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Yeah I dont know what finally did it but, but I was definitely on thin ice so I wasn't surprised. The reason given was stupid though and definitely not the real reason. Oh well it's impossible dealing with the men over their anyways 🙄 Even the women there are questionable.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 05:26 AM
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I was banned from there for some stupid reason. What I found extremely funny was that the demographics over there are mostly young, male, and virgin. They can't get women but for some reason, they want a beautiful, attractive virginal woman who will go 50/50 with them. Since they dont have real experience, they cling on to a fantasy. Really? A model-like women who is a virgin because no other man ever noticed she was beautiful, will change her mind once she meets the incel in question and have n…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 12:37 PM
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Girl bye stop replying to me. You know damn well what the fuck Im talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:00 PM
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I will define whatever vocabulary I feel like. If you prefer to live with your comfortable pre-packaged boxes full of made up terms that appease people, then keep doing that. Keep living in your bubble. We out in the real world out here. Your whole point here is to villianize certain lifestyles while glorifying others just as society wants you to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:47 PM
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More suitors than they can handle? How many women do you know that are fighting men off or have them knocking down their door? Dont lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:41 PM
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This only applies to a certain ethnic demographic of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:38 PM
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I dont understand your post. Well according to men, we are just being picky and need to lower our standards because you are not going to get someone who is not a low life to work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:34 PM
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Most women do not have options. So we are clear, options are something that you would reasonably consider I.e. A homeless guy eye fuking you from his tent is not an option. Some fat fuk perverted manager harrassing you is not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:29 PM
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I'm open.. I've been with men who were open. Plus all the men I know cheat. So what is the difference? Can you please disprove your first statement with some research?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:23 PM
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Whats the difference? Non-monogamy is not monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:21 PM
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But the relationship was open at one point whether it was consensual or not. When another person enters a relationship, it is no longer a closed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:20 PM
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This is the thing. People ONLY think polygamy consists of 2 people who are whores and want to go fuk everything under the sun and attend xes parties all night while grandma watches the kids. That or be part of a hedonistic throuple who participate in threesomes daily. Polygamy is just having sex/relationships sometimes with different people. If a husband steps out, that marriage is open whether it was willful on the wife's part or not. If the husband steps out often, but the wife looks the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:17 PM
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In all honesty I think jealousy is pretty natural as a way to get ahead of competition in a polygamous society. For example, "sister wives" or women who were married to the same man want to be the head wife and first to birth the male heir. Otherwise I completely agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:09 PM
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Who has evolved to be monogamous? The 30-40% of people who have stepped out from their marriages for xes with other people, or the 99% of people who sexually fantasize about someone who isnt their spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:05 PM
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Why not? What is the problem with the scenario you stated if the man was ok with that arrangement? Why would that piss you off if a couple wanted that arrangment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:59 PM
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Maybe the woman doesnt want to be settled down with some average man who wants to be monogamous with her. Maybe she wants to keep her options open??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:55 PM
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You are talking about open poly-relationship weird ass couples who make it their personality. Yeah they are weird and unattractive. Then you have the secret arrangments set in private between high status people. They act monogamous to continue looking good in the eyes of society. You also have Drake, Adam Levine, Chris Brown, Bad Bunny. I dont care if you say this doesnt count. It does. If the women in question look the other way because they want to keep their lifestyle, then it is an open rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:46 PM
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Well yeah those guys arent Drake.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:42 PM
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Well yeah, obviously they would make bad long term monogamous partners because they are not naturally monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:41 PM
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Oh you do. I gaurantee you know at least one person who has stepped out and you just dont know it. Even though you call it cheating, it was non-consensually open at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:38 PM
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Human beings are naturally inclined to be with different people while simultaneously favoriting one person. Its been the go-to for human relationships since the beginning of humans. I dont believe monogamy is natural to all humans. For some it may be, for others no. Why can't each person do what feels good for them? I understand the moral and societal basis for monogamy, but with a progressive "do what you want" society, why is this even an issue anymore? Nobody should fake a monogamous relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:26 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:15 PM
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Um, by society. Did you not know that? It is the goal to eventually not work. For lucky and smart people that goal is achieved early. For suckers, it is often never achieved untill they are 70 and almost in the ground and still poor. Some die in economic slavery. So what do you plan on "amounting to"? You have no idea what I have done in my lifetime. Being emplyed does not equal "amounting to something" I can think of a dozen people who do great things and didnt get paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:57 AM
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Yep., and thats a damn flex. Don't be jelly because I dont have to do shit but go to pilates and look good, and I have a steady cash flow. Some people are slaves to the system only to be poor and still get no pu$$y. Even "unemployed" I have multiple properties and investments in my name. How many do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:40 AM
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Does he get any pu$$y? I dont think being rich will help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:33 AM
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Ewww the reject yaht.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:31 AM
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Only unattractive women say looks do not matter. What kind of women do you think flock to Reddit? I include myself cause im fking ugly, but for me looks are #1. These are the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:25 AM
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because you dont have enough money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:23 AM
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Hey if work isnt for you, why cant you live that life? Why do you have to go with what society says you have to do? I love not working. Its how I enjoy my life. Who are you to tell someone how they can and cannot enjoy their life? Jealous? You must be. If I'm so stupid, how do I get to live this soft life, while most other people live mindlessly being slaves to a system that only works against them. I have what others have to work for INCLUDING a retirement plan. But yeah, Im the one who is stup…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:16 AM
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I dont remember the exact levels, but all hormones where within range except for my androgen levels. They were a bit high. They said that it was not significant enough to warrant any intervention nor were they high enough to be causing the problems that I had. Both my internist and obgyn confirmed this. I ended up with another diagnosis (from another dr) that was causing my problems that had nothhing to do with the hormone levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:32 AM
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Damn. Im going to start taking some natural supplements because the dr. told me my hormones are probably out of whack and that she can do a DNC to clear things out or I should take birth control but I dont like either of those options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:17 AM
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i doubt that in their 60's they are looking for old fuks with a 6 pack. I hope it is because they just dont want it and are praying for men to stay away from them, cause I dont want that to be me. I've been manifesting something but its not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:13 AM
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I had them tested a couple of years ago and they were fine, im going to get retested though cause my body isnt right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:09 AM
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Im scared. I have 3 aunts. Absolutely none of them have a man nor have I ever met a man they were dating. In their whole lives. They are into late 60's now. My other aunt was widowed at 50 and now shes 70 and there has been no man knocking at her door the past 20 years. No attention no dates nothing. Its possible for women to be eternally single without a lick of male attention. I have a 40 year old cousin who is a single mom and she is literally in the entertainment industry and shes been singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:22 PM
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Who the hell said women in their 20's can sleep with whoever they want??? This is far from true. Its like saying the average gym bro can have xes with any woman he wants and thats false.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:12 PM
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How do you get HRT? Does your dr. Have to prescribe it? My doctor told me Im too young for pre-menopause and told me to take some bullshit ass over the counter supplement if I dont want to go on the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:08 PM
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What is with repill men and the word "projection". You did that here by bringing some theoretical femme fatal boogie man into this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:16 AM
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But at least you would be alive to defend yourself. I cant of one man who was falsely accused and had his entire life ruined. But I can name a bunch of dead woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:23 PM
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People dont understand this. Everything you said is true. Humans are natural predators. We are the most vicious and vile predators known on earth. All men are sexual predators at their core. It is inherently in their nature to find women and fck them by any means necessary. Its our evolved human psyche that ultimately represses those instincts and we dont have to act upon them. We find other ways to achieve our wants. We dont have to act upon our instincts, but they are there. In times of war an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:03 PM
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I would think living around people thinking you're a jerk because of a rumor started by a woman is better than being gRaped and killed. By the way...women are also victims of social damage caused by women. More so then men. Everything you stated being done by woman is completely fixable. Being gRaped is not. I rather a rumor started about me with no concrete proof then to be murdered. How dare you even compare them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:55 PM
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Most men have predatory thoughts, but they are not acting on it. Humans are predators by nature. We kill and eat living things. Thats the definition of a predator. Men are sexual predators. Most dont act on these impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:37 PM
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I don't really agree. Obviously I'm only one person, but there is either "Yes I will xes him" or "I will not xes him". If they fall into the category of "Yes I will xes him" then his quirks or undesirable traits will either become endearing, or in time, give you the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:48 PM
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You can change your preference about life arrangments, income, etc. But you cannot change what you are physically and sexually attracted to. Example, you meet a guy who is just your type physically, you can change your standard about his income, career, even whether he has kids or not. But if you are definitely not sexually attracted, there is nothing in the world that will make you see him sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:13 PM
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Thats awesome! Oddly enough, I have never recieved a d!ck pic. Not even from the tons fuck bois to look my way. I would love to troll them, just never got a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:03 PM
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I would say between the age range of 22-28. I even met a guy and started dating thinking he was cool, then I started dating his brother (please dont judge me). They were 23 and 24 years old. I learned from the brother that not only was HE married and had a kid, but so was the first guy! I attract extreme levels of toxicity. Im a walking target for fuck bois. I was also in love with this guy who would take me out and wine and dine me. Then he ghosted me and said he couldnt come out anymore becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:36 PM
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So they are worse then single dads then. They are dead beats. Way worse then being a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:19 PM
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Hmmm, maybe I have a tendency to attract fck bois. Because men that didnt have kids were very few and viewed it as an accomplishment, they would have to anounce it so they could stand out in the sea of dead beat dads and fck bois. Almost all men I encountered had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:18 PM
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The funny thing is that when I was young and childless most of the attractive men I met had at least 1 kid. But I paid it no mind cause I knew I wouldnt have to see the kids cause the men didnt raise them. Its such a common thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:42 PM
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You think its less common foe men to be single parents? You made impregnated these women? I mean are uou talking about some "out of sight, out of mind" thing? If the dad doesnt come around and raise his kids hes not a single dad? Trust single moms dont really have issues. Men are really desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:37 PM
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Well those women arent checking for you, so they are not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:11 PM
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It doesn't matter what you think, it matters what the woman thinks, and she will treat you accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:08 PM
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Blame the upper echelon of men/Chads for making them feel beautiful and wanted. They get use to that they dont want to date lower than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:06 PM
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I for one have been in that situation many times, and I have friends who didnt like their boyfriends but it was the best they could get. The people offended at my words in this thread are just upset at the reality and feel helpless that they cant do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:03 PM
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Attitude, mindset. Women refuse to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:01 PM
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No, women are approached by many men below her but she settles for the best of what comes at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:39 AM
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low status - undesireable in looks, income level, personality, etc. Bottom of the barrel. Well when you watch others wake up and "have it all" you kinda want what they have that they didnt have to work for. I.e waking up beautiful with money from birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:38 AM
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Call it what it is, but its a common occurrence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:33 AM
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yes it is but whos stopping it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:32 AM
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I agree that paying for xes and an escort is way better than some average woman. But at least its consistent and you are just funding the lifestyle. Escorts wont be attracted to you either. I have been a house wife myself and its hard choosing between that and single mommyhood cause you don't want to give up your comfort. Being in a dead bedroom can be worth it if you are taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:12 PM
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The problem is that she probably couldnt pull someone she was really attracted to. So she settled for "meh". Someone who doesnt sexually excite her, but is "ok". After sometime it becomes a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:07 PM
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Well, I personally have no shame so that would be my plan. Most other women probably have souls, so maybe they would not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:20 PM
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They cant comprehend that women are settling to their detriment. They cant imagine a world where 50/50 is not a equal cost/benefit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:18 PM
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I thought we were having a theoretical discussion? Nowhere did I say this was personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:16 PM
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Alot of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:15 PM
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I agree, however I see more unattractive women than attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:14 PM
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Women are indeed doing this. Check out celebrity/athlete/musician harems. Some are out in the open, most are secured by non-disclosure aggreements. I agree, I find this arrangment way better than going 50/50 with a low status man. For me personally, there is no amount to keep me in a dead bedroom. However, if I dont have to work and have everything I need, I might stay and have someone on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:10 PM
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Theoretically yes and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:55 PM
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The post itself is a theoretical idea. There is no way all women are not attracted to their partners but many are not. So the theoretical idea is if a woman is not attracted to her partner whom she had to settle for because there is a lack of high status men/she could not have a high status man, then going 50/50 is not an equal cost/benefit for her as she gets absolutely nothing out of this relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:54 PM
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I suppose it makes me taken care of. It's ridiclous to think that there arent any trade offs to xes. Considering a man's biological needs and desires, do you really live in a theoretical bubble of a Utopia to think that there arent any trade offs? Literally thousands of years of civilization has understood this and you are challenging it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:03 PM
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Explain how it does not make sense to you and I will try to explain it to you in the simplest terms possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:57 PM
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If a women cannot attract who she likes, this is her only option other than staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:55 PM
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Thats true but its not the point. They feel how they feel. And apparently its the majority of women according to this sub. So for men who are unattractive to the majority of women, the only options are to pay for xes, stay virgins, or settle with women who are not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:54 PM
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Yeah I guess you can pay for sex. Then just do that and stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:50 PM
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The post does not talk about someone being low status because they go 50/50. It addresses going 50/50 with an already low status man. No woman wants to work "as a team" with a man she had to settle for who isnt her type and can't xesually satisfy her, because she is not attracted to him. That's why she would need additional benefits to be equally as happy as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:47 PM
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What do you think is the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:41 PM
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What about an obese woman with paperbag face?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:38 PM
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I dont know about creeps or losers. I have always been able to deal with them appropriately so they have always been a non-issue. But when you are use to getting attention and then one day its gone...that bitchslap is a motherfker. Also, you should change your line from "women get alot of attention" to "some women get alot of attention" or are unattractive women not included in this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:32 PM
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I dont understand how nobody understands the point you are making in this post. Men are attracted to most women. Women are attracted to only 20% of men. Which means most women have to settle with a man who will be happy to have them. Men are happy and women are not happy. So to make the women a little more happy, the man should offer benefits like money, being the provider etc, to make the cost/benefit equal. What women (who is unsatisfied with a low status man who doesnt xesually excite her) wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:16 PM
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i understood the post perfectly. Why would a women want to be 50/50 with a low status man who cannot offer her xesual satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:10 PM
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Many women are in relationships with men they are not attracted to because they can't get the ones they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:09 PM
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What benefits does a woman have splitting 50/50 with a low status man who doesnt offer xesual satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:07 PM
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Hahaha and then you got nothing else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:06 PM
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Yeah it can be fixed with plastic surgery but so can balding and gasp height. So short bald men have no accountability either. Well I guess you want obese women to stay obese then cause those are the only ones getting tons of lose skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:04 PM
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If they lose weight, they get loose skin, which looks worse than just being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:32 PM
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Thank you ❤I will consider all that. I doesnt hurt to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:31 PM
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I don't ever remember posting in that sub BUT online interactions absolutely do not count. In the real world within the past 4 months I have really been invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:38 PM
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No it's not a fetish. He is just challenging me because he doesnt think it will happen. Its not easy just to leave. Divorce and finding another place to live with kids is expensive and stressful. Its easier to go do my thing while still living with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:13 AM
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He is narcissistic and I have been through emotional abuse with him and he told me to my face that he never loved me. I told him he's going to fk around and find out and he challenged me to go fk someone and make sure I send him a video. I'm going to try to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:07 PM
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judge me then. I see nothing wrong with it. My husband knows I dont want him and that I'm our looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:07 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:06 PM
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This is the hope I have for myself. Hopefully I'm about to be a single mom sooner than later. I see all my friends get childless men to confess their love to them before they even leave their husband's, so why not me too. Im also in the boat of not being able to find a man as well. So I want the first part, stuck in the second part. The reason women can't find men is because there are terrible options.. most men will never get past the looks requirement. At least not in my experience. I settled …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:54 PM
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So what kind of women are unattractive? How does a women gage her attractiveness then? If she doesnt get any attention, can she just assume she's ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:44 PM
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Men dont get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:41 PM
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both myself and society changed. I'm older and dont hang out with my hot friends anymore. The only people down to go out are not nice to look at, so by associating with that company I get put into that same category I can assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:40 PM
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No I did not gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:37 PM
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Nah. I see all my friends get side pieces, I want one too!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:03 AM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:01 AM
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I dont know, but my face is jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:59 AM
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Isnt it funny though? We say "attractive" and they jump in defensive and ask "what about short and balding?" We know damn well that they wouldnt want an obese woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:58 AM
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That was the past. I'm talking about now. And who are you to judge what is right or wrong in someone elses marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:55 AM
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This is me. I've been married and with the same guy for 14 years. I cant take it anymore. I am trying to find a side piece to see if its worth it to leave, but I just cant look at him anymore without getting pissed off. I wont say I'm the norm at all, I see many couples who "appear" happy. But lots people say me and husband look very happy as well and they are envious of us. If they only new I was envious of them because there is still a glimmer of hope for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:35 PM
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I beg to differ. I went out last weekend. Went to 3 different bars/restaurants/social settings and not one man gave me look. And I was looking for a man that night too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:32 PM
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When they say "women" what they are really saying is conventional attractive models with perfect proportions. They do not think of rhe unconventionally attractive or conventionally unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:29 PM
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There are women *like me, who are invisible to men. I have proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:26 PM
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To me thats weird. Why would I need a tree to climb, Im lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:23 PM
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They arent ready to hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:16 PM
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Who do you picture when you think of Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:06 PM
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Tall, short, fat, skinny. Those are not phenotypes. Look at phenotypes if you want to see what men are attracted too. They all look the damn same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:56 PM
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Men like any type of women huh? Can you tell me which kind of man would rather have a short, white, troll looking creature with an afro over Barbie? Cause none of the men in my city do. Also, your statement is false. Men have less varied taste than women. All men, regardless of class and economical status, want a Barbie. Look on Instagram. The women with the most followers are all copy/paste of each other. They look exactly the same. But the ambiguous women with rare contrasting features doesnt …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:48 PM
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I absolutely find a 5'10 guy better than a 6'2 guy. Wtf I need a 6'2 guy if I'm 5'2? Plus tall guys look freakish to me. Lanky and weird and slumped over looking. They age horribly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:40 PM
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I don't deal in anologies. What? Attractive men get xes easier. Are you disagreeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:56 PM
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Why are we entertaining this incel theoretical utopia?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:53 PM
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Not a thing would change because you will still have women fighting over the "perceived" most attractive man in the bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:52 PM
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Nothing you say or do is ever going to effect the future of this country. You are absolutely insignificant and meaningless to the people governing your ass. They dont give a shit about you. Get that through your head and you might get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:47 PM
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Wait a minute minute, that is a huge age spectrum of women you are asking. A women who is 25 will most likely say older and a women 45 will most likely say younger. Men who are 30ish to 35ish are more attractive then other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:42 PM
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Do men really throw themselves at you? Men of a high calibre? Its hard for women too. especially if they dont do dating apps. Men dont approach really, even is social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:38 PM
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These men are attractive. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:27 PM
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I say the wall is like 38 for men. Thats when most of them start looking like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:19 PM
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Because women want to feel more attractive than their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:11 PM
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Yes. Most do. Ryan Gosling is pretty much the sexiest man alive, according to women. And he's a perfect Ken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:07 PM
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Yes, being high profile entices women. I mean, when you are high status, why else do women come flying from all corners of the earth? To get to high status, you need to be goodlooking most of the time. If your friend didnt look as good as he does, he wouldn't have gotten to where he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:20 PM
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Ok, say what you want. But these women are still snatching up high profile Chads and getting knocked up for 200k in child support and men still chase them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:14 PM
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They DO need to insert drama. I will not be changing my comment. I have enough anecdotal evidence that proves this. Just cause you don't like the idea doesnt mean it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:08 PM
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I am not really sure what the 50th percentile would look like but I am sure my idea is different than yours. I also have no idea how to judge that. All I see is "attractive" "not attractive" How are women suppose to gage her level when so many attractive guys and Uggos approach her? How are you suppose to know who commits and who doesnt unless you been in the game for a long time? For example, at the gym I get approached by mostly ok looking guys. A really attractive guy I thought was way out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:13 PM
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These arent "Bad Boy" traits but I was replying with what the OP identified as "Bad Boy" traits, which include confidence and leadership. Im sure you dont want a doormat and I dont believe you never argued with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:59 PM
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Above average men do NOT have access to above average women. Celebrities and elite men are taking them. Thank them for that. Watch Austin Dunham he made a tiktok about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:40 PM
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Its not delusion. You're "looksmatch" is actually not in your league. You have to have more than the man a couple points above that woman. Cause he is looking at her too. You have to go a few points below because thats how those at the top made it. Look at your "looksmatch" and go a few point below and THAT is your equal. Thank the men on top for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:38 PM
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I agree with all the points he made. But you need to have the Bad Guy qualities first, get the girl, then show SOME Good Guy qualities. Why? Women love drama. It makes us feel alive. I would get bored of you if you didn't give me any problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:33 PM
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You dont understand. Women GET men out of their league. Maybe they get put on a roster for a 2 am bj on a Wednesday, but it beats being bothered by some ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:22 PM
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Well I guess my delusion( and all the other women) decide if you go sexless or not. If thats not what you want in life its time to change your mind. Cause we are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:19 PM
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Wow so I guess I can change my statement to this: There are no "average men" only attractive and unattractive. Fukable and unfukable. So ALL men who hit on women are ONLY hitting on women they are equal with? Including homeless meth-heads? Unfortunately, unless you like men, women call the shots. They decide if you stay lonely and sexless in life. So maybe you should agree with women about men overestimating their looks. Or stay sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:16 PM
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I deeply think that looks trump everything. Its like shelter. You need it before you can work on anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:04 PM
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But thats what men want cause they are fed p0rn imagery and that of IG baddies. Also all the high status men are with these type of women. And if COURSE you are competing with these women. I see plenty of these types, of course you are competing with them. There is also "mid Barbie" too. Ones that are hot and perfect features but they are not too cute in the face. Men will slobber over these women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:01 PM
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The attractiveness of men hitting on you had nothing to do with how attractive you are as a women. Men have a inaccurate view of what makes a man attractive. I googled "average man" and all the men I came across were well below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:56 PM
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Are women really afraid to admit this? Even online? I mean I wont tell somebody he's ugly to his face, I would just ghost him. The visceral reaction to a "friend" hitting on you is disgusting. I felt it before. I mean if you are unnattractive of course you shouldnt be hitting on people. You know if you are unattractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:52 PM
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So you both adhere to conventional or european beauty standards. lots of men will give those who fall in line with those standards attractive. Its when you are unconventionally attractive that men will have to "niche" their type in order to find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:52 AM
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Most men want women with near perfect body proportions. Not all that is attainable for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:46 AM
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Actually "Barbie" is a woman with perfect body proportions, perfect height, and not straying away from that standard. For example a women who is 5'4 and has big hips/small chest would not be a "Barbie". She also must have completely symmetrical facial features and be of European standards. Have smooth, untextured hair and bright eyes. So many if not most women do have to undergo surgery for the most part, if they want to adhere to beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:44 AM
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It's because when we are young, it is very easy to get with celebrities, athletes, and other high status men. Once we been on the roster of a an extremely high status man, we ain't going back to the average gym bro. Those guys messed shit up for you. You should berate them every chance you get instead of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:59 PM
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So you are telling me that if you were to walk into a Costco, you would find the majority of women in there attractive? And you guys say men don't have privilege. Sounds like a nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:56 PM
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Who told you that men find a wide range of women attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:52 PM
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I've never been interested in a man over 6ft. The perfect height is 5'8 to 5'10 for me. No taller than that. And I still only find about 2% of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:47 PM
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No it is nature at work. Women were not meant to be attracted to the majority of men. Monogamy is not natural, but society participates in it. It will have to physically evolve more which means both women and men will have to evolve physically (decrease in testosterone for men, increase in testosterone for women) It's nature working against societal expectations. It is in womens nature and best interest to seek out the higher status man more likely to give her strong offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:40 PM
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I mean it absolutely does happen in situations. I have witnessed men talk about certain women in that she was so disgusting that they wouldn't touch her. I was a secretary in an office that was male dominated. I was the only woman there. The warehouse had 200 men and only male clients came in and I was asked out a total number of 2 times the entire time I worked there, 5 years. One was a man 20 years older than me, the other one didn't even speak english. I was young and fit. But its something a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:07 PM
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He probably had some details that you didn't notice that actually are a turn off to certain women. For example an odd way of dress, the wrong shoes, no facial hair, outdated hairstyle, an accent. It could have been anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:54 PM
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When I was 22, my little sister had 16 year old friends, one who was dating a guy I went to school with. He was the loser, very socially inept. Only these men try to impress naive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:51 PM
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Eaves dropping on 2 women having a private conversation then taking it to reddit to complain about the ills of modern women might make him a little creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:40 PM
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Would this advice apply to women as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:36 PM
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I highly doubt this scenario actually took place and that it was just figment of your imagination. The dating struggles for men/women are evil imagination. If this REALLY happened, this man was not as attractive as you say. Apps suck because men lie, catfish, are shorter than they say, not as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:33 PM
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But most men do. So you are saying that you like unconventionally attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:29 PM
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Why are you complaining that women don't like your height but only think tall women are attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:59 AM
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But....if he has the option between Barbie and not-Barbie, he will choose Barbie. His choice at the end of the day is all that matters. Not who he would fk if his ideal isn't available. If he is chatting with not-Barbie, and then Barbie enters the room, Not-Barbie is suddenly invisible. That is NOT attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:45 AM
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Yeah at least tell him off. Violence is ok sometimes. I go through that problem sometimes where I want my man to defend me and he doesn't so I know where she's coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:44 AM
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And they know this. I dont know why they pretend that men have such a large spectrum of what they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:00 AM
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She is one of the privileged few in society then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:58 AM
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Yes she's privileged then. Also blocking wasnt the answer. You should have threatened to beat his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:56 AM
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Then I agree then. On the ranking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:54 AM
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You may think so. But everyone has a purpose in society. Sanitation workers have a very big purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:53 AM
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Nope. Men go for Barbie. Varying ethnic backgrounds, but still, Barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:49 AM
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Are you both monoracial? Non-ambiguous? Non-texturwd hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:47 AM
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Try
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:46 AM
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8?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:18 AM
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My hair is the reason I had a terrible childhood, low self esteem, and now battle a personality disorder. Hair is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:16 AM
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No they dont. They all want the same type of women: Barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:14 AM
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Jet black is pretty rare and most of the time it is just a deep brown. I always thought had black hair and so did everyone else, but no, its brown.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:13 AM
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Hahaha you understand the CHOKEHOLD blondes have over men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:11 AM
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My 1st thought: She sounds like a narc.I am also a narc. "I have NEVER been insulted like that in my LIFE!!" Sounds like some narc shit. Just assuming that is what she meant. 2nd thought: You should have told off your friend immediately. Who does he think he is talking about your wife like that??? I would never put up with a friend of my husband even looking my way, let alone talk about me. And why would you let him say that??? Your wife is lying about never being insulted. She is pissed that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:07 AM
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I have been bullied by my sister my whole life. She called me ugly/loser/nerd/a wannabe. Does that count? What exactly do you mean by insulted? Verbally abused or just feeling disrespected? I feel disrespected by people every day for things some men would never even blink at. For example, I felt insulted when a person I didnt know intruded into a conversation I was having. Your wife probably means verbally harrassed/abused, with words like b!tch, stupid wh0re, told to her by complete strangers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:50 AM
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Sex and love are 2 different things. Its not right to dictate what someone else does with their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:43 AM
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Well I guess cause they do have status in society and engage in a very masculine activity by punching other men in the face. That is not a feminine sport. Which is why you wouldnt date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:37 AM
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This is how they think. "I need a garbage man but you people are below me...ewww". These are the same people who say "if you dont like police, dont call them when you need help".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:32 AM
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I dont see wtf not if she wants to do that and make money. You would really shame your daughter for making money as a sanitation worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:30 AM
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They see them as wh0res and I hate the replies in this thread of normalizing being a misogynistic hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:29 AM
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I use to love MMA and would have dated an MMA fighter ASAP cause Im not a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:26 AM
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My ACTUAL dr. Told me men have waaaaaay more testosterone than women. Idc what Dr. Quora has to say. It is literally proven by science.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:15 PM
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This is exactly why no-name IG models and other beautiful women are able to become the Drake baby mama, while her "looks match" does not have access to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:11 AM
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I would really like to put this into a social experiment. I want to make a profile with an average man's picture and see what I can pull. I think its unethical to use someone's picture though. Long ago I did a social experiment with a women's image that I found in stock photos and it proved my hypothesis. That unpretty women get no attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:34 PM
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Because nobody can deny this truth. And I did not attack anyone with lies like the men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:58 AM
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But how do you get women to "choose better" when you tey to get them when they are young and naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:21 PM
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You need to stop blaming women and start blaming the top 10% of men and the simps. Those guys are your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:10 PM
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It would honestly be better for everyone. They get what they want, the women in those countries get their lives funded/green card, women here dont have to worry about being bothered by reject men, and the Chads can have thier harems in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:08 PM
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Not at all. Most immigrants marry within their communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:55 PM
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Are you biracial or bicultural?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:52 PM
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Everyone says this, that it is " No big deal" but it takes work. I personally could not marry someone of an entirely different background than me. I was reading alot of r/interracial, and even Americans of different races struggle. It's not easy as you think. There are culture clashes and some compromises may make one of the couple very unhappy. Some customs actually totally contradict each other. Its not as easy as "I love them". And if children are involved, you will have to try very hard to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:47 PM
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Women automatically want a man who is is finaicially better off/smarter/higher status than her because she want him to take control/lead/protect. This is the natural order of things. So men date down. Usually the most elite men in society date someone below them in status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:58 PM
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Or the person closest to your ideal does not want you. Occurs 90 percent of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:47 PM
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The first step to this challenge is becoming rich. Pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:41 PM
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You have to be ELITE. Average looking but rich and unkown doesnt cut it. I keep up with pop culture and these women are known groupies, clout chasers, and gold diggers. These elite men are definitely hooking up with them and impregnating them. Also I keep up with plenty of clout chasing IG models. They ALWAYS go from celeb to celeb. This chick Natalia whatever dated Colombian superstar Maluma, then dated Neymar. This other unkown chick dated a superstar, became his baby mama, then dated a BIGGER…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:31 PM
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Your exact statement was "it's an unrealistic scenario" and "wealthy men do not face that scenario". Drake has a harem of clout chasing gold diggers. So does 80% of famous men. H0es in different area codes. Rappers/Urban artists with net worth of 50+ million have numerous baby mommas who are getting paid 200k per month. For every elite, high status ATTRACTIVE AND/OR FAMOUS man, there are literally hundreds of hot women chasing you and throwing their bodies at you for fame/money/status. Its easy …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:19 PM
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You would have to find an heiress or an equally rich independant woman who will divorce anyways cause you are useless to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:43 PM
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I can literally name off the top of my head 10 celebrities KNOWN to have harems of women that are being paid. A$AP Rocky says that the majority of rappers find some hot IG model and flys them out for sex, gives them money and takes them shopping, then sends them back. Its not considered prostitution because everyone is high status. Every professional non-famous beautiful woman and IG model are getting trips, exposure, investments in their shitty little businesses, and fancy cars JUST for giving …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:37 PM
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How do you know nobody wants them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:22 PM
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Most women have at least a little bit and is natural to women as a whole. You label it as undesirable. Its like stating men are nore attractive than women because they can grow beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:20 PM
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Then stay out of grown folk business. You obviously did not know what it meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:29 AM
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It has been around for 1000's of years but never had an official name for it. An ick is when you are initially attracted to someone but then they do something that kills that attraction. For example. I dated a guy I was really attracted to. Then I saw him in his work pants, and I immediately lost attraction. It wasnt a uniform either. The pants were chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:01 PM
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I have always been afraid to show my interest because I didnt want to give guys the ick. I guess its trauma from elementary school when a girl would tell a boy I liked him just to be mean, and the boy was like "gross!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:53 PM
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No I would go for a younger men. Lots of women do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:24 PM
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Because the prison is a cement block of criminals, druggies, and psychotic people. This is a tropical paradise with normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:10 PM
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For my survival I would just wh0re it out to everyone untill I find the means to off myself on my own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:07 PM
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No he would probably be torn apart by the feral women for being useless and hard to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:56 PM
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You say that like it's every single woman. You have to know your wrong right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:52 PM
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do you know any attractive ladies between the age of 40 and 60? Talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:50 PM
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Not "everywhere I go" but definitely more than I see men of any age being hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:49 PM
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My mother in law did. Met a younger dude when she was 50 and he bought her a whole ass house and married her. I dont find him attractive myself but my teen nieces seem to think hes cute. I mean, your comment sounds like something coming from a middle schooler or a grown man whos lack of xes stunted his emotional maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:38 AM
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Instead of reporting you, I'm just going to laugh at you 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:36 AM
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Thats freakin' scary snd proves some of these men are natural born predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:34 AM
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If people ignored me and some odd years later wanted to hang out with me, I would not take it personal and would hang out with them. There could have been a zillion reasons they didnt want to talk to me. They were different people with different thoughts at the time. Its some petty ass bullshit and immature thinking to say "no you didnt hang out with me in college" why be a bitter grudge holding person just cause someone didnt talk to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:05 AM
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And also eliminates their gene pool so it use to be gRape that use to counter that, but now its redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:40 PM
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Who doesnt see older women marrying young men? Cause I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:29 PM
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You wanna conduct a study on that so you can prove that ridiculous statement to yourself. You dont see these old ass men in complete despair and dying off because their lives suck, while old women are trying to dodge advances from both old and young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:28 PM
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Most women do not acquire autoimmune diseases and cellulite is actually a secondary sex characteristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:22 PM
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You know older women can get younger men really easy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:11 PM
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A 50 year old attractive women with absolutely no means would fare better than a 50 year old well off average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:09 PM
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100k is not enough to even get an attractive 40 year old if you are below average in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:06 PM
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Depends on how old they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:52 PM
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Are you in High School? Nevermind. Thats so weird to talk about teens and you yourself are over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:50 PM
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Im stupid for trying to fk with a lion and can stay mad. So if you put yourself in that situation, you have no one to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:47 PM
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Ok so women can settle at any age even if its not "natural", right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:45 PM
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Chads. They are fking Chads of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:43 PM
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But you have to accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:42 PM
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They do that as a counter to all the dumb shit some vocal men say. Some man: You're going to expire. You need to settle or die alone. Women: Why would I settle with a short, broke and ugly man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:41 PM
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So why are people so mad about hypergamy if it's natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:24 PM
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They say that to make women feel bad because they are jealous of them having options. All humans age the same. The facial structure changes, the skin changes, there are body changes. Men age worst because they don't spend their entire lives making sure they moisturize, go to the dermatologist, use sunscreen and retinol. They don't care if they get fat. They do care how women look though. Not all men obviously. Also men like young women. But not for good reasons. This is why they talk down to wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:19 PM
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Nope. We don't like most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:13 PM
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I had to kindly inform some of her simps that she is not, in fact, gorgeous. Where is the lie? Yes I am very obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:14 PM
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Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:05 PM
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Why are we looking at average men's profiles? Straight women love men. I love high status men and men who have options. Sometimes I am able to date these guys. but I get bored of men easily and look for the next one. Women for the most part do not find most male porn stars sexually attractive. Les. porn is big with women because we don't want to look at an ugly dude with his d out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:53 PM
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But you have nothing to say to disprove it. I can say the same thing about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:45 PM
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Yeah just a few unfortunate souls in here think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:42 PM
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Over women yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:40 PM
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Of course the men in here are her fans and simp for her. That's why when I called her out on her unfortunate face, she got pissed and had to address my cruelty publicly. She is rich from simps like yall
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:39 PM
1

Look at all the surgically enhanced woman influencers.. They are all blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:37 PM
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You're simping for a YouTuber who is getting rich off of exploiting men's virginal status and hate for women? Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:35 PM
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Nope wrong again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:33 PM
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Well since Pearly Things got canceled I guess she is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:32 PM
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Harems? King of the jungle? Those are definitely human traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:30 PM
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No but she is up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:25 PM
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He's not wrong in that respect, but she could have said "surprise me" if she wanted to indicate she wanted him to take a leader role but also be receptive to whatever he chose. She is doing it all wrong. Men are use to being passive in the societal climate today, so letting him know you are passive will activate his leader qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:27 PM
1

You would be mad if a man planned out your date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:24 PM
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Let me peek my head outside and look at all the men who are friends, known through work or hobbies, or friends of friends who are all handsome as well as single. None? I gotta talk to strangers? Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:21 PM
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I've dated men that took the lead in everything. I prefer that but also comes cons with that territory. Progressive women wouldnt like these cons, but I'm into the cons so it's all good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:17 PM
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That women is annoying and seems insufferable It only take 2 minutes to look up a place. Hardly any effort. Concluding that no effort means he was not that into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:16 PM
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She doesn't need to match effort. If these men were so "traditional" and believed "biology" like they say they do, they would agree that women are the prize and it's up to them to woo her. Biologically speaking (according to them) men are more disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:12 PM
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Not Courtney Ryan? She is the biggest pick me and she absolutely went off on me years ago cause I said she needed botox.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:09 PM
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I'm mean you aren't wrong. Redpill wants to go back to pretty much boomer society. They say their own desires are biology, for example they want young virginal women, but have something against Chad harems which have been the standard for thousands of years, a society in which young virginal women were not available to them unless they were rich af.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:58 PM
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Yeah. Most kids are cute. but then puberty bitch slaps the shit out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:55 PM
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You edited your post. Nice try. Also who are you arguing with? Who was lied too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:54 PM
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That's freakin' weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:51 PM
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You should create a coalition "humans for a fair and equal society" and instead of leadership roles, which would not be fair, you handle your disputes by picking straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:50 PM
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I don't know if there is a blue pill. I think basically anything that counters red pill nonsense is what they call "blue pill". The part I understand you saying is that nobody is deserved all the things they want. ESPECIALLY if they don't try. For example, many men in this sub complain that they are 6', have a good job, and have friends. They do not understand that all that means absolutely nothing. They get told "well, get better looking" and they flat out refuse, saying they shouldn't have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:28 PM
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Well you will not witness a fair world in this life or ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:07 PM
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So if you stole some gum from the store at age 15, you will engage in future thievery just to be consistent even if you know it is wrong? Or if you threw paper wads at lil susie when you were 10 because you liked her, are you going to do the same throughout your life with future partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:02 PM
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Right. and the Chads she fked where a better, more attractive human body that deserved more than a lower value non-Chad human body. So what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:01 PM
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Yeah humans are not allowed reflection on the error of their ways. so fk em'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:59 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:58 PM
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You were taught who to be attracted to based on popular media. When they have the same people on T.V you start to idolize the phenotypes that appear. With men, women are naturally attracted to tall/buff/protector types. Look at some of the men in media, they are not ALL attractive. You don't have to unlearn this, but don't feel bad. It's not your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:38 PM
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You tells you all you need to know about how he views women. They most valued piece is their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:29 PM
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If my man told me that he paid off his ex GF's student loan and says he regrets it and doesn't want to do that again, should I feel disrespected that he gave his best to his previous GF and should I leave him because he won't pay off my student loan?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:28 PM
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Who told you that you have to just "be yourself" and "be nice"?? The first problem here is that your grandma lied to you. Now unlearn this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:24 PM
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They also say women (as in all) have hundreds of DM's daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:23 PM
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Yeah, when I discuss that my husband is 5'6 and have all types of women giving him attention, they call me a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:18 PM
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Thousands of years ago, the Chadiest of the absolute Chads had Harems of women and dozens of children cause' he was rich and could afford it. The lowest value of males remained womanless and died alone in his own swirling semen filled depression. Or if he was lucky, he could become a servant to the Chad and hook up with a fellow female servant, who Chad was also fking. You really want to go back to those "good times"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:13 PM
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The oldest Gen Alpha is barely 14. What happens in middle school to make someone hate women and start calling women 304's? Wait I know. These tween girls man..... They put on makeup and dont give any attention to Timmy and Jr. 🙄 They give all their attention to Cayden and Jayden cause they got the good Takis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:02 PM
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I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:05 AM
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Yeah but dating and LTR are different things. The problem is men want to keep you from talking to other men. If I could do it over I would just date. No commitment whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:25 AM
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Men overwhelmingly choose to not look good in presence of women. So who knows how much logic they are really using.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:53 PM
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My problem was staying in deadend relationships and turning down better options. I wish I could have just stayed open and single and not settle into a LTR at all unless the best option was undeniably in front of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:31 PM
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Of course. No man takes shirtless selfies unless to get a hook-up/female validation or to see their gains and/or show another gym bro. For men if the pics are taken they are taken with the intention of being seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:19 PM
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ma'am I am a women and I dont even get a good feeling from pampering myself UNLESS the result of that leads to external validation or some kind of reward. Most humans act based on external rewards. Men think this way. There is no logic to putting effort into something for no reward. Men dont see "feeling good" as a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:10 PM
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I dont see why not. I have been on the receiving end of mirror selfie pics from men. Average men. I mean, they were gym bros, but average men nonetheless. And what about getting a fresh cut/beard trim?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:06 PM
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I think for men it is very logical. They need to have a purpose in their actions. Wasting time/energy/expensive cologne to just sit at home and not be seen makes absolutely no sense, and I completely agree with them. Im gonna not waste expensive makeup or purfume or waste time putting together a look just to not be seen. Have you ever went out and felt like you wasted an outfit/makeup because not enough people saw you? This is me all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:01 PM
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Yeah like I said I feel if men are going to do anything to make themselves look good its so they can get validation. I for sure as a women dont do anything sexy with myself unless Im going to be seen or send a pic to someone. There is no reason for me to put chemicals on my face and use expensive makeup thats only purpose is to make me look good, just to sit at home
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:57 PM
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I can think of many ways men who win make themselves sexy.... The men I know...take mirror selfies...maybe send them to a few select women; Put on hoochie daddy shorts and go to the gym; Get their hair done to look fresh; post some thirst traps; put on a cowboy hat and take a shirtless mirror selfie..maybe send it to someone; shave thier beard to get that desired all around 12 o'clock shadow. I know that the post says what men do without looking for validation, but I dont think men are wired tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:31 PM
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Then dont post it and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:20 PM
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How does the data determine attractiveness then? Maybethe data is scewed in mens favor by deeming them more attractive then they are since all men overestimate their attractiveness. What does the data say? How does a man determine what his equal counterpart is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:41 PM
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Exactly they want you to choose when you are young gullible and naive but then shame you when you end up a single mom because you didnt "choose better".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:39 PM
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Well flat stomach with definition is ideal for both men and women. But not a defined six pack. Most women dont care about that. Only men do. My brother wanted a body like a roid monster at one time. Most women dont find that sexy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:47 AM
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I would say they are straight men imagining what they think women find sexy. I have had men send me mirror selfies of their six packs and also lift their shirts in front of me to show off and it is clear that this is really what men think is sexy in males. I dont care six packs are for body builders, they are really hard to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:43 AM
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Of course you cannot fathom it. 6 packs are near impossible to achieve for someone living a regular lifestyle, so the idea of working so hard for something that women do not even care that much about just messes with your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:34 AM
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Thats cause it is what the male artists find sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:25 AM
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Are 6 pack abs in the top 5 of what you consider sexy in a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:20 AM
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So I would go out alot with this guy I friendzoned, and that time I was into a particular music group and this guys who never really was into them borrowed my CD and listened to every track. I mean it was ok that he did that, but deep down I knew he wasnt about that life. He even tried to go to a show with me and check it out but it was faking it and I wasnt into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:40 AM
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Six pack abs. Men think all women want that and I have never heard a women list that as a requirement. Only men think six pack abs are sexy. Just look at the amount of cringey mirror selfies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:33 AM
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Make up is a fact of life. Any woman can achieve the Kim look with a little bit of talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:21 AM
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Where do you live, Colombia?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:19 AM
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Oh let me introduce you to the 50% of Latinas currently in the US who only date w guys. Also w Women are the least likely to date outside of their race. Check the stats. W men are the most desireable demographic in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:17 AM
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I asked this question in r/datingover40, and the consensus way waaaaaay different than what you are describing. So who am I going to believe? 40 year old dudes or a RP dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:09 AM
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Right like life is a hard timeline. Life is a journey, not a race. They talk like you are going to stay married and if you get successful, you will stay successful. Like that business they build from the ground up can't possibly fail or they can end up in bankruptcy and homeless. Life happens and is unpredictable. How are you going to have the perfect formula to create a fool-proof life at the age of 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:01 AM
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My biggest regret is wasting time in Long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:55 AM
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The problem is that RP overestimates a mans attractiveness and thinks actual below average men are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:51 AM
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Look up a picture of Kim when she was a teenager. She has had her body enhanced but her face looks the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:50 AM
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This is so ridiculous, you are acting like these women are not human. Women can look like them with the right self care and surgical procedures if needed. Not even Sofia Vergara looks like Sofia Vergara. Its all about enhancements.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:47 AM
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I am only attracted to dark brown eyes. I do not find color eyes attractive. I never understood women who fawn over light eye colors. To me it looks effeminate. I am biologically for some reason hardwired to be attracted to men "darker" than me. Many women are the same. We dont want a man "lighter" than us. And I have dark hair and eyes but light skin. The "tall, dark, and handsome" saying does not exist for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:10 AM
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I wouldny say these 2 are equal. A side chick can manipulate for things, material goods, attention. She can get pregnant to secure a bag, etc. Orbiters just exist with no reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:51 AM
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Unfortunately this is nature at work. Women will do things for men who are rich/attractive that they wouldnt with men who are not. Joe Shmoe should have competed harder to be on Chad's level instead of now taking what he could get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:42 AM
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So why is every Joe, Clarence and Pablo making post after post complaining that women are shallow superficial creatures who only lets Chad hit? How can you argue attraction??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:17 PM
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Well if we are going to say that women only below 30 or whatnot are sexually valued as nature intended, let the Chad harems commence as NATURE intended and 80% of males will be deleted from the gene pool. God I love BIOLOGY.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:13 PM
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That makes absolutely no sense but shout on I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:51 PM
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Yeah you are "hot". You got some proof? I'm not embarrassed at all. You are embarrassed that your male friends don't want to fk you. These men go out with you alone while leaving their partners at home? What kind of pick me ass bullshit is that? What the fk I want my husband going bout town with some other women leaving me at home. You obviously dont even respect women if you are going about town with their men. Lets face it. YOU ARE NOT HOT. Thats why the girlfriends dont see you as a threat an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:20 PM
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Mid 20's isn't young? If you have a life span of 80 and mid 20s if a little over 1/4 of tour life. So once you are done with 1/4 of your life you are considered old? You really think you are "old" for 3/4 of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:14 PM
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User name. Thats all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:12 PM
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Tf? How does a woman decrease in sexual value when she can be sexually active for the rest of her life???? If a person wants to be sexual active they will. Can't say the same thing about men but women can find sex partners anywhere no matter their age. Women have a higher sexual value than the average man for ETERNITY.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:08 PM
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TF? No the fk I'm not. So then what??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:58 PM
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So then???? Girl bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:57 PM
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Just cause you're a pick me doeant make someone else insecure. What do you mean by "insecure"? are you insecure if your husband fks someone and you get pissed off?? All you pick mes use "insecure" like it means something. Sorry you don't demand respect. Women and men fk. That's what they do. Your male friends don't want to fk you cause your not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:46 PM
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"Swagger" just means being "hood". I dont know how swag got translated to meaning confidence. For example its been noted that some men have no swag simply cause they didnt grow up hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:31 PM
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"Swagger" for me just means being "hood". When I was growing up you got ridiculed for talking appropriately cause you were a nerd and had no street cred.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:27 PM
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I'm a woman and told my husband he cant have female friends because I demand to be respected. The only woman he needs around is me. Why would he need to talk to another woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:50 PM
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Friends don't matter in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:44 PM
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This is what I'm saying. Its out of repect for your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:41 PM
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Lmaoo all the women in this thread saying they have best male friends outing themselves. I never had a male friend who didn't want to fk me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:35 PM
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Red flag. I dont not think it is appropriate. And not because of insecurity. Its about repect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:33 PM
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Yes, also considering that many famous and rich men date single moms all the time. Its definitely not hard. Single moms are always dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:18 PM
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Over 90% of predators are men. Think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:10 PM
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Whoa there you are lol. I like black guys 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:55 PM
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The main thing is appearance. They can do whatever they want as long as they are happy. Not every kid wants to play sports. But I will try my best to let them do things they have an interest in and make sure they always look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:53 PM
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Ok Carol lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:34 PM
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You are an outlier. Doesnt make you less than or better than but we operate differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:28 PM
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Insecurity/shyness will mess someone up and ruin their lives. Sadly, I am a cautionary tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:27 PM
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Ok but when you laid eyes on your husband, did you like what you saw?? If not, you would not be with your husband no matter how kind or emotionally intelligent he is. For example my husband was a hottie when I first laid eyes on him thats why I gave him the time of day. If he didn't appease my taste he wouldn't be in my life right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:08 PM
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I cringed so hard when I read that. Disqualified on that alone. How is that a normal interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:39 PM
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They dont have to be attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:34 PM
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A 60 year old man whos only value is money is NOT high value. He has to be fkable. A broke Chad is NOT high value. Is a young attractive 21 year old woman with 3 kids high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:31 PM
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What's sad is when it doesn't. I've seen celebs so desperate to be relevant again they do everything short of pr0n, only for it to not even make a splash on gossip media sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:24 PM
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No thats not how things work. If we think you are attractive, we like shy/confident/awkward/whatever. Any quality an attractive man has will be seen as quirky or endearing. Attractiveness is usually what matters at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:23 PM
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Yeah you're right, if they look back thats go time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:21 PM
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Yes. You are not a creep if they find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:16 PM
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Speaking from my perspective when we like someone we feel extremely vulnerable. I for one cant make eye contact with someone I am attracted to. I feel like I wouldnt have a chance/he wouldnt like me/whatever. I have liked men and completely ignored them as if I never met them in my life. Like literally walk past them and not acknowledge them. And we were cool and talking. One guy got really pissed off and called me out cause he thought I was being rude. All I could do is turn red and run away. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:14 PM
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You said "unknowingly". Drake was whipping that thing around and sending it out to his clout chasing harem members.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:06 PM
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Really? No action huh? I can't find the Drake video anywhere. And I've been searching.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:03 PM
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These celebs are desperate sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:02 PM
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Right? Ain't no way he didn't leak it himself or send that video to someone he KNEW would leak it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:00 PM
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Drake doesn't give a fk! He been laughing all day yesterday. He has been KNOWN to send pics and vids to every ho* he's fking. This happened to him before. I saw sources say they have vids in possession cause this is just what he does!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:57 PM
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Why would he send that video to one of his clout chasing harem members if he didn't want it shown? You think this is the first time this happened to him or the only one out there? Aubry has been KNOWN to do this kind of thing, he sends pics and vids to all his ho*s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:53 PM
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This is ridiculous. All I have heard are comments of praise and no wonder he has so many groupies. And not to mention this will be forgotten in a week. Nobody cares when it happens to men. They aren't call ho*s, pronstars, etc. Kim K and Paris had their stuff leaked more than a decade ago and people still talk about them as pronstars. Drake will be all right, aint nobody judging him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:48 PM
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Aww thanks! Yes I did glow up. I was ignored by guys untill I was about 21 then I did start getting attention. I had such low self worth at that point though so I just let men treat me terribly and kept seeking validation from men and that never stopped. Even at my big age and married I still look for male validation You got this! Will power is probably the hardest but it's not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:41 PM
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Why would I want to give a broke dude a chance when I am use to being wined and dined?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:46 PM
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Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:45 PM
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My experience too only as a little girl. Also the mean girls making fun of me and my hair and teachers being nicer to them. This is how life works and nobody can tell me different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:45 PM
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This is the right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:38 PM
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No. And that would never happen unless it was in purpose. You prepare for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:36 PM
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No just observations made in my lifetime. I've been black pulled since I was a child. Try being an ugly duckling with parental neglect and a yearning for acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:31 PM
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My brother is 39 and can pull cute women 25 and under. He is also a single dad and lives at home with my mom. BUT he is tall and handsome. That is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:21 PM
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Doesnt make sense. I think he made up all this stuff just by being online and not being out in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:23 PM
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My man is below 6ft, doesn't go to the gym at all and has friends but doesn't go out with them. Yet women are constantly on him 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:20 PM
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I got my first ban from a sub the other day. The mods are power trippin elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:10 PM
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Being average/below/above ONLY applies to looks. An absolute Chad could still live at home and not have many male friends or social media and he would pull women like nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:08 PM
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Why would I want my man going on vacations with his friends?? To thats a red flag. I never got along with men with alot of close friends. Thats high school shit. I need to make sure I'm a priority. I only want to worry about impressing his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:00 PM
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How does your theoretical "average man" look in the face? You left out about 70% of the measurement women use to determine how average you are. Most of the things you mentioned doesnt matter to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:54 PM
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Yes but that is because there is more psychologically at play there. Something that is never mentioned here. You want something that is not easily attainable. This is a psychological truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:26 PM
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You made a blanket sexist statement about ALL women. So yeah they are allowed to comment on it. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:04 PM
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Well older woman have nothing to do with you but yet you comment about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:03 PM
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Girl men will never leave you alone. Even my disabled 60 yrsr old aunt has men creepin' on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:01 PM
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Simps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:58 PM
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Oh, the men will tell you that you are an adult so you will xes them. We know our brains better not to xes old men. So don't to listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:24 PM
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WTF???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:22 PM
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Its because they want him. Everyone wants an elite man. Nobody cares what 99.99999% of men are doing cause they dont want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:18 PM
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If you believe the creeps will stop bothering you when you are older, then you subconsciously believe what these redpill men are saying. Men will never stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:14 PM
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The only reason you hear older women mention anything about it is because men are screaming from the rooftops how older women are trash/expired/worthless. Obviously if men didn't care at all about what older women were doing they wouldn't feel the need to say anything. Older women dont want most men so they dont care about men who date younger anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:12 PM
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Of course - that is because she is a supermodel. Do you really think these women exist is the podunk hellhole the average man lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:02 PM
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9's and 10's are also too busy traveling the world and working on runways - you know, as models? 9's and 10's do not actually exist out in the wild. So the 9's and 10's you think you see dating are actually 7's and 8's. 9's and 10's are reserved for professionally beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:00 PM
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I consider myself average. 4 on a bad day and a 6 after hours of professional makeup and styling, but nobody has ever cringed by looking at me nobody has ever called me ugly. Never had I ever had anyone try to use me for xes without putting in any effort. My friend is about 100 lbs overweight, has bad teeth and is a little painful to look at. You can look at her and physically cringe at the thought of being intimate. I have known her for 10 years and we have gone out partying and stuff and I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:52 PM
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What you are missing here is that while you can DEFINITELY find a "conventionally attractive" man unattractive based on non-physical traits, you would be hard-pressed to find a unattractive man you would find attractive just on personality alone. You knight want to be friends with them but you won't want to have xes with them. Why do you take the "not likening the attractive guy because he is an ahole" as an example of "looks dont matter" when the complete opposite is not true, therefore complet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:43 PM
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Unfortunately some people are too weird/anxious/depressed/socially awkward to go out and talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:37 PM
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Actually I'm terribly boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:54 PM
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She would if she markets herself as a pathetic loser and posts a day in my life of being ugly. People eat that stuff up. People love train wrecks and the worse off you are, the better you make people feel about themselves. So they be addicted to watching how terrible your life can. With views comes notoriety and money. Average women will never get that because they are...nothing. They dont make people feel anything. They might as well not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:21 PM
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Just go hang out with normal guys and you will meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:17 PM
1

No they can't. Unless they have resources for dermological treatments and plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:15 PM
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It is way better to be ugly than average as a woman. I think average women on a scale are invisible. If you look at Instagram there are millions of average women trying to get attention and they get maybe 2 likes on each post and they are from friends. Only the hotties get the attention. But if you are ugly, you can go on YouTube and make a video about being ugly and it will generate 100s of thousands of views with people pitying you and telling you nice things. You might even be invited to some…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:34 PM
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Nobody has ever gone to jail for saying hi to a woman. If you heard of this, can you link the news article? The worse that happens is she gives you a stink face and your ego gets bruised. Worse case she records you and calls you a creep and then she gets obliterated on TikTok by rationale people defending you. With the justice system the way it, you cant do jail time without evidence. Most cases of women lying on grape are never investigated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:17 PM
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I have no idea because I'm not one. Normie women dont even talk to me. My husband has tons of luck with them though. They are always chatting him up in the grocery store, ball games, etc. He said he only met one chick who was a woke femnazi but she was ugly.. Check normie places I guess and not the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:12 PM
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Well it depends on what you take blackpill to mean. The very thing men feel about women I can say I feel the same thing about men. Men are shallow and ignore 50% of women and their preference are cookie cutter to one another. Also we all know looks are the only things that matter in this world. Lets be real. Personality dont mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:08 PM
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Good sense of style, make sure you have a nice and stylish haircut/facial hair, nice shoes, smell good, fix your teeth if they look terrible. Its really not possible? Women are shallow creatures so these things matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:03 PM
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Well, a ton of women on PPD are undesireable therefore they are mad they dont get approached so they feel nobody should get approached
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:00 PM
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Normie women do not embarras themselves by going on social media and saying "approach me". They just assume only loser men are so receptive to the brainwashing of SM/feminist rhetoric, that they just simply go on with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:59 PM
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Women either completely ignore (so you wouldn't be friends with her) or are completely flirty with men they are interested in. She is not into you if she is treating you like a friend. If you let her know you are interested, you will give her the ick and she will not want to be around anymore. The only way you will get anything is if she gets heart broken by another man and you take her out and she gets drunk, she MIGHT hook up with you....but she will regret it. I'm just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:56 PM
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If a woman considers you just her friend, you are just her friend for life. So dont try. If you do, she will be repulsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:40 PM
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Getting your social etiquette from TikTok. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:38 PM
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Crazy that you take the word of the small minority of loud and obnoxious femnazis and in turn apply it to the general normal female population. It is simple. If you are ugly, get as close to not-ugly as you possibly can and you wont have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:36 PM
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F*ck a retirement plan. I would rather live my life doing whatever I want while I'm young than be 60. I dont even want to be alive at 60, let alone have to actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:19 PM
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Soooo the thing with this is if you have marketable skills before becoming a housewife you have a plan B. I hate working, but I got a degree even though I dont want to work. If I end up divorced the courts are going to consider alimony as I have not been working. So basically I get to live a fun life of not working and doing what the f I want and having it be financed. If I end up divorced, I get a job and a shitty apartment untill I figure it out then. You can get fired. Your house can burn dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:14 PM
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Lol just say you can't get a rich man.😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:08 PM
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I take it as meaning that society is how it is and there is no changing it. The most attractive and desirable will always win and the less desireable will always lose. Nothing you can do but lie down and die.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:35 PM
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A YouTuber. I originally put her channel's name but edited it out to protect the shameless. She is 40 and never had a relationship. She gets pumped and dumped by bottom of the barrel dusties. She took down all of her storytimes out of embarrassment but she aggressively pursues men who make it clear as day they want nothing to do with her. Then when they dont respond to her she finds their social media and writes novel length messages to them. This woman is unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:15 PM
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Why the fk would I want to go jog with someone? Thats awkward as fk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:41 PM
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We are open.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:27 AM
2

Think what you want. Who the hell wants to live at 60 anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:02 AM
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Nope. I know you would like to think that but no, it's not. I have incredible endurance and flexibility not to mention clean test results. You are not a doctor. As long as you cut habits before any long term effects set in, you are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:58 PM
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Sir, I was a hideous creature in my early 20s and about 15 lbs overweight. I drank alot and partied all night and ate crap. I also flunked out of college. At about 27/28 I joined a gym and got snatched. I still ate like crap though. In my 30s I started eating a little bit healthier. Im 40 and still snatched and no health problems, and my husband pays all my bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:47 PM
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As an older women who has sinned alot in her 20's, you are wrong. Its like an etch-a-sketch Completely forgotten. Where did you get that idea anyways? You need to be attractive to get women. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:36 PM
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Older women aren't even attracted to older men. Do you see how most of them age??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:20 PM
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If his wife leaves him , she will have tons of options in all likelihood and he will have less, possibly none. Its a hard pill to swallow, that is why they love to insult and talk bad about women and her life stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:15 PM
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Can you explain to me some science and data to back up your claim that women age more poorly than men? And please, no personal observations based on a women only looking good if youthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:11 PM
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What is the benefit of getting married early?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:03 PM
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The men outright say they are not attracted to women over a certain age. Are your tastes going to change? And If they do, if she leaves you when she's 40, are you going for younger or another 40 year old? Since now you are attracted to 40 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:58 PM
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As someone who has been married and lived life, I want that "young love" feeling again at least once more in my life. What love is as an adult does not compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:52 PM
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Sir, I am married. Your post just comes off as highly sexually frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:57 PM
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I feel like alot of the posts in here are men trying to convince themselves if something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:09 PM
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I looked way better in my 30s than 20s so thats a laugh 😆 many women do. Women are perishable commodities to you? You are saying teens are hot? Literal children? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:07 PM
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Wait how are women wasting their 20s? Having fun, traveling, being single, going to college, finding out who you are. Thats not wasting your 20s. Wasting your 20s is being tied down to some old man or any man to be honest and seeing other, better opportunities pass you by. I mean women have children their 30s, raise them and they leave home. So what was wasted?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:03 PM
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Are you getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:56 PM
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What about the men in here that state that they are in their 50's and have so many 20 year olds after them? They can't possibly be lying right? 😆 Like if you are so good and satisfied in your life, why post 10 times a day trying to insult and demean people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:04 PM
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Most women in their 30s are married. When they get divorced, they get married again with a man her age who will take care of her kids. Irregardless of what you want to think, women are not struggling. The ones you see that are have been struggling since forever. So pop that fantasy. Just because you are creeping by a high school or college dorm doesn't mean your are more value than any human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:49 PM
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most men think they are average when they are below average. Most average men are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:37 PM
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No we believed you the first time. Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:35 PM
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You're just mad women have fun in their 20s and then settle down in there 30s. They dont "waste" their younger years. You are just saying that because you want to pressure them to settle down so men like you can grab snatch them up. Sorry its not working like that. Trying to scare them into thinking they will be left over but its far from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:34 PM
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To be honest no group of women is "better" than any other. We were all children once, we are all 20 once, we are all 30 once (of course unless ones lives a short life). We grow and bloom as human beings. We mature throughout life and our values change. The people who say women "lose value" are trapped in a patriarchal and misogynistic mindset. No human being loses value. There is inherent value in human beings and only people who see others as objects say they lose that value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:28 PM
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Thats Dolph Lundgren. Ivan Drago from Rocky 4
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:31 PM
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Yes, but he did get someone who is looksmatched so I dont know what he's doing. Perfect cuck relationship by appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:21 PM
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No. He's bad-bodied, goofy looking in the face, no masculine facial features, nor facial hair (facial hair is actually a requirement for me), he slumps forward while vacuuming, his girl is basic and while not as goofy looking as him, they appear to be matched. I dont like men who like basic women. If he was with a baddie he might go up a point or two. The fact that he thinks it's a flex to go grocery shopping and make a basic smoothie is cringe and gives me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:16 PM
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What does this have to do with the statement you are replying too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:02 PM
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I watched a video on "niche apeal" and its pretty interesting. Its why women like me can attract any men at all. I do however think fetishes are not common place with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:40 PM
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This is actually inaccurate. Plenty of lonely women who cant find men because they are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:31 PM
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You do not like women because your testosterone levels are low. Your original comment that I replied to got removed so I cannot reply as I don't remember what was said. But I am sure it was awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:44 AM
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You can have companionship with a dog, a roommate, etc. And you are absolutely right about that marriage becomes about companionship. But "Love" as people like to think of it is not eternal and does not last. Economic relationships I would argue are actually alot better than just companionship. It benefits you and just because someone benefits you economically does not mean that they cannot be your companion as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:42 AM
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Eww. Im married actually. You are a 40 year old single father.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:53 PM
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Are you in your 60's? 70's? Have you had your T-levels chdcked? That long post could have been summed up in just telling me you are a misogynist and that you dont even really like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:52 PM
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You met your girlfriend because you connect at a higher level than you might with a neurotypical person. Thats why your case is not as bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:00 PM
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Ok so you ask why would women change their tastes if they find young men repulsive when they are younger. Same reason men who met their young wives dont throw them away once the wives get older. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:54 PM
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You are also a left over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:50 PM
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TF did I just read????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:49 PM
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This actually true. If a man is always dating younger it means he has a distaste for women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:47 PM
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Yes. His situation is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:41 PM
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And what if he was your husband and had 5 young kids and leaving him meant 3 jobs, shitty daycare, section 8, and hearing gunshot every night? This is a reality for many people. You are privileged to believe that people should chase some delusion of love and not make decisions out of necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:03 PM
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Would you tolerate being so in love and then falling out of love because the dopamine hit does not last?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:58 PM
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How old are you and have you ever been married? Cause any married person knows marriage at some point becomes transacional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:57 PM
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People leave their spouse when they get bored and want to fk someone else. Are you living in some fantasy world?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:55 PM
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You are ignoring the point that "eternal love" doesnt exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:54 PM
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What OP is trying to say is that you dont stay in love. What is love anyways? The feeling of infatuation when you first meet someone? That goes away quickly. You care for the person but you would be lucky to still have that feeling. That is what happened to me. It keeps happening to me. I kep chasing that feeling but it always goes away. I have that with my husband. I want to feel excited again but thats only a feeling you get in the beginning. I care for him, I love him but that "in love" feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:47 PM
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I would be afraid of being rated a 3 whem I know I'm a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:41 AM
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how do you determine the leagues of the people who approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:18 AM
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I do not recommend this. The people who do the rating want to humble you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:17 AM
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There are tons of famous guys who are funny looking, short, ugly, and women still want them to spit in their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:15 AM
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I am also the product of an immigrant father who came to this country and married for papers to my mother.. I am sure back then it was more taboo because my mother is white and my father non-white. I do often judge others when I see the same dynamic. I think that one of them cant do any better and the other is worshipping/fetishizing the other. I myself would never date a foreigner because i want to connect with someone who grew up the same way I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:30 PM
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Also by culture I mean my family is Central American so men having other women is quite normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:20 PM
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Damn that sounds like a nice place to live in. I pictured that place on the series YOU, season 3. Maybe being affluent, the people are more hush hush, way different than the scandalous hood rats I grew up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:18 PM
1

Well who wants unattractive simps? I thought you said it was easy for lost women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:07 PM
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Let me rephrase this. How do I get attractive simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:14 PM
3

How do i get simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:04 PM
11

Again most women are not attractive enough to have simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:27 PM
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Doesn't work if the man doesnt even want to be around you. Men get annoyed around women they dont find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:26 PM
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I just read on this post a man saying he dates 10's, But 7's are easier so he sticks with them. I think we have celebrities posting here. Marc Anthony and Christiano Renaldo in here complaining about the gold digging models.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:23 PM
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You never had 10's. 10's are reserved for international supermodels. Are you Marc Anthony? 7's are probably the hottest girls you have seen and they would not date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:13 PM
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Most women are not good looking enough for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:59 AM
0

Proof that ugly women are invi se invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:44 AM
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Apparently nothing because I have an embarassingly low amount of followers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:09 AM
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Yes you can behave in narcissistic ways but that does not make you are narcissist. You need a medical diagnosis for that. Trust me. I know. Being a narcissist comes with much more than you make it out to be. That is why it is in the DSM4 it is a medically diagnosed cluster B personality disorder and should not be thrown around lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:05 AM
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Actually what is so funny about this is that social media has HUMBLED me. I thought I was cute and wanted to post some thirst traps to get attention and I thought, well of course I will get a little attention and then NOTHING. 0 likes 0 comments. I was HUMBLED. Thats is why I am just laughing at these stupid posts about men not knowing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:11 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:06 AM
2

I do this. Not cause I want to cheat but because I need attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:59 AM
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Damn you seem to get mad when you hear about WOMEN cheating. Are women property?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:55 AM
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Narcissists make up only 3% of the population while it would seem that at least half of people cheat. The math doesnt add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:53 AM
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Where do you live and what is your culture? It varies by culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:50 AM
1

I completely agree with this. Most people have cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:47 AM
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Oh God. Cheating is so common. Like really common I dont know why people rage when it happens. It happens literally all the time. My best friend cheated on her husband and the guy she was cheating with picked us up from the club one night and dropped me off at my house and they stayed parked on the street banging, and the horn sounded several times. I didnt even bat my eyes. Common. My other friends 2 sister also cheated...because their husband's cheated, because almost all men I know cheat. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:45 AM
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I have a YouTube channel with 10k subscribers and its linked to my instagram account that I have been trying to grow for years. No DMs at alm. Every once in a while I get collab invites and ither stuff but no thirsty me .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:33 AM
3

You can buy 1000 followers for 20 bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:31 AM
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I already did. 0 likes. Im not kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:24 AM
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From a Nigerian scammer probably It's all spams or scams.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:23 AM
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So I am completely in awe at how ignorant people can be, like how do they assume women get so much attention? I have been trying for so long to get IG followers and its not working. Do they not UNDERSTAND this? You HAVE to be supermodel hot to get attention like that online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:19 AM
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You would probably X yourself if you woke one morning as a women and had my Instagram account with no followers or DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:15 AM
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I'm a woman and I am here to tell you that you are incorrect. My dms ard all empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:11 AM
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So my 40 year old husband is only with me because no younger girl wants him? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:54 PM
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I thought 30 and 40 year old women are only pump and dumps for all ages of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:50 PM
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According to what I have learned in this sub, it is a man's nature to completely perform a gag reflex upon laying his eyes on any woman over 35. Its in their nature they say. And Im not a man, so I dont know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:35 PM
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I am a woman and my face is ugly. I think its ugly nobody has ever told me that but I dont like my upper maxillary and it throws off my whole face and there is nothing I can even do about it not even surgery will help. Also my nose, mouth, chin, forehead and eyebrows are wonky. Also I am short and have textured hair. I look very uncanny. I look weird. I get compliments on my body from both men and women. Having a nice body is the only reason any men at all want me even though I am sure they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:18 PM
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Yeah I see that. I still laugh at this TikTok of a grandma ratkng all these famous good looking guys a zero. Like absolute zero. It was hilarious but she was based. The sub "Ladyboners" is an absolutely terrible place where they rotate the same 5 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:59 PM
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Ok lets forget you said anything about you beinf short. All of the above can be a super good looking woman. If they lost weight and did something. So tl me that is not in the category of completely average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:54 PM
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What category? Category of ugly? I am not "ugly" to society. Just nothing special and it cannot be helped. Nithing I can do can change my face. Not even surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:52 PM
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Q4M We all know what a "hot" woman looks like. Describe an "average" woman. Is this woman less valuable? And why should she date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:29 PM
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Yeah but sometimes no matter how hard you try, you cant fix ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:22 PM
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Why do all the younger kids talk about 'rizz" then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:14 PM
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True. Society got so individualistic so we have to adapt somehow at the cost of slmething else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:09 PM
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Also think of the most handsome attractive man in the world that women fawn over, and there are women who think he's ugly. Jason Mamaoa, or whatever his face, is completely fugly to me. I dont care that I would never reach his league. I dont like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:05 PM
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In my lived experience men are MORE into these types of women. Bouncers at clubs will literally ignore cute women who do not fit societal standards but will let women who looking like tall ⚪ models cut the line. I see it it happen literally all the time. Society worships a certain phenotype of female.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:02 PM
2

What data is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:28 AM
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I think this applies to all men because if the men who are unattractive could, they would also choose the same woman. They go for anything becausr thry have too. I just find it hypocritical for men to call out women for only going for 6' tall guys when men are even more choosy in the aesthetic they want in a woman. If you think you need to be 6', women need to be tall as well, have the preferred body type, nice facial structure, nice eyes, smooth skin, non-textured hair etc. Men go for women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:26 AM
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I absolutely do not get attention from the men I want. Key component, men I want. I do not entertain or engage with dusties or unattractive men. I want attention from men I find attractive, which all humans want. Absolutely nobody wants attention from people they deem unattractive. Would you want attention from women you found unattractive? Women who say they dont want attention are either lying, talking about unnattractive men, or are unattractive themselves and dont get attention anyways.. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:05 AM
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To your last comment, yes those women all look the same. As the rest, you have been consuming too much social media and "women who hate men" podcasts. Women do want attention. But not from dusties. If you are not a dusty, this shouldn't offend you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:40 AM
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The issue here is that humans were not meant to raise children by themselves. The term "it takes a village" refers to a time when raising children was the job of all members of a family. Villages typically allowed for relatives to live together or in close proximity to each other. Therefore the children were taken up by all members of the family. So a couple living alone away from family and mothers being the only adult with the children for most of the day is against our nature. Especially afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:33 AM
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The vast majority of male attention goes to women who can emulate the whole "IG" aesthetic. Men are crowding around the same women, who all look the same. You can talk around this all you want but real world observations prove to be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:57 AM
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And which is also a hypothetical person that only exists in the realms of the OPs fantasies, I'm sure. A 7 to me is a highly attractive person. Above average. In the realm of "great looking". 6 is still more attractive than the averave person. These men completely slay in the dating game, because they are the most attractive men that normal society has access too. The problem I am seeing is that all men inflate the looks of truly average and below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:51 AM
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But that is not true. I am arguing that most young women will never be in the same vicinity of a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:14 PM
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I didnt watch the whole thing cause that dude popping in was annoying, but yeah those women seem savage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:53 PM
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You said millionaires. Pathetic thirsty dudes on social media are not millionares.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:47 PM
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I use to be a young chick and life was not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:45 PM
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*Textured hair has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:36 PM
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They all LOOK the same is what we are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:34 PM
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This is what I have BEEN saying. They will swear up and down thats not the case though. They stay liking the Hailey Beibers, and the Madison Beers or whats her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:18 PM
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How is it mostly young people when half of marriages end and you have this crop of 40 yo divorcee's entering the market? And supposedly half of all young men arent dating anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:57 PM
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He probably gets his perception from the IG models that dont respond to his dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:52 PM
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As a woman who has Insta and does post for followers, I will let you know most woman think what I do is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:50 PM
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99% of women do not have access to 10/10 guys like Chris Hemsworth, Tom Brady and Christiano Renaldo. Most women will never even see a 10/10 in person. Same with 10/10 women. They do not exist in an ordinary person's world. If you have 10s just out and about walking around they would not be tens and you would actually be way lower on the pole than what you think you are. You hottest women you know in real life is probably a 7. 10 is reserved for the internationally renowned supermodels with perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:42 PM
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Your last statement is highly inaccurate. I use to be surrounded by cute girls and none of us have actually met a "millionare" who wanted to fly us around. Do you understand the female experience or do you only go by these extremely rare examples? Unless you only count extremely beautiful models as "attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:22 AM
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Georgina had lucked out on the universe aligning her with being in the right place at the right time and looking the right amount of cute. God has his favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:18 AM
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What brutally rich man is going to marry a 19 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:12 AM
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Can you point me to an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:18 AM
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You are the angry one who cant handle the post so like a typical redpilled incel you bring women into a post thats not about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:16 AM
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i know a family of 7 kids, 4 brothers and 3 sisters. They are mentally slow and ugly. All 4 of the boys remained virgins or paid for sex, but never had relationships into their 30s. 2 of the sisters found men and reproduced. So I dont know. I think its nature at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:00 PM
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These dead beats, drug dealers and violent people probably have good genes though. People with weak, bad genes cannot survive in the streets cause they will be eaten alive as nature intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:57 PM
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Wow aren't you original.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:54 PM
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Why do men here get pissed off if a woman shoots out of her league if you don't want said women because she is unnattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:42 PM
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Actually women don't do that, girls might. ​ You know the age demographic of TikTok right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:38 PM
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Women do not care that much about height unless you are at 5'6 and under.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:37 PM
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Good for them for what? f*cking? Do you look at every couple and think they are happy? ​ 6'6 sounds uncomfortable and I would not find that attractive at all. Unless he was an athlete and had money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:35 PM
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Honestly 80% of these threads are asking questions such as "Would you rather be with a smart/kind/witty/funny/educated but average guy or with stupid/dumb/mean Chad?" I want to say this sub is about 90% incel posts obsessed with Chad's/Tyrone's D.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:54 PM
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Never. No need to mingle with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:49 PM
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42 f 6,4,7,8, 9,1,2,3,5
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:47 PM
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Every man in this sub is threatened by Chad. Haven't you read the posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:43 PM
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As a women I have had my ass grabbed several times before but I am not going to go cry that I was xesual assaulted. If we are going to do that then the 33% of women being assaulted will turn into 100% and at this point everyone stays away from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:37 PM
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Attempts to kiss is xesual assault now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:34 PM
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Right? I thought this was a sample size? These "studies" are so lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:32 PM
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How can that be proven?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:30 PM
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The stats are BS. 33% percent of women are assualted which includes xesual assault, which by and far would be less than 33% . But you expect me to believe that 71% of men are XESUALLY assualted?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:27 PM
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Grape is unwanted sexual penetration. Unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:24 PM
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Ok but how curly is acceptable? 2b maybe 2c? Yes those women look lovely. They are even able to straighten their hair and looks beautiful. Its when you get to the curls that people want to "touch" to see how it feels and (if you are not black) will see you as uncanny or weird because you look a certain way but your hair says something different.. The pool of men who like this hair is very small. And the men who like my general look is even smaller. And I dont like those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:26 AM
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Having a home and a car will not make you attractive. Women do not get uglier. Where are the stats in this? Mens looks are a HUGE driving force in dating. All of your posts look to be regurgitating redpill nonsense. Young women look for young men within a 5 year gap. They are not looking at old men. If they did, then the men has to be high status, which most men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:01 AM
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I love when guys ask me my hobbies. I say scrolling TikTok, watching makeup tutorials, and people watching. Hobbies are not suppose to be interesting to anyone but yourself. Im not going to do my hobbies with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:47 PM
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Its all the profiles. I mean everyone would like to travel but what is your traveling going to do for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:45 PM
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Men's hobbies: Eating at restaurants, traveling, hiking. I would find you more intesting if you just said you play Call of Duty all day. The first 2 is just stuff you do throughout life. Why would I give a shit that you hike?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:26 PM
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Right? Even personal descriptors can be off. He may think that he 's funny and outgoing but also smug and sarcastic which cancel out anything positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:21 PM
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Who told you that at 30 you can have the hottest women available just because your "worked in your career"?? You might be unnattractive in the face. Body means nothing when you're ugly. And be socially inept if you did nothing but "work in your career"....Unless of course, working in your career means getting drafted into the NFL/NBA (which guys in their 30s are too old for at that point) or becoming a music artist. Or become a tech millionaire which is even LESS likely than becomkng am NBA play…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:10 PM
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Most men dont "make it". What you should have said was "if she didnt want you in your 20's why would she want you when your older and uglier?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:57 PM
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I agree with you for most cases. I only knew 1 guy who only had success dating in his 30's. He worked out, got a decent body. Also super tall like 6'4, but height doesnt mean anything when your awkward. But he had a bad circumstance early in life and lots of trauma. At this point he is only able to get fatties, but he seems ok with it. They are pretty much his equal so cant complaim its something for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:44 PM
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It takes alot of money to do that. Money most men will never obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:33 PM
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Nobody gives a fk that Dan hikes. Nobody. Nobody cares that he cooks. Dan is highlighting irrelevant qualities. He is not attractive, he's "average" Thats the killer. His job sounds boring as fk. He does not make enough money as an "average" looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:17 PM
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You do not start liking people untill you first view them physically and determine that you find them physically attractive. If there is something off putting about someone you wont even start a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:07 PM
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You are being ignorant to others lived experiences. You cant just accept that those who are different than you have different experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:05 PM
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It is a thing and is my lived experience unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:01 PM
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This post was not about womens preferences, however it does not surprise me that a red pill man wants to insert their woes into others observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:58 PM
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Then obviously your thoughts are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:56 PM
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Who cares what unnattractive men have to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:37 PM
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No there is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:36 PM
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Who are you telling this to and why are you speaking for all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:34 PM
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We know their intentions. How do you know ow these men are nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:32 PM
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Sacrifice how? Working? Already doing what he is doing but sharing it? I am sure no man will sacrifice his well-being or livelihood for literally anyone, not even his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:24 PM
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Texturism is a thing. In every community. You dont know how frustrating it is to see that you just might be someone's type untill you get to their hair preference. Hair texture is a part of the bigger picture. Men's taste has always been tall, smooth (non-textured) hair, perfect face and a slim figure. Now that more and more women are doing surgeries to achieve the preferred looks that men want, it will be odd to have a natural face. Natural faced women will be losing, unless they are luckily bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:23 PM
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Bfrfr aint nobody looking to traffic your ass and you do it first. The women being traffic are young. And let me ask how you know where my status is? I see you be posting all types of sh*t on reddit are you a stay at home type b??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:40 PM
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First of all, that option does exist for long. Second of all how many men irregardless of age make 6 figures? and 3rd of all, no wonder women prefer to be single these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:36 PM
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I think your situation is a bit different since you and her can relate on a higher level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:27 PM
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No but these are the ones who say they can since they were undateable in their 20s and podcasters told them they could when they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:26 PM
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This is an incel man you are talking to. Troll account.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:32 AM
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Thank God for simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:30 AM
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I hate that sub. I think everyone is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:27 AM
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I must be an outlier then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:25 AM
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Girl they are not looking to traffic you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:19 AM
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When its old, ugly or slow men, it's gross and uncomfortable. You feel like you want to get away as soon as possible. Attractive men or average decent men do not usually do it in a normal everyday setting. They do when out on the streets having fun though. It feels flattering then and makes me smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:15 AM
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You do know that the US lesbian population is about 7 percent right? And of that 43% you stated that leaves less than 3 percent of woman on woman domestic abuse, you know that right? Compare that with 1/3 of women being assualted by men. Outliers are always going to be present. They are outliers. That is why they dont get that much attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:06 AM
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Are you being fr?? Go look at the first comment describing older women as having no value. Take a look at the other comment calling older women "used up". Why make a post if you are not even going to read the comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:47 AM
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He probably thinks he is one of the hot ones just cause maybe he goes to the gym. But he is also that old guy with knee braces on both knees, hobbling around cause his back hurts. You know, the type that women avoid? While Chad is out there doing complete sets unwinded and still has the stamina to go out afterwards and have fun. Yeah I dont know why young women would prefer young Chad either 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:39 AM
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God these double standards are killing me. Everything you are defending against in favor of older men are exactly the same things older men say to diss older women. A man in his 40s with bad knees and low income is not going to outf*ck college age Chad who got stamina and pretty boy looks and can go out all night and have fun and do crazy young people shit with a girl who like the same things. Do you not understand that??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:31 AM
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what does an older man have to offer besides money? You know young women for the most part tend to value fun experiences, status, and physical good looks right? Good looks get you status in young persons world. Aint nobody trying to have fun experiences with an old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:24 AM
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what does an older man have to offer besides money? You know young women for the most part tend to value fun experiences, status, and physical good looks right. Good looks get you status in young persons world. Aint nobody trying to have fun experiences with an old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:21 AM
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Damn all the old men came out with their claws. You all love to say how older women dont look good. Well, older men look worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:17 AM
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Because the younger man is at his peak physically and offers looks and stamina. An older man has to give someone a reason to look at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:11 AM
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There are also older men who never got women because they are unattractive, have a bad personality, socially awkward etc. Still single and undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:09 AM
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Do you hear your question? Younger men look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:07 AM
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The term for older men is "washed up".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:04 AM
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Just say women have less value and go. Thats truly what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:58 AM
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Honestly young men are dumb just like young women. Not their fault of course. They will do whatever you tell them too. Also how men think of women..they think younger women look better, they are more fun, they have a burning light in them as opposed to a dull flicker that goes out with the wind that almost all older people have because life is a mutherfcker. Well thats how young men look too. Unbelievably naive and stupid to boot. We like that. But we also recognize how disgusting and predatory …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:34 PM
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No. Most women are not seeking casual fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:22 PM
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I dunno IG models seem to be doing amazing at getting and keeping elite men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:20 PM
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I am probably one of the most boring people you will ever meet. Even more boring than any incel man you will ever find. My hobbies include going on reddit, scrolling tiktok and going on celebrity gossip message boards and also scouring celebrities insta pages and the like so I can find dirt, and report it to said gossip sites. Then I sit and talk about it with whoever will listen. I dont work cause I dont like work. I have an IG and YT where I brag about the dumbest shit in my closet and do clot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:47 PM
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As IG and OF models?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:40 PM
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Xesual or just romantic? The first one: Doing something considered non-consensual. Xes threat. "You think your cute but imma get ass later".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:24 PM
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Like I said, cultural differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:17 PM
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You want to send your 13 year old to go live in the Bronx? I think most people who live there dream of something else. They are 13. They are not thinking of going to Columbia. You are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:05 PM
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Yes you are correct. I believe men who want to be pursued by women are not real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:03 PM
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It is. I was over 25 and would be in the car with my BF in the driveway, just talking, and my dad came out and knocked on the car door telling me to get out. But my brother at 16 years old brought a girl over and my dad literally got in the car and left to give them privacy 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:16 PM
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sigh so we can't talk about race/culture/looks/feminism but 10 posts a day about paternity tests is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:12 PM
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The generational family dynamic is sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:08 PM
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Your daughters are 13 and 15 and cant wait to get away from you.....hmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:07 PM
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Right. Like Asian/Latino/etc sub cultures do not exist in America 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:05 PM
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Anglos think like this. I stayed my 30 something year old ass at home till I met my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:03 PM
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In what ways are these cultures succeeding more than westernized countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:01 PM
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I was 30 living at home and still not allowed to have my BF in my bedroom. Lots of other cultures its the same 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:56 PM
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In many cultures it is expected that if you are single, you live at home with parent if they are still alive. Why pay rent when you can help your parents out? And also have a nice cooked meal, have a close knit family/people around you. Yeah they are up in your business but its better than being in a bare lifeless apartment being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:53 PM
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This is a concept many people here dont believe actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:47 PM
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Because for a short period of time, my body is mine and only mine. I can still have fantasies and hope of what could be heaven instead of the reality of disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:41 PM
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where is the looks discussion thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:39 PM
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Yep. Weird af. I think he wanted me to chase him. Like start texting him so he can show and brag to his buddies. I'm not about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:37 PM
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Men have every right to feel that way. Doesn't change that the fact that I personally won't ever chase. I feel men appreciate you less if you are not the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:36 PM
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I am leaning more towards didn't like me enough which is why I am glad that I didn't try with him. So many make the mistake of pursuing uninterested men and embarrassing themselves. Also if you ask somebody out and they say yes, isnt that proof enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:28 PM
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They do tell men. Loudly. But men dont believe them. Theres this TikTok/instagram dude his name is prxnce or something like that and he made a video once talking about approaching in the gym and the top comments were women saying "approch! We want you too, I met my husband in the gym". And then were women saying "eww no we are there to work out, dont approach". The pro-approach women attacked saying "dont speak on my behalf b*tch Im looking for a husband". All the men are like whaaaat? Im so con…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:27 PM
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Because they have charisma, know what they want and go after it. It is a complete myth that women will accuse you of SA for simply saying hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:21 PM
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I am quite possitive he knew. He asked me "maybe you would like to come out some time" and I said "yes" and he never followed through. I am not a women who chases and I refuse to chase a man who wants to act like a princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:16 PM
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All studies are different. Also women loke status and money on the right (attractive) man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:14 PM
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Edit: I misunderstood your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:08 AM
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This is why better men are winning. Dont know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:23 PM
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You don't understand that some very loud and obnoxious women are speaking on behalf of other women who feel this way They are constantly arguing about this i. Their spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:22 PM
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Its all really just a game in the beginning to see how attractive you are and how attractive the other person thinks you are. I use to be super interested in this man who just WOULDNT chase. Even though he approached me first and we exchanged numbers, neither of us wanted to make that first move. We spoke everyday, small talk stuff. He never asked me out, never called me, nothing. It was quite obvious he was at least slighly interested. Just not interested ENOUGH I guess. I made myself very resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:23 PM
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wait how is a moderately attractive women not in the same league as a moderately attractive man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:29 PM
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You are not understanding. By his own description, he is below average. Men are best looking at 32/33. So lets say OP becomes at best average looking at this age. Without experience and with social awkwardness, that brings him back down to way below average because how you present yourself is more important to women than looks. Lets ignore his careerpath cause it is highly unlikely OP will accomplish somethng that is of high status and very attractive to women. Theoretically, at the age of 33 be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:17 PM
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The problem here is that men are being lied to. They are made to believe that they will get women if they make money and have resources but the level of income 99% of men will get is nowhere near enough without good looks. Looks are EXTREMELY important for both genders. A handsome man can be without a job, broke, and dont do anything and have women come by willing to pick him up, give him money, and take care of him. That is why there are so many aint shit but handsome men with 3 or 4 baby momma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:05 PM
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Sure. Yeah I know it sounds like it sucks but honestly, we are in our 40's and it never gets better. I settled for him because at my naive age when I met him I thought, welI I dont have luck with the men I really want and my husband was decent looking, really fun, we had alot in common and he was responsible and had his own house at the age of 27. So that was that. After 3 kids, we stil have lots of fun together I love being with him and he gets sex whenever he wants but I want excitement and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:05 PM
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Do you see the market for fatties?? I was in a TikTok live yesterday and there was a 50 year old 300 lb grandma cooking in spanks and their were 600 simps in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:39 PM
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I prefer youth, health, and hope to money, age, and despair. You ever see young people with the glimmer and light in their eyes? So full of dreams and hope. The decades snuff that shit out. Money doesnt mean anything if you can buy youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:31 PM
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And it is a gaurantee that he does get laid more. Women only care about resources if they are looking hard to give an unnattractive man a chance. I definitely prefer some of these UPS drivers than these weirdos driving fancy cars and looking pathetic with their money and lonliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:25 PM
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Most men dont reach that level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:23 PM
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I use to work at a school and the school janitor was SWIMMING in poon. Even the teachers liked him he was handsome and spat mad game. He had girls coming by after hours looking for him. I find it funny how men think their resources matter. Resources ONLY matter to women if they dont find you attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:19 PM
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The problem is that the OP is likely not a 6. By his own description, he is likely a 4 or 3 and the women a point below are massively obese or fugly and he does not want that. Edit: you addressdd that but I'm leaving this comment to drive it home. Also he will lose quality prospects the older he gets so "waiting" is not the solution. He is waiting to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:12 PM
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You seem like a pretty rational guy so I will give you my opinion from a women's point if view. "The hardwork I'm putting in right now even worth it?" It is always worth it. What else should you be doing right now? If you have been putting your social life to the side WHILE you do work, then that is a huge mistake. You need to work on your social life first. Because when you get older that is the first thing to go. "Will I find women in my age bracket attractive the same way I do now?" You might…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:06 PM
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Actually, we are instinctual driven to be repulsed by the thought of being sexual with something that does not share our DNA. The same as how we are repulsed at the thought of being sexual with siblings (share too much DNA). Actually we can be repulsed by anything that we feel would not form good and healthy offspring (unattractive people) There are of course extreme outliers in all of these cases. Repulsion is a protective instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:37 PM
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This is just common sense. You cannot have true levels of human consciousness while eliminated the aspects you dont like. If they are to imitate a human female in every aspect then you will get the negatives. The result will be AI robots who are repulsed by unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:30 PM
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Well, considering that many of these celebs like music artists and athletes have rosters of women in every area code, its much easier for a woman to hook up with a celebrity than it is these old average men to hook up with young hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:21 PM
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Thats true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:18 PM
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I told my husband I'm not into him and only with him for kids and stability and he was cool with that. As long as he's not alone. Love isn't everything.its been 10 years since I told him that and we still cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:22 PM
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But aren't men arguing that women shoot too high?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:21 PM
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That's not a comparison. A better comparison would be spending money on her/buying her dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:18 PM
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unfortunately this is my problem. Not being my type's type. But then when you go for someone who you are not entirely attracted to, you dont like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:16 PM
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*a single mother will not have a hard time getting betas. Fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:12 PM
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Not enough money. You are missing this very important point. Most of these men will not have enough money to make a young women choose him over a her young and better looking male peer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:10 PM
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The issue lies in where these cases are outliers and men think its the norm or that it will happen to them when they are broke and unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:08 PM
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Actually no. We dont give a fk. Just be hot and admire us. We dont give a fk about your job or your vacations unless we were enjoying them. Men need to realize the more they talk about their "cultured experiences" the more annoyed we get. Less talk and more action. Take us on that trip and we might like you. Young men > vi@gra.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:52 PM
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This is actually quite a myth that older women are better in bed. If you go for a princess who always got by on her looks that wont change. Like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:51 PM
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Yes, but is he attractive. That is the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:49 PM
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You cannot be a good man and a bad boy at the same time. Doing extreme sports/boxing/riding a motorcycle does not make you a "bad boy". Doing hard time, trafficking for the c@rtel and that sort does. Those men are swimming in p~$$y.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:45 PM
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They told me my dog is 10 times likely to get testicular cancer if we dont neuter him. Cause he has no release and its not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:14 PM
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This was thought provoking. Are circle jerks a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:11 PM
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I see what you did there. The only difference is padded bras, hair extensions and heels are an accepted thing among females in society. And people almost expect this. Its not fair. Lots of things are not fair. Its not fair that women have to do these things to be seen as attractive to men. Because men are all attracted to the same women. All the women have to look like clones of each other. Same face, same hair, same body. That is why women do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:55 PM
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Thanks. Unfortunately this trauma carries until on untill you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:29 PM
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I have ugly duckling syndrome where I was bullied as a child to the point of dealing with depression and self harm, and by the time I "glowed up" I had developed a pretty bad personality disorder that I suffer from to this day. Pretty much the bullying shattered my sense of self. I was never fat though. Just ugly. When you start getting attention, its like a drug. It feels so good to feel valued for anything, even if it is just T&A you are getting positive attention for SOMETHING. You will get h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:41 PM
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What this person is saying makes absolutely no sense. How do you know a sexual kink if you never experienced it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:32 PM
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My only requirement is that he have a job, dont be a train wreck, and be nice to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:26 PM
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You know nothing. I was pregnant WITH my first of 3 kids AT 34. So what was that? What are you trying to warn me about? My 3 healthy babies who are now healthy kids who I had AFTER 35? Do you know more than an actual medical dr. who pulls babies out of women everday? Also I have never had a miscarriage. Trying to make total stranger on the internet feel bad. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:25 PM
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Don't forget that they will also work super hard and magically turn into millionaires with no family resources or generational wealth to speak of. And that low income unattractive males only have to work hard to bypass societal biases, standards, nepotism, and capitalism to overcome and become high status and attractive to only the youngest and best of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:52 PM
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I love Michelle Diaz. She's always calling out the dusties and reminding women to know their worth. I love her lifestyle as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:46 PM
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This person has a high horse mentality. They think they are better than everyone. Just like the dad who tells his 5 year old to walk it off cause he is old enough to know better because he grew up fast as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:41 PM
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Jlo, Kim K, Sofia Vergara, Catherine Zita Jones, Salma Hayak all women over 40 STILL catching bombshell roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:38 PM
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I think I threw up in my mouth a little reading that nasty comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:23 PM
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Women who say this dont gaf about the men but are just giving advice to younger women. We remember being preyed on by much older men thinking it was a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:07 PM
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Check Google to see how fertility percentages throughout your 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:45 PM
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It is not the hardest. I asked my dr cause I was 34 and asked if I was too old and he laughed and said nope. You do realize that fertility drops only by a couple percentage points throughout the 30s right? Sorry I'll take my doctors word for it. You know, someone who pulls healthy babies from women of all ages everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:43 PM
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Wrong. Lots of women have kids at age 35+.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:40 PM
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How about dates with 40 year olds who have kids and dont want more and dont want to get married again?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:31 PM
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They dont. It doesn't happen. I cant think of any instance where I would want to be with someone I once rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:29 PM
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You know non consent is biological too. So unattractive men can enter the gene pool. Would you partake in that since it's biological? And just like the comment below me states, men who are 6' Chads taking a harem of women to spread their genetically gifted seeds is also biological. But you dont want to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:19 PM
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I met my husband at 28 and dating 7 years before we had 3 kids. We are fine 🤣 Most people do this. Do you actually talk to people? You are commenting on situations that occur on the daily basis. I can give another 10 real life examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:14 PM
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I am worried for their future wives once they turn 50+ with this mindset. "I am not attracted to older women" says you will dump said women when she turns "old".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:07 PM
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But they dont deserve to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:36 PM
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hahaha these men are delulu if they dont think these women are sharing cringe ass dk pics and jerk off videos 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:33 AM
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How are you going to tell a woman how they feel. D pics do nothing for me. Look at the insta's of celebrity men who post "bulge" pics. The thirsty ones in the comments are gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:30 AM
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Really? How about all these divorcees and 40 old single women? What donyou think of their value?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:24 AM
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I look around and all I see are women dating average (and short) men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:21 AM
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No, dont act like you dont know damn well what these red pill men mean when they talk about women. They dont value older (or any) women outside of what they can get out if them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:19 AM
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The reason they feel that women lose value after a certain age is...yup...misogyny. The idea that an ACTUAL HUMAN BEING loses value is ridiculous. These men that think this dont see woman as actual human beings, but as products that should be used and discarded. I think the subtle hints of age in a man is beautiful and is just evident of the human process and life cycle. I dont feel that way about myself though because my whole life society has told me I will lose value and therefore I have inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:12 AM
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Right? I am a raging narc and I even think this is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:30 AM
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I dropped a whole ass plate of food once because my crush looked at me. It was terrible and I wish I died that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:05 AM
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A woman is not infertile untill she hits menopause, which occurs after age 47. What statistics can you give me that says otherwise? You may not be attracted to women your own age because of your misogyny, however I gaurantee that most 25-30 yo women are not attracted to you either, qs well as 40 year old women as well.. You better get on that large family at your big age then. Time waits for nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:00 PM
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Interesting. Maybe white men are more likely to be radicalized into incel worldviews but not necessarily be struggling the most with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:28 PM
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I read in other subreddits that its alot of black and brown men and Asian men as well who struggle the most with women, because white women usually do not date out and many women of color aspire to date white men, which leaves many POC men out. I do see this happening in the real world as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:23 PM
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If your mom is 80, than that means you are possibly between the age of 40-55. You are not a young strappin' lad who can say women your age are useless to you and that it is your hardwired way to go after fertile women. (Women are fertile untill 48-50) Women who are 40 like men who are 40 because they see them as people. They (women) can appreciate the subtle ways age takes a hold of a man and how he grows and matures in his human process. That is because women see men as human. You cannot apprec…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:12 PM
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Yeah but I thought that POC men were overrepresented in the "incel" community, which let's not lie, half this sub is a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:41 PM
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The OP is probably not a 5. Probably a 2 or 3 if they struggle that much. So their options are well below.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:55 PM
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I feel that "average" to the men here are actually well below average to everyone else. Thats why they have the idea that average men struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:49 PM
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I am not talking about what you see or what society see's, since what you just wrote is based off an idea that women are products to be used and discarded while men are not. This idea is obviously rooted in misogyny and that is why you see older women as trash. Because they do not benefit you after a certain age. Because you do not see them as human. You only like young women for what they can give you like they were an object. So because misogyny tells you that men are better with age does not …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:22 PM
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No, I said you should try. We want to reject you. We want to tell you no. It keeps us feeling in power and in control while also feeling desired. If she says no and keeps it flirty thats a good sign. If she looks ljke she wants to leave, she doesnt like you. I am not talking about xes. I am talking more about touching, hand holding, hugging, kissing. Being physical and. Not xes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:09 PM
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First, I have no idea what type of women does not want a man that they consider attractive to not be "sexually forward". If I think you are attractive, I want you to pursue me sexually. I make the decision to accept or take it slow. If you drag your feet I will lose interest and/or assume you dont want me and that you are not a real man. I do NOT want an un attractive man to pursue me or even look at me. These are the basics. Move quickly and if she is into it, you're set. If she is not into it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:30 AM
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Women cannot be "used up". They are not objects or products. They are living breathing human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:12 AM
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Well first off she undermines people of colors experiences and delights in the their embarrassment when colonizers take their language, land and customs. She does not believe that POC are underepresented in mainstream media and does not think they deserve a voice. So fk her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:17 PM
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Brett Cooper is a racist POS so her credibility is non-existent. Fk her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:59 PM
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If its the truth, its the truth. You just cant handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:51 PM
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I dont know....my husband was doing all these things in his 20s and also dated me too, but he was on another level able yo multi-task his life. No experience cause you are "building up" equals low SMV. All the men who truly pull are able to get money and women at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:18 PM
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This is 1000's of years of women being seen as products to be used and discarded. Not even seen as humans. Wont change I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:14 PM
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because you are not on those guys levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:34 AM
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How exactly do men age better? What reasons could you give that are not rooted in misogyny? What studies have "proven" that men "age better"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:25 AM
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This statement has to be the most misogynistic thing I have read on here in a while. Why wouldnt desireable older women exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:22 AM
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Nobody is entitled to my body then. That means they have no say in what I do with it, including fking around. You cant be no entitled to something and then tell them what they can and cant do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:15 AM
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I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:13 AM
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Then dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:37 PM
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Who is not entitled to what? sex? If im married to someone I am entitled to his sex just the same I am entitled to not have him fk around on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:36 PM
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I just explained to you that we do live in reality. The only men that are in the top percentile are elites and celebrities. Everyone else is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:18 PM
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Me neither
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:57 PM
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Good for you. I can respect the hustle and the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:31 AM
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Listen. I have been thirsting over a singer for the past 10 years. I am always liking his stories and leaving comments, and sometimes he even gives me attention, but I know I will never have him because I am not on his level. Im not stupid. I know what is. I can never have an elite man because I am not a model/IG thot/whatever type of woman. Most women are not stupid. We enjoy the sprinkles of attention here and there but we dont live in a fantasyland.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:09 AM
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We were talking about average but not ugly tiktokers who still pull women and I said its because they have awesome personalities. If you are average in the face a great personality can make you attractive. Average DOES NOT equal unattractive. Unattractive men are unattractive. Average men are not unattractive and can become attractive with good hygeine, style and personality. Things are not so black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:59 AM
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Yes, average looks. They personalities make them attractive. Average does not equal socially awkward. Some tiktoks I saw are Stephan and Samantha. Dude is average as hell and short but still pulled a women. Also mcdesconfiado.503, he is short as a MF maybe 4'9 on his best day, but I'm 100% confident that man pulls like nobody. And I am being HIGHLY generous when I saw these men are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:04 PM
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What? Desireable men looking my way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:01 PM
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They can be. There are a tons of "influencers" I can think of right now who are average. Let me pull them off TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:27 PM
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Only undesireable women act like that. Women who dont really get attention untill they get into horny festering pit of a club where men give out attention like its the common cold. Desireable women know how to act and are not surprised enough when this happens that they will complain to their friends. Its just the average women who think by complaining they get to be hot for a night. I was standing next to a pretty robust but ok in the face lady at the bus stop yesterday and she was like "oh my …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:17 PM
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You hit that point at 35?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:10 PM
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I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:07 PM
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Dusty and undesirable male attention is cheap. The men that we really want isnt. Thats what we look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:05 PM
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The problem is that they also overestimate themselves and their friends when they think they are average, but really they are below average. Average can still be good looking..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:01 PM
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i dont care about your friends. Celebrities, influencers, self-confessed losers and incels who you see as "average".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:57 PM
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Well thats good that you feel like that. Many people including me just want to get off this earth. Life only gets worse. Not better. It never gets better than your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:56 PM
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Average men do just fine. Can you give me some real life examples of "average men" who cant for the life of them get dates. And not "I have a friend". Names and/or pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:42 AM
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Lmao the posts here are insane with men piping in "oh but he has to be attractive, thats your problem". And they think only a handful of men are attractive to females.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:39 AM
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So aches; pains; dementia; diabetes; 50 pills a day; terminal illness; hospital stays; bad knees; risking death if you fall off your bed; losing vital senses; living in a society with worsening agism, sexism where the older you are the more meaningless to society you become; people laughing at you, calling you all sorts of names just because you are old; rotting in your chair just waiting to die but having to watch the world turn into a disgusting hellfire while you are still in it.........is be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:29 AM
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The army of simps will be old too and most likely look about 10-15 years older, and will still chase said woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:20 AM
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Some of us were not pretty in childhood but our talents were praised. Now as adults we just want to be pretty. Ive been knowing Im talented and I dont care anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:17 AM
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Or from unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:16 AM
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1) nobody wants undesrireable men to look at them at any age. 2) Nobody thinks back fondly about the uglies that hit on them. 3) Women do not start to become invisible until 48ish. Most of the times it happens after 55. 4) Most of those women in that sub (and any other female based sub) are undesirable and only the unattractive women complain about getting hit on/stared at because it doesnt actually happen to them and they want to stop everyone from being approached because, again, it does not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:10 AM
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I am a big believer in I would rather die fighting then live on ny knees. Life is painful anyways. I rather die defending myself and hopefully bring someone with me Than run away a coward and hate myself. I had a boyfriend run after a fight that instigated with a couple of guys. I broke up with him cause I hurt my nails trying to defend him. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:35 PM
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No. I am saying that I am not attracted to 95% of men because I have a particular taste. Other women are less picky. They are out here dating dusties and other undesirables. But thats besides the point. There is a large range and spectrum to what (other) women find attractive. And many men can be Chads. I go to the gym, and from the looks of it, there are a bunch of them. But I am not attracted to most of these "conventionally" goodlooking men cause they may not be my type. And yes, good looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:07 AM
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kinda how men like to complain a women will lead them on for free drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:09 PM
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I dont know....maybe 5 percent. Varying by which country I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:44 PM
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So shouldnt Apple users be shamed then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:50 PM
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Yeah. Lots of men can be Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:19 PM
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Ok? Being a narcissist has nothing to do with men being broke. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:19 PM
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Good for you. I just assumed cause you sound like an obvious dusty but hope whatever is giving you sex is beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:23 PM
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Good thing I dont deal with your kind of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:17 PM
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Unfortunately not every man can prosper in this economy...thankfully my man can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:15 PM
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Maintaining my appearance, going to pilates, going shopping, grabbing coffee with friends. I do whatever the fk I want. Why you mad? I ain't want to date a dusty, musty, crusty ass dude. My man is always down to fk no matter how tired he is. You sound like a female anyways. I cant tell from your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:12 PM
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Well for men playing PS5 and yelling at little kids in Call of Duty live is a hobby, but for us Christmas shopping and making sure the kids have a good childhood is a hobby....no wonder most of these men are sexless and frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:34 PM
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At least hes getting laid, dont know if I can say the same of your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:29 PM
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I havent either!! I only date within my culture so maybe thats why. I would hate to partake in this anglo american mindset. Its not for me. But i am sure therd are plenty of Anglo americans that provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:10 PM
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Providers get partners who take care of them when they are tired from work. I know that is a hard concept for you to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:08 PM
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We APPRECIATE the women who will entertain bums. There are plenty of men who are ready with their wallets out. I have never actually paid on date because most normal functioning men will take care of things. These men here mad because they are lonely while the real men providers are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:04 PM
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Race and culture have everything to do with this. Luckily I was raised in a culture where broke men were laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:58 PM
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Why would they do that when they can marry an attractive man who will pay? They exist in the real world while you complaining men exist on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:08 PM
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LMAOO Yes, its our biology. This is true. And men will be the first to talk about biology. I feel sometimes in this sub, if I were to physically be in a room with all these men who are arguing here, I would laugh and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:06 PM
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They cant. They are one of the chronically online, pissed off incel types. I wouldn't pay attention to anything they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:57 PM
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Talk abou something important. Why would I want to do something useless and pointless like vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:51 PM
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You are on a sub where people are complaining on the daily but God forbid somebody mentions they did sometying for theor kids. Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:45 PM
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The men will say that they dont mind doing all of these things. The reality is that if it was left to them, their kids would have no magic on the holidays or proper clothes for school. Lets face it. Women are better at these things. I dont mind being the main point of contact for my kids school and extra activities. I also make my house flawless on the holidays. I also make bomb ass meals. I dont mind. But get your ass to work and provide for me to do all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:41 PM
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This is true. I was raised by a provider man so why should I accept less? and also if I bare most of the responsibility of raising children and housework, why would I go 50/50? Most women (out in the real world) are attracted to provider men. These men cant compete, thats why they are lonely and complaining in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:27 PM
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Well if Chad = attractive man, then these are the only men that matter. Why would I care what an ugly man thinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:20 PM
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Sure, those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:19 PM
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Im completely aware. This is actuallymu reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:19 PM
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Well, my man has been paying all the bills for the past 10 years, and he's not complaining. Dont be mad. Also he calls me his toxica and says thats why he loves me and cant leave me. So obviously I dont do anything he says
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:16 PM
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I dont want to work. So far so good. I havent worked in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:15 PM
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I hold water, but I prefer something better tasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:18 PM
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A 50/50 man is a useless man. Why would I need someone if I have to pay any bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:19 PM
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Internet bangin'. In this case im sure his wife isnt as attractive as he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:14 PM
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internet bangin' isnt cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:13 PM
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Almost anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:08 PM
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Men are way more picky lookswise when it comes to women than women are when it comes to men. Thats why elite women get surgery to all look like carbon copies of each other. And men love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:42 PM
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We dont see sex as just a physical act. We need alot more to get going. Sounds cliche but its way more mental than physical. A useless man wont arouse our c**chies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:34 PM
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This. Men think we see sex the same way they do. They just see a hole. We dont just see a d**k.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:32 PM
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Most women dont want sex like that. Having a useless man will only ensure we DONT want his D, and we can just get it elsewhere if need be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:31 PM
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In the culture I grew up with, the women got pretty much 100% of the burden of raising the kids while the men did whatever they wanted. BUT the men also and worked and provided. I see no sense in working and going 50/50 if I still have the 100% of the responsibility of raising the kids. My husband told me to get a job and I told him if I do that means I can go and do whatever I wanted as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:28 PM
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I said kill people. Not mass shootings. Also men make up 93% of the incarcerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:35 AM
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Nobody wants to be a damn psychologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:16 PM
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What does this have to do with social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:28 PM
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This actually is not a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:27 PM
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None of that....absolutely none of that...is comparable to mass genocide. Nobody is villianizing Leonardo Dicaprio. Nobody is calling him Hitler. We just laugh at him and say hes gross. Just say you hate women and consider it a grave sin for them to have any control over their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:06 PM
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Cause when men lash out, they kill people. Women, for the most part, just sleep around. But men dont like promisuous women, so that is worse for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:49 PM
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Of course, according to these men, being promiscuous is more terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:47 PM
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Killing people and sleeping around is not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:44 PM
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Yeah but being a whore effects them now since they dont like it...otherwise they could give a fk. Another example of the entitlement men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:43 PM
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who the fk says women want unlimited sex??? You have no empathy for women who go through fked up trauma because you dont see them as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:39 PM
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Yep. But the men dont care about that since she's a women and not human. She is just an evil heaux..... According to these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:38 PM
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Yes. He was intellectually disabled and she "laid" with him. Pretty exploitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:35 PM
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Why would do that when some sucker will buy it for me? You make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:25 PM
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Ummm. Lots of people. Lots of people accept free shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:23 PM
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actually, there are no strings attached. You chose to pull out your money. I dont owe sh**.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:19 PM
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ok...so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:16 PM
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That is called a"life cycle". You're continuously changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:13 PM
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I did all this with my husband and had romantic feelings for him at one point, but I have never been in love with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:41 AM
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What does being in love feel like? I have felt lust, infatuation, and cared about people. I have "loved" my husband, in which I dont want anything bad to happen to him and I care for him. But according to people this is not "being in love". I dont think I have ever experienced "being in love."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:34 AM
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Right, like it makes no sense. Who would be paying them? If it's the husband, if he even makes 6 figures, that's the family money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:19 AM
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Check the statistics. 1/3 women are assaulted according to data.. Do you not belive in statistics and just take anecdotal experiences as truth? Cause you just accused me of the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:06 PM
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You just don't want it. Like you expect a female to let some nasty ugly vomit inducing slug into her body but you can't can't afford a couple hundreds for a h00ker. The latter sounds easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:06 AM
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As long as plain Jane is a basic Becky who is tall, slim and has straight smooth hair, she will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:45 PM
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Mia Khalifa gets with the fugliest men alive. Not exactly the pics of the litter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:43 PM
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40 is hell. People should be allow to self-euthanize after this age. The 20s was the best decade ever. Freedom. Youth. Excitement. And all that hope. You have your whole life to live. You could do whatever the fk you wanted. I did all my traveling, sampled any men I wanted, had pretty privilege and got away with absolutely everything. VIP at concerts and games. I did whatever the fk I wanted. Then marriage. Boring as sh*t. Now I realize at 40 that the best is over and life is going to only get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:12 PM
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You are not 30. It's worse at 40. Cleaning the house, going to PTA meetings and doing boring sh*t all day is not fun. Enjoy your 20s. You will need the fun memories to keep you going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:00 PM
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This is entirely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:45 PM
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Dude quit coming at me for my xes damn!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:20 AM
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Well I know how to play games better. Whoever said older women are not complicated and do not play games was feeding lies. We are just so much better at it and great at manipulating that you dont even notice. And I care ALOT about appearance. Beauty opens all doors. If you get old and you dont realize this, you havent learned a thing about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:12 AM
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What women are paying xes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:10 AM
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Male wh0res are for the men. Women dont pay for xes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:08 AM
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You are right. Some woman are extremely picky about what turns them on. I,for example have a very particular taste in men. If you go to r/ladyboners I find pretty much none of the men there attractive enough to fantasize about them. Now I know I wouldnt have a chance in hell with any of them, but that does not matter, I am not xesually aroused by any of them. For me to be xesually aroused, they have be very particular..have a familiar face, remind me of something, or make me feel feelings. Or if…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:04 AM
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Interested. So they were prettymich added during a poly relationship. Nothing wrong with poly. I have considered it at one point but my partner is super possessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:46 AM
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True that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:44 AM
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Oh sorry. Just xesual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:42 AM
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Dude, you can pay for xes legally. There are means and locations where its legal. If you really needed to feel some cheeks, you could do it legally. You don't have to do it every other weekend. Just like once a year should sow your oats. Better than going 10 years without, like a true incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:40 AM
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That is correct But all is good. My presence on this planet is to ensure as many equally as vile humans are are driven to as nasty a fate as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:47 PM
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I mean I cant see how anyone irregardless of gender arent black pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:38 PM
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Damn, the mental age of grown men is getting lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:04 PM
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I too was taken advantage of. These men are disgusting. Women are such objects to them that they see a grown body but dont even account for the mental age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:30 PM
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Completely different mental age and maturity = one of them is a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:12 PM
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They dont care. Mentally they are on the same level as teens. They are never maturing beyond that. Also the fact that you cringe at the thought of dating someone young enough to be your daughter is a normal reaction. These men are not normal. Society needs to shun them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:09 PM
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You accept advances from someone young enough to be your daughter. Would you also take directions from a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:07 PM
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ok groomer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:06 PM
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This is not a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:05 PM
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You come from a nasty line of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:04 PM
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I would say 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:59 PM
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Drake was in the popular show Degrassi at 15 years old. Will Poulter was a child actor. Chris Prat was a high school Chad who starred in school plays. These men had major status and women in their teens. Got any other examples? Im talking losers like the men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:56 PM
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IRREGARDLESS of what you may think, most normal functioning people are not having xes like that outside of relationships. Most people have only a handful of long-term relationships in their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:48 PM
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How do you get to 40? If you are single for a lifetime I imagine. But that sh** is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:45 PM
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7 partners a year? What? THATS an outlier. A new study shows that most people average 7 in a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:28 PM
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I know you could probably get with a pretty hot mid-30s something woman. But that was not the point of my post. My post did not argue that. It was about men who are 40+ trying to get hot 20 year old women. I think I look good. I always been a bad b***, and I have not gained any weight and I have no wrinkles but I still dont have luck with men (well, men I want).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:21 PM
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ever heard of margin of error? In population, theres a huge one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:01 PM
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but if you wanted to you could. So there are no incels. You dont get as* because you dont want it. You could if you wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:00 PM
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Ok. Hope you find your intelligent man lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:55 PM
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I am inclined to believe that he's trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:52 PM
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Ok thats fine but that was not the point of this thread. It was on age gap relationships. You might think you look good because you go out and take bachata classes. I look good as hell too but Im not getting a high status man just because I look good for my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:50 PM
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That is the literal meaning of intelligence. Its a score. Why dont you just say average IQ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:43 PM
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Thats not what the post talks about. They are talking about younger women going for older men. If a 35 year woman sees a 40 year who looks better than the next 40 year old, she might choose him over the similarly attractive 30 year old. But if there is a 34 year who looks better, she may choose that one instead. So they are still competing. And LOTS of women date younger men. 3 in my family and me included. 31-33 is a males peak btw. It gets worse from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:34 PM
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I mean does he really have to have an IQ over 115 though? Thats what intelligent means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:27 PM
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So in a building of about 100 men, only 20 of those men are getting laid? Is that what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:26 PM
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Of course. If what you stated as a "good man" was also sexually arrousong to women, then they would be all snatched up. The hundreds of options these sexually appealing , high income earning males have are not good options either, most of these woman are obese, ugly, single moms, users, and thots. Just like a woman needs to try to be better than the next to beat out the competition, men have to do it too. But you guys feel like you shouldnt have too. I go into the instagram comments of some of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:13 PM
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Actually no, because you are still competing with guys in their 20s and 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:03 PM
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If that is the case, incels do not exist either. You can buy xes. Poor women are downbad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:16 PM
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Can you name me some famous or well-known incels who turned into Chads? You just knowing some dudes is anecdotal and does not count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:15 PM
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Tell that to the IG thots who date artists and NBA players.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:12 PM
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Can I ask how my comment appeared classist and racist to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:08 PM
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You don't understand. Attractive women in their 20s are only going after older men who ARE Chads. Average men who are a "little" better in their 30s and 40 are going to do a little better with women, but it WONT be the women that they really want. Women do not get more desperate as they age. Most women are paired off and married on or a little after the 30 mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:03 PM
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Why would attractive men who have options turn down sex? How does that benefit them? And I assure you that if OP was offered some a** he would not be turning it down. The men who want to boycott women are the ones who get no offers for xes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:57 PM
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Human nature I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:50 PM
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According to young red pilled men, you must climb the social and economic status at all costs . No leway. Nevermind that life is a journey, not a race.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:42 PM
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But the constant incel posts are fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:39 PM
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No. Older men who could not get women in their 20s cant get women beyond. Someone lied to you. Bad. Men of value in their 30s and 40s had the same SOCIAL status as a 20 something. How do you think older men get that status? It was given. They had it spoonfed to them their whole lives. Whether its coming from resources and a well off family or social status or just really good genetics and social upbringing, they BEEN ballin' and fking since. No socially awkward ugly cretin is going to morph into…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:27 PM
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I did date older men when I was in my 20s. I was naive and stupid. I was 21 out with a 30 year old and a little girl asked me if he was my dad. He was humbled pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:25 PM
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No but looking like Luis Guzman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:05 PM
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Really? I'm so sorry. Must be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:04 PM
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There are also men who in great shape with full head of hair that are facially ugly as well and not attractive. Most important to a woman in order: cute face, healthy body, status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:03 PM
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Exactly. The OP doesnt think like that because they never even got a chance to compete. So mentality, if I dont win, nobody should.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:58 PM
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Can you imagine not having to be bothered by bottom-of-the -barrel men? That would be awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:56 PM
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They are taking themselves out of the gene pool pool. Better for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:55 PM
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Hahahaha dude wants all the Chads to give up their rosters so losers can "get revenge". What kind of reality is he living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:52 PM
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Not only that, we dont gaf about xes too much to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:51 PM
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Yeah I dont have a diagnosis but when I was seeing a therapist she suggested an assessment and I left and never went back. I have terribly high need for validation and if I dont get it I go into a collapse of depression and anxiety and do some insane behavior. I also have nearly all the glaringly obvious traits so I just say I have narc traits but I am super aware of them and working on it. I am have fixated on looks since I was a young child and it has been the only thing that mattered to me, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:48 PM
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Maybe Frank wants to fk you. Maybe you should give it a shot, since your obviously not getting any pus*y
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:10 PM
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Thanks these all sound good! Why do breweries attract nerds?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:07 PM
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im 40, but emotionally stunted because of narc issues and some other problems. I do not find young guys physically attractive or my major cutoff is 35 at the the youngest. I always thought blackpill meant that the system is set against you. This is the case for both men and women. Women are prized for only their beauty. Absolutely nothing else. This is a major problem in society that took thousands of years to form. Its not changing I have also problems with narcissism and being on the constant …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:02 PM
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This is a great idea! Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:54 PM
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Women are usually not friendly to men that 1. They dont have to be (customer service; waiting at the school bus stop with other parents and you have to be cool to not look like a bitch; saying "excuse me" because you are in their way). 2. They will certainly not smile and say hello to a man who is not in their way and requires no mandatory interaction from. They sure as hell will not do it to a man who is far away from them UNLESS they find him hella attractive. The dymanic changes if a woman ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:09 PM
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37-49 Btw I am grown myself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:03 PM
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Let me make one thing clear: Women who smiles at you and says hello (common sense also but as long as she is not doing it cause she has to) is not going to turn around and be a complete b*tch if you start talking to her. Unless you take TOO DAMN LONG to come over. Also you dont just ask her out out of nowhere. Build the damn conversation: ask her (if at the gym) what muscles she is working on that day, what kind of music she is listening too...casual conversation that builds. Then see her anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:57 PM
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Wives are not a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:52 PM
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thats an idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:51 PM
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USA
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:51 PM
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So asking for their insta is out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:51 PM
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Grown men are into that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:50 PM
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This outlook is why there are many lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:49 PM
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where do older men hang out? There are only little kids in bars and clubs. I want grown men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:24 PM
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Woman will give signals. Looking in their direction, smiling, getting in his space, even saying hi amd giving a compliment. Thats when men should be shooting their shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:23 PM
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I cringed so hard I feel so bad for her. Getting rejected as a woman is so hard. But why tf she gonna ask somebody out who she knows sees her and doesnt make a move himself. OBVIOUSLY he is not interested. Which pisses me off more when men say "shoot your shot!". Um no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:07 PM
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Do you find yourself happy with the results?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:29 AM
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What sort of cosmetic surgery? Seems a little extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:24 AM
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Wrong. I dont work. Husband makes less than 100k and we live in a 5 bedroom in a nice suburb of a major US city. And Im very comfortable. Cause you know, I dont work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:19 PM
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If you are not attractive with no status, most women wont be into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:07 PM
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Yeah I guess you can roll up in a boat. But be prepared to dish out all that wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:56 PM
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If you are good looking and carry yourself well and making 40k your odds are WAAAAY better than a not-so-good looking guy makkng 90k. Stop the cap. Some women even suga mama that good looking guy up and "help him out" 😆 I rather live in section 8 housing with an attractive partner who I dont mind having xes with than in a nice house with a man I dont want fk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:51 PM
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Agreed. I know some of the most unattractive, socially inept, constantly OLDing and getting no matches dudes who make well over 100k. LOOKS and STATUS matter more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:49 PM
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where? Why these hot WAGS and older women still locking down athletes and superstars? Jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:45 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:44 PM
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Its called "The ick" Sometkmes you can be attracted to someone but he does something weird or whatever, and you interest. Its nobody's fault. It just happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:42 PM
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I had my first at 34. They will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:38 PM
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Why you people want to defend porn so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:29 PM
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I see this comment alot in this thread. Just because something exists wrongfully does not make the other wrongs right, get what Im saying? Why not just say "yes and also the age for military should also be raised." These are kids either still in or just out of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:27 PM
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Absolutely false. Being used as a fk hole for someone is not fun and is actually the opposite of "yes I desire it".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:57 PM
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This is news me that I can attract men. ...I'll put it to the test and see how many ATTRACTIVE men I can pull. Absolutely nobody wants to pull unattractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:55 PM
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According to OP, it doesnt matter. Us hideous bog women should feel lucky to have these bog men wanting to use us for a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:52 PM
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Well why dont you just go with a narc and a sociopath? See, you have options. You say women have options. I gaurantee you that most of the time 100% percent of those options are just as undesirable as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:50 PM
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fair enough. This is your perception of the world. I respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:19 AM
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Question, do you feel like you enjoy being the breadwinner/more successful then the man you are dating? I'm not knocking it, I had a friend who pretty much put a roof over her man's head, also made sure that the house was ONLY in her name. I think she enjoyed feeling like he depended on her. She made alot of money. I have never experienced a man being "beneath me" financially. I have always been lazy and I dont want to work, so it works out. I have only experienced men paying my way. I just dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:43 PM
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Damn. He made you pay based on percentage. So glad there are women like you to entertain the betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:07 PM
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Of course he did. You wasted your time with him. For any man that is success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:06 PM
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When I fall for a guy, there is no rhyme or reason as to why. Its just being hit with cupids arrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:19 PM
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and also sitting in 100k worth of student debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:11 PM
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Whats the point? That wont hurt as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:07 PM
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I am not a "trad wife". I just dont want to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:03 PM
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People are dumb. They don't live the life they want because they are afraid of what might happen. I never wanted to work. I hate work.so I told my husband that and he works for our family. I'm not going to do something I dont want to do just because Im afraid of what happens. Stupid. Yeah like Im going to live the life I dont want just to have a smoother transition for something might or might not happen. If I divorce, I will figure it out then. Why the fk am I going to worry about that right no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:59 PM
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If are an ain't sh** man who cant get dental insurance, just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:50 PM
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I do it and my finances are just fine. If you can't afford that lifestyle, just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:48 PM
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So a stay at home wife is not her husband's partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:44 PM
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So are you saying a stay at home wife us not her husband's partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:42 PM
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As a woman, let me tell you. Men have no loyalty to each other when it comes to women. The only time a man will back off of another man's women is because he is afraid the dude will physically hurt him. Brothers and friends of men I was dating have all hit on me. If a guy liked me, there was always at least 1 of his friends who would also shoot their shot with me. A guy friend confessed to me once that one time his friend called him WHILE with my friends girl and asked him if its ok if she gave …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:28 PM
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Thats the best? Get the vote? Why don't you work on something worthwhile then? How come children still eat on the street? How come there is an extreme inequality when it comes to access to resources? Getting "the vote" Does nothing because voting does nothing. As long as its not THEIR kids or THEIR people struggling, "they" don't care. Alll worried about the wrong sh*t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:11 PM
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Thanks I hope so too!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:01 PM
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You nailed it. I go crazy for tats and beards since I was a teen. The more uneducated the better. I find the more educated someone is, the cockier they are and we cannot be having that. And yes, in 'Murica lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:45 AM
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I always call women heifers even if they are not fat. Or I say "old a** lady". I cant stand people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:21 AM
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The first guy didn't do anything wrong but that b- was a cnt to talk sht about him. She likes manga. She is probably a weebo too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:18 AM
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True but they are not actively competing with each other. Sometimes you are the only one they are talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:59 AM
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I know its crazy. They complain nonstop that women ignore them but they ignore most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:58 AM
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I was desired in my 20s but let's cut the crap, men are not "competing". What does that even mean anyways? Whenever a man thought I was talking to someone else he bowed out. Hardly competed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:46 PM
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This is BS. Why do so many women get played then by these dudes (average guys, I have seen them)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:44 PM
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This is BS. How would you explain all these women getting played if the dudes they are with (average dudes, I see them) dont have the same options?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:36 PM
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Have you seen some of these 20's women. 60% are actually overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:31 PM
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Yup. The 30s women will be married and the younger women won't want them. They won't have any options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:39 PM
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Im not into Caucasian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:58 PM
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I am guessing they were bottom of the barrel men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:51 PM
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I dont think want to click on a link that says "opinions" Edit: I did my own research "Another reason the survey has been deemed “incorrect” is because the survey included uncomfortable staring and walking too close on the list of things that were considered sexual harassment. What is considered sexual harassment is difficult to define because it is a spectrum and everyone has different opinions on it. The UN Women defines sexual harassment in the study as the “continuum of violent practices aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:46 PM
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Statistically 1 in 3 women experience assault or 30%. This includes all assaults including domestic abuse. From which study did you get 97%?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:48 PM
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I would look weird with braids or locks because I am not black.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:40 PM
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It is unusual for women to go bald. I said under 5'2 - short. Edit: well men dont go for short bald ladies either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:35 PM
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They really do. Unfortunately the set in stone standard seems to be absolutely no tight curls and those who do have it have to straighten it. There is a reason why the ethnic hair industry is a billion dollar business.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:16 PM
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The men you deem as attractive are actually average. The men you find that are average are actually way below average. Average men do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:54 PM
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Hahaha the common sense and reality just escapes some of these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:53 PM
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Thats the crazy part. If you leave him, he's going after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:46 PM
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Men are obsessed with each other d's. Thats why IR p0rn is a top category.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:24 PM
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The women who have the most sought after men are certainly doing all of that. Come back after you are reincarnated as a women with unconventional hair that people say you need to "fix". My mother burned the hair off of my 10 year old head trying to "fix" it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:15 PM
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I saw a comment once here where someone said for a man to be desirable to women he just needs to shower, dress nice and smell good. There was a response comment complaining why should he have to do ALL of that. I kid you not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:14 PM
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That's your lack if xes clouding your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:11 PM
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I have spent my entire youth trying to achieve "good hair" ironing it straight only for it to look burned tf up and unnatural anyways. Men told me to my face that my hair was ugly, and they wouldn't date me because they dont like "kinky" hair. These men do not know what some of us go through to achieve the look that they think is "average"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:06 PM
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No they dont. Men do not like kinky or coily hair. Men do not like women below 5'2. Men do not like overweight women. Men do not like FLAT women. Men have 1 look they go for. Men of all different kinds of looks can be a womens type. Tall and skinny lanky emo looking dude can be a type for women. Long haired viking looking dudes, "teddy bear" type dudes. Women literally like everything. Men all go for the the same type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:53 PM
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Well they are Dominican/Puerto Rican. I am half white/Latina but I LOVE Puerto Rican guys. The mixed/mulatto look is common. You would be really surprised they have millions of stans and fan girls. I do have a type but I also find other types of men hot. My face is 3/10 but my body is like an 8/10. What do you mean what kind of girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:26 PM
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I mean if you are going to get pumped and dumped might as well be by a rich man. These broke ass men still out here have all these baby mamas. Women crying because they got played by one. I dont see any women crying because they got pumped and dumped by a ball player/artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:54 AM
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So I go to this message board where one of the main threads is how to obtain a man of status. We are talking woman who want high profile NBA players, music artists, celebrities. Apparently according to these women, it is completely doable. You just have to be an IG thot/or decently cute. and once you find your target try to get them to notice you by liking their stories, being in their DM's, go to the same events, and try to be in their social circles and according to these women, it does not ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:09 AM
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Yep its the same. I dont know of many woman who are 35 year old virgins but if they were I wouldn't imagine they have the best options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:49 AM
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I am completely lost with what you are trying to say. But yeah women who aren't use to princess treatment are usually unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:52 PM
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And there's hardly any chance that he would be a millionaire anyways. Most people actually start working at 20 and work their entire lives. What makes this hypothetical guy any different? Other than being a 35 year old virgin which basically no woman would want. A 35 year old man with no interactions with the opposite sex is a loser to me and doesn't deserve the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:50 PM
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Hahaha there is no shortage of woman who want to throw their money away when they dont have too. Just like women who chase and ask out guys. Now men want the princess treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:37 PM
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Why are women so afraid of men? You are literally out in public, what is he going to do to you? I hope you meet your dates everywhere if you are this scared.. I never understood this mindset. I have never ever; ever paid on a date. And I never felt like I owed sh**. I remember one of my friends said this. She said she felt like she had to go home with a guy because he kept buying her drinks. I was shocked. I told "fk that ****" what is he going to do?". She agreed and said fk him too. But I trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:18 PM
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I feel both sides are made from the same cloth. I have my issues with both sides. I agree with some aspects of each side. I am more radical in some respects and more traditional in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:18 PM
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Lifelong love does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:38 PM
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I dont believe in parties. The whole system is rigged against us and I think the people need to rise up and get rid of it. Political leanings are trash and both parties are the same sh*t. The rich and powerful dont give a fk about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:59 AM
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Going to that sub is like going to a domestic abuse support group and asking anyone if they have been abused. I live in one of the most populated and diverse cities in the US. Never harrased. It sucks cause that means something is wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:44 PM
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And Im also not in the minority. 30% of women have been assualted including SA, and abuse from domestic partners. Just like 1/6 women are stalked. Not representative of all womens experience if the majority never experience it. Trust me Im sour about it. Like wtf is wrong with me that nobody gives a fk to harass me. It's not fair. I saw a tiktok once of a lady saying "im glad my 🐱 is not that good" when she saw a wrecked car with its windows kicked in lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:30 PM
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Its not overnight. And oh they do. Everyone looks old. I can tell with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:04 PM
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So you assume all women experience it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:57 PM
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She said her experience is common so why not? Her experience is not representative of reality either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:55 PM
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No. Chads can't have any girl they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:54 PM
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idk I was at the gym and this guy approached me to let know I was doing an exercise wrong. Another time I was looking at an item in a store and some dude made some weird joke about the item and walked away. An old man in his 60s asked me when my baby was due as I was very glaringly pregnant. In my mind they were all hitting on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:52 PM
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Who are these dudes "drowning in options?". I must be poor and live perpetually with the bottom barrel of society as I have never seen a man in my whole life "drowning in options". Are they only celebrities?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:32 PM
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I have never experienced it and neither has any of the women I talk to. So yeah, its not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:15 PM
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Chad = Good looking guy with great social skills. They can be any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:11 PM
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Because I want attention from men other than my husband? That is not abnomal. We are married but its just a contract. I didnt lose my desire to be admired by the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:09 PM
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Whats wrong with Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:06 PM
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They are talking about how men like younger, so when they see her, she will LOOK younger, but her actual age will be a problem. Happens with me. I will think a man is hot and if I find out he is under 35 its like no thanks. Its just the reverse with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:00 PM
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She needed to have started retinol already for the past decade. Once you hit 30 you need to get some prescription strength retinol (Retin-A). Once you have wrinkles they are there to stay. There is no getting rid of them. The only way is to start retinol before you have any wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:57 PM
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I was like you. I was terrified of turning 30. So I took a trip to Miami ON my birthday and partied and got hit on by tons of dudes. That distracted me for a bit. 30s was fine. Then I got married, had kids and then BOOM, Im 40. 40 sucks. I hadnt realized you literally become invisible and unwanted in such a short amount of time. No matter how good you take care of yourself. You can work out 3 hours a day and get top notch dermatologist care but that will not stop your face bone structure from ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:50 PM
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Agree with this. People shouldnt have to stick with one partner for the rest of their damn lives if they dont like them anymore. Divorce should be easier. Or better yet make marriage a contract good for 10 years, and just renew.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:33 PM
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Or they just dont care. Empathy is natural too but not everyone has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:29 PM
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Same. I experienced both and 1000 times would rather be pretty and envied. The "cons" of being pretty are much better than the cons of being ugly. I asked this because you stated your beauty made life harder on you....and I'm like how? You sure as hell would rather not be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:26 PM
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If you could choose, would you rather be ugly with the same sh*tty social skill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:36 PM
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How do you think women who do not have pretty privilege can play into the system. Sometimes there is not alot you can do about your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:35 PM
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Late to this but....I think a good rule of thumb is if they border on an Intellectual Disability. For example, an IQ below 70 qualifies as an Intellectual Disability. I do not have Lot of experience with DS but I do with Autism. Many people with Autism fall below the 70 IQ, making them Intellectually Disabled, thus unable to act in life as a fully functioning adult. Therefore a neurotypical adult wanting to date them would be unethical. Most people with Autism have average or above IQs and can f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:28 PM
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True, but at the same time, nobody knew that and you dont know if the woman you are interested in is the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:52 PM
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Not everyone can afford or even go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:45 PM
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Why do men want to get so many "bodies"? What goes through there minds when they want to sleep with as many women as they can. What does sleeping with so many women do for them? Women dont want to sleep with alot of men. We just sleep with guys we like hoping it turns to something. We dont notice "hard work" we either like him or we dont. The hard work is him showing us he likes us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:33 PM
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Because a neurotypical adult pursuing someone with an INTELLECTUAL DISORDER is PREDATORY. And men are better at being predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:23 PM
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I dont know why that first part of your post triggered me so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:13 PM
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This is exactly it. Many people prefer the chais even if they wont admit it. Even well into middle-age. It makes you feel alive. Women want to feel passion. That they are wanted and cause uncomfortable feelings in men to make them act up. I dont understand wanting "nice and stable" now but maybe my mind will change when Im 70 when Im tired and just want to die at that point anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:48 PM
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Its true. I would cry myself to sleep sometimes not understanding why I did the things I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:38 PM
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Most women will ignore men they find attractive. It's because we feel more awkward and goofy and really do not want to embarrass ourselves so we find it safer to keep our distance and we assume if he likes us, then will come to us and straight up ask us out, thus eliminating our own awkwardness because then the tension is released. If that does not happen, oh well he wasnt that into us. I had a super crush on one dude and once I realized how much I liked him, I ignored the fk out of him. I was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:33 PM
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There is no "buffet of men". This is a very big misconception you have. Social media?? I post thirst traps all the time on social media ( I want attention) and occasional I get an "awww you are so pretty" from a kind girl friend. But most of the time I dont get anything. You know how much it sucks as a woman to feel hot as hell, want to share it with the world, but everyone ignores you? You as a man do not understand BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT A WOMAN. Im old and ancient as hell according to some, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:05 PM
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Maybe they are mocking you. Almost all people look exactly their age unless you have some sort of dwarfism that makes you stop aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:03 PM
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Latino, Middle Eastern. Seen some Italian men act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:00 PM
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Ok pull up the percentage of children born to women over 40 who have autism. "Even so, the absolute chance of having a child with autism is low even for the oldest parents. The researchers in the 2017 study calculated that about 1.5 percent of children born to parents in their 20s will have autism, compared with about 1.58 percent of children born to parents in their 40s."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:22 AM
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I will say that I do not have a ton of experience with Asian or white men. But I do notice on the few dates with white men who wanted to take me out they did not have an issue with splitting the bill. In my culture that is very weird and when I date (mostly Latino) men, someone else trying to pay is extremely disrespectful. I see that in our culture if a man even takes a friend out and says he is paying you better believe he will pay. Its like telling him he ain't sh*t and his money is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:23 AM
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I like cheap champagne. Just like you like your dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:18 AM
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who cant have kids? Women over 40 are having kids wtf you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:16 AM
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You haven't debunked a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:14 AM
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These redpill spaces are going to cause a ton of su1cides.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:12 AM
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Hilarious. If a man was a loser in his 20's he is just an old loser in his 40s and 50s. Also they will say that they are doing great financially. Highly unlikely. If you are a loser with women, you are most likely a loser in life. All aspects of it. Nobody is impressed with their managerial job at OfficeMax.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:09 AM
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I guarantee you nobody thinks you are in your 20's. I tell people that and I know they are old af.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:04 AM
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It is the average woman. The average woman goes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:02 AM
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When I was that age, most of the women I knew went out and had nights out. The women who did not were either super restricted due to culture/religion, or did not have any friends to go with. Women in relationships still have nights out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:01 AM
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Anecdotal evidences proves you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:57 PM
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Countless women have healthy children starting at 35. You have healthy children untill 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:57 PM
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Average men do just fine in life. You think the 2 and 3s are average. Sorry but they are not. If you are invisible. You are a way below average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:45 PM
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prostitution is explicitly defines as traded sexual acts for money. If no sexual acts are given, then it is not prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:39 PM
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Love this. What was his ethnicity?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:34 PM
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Lol. I have talked to guys but once they said...."you know...I don't have a car...." it was the end. Thanks for filtering yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:32 PM
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Also watch the demographic of men you date. Some cultures are furiously offended if you even hint at paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:29 PM
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No. Women don't like coffee dates because they know exactly what it implies. It means that you are not that into them. You want something cheap because you dont want to "waste time or money". How you think that makes someone feel? Its like a women suggesting they bring a friend on the date "implying" that they don't think they will feel safe with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:24 PM
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Isnt it fun to let them expect something and not give it to them? They deserve to be let down by thinking they can buy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:16 PM
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She dodged a bullet. Why she gotta ask you if it's ok to order a $10 glass of champagne. You obviously had one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:12 PM
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I can't anymore. They really don't have the mental capacity to understand we don't want sex from ugly men or to act as a fk doll. Thats actually the worst possible thing for a woman.not an "option"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:53 PM
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You obviously think this because you are xesually attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:35 AM
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You haven't seen these 30 years olds. Chad is definitely gunning for some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:25 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 2.5 million aint t sh*t. Imagine trying to brag about something so common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:23 AM
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Yeah but then if the beard fad goes away, what will the ugly guys do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:26 PM
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You know that it's jealousy. They can't compete, so they go on reddit and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:22 PM
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They are all taller than 5'6 slim blonde haired vixens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:21 PM
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OMG YES This is my type Tats and beard are the bare minimum for me. I only like blue collar guys. Men who are college educated tend to think they are smarter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:19 PM
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So your type are people who are impressed by the bare minimum? Makes sense I guess? That's why alot of men go younger. Easy to impress young impressionable people with the basic stuff because they tend to be broke in college or right out of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:17 PM
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ok groomer. You know how disgusting that is to be 45 and sexual with a 19 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:04 PM
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I dont know. Say what you want about Kim Kardashian, but she is still on all the Most Hot lists and even young 20 year old celebrities are talking about how she is their crush. She 42.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:02 PM
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Then you dont have wealth. You said younger women are looking for men who have created wealth. So what do they see in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:55 PM
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Comparing being attracted to men in their 40's with necrophilia 🤣🤣🤣 I'm dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:53 PM
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YES. They want a green card. How is saying this racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:47 PM
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Men in their 40s who get younger women have been Chad's already. They are either divorced or have been dating around and being a playboy for in his 20s and 30s. Men who are rejected in their youth with the hope that at 40 they will land a young baddie will have to compete with these 40 year old Chad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:44 PM
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You are invisible. Congrats. So are many women. They're fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:35 PM
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If you were wealthy, you wouldn't be on reddit talking about how you're wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:30 PM
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You would rather not hurt someone's feelings and possibly be hurt? You know when someone hates you they are capable of doing awful things to you, including hurting people you love. Some times people make absolutely no sense. Self preservation is a concept lost on some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:28 AM
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You have been to every country on Earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:23 AM
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So as long as they act yt. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:21 AM
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The standard has always been marketing towards Caucasian women. The standard has always been about highlighting Caucasian features. I am half white myself but it is only apparent in my light skin. I have never been approached seriously by a Caucasian man. Many MOC still prefer the yt women. So when men get on here and complain and say they arent picky I get mad. Cause I have seen it for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:31 PM
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take a shower and get a haircut? You can't even do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:46 PM
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In your 1st point about beauty standards; you are absolutely correct and I feel women are victims of this the most. Women all have different preferences when it comes to men. They like all races and all aesthetics. Like you said, the main beauty standard for women is tall, slim, boobs/ass and blonde hired blue eyed Caucasian women. Rarely men divest from this type. Of course there are exceptions. Harder for a coily haired short thicc (not obese) women to get any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:42 PM
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People who say its "rewarding" hate the sh*t out of their job. Normal jobs are boring as fk. I bet you just got off of OF yet you are shaming them. You dont watch it? At all? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:51 AM
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None of what you said means anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:48 AM
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Why the hell would she choose to work a boring ass job when she can make easy money off of men? I'm not following the convo completely. But who. are you to call anyone a whore? You sound insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:38 AM
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Youre daughter can do whatever she wants. Nothing is going to stop her. Your obsession with hernot being a whole will probably lead to an outcome you dont want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:35 AM
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Divorce happens at the 14 ir 15 year mark. You are happy before kids, after thats its survival, when kids are grown you decide you dont want their stupid ass anymore. Such is life. Talk after the kids come. Then tell me you want to spend "every waking minute" with this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:27 AM
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Thats a friend you are fking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:25 AM
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Nobody knows their parents. Also I didnt say they dont have xes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:21 AM
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So you know lots of rich people (millionaires) that do nothing but travel the world? (I did that in my 20s). Also you don't have sex when your old as fk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:18 AM
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Sounds boring as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:01 AM
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Thats cause you friends now. But they are a friend you fk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:00 AM
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"Being in love" is just infatuation. It goes away and then you are left with a friend you care for who you dont mind fking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:59 AM
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God that sounds awful. The honeymoon phase IS the best phase. It DOES NOT get better than that. Just like your 20-30s are your best years. IT DOES NOT GET BETTER. And NOBODY should have to live untill they're 80. Thats terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:55 AM
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Awww all the hopeless romantics have it out for you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:53 AM
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It will NEVER be exciting like those first few months. That excitement is what feels like "love". Obviously that goes away and then you are just friends who care for each other and don't minding fking. The "eternal love" you see in movies does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:52 AM
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4 years ain't sh**.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:47 AM
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Haha they say they are happy because they are not miserable. Xes with them doesn't make them vomit. They can tolerate them. Thats the most love has to offer at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:47 AM
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"Being in love" doesn't exist. They are familiar with each other and need sex. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:45 AM
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Porn is completely toxic what are you talking about? Not wanting your man to participate in the active destruction of human morale is completely bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:31 AM
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I guess you can do that. But doesn't FWB get messy? Also I dont think most men act so terribly. If anything I think I act worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:07 AM
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The men getting passports are men nobody wants. Except for third world women who will tolerate being exploited for a chance at a better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:35 AM
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I understand your choice....but don't you ever want affection, deep intimate conversation, excitement, xes? I want all those things therefore I would never want to be alone. Nobody has ever in history "needed" a man. Or a woman. There has been spinster and single women for as long as there have been humans. We choose to partner because it is what we desire. And no women are not done. Maybe you are but thats a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:27 AM
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Well my sister in law must have had a really good attorney to make her ex husband pay up the ass in alimony and child support. She was working by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:48 PM
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Can you pull up the statistics of how many couples have the SAME income level. One parent always has to fall back due to raising kids anyways...so you're just speaking theoretical. The spouse making less can demand money and they OFTEN do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:41 PM
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Are you assuming SAHM are not college educated? Most go to college and earn their degrees and they see the world for what it is and make the decision not to participate in the rat race. So as a SAHM and college educated my likelihood of getting divorced is FAR less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:38 PM
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