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| 70 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?Was about to comment something similar! Though I know some few women who changed their second last names to their husband's last name, so it ends up like [Her Name] [Her 1st last name] [Her husband's 1st last name]. But that was in the past, now it's uncommon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:05 AM |
| 30 | Keep your professional reputation inviolate. Do NOT pursue workplace romances.This can happen anywhere. I've learned that lesson with my LVX-crush at university. I was forced to take most of my classes in the morning or afternoon and in one of those I met him and stuff happened. We never even dated officially but my pick-me self understood all the signs wrong back then. Little I knew he befriended everyone from the morning shift (I used to take classes mostly at night) so many of them were aware of the drama between me and him where I was seen as the bad guy. This lasted … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:28 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about video games?It depends. As long as they're not playing 24/7/365 (like my brother, before he started studying recently) and, as you said, neglecting their responsibilities, it's fine. I even play myself! But I get bored easily, like "I already played this game for a long time, I'm bored". That's why I started to set up limits for mobile games (30 minutes max.) and I'll set alarms in case I play on desktop (Maybe 1 hour max., idk yet). And it's not even daily! I play once in a while because I have other respo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:16 PM |
| 8 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?I remember that I tried to date someone back in my pickmeisha days (a few years ago) and in a hang out (what it actually was), I paid for food. We didn't have too much money back then (but his family earned much more than mine) so I didn't pay too much. You know, street food and drinks. I also remember that months after that, he asked me to "lend" him money to pay for a university course. I have my limits, specially since I don't have a lot of money, so of course I didn't. And glad I didn't beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 01:23 PM |
| 22 | The most important quote/post/thread you read on FDSThe Masculina/Feminina post and how we should embrace our feminine side instead of masculine. Whoever wrote the post deserves awards, that helped me identifying myself, which leads me to change and self improvement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:11 PM |
| 55 | For all the ladies who feel lonely sometimes...Thank you for this! As someone who has never been in a relationship and seeing people my age having them (we're all over our 20's), it does make me feel lonely and even discouraged. I don't care too much about social media but I did care about wanting the same thing they're having until I realize that most of them have low values regarding it and they even tell me I'm fine without one because [insert any actual benefit of being single OR any red flag they know but do nothing about it here], so y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:01 PM |
| 9 | FDS Going Private For Monthly Cleanup - Sept 1st and 2ndThank you for sharing your knowledge with us! Your work is highly appreciated. Hope this comment doesn't get deleted. I've learned a lot from you all in the short time I've been here, and tbh, I wish the server was private so male lurkers won't be here annoying us women who empower other women willing to improve their lives... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 02:16 AM |
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