jays2021CO Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-1	Men have a biological clock as well Yeah, ok. I’m 9 years older than my wife. Was 41 when we had our first and 43 for our 2nd. There’s no shortage of women who are into older men. As for dying when they are adolescents, highly unlikely when you’re fit enough to pass up 20 year olds on 10 mile hikes. You realize there’s individual nuance to this right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 12:54 PM
1	Childrearing is not just "work" and if you think that way, then you shouldn't have kids! This depends on how old your kids are and what kind of resources you and the community you live in have available. I retired from the labor market at age 42 to stay with our kids. We could afford to have my wife retire, but she’s the type that will work until she dies. Taking care of the kids at this age is easy. They’re 9 and 11. The youngest bikes to school. The oldest walks to the bus stop. They’re able to pour cereal and milk into a bowl for breakfast every morning. Schools in our district n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 01:33 AM
5	Q4W: Do you find your male partner attractive? That question may make sense to younger married couples. Or the question should be “how likely would other women want your man for casual sex when you first met”. No married person who’s like 75 is being lusted after for casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 02:11 AM
0	What percentage of men under age 30 do you think have sexual options? I’m Indian and I don’t think it’s ever been a limiting factor in terms of being able to attract women, at least here in the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/24 09:06 PM
9	Women say that the bar low for men? Is this really true? Perfectly said. If a woman thinks you’re cute, there’s nothing you can’t get away with. If a woman thinks you’re ugly, there’s nothing you can get away with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 03:22 PM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. I agree. Compared to a woman of equal attractiveness, a guy has to deal with more rejection and has to put in more work in terms of approaching more women. That said, if you have a lot to offer dating isn’t hard. Simple observation on a weekend night at a restaurant will show that most people are with or dating someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 10:55 PM
1	Despite popular rhetoric, it is women not men who have extremely inflated self images https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2009/05/did-obesity-exist-in-prehistoric-times.html Obesity is a relatively modern phenomenon due to food abundance and a progression to a more sedentary lifestyle. I do agree with you though that there is a big cultural component of what is considered attractive…to a point. Obviously a chieftain of the Maasai in Kenya will have a different ideal of beauty than a Christian conservative in Mississippi. As an interesting aside…Maasai boys aren’t considered men u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 03:32 PM
1	Guys that get mad because a girl 'makes them wait' while being 'fast' with other guys are acting entitled to sex. Exactly! When you present yourself as a bad boy who’s just looking for fun you repel more women overall. But coincidentally get more casual sex as you’re marketing to a specific demographic. When you come off as nice you attract more women overall but ironically get less casual sex. At the end of the day, people should just be honest about what they want and let the chips fall where they may.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 04:01 PM
12	Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman? -expects you to pay for every date. I usually pay for first dates. But almost every woman I’ve been with who’s worth dating has insisted on getting the 2nd date. To the point where they’ll snatch the check. -they won’t accept coffee dates, hike dates, drink dates, or walk dates. In my experience most women will not only accept these type of dates but actually will be the one to suggest them. -they’ll have an excessive focus on boundaries. No woman I’ve ever dated has ever mentioned boundaries to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 02:48 AM
48	Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman? Any woman who practices FDS is an instant no. I was living in NYC a year ago and was dating this educated, accomplished, fun, adventurous woman. She was quite attractive but also a really cool person. Had founded her own charity. Was into sports. Was a foodie. Anyways, a few weeks into dating her she got promoted to a high level executive position at a Fortune 500 company. She calls me up, says she wants to celebrate and invites me to dinner at 11 Madison Park….her treat. She paid and we ended u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 01:55 AM
4	Would you indulge your man in his cuckold fetish if he had one? I can only speak for myself. But I can recall at least 4 different times where white women approached me in a bar in a purely sexual way only because of my race. One girl was super bold and literally said she wanted to suck my bbc. Another asked me if it’s really true that guys of my race have “fabulous cocks”. The other two were more subtle. But some white women definitely have this fetish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 10:08 PM