jdaero Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	I've lost my best friend to a single mother. My Nate did the same thing, but had a kid with her. Haven't seen him for awhile and all is not well wonderland. Sadly our friendship suffered and we have grown apart. We've had plenty of super good conversation on the topic, but he just can't muster the energy to leave. I've been there for him as much as I could and after awhile it just started taking its toll. I imagine one day I will get a call or we will become strangers to each other. I've since moved on and made new good friends. I miss my …	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/13 06:02 AM
2	It's difficult for me to accept the fact we're the minority and we're maligned when we speak our views. Freedom of association. Find people with similar values. For those who are curious try to have a pleasant discussion with them and give them the reasons for your views without coming off defensive or controlling. Those who try to debate or shame you aren't worth the time.	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/13 05:53 AM
16	An open letter to single mothers. I really like kids. They are so curious and brave and it's a joy to watch them go about learning and exploring the world. But no amount of that is going to make me want to date a single mother. People make mistakes and shit happens. I'm not going to shame them for that. But I ain't signing up for the clean up crew.	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/13 05:43 AM
1	She dumped me after 7.5 years, but begged to stay friends. I sure hope that doesn't happen to him... but I wouldn't be surprised at all if it does. I've seen this girl do things in front of him that would make you cringe... repeatedly sitting / grinding in other guys laps, while playing with their hair, flirting, giving serious bedroom eyes, all the while he's sitting there like a chump letting it happen. This is exactly what my friend's wife did to me. The first couple of times I thought it was being playful out having a night with friends, but as it c…	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/13 09:48 PM
2	She dumped me after 7.5 years, but begged to stay friends. My best friend growing up did this and then made it worse. He got her pregnant and married her. She came on to me in front of him while drunk and is incredibly and downright abusive, par for the course for many undesirable single mothers. He took the fastlane to poverty with that choice. I still feel bad for guys that get mixed up with single moms (especially the one's that aren't all that attractive). Their childhood and internal struggle must be so bad for them to feel that shacking up with a …	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/13 08:31 PM
5	She dumped me after 7.5 years, but begged to stay friends. Fuck, a quick look into his history and he admits she cheated on him 4 times in another thread. Dating a single mom, supporting her and her 3 kids financially, and tolerating her cheating multiple times. This man deserves an award.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/13 08:18 PM
0	Married to a black woman. Receiving a lot of resistance since taking the red pill. I think you made the right choice not to go. The "pick and choose your battles" thing is bullshit in my eyes. If you don't want to do something, don't fucking do it. That framed along with your long-term happiness and having empathy for your wife - as long as she brings happiness to your life. I sure as hell wouldn't want to go to a family reunion with a bunch of hoodrats. I'm surprised they even have family reunions in that demographic.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/13 01:25 AM
2	A realisation I'd like to share Pretty women in Utah are incredibly sought after, because a huge amount of them are only available to members of the mormon church. This means that the remaining pretty women are able to demand a huge amount in a relationship, since both mormon and non-mormon guys of all ages are going to be pursuing them. I'm also in Utah, but I wouldn't say that this is anything incredibly special for Utah alone. Pretty women are sought out in every corner of the world. Besides the types who have to get marrie…	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/13 07:50 AM
7	"i know a guy who was a virgin until he got married, to a stripper with two kids. He's probably the only non-hypocrite i know." With all that empowerment comes a big appetite.	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/13 05:18 AM
1	Took the red pill. When can I expect to get laid? Anytime you wish, give Handjolina Jolie or Pamela Handerson a call.	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/13 05:16 AM
1	Whats your view on Ayn Rand? I recommend "How i found freedom in an unfree world" by harry browne as a starter to finding your own way. I double that recommendation. My favorite book, had a huge impact on my life. Harry was fucking awesome and one of the biggest influences in my life.	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/13 05:09 AM
-1	Women's suffrage is the worst thing to happen to Western civilization: Allowing women voting privilege. We were warned I think there is likely a correlation here, but the fundamental problem here isn't women, it's government. Give people the power to control other people's lives and it's only a matter of time. The state is great at making problems for itself as history has shown. When you rob Peter to pay Paulina...	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/13 10:11 PM
12	My values are making this hard to follow. I can understand why first coming to red pill philosophy some people will begin to see women as bad. The western world has fed young boys (and girls) a bunch of bullshit fantasy in regards to the world of love and relationships. There are no hypergamy 101 classes in school. Red pill isn't about hating women, it's about understanding their nature and acting accordingly. Nature has separated us into two separate groups that fulfill different functions for propagating the species. I think the bigge…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 09:25 PM
1	You're an $80k/yr. web designer because we say so! Different strokes for different folks. If you enjoy where you are at, then keep at it my man. Even after this debacle it appears that you will be much better off than most people in a similar situation.	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 02:42 AM
–	You're an $80k/yr. web designer because we say so! Sorry, that was more for my entertainment than an actual course of action. I don't think there is anything wrong with what you are doing as long as you enjoy it. Love/breakups/etc is a pretty popular song theme and perhaps you could get yourself a nice little MRA following though...	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 02:23 AM
–	You're an $80k/yr. web designer because we say so! Well I don't admire your situation, but there could be some good of this. You are a musician right? You could funnel your rage for this situation into some good music, make a bunch of money, and make her look like the raging bitch she sounds like to your fans in the process.	/r/MensRights	09/12/12 02:00 AM
0	"Your thoughts are not you" OR "Stop listening to your scumbag brain" Your brain doesn't care about you. Whether you are happy, well adjusted, and enjoying life or depressed, emotionally damaged, and sitting at home alone every weekend, it makes no difference to your brain as long as it gets what it needs to survive. Excuses and negative thoughts are your brain's way of controlling you, and it's amazing how much power most of us give it. I don't agree with this. The brain is part of the individual. It has no exterior motives outside of you as a person. Its motives…	/r/seduction	28/09/12 04:54 PM
1	Looking back on my progress. I'll get right on that breh.	/r/seduction	25/06/12 01:55 AM
3	Looking back on my progress. Perhaps I'm jaded, but I find it odd your so called girlfriend would arrange a meetup with a guy she likely knew has feelings for her. I don't know your entire situation but that sounds sketchy to me.	/r/seduction	24/06/12 11:44 PM
21	How does one proceed after you find out she has a boyfriend? You respect the fact that she is in a relationship and move on. I don't go after taken girls. If they are willing to do something with you while being in a relationship with another guy, that girl has no integrity and I want nothing to do with her.	/r/seduction	10/03/12 03:06 AM
1	Committed Relationships, Boundaries, and Cheating You mention qualification but I don't see the word value anywhere here. If this works for you, that's cool. This comes off as very controlling to me and that's not how I like to do things. Your "mate guarding" strategy seems to be based on insecurity. Based on your history it may be perfectly valid. However, if this is the pattern you have been seeing for the last 12-20 years of your dating history you may want to change the type of people you associate with. I think good relationships are all a…	/r/seduction	28/02/12 07:52 PM
1	My poor inner-game stems from my childhood. Let me explain. Share Yours. I imagine it would be extremely hard to break those patterns without understanding where they are even from. Most people don't even know why they are the way they are. Studying psychology and children has helped me tons in this area. Just being aware of it is huge. If you are more interested in the subject I would recommend books by John Bradshaw and John Holt. I've also heard good things of Alice Miller, but haven't gotten to her material yet.	/r/seduction	31/01/12 09:08 PM
3	My poor inner-game stems from my childhood. Let me explain. Share Yours. I don't think many people truly understand how huge your current behavior is influenced by your childhood. I think solid inner game involves a foundation of working on your issues from childhood (mommy/daddy issues). Most of U.S. society (and many other societies) do not respect children. Is it really no wonder that so many people grow up with no respect for themselves?	/r/seduction	31/01/12 08:54 PM
2	Talking about male/female dynamics? I don't think so. You can pretty much talk about anything as long as you are honest about your intentions. The friend zone dilemma occurs when one person is attracted to another, but doesn't make their intentions clear.	/r/seduction	30/01/12 04:55 PM
1	Regarding Self-Improvement and Some Obstacles I'm Having I don't feel much shame about my past anymore because life is all about learning. Instead I empathize with myself. What I did in the past was based on the information I had at the time. I can't act on information I don't have and I have to make mistakes in order to obtain such information. I'm actually sort of proud of the person I was in the past, even though that is not the person I wanted to be. That person got me to the person I am today.	/r/seduction	13/01/12 09:44 PM
2	How do I make it a date/next move? Ask her out. If you like her, I wouldn't worry about the friend thing. Go after what you want.	/r/seduction	13/01/12 07:10 PM
3	Not talking clearly hurts my game/alphaness Start reading out loud everything you do when by yourself. Articles, books, comments, etc. Practice using your voice the way you want to.	/r/seduction	13/01/12 02:45 AM
2	I Think You're Fat Interesting article. To me it really just boils down to being assertive. I think combining honesty, pursuing your desires, and having empathy for others creates real genuine communication.	/r/seduction	28/12/11 06:41 PM
2	Do it all, and win. Great post, I agree with the majority of it. These types of posts are what make this community interesting to me. Self-control is so god damn important. It saves you from those moments of want, want, want that can send you crashing to the ground. I approach this differently. I empathize with myself and my desires. If I don't want to do the dishes one day, I don't do them for whatever reason I may be feeling. Why? Because I'm a man and I do whatever the FUCK I want to do. If I notice a trend of n…	/r/seduction	14/12/11 08:53 PM
13	An Authentic Man. Great ideas. This is the type of stuff that I like to see here. Self-respect and pursuing your goals and desires without apology is all it takes. Everything else will come from that.	/r/seduction	14/12/11 05:51 AM