jcjavo Archive

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3	Men 21+ how to keep up with your dating life when you work 50 hours a week I actually find it easier, girls are into a guy that has his life together and his own things to do. I talk to girls at the grocery store walking at the park on the weekend, maybe at the restaurant I choose to have a late night dinner alone in after a long day in the office. Don't be creepy, be sincere, don't be afraid to just say hi, for me it's pretty easy to gauge when a girl responds with hello if she will be open to conversation or not. Smile and be kind. It honestly is the way to do all li…	/r/seduction	12/03/16 11:01 PM
4	Would you date yourself if you were a girl? There is an internet you know... Also, my mom always said only boring people get bored. I'm not trying to diss you. I am just saying it because even when there isn't technically something going on it doesn't mean you can't create something. There is a common misconception that activities take money, but really they just take time... Draw, learn to play the bongos on a box, go outside and run, go on a hike, window shop at Barnes and nobles, teach yourself magic tricks on YouTube.. I think you get…	/r/seduction	04/12/15 10:57 PM
1	Have you ever chosen to be in the friend zone? Um, I had a similar situation in the city I moved too. We hooked up several times without having the conversation of relationship or not. The chemistry was there and I personally knew if I didn't take advantage of the rising tension then we would of become great friends and it would of never happened. After several times she started getting a bit attached so I had the conversation with her that I was having a lot of fun with her but wasn't looking for a relationship and that I wanted to keep hav…	/r/seduction	01/09/15 08:29 PM
2	I have one week left in Europe, it will be a year total. I haven't got laid in this time (still virgin) despite countless really close calls, and I have a lot of concerns that the culture back home won't give me the same opportunities, detailed further (click here) I just got back from Eastern Europe, sziget festival, plus other countries and stuff.... Let me tell you this... A hookup is a hookup, no Hungarian is better than the Italian or the Slovenian or Croatian. Seems cool and interesting because of the novelty of being with a different girl from a different country, but once you stop talking and start touching, it's the same	/r/seduction	30/08/15 03:52 PM
2	So this happened last-night. Feedback? Agreed, don't waste energy. I mean a victim in the sense that she wants to feel like she didn't have much of a say in what was going on so that she doesn't herself feel guilty of her actions. Of course this is total BS, but she will tell herself what she wants to hear to feel better about it.	/r/seduction	21/05/15 09:08 PM
6	So this happened last-night. Feedback? Sounds just a tad aggressive. I think by taking her to the bedroom you made her feel out of place and even more self conscious about her choices.I think you could have had more success had you stayed in the living room and escalated naturally into it. Sounds like she had never done something of the sort and you should have picked up on this with her telling you that you shouldn't try anything funny. I think it's salvageable, she seems like the type that wants to be told she did nothing wrong and…	/r/seduction	21/05/15 04:47 PM
3	Houston Liar My thoughts as an inner loop person myself.	/r/seduction	31/03/15 04:11 PM
1	Throwaway - I'm fucked up inside me. I went to Asia alone, south America too, long backpacking trips.. and Europe with one other friend. I am somewhat affluent, so I could have stayed in hotels, eaten at the best restaurants, and hired private cars and tours in most of these countries, but I didnt. And I think that's what got me out of the funk you are in. I lived life so comfortably that doing something so naturally like connecting with people in general made me awkward. For me it wasn't about traveling to see new places, it was t…	/r/seduction	01/02/15 04:54 PM
1	How should I ask a coworker out? I really wouldn't recommend this.. but for a summer job ill tell you how I handled it once. Assuming you've got some confidence in you and already got a basic platonic relationship established... Invite her out after work for dinner, or on a lunch break, or coffee break, anything, you can use the excuse of work and the need to get out of the setting. Don't insinuate a date or anything, at this point your just establishing a non professional relationship. I was personally working as a swim coach …	/r/seduction	26/06/14 03:09 PM
1	How do I approach this girl that I'm head over heels for? This realization would is ultimately best for your situation. Now that you have made it, treat your outing conventionally. Be confident in yourself, take genuine interest in her wants and needs, and find common ground to relate on. I am curious to how it turns out, let us know an update	/r/seduction	26/06/14 02:47 PM
3	What's the most appropriate way of stopping a girl walking if it looks like she has somewhere to be? You just do it. Approach from the side because from behind is creepy and Scarry. Get her attention before arriving to her side. Keep her pace and introduce yourself, then its a typical game, if she is flattered or into it you an normally slow the walk to a complete pause by matching her rhythm and then slowing it yourself (most people follow this pattern). If she quickly dismisses you then leave her alone , you tried	/r/seduction	26/06/14 02:40 PM
2	How do I join a new social circle with more girls than guys? Agreed,I just like cooking for people. But the amount of guys and girls who think they are my best friend after I've made them one meal is incredible.	/r/seduction	26/06/14 02:22 PM
1	How do I join a new social circle with more girls than guys? First, figure out why your burned those bridges and learn from those mistakes. A lot if girls get lonely themselves and are a lot less bitter than men and often just need time to forget mistakes. That being said I would attempt trying to rebuild those bridges with the girls you know, maybe a "hey, I just wanted to see what you've been up to" text will do the trick. If you insist on starting anew, I've often found the mall is a good place to find girls to befriend. I also sometimes go to a movie …	/r/seduction	26/06/14 02:20 PM
1	How do I join a new social circle with more girls than guys? People who derive such nonsense without any real information are ignorant. I am not attacking you, I am genuinely trying to give some advice on the matter to help you. I think you need to work on yourself before you start your attempt to make a group of friends with both guys and especially girls. Chicks see right through those insecurities (which are your own) and don't find them very attractive. Unless you live in a super conservative neibhorhood , I would change your approach, and regardless,…	/r/seduction	26/06/14 02:07 PM
1	Does anyone here "suit up", if so how does it impact your game? Sometimes, it definitely just improves your overall confidence. Depending on the type of person you are approaching though it 'an have a huge backlash	/r/seduction	13/05/14 04:13 PM
1	[FR]Broke out of the friendzone, F-Close. Timing is a bitch Agreed bro. This isn't something I would high five. Sounds like just another boy thinking with the wrong head.	/r/seduction	23/04/14 07:42 PM
11	Depressed and confused...I honestly have no idea how people hook up, find girlfriends, get married etc. As I like to say, "it is hard to get lonely when you are friends with yourself" I genuinely like to spend time with myself.. and I mean sure, like other humans I also long to be liked and accepted, but the importance of this isn't as strong as me being OK with myself. I found that as I became more and more certain of what I wanted, and of myself, I grew more confident. This made me a more attractive person to those around me and aided me in my search for true friendships. I am still waiting on t…	/r/seduction	17/04/14 03:43 PM
1	Any older virgins successfully turned it around? I lost it at 23 .. its no big deal dude, I lost it to a girl I was in a serious relationship with. Of course I sucked.. I mean relatively.. but not as bad as it could have been.. she really cared for me so it didn't matter, we got better at it together and no big deal.. We aren't together anymore, but it definitely wasn't the sex that brought us apart, if anything it is what kept us together a little bit too long. Tl;Dr don't be afraid of sucking, its common	/r/seduction	08/04/14 03:32 AM
1	I see so many cute guys (strangers) daily, how do I start a conversation with them? You checking them out? They checking you out back? Give them a wink.. it will invite them to talk to you.. or eye contact and smile... Be careful how you approach, I know its college and you just want to experience new things and have fun, but if you are flirty with everyone you may not gain the best reputation.. unless you want that kind of attention.. Idk... A good way to strike conversation is just asking "hey do you know were this class meets" and just make it up.. you can say you just want …	/r/seduction	31/03/14 05:49 AM