This is marriage vs wedding. Effectively, judging a presidency by the inauguration. They are not the same. That being said, it seems many women want the latter while not being prepared for the rights of the former, hence the high rates of failures in the institution. The public show takes on more importance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 10:48 PM
-3	CMV: The requirement that your spouse be your best friend is gendered and there wouldn't be so many women with a boyfriend/husband and a male best friend who they know fucked longer than their husband/boyfriend. FTFY	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 10:41 PM
0	Since conventional wisdom says men make better single parents, would you support more mothers giving up primary custody of their children to the father in an event of a divorce/ breakup? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 02:08 AM
8	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears I didn't ask whether it moved you, I was pointing out that you acted as though it affected both parents yet the scenario is specifically predicated on it disproportionately affecting women and children. Again, if the parents cared about their children, they would forage and hunt. Why should I care more than them about their own offspring? I see, so women and children suffer just because? No, so folks don't take for granted who keeps the world going.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:29 AM
0	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears Except, as you already noted, it's actually the mother who has to sacrifice for a hungry child, and it is the child who suffers. This doesn't move me. Lots of children have died. How does that affect the dating market, though? I don't know, but it will definitely shift decision making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:13 AM
0	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears A free, raw, unadulterated market. We can see how folks truly operate when the spigot of cash is turned off and they truly must make their own way. If kids go hungry, who cares. Their parents should think of that before giving birth. The parents should go out into nature to procure food just like folks in the past did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:30 AM
1	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears Meaning turning off the spigot of welfare and social supports.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:25 AM
–	A Lot Of Homophobia Towards Men From Men Stems From Misogyny Women are the ones who are extremely homophobic. Their number one insult to men they don't agree with is to call them gay as an insult. That stems from a deep hatred of men of all types, misandry that crosses sexual orientation. The hilarious thing about it is they use gay men as accessories and entertainment. But once you see their ire, their true colors will come out, and they will throw being gay around as an insult quite easily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:10 AM
1	Passport Bros victims being forced to justify American expat behavior on social media now What is the difference? What is the difference between women who dropped out of school in the US vs those in other countries?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 11:13 AM
2	Passport Bros victims being forced to justify American expat behavior on social media now And regular women who parrot those same words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 11:19 PM
1	Passport Bros victims being forced to justify American expat behavior on social media now At least you can admit it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 11:18 PM
5	Passport Bros victims being forced to justify American expat behavior on social media now Yes they are. You are screaming "men ain't shit". Has the misandry against men in your own country all of the sudden gone away because it's so ingrained in you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 11:14 PM
0	Passport Bros victims being forced to justify American expat behavior on social media now I mean you're a colonialist...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 11:11 PM
3	Passport Bros victims being forced to justify American expat behavior on social media now OP will never address this because American exceptionalism and their natalist nationalist thinking means that by virtue of being American, you are better and more powerful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 11:00 PM
–	Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea? Not interested in putting my penis where shit has been.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 04:01 PM
1	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex So you do care, even someone as intelligent as you say you are, and you understand limits. But you've originally questioned how these limits can exist if one is intelligent. You gotta make it make sense. If everything is on the table and it shouldn't impact how one feels about high n-count people, then one would assume you would have no problem with this above scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 02:26 PM
2	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex I’m also not gay so that kind of limits what i’d want her doing with men. What does her having a train run in her by 15 guys connect to you being gay? This makes no sense that this would limit what you want your partner doing with other men. Are you saying her sleeping with 15 guys means you're sleeping with 15 guys?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 02:09 PM
2	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex I don’t really understand why people combine those things and the sex together. Sex is the physical stuff, love is all the other stuff and more… You don't think sex has a psychological aspect to it? "Sex is the physical stuff" would imply that people can just have sex without arousal. You're just doing work after all. No normal person has the definition of sex as just the physical stuff. It's been recognized that sex has various aspects to it. If you want to define it strictly as when a penis en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 01:53 PM
2	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex So an hour after 15 guys (known to her) have run a train on her, you'd be perfectly fine with kissing her and being intimate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 01:35 PM
1	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex Sure doesn't sound like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 01:32 PM
2	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex I'll put it more succinctly - people, esp women, generally don't want to feel used for sex despite how good it may be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 01:26 PM
2	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex As in sex is more than the act. It involves foreplay, it involves how one is treated afterwards. Good sex can be remembered as bad sex if the person is left alone in a bad emotional state. How about talking to women about the various components - like if someone had sex with them, then immediately left without a word and ghosted them, would they believe all sex is good sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 01:23 PM
1	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex Lol, ok... this only happens in porn and there aren't people who don't give a shit about the person they are having sex with and have their sex acts reflect porn. Go talk to human beings for once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 01:09 PM
3	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex This is you right? How does love make the sex better. You're defining sex as the act and nothing more. What happens before and after doesn't matter to you. If you think love doesn't imply care and having repeated sex with people who don't give a damn about you doesn't matter because it's all the same, go right on ahead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 01:08 PM
2	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex How long have you been waiting to write this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 11:14 AM
6	It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex Ah yes, someone taking you to poundtown and nutting on your face, then putting their pants on and leaving 2 minutes after it happened is the same as being in a committed relationship where the person actually gives a damn how you feel/are afterwards. That's exactly the same and the relationship doesn't make a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 11:12 AM
1	You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"? These men are the most annoying. They stand for nothing thus they fall for anything. Whenever the winds are blowing with the trendiest women's trend du jour, they will follow along because they are generally spineless individuals. They scrape for crumbs of pussy whether they can find it. Remember, those who are in that NLOBs don't claim it as a badge of honor. Others will determine that without you saying much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 06:12 PM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? As if these are the only afflictions available. Next time, focus on what's said and not what you're wrongly inferring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 06:08 PM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? I like the part where you believe that simply wanting to have children means that someone will be a good parent who won’t potentially damage their kids. Where was this said exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 12:34 PM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? Please be serious. Children are absolutely forced to participate, and told it is their obligation to have children. Is it your argument that how we're raised has no influence on how we behave? Sure it does, but every adult has the right to make their own decisions. At some point, you're responsible for your life and can't keep blaming everyone else. You know very well I'm not talking about what they personally do, I'm talking about what they keep trying to tell and make other women do. My argume…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 12:34 PM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? Not now in the Western world. Throughout time and space? Yes, we were. Largely due to religious codification of this coercion. Free will and free choice are parts of religion. No one is forced to participate in religion. Again, when you give women the choice, and - this is key here - the ability to avoid it - many women opt-out. The birth rates reflect this accordingly. Good. If we truly wanted it, then men wouldn't have to beat us over the head about it being our "duty" and "the economy" and "m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 03:33 AM
1	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing Ultimatums aren't choices. They are demands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 03:10 AM
–	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? It's not new-found neuroticism to not want kids. If it was so natural for women to have kids then we wouldn't need to be coerced into having them. Women aren't coerced into having kids. Women have multiple forms of birth control. Women go to sperm banks on their own. Women have the babies of men they don't even me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 03:08 AM
-2	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? This is true. Why would we even want people who don't want children having children. This new found neuroticism can end in a generation or two.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 08:54 PM
5	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing You really have to realize how asinine this comment is. Saying "if you don't propose or marry me, I'll leave you" is not wanting to not be in a relationship. It's an ultimatum to force someone into action by issuing a threat. Because why would it make sense for someone to ask for what is supposed to be a public lifelong commitment if they in fact didn't want to be in that relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 08:35 PM
5	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing It's a catch-22 and built in coping mechanism. If they do get married, it is their choice. If they can't marry the person they want, it's not because they are undesirable, rather, it's because they've opted out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 08:30 PM
1	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing If you need 1200 documents to feel comfortable marrying, you’re not ready. What 1,200 documents are you referring to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 08:20 PM
0	Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ? This is a good thing. The gene pool will end for those who don't want children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 08:06 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? That's exactly what's being said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 07:44 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? So why did you ask me in the first place if you knew the answer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 05:27 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? Maybe. I'm not a woman. Ask them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 05:20 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? I don't care about the birth rate. It doesn't concern me. Just like we don't want the government dictating reproductive decisions of women, this shouldn't concern anyone except women who want to have children, or not. Let's keep the government and others out of the bedroom and all that flows from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 04:54 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? I don't need to. People make decisions based on their individual circumstances. Maybe they are risk seekers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 04:52 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? I didn't really care about the fertility rate. What others do with their body isn't my concern.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 04:51 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? Your body, your choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 04:41 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? If that's the conclusion you reach, good for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 04:40 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? Hypergamy has nothing to do with working or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 04:39 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? Whatever works for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 02:32 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? You're welcome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 02:32 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? Then sounds like that's fair!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 12:52 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? And if they have children? Who pays for childcare? Childcare isn't an asset. The cost should be shared proportional to earning ability as it currently is done. And if it turns out that the family actually saves money if one spouse stays home for a few years, does that mean that spouse gets less in a divorce settlement? Yes. If the spouse stayed home, one assumes that income earned < economic value of staying home, otherwise income earned > economic value of staying home. In that case (staying ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 12:48 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? I suggest you do your own laundry, cook your own food and clean your own space and 50% of common spaces. Women tend to have more clothing than men, so that wouldn't be 50/50. Those others tend to have disparities as well, so might as well make it proportionate to your use.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 12:40 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? What? You just said they don't. Now you're saying so many women decide to not have kids with a partner until they've entered one of these legal agreements? They don’t, otherwise women wouldn’t have kids, but it becomes an issue during separation where the sacrifices they make fuck them over, because it’s more often than not the woman who gets hit with the economic detriment of being in a relationship. Which one is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 12:38 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? Then if women choose to have children, they shouldn't blame or use that as some rationale as why they deserve something after the fact. Their body, their choice. Women are intelligent enough to weigh the risk/reward trade-offs of their decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 12:12 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? Agreed upon unpaid labor. If you want to send the Smiths a Christmas card on behalf of the family and the other person has no interest, and you do it anyway, that's not unpaid labor. That's a personal obsession.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 12:09 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? Community assets should be split by the proportion that they were financed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 12:04 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? This is why women should be upfront and let their partners know that they value their lifetime earnings over having children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 11:59 AM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? Hypergamy	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 11:57 AM
3	A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when dating Saying the proverbial "he" who you refer to thinking of single mothers as a piece of meat is pure cope. "He" views her as a liability. You get it now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 05:31 PM
4	A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when dating Clearly I disagree by responding with what she actually is: a liability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 05:18 PM
3	A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when dating She's a liability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 03:48 PM
13	A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when dating Exactly. Might as well sit in the corner watching her get pounded by her baby daddy. You'll get your gift in 9 months.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 03:47 PM
2	A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when dating HVMs want children, so a single mom actually is bringing MORE to the table automatically HVMs want their own children, so a single mom actually is bringing LESS to the table automatically Males who avoid single moms are just looking at women as a piece of meat Males who avoid single moms are just looking at women as a piece of meat liability Males who avoid single mothers likely don't have the means to provide for the child because they're broke Males who avoid single mothers likely don't have t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 03:43 PM
7	A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when dating Ah yes, yet another woman defining what a real man is but would have a brain aneurysm if a man would try to define what a real woman is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 03:37 PM
1	CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individuals Ah yes - the field of psychology is full of blackpillers who actually didn't do research and see the effect play out among people. Maybe you should use one of the greatest technologies known to man to just type it in and view the research on the topic. There are academic papers you can read.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 10:56 AM
1	Would you date someone who is bisexual? My experience is that stupid women consider it an all-purpose insult, as well as stupid men. FWIW, my usual insult is "idiot" and that goes for either sex. Who someone else finds attractive means very little to me. Ah yes, "they're not like us". The argument of the year. You've completely ignored that this is a common insult from women to men to seemingly attack their masculinity. So, if women are mainly homophobic while still being less homophobic than men, how do you explain society's (UK, US,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 10:48 AM
19	Would you date someone who is bisexual? The first insult women generally use towards heterosexual men is calling them gay or saying they engage in gay sex acts. Yes, women are generally homophobic towards gay men. I've known very, very few hetero women reject friendship with gay or bi men based on their sexual preference. Of course they don't because it provides social currency and entertainment for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 12:15 AM
0	Would you date someone who is bisexual? Given the amount of women who use homophobic slurs to insult heterosexual men, I'd venture to say most women are homophobic towards gay men unless that gay man is providing them social currency and entertainment. Then they are homophobic behind that man's back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 12:12 AM
53	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. This is what women wanted. They said they wanted bears approaching them. Why are they all Pikachu face over these findings, calling men lazy? Lazy men gives them more opportunity for the bear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 12:03 AM
8	Not all women are like that Only the good actions are gendered generalizations of women. Anything negative, NAWALT!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 11:53 PM
30	Not all women are like that This is a necessary post. Women do agree on one thing though, not holding one another accountable for the statements they've made. They'll argue you, a man, to death with "not all, not all, not all" to invalidate a clearly articulated point. But they will say nothing when one of their gender says the same because 🤝. Oh, I forgot to add: not all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 11:49 PM
1	CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individuals They aren't. It's the women are wonderful effect at work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 09:11 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. This is what the conversation is about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:58 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. They don't find you attractive enough to get you off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:56 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Wonderful. So long as we know that we're matching energy. Maybe their laffy taffy can't get it up because of what they're looking at? Ever asked?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:48 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. with his little laffy taffy There's the body shaming ladies and gentlemen. Sooner or later they tell on themselves. sometimes it's better if we do it by OURSELVES without a man pounding into you Sounds like terrible communication from you if all you do is get pounded all day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:40 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. You read that wrong. Complainers and people who have unrealistic expectations do exist, as do victims. Bad things happen and so do disappointments and setbacks. Those people talk about it, so they are overrepresented. Then you do know who this conversation is about. Good to clear that up. That's what you just said. You are the person who claimed women are responsible for getting disappointed because of the company they keep. Does that somehow not apply to you? Aren't you responsible for the comp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:38 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. So why not do it during sex? ETA: men can also do the same. Men do the work to have achieve their orgasm during sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:23 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. So all the women you had sex with did nothing but lay there uninterested? Nope not all the women. But I guess you didn't know what the word generally means. You would have answered your own question if you did. This is an anomaly sorry to break this to you. Probably comes from a personal problem. Either you chose shitty partners or you expect women to perform like they do in porn. Anyway that's not for me to judge. Yes, women's sexual performance are men's fault. We know, we know. Women can do n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:23 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Not all men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:08 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Ah yes, the proverbial grammatical "not all women" retort. Because clearly, the discussion is about the 102 year old great grandmother in the nursing home. I'll make sure to tailor my words to exclude her. I'll also exclude the woman who was sentenced to life imprisonment for a double murder and the schizophrenic woman who's been hospitalized for the last 10 years. I forget we must be real specific for you folks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:04 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:01 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. You accuse her of flip flopping so surely you can point me to where SHE said the things you say, "Women often say" ? If you're seriously asking "where are women saying this? Oh the shock!" - yes, women are the ones saying that men should stay women regardless of how they change in a relationship. I'm not leveling an accusation at her - I'm saying ignoring that women actually make this argument then saying no, women don't because they care about how they do look for their partner is flip flopping…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:59 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Which women? Do you spend all your time with broken, stupid women? Women who seem to can't see anything wrong with what some of their own genders does and uses tactics like "there not like us" to act like it doesn't exist. You see, to you, it either a) doesn't exist or b) if it does it exist, it's your fault that broken stupid women are around you. So heads you win, tails, I lose! As if you live in a fantasy world where everyone around you is happy, content and living like a weird stepford wife.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:24 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Flip flopping more than a politician. Women are often saying "if your man can't accept you at your worst, he doesn't deserve you at your best" and "if you gain weight or change your appearance in a relationship, and your man complains, he's an asshole".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:10 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Where did you get this idea that women just lay down doing nothing? tik tok? Boomer humor? Not only that's not how sex is but also that's not what's being discussed. From being a man who has sex with women - women are generally lazy. Men can orgasm easier than women so it's only logical that he makes an extra effort for her to orgasm. You can't argue with biology. Completely ignoring the fact that women are not participants in their own pleasure. They expect it all to be the byproduct of the men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:07 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. When we are in a sexual RELATIONSHIP we do consider what our partner finds attractive. Doesn't seem like it. It's just about the sex in that case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:01 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Exactly. One of the largest fears of women is the male gaze so how dare they say they are doing anything for men now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:55 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. You do it for yourself. Women have been quite clear they are not doing it for the male gaze.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:51 PM
3	Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships? That's what you think. I suppose you also assume that the only reason she's having sex is because she expects a relationship? And I suppose you also assume that she hasn't already had a relationship with purely awful, unsatisfying sex and knows she doesn't want to revisit that? Do you also believe that she benefits in any way by hanging on to her virginity like it's a precious stone that some man will exchange for an engagement ring? JFC - if she doesn't want a relationship, this conversation is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:50 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. And so does she, knowing that it's more difficult to orgasm. Laying down and expecting it to be done for you while you are a passive participant is contributing to your own disappointment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:39 PM
3	Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships? Are any terpers aware that women enjoy good sex? And that most women don't "trade" their bodies for a relationship, but enjoy the experience of good sex? Again, who is making this argument? You are purposely deflecting the point. Yes, women enjoy good sex Ms. Obvious. It's that they want a relationship with the person the good sex is coming from. Those are two different but related topics. Good sex doesn't entitle you to further good sex by way of a relationship. Women often conflate the two. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:38 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. The median time for sex is 5.4 minutes. Biology is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:19 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. Not much longer. The median time for sex is 5.4 minutes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:18 PM
–	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. So the man is responsible for his pleasure and making himself orgasm and he's responsible for making you orgasm as well? You can lay down like a star fish while he does all the work and he also needs to focus on your orgasms? While you do nothing? For him or yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:12 PM
3	Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships? Women can like the men they let rearrange their guts. No one is arguing that they can't, except you. Hell, they can even fall in love with him. But just because they let that man rearrange their guts doesn't entitle them to a relationship. That simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:09 PM
3	Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships? What is it with you women and your blatant homophobic comments? Why do you believe calling a man gay is an insult to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:02 PM
4	Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships? Yes. Waiting at the finish line to celebrate with the winner when you did nothing to help them get there is annoying. It's annoying groupie behavior. Women have the right to not date potential - they want to mitigate risks and that's just fine. But low risk, low reward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 01:58 PM
12	Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships? You're wrong. It comes up when women get into situationships, undefined situations and are fucking the UbërChad and find out he has a harem of women. She believes she should be the only one and is crying to her friends and TikTok about why hasn't he made it official and I feel he's string me along and hasn't asked for something serious 😢 combined with the misguided thought of a man should ask for commitment, that's not a woman's role. When you combine all of these various thought patterns, they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 01:49 PM
11	Staying in a one-sided situationship for women appears to be less stigmatizing in our culture than staying in the friendzone for men, despite the former being a more clear and present danger to the modern relationship landscape. Explain the clear and present danger part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 08:04 PM
8	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? It usually is because those men chose to focus and make good decisions in their younger years, delaying gratification. Those men who were out playing may enter their 30s with multiple babies by different women; some of those women also did the same after having fun in their 30s, multiple kids by multiple men. The guys who kept their head down, are moving up the corporate ladder, etc... as you said, did it on their own, now those women want to share in the success of that hard work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 03:19 PM
1	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? It's not. It's cope and justification by women for being rejected by their male counterparts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 02:28 PM
3	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? Rejecting women in their 30s or simply having their hoe phase and not wanting to settle down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 02:00 PM
13	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? It's a narrative by women, especially those who criticize age gaps. A guy in his 30s being with a woman in her 20s is "creepy" and he must be rejecting the women his own age because he's getting revenge because they didn't choose him when he was in his 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 01:59 PM
5	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? If she was a catch, she would be caught.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 01:54 PM
27	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? They're doing it out of success, not revenge. Why wouldn't someone want to enjoy the fruits of their labor?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 01:49 PM
24	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? It's just a woman's fever dreams that men are out for revenge because the women aren't being chosen by men who become successful or are clearly on the path to success in their 30s. The wheat is quickly separated from the chaff in the 30s and is clear who is on the path to (conventional) success. They bet on the wrong horse in their 20s and when they are rejected by men who may have wanted them in their 20s, they conjure up a revenge fantasy. It's really that men don't see them as relationship ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 01:48 PM
5	Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much else It doesn't mean you have to support it, it just means you are supporting it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 11:41 PM
3	Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much else People aren't crazy until they actually do something crazy. Does time confuse you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 11:25 PM
1	Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much else by claiming to want more than sex. Being vague is the opposite of making a claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 11:22 PM
3	Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much else You didn't have to lie to women who lie to themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 11:20 PM
1	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? I wasn't giving you my opinion. I was logically comparing your initial statement to your experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 12:15 AM
1	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? If what you said was true, he would have left already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 11:11 PM
2	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? You might want to look up the definition of material things, because this isn’t it. Things that can be taken away from you. Your career or hobbies are two of those things. Your values, nope. So, I'm using it correctly. Someone is making things up, but it isn’t me. I have no idea where you pulled this scenario from. The person arguing passionately that career and hobbies should rank alongside valuing the person. If corporate America is that important to you, date your boss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 09:23 PM
2	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? If you don’t care about what she does, who she is, her hobbies and interests and goals, how can you enjoy her company? Again - you love making stuff up. Where did I say you don't care about who she is? The problem with women like you is that you define yourself based on your careers then if you're unable to do those careers you complain that a guy left you. That's what you women care about and why guys criticize you when you often leave men after they may lose their jobs - because you define peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 09:13 PM
9	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? You ought to actually enjoy the company of your wife even when she isn’t sucking your dick. If you don’t, leave her alone and let her find a man who loves and appreciates who she is. What are you even talking about? Who said you don't enjoy the company of your wife? The point is you enjoy the company of the friends and your wife but there is something that differentiates the two types of relationships, isn't there? Your friend is different from your wife. I swear when some of you talk about rela…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:59 PM
4	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? Are you saying sex isn't a need in a relationship? I’m not saying there shouldn’t be mutual benefit in a relationship. I’m saying that beyond the confines of that mutual benefit, men don’t seem to actually care about the women they’re in relationships with. That's not what you wrote in your OP. You didn't say that men don't care about the women. You said they don't care about their careers and hobbies. Why does it matter that I care that you work in advertising or you crochet? You never actually…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:54 PM
1	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? So you include yourself in the group of people who have terrible personalities? That's on you. If that's not a general statement, then I don't know what to tell you. It honestly seems you're just deflecting at this point because you have no response. And yes, you should go out and touch grass if you personally believe that men just care about sex when being with someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:26 PM
1	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? So when you wrote this: The things we like/are good at only matter if it serves some sort of utility to you. Women just aren’t like this. We don’t view you as walking dildos to be replaced the second you do something that mildly annoys us. You were talking about me personally?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:18 PM
2	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? You don't understand talking about the general "you"? Rather, you'd take it personally? How about answering the substance of the comment. ETA: what's funny is you used the same formulation in your response by saying "we don't view YOU as walking dildos".	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:14 PM
6	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? Why does something have to make them a better partner for you to appreciate it? Because why are they my partner? I appreciate the work and career of Supreme Court Justice Elena Kagen but I don't necessarily want her as a partner. It doesn't make me want to be with her. What I look for in a relationship is different from what I appreciate and my significant other didn't have to do things I appreciate professionally in order for them to be attractive to me. I care about how that person is in a rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:07 PM
6	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? In all the ways. This is not an answer. How do you choose your friends? Because I enjoy their company, I like them, we have good conversation and support one another. I don't choose my friends because they like crocheting or work as lawyers. I have a diverse set of friends with diverse interests. Isn’t it people you like and respect, people you share common interests and values with? Like and respect, yes. How is that connected to one's hobbies, education or career? Common interests, no, common …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 07:50 PM
5	If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman? Men as a whole repeatedly say they don't care about women's hobbies, careers, education, etc. How do any of these you've mentioned aid in being a better partner in a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 07:41 PM
1	AMALT So according to you, you've been with 1,000 guys and you found 1, your husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 12:15 AM
4	AMALT Just say you've had bad sex all your life and you're jaded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 08:30 PM
13	AMALT Sort of agree with this. The real orgasm is the attention she gets from others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 03:12 PM
1	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. You really don't know how to answer questions do you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 10:39 AM
-1	Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities? https://phpbb.lightonvedicastrology.com/viewtopic.php?t=24147	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 09:57 PM
-3	Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities? This is a first. Justifying domestic abuse has no societal consequences. Life is rich.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 09:08 PM
1	CMV: if he doesn't fight for you when you break up, he's not the one If you want to date men who don't respect the decisions you make and that's no means no, then you need therapy, full stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 09:04 PM
3	CMV: if he doesn't fight for you when you break up, he's not the one No means no to me. I'm not sure why you would want otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 09:00 PM
0	Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities? A woman justifying being abusive because Mitsubishi is in Gatorade certainly does have social consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 08:53 PM
1	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. So orgasms are the only way sex is enjoyable? That's what's being said?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 07:35 PM
–	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. Exactly. That's called "he's such a good friend".	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 02:13 PM
3	A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact. Being food secure vs food insecure is a privilege. Surely you should agree with that. But just because your food secure doesn't mean you shouldn't be punished for eating 7,000 calories a day and weighing 350 lbs. Surely you know the difference between the two.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:55 PM
0	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. So you can make yourself orgasm while having sex with a man within 5 minutes? Then what's the problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:55 PM
11	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. We know. People with privileges typically don't think they have that privilege.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:50 PM
1	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. When did the term "random" get introduced to this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:48 PM
-3	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. What's hilarious is people like you criticizing men for treating sex like porn, but when it comes to women, you think orgasming every single time you have sex is normal. You're just as bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:46 PM
0	How do RP men reconcile the need to avoid promiscuous women for LTR, and maintain that they need the woman to put out by date 3, or they are out? If she was serious, she'd know she wanted or didn't want to be in a relationship by date 3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:13 PM
0	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. You think women with access to men they are attracted to are going to be using toys? Please, don't insult our intelligence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:07 PM
2	How do RP men reconcile the need to avoid promiscuous women for LTR, and maintain that they need the woman to put out by date 3, or they are out? Decide after date 1 or 2 so you don't waste anyone's time or money. What exactly are you asking on date 4, 5 or 6 at this point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:06 PM
1	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. I'm very interesting. But I'm also not delusional enough to decide that I'm interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:02 PM
3	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. The blue pill wants you to take interesting showers with eucalyptus plants, claw foot tubs and 360 degree shower jets. "just use Diptyque or L'Occitane shower gel and scented oil bro"	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:01 PM
3	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. So you think when during a woman's menstrual cycle, where she's horny because her hormones are going wild, that being able to get sex at that moment, that satisfies her urge, is not a privilege?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 08:49 PM
1	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. What do you mean is not a privilege? Women have their monthly menstrual cycles and during times of the month are very horny. They can more easily satisfy that biological urge they're having when they feel that way. That's a privilege. Sure, they may say "tee hee... I can't believe I did that 🫣" but the point is, the privilege of being able to more easily have sex that can satisfy their need is a privilege. Just like I can get food more easily than a poor person, I'm not going to act like being a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 08:47 PM
2	What Are Your Standards and Why No kids Pretty Single Kind Make no less than 67% of my actual income (~400k or more) Takes care of their health Within reasonable size Social Intelligent	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 08:18 PM
1	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. Why should they pick better men when the decisions they make will never be their fault?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 08:13 PM
2	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. I'm not sure what this response is supposed to mean. Are you saying that sex is a zero sum game, that the more a man enjoys and benefits from it then a woman's pleasure decreases?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 08:08 PM
2	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. I agree. The possibility of a woman daydreaming about the vacations, house and lifestyle she'll have is sufficient for her to buy the lottery ticket.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 08:05 PM
2	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. The issue with your advice is you don't decide if you're interesting, others do. Might as well become a world famous rapper, they are interesting and evidence shows others think so as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 08:02 PM
1	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. I thought about it... it is. The ease with which one can transform themselves is simple in the blue pill mind. So "just be more interesting bro" might as well be "just become multi-million dollar platinum selling rap artist, bro... that'll make you interesting'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:51 PM
8	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. A lot of women don’t get much pleasure. From what exactly? The act or what the act signifies. A woman may not get pleasure from a 400 tasting menu at a restaurant, but does it mean there's no meaning in the fact that you spent that money on her? Which is why she would likely dress up well for the occasion? Men here (and a lot of men in real life) state that men will have sex with a woman regardless if she is attractive or not so women don’t really feel attractive just because a man wants to have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:49 PM
9	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. It's a down payment they hope pays off. The cost of the dinner is equivalent to a lottery ticket.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:41 PM
3	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. Bye! Thx.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:40 PM
1	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. You're also wrong. Thx. Bye!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:39 PM
1	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. I beg to differ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:37 PM
0	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. "just become more interesting bro"; "become a now interesting person bro"... The list goes on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:37 PM
11	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. Pleasure for one. Dopamine hit. The same reason heroine users are addicted to heroine, although there are no apparent benefits. Feeling wanted. Feeling loved for a moment. Feeling attractive. But maybe you should be a little more curious and ask them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:35 PM
4	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. Isn't this the bluepill manifesto?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:32 PM
31	Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences. But I do not see any benefits for the average woman being able to have sex with dozens and dozens of men. Especially casually. But they do it, so rather than proclaiming that you don't see the benefit, why not ask what the benefit is? Otherwise, you're saying they are willingly engaging in something that provides no benefit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:28 PM
1	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? No, because if she stays home and takes care of the kids, then he is not "responsible for the day-to-day care, upbringing, and financial support of their children without a co-parent present in the household.", so not a single father. This has to be wrong because it makes no sense. He simply outsourced the care to another person who he trusts, but that doesn't take away his single status. If this mother or a nanny took care of the child during the day, you would say that's not a single father? B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:46 PM
1	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? Well if folks want to get very technical, if you're not married, your single. So even if you live in a home with someone who is a parent of your child, you're a single parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:40 PM
0	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? If they are married, he's not really a single dad anymore is he? You're discussing the wrong topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:36 PM
1	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? Yes, women put it on themselves, feigning excitement, then complain about how hard it all is down the line as if someone did something to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:34 PM
2	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? I thought you folks always argue that custody is 50/50 and there is no bias in the courts...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:31 PM
0	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? This happens after the fact, when they've decided to integrate as a family. That's not what is being discussed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:22 PM
2	Short version: Men are not slobs. Fathers are not slobs. The American Time Use Survey is not using yourself as a source.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 02:26 PM
5	Short version: Men are not slobs. Fathers are not slobs. Ah yes - "lived experience" - code for I'm hostile to any data that doesn't center me as the main character in everyone's story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 02:18 PM
–	Short version: Men are not slobs. Fathers are not slobs. You still have time to delete this...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 01:56 PM
2	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? You found him attractive to date in the first place. Many men wouldn't take that risk at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 01:41 PM
28	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? It's simple - resources tend to flow in one direction. Typically, single fathers are not seeking additional resources to raise their child, so resources will be "shared" with whoever comes into his life. This is the common understanding of the "typical" single father. On the other hand, a single mother is viewed as a resource extractor for her and her offspring by another man. This is typically referred to as "playing another man's saved game" or the general expectation of "you must take care of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 01:39 PM
3	Women DO fashion for themselves. Agreed. There's always a reason even for the most egregious of choices, but you're right, a different topic for a different time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 05:02 PM
4	Women DO fashion for themselves. None of this matters. Women try to shame everyone into accepting whatever choices they make. They'll use the words misogyny or the patriarchy if you say you don't like nose rings. Women don't accept any criticism of their choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 04:51 PM
1	If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40? Find an older man	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 12:02 AM
6	Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not create Passport bros is the only place where xenophobic nationalism is accepted by a cross section of the political spectrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 12:00 AM
–	Why do bluepillers act like being a passportbro means having to pay for women or wanting some traditional virgin wife? How come these issues are not widely discussed within the United States (or Western countries) if the issue if you care so much about someone of lesser economic status?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 10:45 PM
–	Why do bluepillers act like being a passportbro means having to pay for women or wanting some traditional virgin wife? It's racist because that commentary is not used for those similarly situated in the US (or the West in general).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 10:32 PM
–	Why do bluepillers act like being a passportbro means having to pay for women or wanting some traditional virgin wife? Are women in poor areas in the United States not impressed with a little money? Are you saying if you've gone to Appalachia, that western women, regardless of socioeconomic status, are so evolved that money doesn't matter to them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 10:30 PM
–	Why do bluepillers act like being a passportbro means having to pay for women or wanting some traditional virgin wife? Generally, western exceptionalism. If you ask women here, they believe they are better communicators, better educated because of credentials and they make above the world's median income. They think lesser of those from other countries, so of course they'll shame you and tell you that you want to take advantage of the vulnerable, as if these women can't think for themselves (a side note - these are generally the same women who talk about feminism and girl power, but they really only mean power m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 10:26 PM
2	CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful women Glad you had no response to the substance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 08:06 PM
5	CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful women You first accuse me of being the set of people who don't want women to work. Nope, women should work. Work long hours if you will. Work in construction and dangerous jobs - I don't care. Successful women who can't find partners typically have terrible personalities. They are the boss bitch babe stereotypes, even if they make a little more than the average bear. That's why people don't like them. There are plenty of successful women who balance office selves with personal selves. The issue is suc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 04:21 PM
7	CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful women Experience. Successful single women are single because they are generally assholes because they prioritize their success above everything else. It's the girl boss movement. Their personalities are solely rooted in acquiring money and materials. I'm quite liberal. But what isn't left or right wing are assholes. Women should work to their heart's content. What you won't do is think that men should love you for working or being a boss when your personality is pure shit. You deserve nothing for that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 04:11 PM
9	CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful women Do you date women? If not, then I'm by far more of an expert than you'll ever be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:59 PM
5	CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful women While you also seem to be admitting women have very little reason to want or treat you well. Strange.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:57 PM
1	The double standards around male standards Do I have to put the "not all women" tag for it to be clear that I'm not referring to Margaret Thatcher? Geez. But you bring up the "generally men think sex is like pizza", just like generally women more often than men think a hoe phase is just fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:54 PM
10	CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful women No. Boss babe women are generally assholes. Even other women don't like you. They only like the image of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:35 PM
1	CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful women Women like what they like. Men like what they like. Believing that men should like what women like is your problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:29 PM
4	CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful women 😂😂😂😂... Sorry, I had to stop laughing before I could start typing. Highly educated successful women who can't find relationships have trash personalities and think they are God's gift to mankind because they are successful in corporate and other spaces. Men don't want to deal with a mid level manager at home. They have work for that. If women like you believe that men should put up with terrible personalities and behaviors just because someone decided to pay them $x and they have a bunch of fanc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:26 PM
-1	The double standards around male standards Women: "Get off the Internet and touch grass! The world doesn't operate the way you people think!" Also women: " Look up any post about tinder matches. Men will talk about how virtuous they are because they swipe right on most women but women are soooo picky and entitled and demanding because they don’t swipe right on most men." The jokes are beginning to write themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:19 PM
3	The double standards around male standards The celebrated "hoe phase". The women who sleep with men who they then later say didn't count towards their "bodies".	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 02:40 PM
5	The double standards around male standards What is a woman's "hoe phase" exactly? You women try to criticize men for the same things you defend and glorify yourselves for. "Women can have sex with no attachments", "a hoe phase is normal!", "who cares how many bodies a woman has, you're just jealous" and the list goes on. And now you're all "but men generally more often than women will pursue sex with people they’re hardly even attracted to".	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 02:34 PM
0	The double standards around male standards In this case, if that's your rationale, women will also fuck anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 02:30 PM
1	The double standards around male standards Hey folks - here's a woman telling men what they mean. She's a better man than actually men!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 02:28 PM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. The pill is not the only option, but they are problematic due to being hormonal. Other forms of BC are also hormonal. There are non hormonal ones, like the coper IUD but it causes hell side effects such as super heavy constant bleeding (heavy periods) and intense pain that can last, pardon, for one year! That's why many opt for the hormonal, but like I said they cause worse effects in the long run that are less noticeable while they are still young. But they will have to pay for it later. Or hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 01:44 PM
–	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:41 AM
–	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c A relationship is optional. It's not a need, it's a want. So you don't need to be in a relationship thus no one needs to force you to have sex. Problem solved. You have the solution to your own problem. Remain single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:41 AM
–	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c A random man passing you on the street is a cannibal. I heard you. No need to say it again. It’s sad you hope someone wanted to protect themselves, means they should be single Yes, you and people like you should be single. In fact, no man should be subject to this abusive thinking. They deserve better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:38 AM
–	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c This is a new one. Men are now cannibals. I truly hope many if you are single forever. No man should be subject to this ridiculousness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:29 AM
–	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c When you all are dating the same guy, it tends to happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:25 AM
–	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c A relationship is optional, not necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:23 AM
–	Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n c No, you don't	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:22 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. I am not sure friend I never gave birth or saw anyone give birth. Never even been to gynecologist. But way too many gynos and nurses are abusive to women. If you subscribe to some childfree subs you will see men confirming that nurses became less violent when men entered. If you didn't know, then unsure how to respond to this. Saying there are nurses or OB/GYNs that can be be violent is different from saying it's a feature of that profession. Aaaand they all cause side effects to women. Sex is n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 10:27 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. It does have to do with your comment, as how society treats mothers, whether married or single, is perceived by them everywhere, starting from them being pregnant in the public bus where no one gives up a seat, to a nurse violence during birth, to people telling her her pp body is awful, to, God forbid they divorce, men telling her she is useless for having a kid. So yes there is a relation. You said society treats mothers normally, I said they don't. Let's interrogate. What % of nurses are viol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 10:15 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. The amount of women and their ilk who blame the terrible dating market on men, all the while, they are pure trash prompted my response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 10:06 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Aren't they gender-neutral? If they were more single fathers, more of them would get the said benefits. But single fathers are really a small minority. I don't know the "they" you're referring to. Again, fathers cannot benefit from WIC. Only their kids. It's literally in the program description. Is tax child credit given only to single mothers? I'd guess it's one of the ways the state is trying to support families. Because it does need kids. No, it's not only given to single mothers, but it cuts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 10:02 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Nurse violence is a thing. Most women who would love to have 2+ babies, after seeing how terribly they are treated while giving birth to the first kid, vow to never get pregnant again. Women treated worse than cattle in birth clinics. Don't forget the notorious husband stitch that's done without the consent of the woman. Think of all the other things they do to them. No wonder women who would otherwise be willing to have multiple kids have PTSD and never come back. Nothing to do with my comment.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 09:49 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. But they are still here. So there hasn't been popular societal support to get rid of them, has there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 04:09 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Wrong. "WIC benefits, by design of the program, are provided only to pregnant, postpartum, breastfeeding women, infants, and children under the age of five"	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 04:08 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. For themselves?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 04:07 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. You completely are ignoring that society expresses its values through policy, but you want to substitute "cultural attitudes" that differ from group to group in place of actual fact and policies that society set in place. If cultural attitudes were what you folks are saying they are, there would be no popular support for supporting motherhood and its attendant supports. It's like you folks are looking for evidence everywhere except what's in your face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 04:06 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Fathers don't get WIC for themselves, what are you talking about? "three-quarters of households living in public housing and in Project-Based Section 8 housing are female- headed, and over 83% of voucher-holding households are headed by women. A large proportion (72%) of Section 202 housing units are also home to female-headed households." These programs are designed to help women, not men. Let's not be disingenuous here. These mothers get financial help from the state, because it's cheaper to p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 04:03 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Again... I hope you're familiar with micro vs macro decisions. I'll say it once more - societies express priorities and values through spending. Micro decisions don't reflect a society's priorities, it reflects that individuals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:59 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. There are lots of non breastfeeding dads. But again, society doesn't value men who need nutritional help, so yea, the tone of sarcasm checks out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:57 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. This makes no sense. Your micro decisions are very different from macro societal level decisions. Societies show their priorities primarily through what they spend their resources on based on the policies they embrace. In the US in particular, the tax code is used to incentivize and punish behavior. Yours is the equivalent of saying the US doesn't value defense when it is a significant portion of its spending. You ever wonder why there isn't an equivalent "MIC" program? Society doesn't value sin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 03:34 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. I don’t think these programs make a good argument about appreciation or value by society. So society came together, elected politicians that created a program called Women with Infants and Children, and you're arguing that society doesn't appreciate motherhood? Tax credits create a financial incentive but they don’t convey status or appreciation. The American Opportunity Credit rewards people for attending college but we wouldn’t take that to mean that people have a special appreciation for coll…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 01:43 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. We know what white collar and blue collar are. You know why white collar people especially with their bachelor's degree look down on blue collar workers. It has nothing to do with "easy". So let's not play games.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 01:25 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Feminism can only exist in cushy, airconditioned jobs	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 01:05 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. It's literally what he wrote. Seriously, what is wrong with you people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 12:07 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. I see. You didn't understand how percentages and per capita measures work. You think if 100 went to 101 even if the population increased 10 fold, that you actually had a point. Figures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 12:06 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Way too many women delluded themselves into thinking that most women are not just full of negative traits. When it couldn't be farther from the truth. This right here. This needs to be expressed far more often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 12:03 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Plenty of men claim to be lied to after they enter marriage and have kids. Life generally sucks for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 12:01 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. When you say society doesn't appreciate motherhood, are you talking about the same society that created WIC, EBT, Medicaid, the Child Tax Credit and Section 8 that primarily benefits single mothers? Or do you only care about some random private comments that people make? Are you talking about mothers like this with 7 babies by 7 different men getting 3,000 per month in food assistance from this same society? https://youtu.be/myHrKyADRxY?si=lJcfvi7ZmuESLirQ	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 11:53 PM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Further proving his point. Equality only means white collar cushy jobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 11:46 PM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Why is it that the top 20 jobs women have now, are the same top 20 jobs they had during the oppressive patriarchy restricting women with the glass ceiling? This is what he wrote. It wasn't that zero women entering those jobs but rather the share of women are unchanged in the top 20 jobs. This is why people like you are disingenuous in these spaces when you have no argument. You think that a "gotcha" moment makes you look smart when it reeks of desperation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 11:45 PM
3	Men here who are worried their LTR/wife had a 'wild past' or had hot, uninhibited, monkey sex or hardcore BDSM with her hookups but starfish, lights off, socks on, missionary sex with you.... I have a question Why are you even arguing this point? You already said she did it with the person she "really loved". She doesn't love you. If you are so much into trying anal, would you accept pegging? Would you indulge a gf who nags you for pegging or using a 10-inch dildo on yourself? Not sure why you're bringing up things that I never tried with anyone before. It wasn't in your hypothetical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 04:35 AM
–	Does Having Sex With Prstittes Disqualify A Man From Giving Alpha Male Advice? You mind revising your statement: Given that a large percentage of Red Pill writers have sex with prstittes (there's a dating models post on the red pill right now which is clearly about hiring prstittes) and a large percentage of Red Pill Youtube Content creators have sex with prstittes, are they disqualified from giving Alpha advice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 10:25 PM
–	Does Having Sex With Prstittes Disqualify A Man From Giving Alpha Male Advice? You didn't answer the question. What % of the red pill writers sleep with prostitutes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 10:21 PM
2	CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame men Better personalities. They are generally boring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 09:50 PM
0	What Educational Reforms Would You Advocate for to Address Any Pill-Related Concerns/Problems? Start with the bias against boys in the school system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 09:32 PM
2	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. in·trin·sic adjective belonging naturally; essential. in·tu·i·tive adjective using or based on what one feels to be true even without conscious reasoning; instinctive. Who is misunderstanding words that are clearly defined? Because none of these means "effortlessly knowing".	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 09:30 PM
–	Does Having Sex With Prstittes Disqualify A Man From Giving Alpha Male Advice? One of the core foundational premises of the Red Pill is that all women are like that. This immediately raises three questions: Which women? Like What? To whom are they like that? You love the shadowboxing here. You make up a claim (one more grounded) then go down the rabbit hole of inquiry of your made up claim. It's amazing. Given that a large percentage of Red Pill writers have sex with prstittes (there's a dating models post on the red pill right now which is clearly about hiring prstittes) …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 09:28 PM
2	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. And again... Those same skills have been taught to girls, ladies and women for generations now. It’s been intrinsic and intuitive	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 09:07 PM
3	How to increase trust in the dating market? Can we focus on the confusion you had in your first statement? For whatever reason though, men seem to have a large issue with women creating and participating in these groups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 09:05 PM
0	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. So women intuitively know how to: grooming, self maintenance, nutrition, exercise, social behaviors, interpersonal communication, nonverbal cues, emotional awareness & coping strategies etc. 😂😂😂 Right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 09:04 PM
1	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. We're talking about women here. The claim is that it's innate and intuitive for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 09:02 PM
2	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. No, just trying to see what crap dressed up as social grade inflation that we get to hear today under the "women are wonderful" banner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 09:00 PM
2	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. Those same skills have been taught to girls, ladies and women for generations now. It’s been intrinsic and intuitive so why would there be digital online forums sharing basic commonly held information like that? so now you're changing your stance, because talking about an intrinsic and intuitive skill set that doesn't need to be shared on a digital forum sure doesn't sound like you're talking about grandma. This response is a pure backtrack. Nothing about this was historic when you're laying cla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 08:43 PM
4	How to increase trust in the dating market? You think a Facebook group called AWDTSP is a social circle?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 08:40 PM
1	Men here who are worried their LTR/wife had a 'wild past' or had hot, uninhibited, monkey sex or hardcore BDSM with her hookups but starfish, lights off, socks on, missionary sex with you.... I have a question Just coz people have tried something once, doesn't necessarily mean, they loved it. I feel the same way about paying for dinner dates. Maybe she did try anal after one ex whom she really loved. And found that she hated it. And swore never to try it again. If she wanted to, she will. She doesn't love you, just like you wrote. If she doesn't suck it from the back, she doesn't love you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 08:36 PM
6	How to increase trust in the dating market? Facebook is not a social circle, no more than Hinge is a local lounge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 08:32 PM
6	How to increase trust in the dating market? Elsewhere, we see this “reference system” being replicated. That’s all of the “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” groups. Because sometimes you’re not dating the same guy but women will also share their experiences of going on a date with that person, and on occasion you’ll see something positive. For whatever reason though, men seem to have a large issue with women creating and participating in these groups. This is why women will fail. They will ironically trust the word of a stranger who happens to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 08:29 PM
4	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. Things like grooming, self maintenance, nutrition, exercise, social behaviors, interpersonal communication, nonverbal cues, emotional awareness & coping strategies etc. Women are equally as disgusting in their grooming as men. You've never been on a college campus or maybe never heard the debate of white women particularly admitting they don't wash their legs. Nutrition, exercise - so the obesity crisis we are seeing among women is a result of nutrition and exercise? interpersonal communication,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 08:21 PM
1	How to increase trust in the dating market? Grifters are important for the dating market and serve an essential purpose. It allows everyone to sharpen their being mechanisms. This is a good thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 08:16 PM
-1	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. What type of social skills? The same ones that involve anxiety, depression and antidepressants?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 08:14 PM
1	Dating advice for men is implicitly condescending. Those same skills have been taught to girls, ladies and women for generations now. It’s been intrinsic and intuitive so why would there be digital online forums sharing basic commonly held information like that? What skills exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 08:09 PM
2	Correlation does not equal causation. Because they claim they are "doing it on their own". But are you trying to have it both ways now? That single moms should be blamed insofar as the father isn't involved? That is the implication of your question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 10:43 PM
3	Correlation does not equal causation. 50% of the money that you would be spending on both your and her lawyers is money that she likely would have been entitled to keep for herself otherwise to spend on whatever she wants - California is a community property state. She is directly affecting her own funds by spending that money fighting it. But she sees the children as her priority, because what could be more important to spend money on? You clearly don't understand divorce. Lawyers fees are not part of the marital estate. It's compl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 10:37 PM
2	Correlation does not equal causation. How exactly does 'single mother" mean "uninvolved father"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 10:32 PM
2	Correlation does not equal causation. You should show these stats to the single mothers having children with the men in your statistics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 10:25 PM
1	CMV: the woman is the prize The test for being a model was expressed in the case Jimmy Cooks v. Women's Advocacy Organization with the famous ruling: "Bitch, don't tell me that you model if you ain't been in Vogue"	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 09:56 PM
2	CMV: the woman is the prize No. It's pretty universally held.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 09:51 PM
2	Most ppl want to be the Adorers So you agree settling is a conversation among women. And you agree men stay in relationships. Who knows if it's a better alternative? That's a judgment call you've made. If she's adoring, she doesn't have time to think of such minor things. Point proven.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 02:40 AM
4	Men should stop complaining that women value high status men. You said, “No one is complaining that women value high status men. Men are complaining that the values/personalities/etc of a great portion these men are well known to women already, and women continue to chase them.” Which strikes at the heart of OPs argument. Thus implying there are women who pursue high status men, no one has a problem with this, but within that group of women who pursue high status men there is a subset of women who pursue men who look high status but really aren’t because t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 02:38 AM
2	Most ppl want to be the Adorers The problem is, as you seem to have missed the argument, is that women will much sooner ask themselves if they settled. The conversation about settling and "deserving better" is very much a woman-based conversation. You don't hear this language among men. Men are typically expected to be the ones to take care of the person they are/chose to be in a relationship with. Women are much more prone to leave once they've gotten the hint that they settled because they "deserve more"	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 01:58 AM
5	Men should stop complaining that women value high status men. When you say, “Men are complaining that the values/personalities/etc of a great portion these men are well known to women already, and women continue to chase them,” you’re focusing on a subset of women who repeatedly make really bad choices when it comes to sex and dating, and who probably wouldn’t be a good partner. This is the subset of women the original post is referring to, or put more plainly, the set of women who "place value on high status men", hence why the discussion is already limit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 01:55 AM
10	Men should stop complaining that women value high status men. My response actually addresses the post. It doesn't use the tool of deflection and whataboutism as you did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 01:19 AM
8	Men should stop complaining that women value high status men. Sure bit is this the topic at hand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 01:17 AM
2	Most ppl want to be the Adorers She's too busy adoring him to think that	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 01:16 AM
47	Men should stop complaining that women value high status men. This post repeatedly comes up and it continues to be disingenuous because either you are purposely ignoring the argument or you just have zero understanding of what is being said. No one is complaining that women value high status men. Men are complaining that the values/personalities/etc of a great portion these men are well known to women already, and women continue to chase them. When they get burned by those same men, they go complaining about how shitty all men are. It's effectively blaming…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 01:02 AM
1	Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable. But you just said, and I quote: I view sex as something only to be had between married spouses. So how exactly will you punish someone with someone you won't have sex with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 03:46 PM
1	Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable. Then explain your concept of "punishment".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 03:36 PM
1	Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable. Sure, he doesn't "have to", but if he "taking it slow" for 5 years, and being deliberately obtuse then yes, he is to blame. That's all that's important. If someone is interested in a committed relationship and the other person is being "obtuse" and they are sticking around for 5 years with zero commitment, he is not to blame. Just like if you aren't being promoted at your job, it's not up to your company to want to promote you. It's up to you to leave. What you're suggesting is other people be r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 02:46 PM
1	Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable. And you know very well a man doesn't have to say he's not interested in a relationship. If it's not an enthusiastic yes, it's a no. But women will take the gray space and create dreams and visions for themselves and then tell the world how "he acted like he wanted a relationship". Let's not talk about stories that we don't know intimately - we are all aware there are three sides to a story. All you know is what women said happened but dig a little deeper and you'll find the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 01:58 PM
2	Feminism actually makes a lot of sense if you think about it from the right perspective. We are just seeing history repeat itself. Because your argument was based on wealth and power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 11:29 PM
1	Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable. There's no need to lie to women. They lie to themselves when it's the guy they want to commit, despite all signs they won't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 11:21 PM
5	Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable. "but you've been fucking me for 2 months now... how did you not think I wouldn't want something serious..." This is what eventually comes that they don't want to admit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:37 PM
1	Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable. So according to your missive, But he is well aware that if he says that all she can expect from him is an fwb arrangement or situationship, she will most likely decline him and he may never see her again. so where in this scenario did the exclusive relationship begin? Otherwise, it's just cheating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:33 PM
–	To men who are worried that their date will expect to be wined and dined at a fine dining restaurant... the solution is easy So you're not saying anything groundbreaking here. If the overwhelming criticism is dating isn't equitable, especially as women are claiming that they are doing better than men, your answer isn't that all dates should be dutch, rather your answer is if you can't afford an expensive dinner, go to a cheaper place... but still pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:21 PM
–	To men who are worried that their date will expect to be wined and dined at a fine dining restaurant... the solution is easy Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:18 PM
–	Say the same thing to every date Name checks out. Fun idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:09 PM
–	To men who are worried that their date will expect to be wined and dined at a fine dining restaurant... the solution is easy Two different issues. Are you saying men should pay by going to a cheaper place (contradicts your "go dutch" call to action) because that's still a man paying or are you saying men shouldn't pay at all regardless of the location?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:01 PM
–	Women should not be allowed in Politics For example the first amendment protects all rights to free speech, that is a fact and can be proven true via the Bill of Rights. This is so wrong, I can't believe you wrote this. First, 1A doesn't protect all rights to free speech. Second, if the law was logical and straightforward, you wouldn't need to have a Supreme Court whose literal job is to "say what the law is". Lastly, if the law was logical, please explain the logic of the law that determined slaves were 3/4th of a person and treated …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 11:01 AM
–	Women should not be allowed in Politics This doesn't sound well reasoned. If politics were logic based, politics (and political parties) by definition, wouldn't exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:53 AM
–	Women should not be allowed in Politics Explain why your premise includes politics not being "emotional"? What are you basing this on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:50 AM
–	Women should not be allowed in Politics if we take real examples in modern society you can see its not uncommon for female politicians to be overly involved emotionally. Let's say the U.S., there has been many cases where female politicians are more prone to allowing their emotions to take over and cloud their judgment. Name a time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:47 AM
1	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 02:27 AM
-3	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates Interesting you write about them being "representative" of a particular group but now say they aren't real while you compared them to a real group. I guess words mean something else. I'm not a woman, but I'll pass along your message to other women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 12:32 AM
-2	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates I don't know about you, but I believe all women. Then why write about the women on TikTok if they are real?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 12:11 AM
7	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates How would she have the knowledge of who women rejected and for what reason?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:58 PM
5	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates You date women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:52 PM
0	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates This: Notably - no-one wants a big fancy dinner date as a first date. Far too-high stakes and long. contradicts this: There are women on TikTok demanding fancy dinners as first dates - but they’re no more representative of your average single girl than Andrew Tate is of single guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:50 PM
2	CMV - these are reasonable requirements for dating a single mom As a responsible parent knowing you have a child at home, why would you get drunk? Is she being force fed alcohol? If she doesn't know this basic thing, maybe she shouldn't be a mother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 06:54 PM
1	CMV - these are reasonable requirements for dating a single mom I don't understand what this is attempting to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 06:23 PM
3	Women who are saying they are not interested in a suitor, are not withholding/concealing anything, they are just being nice. Please link. Thx.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 05:37 PM
12	CMV - these are reasonable requirements for dating a single mom I'm also assuming she puts a lot into her appearance. What limited time she has to spend with her child is being sacrificed as well. Let's not even mention safety risks as a woman meeting a strange man. (See Bear in the woods) No one cares. Her appearance is her choice. The man put a lot of effort into working to earn money. He doesn't expect compensation for that. This dumb line of argument needs to stop. She also is an adult who can make choices. If she is sacrificing time with her children to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 05:28 PM
1	CMV - these are reasonable requirements for dating a single mom Number 4 conflicts with Number 2. Why would someone pay for the caretaking of someone they don't know. In what other arena does this work? Number 1 - "make it worth her time". Unreasonable. Is there no expectation for her to be creative? Is she dating the court jester and wants to be entertained? Number 3 - no one is forcing her to drink. She needs to be adult enough to not drink and drive or arrange alternate transportation. There's no reason a man has to pay to babysit one child while having t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 05:20 PM
3	Women who are saying they are not interested in a suitor, are not withholding/concealing anything, they are just being nice. A lot of RP guys seem to think that women who turn men down politely are being disingenuous and that they want "The Truth, The Whole Truth, & Nothing But The Truth'' from them. Can you provide evidence for this premise? The rest of your argument flows from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 05:13 PM
5	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism Stay on topic. If you have a problem with the prompt for this debate, then take it up with the moderators.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 02:02 PM
1	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism It encourages leisure, not laziness. Surely you can think of non-rich people who are lazy....	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 01:20 PM
1	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism And if they didn't, you'd take away ownership?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 01:20 PM
3	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism The conversation here is about men and women in relation to men. Can you folks at least try to stay on topic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 01:17 PM
1	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism Can't tell you I know what would happen, but seems to encourage laziness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 01:15 PM
3	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism Accumulate capital and own the means of production	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:53 AM
1	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism Because women are transactional	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:31 AM
3	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism Using individuals who are at the top of the totem pole getting romantic success with capitalistic-like returns is the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:29 AM
6	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism Or become a better capitalist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:23 AM
4	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism Women leave men for less. So it doesn't matter that it's reasonable, it only matters that it happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:20 AM
–	Having kids with people you never trusted just makes YOU look stupid and irresponsible. Most people dont fuck people they dislike. Explain the rise of single mothers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:09 AM
-1	Do you think that men actually want to have children? Women like you believing you can get into the minds of men to actually say what they want makes you look as if you have delusions of grandeur, are narcissistic and your ego is equally as ridiculous as the ones you mentioned. You have no clue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 08:28 PM
–	Having kids with people you never trusted just makes YOU look stupid and irresponsible. Again, your flawed logic not addressed. What you're arguing is people have zero sex when the relationship is not going well, which is another ridiculous claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 08:26 PM
1	There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor. Fucking women is doing it for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 07:43 PM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? If you had kids, would you value them even though they are a net liability?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 05:30 PM
0	I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids. So why bring up physical assault?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 05:15 PM
1	Do you think that creepiness is subjective or objective? All behavior, in the absence of interpretation of objective. Simply saying x happened is fine. Saying x happened, therefore it is y, is subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 05:15 PM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? If you're comparing wages, how else do you determine this? Are wages not paid by companies? And who is talking about value?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 05:13 PM
4	Do you think that creepiness is subjective or objective? No, the behavior is objective. The interpretation of the behavior is subjective. That's what was said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 03:30 PM
4	Having kids with people you never trusted just makes YOU look stupid and irresponsible. This doesn't address the flaw in your logic. I'm sure even you can envision a relationship that goes for years prior to when a child is born.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 03:29 PM
8	Having kids with people you never trusted just makes YOU look stupid and irresponsible. This reasoning makes zero sense whatsoever. You can easily say if you're in a committed relationship with no signs of breaking up, you shouldn't need a prenup. In one case you agree that people can change, but you deny their ability to change in the other case? Doesn't track.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 03:23 PM
1	Do you think that creepiness is subjective or objective? If there's a guy standing in her yard in the rain for 15 minutes at 2:00 in the morning... Nothing I described there is subjective. Is that behavior that actually happened or is it a hypothetical? A dispassionate description of this behavior is not what is at issue here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 03:19 PM
-1	I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids. Then how is one to read that? You seem to imply that your father was the cause of your abuse at the hand of another person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 03:13 PM
-2	I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids. Am I reading this correctly that you blame your dad for your mom's choice to physically assault you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 03:09 PM
3	I'm tired of people saying that divorce is good for kids. You're imagining a world that didn't exist. You have no idea what you would have been if they divorced, which is exactly why this reasoning is poor because it's asymmetrical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 02:59 PM
4	Having kids with people you never trusted just makes YOU look stupid and irresponsible. I bet you also don't believe in prenups because guys should "trust" that his soon to be ex wife will treat him nicely?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 02:51 PM
-1	There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor. That's not the measure of great physical shape. A lot of athletes don't have six packs - you'd argue they aren't in great physical shape?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 02:28 PM
1	There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor. You need to get out more. Lack of sleep, yes. Not in great physical shape, nah. These aren't bodybuilders, of course, because they have a day job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 02:23 PM
6	There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor. "If a tree falls in the forest and no one is around to hear it, did it really make a noise". This argument is tiring. We are a social species. To argue that self improvement is not validated by your social environment is just naive. This "you should do it for yourself" - why? If no one cares, what actual return do you get from it? Just knowing you did? People get plastic surgery to sit in their homes and look at themselves? You think that would be enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 02:22 PM
2	There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor. You are just plain wrong. There are countless people complaining about not getting an ROI on their college degrees. If it was just about self improvement, they should be happy that they were better educated than most of the country. But even they want it to be valued by others in the form of compensation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 02:18 PM
2	There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor. Huh? You think Wall Street is just a bunch of fat, stupid rich people? Have you worked in finance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 02:11 PM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? Because you wrote "I think WNBA should make more". The NBA is doing just fine. Their viewership records already show it. You are talking about advertising when the media rights are the ones increasing the revenue. Advertisers want to be associated with what's popular. The market is speaking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 12:03 PM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? So you think, even though the WNBA loses money every single year, and the NBA subsidizes the salaries of the WNBA, you think the NBA should be subsidizing them more? So this is not about actual productivity for you and the results of work done. You didn't think WNBA players should be paid commensurate with their output. In fact, they should be paid less if we are being real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 11:23 AM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? Then you must not know what you said but it's right there in writing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 01:06 AM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? So work shouldn't be performance based on your mind? Make less sales, you should be paid the same as the person who makes more sales?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 12:22 AM
6	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? I don't. What's your next argument?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 12:11 AM
6	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? No. Don't have children. You want to work and earn as much money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 12:09 AM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? So, define the "same amount for the same work". Say you are on a trading desk and person 1 makes a great trade and manages risk and is compensated for their PnL for the year. Person 2 has losses and isn't compensated as high. Are you saying that despite their different performance on the job, the difference between their pay should be exactly zero?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 12:08 AM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? But if you're not working, you're not in industry. Stay at home parent isn't a job title.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 12:06 AM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? Do you think NBA and WNBA players should make the same amount of money?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 12:00 AM
7	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? Sure. Don't have kids then. You won't have these problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 11:57 PM
7	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? Then don't have kids. Having kids is a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 11:55 PM
3	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? Because that's not how statistics work	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 11:46 PM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? Are women's income of zero from staying at home being included in gender pay statistics? Because that would be very dumb to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 11:45 PM
–	Wealthy, 60+ men who marry way younger women, how do they ensure his wife doesn't benefit if he dies under "suspicious circumstances " Write a will. Give all your money to charity. Problem solved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 11:41 PM
–	This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias. The aim is to malign everyone involved in the bullshit. There's a court process to hold deadbeat fathers accountable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 08:20 PM
–	This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias. Everyone should pay. The mothers need to take them to court since they know who they had sex with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 08:19 PM
–	This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias. Thanks for proving my point. Yes, they should take responsibility for giving birth since they are literally the only ones who can do it. That boys disproportionately have behavioral and learning problems. No. See Professor Galloway's research and come back with an actual response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 05:28 PM
–	This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias. Constantly seeing the hate on women having kids, but never against the men who abandon children and forcing the government to spend extra when he refuses to help and pay child support. Never even berating the guys who have multiple baby mamas, clearly not caring for them, but its always “women picking bad boys”, not “piece of shit having me pay more in taxes because he cant use protection.” Let's say there's a huge cocaine producer in Colombia. But he has no way to get the cocaine to the US, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 05:15 PM
0	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" 👍🏿	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 02:16 AM
1	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" You "distracted" him. Lol. No lecture? No "knock it off Buddy!". Just a distraction huh? Out of sight, out of mind for you I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 01:35 AM
-1	Are the wrong men having to pay child support a result of the government having lost their balls? you want the woman to declare out loud the name and then the money will be magically transported to her bank account lol You act like this is some heavy lift. A woman here decided to have sex and have the resulting baby. If you can't find the man you fucked, you need to look in the mirror for the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 01:23 AM
1	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" You're now realizing you did nothing of substance huh? Must suck when you thought you were a hero telling this story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 01:00 AM
4	Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for years So prostitution huh? Can't have the milk for free. It's transactional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:59 AM
2	Are the wrong men having to pay child support a result of the government having lost their balls? Have you ever thought not to fuck someone who you don't know? Does that thought ever cross your mind? People are quite easy to find, assuming you know basic information about them. It's not about her bank account. It's the person she decided she would let bust raw inside her, then choose to have this person's baby, to provide for his spawn. How terrible of a mother are you that you don't think the person who you let paint your walls doggy style shouldn't take care of his responsibilities?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:59 AM
0	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" You people are loving in a fantasy world. You create these scenarios in your mind and think it actually works. You are not keen, you have no idea how men interact. You folks are making it up as you go along. Delusional doesn't even begin to describe this line of thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:55 AM
3	Are the wrong men having to pay child support a result of the government having lost their balls? How do you not know the name of the man you had sex with? Who you let paint your walls raw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:45 AM
0	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" Let's rehash: For a sub that keeps screeching about how women have to take accountability, they sure do push back when being tasked with making men accountable. That was you right? You think men who will abuse and cheat are persuaded by a lecture or a "knock it off". The fantasies you people create in your minds about how the world works are just plain ridiculous. And you continue to hold on to it, that's the wild part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:41 AM
2	Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for years What exactly is the "milk" here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:38 AM
4	Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for years Almost no one wants to get married in college these days. So he proposed that they will get married once they graduate. But he kept postponing. He swore he would marry her, but that day never came. He always had an excuse- " we are too young. Our finances are not stable yet... blah blah blah" Why would she stay after this? She chose to stay after a broken promise that according to you, was important to her without a conversation? She participated in her own disappointment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:37 AM
2	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" You women talk out of both sides of your mouths. "He's a terrible person, how can you hang around him?!" So "good" men choose not to hang around cheaters, convicts, abusers, drug addicts, etc. and choose to be around like minded people. And now it's "how come you're not telling men to knock it off?!" You folks are nonsensical. I don't hang around people who I have to tell "hey man, knock it off". It's women fucking these men behind closed doors who are slapping them around. You want these "good"…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:33 AM
1	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" Of course it's ridiculous because it's how ridiculous the statement is. Telling women to stop going back to men who abuse them, cheat on them, etc... is so crazy, but telling men to police the actions of people around them that they know nothing of is far more plausible to you people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:15 AM
1	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" How is that holding the man accountable? You did nothing except allow him to find the next victim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:05 AM
2	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" You do understand being held accountable for your own choices versus being held accountable for the choices of others right? For example, you want me to lecture Vladimir Putin that invading sovereign countries is a bad thing to do because he's a man? So now all men invade sovereign countries unless we don't hold Putin accountable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 12:01 AM
2	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" Men are not around to parent terrible men to create great partners for you. We have lives and families. Stop associating with trash and you won't get treated as such. Stop trying to socialize your losses while you privatize the gains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 11:55 PM
0	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" Of course you choose the bear. We see your choice in men, it's not a stretch that you would continue to put yourself in danger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 11:45 PM
0	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" These women love to socialize the losses and privatize the gains. Narcissistic if you ask me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 11:43 PM
1	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" These drug addicts, convicts and abusers are forcing women into relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 11:41 PM
1	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" It adds nothing to the conversation because everyone would choose better if they could. Wrong. Just completely wrong. Story after story of women choosing to go back to an abuser, a convict, a deadbeat, etc... when they have the choice to do better. Women on here continually quote the formula "good relationship > being single > bad relationship" so I call bs on "they would choose better if they could". Call it what it is - women think they have the power to change a person. It's egotistical think…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 11:40 PM
3	Women who wear revealing clothing for "comfort" or because it "makes them feel good", is that the truth? So if a tree falls in the forest and no one is around to hear it, did it make a noise? That's the classic question. Recognition is part of validation. If you don't have anything to benchmark against, what's the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 11:28 AM
0	Why do people bring politics into the pill spectrum when women like alpha males no matter what their politics? Remember that whole "group x is not a monolith" that folks love to say in this sub?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 04:10 AM
-1	Childless people should not date single parents How is this control?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 02:19 AM
1	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. I appreciate it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 01:19 AM
-6	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. I'm not 13. If I find someone who is a pleasure to be around, I'll be an adult and see if it's reciprocated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 01:05 AM
3	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. Roughly 23% more expensive than Poland Spring. Better make sure she's worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 12:48 AM
0	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. I'm grown. I don't have a "crush".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 12:26 AM
2	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? Because in this scenario, the woman is married and is acting as a whore?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 12:25 AM
1	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. Even better. A breathing date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 12:17 AM
6	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. Women take men out on first dates? And not sure what logical argument you're making. Please expand. Because you find out they're trash when you talk to them. Are you saying women are psychic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 12:17 AM
2	Childless people should not date single parents Agree 100%. Like attracts like. Don't push your mistakes on people who haven't made those same mistakes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 12:15 AM
-5	Feminists who say, "I support women's wrongs" ... what do you mean? Says the person on the internet, again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:35 PM
13	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. With the amount of trash women floating around the dating pool, I suggest men go on water dates. No more than Poland Spring, maybe Evian if you're feeling fancy. Even coffee is too large an investment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:35 PM
20	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. Early dates at fine dining establishments are simply a way to subsidize one's lifestyle at someone else's expense. Most of these people don't care about social etiquette. They only care that they've benefitted as a first order effect. Everything else you wrote is second order to the self centered nature of the need for early fine dining. That woman doesn't care about his finances. You think she can tell the difference between him being in the deep financial abyss simply because she got to order …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:32 PM
-2	Feminists who say, "I support women's wrongs" ... what do you mean? Says the person on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:22 PM
2	Feminists who say, "I support women's wrongs" ... what do you mean? To support - give approval, comfort, or encouragement to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:15 PM
3	Feminists who say, "I support women's wrongs" ... what do you mean? Ah, yes. It's always "not serious" or "a joke" when the women are all "tee-hee, she's cheating on Sam with big dick Billy, tee hee" but when men say the equivalent, it's abusive misogynistic gaslighting at work that causes Trauma®. They can never be justified as joking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:13 PM
3	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? Let's not change the subject. You said it isn't "amnesia, but confusion". Are you saying that women forget who they slept with, forget their hoe activities and potentially who they may have created a child with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:06 PM
4	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? She decided to let multiple men fuck her and you're blaming it on the father who didn't know she was allowing multiple men to fuck her? Does she not have actual knowledge that she was fucking multiple men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 09:35 PM
3	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? Yes, the mother who is a whore. You're saying she has amnesia with who she let fuck her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 09:20 PM
2	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? I read what you wrote. No change to my response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 08:40 PM
3	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? Ah yes. This is the shield that you use, like some right wing evangelist lifting up the Bible to their face to justify any act they may do - " the Bible says it!". "The child is part of the mother" you argue, so it would be wrong to do anything beneficial for one's self because that would be "harming the child". Sure, use the child as the shield for your bad acts. Relying on that type of reasoning is transactional as well, so for you, it's only the transactions that benefit you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 08:37 PM
4	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? The whore mother knows who the father is. Go find him and have him pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 08:29 PM
3	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? Return of the ill gotten gains from the period it was defrauded plus interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 08:27 PM
2	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Bernie Madoff's wife and sons were in the dark about his activities. Did they still suffer consequences? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 01:56 PM
1	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Are you for real? In one case, the woman knows she was raped. You're saying after 13 years of being lied to, a man knows he was the father?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 01:48 PM
8	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. IT's the part where you birth it, raise it to think you love it, then abandon it for no fault of it's own that make it cruel. "It's the part where you birth it, be tricked into raising it due to the actions of their whore mother.." FTFY	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 01:44 PM
21	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Of course you'd respond like this, completely ignoring the fact that in one situation, the woman knows she was raped while in the other situation, the truth has been kept from a man. You'd probably call a man an asshole if he took his life after learning none of his 4 kids were actually his after they were all older and learning he's been loving a lie. You'd probably use the same language "you're a monster for taking your own life because you abandoned your kids! How dare you cut them off!". Thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 01:40 PM
0	People who participate in plausible deniability/vague behaviour shouldn't complain when it is used against them. But to give a more specific answer: I'm saying there is no possible action you can take to guarantee someone is 100% trustworthy. But there are risk reduction techniques. If you use nothing, then that's your problem. "intentional deception to secure unfair or unlawful gain" Omitting information is intentional deception, and it's done to secure the sale. I'm sure plenty of legal systems have redefined fraud to a ridiculous degree for the sake of helping some rich people avoid the spirit of the la…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 03:03 AM
3	People who participate in plausible deniability/vague behaviour shouldn't complain when it is used against them. People don't typically have a choice in getting tricked either. We can do things to reduce the chance we get tricked or murdered but we can't simply decide to not be tricked or murdered. Are you saying sex is so powerful that you can't possibly wait to have it with someone trustworthy by vetting? So you mean, you can do things that reduce your chances. 😮 Yes, I would call that fraud. It's not fraud. You can want to call it that, but you'll be wrong. I think society functions much much much bette…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 02:24 AM
6	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? Life isn't fair. I don't know how people are determining fairness in this situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 02:08 AM
8	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? Because the person who raised someone who wasn't their child for 18 years was guilty and should receive the blow of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 01:50 AM
2	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? So sorry man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 01:36 AM
18	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? You were but a distant memory. Men are expendable to people around here. Their purpose is to clean up women's mistakes and not have agency or choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 01:30 AM
10	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? It is entirely your choice to cut your now step child off, to be clear. You’re still a dick for it though. Remember folks, when you've been traumatized and you're a victim, you're also a dick... That is if you are a man. When the choice has been taken away from you to make a decision that impacts your entire life, you are a dick. You, as a man, should continue to face the product of fraud. Society pays lip service to men's mental health when in fact people like you truly don't believe men have f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:47 AM
14	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? You're oversimplifying a lot here. while yes the kid need to fault their mother but they're in a tough spot just as the dad is. That is the mother's fault. Not the dad's. in fact since the kid lost a dad you expecting him to cut his mother too and become alone is weird since this is the time in their life they need the most support. I don't care what the kid does to the mother. Where did I say they should cut them off. They have a choice. But the mother put them in the situation they are current…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:36 AM
5	People who participate in plausible deniability/vague behaviour shouldn't complain when it is used against them. The person being murdered typically doesn't have a choice in their own murder. Are you talking about rape here or are you talking about two consensual adults making a decision to sleep with one another? If you willingly purchased a house without an inspection, would you blame the homeowner for not disclosing the termite damage under the porch? If you went to a used car lot and purchased a car with a price too good to be true, you blame the salesman for embellishing when they gave you an opportun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:26 AM
15	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? They should sell out the person who victimized them - their whore mother. You don't get to tell victims how they should process their victimhood. If a family member was stealing from your account for 18 years, and you found out, you wouldn't actively continue allowing them to take money from your account.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:21 AM
0	People who participate in plausible deniability/vague behaviour shouldn't complain when it is used against them. Yes. This is why you don't fuck people the first night you meet them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:19 AM
10	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? Why are you worried about what other men would do when you aren't practicing what you preach?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:19 AM
10	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? "a child of one's husband or wife by a previous relationship." If the relationship wasn't a previous one, but she was actively fucking other men and having them slap their dicks across her face while you were married/in a relationship, that can hardly be called a "previous relationship".	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:18 AM
1	Why do single mothers tend to get into another relationship immediately after a breakup, especially when they have many kids? They have many expenses and are seeking out assistance with paying for the multi year liabilities they had with other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:15 AM
4	People who participate in plausible deniability/vague behaviour shouldn't complain when it is used against them. Being vague is not manipulation. Every adult has the capacity to ask questions for clarification, not make assumptions and determine a way forward based on those responses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:12 AM
6	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? Had a whore as a mother. We can't escape the sins of our families sometimes. It wasn't some kids fault they were born with HIV either; doesn't mean people have to want to have sex with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:08 AM
11	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? They are anti choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:04 AM
10	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? Adoption implies choice. There was no choice here. You folks are pro-choice, until it seems you're not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 12:01 AM
19	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? Followed by "have your whore of a mother explain why". Not sure why you have smoke for the victim in this situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 11:56 PM
10	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? A stepchild implies a choice before the fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 11:54 PM
2	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? That person's father abandoned them with assistance from their mother. Would you willingly continue to be defrauded if someone stole your identity?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 11:52 PM
14	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? They aren't a stepchild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 11:50 PM
9	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? Are you a step father? Are you helping parent a child that's not yours?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 11:49 PM
2	Would you abandon an 18 year old if you discovered they weren't your biological child? Children are increasingly abandoning their parents. I don't see anything wrong either way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 11:48 PM
5	CMV: Women prefer (Benevolent) Sexism over Equality in Dating A corollary to this means that any actions that don't benefit the woman are seen as misogyny or in the class of behaviors that would be "hostile".	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 08:55 PM
1	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination No. Because I don't think any human is impossible to harm or damage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:06 PM
1	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination Yes, I think empowered means you can handle the results of your decisions. Stop infantilizing adults.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 10:20 PM
1	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination Agency is the sense of control that you feel in your life, your capacity to influence your own thoughts and behavior, and have faith in your ability to handle a wide range of tasks and situations. Empowerment means people having power and control over their own lives. Because that's the literal meaning. If you think they are vulnerable, they are by definition, not empowered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 10:17 PM
2	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination Women are empowered and have agency... that is until you don't think they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 10:09 PM
–	Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of men What hilariously missing is how there's no question of her friends (or her) being unqualified or shitty for the men they are chasing. It assumes they are perfect already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 09:40 PM