jaytrident Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Girl I've been talking to said she was dealing with family issues?		jaytrident	/r/seduction	12/01/18 12:23 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Can confirm.	/r/seduction	10/02/21 08:52 PM
3	This meeting did not go so well Don't text	/r/seduction	27/05/19 04:36 PM
1	Sliding into DMs? If you know her just do a normal introduction as though you saw her on the streets and start a convo with some game.	/r/seduction	21/04/19 02:30 PM
1	Pickup advice for someone that's newly single after a long-term relationship? The vast majority of guys aren’t studying pick up	/r/seduction	21/04/19 05:55 AM
2	What should i know about sex For girls sex is more emotional	/r/seduction	20/04/19 11:17 PM
3	Sliding into DMs? You don’t make a move can’t fuck anyways	/r/seduction	20/04/19 10:49 PM
3	Sliding into DMs? Approach virtually	/r/seduction	20/04/19 05:20 PM
2	Pickup advice for someone that's newly single after a long-term relationship? The fact of the matter is that you’ve had relationships in the past and if you even understand the concepts of game you will do better than a lot of guys. You already have a leg up on guys with no social skills who are studying game to go from terrible to mediocre to acceptable and guys who are average but never really study game. Btw you should go out with the intention to have a good time and entertain yourself and think that if you see a girl you like she hit the jackpot for catching your int…	/r/seduction	20/04/19 05:18 PM
2	Sliding into DMs? Approach	/r/seduction	20/04/19 05:02 PM
4	Ask about a boyfriend or not? Daygame approach. Don’t ask. If she’s happy with her relationship it’s not going anywhere and regardless of what she says, the situation is the situation. The only thing you can do by asking is making it feel like you are more interested in her than the other way around	/r/seduction	20/04/19 05:01 PM
2	Pickup advice for someone that's newly single after a long-term relationship? Tbh most people your age aren’t actually studying pick up.	/r/seduction	20/04/19 04:56 PM
2	How do you invite a girl over to your place that doesn't drink or smoke? Works for me all the time. If you’re doing it right you aren’t watching the movie. Last time I started the movie on Netflix, we were in bed by the the time the opening credits ended. The movie is a means to end, just like drinks are a means to an end	/r/seduction	19/04/19 07:08 PM
1	I can't stop hating women You don’t hate women. You hate yourself for a perceived lacking of money, height, looks, and status. Be what she wants	/r/seduction	19/04/19 07:04 PM
1	Am I improving with women or Have I dug the hole even deeper ? Start with girls you aren’t attracted to and take the nerves out of it. Get used to the game without the stakes	/r/seduction	19/04/19 06:55 PM
7	How do you invite a girl over to your place that doesn't drink or smoke? Ask her to watch a movie or something	/r/seduction	19/04/19 06:52 PM
2	I’m attracting women I’m not attracted to? Online apps are going to be tougher than real life. These girls literally have access to the best of the best in their vicinity so average or slightly above will not standout	/r/seduction	19/04/19 06:52 PM
1	Any recommended threads on starting/holding conversations through Tinder/DMs? Just think of the first witty thing that pops in your head and don't overthink it. Tinder is kinda bs anyways. It's good some of the time, but it's a lot of girls just looking for attention	/r/seduction	19/04/19 02:31 AM
1	I think I learned recently to bulid attraction I needed to slow down. You mean you didn’t dance like a monkey and oversell how much you wanted the queens’ attention	/r/seduction	18/04/19 02:29 PM
1	i got approach anxiety and i’m determined to fix it OP doesn’t need that right now. He’s afraid to even approach. Once you feel comfortable with that start adding elements.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 10:48 AM
1	Could making a girl your wife technically be considered a form of oneitis? I mean sure because people feel like they can't leave marriages and that's a form of being hung up on one person. Ideally you already spent copius time with this person, and you are envisioning and realizing a life where you are both winning together as a result so you aren't living in fear of losing her.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 05:12 AM
1	Natural Game Vs. Scripted Game (Which Is Better?) When Marlon Brando has a script he also has a fellow actor who is reading the correct lines to compliment the script. Don't think of game as acting. Think of it as sales. Yeah scripts are nice and can be confidence boosters. Don't be unadpatable. You will lose every girl that you can't adapt to.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 05:11 AM
1	In fear that my gf of 2 years, maybe attracted to another guy. Me (19m ), her ( 18f ), other guy is ( 25m ). Who cares? I'm not saying that to be a dick, but the only outcome from you worrying about this is you psyche yourself out and lose your girlfriend because you'll trick yourself into stupid actions. She's your girlfriend, who cares if she has a crush on a guy. There's going to be attractive guys. If Leo Dicaprio walked in the room and your girlfriend did the same exact thing if not worse, are you going to be acting the same way and posting on reddit about it? No because shit happens. She's your g…	/r/seduction	18/04/19 04:58 AM
-2	How to / do you escalate in the car? Talk softer and say "come closer". Start whispering in her ear. Touch her shoulder. Get your faces close.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 04:51 AM
1	When is the age gap too big? The age gap is two big when she's not legal and you're more than 3 years older imo. If she's legal the age gap is too big when you are dead.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 04:50 AM
-1	What do you guys think about asking a girl out again? Chat her up the next time you see her. Feel it out.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 04:48 AM
1	How to sexually escalate with married women ? You just answered your own question. "So they quickly lose interest in m" One thing isn't working. Do the other thing.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 04:47 AM
1	Thing was great then she dropped off from the face of the Earth. What did I do wrong? :( There's no silver bullet line that works every time. I would say that is a higher percentage play than asking. It's always going to still matter how much you put in the conversation, how the flow is going, when you have the right window to offer it.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 04:32 AM
1	How do I deal with my girlfriend’s nice guy friend? It’s controlling to say “you can’t do this”. It’s self respect to say “this crosses my boundaries and is something I don’t want to live with it”.	/r/seduction	17/04/19 11:04 PM
2	How do I deal with my girlfriend’s nice guy friend? Respect yourself more and disengage. Tell her why and see if she changes behavior.	/r/seduction	17/04/19 11:02 PM
5	i got approach anxiety and i’m determined to fix it Go to a mall or park and just compliment everyone. Start with girls you aren’t interested in. Then move up to attractive ones. One of the biggest mistakes guys make is they treat girls they are interested in different from everyone else. Spit game on every girl you meet regardless of interest until it becomes second nature	/r/seduction	17/04/19 10:59 PM
2	Picking up A Hot Table Girl You can just check your followers on Instagram and type her name in the search bar to see if she followed back. Yeah if she has that many followers your messages are going into an ether. Worth trying just because a response would indicate high attraction. It’s possible to pick up girls like this, just realize that it’s her job to flirt back and that this isn’t new to her. Best way to play it is to get her number. That’s how you know if she’s willing to cross your interaction into her personal li…	/r/seduction	16/04/19 08:00 AM
2	Dont ever feel sorry for single moms - use them for sex If you feel like these women are that low value you should probably not care enough to pursue them anyways.	/r/seduction	16/04/19 07:53 AM
2	Neediness test or just busy Try not to make plans that far in advance. It puts you in a bad position of letting things go cold or trying to carry on meaningless conversation. The point of texting is to meet in person. Now because the correct move is to wait, you are overthinking it.	/r/seduction	16/04/19 07:47 AM
3	Telling a girl she should date the guy she’s trying to make me jealous with. This is what I have done if I even did a moment feel that way: “My goal is to be like James Bond, can I even imagine a scenario where James Bond would get this hung up over a girl? No”. And then you should start realizing how antithetical to your goal your current mindset is. And then that mindset should begin to be unattractive to you. to you. You have to break down your tolerances to your a bad mindset. Your goal is not to play mindgames to beat your competition, your goal is to position yours…	/r/seduction	16/04/19 07:39 AM
1	Telling a girl she should date the guy she’s trying to make me jealous with. Trying to do that is like the equivalent of going on date and talking about ex girlfriends or how many girls you pull. Regardless of the truth it just comes off as “this guy feels like he needs to show off”. Thats approval seeking behavior covered up. You don’t want her to think “this guy is trying to show off for me”. You want your attitude to make her think “wow the way this guy behaves must mean he has a lot to show off”. You have no idea how she’ll take you saying something like that. It’s a…	/r/seduction	16/04/19 07:25 AM
1	Persist or next. Went out with a girl at work. Thought it was really good. Went cold when tried to go out a 2nd time. You just have to find a way. If she’s staying with you longer than expected in a car she’s giving you an opportunity to make a move. You have to go do it. Generally the first date will be initiated by the guy unless it’s something crazy like a super high value guy with a needy girl. That’s fine. You did the right thing. The point of the date is to build up rapport and attraction. Then afterwards she should want to see you again. That’s where you should probably give it a bit and try to make her …	/r/seduction	16/04/19 07:10 AM
1	Should I like pictures of girls who I like? It doesn't mean anything and if she's decent looking she already has guys liking every photo she posts. You can like her photos if you're in a relationship with her and it's just you showing your girl affection. But there's no reason to do it now imo.	/r/seduction	16/04/19 03:39 AM
1	Thing was great then she dropped off from the face of the Earth. What did I do wrong? :( Give her your number and tell her to text you. Make her make the investment.	/r/seduction	16/04/19 03:37 AM
11	Telling a girl she should date the guy she’s trying to make me jealous with. The most powerful thing is to not even acknowledge that there is another guy. They should be irrelevant to you. Your mindset should be that you are going to "win" anyways. If for whatever reason she chooses the other guy, your mentality should THEN be that it akes no difference than you and that you have an abundance mentality so that can wonder why you aren't upset over her.	/r/seduction	16/04/19 03:34 AM
1	Persist or next. Went out with a girl at work. Thought it was really good. Went cold when tried to go out a 2nd time. So several things. First off, regardless of the conversation you have to escalate. Second, you should not have checked if she'd be back. You should have simply said something to set up another date. Ideally you would have not messaged her at all and waited to see if she initiated. Either way, once you asked her out to dinner a second time and she only said maybe, that's where the red flag should have come up imo. This isn't to say it couldn't be an issues on her end thing. However, I would lay o…	/r/seduction	16/04/19 03:15 AM
1	is lifting worth if you are 5'7-5'8? First off your not that short. Slightly below average at worst. Second, I don't any scenario at any height where being in better shape is worse or comparable to being in worse shape.	/r/askTRP	21/05/18 05:13 PM
3	Life is too short to be a chump. The 80/20 rule isn't a theory, it is law. Not every action yields an equal result. The key to personal success is finding the 20% of things that give you 80% of your results and to double down on those motherfuckers. Here is a guide. That's not the principle of the 80/20 rule. The point is you have 100% of your day. 20% of your actions dictate 80% of the results, while 80% of the actions are meaningless and at most make up 20% of any tangible benefits you receive. The idea is evaluate the 20% that's the most meaningful and spend more than 20% of your time on it. Start spending 90% of your time on the more productive tasks and gain more results from it. It has nothing to do with working harder or less hard. It's about working…	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/18 06:43 PM
44	Life is too short to be a chump. The 80/20 rule isn't a theory, it is law. Not every action yields an equal result. The key to personal success is finding the 20% of things that give you 80% of your results and to double down on those motherfuckers. Here is a guide. To be successful in sales you need an aggressive hunter mentality, the ability to quickly read people and evaluate whether there is something valuable to be pursued, and have a strong respect for the value of your time and what you are using it on. Also doesn't hurt that you spend pretty much all day talking to people and (hopefully) improving conversation skills. Also even the great salesman lose well over the majority of the time, so you learn to handle rejection better and not fear it.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/18 06:28 PM
4	How to ask a girl out if she's always with a group of girls? No I mean literally when they are all in a group together THAT SHE IS IN, do it. Do it in an extremely cocky and ballsy way to let them know you don't give a shit that they are all together and you are singling out one girl to go out with. I'm not saying do the middle school ask her friends crap.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 02:38 AM
5	How to ask a girl out if she's always with a group of girls? Well you are trying to hit on their friend. Just be flirty with her and just ask, better yet do it in front of her friends. Better yet, ask her friends right in front of her if they think "she should say yes to going out with me". If you are as good friends with them as you say, they aren't going to cock block you to your face imo. If it really concerns you, get her number and text/call.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 12:57 AM
3	When is it ok to steal a girl from her boyfriend? My two cents. If it's a great relationship, she's already going to be spending all her time with him and even if there is some attraction you'll never get the opportunity to sneak in there. That said, if she gives you the chance to steal her, she'll probably give someone else the chance to steal her the minute your game gets flat or she has some shit test you don't pass. So I don't know if the efforts worth it, especially since I wouldn't consider that type of girl relationship material.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 12:53 AM
1	I think I might've fked up, any ideas You expressed interest and it sounds like she backed off. Honestly she can't be pursuing you if she's pursuing your friend. Which it sounds like was a bigger priority. Honestly you don't want that crap. Even in the off chance you get with her, you're always going to have to wonder if you're a means to an end. It'll cause more problems than it's worth. Stop talking to her and unless she pursues you in the future, let it go. I can see a potential disaster here waiting to happen.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 12:28 AM
1	I think I might've fked up, any ideas You expressed interest and it sounds like she backed off. Honestly she can't be pursuing you if she's pursuing your friend. Which it sounds like was a bigger priority. Honestly you don't want that crap. Even in the off chance you get with her, you're always going to have to wonder if you're a means to an end. It'll cause more problems than it's worth. Stop talking to her and unless she pursues you in the future, let it go. I can see a potential disaster here waiting to happen.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 12:28 AM
1	I think I might've fked up, any ideas You expressed interest and it sounds like she backed off. Honestly she can't be pursuing you if she's pursuing your friend. Which it sounds like was a bigger priority. Honestly you don't want that crap. Even in the off chance you get with her, you're always going to have to wonder if you're a means to an end. It'll cause more problems than it's worth. Stop talking to her and unless she pursues you in the future, let it go. I can see a potential disaster here waiting to happen.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 12:28 AM