jazz835 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	You cannot negotiate desire		jazz835	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 03:06 PM

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6	[Serious] What precautions do you take if you bring a girl you don't know well home? From a bar, etc. Ok. That comment seems harsh. I just don't trust people I don't know to stay in my apt. What's so strange about that? I kick them out/leave after sex. Don't see why your giving me so much hostility. If you trust random girls with your shit, great. I don't.	/r/seduction	04/01/17 06:26 AM
-2	[Serious] What precautions do you take if you bring a girl you don't know well home? From a bar, etc. Never stay the night at their place, or let them stay the night at your place. IMO picking up girls at bar close for a one night stand is a bad idea.	/r/seduction	03/01/17 09:51 PM
0	How are some people able to get laid on tinder even without a date? Umm, just be as open about it as possible.	/r/seduction	25/11/16 02:13 PM
-2	When making girl A want you more, how far should you go with other girls in front of girl A to make her greater desire you without counting you off? Not to be a dick, but this is from the F.A.Q. How do I get this one girl? You don't. Seduction can only help you become more attractive to women in general, and cannot cause one specific girl to reciprocate your feelings. This is known in the community as having "one-itis", and when you have it, game will be pointless. If you ask seddit for help with one specific girl for whom you obviously have one-itis, you will be downvoted mercilessly. There is no saving you, as long as you have the mindset …	/r/seduction	23/11/16 01:16 PM
1	Don't wanna leave my introvert comfort zone Ok, I was hoping you would say something like this. Get a job in sales, or my best suggestion Bartending. It puts you in a situation where you have to talk to people, gets you to focus on selling them something. Once you get the hang of it, you can learn to use that knowledge gained from selling something else to other people, to selling your personality to other people. That's really all seduction/dating is. Selling your personality to other people. Getting exposed to wide variety of people dur…	/r/seduction	16/11/16 10:29 PM
1	Don't wanna leave my introvert comfort zone You're 20. Let's get to know you a bit, then maybe we can asses your situation. Do you work? Go to school? What kinds of activities/hobbies do you have? Do you have any career ambitions or jobs you would like to do?	/r/seduction	16/11/16 05:19 PM
2	My friend is a real master of game, here is what I picked up from him. This is awesome! Thanks for the post!	/r/seduction	15/11/16 10:26 PM
15	My friend is a real master of game, here is what I picked up from him. I think at this point, unless someone is really new to the sub, we have pretty much established that these are obvious succesful traits and mindsets to have to be successful with seduction. You say he is a friend, could you maybe get him to answer how he gets these traits? is he born with it, did they just come naturally to him? That's not going to help those of us trying to improve ourselves, we would rather hear it from someone who had to learn, change, adapt How did he become confident? Did h…	/r/seduction	15/11/16 09:30 PM
1	How to I Enjoy Being in a Relationship? no worries, just FYI, I'm pretty sure everyone feels a bit blue about their current relationship from time to time. Just have to ask yourself if she's the problem or if it's you. If it's just you, i don't think any relationship will make you feel fulfilled. Gotta find a way to be happy before you can find a good relationship. relationships aren't meant to fix you. Only you can do that.	/r/seduction	14/11/16 09:37 PM
2	How to I Enjoy Being in a Relationship? I uh, think these kinds of discussions are better suited for r/relationships. You're not really asking advice for how to pickup, or seduce anyone... so, yeah.	/r/seduction	14/11/16 09:28 PM
6	Models Mark Manson (My Notes) The difference is the intention. Setting one. For this setting we will use a rando (call him Dave) Dave is 32. He is at the grocery store to get ingrediants to make his favorite chili recipe and sees a cute girl in the produce aisle wearing yoga pants, with a basket full of fruit and his favorite mango smoothie. "I think you're cute and wanted to meet you" We can both assume they aren't going to have a lengthy conversation, as most people are busy, and during the day is when people get shit done…	/r/seduction	08/11/16 09:48 PM
2	I feel like every time I like a girl, I'm too needy. Every time I don't like a girl, they're too needy. I was tempeted to downvote you... but I won't. Don't start using the "good guys" line. Some people just aren't meant for eachother. Eventually you will find someone who is head over heels for you, as much as you are for them. But learn from your mistakes. It's as simple as reminding yourself not to text them too often, nor reply too soon. Don't make them the center of your life, and have other social plans. Don't be afraid to say "no" to them for a dinner, when you made plans to hang out with th…	/r/seduction	20/10/16 02:27 PM
5	Girls that are receptive to my looks automatically become unreceptive when I talk to them. Every single time. Looks is all that matters to women, dude. Well if it were, he would be getting a lot more of these women who make first contact with him, no?	/r/seduction	17/10/16 02:00 PM
1	Girls that are receptive to my looks automatically become unreceptive when I talk to them. Every single time. Talk less, work on body language. eye contact talk at a slower pace, and try to actively deepen your voice direct conversation towards her, let her tell you about herself. Be engaging/act interested in her. Keep conversations short. i.e. "hey i have to meet my friends, I had a great time talking with you, can i get your number" etc. Work from there, before you try to escalate, use kino, or go for a ONS. Best thing is to just keep trying to talk/interact with everyone. Men, women, old, young. Try…	/r/seduction	17/10/16 01:58 PM
1	If a girl w/boyfriend flirts with me, is it worth my time? You're in the wrong subreddit. If you're looking to date, you should really post this in r/relationships not r/seduction IMO	/r/seduction	14/10/16 01:41 PM
1	How do you deal with crippling loneliness? you need to get a social life outside of a significant other. having friends, family are seperate from a GF. work on those things, and people will feel more attracted to you, and you'll have better success forming more intimate relationships. you can never have too many friends.	/r/seduction	06/10/16 04:43 PM
3	Is it pointless to go after a girl if there are no initial signs of attraction? why don't you just ask her out for a cup of coffee? She'll know what's up and it will give you the chance to get to see if you have matching personalities, unless you are just trying to get laid, in which case I would ask her over for a study session and try to escalate things. Worst thing that could happen you get rejected. Best thing that could happen, you find out if she likes you. Don't do it, and you'll never know.	/r/seduction	07/09/16 01:51 PM
1	Is the whole "looks don't matter" mantra bullshit? Yep, that's pretty much what wolverine said above my comment. I couldn't agree more. I'm average looking at best, but when I had a six pack and a good shoulder to hip ratio, I was getting attention all the time. Going to the gym after work!	/r/seduction	25/08/16 03:43 PM
1	Is the whole "looks don't matter" mantra bullshit? Yeah lots of good looking guys have questionable faces. Look at Kilo Ren.	/r/seduction	25/08/16 02:15 PM
20	How my life changed since becoming a bartender Always leave them better than you found them FTFY	/r/seduction	01/08/16 02:33 PM
1	Just did my first day game cold approach. Went great. Just do it fellas. Well shit... Not everyone is meant to be in a relationship. I guess if you have accurately assessed yourself, who am I to say different. Live your life to the fullest, and be open to the possibility of someone becoming part of it. Take care man.	/r/seduction	31/07/16 01:02 PM
1	Just did my first day game cold approach. Went great. Just do it fellas. Hey I feel you man. Trust me, I'm not autistic, but a lot of times I have a hard time relating to people. Savage Love Cast, a famous podcast about dating, host Dan Savage would probably give this advice, considering a response he gave to a similar topic. Date an autistic girl. I don't have any advice on how to find one, but you would be better off with someone with the same mindset as you for a partner, and should probably give up the "hookup" culture, and just look for someone as a partner. I'm…	/r/seduction	31/07/16 05:01 AM
2	Just did my first day game cold approach. Went great. Just do it fellas. When you go to a bar, get to know the bartenders, the bouncer, become a "regular" quick. It's impressive when you take a girl out to a place, and the bartender knows your name. When you go up to a new co-worker, introduce yourself, and always say Hi. People love social recognition... soon your dates will be impressed "you know everyone" people dig social validation. You don't have to turn someone down for a conversation just because of a ring, just recalibrate, and obviously respect their bounda…	/r/seduction	29/07/16 08:51 PM
14	Just did my first day game cold approach. Went great. Just do it fellas. Use this mindset with everyone. If a girl senses you charming another woman, she will more likely have less of a guard up when you use it on her. Think of it like this, if a woman thinks you have a charming flirty personality and just a person with a lot of sexual energy, she will be more receptive and inclined to talk to you. If you are more of a loner, and don't communicate well with others, she will be very struck off guard by your personality change around her. Best advice I could give anyon…	/r/seduction	29/07/16 07:31 PM
1	Guys, when do you enjoy your dates? Awesome! Glad I could be of help. Have a good night man.	/r/seduction	19/07/16 11:11 PM
2	Guys, when do you enjoy your dates? my honest impression about this subreddit it that guys here spend way more time in brain masturbation than in enjoying themselves. And believe me, I'd like to be proven wrong. OK, I'll do my best. I'm honestly just trying you to get to see the best shit this subreddit has to offer. I really hope you take a look. Here's the best posts I've ever read. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/etpds/10_resolutions_that_will_drastically_improve_your/ Join a gym and actually workout Learn to improv…	/r/seduction	19/07/16 08:00 PM
1	Guys, when do you enjoy your dates? Okay, sure I'll agree to disagree with you, but I honestly think that your sentance I believe that there's a wonderful guy hidden inside of you, with all the beauty and richess and wits and generosity that you have to offer. And I believe that women would love to know you if you were to display that part of you more often. Is basically what /r/seduction is. this is taken word for word from the FAQ If you practice anything, you cannot help but get better at it, and attracting the opposite sex is …	/r/seduction	19/07/16 06:58 PM
5	Guys, when do you enjoy your dates? why are you trolling this sub? You asked what was clearly a loaded question. There's nothing wrong with teaching people who have little success with women how to better seduce them. Like telling someone who can't get laid "just be yourself" is going to work. IT DOESN'T with most women. Sometimes, people need a little refining.	/r/seduction	18/07/16 09:30 PM
2	Guys, when do you enjoy your dates? Think of it like learning an instrument. You probably wouldn't enjoy sitting down and learning every chord progression of a song, how to move your fingers over each string and how to pick, but the sum parts of all of this practicing can make a beautiful song. Otherwise you are ruining what could be a beautiful experience by not knowing how to play the instrument. Women can be instruments that can be beautiful to play with, but only if you know what you're doing. Practicing isn't fun nor exciting…	/r/seduction	18/07/16 07:54 PM
0	If you had to decide between taking in a parent who could no longer take care of themselves financially or living independently for the sake of finding a partner, which one should be done? I will have to take him in at some point. Sounds like you are worrying about a problem that doesn't exist yet.	/r/seduction	18/07/16 01:06 PM
3	UPDATE: I am going on a date with a hottest girl on my school and why you should just do it. but i can't go on a date with her because she is going with you tomorrow... :(	/r/seduction	24/06/16 09:02 PM
1	On the fourth day, he learned how to love A lot of guys on the team do drugs, but the "performance enhancing" ones are typically just uppers (adderall) and pain pills (vicotin, oxycotten) Steroid/HGH use is probably expensive, and only met like 1 or 2 dudes who i suspect use. This isn't NCAA div 1 level shit, so it's not that competitive, dispite what you would tell the rest of the team, lol	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/16 06:34 PM
3	On the fourth day, he learned how to love lol, they use pot before the game. Some of these crazy mofos even drink before the game (offensive lineman) Magic johnson would smoke weed all the time before the game. I don't disagree with the idea that smoking weed and sitting in your basement is a terrible idea, and will make you a boring person, but it's not the weed that's at fault. I'm not even condoning it. I don't smoke myself, i just don't like carpet statements of "smoke weed=lazy" Two of my closest friends used to smoke all the time,…	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/16 06:30 PM
2	On the fourth day, he learned how to love I play semi-pro football... trust me when i say everyone on the team does drugs. Most of the best atheletes in the world smoke weed.	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/16 04:50 PM
17	When I approach girls, I feel it is too obvious that I try to seduce them. How to be more subtle? And make sure to nuture her dependence afterwards	/r/seduction	23/11/15 02:09 PM
1	You cannot negotiate desire I work out a lot, have some (very BP) friends and a good job. Any tips for a slighly introverted guy to make some new friends and not have to be the loner at the bar trying to pick up chicks? Sidebar and book references would help too. I won't deny that I am afraid to lose her. I just don't know how to get to be this social butterfly to pick up girls and make guy friends has never been natural for me	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/15 06:02 PM
0	You cannot negotiate desire While this is true, she is also very devout to her beliefs. If I ever cheat on her, she would not want to see me again. I've been a cheater before. We have many mutual friends who are aware I cheated. I'm sure it would kill my social circle... That being said, I still feel like you have solid advice, however if I am able to handle the breakup in a less confrontational way I am open to ideas. Let me know what you guys think, how should I handle demoting her from LDR to plate? I need to say someth…	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 09:48 PM
0	You cannot negotiate desire If anyone has some good DREAD game tactis, other than the sidebar, specifically in a LDR/soon to be plate ideas, or anything else I should know or consider... I'm all ears.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 09:14 PM
1	You cannot negotiate desire I do not disagree with your sentiments, however, this is my hometown, I moved 3 hours away for a job, am actually in the process of trying to find a job in that city. She has visited me on a couple of occasions and it is much easier for me to come to her because it's where my family, friends and our mutual friends live, so we don't spend all of our time with just eachother when I come visit. But you are correct, I should demote her to plate, LDR are not a good idea, especially one where the GF h…	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 09:11 PM
3	You cannot negotiate desire Yeah, obviously I have given her too much control. It's hard because we both love eachother. I can not let my feeling for her disrupt my own happiness. I need to show her that my commitment is her desire. The only way to gain her desire back is to remove my commitment and see how she reacts, if the sex becomes better and go from there.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 09:07 PM
3	You cannot negotiate desire Well, to be fair, a lot of relationships start off this way. She definitely has some serious commitment issues, so I should address them by lowering my level of commitment to her, like I stated, by just doing the "I'll let you know when I'm in town" routine.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 09:04 PM
1	You cannot negotiate desire Yes, dread. I'm going to "have the talk" with her. I feel that the power in a relationship COMMITMENT for men and DESIRE for women. If I can take away sex when she wants it, it will make her desire for me go up, if I can take away my commitment to her, it will allow me to fulfill my own desires with other. Is this a good win-win strategy?	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 09:02 PM
0	You cannot negotiate desire It's funny you mention this, I was planning on doing this exact thing the last time I was going to visit. I feel it's too late in the game for right now until this situation is resolved, but I will definitely remember this as a possible resolution for the next time.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 09:01 PM