| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Seducing women without any goals in mind | jazilli | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 08:34 PM |
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| – | Cold approaching is really insaneDefinitely something I want to try. I'm moving to a new city next month so it'll be a good start for me. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Dating is Difficult Because Women Get More Attention Than MenYes I agree, that was my initial point lol. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:31 AM |
| – | Dating is Difficult Because Women Get More Attention Than MenIt's just a numbers game though, isn't it? Sometimes one just goes a while with limited success. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:11 AM |
| – | Dating is Difficult Because Women Get More Attention Than MenDepends on the situation but everything from good hygiene, to a well fitting outfit, to excellent body language, saying the right words, having a good attitude, displaying confidence and high self esteem, and probably many more things I can't think of at the moment. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:47 PM |
| – | Dating is Difficult Because Women Get More Attention Than MenA man can do everything right and see very little results. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | What are some things I can do to be around more women?Do people use the word Chad here? Either way, there is nothing more "chad" than having high self esteem and knowing your worth. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:03 PM |
| – | What are some things I can do to be around more women?Well I've been friends with women i had zero interest in pursuing that made good friends lol. You do you I guess. The more women you're friends with the more women they'll know and the more often there will be opportunities to be with their friends. The whole baseline of seduction here is to be perfectly alright with being single. It's not so much interacting with pizza when hungry, it's interacting with someone who's a human when I'm so secure with myself I don't need a partner to be happy. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:00 PM |
| – | What are some things I can do to be around more women?Well meeting people in general and making friends with anyone is a challenge after school I guess. Why would it be a bad to be friends with women if you're single? | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 02:47 PM |
| – | What are some things I can do to be around more women?When you have friends that are women they'll know many other women to meet up with. Plus it's always good to have more friends? Meeting women for platonic friendships the same place you'd meet men for friendships. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 02:34 PM |
| – | What are some things I can do to be around more women?I meant make female friends and go out with them to meet other women | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 02:22 PM |
| – | What are some things I can do to be around more women?What I find best is to have platonic relationships with women and go out with them. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Underrated tips that will double your successAll of this seems like common sense, but many men may not know it. Good job. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 07:06 PM |
| 25 | Cold approaching is really insaneIf she's into you, she'll ask questions too and seem into it. If she's not into you, she'll appear bored. Read body language. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:59 AM |
| – | Cold approaching is really insaneWell I did it a ton at college so at house parties I would go up to women and ask them questions about various things. Usually what they major in and what they like about it. Who they know at the house and how they know them. Questions that make them keep talking are good, especially questions that trigger positive feelings. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:23 AM |
| – | Cold approaching is really insaneCold approaching is how I got all my hookups and relationship. Never used apps. It really be like that. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I’m really confused with this sub Do yall only want to hear what men gotta say?Good for you I suppose? Doesn't help your argument though. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 10:40 PM |
| – | I’m really confused with this sub Do yall only want to hear what men gotta say?With the intention to pursue men? Edit: also want to reiterate men giving women advice is night and day when women give men advice. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 10:26 PM |
| – | I’m really confused with this sub Do yall only want to hear what men gotta say?Men giving women advice about picking up men is far different than women giving men advice. For the extreme most part, women don't have to do anything to get attention from men. Men have to do everything and more for the attention of women. I wouldn't say no if a woman wanted to offer advice but I most likely would not utilize if it didn't make sense to me. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 10:03 PM |
| – | I’m really confused with this sub Do yall only want to hear what men gotta say?Each advice could work on different women but some advice is more effective than others. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 08:58 PM |
| – | I’m really confused with this sub Do yall only want to hear what men gotta say?Sure, but that may yield two VERY different answers. I'll go with the person who actually does seduce women. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 08:55 PM |
| – | I’m really confused with this sub Do yall only want to hear what men gotta say?You don't ask a pitcher how to hit his fastball. You ask a batter. Straight women never have to seduce other women, so they don't give good advice most of the time on this subject. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Most people play not to lose instead of playing to win. They hold back in conversation out of fear of saying the wrong thing. When in reality a bit of a polarizing personality makes you much more attractive.The biggest problem I see is not knowing how to unagreeable when the other person doesn't say any strong opinion. "Vanilla ice cream is my favorite". "Vanilla is okay but my favorite is chocolate". Doesn't seem to add much. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 11:35 PM |
| – | Dont be afraid to approach women.That's how I met my ex gf lol. Saw her at a party and absolutely had to have her so I walked up to her to introduce myself and start a conversation, and you know the rest. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 04:53 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You shouldn't just be yourself you should be the best version of yourself | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:08 AM |
| – | The most attractive thing to women is a transcendent emotional experience.Any chance there's a cliffnotes version of this? | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Profile REALLY checks out | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 12:20 AM |
| – | Todd V - it’s NOT a numbers gameI pretty much agree entirely. My point is even an expert at seduction could get rejected 25 out of 25 times. He shouldn't stop approaching just because he went 0 for 25. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 05:32 PM |
| – | Todd V - it’s NOT a numbers gameBeginners should go out and approach everyone just to get comfortable approaching. After which, work on improving your game so you get better at the numbers game. The more one approaches, the better he gets at approaching women, and the more he works on his game, the more success he has. So if I or any man approaches a certain number of women, and get rejected every single time, you want me to stop approaching more women because it would be too high of a number?? You're the only person that find… | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 05:22 PM |
| – | Todd V - it’s NOT a numbers gameI approach women who I find attractive but just because I find them that doesn't mean I'll like them. That's kinda the whole point of approaching women, to find out if you actually like anything about them beyond initial attraction. Even a master of seduction can get rejected after 2 or 3 approaches. Todd V also says numbers game is important and to master your craft to make that numbers game unimportant. It can get less important with time but I argue it is always a bug factor. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Todd V - it’s NOT a numbers game5% is way above average. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 02:52 PM |
| – | Todd V - it’s NOT a numbers gameWhat if those 2-3 women say no? Or maybe I don't like those 2-3 women? Numbers game is extremely important, but it is useless if a man does nothing to improve himself. Saying numbers game is not important is flat out wrong. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Traveling for mastering game, Can you host accommodation?I live at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave in Washington DC, dm me. | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | If you approach or hit on every moderately attractive woman you encounter, you reinforce a desperate, validation-seeing self image. Attractive men have standardsSo you want men who have zero options to talk to less women? | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 03:06 PM |
| – | 10 rules that i've learned from around 50 laysIn my experience, women love darker skin men more than paler skin, in the US anyway. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 08:53 PM |
| – | 10 rules that i've learned from around 50 laysThis just sounds like "be a good, honest, strong person" in a lot more words. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 07:32 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Big difference between pursuing girls/women and chasing them. At least in my opinion chasing would imply to continuously go after someone who showed no interest, leasing to simpdom. Pursuing is finding someone who will say yes to a date/hookup/etc. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:13 PM |
| 13 | Don’t listen to a woman’s advice on seduction.Unpopular opinion but I agree. You don't ask a pitcher how to hit his fastball, you ask a batter. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else do seduction for sport?Any source on that? | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 02:08 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Sir this is a chipotle | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 08:20 PM |
| 15 | “I Can’t Get Laid Because…”I believe the biggest obstacle for men is they don't know why they want to get laid. Indecisiveness leads to excuses if they don't know what they want. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Is it easier to get a girlfriend in the winter than summer for you guys?What | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 02:09 AM |
| – | Is it easier to get a girlfriend in the winter than summer for you guys?In theory you can work on yourself and become the best you ever and still meber get women. The whole of seduction is to be so content and amazing ny yourself you don't need women to achieve self esteem. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 02:08 AM |
| 13 | She said lets be friends, I said byeCorrect move. You don't want to be her friend, and if she doesn't want to take romantic interest in you, move on. Simple. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Meeting women at barsThat's pretty much it. I met my ex gf just by walking up to her at a party. Never met her before and probably would never see her again if I didn't. You just never know. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 10:11 PM |
| 5 | If you want to flirt with her just do it there is no magic book to teach you 🤣.........The punctuation is killing me | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 111 | Female Perspective On Online DatingIn person approaching > online dating | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 03:35 AM |
| 6 | Dear “nice guys”........Can you list examples of taking control and being protective? | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective: To some women it's all about the intentionsI asked a question in my first comment and never received a response to it. | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion a girl would only hook up or date you if she thinks you’re HIGHER value than her.Checks out. Women want a man who is superior to her. | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Female Perspective: To some women it's all about the intentionsYou sound like someone who can't take constructive criticism. Have a good one. | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 11:38 PM |
| – | Female Perspective: To some women it's all about the intentionsI initially asked you a question and you responded with a question that had nothing to do with what I asked or said. | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 11:29 PM |
| – | Female Perspective: To some women it's all about the intentionsPhysical touch escalation is commonly discussed on this sub. At least commonly enough that I argue it is part of seduction. Never the less, whats your point? | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 11:11 PM |
| – | Female Perspective: To some women it's all about the intentionsThat question has nothing to do with what I said. Can you show me proof game says that? First five Google results for kino: a movie? website, an urban dictionary entry that is unintelligible, a band's Wikipedia page, a small budget film Wikipedia page, and another movie related website. | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Female Perspective: To some women it's all about the intentionsFrom what I've seen, most men here don't want a woman long term (at least for the moment). Why bother to get to know one when it's nearly exclusively all about hookups? Edit: have yet to see anything close to what you're arguing about #4. Appear unbothered? No, tell someone how you are feeling if they upset you. Maybe I don't understand what you are saying there, or maybe you can find examples posted to this sub. Edit2: also have never heard of kino ever before this post. Never seen it on this s… | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 09:57 PM |
| – | This is often overlooked but important thing when dealing with womenDo you have any information on hand on how to improve body language and what to look for in other people's BL? | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Girls say they want a really nice guy.. total bullcrap!Half the battle is knowing that. | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Girls say they want a really nice guy.. total bullcrap!Women want men who are superior to them. Why do favors for a woman who won't do anything back? | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Girls don't do things by accidentMy b I was trying to make a joke lol | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 10:33 PM |
| 0 | Girls don't do things by accidentI think nobody would be better | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Most common mistakes men make on datesI wonder how many men actually read that essay | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Girls don't do things by accidentYou know what, you may have a point. Men love games. Men love video games, Men love sports games. Hell, seduction itself is really just a game. A game most Men aren't good at, which is why they don't like it. Watching sports games takes zero skill as does many video games. Seduction is a game that requires constant practice and effort. No wonder why men hate it. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How sexual are women REALLY?...That's impossible to answer in my opinion, everybody is different. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 19 | Girls don't do things by accidentSounds like a man who can't take constructive criticism. You're on the wrong sub. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 23 | Girls don't do things by accidentEntertain a clown and you're part of the circus | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Girls don't do things by accidentCold approaching weaves out the 80% | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 03:05 PM |
| 42 | Girls don't do things by accidentWhich is why men ought to not deal with women who play games and focus on those who do not. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 02:51 PM |
| 125 | Girls don't do things by accidentI mean, fuck that? Men shouldn't play games, if a woman wants something she should be upfront with it. Edit: I might be wrong on this one fellas. Carry on. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Be Honest: You actually don't want most of these women to be a part of your life.Not one | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 07:23 PM |
| 6 | Be Honest: You actually don't want most of these women to be a part of your life.Women don't use sex workers because they need to feel emotionally connected to a partner to have sex with them, even if it's for one night. Men do not care about how it feels emotionally. You claim sex isn't about getting off, but it is for men. You also said people would never leave their rooms, and just masterbate instead, well thats exactly what's on the rise. Casual sex is at an all time low, even before covid. | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 11:58 AM |
| 171 | Be Honest: You actually don't want most of these women to be a part of your life.Have a feeling most men don't want most of these women in their life period, they just want sex. | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemJust the same guys I've known since high school and college. Most of them can be described as the traits mentioned. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 8 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemMost people I know do not act insecure or irrational or deviate from the traits described there. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemThe (very few) men who do not display those traits in my life I would label as childish | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 04:57 PM |
| 17 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemThose attributes sound more like being a normal, high functioning adult that even "feminine" women would portray. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemSo then, in your own words, how do you suppose a man should act to be more "manly" and "masculine"? | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps making us robot? (or are they a sign we already are...)Dating apps are, for the most part, complete scams and there is no better intuitive than gaming in person | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Been Bored 😴 lately need someone to keep me company literally done everything. hope I can be able to get someone to help me with this boredom😤Ma'am this is a Dicks Sporting Goods | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 01:04 PM |
| – | Talk to pretty girls.Instructions too clear, drowning in sex now | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Waiting for him like..🥵Ma'am this is an Olive Garden | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I just lost the game.The greatest hitters in baseball history still fail over 65% of the time | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Good pick up linesYou don't need one really. Simply saying hello or commenting something specific about her will do. | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Why is intamacy declining among young dudes?I would've guessed way more than 33%. I just turned 24 and haven't dated/been intimate in about two years. Life just gets busy after college when you start a career, and I don't want to take anyone back to my parents house. | /r/seduction | 23/08/20 12:35 AM |
| 5 | This Is For The "You Have To Be Good-Looking To Get Women" CrowdBe too busy with yourself to care what women think about you | /r/seduction | 18/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Depends on your definition of sexy🖍I don't get it | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 11:21 PM |
| 2 | MEIN KAMPF: I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 MonthAll in good work my friend. | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 01:49 PM |
| 44 | Maybe a girl is not meant to be our soul mate. Maybe as a guy, we are meant to have a group of guy friends as our soul mates, or soul tribe. This makes us less needy on girls, which is more attractive to them.The (indirect) point of seduction isn't to find a woman, it's to find what you want. If a man doesn't want a relationship, that's his life. No woman or relationship is the end goal, the end goal is being happy by yourself. | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 01:18 PM |
| – | How do I stop being a nice guy?I think the problem with nice guys is they want to impress women (especially women they just met) when they shouldn't. Why try to show her you're awesome and great, you already kno that. Find out if she is | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 02:55 AM |
| 6 | Are you TRULY happy single? I know that's part of the philosophy here, but I'm struggling to get there after a break up.Idk I've been single for a year and a half and don't have any desire to get into a relationship or meet women. I like what I have going on with me. I make myself happy, and I feel it everyday. | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 02:31 AM |
| 2 | How can you possibly hate the dating game?Can just be boring for people. Most want to date I'd expect, and should follow your advice. | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Happy New Year y’all! Hope you have amazing 2020 and sending love to anyone on seddit!I went to a bar tonight. Didn't talk to anyone. Now I just feel uneasy 😐 | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 06:34 AM |
| – | Always wait for HER to ask for a relationshipI would've never dated my ex gf if I didnt ask her 🤣 | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidSo all you're saying is guys arent approaching women enough, some cases not even at all? | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Chasing Women Vs. Attracting WomenI don't follow. Stopping watching porn, masturbating, having sex, etc, will make a man more attractive because he's stopped caring about orgasming and started focusing on other parts of his life to make himself better and more attractive? | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Establishing Respect With Beautiful WomenI was reiterating your point. | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Establishing Respect With Beautiful WomenCan't love yourself if you don't respect yourself. Why would women want a man who doesn't love himself? | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Seducing women without any goals in mindI live at home with my parents. Where would I do it? How is it a waste if I can master the art and get good at it? | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it me or these last years society is going through a romantic recession?Hmm. I wonder if this will cause any problems for future generations. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Seducing women without any goals in mindGet their number and don't text. That makes sense. Do everything normally and pretend I'm interested in seeing them further when things go well. I want to have intent such as hookups and relationships, I'm just not in position to do those right now. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Seducing women without any goals in mindI want to be able to seduce women, without seeing or hearing from them ever again (at least for the time being). I guess my intent is to seduce them. That's all. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How to make out with girls in the club?If you're already have been talking to a girl at a club and dancing with her, just go for it. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it me or these last years society is going through a romantic recession?Why are guys more socially anxious now more than ever? | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I am failure for the male species and turning into an incelThey talk to women. A lot of women. Men aren't 100% successful in all the women they meet. They get with many women, because they approach a ton of them. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I am failure for the male species and turning into an incelThat's your first mistake. Those dickhead guys have high self esteem, and seem more douchey to guys with low self esteem. If you think very highly of yourself, you'll go farther than any guy who doesnt love himself. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I am failure for the male species and turning into an incelOkay this is a good start. My best advice is to remember, that you are the most important person in your life. You shouldn't have to convince women to like you, they should want you by the way you act and talk. If you find yourself talking to a girl who shows no interest in you, that act should not affect you at all. 'If this girl doesn't like me, I am wasting my time talking to her'. You, (and all men), need to act like they are the most important person in the world. Why would women feel attra… | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I am failure for the male species and turning into an incelWalking up to a stranger without a clear goal can be intimidating for anyone. However, if you know what you want from a random person, it makes it easier. Why do you want to talk to women | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I am failure for the male species and turning into an incelIt's important to know what you want from women. What your end goals are. It makes things more clearer and easier, because you can practice what to do. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 02:22 AM |
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