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| 7 | Here's what I've been doing on Tinder to get a casual fling every couple of months.But drinks is cool? | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 09:02 PM |
| 37 | Here's what I've been doing on Tinder to get a casual fling every couple of months.I'm curious too, it would seem to me like casual hook up material | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.You've put much effort into approaches, now put effort into making yourself approachable. Get in shape, learn to dress, develope a passion. Do these cool things for yourself, knowing that the make you more attractive as a collateral effect. Best of luck. | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What if the Difference was 15KGDamn good point | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Gym and dietOP is right. Source: got in shape prospects increased enormously | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...Really useful perspective, thanks! | /r/seduction | 25/09/20 03:28 PM |
| 8 | Just a post for the ladies of r/seductionPeople be downvoting, when you shit is comedy gold 😂 | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 7 | Just a post for the ladies of r/seductionUltra lol | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Have A Bigger Purpose Than Women And Getting LaidSome of the best advice on here, 100% true | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Have A Bigger Purpose Than Women And Getting LaidHe did, he went into a discussion of semantics (what is purpose?) Where as your solid advice was: have a goal/plan/meaning/purpose greater than getting laid, and you will get laid. Myopic, short-sighted, not seeing the forest for the trees- I'll say it several different ways so he understands his misunderstanding. | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Muted Girl [18] I Just Want A Boyfriend...Tbh, You sound perfect | /r/seduction | 21/08/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Parents have ruined my chances of an actual relationship with a girl for the third time today.Best of luck to you | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Parents have ruined my chances of an actual relationship with a girl for the third time today.But most importantly, think about where you already are. Most guys here aren't worried about getting rejected by parents, they can't even talk to the girls to begin with. For you, the hard part is over, keep kicking ass | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Parents have ruined my chances of an actual relationship with a girl for the third time today.Think about it- parents want someone who will be able to support their kid, with this in mind, to win over parents, show them, not hanging out with the homies or just playing videos games not giving a fuck, but the side of you that shows your potential for success, the side of you that says, yea, I will be able to give your daughter a good life, I got this. | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 04:49 PM |
| 5 | Parents have ruined my chances of an actual relationship with a girl for the third time today.Listen kid, imma give it to you straight, there's the bad news, the good news, and the great news. First off, yea, it's natural for parents to be protective and picky. Anyone who cares would be the same what. So, what's the issue- context. When all those parents met you, what was the context? Were you dressed like a grunge band member, holding your skateboard? Yea, no. Those parents probably thought, fuck that, this kids gonna land our daughter on Teen Mom before she graduates high school. Now, … | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Too many people are missing the pointExcellent point | /r/seduction | 30/07/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?Yes, we're on the same page! I agree that internal factors are extremely important, may in fact make or break the relationship. It's almost a cliche that people get into a relationship because of initial, superficial attraction, only to find out, wow, they're an asshole. However, the opposite is also true: imagine you have someone with the exact qualities you described: empathetic, good listener, great communicator, and intelligent. In fact, I'm sure there are many people like that. However, I'm… | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?Reading to much into the question though? We're in R/seduction it's obvious he's talking about getting his foot in the door, not a relationship, duh | /r/seduction | 18/07/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?But I don't have trouble dating, I'm in a long term relationship, so that's an unfounded judgement. But, you're right, I was too quick to judge. To be honest, as soon as your list started with, "empathy, good listener" I thought, bullshit. Because, looking at many people that attract lots of partners, those two qualities are the last ones you find out about. Here's this poor shmuck asking about how to attract women and you give him that advice? Thats just misleading. This is the cold, hard truth… | /r/seduction | 18/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?Actually, I can. the qualities you listed are important for a long-lasting relationship, and are indeed, very important. But he asked about attraction. The last time you swiped right, or started flirting with a guy upon meeting him, it wasn't because your "empathy meter" went off. It was because of something superficial, so yea, your answer shows that either, you didn't understand the question, or you were morally posturing, or self-deluded. | /r/seduction | 18/07/20 06:18 PM |
| -7 | Besides confidence, what qualities attract women?These type of comments, which don't even mention looks or success, I know come from someone who is fooling themselves, and who would, in practice, completely ignore the qualities they listed out as important, in favor of the ones they refused to acknowledge, e.g. looks, success | /r/seduction | 18/07/20 03:07 PM |
| 7 | What Jehovah's Witnesses can teach you about approaching womenThis is fucking brilliant, thank you for such a fresh and insightful perspective! | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 05:06 PM |
| 20 | Dating apps are bullshitTinder gives you a simple and effective way to communicate with single women in your area. How you use this tool and the degree of success you have using it is entirely up to the user. There is no reason to discard a viable option for whatever your goal is. | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 07:16 PM |
| 31 | I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do itI'm 5'7" and I've had girls approach me in a variety of situations. I think you're confused about what the approach looks like, because unless you're Dan bilzerian, and even then , it rarely a walk up to you, "hey let's fuck", it's a lot more subtle. Example: I went to a concert by myself on a Monday after work, my gf couldn't go. Small venue, indie band, great music, sweet vibe. I sit in a couch area close to the front and am just enjoying the music. A girl (who also came by herself) come over … | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?Don't you, by definition, kind of take yourself out of the market when you have a gf/monogamous relationship? How do you not take yourself out and keep the gf? | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 07:54 AM |
| -1 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?The plot thickens! If you're incel, you aren't getting any by definition, right? Monogamy by definition is investing in one other person, but using the suffix itis pathologizes it, so, when is it right to invest in one? | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?But if you start a relationship, are you automatically doing the one-itis? | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 03:54 AM |
| 4 | Now that I’ve been dating this girl, girls have been hitting me up left right and center. It’s like they’re a magnet to things they can’t have easily?One-itis?????? | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 3 | when most girls are taller than you how do you even date?Champ advice right here | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 05:07 AM |
| 1 | 100 approaches in a month - end of the monthLol | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | 100 approaches in a month - end of the monthReally enlightening, thanks | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | 100 approaches in a month - end of the monthDoes it really increase for men at 30? How is that possible? | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 05:26 PM |
| 2 | 100 approaches in a month - end of the monthI haven't, elaborate? | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 03:52 PM |
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