| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 244 | Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs? | Lifestyle | jbsIV | /r/seduction | 30/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 8 | Do you think it's possible to have an active social life in your 30's? If so, how? | jbsIV | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 06:07 PM | |
| 1 | Do their social media habits mean anything? | Lifestyle | jbsIV | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 10:18 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a PedestalI just assume everyone is married or in a relationship. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | what is the ideal physique for attracting women?And be 6ft+ tall. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 06:01 PM |
| 4 | lol I asked ChatGPT to give a plan on meeting women. It gave me this...See I never was good at The Sims and just ended up killing everyone in the game. Lol | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 01:04 AM |
| 3 | lol I asked ChatGPT to give a plan on meeting women. It gave me this...Great, now ask ChatGPT how to actually hookup with them and get into relationships without being seen as a creep. | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | A study by DatePsychology found that 45% of men aged 18–25 have never approached a woman in person for a date.Except a lot of women still perpetuate this. This is the sad truth unless you are what she finds attractive. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:14 PM |
| 6 | What makes you prefer cold approaching? Is it because bars aren’t your thing, or maybe you don’t have many friends? Or have dating apps not been working for you? What's your story?Makes you look confident and thins your competition because most men are scared of women IRL I’m one of them. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Pursue without “chasing”?At some point you do have to make a move and get together with her, right? | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 05:19 AM |
| 12 | Struggling even with women under my "league".. How to find out what women expect you to be?The more you withhold physical touch, the more she will touch you. That’s the problem, women won’t touch me in general and can’t get to that part. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:12 AM |
| 37 | Struggling even with women under my "league".. How to find out what women expect you to be?That’s what I don’t understand about the game. At some point someone (usually the guy) has to make a move and actually get together, right? | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Safety tips on inviting girls over or going to their place.I’d like to know the answer to this as well. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to approach a girl that has a boyfriend if she’s not married?How do you know who is single? | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 04:04 AM |
| 4 | Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do?And messages too. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 03:29 AM |
| 5 | At the gym it’s happened twice now a girl and me look at each other a lot for multiple days I sense she might be single and seeking attention or something but don’t approach her then weeks later she shows up with a boyfriend probably a guy that approached her at the gymCan confirm, this happened to me as well. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Looks do matter, pictures are the first thing you see on a dating profile. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Girl at Gym Etiquette?Your regular gym is a dangerous place cause you don’t want to get a rep of guy who’s only there for hit on girls. I’m confused about this, would it be better to have a rep where you don’t talk to anyone and just do the thing or be friendly and talk to everyone (men and women) that you see regularly? | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 06:41 PM |
| 3 | How did #metooo effect your dating life and approach to women?I got accused of hitting on a girl when I was not. The same thing happened to me and the crazy thing is that was in my bowling league. A couple of younger girls (early 20s) joined a league team and introduced themselves like everyone does so I assumed we were all friends there. I went over to just say hi and talk about bowling a couple of times like everyone else. No intention of asking them out or anything.🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Where do most of you find girls to meet or cold approach?Why couldn’t it be at places you frequent? People always suggest hobbies as a great way to find someone to date. If get into a hobby and become a regular, chances are I’ll start seeing the same people at the location. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Where do most of you find girls to meet or cold approach?People still go to the mall? | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Need help closing girls that showed interest. How to set up date?Why do women seem to like talking in person or are very responsive online right before it feels like pulling teeth to get them out? | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Do you pay on the first date?I’ve had some women flake out after what I thought was a good coffee date and would have liked to see them again. How do you keep them interested and escalate things after the coffee date since it’s usually during the day in a public space? | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Feeling stuckHow do you escalate things if it’s just women you see around town? Do you try that after one good convo or seeing them multiple times? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 01:02 AM |
| 19 | The Mindset That Attracts Women Instantly”She’s too hot for me”. This isn’t exactly how I think. Sure I recognize she is attractive but I’ll always (correctly?) assume she has a boyfriend or talking to multiple guys. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Makeup equivalent for menHow are you supposed to dress if you’re older than 30? It feels like the trendy stuff younger celebrities wear would look silly on me and don’t think I could pull it off well. At the same time, I’m not old enough to wear button up and slacks just to go to Walmart. It seems like there’s not a lot of inspiration for middle age. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get LaidSF Bay, I've tried going to trivia nights before but everyone there already had their teams. I felt like an outsider and wasn't really a fan. It would be better if I can find someone to go with. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get LaidI don’t drink and I’m not into the bar/club scene. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 01:18 AM |
| 7 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get LaidIf you want to get you laid you need to adjust your lifestyle to get a few hours of socialization everyday How do you do this when you work full time? I don’t get home until 7pm after factoring in the commute and picking up food. By that time most places are already starting to close. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Your Appearance Isn't The ProblemYou’re part of the problem. That’s not how dating is supposed to work and glad I’m not with someone like you. I’m all for doing things like that for someone I care about but not for the reason of getting “promoted” to boyfriend or husband. This is NOT work or a job interview. It goes both ways. 🙄 | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Your Appearance Isn't The ProblemHow do we get to the point of “adding value” if we haven’t kissed or hooked up? Those things (car/resume, etc.) seem to be like something a boyfriend/girlfriend would do. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Besides "clubs" or "bars" where are the most appropriate places to approach women? How would one go about it?I’ve had some success talking to women at my exercise class (social setting) since we see each other regularly in the lobby. Still no dates from it yet though. | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Besides "clubs" or "bars" where are the most appropriate places to approach women? How would one go about it?This is why I don’t approach with the intentions of dating in public anymore. Too much can go wrong and be seen as creepy especially for an average dude. | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Asking out a girl that is seeing someone elseIsn’t that every girl when you’re single? 🤔 | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Modern Dating Basics: What Every Beginner Needs to Know in 5 MinutesNo | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 09:31 PM |
| -1 | Modern Dating Basics: What Every Beginner Needs to Know in 5 MinutesHigh volume means you can speak and interact with dozens of women of week. Just because you can, it doesn’t mean that you should. Be very careful with this or it can end up making the people around you uncomfortable which is what you don’t want. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 07:33 PM |
| 22 | How is the dating world after 30?Work on expanding your social circle. Please explain how after 30? Everything I’ve tried is filled with married people and couples. As the only single guy if I do or say(talk too much) something wrong or even just look at someone the wrong way it can make people uncomfortable.🤷♂️ Besides that, most people our age aren’t looking for friends. They already have their group. I don’t really know what to do? | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Why women don't answer back on tinder no matter if they have matched with you ?That’s not even counting people in real life. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Is there a women equivalent to this sub?The most your typical female is willing to do if they see a man the like from across the bar (or street) is flash a brief smile at him. This is what confuses me about dating. There are women I see around town that will smile and even wave at me. But after talking to them a couple of times, I’ll find out about a BF or husband. It seems like married people seem to be more interested in me for whatever reason? 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 03:06 AM |
| 3 | How Attraction Works.I go to the gym daily and know weight loss. You can’t target specific body parts like your face without having surgery. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 07:58 PM |
| 6 | How Attraction Works.How do you slim down your face? 🤔 | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Approach via Spotify WrappedAsk her to go to a local bar that has live music. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Approach via Spotify WrappedPeople get reported for talking on a social app? 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Radio silence after first dateI’ve had this problem too. As a guy, how do you be more flirty or sexual with them? | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Sober seductionIsn’t it awkward being around people that are drunk and/or high when you’re sober? | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | No sexual experience: How do I handle sexual conversations in group settings or with peers.I wasn’t crying. Lol Just pointing out the flaw in your statement. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | No sexual experience: How do I handle sexual conversations in group settings or with peers.The big difference though is that the Jonas Brothers are very famous musicians. I think women would react very differently if the average men told them that they were virgins. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 04:06 AM |
| 11 | People who get laid,how?Ok but how do you get them to actually agree to go on the dates? | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 06:12 PM |
| 5 | The “game” has been good to me! I’ve had my share of gf’s, fwb’s and one night stands. Here’s my take on it!Same here or they are glued to their phone probably texting their boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | First approach at the gymThey could say the same thing about whatever activity they’re doing. Where else are we supposed to go to hit on them? | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:05 PM |
| -1 | Someone who doesn’t have a social circle or many friends for that matter. How can one meet women outside of online means?Go do it and have fun doing it make friends meet people meet partners Single guys without kids are supposed to be friends with someone else’s wife or girlfriend? That feels super weird. | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 07:00 PM |
| 11 | Someone who doesn’t have a social circle or many friends for that matter. How can one meet women outside of online means?The problem with that is I’m older (let’s say out of school) and everyone is already married with kids which I can’t relate to. No one has time to make and spend time with friends. How do you make friends when you’re older? | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Fitness FlirtationShe literally just has to make eye contact with a dude to get his number. Lol | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 07:42 AM |
| 10 | "Hangout as friends" and "not looking to date" from cold approachThere are billions of women on the planet. I’ve never understood why people make this statement. While technically true, how many of those billions are actually single, in our age range and live within a reasonable distance? | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 02:11 AM |
| 2 | How to seduce in my 40sOr they just don’t tell you. I’ve noticed that as well. A lot of women won’t even list their relationship status online or post pictures of him.They won’t go public until marriage. You can find clues on IG though. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 10:24 PM |
| 2 | How to seduce in my 40sWomen always have a boyfriend I’m a male in my 40s and this is my problem. Every woman I meet and try talking to has a boyfriend or is already married. How am I supposed to get them out on dates if they are with someone else? | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Do this if she doesn't respond!So we’re just supposed to keep texting someone who clearly isn’t interested enough to even respond? | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Do this if she doesn't respond!I’m currently dealing with this situation and it sucks. Moving on is easier said than done especially when you met and spent time together. How do you just let her go? | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | The biggest texting mistakes YOU makeIf the conversation starts off well and it seems like we have fun hanging out together, what would make a girl stop responding all of the sudden in the first place? | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How Often do you Reset Your Dating App Profiles?I've got a similar question, do women profiles start looking the same after you've been on the apps for a long time to anyone else or is it just me? | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs?Are you supposed to talk with them before and after class? | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs?Yeah I don’t drink and it’s hard to just go in and cold approach people. If I’m not drinking or talking with someone it feels super awkward just sitting there, what am I supposed to do? | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 07:17 PM |
| 13 | Suddenly, I have a lots of female friends... Good thing or?Not OP but in a similar situation. I know some attractive women around town that I'd like to date. They always seem excited to see me and will talk/hangout with me. Whenever I try to get them out on a date, I get turned down and they say we're only friends (not a bad thing). How do I create more sexual energy? Am I supposed to flirt early and often with everyone even though they may have a BF? | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's possible to have an active social life in your 30's? If so, how?Where do you meet young girls? I don't drink and not a fan of going to the bars/clubs. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 06:12 AM |
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