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jb3617/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:46 PM
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What's your end goal? Hookup/FWB, relationship, or friend? You have to know what you want from women you approach. Gym pickups can be hit or miss. I don't do them since you'll end up seeing them a lot and if it doesn't work out, it can get awkward.
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:37 AM
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You're outcome dependent. Shoot your shot with them and whatever happens, happens. Life is too short not to take the shot. Would you rather not take a chance or regret not taking the chance?
/r/seduction23/09/21 03:21 AM
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If you aren't exclusive, it shouldn't be any surprise she's doing that. If you had that talk about only seeing each other, then it's an issue. If it bothers you that much, it seems to me you see her as much more than weekend fun. Sounds like to me your equating sex and hanging out with her as an exclusive relationship. You have two options: you can accept the fact she's seeing multiple dudes, have fun, and don't expect anything more, or cut her loose and find someone else.
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:34 PM
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Focus on yourself and what you can do to improve your mindset and life. Sure it's hard to let go and move on, but making yourself THE priority is the best thing you can do. That person you're moving on from can't help you. You can only rely on yourself. Let go of them and worry about YOU.
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:14 PM
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A woman will never love you like you want her too. The only woman that will do that is your mother. You need your woman to respect you and she will love you for the way you make her feel. You also need to be comfortable being by yourself. When you think about it, you're all on your own anyways. You add a woman to your life because she adds some value beyond sex. Seeking a woman out purely because you feel alone isn't a good idea. Happiness comes from yourself and constantly working on yourself a…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 12:39 AM
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No it's not. NC is for your healing from a relationship break up. Attraction and respect is lost during a breakup whether it's amicable or not IMO. Any issues that caused the breakup should have been worked through by both partners if they wanted to remain together. Going NC won't resolve those issues and they will still be there if contact is reestablished at some point. You're better off putting your efforts into healing yourself and finding a new relationship to develop. I wouldn't waste your…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 11:43 AM
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You have an idea what your problem is and that's the first step to solving it. My advice would be withdraw from the dating/casual relationship scene for awhile and work on yourself and sort out your issue with female validation. I wouldn't pursue either girl at work any longer even though your contract is up soon. Stay single for awhile and get yourself sorted out.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 06:54 PM
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Clean, neat, organized is you're best bet. I had an ex remark one time that she appreciated that I had a hand towel in the bathroom next to the sink. No 'DHV' items at my place. My opinion is if you're having a woman over at your place, you're most likely getting laid and 'DHV' items aren't going to convince her anymore to sleep with you.
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:06 PM
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You can't negotiate attraction. If you shoot your shot and it doesn't work out, it's better than not shooting it at all. I don't necessarily subscribe to the abundance mindset as it's usually defined. I think the abundance mindset can be defined differently for average looking and better looking guys. The average looking guy will need to do more work than the better looking guy, but his mindset should be there are plenty of fish in the sea. The better looking guy knows he can close with a lot of…
/r/seduction27/06/21 01:46 PM
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35 here. Relationship I ended a few months ago made me take the red pill. Wish I had taken it earlier, but fuck it, onward and upward. In the gym, lost a lot of weight, building my physique, and putting in the time to better myself.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 03:09 AM
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Ignore her and leave it alone. She's just using you as an emotional tampon. You're better than that. Don't be her doormat.
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:55 PM
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You don't want to be with someone who is attracted to another guy but it's ok for you to be attracted to other women? And what other reasons are making you choose to stay with her?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 06:10 PM
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She’s smart enough not to be overt about him If you realize that she's smart enough to do that, you need to realize she's smart enough to hook up with this guy behind your back without you knowing. How can you have any self-respect for yourself staying with this girl knowing she's attracted to another dude? Next her and ghost. She already made her choice.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:58 PM
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You're over-invested in her. Sounds more like she's a LTR than a plate if you're worried about that stuff.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 11:41 AM
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Yet you're the one who's on here constantly asking for advice on what to do. Enjoy being a cuck
/r/askTRP19/06/21 11:41 AM
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Have some self-respect for yourself and cut her loose. Don't mateguard her. She's clearly making a choice and it's not in your interest. You can certainly try that, but you'll be back here telling us how you can home and found this Chad blowing out your LTRs back in your bed. Why is that going to happen? Because you told her to stay away from him. Cut her loose and save yourself the trouble bro.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 11:07 AM
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This. Start withdrawing from her on your way to ending it. Be committed to ending it though. Like Balkan said, if you have a gut feeling, follow it. Just because she fucks you, cleans and cooks for you doesn't mean she just wants you. She lives with you and will do what she needs to keep that roof over her head until she's in a position to dump you and have the neighbor take her in.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:29 AM
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For OP. Better off just cutting it off clean and moving on. Why bother dragging it out and tolerating more disrespect?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:39 PM
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Start pulling away and ghost. Your turn is over. She'll boomerang back to you once the other guy pumps and dumps her. Don't take her back when that happens.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:00 PM
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Lesson learned. Apply it moving forward.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 02:36 PM
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You need to work out those issues before you get into any kind of relationship. You'll never succeed with any woman having those problems. If you don't fix your anger, you'll be caught in a loop where you just get into relationships to hurt other people.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:32 PM
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I told my ex to go find another guy to latch onto as it wasn't working out due to things she said about her ex and caught her in a lie about him. I hard nexted her and she hated me for it. I can only assume her dramatic reaction was the result I called her out on her bullshit and she knew she was caught. Haven't heard from her since and don't plan on hearing from her ever again. I should have just ghosted her and saved a lot of trouble. Sounds to me like your turn is over and you know what you h…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:29 PM
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Be honest with yourself and ask why is it so important that you need to seek out revenge on people who made you feel like shit. Does it provide any value to you? Will it make you a better person if you go through with it? Seeking validation from revenge is not going to make you feel better about the rejection you experienced.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:23 PM
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You're seeking revenge and it will end up consuming you. It will also make you feel worse than if you just left it alone. Move on and focus your efforts on better things.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:13 PM
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How is this even a question? Your LTR straight up asked you she wants to bang another dude. End it and tell her things are just not going to work out between you but don't tell her why. No DEER. Just walk away.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:04 PM
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I'm with you OP. I was late to the party on how relationships really work. My last LTR did me in. I was fat, lazy, and felt like shit after it ended. I was a simp for sure. Said fuck it, got my ass into the gym and just started worrying about myself. Never going to go back to my old ways for a woman. It's just not worth it. You sacrifice a lot for a LTR and gain little to nothing in return. Unless she's a unicorn but we know those don't exist.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:23 AM
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Great points. I'd also like to add that it should be done solely because YOU want to do it. If you're doing it for validation, then you're just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 11:49 AM
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I know I hurt my ex when I dumped her but it had to be done. Still feel shitty about it but I'm moving on. In the gym, focusing on my career, hobbies, etc. It will take some time to heal but just keep pressing forward. Your emotions will tell you that you want her back. Don't listen to them. I doubt myself a lot but once I peel back my emotions and remind myself why I did it, it helps.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 11:27 PM
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Man up and end it. Your life is more important than any woman. If she isn't bringing happiness to your life, why waste your time with her? You're afraid of being lonely? You're lonely now in an unhappy relationship. How much worse could it get? It's been said a man really finds himself when he's alone with just his thoughts. You already know the answer to breaking the cycle...break up. All it takes is one step, so take it.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:01 PM
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Don't shame yourself over her. Take the lessons learned from the relationship and apply them moving forward. It's going to take some time to forget her. But keep busy, keep lifting, boxing, and whatever other hobbies you have. Hang out with your friends, meet some normal women like another poster said. All the energy and attention you put into her, put it into yourself. And stop giving a fuck about her. That's the hardest part. Emotions will come and go. Feel them, acknowledge them, and then dis…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 01:19 PM
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Usually signal attention whore and poor impulse control. Depending on the amount of tattoos. They're usually masculine, aggressive, and argumentative. Will claim they're independent and don't need a man to take care of them. My ex had tattoos all over, including her fingers, forearms, and behind her ear. Clothes off, and her body looked like the Sistine chapel of skin art. They weren't good tattoos either. She was also on head meds and had various other issues. She was also exactly like I descri…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 03:50 PM
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Well as they say, can't keep it in your pants, keep it in the family. I would find somebody else to plow.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 06:47 AM
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As I interpreted the book, it's not that you literally don't give a fuck about anything. It's that shit happens, you don't give a fuck that it happened, but you deal with it accordingly. I think what the author is trying to get at is that a lot of people get too wrapped up in giving a fuck that shit happened and don't focus on just dealing with the issue(s).
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:24 PM
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I fast for 12 hours a day. Usually I stop eating by 8pm. My workouts happen around 8am and I eat after that. Since I work late some nights, if I eat later, I'll make sure there's at least 12 hours from the last time I ate. Has helped with my weight loss since working out on an empty stomach forces my body to utilize my stored fat for energy.
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 05:36 PM
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She was abused by her schizo mom, tried committing suicide when she was younger, was in intensive therapy for awhile, took 3-4 head meds a day for various issues, and said that all of her ex's we're the problem and not her. Not to mention after when started hooking up she was still living with her ex-bf when she didn't mention at first. Claimed she ended her 5yr relationship with him while we were talking. She assured me it was over but I could tell it wasn't. Of course, me being a dumbass BP, I…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:30 PM
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I know the feeling. I was used as a rebound and not red-pilled so I only have myself to blame. The best part is when I finally broke it off with her, she played the victim saying how she couldn't believe everything I told her, hoped that I feel like shit for breaking up with her, etc. Never entered her mind what she was doing was wrong.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:16 PM
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Probably feels insecure about it so she's saying something to you so she feels ok about it. I would just ignore it and not bring it up with her further.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:32 PM
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If jumping off a bridge is what the influencers would do, would you do it?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:59 PM
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Steroids aren't a good idea at all IMO if you're just doing it to improve your physique. If your bodybuilding and power lifting (like Arnold) then I can see the benefits.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:15 PM
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She was using you and got pissed off you figured it out. Block and never speak to her again.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:05 PM
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Are you sure you werent seeing my ex? LOL
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:55 AM
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This. It's amazing how distant someone can be when they are sitting/lying right next to you.
/r/MGTOW202/06/21 10:17 PM
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TRP isn't just about how many women you can bang. It's a byproduct of the whole thing. At least how I understand it. Becoming the best version of yourself, focusing on your purpose, fitness, interactions with people, and how to break free of the BP conditioning you received as a child. Recently red pilled and right now I have no desire to seek out women. Eventually I will. Have been in a few LTRs and nailed enough women. But I wasn't the best version of myself and not happy in life. YMMV but tha…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:03 PM
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I understand where you're coming from but if you have to ask internet strangers their opinions, then deep down you know what the answer has to be. If it bothers you that much, that feeling is never going to go away. Been there done that. Once you get something like that in your head, it doesn't leave and you struggle with it. May not be that deep of an issue for you, but from my experience, it isn't going to last. When I started having doubts about my LTR (and she was upfront about her past), th…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 09:35 PM
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Had the same problem as you. Had the girlfriend and realized I was codependent on her. Started resenting myself and broke it off with her among other reasons. Got my ass into the gym, getting back into working on my golf game, new job where I'm pushing hard to move up fast, and fixing my weaknesses to become the best version of myself. Start off by lifting and being fit. It does wonders for your confidence and mindset. Work on yourself and think about what you need to change. Loving yourself is …
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:49 PM
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One thing I have learned is you have to embrace the IDGAF attitude when it comes to unimportant stuff. Your purpose, fitness, health, finances, and your good bros/friends are important. Women, people's perception of you, random shit that happens during the day, etc don't matter. What's my point? When you stop giving a fuck about unimportant shit you become more assertive because you don't care about anything but what YOU need. At least this is how I have perceived it. You want something from som…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:41 PM
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I follow stoicism a little bit and try to practice some of it's teachings. I don't fully subscribe to the concept but there's some similarities to RP that are helpful such as handling emotions and being the best version of yourself. I think you're on the right track about just focusing on yourself for awhile. My last relationship caused me to be red-pilled and have been reading, watching, and absorbing all RP content that I can. Been hitting the gym hard and working on my weaknesses. Just a few …
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:04 PM
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Always trust your gut. Why bother bringing it up to her? You have all the information you need and already know what decision you have to make. Next her and move on.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:53 PM
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She disrespected you by canceling at the last minute and then started nagging you about hanging out? You did the right thing by ignoring her. Don't feel bad about it. She didn't see you as a first choice and then changed her mind. Next.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:10 AM
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She's not LTR material if she wants to cheat on her BF with you. She sees you as an option to fulfill something her man isn't giving her. Smash it but don't LTR her or catch feelings.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:00 AM
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You can either wallow in your own shit or clean yourself off and get to work on improving yourself. You don't need to love a woman or get laid to feel like a man. Love yourself first. From the sound of it, you hate yourself and only you can change that. Lift, eat right, read, discipline, take care of yourself, complete your education. This is the shit that matters. This is what will make you better. You have plenty of time to turn it around. You're already aware of the problems you have. That's …
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:41 AM
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Ignore it. When you gotta go, you gotta go. If she thinks that you don't take shits and holds that against you, she isn't worth it.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:22 AM
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I wouldn't do anything with her. She's got baggage and while your small head might be saying fuck her brains out, use your big head. She's going to use you to make the BF jealous and cause a shitstorm that you don't need or want. That juice ain't worth the squeeze.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:52 PM
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Sounds exactly like my ex. I ended up dumping her eventually. The shit tests started with a vengeance immediately after we had our first major argument. She didn't like I called her out on an issue. Told me a lot of her exes were like that and she wasn't going to tolerate it with me. Threatened to leave me over the argument. Eventually got tired of the shit tests among other things and told her to go find another guy to latch onto. Of course she played the victim card and tried painting me as th…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:46 PM
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Do it. Then your story and how it didn't work out will be sidebar material.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:11 AM
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Your comment is spot on. I don't know how many posts like yours I have seen go mostly ignored by people on this sub. The whole basis of TRP is just being a better man and working on yourself. Pussy is the byproduct of that process. I think a lot of guys come here with the intention of following TRP to just get pussy and end up disappointed and disillusioned because it didn't "work" for them. They failed to read the sidebar, failed to understand that it's about improving yourself everyday, and fa…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:47 PM
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Wholeheartedly agree
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:36 AM
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My ex will most likely not be returning. I cut her off pretty hard.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 12:23 AM
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My ex had a lot of the same flags. Flamed out after 3 months. Not sure she was BPD/NPD but she always complained and acted like a victim. Even when I broke up with her, she played the victim and didn't own up to any of her shitty behavior not that I really gave a shit. She did tell me at first that she wasn't looking for anything serious and then about a month later the I love you talk happened. Quickly setup shop in my apartment (not living there) but stocked enough stuff there so it was a 2nd …
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:36 PM
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Just started my journey brother. Already see a difference and it's only been 2.5 months. Rock on and I will as well. My biggest regret is not finding this until my 30s. But you gotta start somewhere and it's never too late.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 07:05 PM
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Fuck that. Once that stuff makes it to the internet, it's permanent. You want that chance of a future employer/plate/LTR seeing that stuff? She's probably approached a lot of guys with the same question and they all turned her down so that's why she asking you. Next.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:35 PM
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Agree from first hand experience. Some of the shit that used to come out of my ex's mouth about other people and even herself was contrary to how she saw the world. She told me numerous times how she wanted her uterus cut out of her body so she didn't have to have a period every month but would only buy products that weren't tested on animals.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 11:06 AM
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I had the pleasure of 3 months with mine and I don't know how the fuck you managed 1.5 years 😐
/r/askTRP27/05/21 11:02 AM
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Protein shake after workout. Oatmeal, yogurt, and a protein bar in the morning. Lunch will be either chicken or salmon with veggies and a little bit of starch. I need more carbs as I'm more active at my job than say an office job. Dinner will be lighter like a salad and some protein. I drink 1-2 gallons of water a day. Cheat day is Saturdays but I don't overdo it.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:41 PM
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2.5 months. I started hitting the gym 6 days a week. 3 days weight training and 3 days of light cardio and ab work. Keeping my daily calories at 2300 (TDEE is 3300) so that's about 1.5-2 pounds of weight loss a week. I also fast from 8pm to 8am everyday or at least 12 hours. Combine all that with my job (restaurant business) and it's coming off fast.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:50 PM
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I was in the same boat as you brother. Almost identical relationship. Took 2 weeks of me feeling sorry for myself and then I started hitting the gym. Have lost 27 pounds so far and my physique is getting better. I was 240 and looked like shit. I'm focusing on lifting and fitness, my new job, and reading & watching TRP content. No desire to seek women right now. I just want to be left the fuck alone and work on myself. So far, I'm liking the results. Much better frame of mind, confidence increasi…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:30 PM
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Thanks for the link. Exactly what I was looking for. That site goes into greater depth about why women are the way are because of their biology.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:20 AM
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My ex was like that except for the studying as she was older. She drank with me occasionally. Told me if she went to parties she was the girl sitting in a corner reading a book. She was shit nuts. You'll find out soon enough what this girl is really like.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:42 PM
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And good for you for saying fuck it I’m out. Many men would have stuck it out so that they still have something wet to stick their dick in. Even though the sex was great, that juice wasn't worth the squeeze anymore. I'd rather jerk off than tolerate disrespect and being treated like shit. I'm grateful for the experience, otherwise I'd have never found TRP, the motivation to hit the gym and stop being a fatty, and take control of my life. I realized I sought her out for validation and that's wher…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:23 PM
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You're right I did somewhat answer my own question. I guess what I should have said, are those signs pretty indicative of BPD/NPD. I guess I'm worried about how I ended things because there's still some nice guy left in me that hasn't been completely worked out yet. Gonna take some time. My plan is to stay single but if an opportunity arises to smash, I'll be all for it. I don't want or need any relationship right now. I need to work on my game as I have next to zero experience with it.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:10 PM
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You are in control of your own life, right? Society doesn't control your life. When you care about what society thinks, it will control your life. You want girls? Do the work required to get them. You want friends? Find shit that interests you and go to meetups and meet people.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:11 PM
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Why are you seeking validation from society? Seek validation from yourself. Nobody gives a shit about you more than you. Stop giving a fuck what society thinks about you.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:04 PM
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Lift, eat right, and make it your supreme focus. I'm 6', and down to 213. I was 240 beginning of March. I still have a gut but it's getting smaller and the love handles have nearly disappeared. I have a long way to go until I achieve the way I want to look, but I'm super committed to my goals. I used to be a fat fuck who ate like shit and didn't care about their appearance. If I can do it, you can certainly do it.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 10:29 PM
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Block and move on. Not worth it. Recently in the same boat and that relationship made me take the red pill. Ex's aren't worth it.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:15 AM
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Truth. My ex is 34 and had no issue telling me about her rough childhood, suicide attempt, admitting taking different SSRIs, stating she needed to go back to therapy, had scars on the inside of her thighs and arms, etc. Always horny and the sex was great. But she had a lot of issues and accused me of using her mental health against her which I never did. Eventually told her to go find another guy to latch onto as I was done with her shit and suggested she should go back to her ex. Should have ju…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:04 PM
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On top of all that, I was a total simp as well. She was still living with her ex-boyfriend while I was banging her. Didn't tell me that until after we were hooking up. Claimed she broke it off with her ex while we talking but before we hooked up. Didn't have a strong frame and blue-pilled as all hell. Needless to say, I learned the red pill truth in the hardest fashion possible. A smart man learns from his mistakes. A wise man learns from others mistakes. Learn from my mistakes. The whole experi…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 01:43 PM
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I put my dick in crazy and she was damaged to boot. Told me all about her rough childhood and how her schizo mom used to beat her all the time. Also told me how she tried committing suicide when she was younger and took pills for psychosis/depression/anxiety. Had scars on the inside of her legs and on her arms from cutting. She was also rabid pro choice and used to tell me how she wished she could find a doctor to "cut her uterus out" so she wouldn't have a period every month. Don't want to come…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 04:02 AM
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I'm reading/watching both MGTOW and red pill sources. I appreciate your insight. I'm all set on a relationship for awhile. The work and focus on myself comes first. Although if something comes along and it's the right combo of right time and right traits, I might give it a chance. But, I'm not going to be actively searching for a relationship until I'm satisfied with my self.
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 12:19 AM
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Old enough where I wish I was more aware of the red pill earlier and before I entered into that relationship. I'm fully aware of every mistake I made (oneitis, expecting her to love me like I did her, no abundance mindset) and learned the hard way. I'm working on myself, hitting the gym, and getting in the right mindset so if I do decide to chase pussy again, I don't repeat the same mistakes.
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 10:18 PM
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Thanks. Sometimes you have to learn the hard way.
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 08:39 PM
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Everything happens for a reason. While the whole relationship was a shitty experience, it opened my eyes to the red pill/MGTOW community. It also brought me back to worrying about myself and not get hung up on women or a relationship. I wasn't in a good spot in life and she was just the icing on the cake (no pun intended).
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 08:19 PM
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I'm learning that once you get to a point where you don't give a fuck about what other people think of you (good or bad) and just do you, you're much better off than most people. I used to care a lot about what people thought of me and it led to issues. You can't control how people perceive/like you so don't pay them any mind. If what you are doing is aligned with your values and mindset, that's all that matters.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 07:48 PM
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After my last girlfriend (reason why I'm exploring MGTOW) I'm all set on sex with any woman for awhile. I may come to a point where I don't desire women like that ever again. While the sex was great and we did a lot of dirty, kinky stuff, I had to ask myself at one point how many guys she's had. Couple that with the fact she loved it raw and creampies (she had a IUD and was steadfastly against children), I'm lucky to have dodged several bullets. At the time, I thought it was the best thing, but …
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 07:33 PM
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Couldn't agree more with this
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 10:26 AM
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That was my biggest problem is my frame wasn't rock solid. I had broke it off with her once after she disrespected me but I took her back. What a fucking mistake that was.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 04:45 PM
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Sounds similar to my relationship. The sex was fantastic and the intimacy was great. But the other factors and circumstances of the relationship were not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 04:28 PM
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Christ that sounds terrible and similar to my last relationship. I had oneitis BAD and paid the price. But it opened my eyes and never going to be that guy again.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 12:53 PM
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I learned the hard way about a woman who shows interest in me and made it easy for me very recently. That relationship is what caused me to take the red pill and start figuring out going my own way. I'm in the very early stages but I'll be honest and say that I'm fortunate to have had the experience as it opened my eyes to AWALT. I got out with just emotional scars so I dodged a lot of bullets.
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 12:21 PM
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Understood. Just took the red pill recently so clearly I have a lot to learn.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 11:25 PM
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While that may be true (and I did read the post), I'm questioning why is it worth it to condition or change how you interact with them when it's known that they're not going to change no matter what you do? What's the point and endgame of all this work? I'm sure you're aware of the hypergamy of women and no matter how much they trust you, no matter what they say, they can and will be who they are. I feel OP is talking about a unicorn that rarely or doesn't exist. IMO, it's not worth the effort u…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 04:50 PM
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There's no conditioning of women and I wouldn't waste my time attempting to do anything of the sort. You're not going to change women and how they behave. You may get them to submit to you, but they won't change who they are for you. Example: my most recent ex said how her previous ex's we're no good for her and hurt her (not physically). After dating her, I can see why. She's a train wreck and has a shitty outlook on life and always plays the victim. No amount of "conditioning" would change her…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 04:21 PM
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I agree with you on the lack of communication and willingness to compromise. That's what led to the demise of my relationship. I didn't sink immense amounts of money into the relationship. But I'd rather have been more judicial about what I did spend on my partner because it the end, it didn't matter to them, no matter what they told me about how much they appreciated it.
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 11:58 PM
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Communication is not a resource in a relationship, it's a requirement. Relationships cost money and resources (mainly your time). I think about how much money I spent on my recent short term relationship and how much time I wasted on someone who wasn't deserving of either. I'm recently red-pilled because of that relationship. You're better off putting your money and resources into yourself and going your own way.
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 11:47 PM
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I reached out to a friend who works out a lot and I'm using his program for the gym. You can do the same or start off on your own program. Go slow at first until you get more comfortable. Also, don't worry about people's perception of you at the gym. Everyone there had to start somewhere just like you. I also researched what and how to eat while working out to lose weight and maintain progress in the gym. I've lost nearly 25 pounds in 2 months. I cut out drinking anything but water (sometimes dr…
/r/MGTOW213/05/21 02:52 PM
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Instantly made my day better seeing this. The comments are really eye opening.
/r/MGTOW223/04/21 07:29 PM
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Felt this a lot. My last relationship made me realize how wrong I've been about women. It hurt like hell, but now I'm red-pilled. Made a lot of mistakes, but I'm going to learn from them and never repeat them.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 04:06 AM
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I've been there. Quite recently in fact. Finally got tired of being treated like shit and told her to fuck off. Now I'm focusing on myself. In the gym, eating better, and have taken the red pill. Disgusted with myself how blue pill I was for the longest time. The only good thing to come out of my recent relationship ending was now I see how wrong I've been about everything. She was fucking crazy and on 3 or 4 different meds for anxiety/depression. Fucked like a mink and did all sorts of dirty sh…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 02:06 PM
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