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LTRjcob-ross/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:18 PM
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Sad story. I don't wish that kind of regret to anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 11:58 PM
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Her priority is to make me feel like a man and make my life better. Takes care of herself and has her own hobbies. Likes kids but knows when to step aside. Her man is the priority and then children because she knows he can handle them all. The other stuff I see here is just for screening purposes. Kinda redundant to mention I believe.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:51 PM
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I discreetly hand my card to him and he pays the bill... In short. You're making him feel like a man. Very cool.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 03:43 PM
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But he went outside the relationship without being honest. Not a RP move Manipulative hamstering and trying to make someone feel better by not seeing reality. 1) she's 27, what was she doing all this time? (ex CC rider?) 2) he can do whatever the fuck he wants and has no obligation to explain himself to anyone (he said he was seeing other women and that he would like to continue to see her too. Here is that honesty.) 3) OP will have very hard time looking for a good man at her age One solution i…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 03:21 PM
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I wish there was more of those with low single digit count while in their twenties. Anyway, to OP: Can you somehow with your magical brain power influence others? You can't control shit outside of yourself so don't waste your energy. You'll only suffer. And that is stupid. Obviously you're hurting to some degree. Do you want her to die alone and miserable? Will you feel better if that happens? Will you feel like shit if she finds her "prince charming" or whatever? That looks like someone other t…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 09:16 AM
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I like to believe it's biological. Woman who fucks around communicates that she'll abandon you and your children. Inverse can be true but.. heavy social conditioning. Another thing to consider is the fact that women are much more selfish in today's society. (entitlement to good feelings and your sole responsibility to provide them and again if anything goes wront its the man's fault so give me half of your shit coz you don't deserve me. My friends agree too.)
/r/askTRP07/09/14 09:08 AM
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I agree. ... being the best partner possible ... this is the key. My point is that worrying acomplishes nothing at best. It is a logical point of course. Seeing emotional arguments is perfectly understandable. It also doesn't make sense from the male point of view.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 06:30 PM
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(...) and hope for the best. (...) I'm often baffled seeing this. There is really nothing to have hope for. Every normal guy will tend to choose a woman that makes his life easier and comfortable. She will be playing the reformed nice girl. But he already knows what's what. Will you be playing the butthurt, jealous, annoying one? It's his decision, you cannot control anyone except yourself. If you try, you'll only suffer (you are right now). By worrying, you're only giving her a better chance. S…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 04:47 PM
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Well, I always thought it's more about the past, count and acts (like MFM). Have you tried guiding him slowly towards more slutty stuff? "Can you please xxxx? I'd like to try it." Pulling hair, holding hands by wrists behind your back, and so on. I'd take very small steps.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 08:01 PM
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If she's gonna cheat, it can be with you or with someone else this. But also: Where I live it's normal to mateguard. Break a jaw/knee once and other guys will think twice about making advances on your girl. Ofc the girl is nexted anyway, but sending a message to other guys/women is more important. If you let others do whatever they want, they will.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:05 AM
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Or: "Can you xxxx please." Said on autopilot counting on positive answer. Often said as a statement, without eye contact. Example: "Can I borrow your car?" While she's putting on her shoes, car keys already in hand.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 05:56 PM
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Children recognize that you speak to them differently (even 3 year olds). Not in "adult" way. It's actually stunning for them when you talk with them like an adult. Almost nobody does that. I cringe when I see some fathers cater to their children almost begging them to do whatever they want them to do etc. So no. You don't talk to babies in a baby voice. You don't bend backwards for anybody.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:46 PM
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Wow, don't know how to help you. It seems you're focusing on all the bad things in your past (past negative). If it's so easy that you're going through the motions on autopilot, try going more bb behaviour to see what happens. (that's what I'd do) Good luck.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 09:59 AM
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Ofcourse you feel like a total bitch when you let her disrespect you pretty much non-stop. You know what to do.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 11:27 PM
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Agree. Also: I gave her a kiss for what? shitty behaviour? She should be marking you, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 10:58 PM
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I'd go up to 3-4. But if I find out she'd put out easier for someone before -> plate/next.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 10:46 PM
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One of my best mates is a nurse. You wouldn't believe how much pussy he's swimming in. There is absolutely no fucking reason to feel feminine/beta.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 10:41 PM
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He is a "sneaky fucker" beta orbiter horning in on his friend's GF you and BF should cut him out. Yup. Arranging 1 on 1 meeting on a day he knows your SO is working. Shit. That is vomit worthy. I admire your SO's reaction. I would probably went ballistic oh his ass.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 10:35 PM
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My humble opinion: (really, how disrespectful was that?) It is, that should be enough. The one thing that strikes me is the fact, that you have to come up with so much .... strategy and "stuff". Would he die or go crazy if you told him that you don't appreciate his advances and constant disrespectful behaviour towards your SO?
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 09:28 PM
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Hi, personally I have utmost respect for women who refuse to put out, even for months. (ofc only those with very low count) After meeting her family I would take some time to really consider my options, do some type of background check and consult lawyers. Depends what you want. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 08:56 PM
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Seeing you downvoting my kind of answers makes me think you're looking for a reason to leave her. Just do it then, you don't need anyone's permission.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:09 PM
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Depends on delivery. I'd take it as a playful intro to flirting.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:32 PM
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Inspiring read. Good luck with the babies and stay sharp.
/r/ThankTRP30/08/14 10:12 PM
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UAE/czech republic/slovakia
/r/askTRP30/08/14 03:35 PM
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Have you tried telling him he can do whatever he wants with your body?
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 12:25 PM
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holy shit. And I thought I had a hard life. Hats off sir.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:05 PM
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Here's my take on this: woman's job is to test you thoroughly (your mental strength). Saying "no don't do that" is a potential weakpoint for her to test. She'll just hamster and hamster till she says to herself "fuck it, let's see what happens" Total bipolar sluts will test weak points very fast (even the "let's see if me cheating on him throws him off" test = pure hypergamy) Nicer girls actually have morals. Kind of. "I'd like to get to know you. No games, no bullshit" communicates weakness. (p…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:44 PM
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I (kind of) agree. It pops up as a red flag and I watch if it happens again/too often or with other red flags. Its ok as a "fitness test" of sorts but it reminds me of all the bitchy 5-7s hiding their insecurities behind the mask of empowerment. Being nice but screening the man heavily yields better results in my case atleast (i like it).
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 09:33 PM
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This is pure gold IMO. Just don't buy into the idea of him "chasing" too much. Some men might see it as a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 08:49 PM
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She is thinking of cheating on you. Or it was just a fucking comfort test and she's actually scared of him cheating.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:41 PM
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You sure it wasn't a comfort test? Imo it was and you missed it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:30 PM
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This. I can't tell you how much pussy has been pulled by guys not afraid to ask, ready to learn, from a possition of respect. Literally nobody in bigger groups does that out of fear of looking stupid. Just ask, listen, make a decission, test it out and repeat if necessary.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:18 PM
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While I agree I also believe this is not a reason to immediately dump him. Keep working your part and see if he steps up to his is my recommendation. Jumping ship and joining CC/or whatever is a bullshit proposition IMO and I hate the idea with the fire of a thousand fucking suns. Nobody on this planet is perfect. Maybe he'll crumble, maybe he won't. Keep a possitive attitude.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 09:20 PM
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Also the question of his "RedPillness" is totally ridiculous IMO. He is who he is, the only question is whether or not you want to invest in him (i'd bet my left ball on a yes in this case and for now) The rest is just emotional manipulation of his image you have for him. Throw that shit away.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 08:23 PM
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:) a little bit of overthinking based on other comments i guess being more attractive is new, so mentioning other men hitting on you is ok as long as it's not used as a weapon. Your reaction seems very good to me personally. LDR situation sucks, planting thoughts of cheating etc by trying to reassure him is not really productive so... visit him? (if possible, i'd like that any time)
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 08:19 PM
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One possible explanation: There are guys who target less attractive girls because they're scared a hotter one will leave/cheat. There are quite a few of them actually. I wouldn't recommend flirting with other men. And if someone hits on you in front of your SO, take it as a golden opportunity to display loyalty.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 07:15 PM
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I would record her, consult a lawyer or two and then decide. She's got you by the balls and she knows it.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 05:28 PM
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Holy shit. And you put up with that? I'm from mid/eastern europe. Not so many crazy women here.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:44 PM
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Hi, here's my point of view. It's shitty. But: If a woman cheats - it's degrading for a man. It knocks him down from the captain position for ever. And I mean permanently. Not so the other way around. It hurts. But the response (western) is learned behaviour. "Usually" woman will only get hornier. Decide for yourself. Problem might be if you hold it over his head too much and control him in this way.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 02:44 PM
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IMO, virgin knows shit about the world and men, I fully support (sensible) arranged marriage(and variations of) since discovering TRP.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 03:40 PM
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As a guy I can say that an image of a long-haired woman in a nice dress, baking a cake while listening to heavy metal is quite appealing to me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 11:40 PM
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3-some + 45 guys... That's not the mother of my children for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:41 PM
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Go against and overcome any fear or conflict you are facing no matter your feelings. Remove everything you can't say no to from your life. That is what being a man is for me. I don't care about TRP anymore.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:13 PM
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It is, when I hear something like this, my body immediately translates it to something like "tell me you're my b*tch". (I'm amplifying here) It always starts with something ridiculously small and escalates. And then she'll push and push untill the man breaks. It needs to be stopped right in the beginning.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 08:57 AM
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My point of view is this: If the rule (boundary) wasn't laid down. It doesn't exist. In 90% of LTR I never head "I don't want you to sleep with other women." or "We're exclusive". There are no rules. Only consequences of your actions. Every rule laid upon you by society is there only to keep you docile and others "safe".
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:47 PM
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You're in a typical male situation here. Just be stoic, diffuse fitness tests, A&A/D&M or ignore and so on. You become emotional when you want something from the other party (you want to be friends with your sister). Being a bitch and disrespectful is her choice. She's basically saying it's her or your SO. Just verbalizing it is enough to difuse the situation most of the time. And then fitness tests will come :) So yeah, maybe you two will grow apart if you stick to your SO. Chances are she will…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 12:34 PM
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This. I live in slavic countries and smoking is a red flag for me.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 02:07 PM
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I treat women as if they didn't have a brain. I talk to their ovaries as that's whats controling them. I bet that the kid is still little and when that kid hits age around 4-5 her ovaries will go to overdrive again. (kid's good to go -> AF mode on) Decide. Now. You're hamstering.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 01:59 PM
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Yeah, there is no point in trying to save them for sure. All I've got them to do is change for me. But she was not capable to do it for herself. After I left, they went to their old behaviour. Can you elaborate on the "zen daddy" game? Link would be enough if you have one.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:35 AM
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wtf did I just read. I quite like it
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:39 AM
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I Had 2 "relationships" with this kind of girl and was in contact with way more. 1) You have to recognize this type asap 2) Switch dominant/submissive behaviour depending on what's needed 3) Full-on submissive behaviour when you want to end it, she will get a new toy in a few days-weeks. Probably in front of you (this part can hurt) When you meet her for the first time act calm and dominant, keep distance but do her favors (clean dishes, fix stuff etc is what I did). The point is to get her attr…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 01:40 AM
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A Man here. This. Couldn't agree more.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 12:51 AM
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A Man here. Tailoring / designer schools can be useful. Just call or send a mail and ask if there might be girls willing to work with you on something. There always are and will be super excited to work "for real" :) You'll get original clothing, new friends (mostly slutty tho) and it can be low price.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 12:45 AM
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There is a trap tho. If the Man asks and she responds with a lie and see the Man believe it (or is convinced he believes it) ..the respect goes down hard. Either don't ask, or don't take the answer seriously are the only safe options I believe.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 12:44 PM
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A Man here. There is not really any reason to ask. We know you lie :) But it's easy to guess based on behaviour.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 07:09 PM
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You don't have to be a dick all the time. For every woman there is so much alpha she can handle without being scared. Call her out on her insecurity, ignore bullshit and reward good behaviour. Insecurity: "Why do you think I'd want insecure woman." "I felt uneasy about you talking to that girl ...I try to control my jealousy but just know it's because I love you" Feeling uneasy is her problem, controlling jealousy should be rewarded tho. Praise that. "sometimes I feel like you don't even care ab…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 10:41 AM
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Yeah, ..she had sex with me.. ..we needed eachother.. and so much more. It looks like you're trying to change. The problem is the word trying, which implies failure. It all smells like oneitis. Next her and change is easier. But at least get some plates.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 12:07 PM
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Sluts are everywhere man.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 05:40 PM
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I use reframe for these situations. (the "Are you flirting with me girl?" frame) Expect storm of shit tests if you reframe now. I recommend to cut contact for a while. The more time passes the less shit tests will come. lets say you talk to her in person.. ignore the emotional dump on you to the point of rudeness and when she calls you on it, just smirk (if she punches you or does something linked to flirting, it's easy now) and reframe.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 03:09 PM
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Dude. From what you laid here I feel oneitis incomming. She definitely did that undressing on purpose and is skilled at capturing men. Get another plate (more preferably) and go for her for experience.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 03:05 PM
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Her being nervous is kinda turn-on for me. I would not next her immediately.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 02:22 PM
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Holy shit, even blue pillers support this here.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 01:14 PM
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hahah, nice one, have a great time with your uncle
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 01:14 AM
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LoL, you trying to make me jealous? Look, you don't need to try to make me your bitch to feel safe, just be good to me and I'll keep you and fuck you. I don't know why you think I would want insecure woman. That's not sexy. Now go make me a sandwich ;) Found a reason why she's doing it, caught her bullshit, set up boundaries, sprinkled a little bit of dread on top of it and finally, point her in the right direction. Clubbing might be a problem (need of attention from other men), but it can be ju…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 12:14 AM
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It should be to make her happy, sad, angry, frustrated, elated, and basically to experience a whirlwind of emotions. I disaggree with this. Women will provide those emotions just by being women/to test your strength and to test if you provide boundaries for her to feel safe. I know all I need is conflict and pain. If I can overcome those, I feel like a man and that makes me feel powerful and happy. Other men help me overcome what I need to overcome and I want sex as much as I want food. That's i…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 11:37 PM
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I travel/live in slavic countries. (born in czech rep.) It's getting sluttier from the west for sure but still... If you look, you can find nice girls. For example college campuses: I usually sign up, take entrance exam to some college to get student accomodation and access to resources, move to dorms and scout for ppl and network (planning to start up bussiness and students are cheap and grateful). Around 10-25 % of women there are virgin or virgin-like with very low partner count. It's hard to…
/r/askTRP26/07/14 10:31 PM
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balls of steel that clank when you walk. cool
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 10:23 PM
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EasternVirginTM
/r/askTRP26/07/14 09:06 PM
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And still.. You give a fuck if others "get it". Well, you could frame it as giving back to the community. Which is cool.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 07:47 PM
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Yup, you can tell me how it went if you find some time to spare.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 04:13 PM
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Basically the therapeutist asks you to play a role and enact what you wish to tell, in this case, your father and then asks you to play the role of your father and say what you wish he told you. It is freakishly powerful and I've seen people go down on their knees and cry. It helped every single time. Helps you understand, and I'd say it stops the hamster for a while and helps you look at reality. You can try doing it yourself alone, but it works much better with guidance. Edit: Well, you can tr…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 03:00 PM
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This might be a longshot but... Have you forgiven your father? Also therapeutic enactment might help really easily. All you have to do is call nearby university, ask for some names and set up a meeting.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:44 AM
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Yes, I literally always get compliments on the looks. Not gonna send a dickpic.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 09:53 PM
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A Man here. I think the answer is loyalty. And I believe it's much stronger in men. For me it's: respect > loyalty > looks. In that order. Respect and loyalty.. ..makes me want to f*ck her. It gives me insta-boner every time she demonstrates it. I realized this when I heard my SO was bragging to her friends over "I can't believe he still gets hard just by looking at me" (we were together 3 years at that time) or something like that. Looks. If she takes care of herself. It makes me want to take h…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 05:17 PM
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Its hard to utilise sex god method when you've only had sex a few times. No it's not. Just treat her like a slut and your property. It's all in your head.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 11:59 AM
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This. Read the sidebar. You have much to learn. Also: "Sure, just as friends. Whatever." wtf -.-
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 10:39 AM
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Thanks for clarifying that up for me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 09:15 PM
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Yep. I'm trying to get the Guiness world record in the hating discipline. :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 08:41 PM
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Seeing she's wearing that ring while handling food made me lose a little bit of respect for her tho. Shame.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 03:21 PM
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My pleasure.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 01:13 PM
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A Man here. It looks to me like attraction issues. Do you get horny just from the way he speaks to you and handles you? Maybe you both need to get out and get some social interaction. Just seeing him having options and still choosing you may renew that spark. I'm thinking him dominating other men and seeing other women being attracted to him. The second you see some woman of your value (or greater) flirt with him, your body will probably start making you test him (nagging and jealousy talk) and …
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 12:47 PM
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I'm so glad I live in Europe. This is just ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 06:51 PM
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I love this answer. So raw and ruthless.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 10:41 AM
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A Man here. Hi, please try to understand, that most of the active posters there are in the "angry phase". (all women are cheating bitches and so on) Why would any man that has accepted the ways as they are (or seem to be) post there really? As for the advice... Respect is big, and I mean BIG. Looks are second. (that's the way it is for me) For older women, feminine mentality and respect are the biggest issues that I can see. I'll leave the rest to the ladies here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:05 PM
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Here's my take on this and what would I do. Note that this is how it looks in my head and might not match your reality. In the showers: After my SO left, I'd just spanked BF's ass, said she's been a bad girl with a grin on my face and left FIRST feeling like a king. If my SO is waiting outside, still feeling like a king, just grabbed her and went wherever/dance around a fire or whatnot. Because we have amazing time. If the BF is on the same SMV level or higher, I know my SO is horny now. No apol…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:29 PM
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Don't let this whole situation throw you off tho. It's her choice and not your responsibility. Just be sure there are consequences to her actions as you see fit. That's my thought on this. Take note however, that i have no experience with marriage.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 06:55 PM
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Another option is: Women (don't know if all and to what degree) feel the urge to give a " fighting chance" to their provider (you) after they fucked another man. Yes, Sperm Wars(book), that's the source of this idea a think. It was a long time ago that i red it though. edit: typos
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 06:51 PM
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Mostly agree. Except - nothing is really that binary. e.g. "Most women can't take criticism." or "Women tend to not take criticism well." That sounds better to me.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:05 PM
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I agree. You're smiling/friendly way too much. Also your posture could be better (1st photo).
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:22 PM
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this, next her. That should be a no-brainer man. Instead of daydreaming, make some rules for yourself and stick to them mercilessly. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. How did alcohol passed your screening process anyway?! Even if you force her to stop, chances are, she will just start with some other substance (most common) and/or start again when hard times come. She has to fix this by herself and FOR herself. Trust me on this one. I've been dating junkie long time ago, thought I could …
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 07:59 PM
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"I like you and want to date you." Test it out or you'll never know. But hell. If i was on the receiving end of that sentence, I'd probably turn blue-pill for a second or two in the ideal situation. :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 09:59 PM
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