jazscam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"no more Mr nice guy" attitude. If you have to remind her, she already forgot.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 05:36 PM
3	Ex wants to send my son with a locked phone that notifies her if it’s accessed — looking for thoughts before I respond Faraday bag, then put it in the gun safe until the kid is ready to travel home. Or… access it the second it arrives and multiple times a day until it goes back.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/25 08:19 PM
14	I hate that men call victims of cheating “cucks” I have read where men who have defended or made excuses for their cheating wives called cucks, which I understand. But just for being cheated on, I haven’t seen that. There are also some blatant posts that are clearly cuck.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/25 12:20 AM
21	I didn't expect that divorced women would find hook ups so easy .... She is competing with crusty gym socks not you. She isn’t after sex either, she is filling a void and becoming more broken.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/25 02:48 PM
30	Ex is hurt no one has reached out to her over the divorce Play the game until the divorce is signed, be polite, and listen. Once that process is finalized, then you can just ignore her.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/25 10:11 PM
11	Wife is being treated to a vacation with another couple, sans ME I would lose my fucking mind. The marriage would be over.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 09:00 AM
2	Met the other guy Hahaha!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/24 02:49 AM
9	Met the other guy I think, “thank you” would have been better.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/24 02:39 AM
13	Wife had an affair Do what your lawyer says.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/24 06:51 PM
6	My STBX wife is moving a “room mate” into our once shared home. Move all the stuff you want to keep into storage now. Once the addicts move in, it’s all going to shit.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/24 05:55 PM
3	Grounds for divorce? My wife left me stranded with no resources besides my cell phone Not surprised. You know what needs to happen then. 180, grey rock, and talk to a lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/24 05:30 AM
6	Grounds for divorce? My wife left me stranded with no resources besides my cell phone You are right to be angry, livid even. She will have to spend an exceptional amount of effort making this up to you, if that’s even possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/24 02:38 AM
2	Evolutionary psychology and divorce I feel the same way about jealousy. That feeling has a purpose and isn’t weakness or insecurity. It’s functional and should be listened to. Trust your gut.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/24 03:23 AM
4	Updated Have the conversation, message the new partner, then don’t reconcile. Sounds like a lesson your ex needs to learn.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/08/24 09:17 PM
3	We haven't officially started the divorce process yet, but we will be soon. The problem is, when we're out doing events together as a "family," I have to deal with her checking out other men right in front of me. How do I handle this? I find it very disrespectful. Bring a girlfriend to the next one, but really, go 180, no more family events. Only conversations regarding your daughter, nothing else. Or, start pointing out older fat dudes and say they are more her style as she a post wall, divorced, single mom.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/24 01:24 AM
6	Can’t forget my wife’s words… This is a strategy game. Your play is to take this time and gather evidence of your “fatherness”. Also install hidden cameras all over the house to protect you from the false DV report that will come. Then, after a year, re-engage.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/24 04:04 AM
3	Alimony / Disability Fraud Pay off the debt before splitting the joint account.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/24 05:24 AM
14	She filed for divorce, but now wants to call it off You can divorce and start dating again. It could even be her if you are so incline.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/24 02:48 AM
12	Fiance and her ex This is the life you are signing up for buddy. Shit or get off the pot.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/24 03:03 AM
6	Kill myself How old are the kids? I think moving is the better option for now. Move back to your home country. At least before anything drastic.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 01:25 AM
12	Wife confessed to affair Divorce, move out, then decide whether she can “reapply” for the position of GF.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/24 05:19 PM
1	Would you do 10 year or 17 year alimony? With your title of 10 years or alimony, I thought you were contemplating jail time vs alimony.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 02:56 AM
6	My ex is dating an abusive drug addict (possibly sober now), but my son loves him. He got your wife addicted. That was the quick onset crazy you are talking about. It’s time for a full court press, not slowing down.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/24 03:39 AM
4	My wife Canada.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 05:30 AM
11	My wife Where I live, long-term alimony general starts at the 5 year mark. Talk to a lawyer now.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 04:59 AM
10	The Gym is NOT the Answer for Everyone…and Could Even be Dangerous… Sounds like you need more gym bro!	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/23 06:07 PM
2	Ex monitors my phone calls with our kid...deal with it or address it? Come up with a codeword game the two of you can play. It will drive your ex mad.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/23 01:48 AM
6	STBXF lawyer is asking my lawyer to ask me to move out of the marital home. Start protecting yourself with cameras. This was just a shot across the bow. And don’t even mention it to her that you got asked to do it. Pretend it never happened.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/23 12:37 AM
18	Afternoon gentlemen. You get over this by becoming a man this can’t happen to again.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/23 08:18 PM
4	Men’s ring Cast it into the fires of Mount Doom!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/08/23 08:41 PM
6	Inheritance Talk to a lawyer. It’s different between jurisdictions. Where I am, if the inheritance is kept completely separate (separate bank account and other conditions), it is not considered marital property.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/08/23 02:27 PM
54	Girl (31f) I (33m) was dating was a divorcee with history of making out with someone else while married - tried to plan around that history to avoid repeat, didn’t work out. “Don’t try to fix party girls”. Words to live by.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/23 03:38 AM
8	Ex still grills me about my life Steer into the skid. Own everything she is accusing you of and more. You run the narrative. Thank her for giving you freedom and release from a boring sex life with her. Defence (grey rock) is a temporary solution.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/23 06:19 PM
1	Wife harassment threats She is living rent free in your head. Don’t let her do that. Handle it or get counselling, but get her the fuck out.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/23 04:03 AM
1	Wife guilting me into giving her more of the house. “Wrong or not, I’m taking half!”	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/23 02:37 PM
5	I quit my federal job from two states away to be closer to my son. Now my soon to be Ex is mad at me. Did I make the right choice? Quit basing any of your decisions off of your STBXW’s feelings. You do you.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/23 01:19 AM
2	Wife probably planning an affair this weekend Tell her if she leaves Sunday night, not to come back. If she leaves, search lawyers Monday morning. Or better yet, hire a PI to track her and gain evidence.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/23 01:24 AM
83	My wife wants a divorce Take the deal and run!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/23 08:07 AM