jcolls69 Archive

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2	There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficient Now everyone is actually free to live how they please. Both men and women work a 40 hrs a week for enough money to live off of. The better the job the more they can save. Also, it incentivizes people to form family units so that they can have two incomes, which allows them both to save half of what they earn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:32 PM
1	There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficient What are you even talking about? No where in my comment did I say that only men should be working. I described how women joining the workforce has doubled the competition for well paying careers. My solution was for anyone, man or woman, who is working a low paying or minimum wage job to be paid enough for them to live off of that single income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:19 PM
1	There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficient Yes it does, if minimum wage jobs had to pay more or if we had socialist policies providing all people with a standard of living. Then both men and women would be financially safeguarded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:00 PM
1	There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficient In a perfect world anyone who wants to have a career should be able to. However, this world is far from perfect. Feminists and corporations preying on the “sheconomy” have convinced women they should work, and even shame “traditional” women who just want to raise their kids. This has effectively doubled the amount of competition people face for well paying careers. It’s also created a larger divide between the middle and low income classes, which distracts them both from the upper class making b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 01:57 PM
11	Why does body count matter so much to you? You must have only clicked the second link. The first one has about 10 psychological studies linked that show if a person has a longer sexual history then they are more likely to be unfaithful in a committed relationship.	/r/AllPillDebate	23/10/23 12:17 PM
5	Do you think w*men could even comprehend how lonely most men (sub-8) are? I think a lot of this is less the fact that you’re not attractive and more to do with you having no friends. Plenty of ugly guys have friends and families. As much as “seek help” gets thrown around and might feel disingenuous; if you have literally no one else to talk to I think it’s probably a good call to seek a mental health care professional.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 01:19 PM
2	Do Red Pill men try to eat their cake and keep it too with the: "Modern women are sluts... Women today have so high standers."? The claim is that both are true. Red pilled and black pilled men believe women will sleep with any man that meets their appearance and/or financial standards. Therefore, they are sluts for certain men while completely disregarding men that don’t fit those standards. While this is true for some women, especially the chronically online and younger women, there are still those who were raised by parents rather than social media and do not operate this way. In practice, this has become women taking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 02:38 PM
2	Do you get sick of how many otherwise attractive chicks have adopted trashy behavior trying to emulate urban culture, especially suburban white chicks using cringe AAVE, rapping trashy vulgar lyrics on TikTok and the brain dead infatuation with pit bulls? You’re projecting brodie. Continue to live in your basement being black pilled all you want. You’re probably sitting at home devoting all of your attention to women online and it’s doing nothing productive for you or anyone.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/10/23 10:49 PM
0	Do you get sick of how many otherwise attractive chicks have adopted trashy behavior trying to emulate urban culture, especially suburban white chicks using cringe AAVE, rapping trashy vulgar lyrics on TikTok and the brain dead infatuation with pit bulls? You’ve got to stop focusing on what women do or think if you ever want one to find you interesting. Some women and men are obsessed with trying to emulate urban culture like you say. But who cares? They’ll grow up eventually, or end up partying their lives away. They don’t affect you at all so why does it matter?	/r/AllPillDebate	19/10/23 02:20 PM
1	So many people try to make women give honest feedback to men, but it's just rude and unsafe Are you saying that the only reasons women don’t sleep with men is if they are short, broke, or a combination of the two?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 01:30 PM
9	Does prolonged virginity turns you into a lazy, impotent male? It’s possible that sexual failure as a teenager can cause depression, which can lead to lack of motivation and cause men to be perceived as lazy and impotent. For a long time people thought masturbation caused these symptoms, but it was proven wrong. But the most likely and proven reason behind so many men become lazy and impotent is internet porn. This study describes porn and its link to sexual dysfunction(not just ED but low drive and much more) it also describes how scarily addicting it is a…	/r/AllPillDebate	18/10/23 11:52 PM
–	Normalize being a cat lady. Kitties are great! Sounds pretty cynical and lame to me, but you do you future cat lady.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 10:17 PM
–	Normalize being a cat lady. Kitties are great! So you recognize that you’re playing your boyfriend, but still think you’re the one being manipulated? You’re using him for companionship and sex now, but already plan to leave him and become a cat lady when he gets to an age you’ve determined to be ugly. This is the same behavior many women deem to be disgusting when coming from men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 09:50 PM
–	Normalize being a cat lady. Kitties are great! You should probably let your bf know you plan on being a cat lady so he doesn’t keep wasting his time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 09:14 PM
-1	New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected? The issue is that social media pushing feminist and anti-male propaganda to girls and young women has seemingly convinced a lot of women that men who aren’t in that top 5% of looks are not only ugly but often portray them as though they are evil. I think if we prevented the next generation from accessing social media before they’re 18 then this problem would likely evaporate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 08:23 PM
9	Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward men They have a zero tolerance policy for men that are socially awkward but try hitting on them out of the blue. If you struggle with socializing and your first step is trying to approach women, slide in dm’s, or jump on dating apps then you’re going to fail. You need friends and a social circle to be competent and comfortable enough to talk with anyone about whatever topic comes up and then try dating. Having genuine friendships with women is also a serious advantage when trying to date. Getting se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 03:42 PM
2	Women create "red pilled" men regularly. Regardless of who started the cycle, both men and women would be better off if it ended. There are plenty of “red-pill” subs made by and for women. The primary one was FDS but TwoX and ask feminists have become just as hateful towards men as trp was towards women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 02:22 AM
1	Women create "red pilled" men regularly. You let this chick gaslight and gate-keep you bro. Now she thinks shes a girlboss and is justified in hating men. Stop paying attention to or engaging with hateful women, it only encourages them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 02:11 AM
1	Women create "red pilled" men regularly. The red pill dating strategies weren’t invented by the red pill. They are just typical old dating strategies explained through a cynical lens. Basically, red pillers seem to believe becoming the best version of themselves will get them laid and possibly a transactional/traditional marriage. On the other hand, blue pillers believe becoming the best version of themselves and loving themselves will get them laid and hopefully a marriage based on love. The goal is the same for both groups. Problems …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 01:57 AM
2	Men are considered creeps not due to their actions, but due to thoughts of women Generations of men being violent towards women has caused women to teach girls that strange men are dangerous. Hell, I’m sure as a man you stay aware of your surroundings because you know that strange men can be dangerous to you as well. Now imagine that you’re a woman and strange men approach and ask you out, it would probably be pretty scary right? If you cant manage to imagine yourself as a woman try imagining if every day a bunch of 6’5-7’0 guys built like power forwards checked you out, cat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 01:00 PM
6	Men should be able to get someone equally or even slightly less attractive than them, and most of them can’t. That’s a real problem. Internet porn and social media have conditioned men to find practically any and all women attractive, and crave sex. On the other hand, these have conditioned women to find only men that fit a certain mold attractive, and crave attention. Not only has this caused people to be more single than ever but they’re more mentally unwell than ever too. I think there are three likely ways forward. Psychologists and sociologists will convince the government to put more strict regulations on these types of…	/r/AllPillDebate	14/10/23 12:33 AM
1	Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them? I think most men that you find “repulsive” are ugly to pretty much every other woman as well. Do you expect them to just go die in a hole by themselves or do you think they’ll try to get some form of a relationship anyways? It seems like you are not very empathetic if you can’t understand why ugly men still want to find love. Try imagining what your life would be like if you were ugly and no one wanted to have sex with you and all men found you repulsive. Better yet try imagining yourself as an …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 10:56 PM
-1	Why are women happy that inexperienced men won't find virgin women? I think the context of how you’re asking will be important. Are you talking about posting on Reddit and asking where you can find virgin women? Because a lot of people on Reddit buy into the social media trend that making others angry=funny (rage bait) so you’re very unlikely to get genuine help here. If you actually ask women you’re friends with irl, they’ll probably tell you about one of their friends or acquaintances with very little experience and may even help you set up a blind date. If yo…	/r/AllPillDebate	05/10/23 02:12 PM
2	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… It doesn’t matter who started it. Women use the term as an insult to shame men, in what way is that not equivalent to men who use the term slut as an insult to shame women? Here is a link to a survey from 2018 in which 64,000 women answered questions about their preferences in a partner. 59% of those women said that high sexual experience was desired. https://assets.ctfassets.net/juauvlea4rbf/1kmtOU2RRXrAB9Jz1JRmwe/20ee3375a5ba9f2d31fcbf9fb5a2e541/191105_Ideal_partner_survey.pdf	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 04:30 AM
4	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… The term incel is used by women to insult men who can’t get laid in the exact way terms like slut and hoe are used by men to insult women. How is that not shaming men who are virgins/can’t get a gf? You’re right, men who are players don’t receive direct praise because they are “players”. However, women often say they want a man with more sexual experience than them. The only way to get more experience is to sleep around, aka be a player.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 01:54 AM
3	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… Don’t women use the exact same double standards just in reverse by praising players and shaming virgins? I think slut shaming and virgin shaming is done by vocal minorities. Most people simply look for a partner with similar experience and don’t care who other people sleep with. Both men and women have double standards, might as well get used to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 10:12 PM
1	Reroll your character. Which sex and orientation would you roll to live on easy mode? ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:57 PM
1	Reroll your character. Which sex and orientation would you roll to live on easy mode? “The grass is always greener on the other side”is a saying for good reason. Everyone has problems that matter to them. No matter what sex and orientation you are, you’re still going to have problems that feel overwhelming. This sub makes it pretty clear both men and women feel like they have it worse than the other. I think if this experiment were possible then everyone would realize life’s difficult regardless of what type of person you are. “Easy mode” only exists for people who are born extre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:12 PM
2	Women have the upper hand in attracting the opposite sex What point are you trying to make? That women have unrealistic expectations?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 02:26 PM
-2	Women Are Not Sexually Attracted To the Men They Marry How do you know what women are or are not attracted to? The only reference men have is how women behave. The fact that they’ve been having sex with men who you think are “sexually beneath” them for all of history means women are at least capable of arousal from men who are “beneath” them. Why are you putting women onto this pedestal? This entire post just shows your own anger and resentment towards women.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/09/23 03:42 PM
-3	Women Are Not Sexually Attracted To the Men They Marry Just like men can become sexually aroused by practically any woman, women also can become sexually aroused by most men. Men dating/married to women who are “out of their league” but have healthy relationships are proof of that. Women are simply much more ashamed of this fact than men are so they don’t openly admit it, and some probably don’t even admit it to themselves.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/09/23 03:22 PM
-1	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? “The bar is low” refers to men’s behaviors. It’s saying all men need to do is be polite, groomed, and sociable to get a woman’s interest. Depending on your physical appearance, it might not be the woman you’re hoping for, but A woman will probably be interested if you behave in a way that meets “the bar”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 01:34 PM
10	Do women actually have no argument here if a guy is not an lncel? How tf people don’t realize men and women do the exact same shit is crazy to me. All the dudes complaining about high body count women would be fucking around too if they could. All the women complaining about no decent men would be pumping and dumping too if they could. Both overrate themselves. Both tend to believe they’re better than the opposite gender. Both are just a bunch of dumbasses.	/r/AllPillDebate	20/09/23 01:54 PM
1	As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you? Have you actually tried the “basic stuff”? It does not matter if there’s no guarantee of getting a girlfriend, you should be doing those things for your own well being. The reason people often suggest these things to lonely men is because when you exercise, have hobbies, and have a healthy social life you’re more likely to organically meet a woman that will be interested in you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 04:20 PM
2	If some young men are genuinely struggling with dating compared to women like them and compared to more attractive men, is that a matter of inequity or inequality? I’m talking about the change in preferences and standards. I never mentioned libido.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 10:57 PM
2	If some young men are genuinely struggling with dating compared to women like them and compared to more attractive men, is that a matter of inequity or inequality? I’m telling you why men will fuck anything and why women won’t fuck anyone. Its because their perception of options for partners is skewed by social media and porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 09:37 PM
3	If some young men are genuinely struggling with dating compared to women like them and compared to more attractive men, is that a matter of inequity or inequality? If by “biology” you’re referring to women finding certain physical aspects of men attractive then you’re missing a crucial part of that same biological function. Women and men both are attracted to the best option available. What determines the best option is subjective but often influenced by what role models and peers think is the best option. Historically this is the most attractive people in their town, at their school, at work, etc. From my observations, technology has counteracted this par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 09:12 PM
2	Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles? Must’ve been different articles lol here’s the one I was referring to if you’re interested. https://rbj.net/2023/06/22/male-loneliness-a-silent-epidemic/	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 06:49 PM
2	Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles? If we’re thinking of the same study, the male loneliness article that I saw was mostly about young men not having any friendships. I believe the statistic was that 1 in 5 men have no one they consider a close friend/confidant. They brought up the rates of men and women being single as well, but I believe they were similar percentages. It wasn’t about guilt tripping men to marry anyone; it is was trying to encourage men to get out of the house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 06:31 PM
2	Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV. If you don’t think it’s good for anyone to be sleeping around then why are you only calling out women in this post? If you changed it to most people would be resentful and disgusted by their partners sexual history you’d be correct. It doesn’t matter that women prefer experienced men, the majority would still become insecure and upset by watching or hearing about their partners sexual history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 05:00 PM
1	Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV. Do you think women would enjoy a written or visual history of their partners past sexual experiences? This is obviously something that would make anyone uncomfortable. How do you not see the double standard you’re trying to impose on women by calling it “normal” for guys to sleep around but women that do are hoes. Anyone given the opportunity to sleep with someone they think is attractive, without foreseeable consequences, would probably do it in a heart beat. Men complain about the double stand…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 04:28 PM
1	Do you think that in the age of equality, we should push for a 50/50 dating culture? Ah, that makes sense. I admire the dedication it must take to get a law degree. I can also see how dating someone whose job doesn’t require the same level of commitment could be challenging.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 01:32 PM
1	Do you think that in the age of equality, we should push for a 50/50 dating culture? That certainly could be a main reason as to why many women won’t date less successful men. I think both genders ar equally likely to have insecurities though. You and your friends all make 100k+? Can I ask what field of work your in? I might need to switch it up lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 01:12 PM
5	Do you think that in the age of equality, we should push for a 50/50 dating culture? It’s hard to say that high earning women aren’t finding men because men are too insecure when 1/5 women refuse to date men that earn less than them: https://www.marketwatch.com/amp/story/many-women-say-they-wont-date-a-man-over-this-one-financial-issue-2017-04-07 I’m sure there are still men who would be insecure not being the bread winner. However, women seem equally insecure about being perceived as “dating down”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 01:03 PM
2	I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are needed Imo it all boils down to online dating. Men that don’t get dates or matches think that means they’ll never get a girlfriend. Even though there’s only a tiny population of women on those apps compared to the amount of men. A quick google search will show you that only 14% of tinder users are women, so it makes perfect sense for those women to only go after the most attractive men on the app. In the real world there are plenty of fish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 05:21 PM
1	How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)? Men and women are much more similar in the way they think than most people seem to believe. We are just put into different situations causing us to think different things depending on the situation. The dating example is a great way to see this. Men are expected to initiate relationships and then provide and protect while in the relationship. On the other hand, women are expected to vet men who initiate and then provide emotional support and home caring while in a relationship. Both men and wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 12:07 AM
1	Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your age Less of a wall and more of a net that men get caught in. Either way, it has practically the same effect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 06:51 PM
1	“A man has never picked a woman based on how hard she worked to get into a relationship with him.” I’m glad you’re not chasing anyone. I think that’s a pretty unhealthy way to try and get affection. However, not chasing and not putting in effort are two different things. I don’t think a woman approaching a man and asking for his number is “chasing”, most men would be pleasantly surprised by this forwardness. If the best experiences you’ve had so far came from playing hard to get that’s perfectly reasonable. From my experience, people often get bored of someone playing hard to get just as quic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 04:37 PM
1	“A man has never picked a woman based on how hard she worked to get into a relationship with him.” The statement is false. Yes, some men will not pick a woman even if she work’s extremely hard for his attention. Just like some women will not pick a man even if he works extremely hard for her attention. Men with little dating experiences and few options often have their view of women distorted until they can get sex consistently, these men can easily and quickly move on from a woman that may have worked hard for his attention because when their need for sex is met they may start to see faults …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 03:59 PM
3	What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for? Sadly, masculinity and “toxic masculinity” have basically become interchangeable to many women. That being said, there’s no need for men to behave in a way that’s actually toxic to the people around them. Toxic behavior would be having a short temper, becoming physically aggressive when upset, having an inability to take criticism, etc. This is not masculine, it’s just toxic, and both men and women behave this way. Masculine behavior would be keeping a level head, standing up for yourself and ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 01:09 PM
3	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. Your best bet is probably a church if virginity until marriage is very important to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 09:32 PM
4	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. That’s probably true. Hopefully online friend groups can encourage each other to find irl friend groups as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 06:34 PM
18	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. You seem quite out of touch with modern dating. There are essentially three typical avenues of it. OLD (useless for meaningful relationships imo), social environments like clubs and bars (most adults are familiar with this, try to chat someone up and see where it goes, very hit or miss) and finally utilizing your personal relationships to get an introduction to someone who is a friend of a friend (what worked best for me personally). The problem isn’t that dating or reproducing has changed all t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 06:04 PM
3	Why don’t men just do what women do? I’d like to see the discussion of “girl history” and “boy history”. I’ve never heard of that and google had nothing lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 12:04 PM
1	Alpha The term itself describes a leader of some sort. It originated from the belief that wolf packs have an alpha wolf that leads the pack. Where this term has completely lost any real meaning is from the redpill sentiments of people being born alpha or beta. It honestly seems like a bunch of closeted men fetishizing the most masculine things about other men and stating these traits make them an alpha, therefore, all other men should be beta in comparison. If they think only these “special” men get t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 04:16 PM
5	What do you think of hypergamy? I don’t think you quite understand what the red pill and the blue pill actually refer to. It’s called the red pill because it refers to radical ideologies (typically about how men can date/fuck more women) that go against the typical social norms. The blue pill simply refers to people who follow the typical social norms. Imagine this. One day a man knocks on your door and claims you’re the chosen one. He offers you two pills, one red and one blue. If you take the blue pill, you will wake up in y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:19 PM
1	Guys who lie about their height vs women who lie about their weight Fuck dating apps. They destroy their users mental health and purposefully try to get their users addicted to “dating” (swiping). You can’t lie about your height/weight irl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:38 PM
4	Is a woman having a job a bad thing? The only men who have negative feelings about women being employed are the men who believe that the only thing they can provide a woman with in order for them to be seen as desirable is financial security. To these men, women being able to provide for themselves makes them obsolete in dating. In other words, they’re so insecure about themselves in every aspect except their career that it’s driving them crazy. In reality, if these men didn’t spend time focusing on how women in general behave, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:15 PM
–	Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad? Because men have been raised and conditioned to treat all women with a certain level of respect. It’s this respect not being reciprocated which leads to so many men that fail at dating to resent women. If every rejection was polite and cordial the amount of men getting upset by the “chad” issue would be significantly less. However, the only men who women treat with respect are the ones they are the most physically attracted to. Women (especially in the online dating scene) objectify “chads” and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:21 PM
1	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? I’ve never told women to lose their standards and settle. My entire point in my response was that I believe women would recognize their own standards as arbitrary if they met a man that didn’t meet those standards but still found him attractive, funny, likeminded, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 06:45 PM
1	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? Again, there seems to be a misunderstanding. Why do you think I’m blaming women for these issues? I believe the recent drastic shift in societal norms have created these issues. The rising prevalence of social media, online dating, and pornography addiction have all created a very hostile online environment for young men. All of these things along with everyone being online nearly constantly has resulted in men feeling insecure, depressed, and anxious with no one they feel they can depend on for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 06:32 PM
1	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? I think you may have misinterpreted something. In what part of my response did you think I was asking women to do anything for men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 06:12 PM
1	Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”? The majority of the “lowering their standards” complaints are directed towards online dating standards. Women have the privilege to be overly selective when using dating apps, and with the growing loneliness of single men it feels to many of them like online dating is the only way to date. This has created an idea in lonely men that all women are incredibly picky. Even though, there are very few women that actually use dating apps compared to the amount of men. Most women are trying to find men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 05:34 PM
76	A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendship I saw a YouTube video a couple days ago. Some girl going through “nice guy” and “nice girls” messages that had been posted on twitter and Reddit. It’s honestly hilarious watching how the messages are nearly identical. Guys messaging women being nice and as soon as they reject him he goes into a rampage calling her a whore, bitch, etc. and women messaging men being nice and as soon as he rejects her she goes into a rampage calling him an asshole, small dicked, etc. It was refreshing to see someon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 04:57 PM
1	Would you use male birth control? I said wrap it up, not rubber condoms specifically. Ancient Roman’s used animal bladders as condoms, although it was more for disease prevention than pregnancy prevention. I actually did not know that condoms were only 85% effective, that’s honestly kinda terrifying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 03:34 PM
0	Would you use male birth control? For thousands of years men have been wrapping it up. If it ain’t broke don’t fix it. Not gonna risk my future children to hit it raw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 02:20 PM
1	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society What marriage laws specifically do not work for making a legal partnership between two married individuals? If you’re referring to divorce laws, then you could argue that there have been many women to take advantage of the system to steal their ex husbands money. Although, divorce laws are written differently for each state and they almost all allow for the judge to make the asset division decisions themselves. Im not sure of your experience with divorce hearings but they are not all gold diggin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 11:32 PM
3	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society You seem to think that sex is the most important thing in life. Saying marriage is pointless for men is like saying there is no reason for a man to try and build a family. By your logic, should we just try to get as many women as we can pregnant and leave them all? The reason for the vast majority of marriages is to build a family. Yes, in the past marriage has meant many different things including the man gaining ownership of the woman or being united under whatever god they worship forever. No…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 10:19 PM
1	The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro. I think one reason this isn’t as widely talked about as you’d expect is because if you don’t use dating apps you won’t see this problem on such a drastic scale. In the u.s Tinder is only used for hookups. And it’s mostly used by chronically online people, many of which, are the same people that have garnered a newfound negative stigma towards white Jewish men in the last 5 years. I’d give it 5 more years before the wealthiest millennials and some gen z all move to Europe or Asia possibly trigger…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 03:13 PM
1	There’s no such thing as unconditional love in romantic relationships I’ve never seen anyone argue that men love women unconditionally. 95% of all trp arguments are hypocritical and this one absolutely is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 03:15 PM
2	[CMV] Girls who participate in online dating are not to be taken seriously because they don't take guys seriously. I think most of your points are true. No one sane uses online dating to actually find meaningful relationships. Has it ever happened? Sure. Will you find someone on tinder? Probably not. From my experience you need to already know the woman you’re going on a date with for the best chance at success. No one would treat you like a meal ticket if you’re already friends or have the same friends. Reputation is everything for most women so if she’s worried that a bad date with you would lead to her fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 01:18 PM
1	As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you. Buddy, if you’re trying to justify some way of becoming a woman “because it’s easier” then more power to you. But the rest of us are just going to ignore the gold digging whores like we have for years. Sure, women can use their sexuality to take advantage of men. They do so in a similar way that men often use their sexuality to take advantage of women. Some women will sleep with you after you take them to a $200 dinner and pay off the rent their behind on, and some men will take women on a roman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 01:03 AM
2	The Red Pill exists because entire generations of men are lied to about what women find attractive in men, and dismissing it as some angry hate group is simply a way to sweep all of these lies under the rug It’s hard to say that an entire generation of men have been lied to. I mean, if these lies have been told to us by our mothers, teachers, and friends then they would have been actively trying to deceive us as children and continued deceiving us into adulthood. Doesn’t it make more sense that we were taught to be respectful and polite because it is genuinely what women want from men? I think the problem you’re having is that as society and women’s independence has moved forward, they have begun t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 12:16 AM
1	CMV : A lot of women on HERE seem to mistake comfort for attraction. Attraction is actually uncomfortable If you genuinely think attraction means meeting someone and literally counting down the hours before you can go home and masturbate over them; then you are a pervert and you should seek therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 01:07 AM
1	Question for Red Pill Men and Men who follow the Red Pill: How damaging do you think OnlyFans has been to the credibility of women in society and for relationships? unless only fans “hotels” start popping up, I don’t think it will have any real affect on men’s overall perception of women. If OF didn’t exist many of the same women would probably still be doing similar things on other sites. it’s just a porn site in the form of social media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 10:21 PM
1	Traditional or 'pick me' women are the smartest people on Earth, outside the elite few men who run the world. This guys on his Johnny silverhand arc	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 02:38 PM
1	If you aren't Red Pill or Black Pill are you Blue Pill by default ? People seem to forget the whole “red pill” thing originated from the matrix when neo takes the red pill and is woken up and brought out of the matrix. The idea behind these red pill philosophies is that there is some form of “the matrix” that people are blinded to in todays society, and if you follow those “rp” ideas you can break out of the matrix and live a real life. On the other hand, there aren’t really any “blue pill” philosophies, it’s more so that if you don’t take the red pill you autom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 04:48 PM
1	What is the source of men's motivation for working hard? I think the motivations behind most motivations inevitably leads to getting laid. Wanting to work hard on your body for your health or because it’s how you clear your head, while probably true, there is also an underlying motivation that being more fit makes you more sexually attractive. Wanting to work hard in your career to have larger savings and be able to afford a better lifestyle, while probably true, also has an underlying motivation to be able to provide for a partner/family which is con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 04:49 PM
1	People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average man I do find it strange how as a society we have started talking a lot more about mental health and the things that can affect it, but there is very little discourse about how a lack of sex can have a significant negative impact on men’s mental health. Men who have frequent sex then lose their ability to have it for whatever reason often become manic in their search for a new partner. Men who don’t or rarely have sex and are convinced or conditioned to believe they never will become depressed. It’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 06:30 PM
1	Women objectify themselves. Some of your points about sex workers objectifying themselves are valid, but you seem to be conflating sexualization with objectification. A woman wearing make up and dressing sexy with a hope of finding a guy she likes to hook up with is not objectifying themselves it’s sexualizing themselves. I think you’ve equated the two in your head and this post makes it seem like you see women having sex at all as them becoming a sex object for their partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 06:36 PM
1	Would you give up video games for sex? Nope. I no longer even entertain the idea of dating women who think video games are “nerdy” or would look down on me for enjoying them. My most successful relationship was with a woman who enjoyed playing video games too and some of our best times were when we played together. It’s not gaming that’s the problem. It’s that a lot of men’s interests are nearly all about video games or similar things like anime and comics. While, a lot of women’s interests are about reality tv shows, tik tok, fashio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 02:26 AM
8	Being monogamous does not benefit a man in any way except one The concept of marriage may not benefit YOU but the stability and connection that a marriage built on love offers has enough benefit for most men. There are plenty of men who would prefer a deep emotional connection with one partner to build a family with, rather than multiple partners or an open relationship. You act as though all men have the exact wants and desires you do. Creating a family in a safe and stable environment is very important to a lot of people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 06:33 PM
1	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? I and probably most men would see this as a red flag if we knew that the woman saying she doesn’t want to be physical until she’s in a serious relationship has previously been quick to get in bed with other guys. I see a lot of the men commenting think a woman doing this is being malicious, like she is doing it to start the relationship off in a way that she is in complete control of the sex life which usually leads to her using sex as a weapon to get what she wants. While the women replying mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 04:23 AM
3	It doesn’t matter the level of attractiveness of a woman, they ALL still only find attractive men attractive So a lot of the comments seem to basically be asking what’s the problem? Since the OP is using language that makes it seem he’s mostly upset that women he thinks are attractive don’t think he’s good enough and women he thinks to be less attractive than himself also don’t think he’s good enough, then A+B= he’s the problem. While in many cases this may be true, I think that the actual problem the OP is getting at is that for some reason it seems the majority of men are attracted to the majority of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 09:57 PM
2	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. I think the men you’re talking about that got upset about this are not upset about her being a good wife, instead they are upset that it’s possible a woman could take half of a man’s worth from divorce at all. And many of them probably also have had to pay a crazy amount to their exes. A lot of men think child support is the only kind of financial aid men should provide in a divorce. These are two separate issues imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/22 12:24 AM
1	What solutions are there for older virgin men? It’s not a lie to not bring up your sexual history when you immediately meet someone. If you are actually going on a date to get to know someone better then it’s usually not a first date topic. After a while, if you have a good connection it will definitely come up but just because you have a red flag of little experience doesn’t mean your green flags won’t outweigh this issue. Everyone has red flags to someone and someone else might even think those red flags are green ones. Sure, there are som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 02:44 PM
18	Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? Lmao he does it because no one’s going to care. Just wait until Jennifer Aniston or Angelina Jolie starts doing the same thing and all hell’s gonna break loose on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:55 PM
3	A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys. I think it’s tough to look at dating from a macro perspective and really give actionable advice to any individual. However, the overall point that if around 80% of women are truly only attracted to around 15% of men then there is a societal issue would be valid if true. This often seems like the case, especially anywhere you would look online, but who/what women find attractive is far more fickle and a far lower bar than most people make it out to be. I think in isolated settings most women are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:10 AM
2	What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub? This topic has just gotten annoying at this point. Like if I’ve had sex with 1 woman 1000 times I have the same experience at sex as someone whose slept with 1000 women once. The difference is the “pick up” skills and knowing a specific woman’s body compared to knowing how to find any woman’s spots. When this topic comes up so does this example and a lot of the time most people will think it makes sense, until you turn it around and make the example from a woman’s perspective. Of course, most wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:19 PM
2	Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you? Yeah, because equating having conservative values to having autism is definitely an apt comparison./s	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 02:30 PM
1	Do men want career focused women? Most independent women would rather be alone than settle for a man who she doesn’t think is equal to her in either looks or career/finances, most of the time in both. I hope I meet the exception to the rule though I’d love to be a house husband lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 11:25 PM
1	Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL This is only true for men who are just looking for casual relationships and are also ass holes. You might have an idea or belief that you don’t want a monogamous relationship and only want to use as many women as you can for sex. I can even understand how you might come to this kind of decision, however, trying to assert that women should just instantly sleep with men they are hoping to date and if she’s “lucky” he’ll think fuck it she’s good enough and might stay with her, is absurd. No woman w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 03:43 PM
3	Women of Purple Pill debate. Where do you feel like the current dating climate is right now when it comes to men and women? This was a great comment. I believe social medias have had this effect of showing people what others have and making them feel like they aren’t as good as someone else if they can’t get that too. It supersedes just the dating world but in this context I think it’s important. So, imo when female insta models, YouTubers, tik tokers, etc… post about bouncing between casual relationships before the “perfect” guy bc her boyfriend, or males posting about “collaborating” with as many only fans models a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 02:33 PM
1	Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work? If I was an attractive woman I would definitely try online sex work. Probably not irl bc who knows how I’d feel about sex as a woman lol but only fans and instagram type stuff? Absolutely	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 11:00 PM
1	Why are women less attracted to men than men are to women? The higher testosterone makes men more consistently horny than women. So depending on the man and circumstances most men would be willing to sleep with most women. Idk the thought processes behind general women’s sex life; but from my experiences with the women, i would say it seems like physical attraction gets them flirty/talkative and making an emotional connection gets them horny. Of course there’s plenty of exceptions to the rule and usually tall ripped guys are that exception. But for the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 11:33 PM
2	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. Wait a minute? Are you saying if we want a happy relationship we have to communicate our feelings and listen to our partners?? Idk sounds like a stretch to me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 12:06 AM
2	The average men does not want the average women (in the US) I think you’re confusing the “neck beard” term for something else lol I’ve always understood it to mean depressed single men who isolate themselves and stop caring about things like appearance, hygiene, cleaning, etc. I think sexual predators and pedophiles are a very different thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 10:32 PM
–	Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30. Not sure how old your kid is but can’t you just make doing the dishes their chore? I mean it seems like the play to me lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 12:06 AM
11	Study finds marriage is in decline mainly due to a lack of "economically attractive" men I mean isn’t this how it’s always been? Men try everything they can to make as much money as they can to attempt to convince the hottest woman they can to have sex with them for the rest of their lives. Who the fucks gonna wanna marry someone who lives with their mom. I mean it would be a nice thing to do and my mother is a lovely woman but that’s a different discussion all together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/20 07:25 PM
14	Will women and men ever see eye to eye on this - not having sex immediately even though she has before This scenario is based off of an absurd reaction by the man in this situation. I have been in a similar situation and so have many of my friends. Not once have I had or heard any stories of someone getting unreasonably angry at a girl for turning him down in this way. A level headed man would simply acknowledge that she feels uncomfortable having sex at the time and make the decision to either give her more time or stop seeing her. Also I would assume all men realize that practically all women h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/19 10:06 PM
2	Don't be this guy. I don’t think this belongs here I think the dude just has money to blow and decided to be nice. Maybe she reminded him of his daughter or something. If he had stuck around or left his number then maybe but he just left and she never even saw him sounds like a good dude to me.	/r/MGTOW	25/08/19 12:29 AM